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I only look for one thing in a woman: Pussy ! I want pussy ! For free ! (Odb) Yeah, I want pussy ! Hard sex, wild sex ! I am a wanker ! Yeah that's right ! I'm a wanker !
Looks 1:26 Confidence 2:46 Smarts 3:44 Knows what she want 4:48 Someone who has dreams and goal for herself 6:00 Someone who can take care of herself 7:30 Knows how to communicate 8:11 Someone who admires him 9:00 Someone to have great sex with 10:05 Someone who will make a great parent 10:50 A positive attitude with the right amount of realism 12:50 Good taste 13:20 Reliable honest and emotionally stable 14:30 Someone who can take pride in 15:20 Someone who genuinely loves him 16:05 Look for BONUS too yourself
if a man compliments you as beautiful he is talking about your face . If he says you are hot he is talking about your body. If he says you are cute then most probably your personality or actions. and finally if he says you are gorgeous then he is talking of you as whole or in other words you have totally nailed the outfit of the occasion. These are inferences and not a rule or something ,don't get confused.
Power Couple!!!! This month my lover and I are celebrating our 19th year anniversary. The secret to our success has been kindness and personal growth. No mater how bad things got, and they got bad. We were always kind to each other. Our ability to grow together ensured that we didn't grow apart. Today I judge women on there kindness, wisdom, and generosity. For these are the qualities I value. Thank you for your service.
A woman who wants to always grow, and grow with you. A woman who has motherly nurturing qualities A woman who enjoys the finer things but isn't materialistic
Every one I no tell me that I have those qualities about me it's in my heat to love care and try to understand others it's patience it only takes to understand others
Wawoooo, this is very key bro. İ queue behind you. Guess what, am a Ugandan student but abroad in a Turkish University. This point has restricted me from commitments no matter how beautiful these female genders are. İ Credit this view.
Power couple. Thank you for making this video and adding that last part. God, it’s refreshing to see a company not follow the crazy ideas of what’s going on these days. Women be women, your femininity is not a weakness and is not a weapon. Femininity is a strength that empowers the yourself and others. It’s a trait that is to be valued and adored. Men be men, your masculinity is not a weapon-it’s a treasured strength that empowers yourself and others. A lot of women adore and desire masculinity in their men. Both traits can be toxic to an extent but let’s avoid trying to get rid these traits all together and let’s just embrace the strength our natural traits allow us to have as a person.
When my nephew was younger he would get upset when I would tell him to "man up" or some variation on that phrase. One day he got really angry at me for saying it; I asked him "What do you think I mean when I tell you to be manly? Better yet, what's your definition of being manly?" He gave me a string of words like 'strong', 'tough', and 'macho'. I realized that we have very different conception of what being "manly" was. I told him manliness is the ability to use your skills and talents to acquire the things you need in life, while having the discipline to deny yourself of things you want for something greater. The more skills and talents you have the easier it is to get what you need in life. "So, when I tell you to man up and do your homework I'm telling you to hone skill of learning. You may never use some math equations again in your adult life but the logic required to solve those problems you will use every day." Latter that night his Judo instructor said my nephew was the most focused and disciplined he had ever seen. I would like to hear what ALUX has to offer on the subject of "manliness", perhaps it can be part of the "15 things women look for in a man" so we can all learn to be better power couples.
Total BS. No man wants a disobedient woman. Or, only foolish men will put up with a disobedient woman. Being confident doesn't mean you shouldn't be obedient. There's no sense being in a relationship where you are not in agreement. Or, where one's goals do not align with their partner.
Powercouple. That's a great video Alux, you have gone over almost all things I have in my list of a perfect woman for me. I will add "a woman who is active physically" not necessarily an exercise freak, but somebody who takes cares of her body.
Compatibility is also important. A couple that is on the same page in every area of their lives well go to great lengths and will achieve greatness POWER COUPLE
POWER COUPLE! The point I liked most is the last one: it's so good, for both men and women, to feel that complement that they just can't have alone. A healthy diversity that makes people fuller
2:20 yeah you shouldn’t overdo it w the makeup but in nature bright colors like red also mean sexual maturity and health so if you put it in the right places it can be attractive and doesn’t just mean danger
@@willmallory9085 And Steve Harvey still sounds like a clown. His advice to men isn't good advice. It caters to his day time TV audience: WOMEN. He says what women want to hear and disguises it as advice for young men. I remember him specifically telling a man who works all day that he should be proud to come home and cook for his wife because she can't cook and he can. If he told the woman to learn how to cook like he should have, he would have lost views. As I said, Steve Harvey is a clown. In the words of a real man, Joe Rogan, "Don't trust a male feminist". Steve Harvey is a male feminist.
@@michaelellis772 you clearly don't know of his youth mentoring program. While you're hating on him, what good are YOU doing for society? Obviously nothing! Stop hating on him and get busy!
ALUX this has been One of the BEST help measures i have heard besides the Bible. Balance in life is bith Physical & Spritual as well as both parties agreeing to such, but the wau you packaged is more cake with the frosting. I let my now former wife come back into my life mistake, shes in the wind again and goid riddence. Now i can forget the Narcissant and find a Women. Thank you .New Power Couple soon.
I think the most important thing to all this Alux is... A woman who understands that she can't be all this but tries and learns to be most if not all of these.... That's maturity
Power Couple! I loved this whole list and could defiantly relate. I think 16 was most important. I tell my friends, my sister, and even my mom all the time... Make your man, feel like a woman. That doesn’t make you any less of a woman, in fact it makes you a better one. Thanks ALUX. You are truly making ALL the difference!
I'm totally going to have one of those power couple type of king and queen type of relationships. I will wait patiently for the perfect time for it to happen
Alux! You nailed it! I'm certain that I don't summit comments as much as you'd like but, this is one video I sincerely hope all of your female listeners truly digest. No time or patience to settle.....it's worth the wait (and work) to embrace and enjoy the benefits of being a power-couple. Many Thanks!
my priorities using items from this (great) video: Reliable, honest and emotionally stable 14:30 - no "Hot Mess" types, lairs, disrespectful bitches (of you, your friends, her and your families, coworkers, waitresses...) - no matter of how good she looks , how confident, or smart she is Someone to have great sex with 10:05 - she will be your partner for life - so better be the greatest one you've ever have (does not show immediately, but quality partners grow and improve with time when sex is important to both of them) Someone who will make a great parent 10:50 - bad examples for kids, careless of personal hygiene, not taking care of her living space, car... no way. Ask yourself; would you like your kids to be like that one day? (as they will be!
Great video! Power couple! Adding to: #2 & #8: Be the "wife" not the "knife". You're my teammate, not my competition and definitely not my mother! #6 & #16: be independent to a point. Yes, have knowledge of balancing the check and put air in the tire, but allow men to get the door for you. Know when to shut off independence. If a man doesn't feel needed, he'll disappear! #8 & #15: want "me" not what you can get "from me" Character is what counts as looks inevitably change with age, but character gets better with time. #7: talk "to me" not "at me". Get my attention before you shoot random words. We don't communicate like women. Discretion is a must! Knowing WHAT to say, WHEN to say it, and most importantly WHERE to say it. I hate seeing adults argue in public. Finally, don't speak with emotions. Men don't understand how to decipher the message. We are not your female friends. #9: your genitals are not a museum (for looking only) they are made to be used. A sexless marriage is a divorce lawyers best profit maker. Doesn't matter if you "feel like it" you didn't "feel like " going to work did you? (Rhetorical) #10 instead of that book, read the most plagiarized book of all time: The Holy Bible! #11 & 13 if you are full of drama, and you can't stand for things to be peaceful, WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO BE WITH YOU? You'll run off every male including your son when he's old enough. Ask yourself, "What complimentary value do I add beyond sex?" You should have something to say after the orgasms. Not listed: Just because momma had a bad attitude doesn't mean you have to treat your spouse like crap! Don't take the frustrations of your ex out on the new guy. He is not the bad guy...remember? Hopefully these will save you some divorce court money. Be blessed y'all.
#powercouple A self-sufficient, intentional woman who selflessly loves you and chooses to be both an inspiration and loyal supporter is irreplaceable and defiantly someone to be proud of. She's wonderfully made.
Thank you for the compliment. We are rare single and isolated at times to better our tribe… finding like minded women who elevate each other. Our service in society is huge… Finding equal yolk can be daunting ❤☺️✝️
Thanks for another interesting video. I would add No. 17. Someone who has at least 1 or 2 things in common with you that they like to do and have fun with. Of course, no woman in the world is going to have all these amazing qualities on this list but if a man can find a woman with a few of these traits which are the highest priority for him, it’s a job well done.
At first I didn't like the title but the content was really good. Actually the title should be" what do good men look for in a woman " Please make a video about what women look for in men.
loyalty, understanding, care about him, sincerity, perseverance, honesty, not a hypocrite, respect him, appriciate him, support him never betray him especially in the hardest moment of life, love him genuinely not for benefit, not a gold digger, not a narcissist
You know when you're alone and think about your life, that there are some things you need to work on. That's what our videos are supposed to do. Initiate that thought.
congrats Alux. content just keeps getting better and better. Well besides all you just said I like a woman that is Strong,independent but can still look fragile and girly when needed.
I'm a woman and I'm looking for those traits in men XD I know that no one is so well rounded that they can have every trait from this video. I'm also acutely aware that I'm not there yet myself. But the willingness to work on yourself should be there, like two world renown painters coming together to create one masterpiece. To make that happen, both need to work on themselves to have all the tools and techniques needed for that moment in their lives when they meet up. #powercouple
This is so true. There is hardly anyone I can relate to here in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I always feel that so many of these women just want to be cool and don't like to read and learn. I get so frustrated. I want someone who I can be able to talk to and be able not to always agree and disagree with me and be able to invest with me. I love natural looking women.
Thank you Alux.com. This is great video. I can add: Someone who at least possesses one kind of skill, someone who can cook well and someone who appreciate my love.
@Retro Red..... oh SSSuuure. Some one like Trump?!? How heart-fulfilling....! Kindly don’t lump ALL women in the same category of greedy ones-it only perpetuities feeble thinking of BOTH sexes. And for the record- as sad, some women are chased for only their money as well. Thank you Alux for trying to raise the good-vibe for all. #PowerCouple 💯
Very much philosophy and science of living happy married life. Will soon comment more philosophically. Best video may share with my maturity adults of my university class. A best lesson. I am loving and forwarding it to my friend . Firstly I have shared it with my wife then two boss also my best friend. Thanks for making video.
I agree with everything that has been listed in the above video. A man is lucky if his wife is a woman with all the characteristics mentioned in the video.
Thank you Alux for the Sundays Motivational Videos. They are such inspiration and content the eachh of them made me realize Why I'm different for the rest of the gruop.
No. 17: Someone who has a secure attachment style -Someone who can trust you in ur absence(not someone who will get all worked up when ur out with ur boys and start stocking u) No. 18: Someone with minimal baggage -Someone who doesn't have more than two kids especially with different men. -Someone who's not in debts or blacklisted.
Avoid big money mistakes: Never co-sign on a loan, invest in a good education, never lend money to friends or family, education before relationships & marriage, buy a Roth IRA every year, live below your means, get a library card and use it, be careful who you bring into your life, take good care of your teeth by brushing and flossing daily, avoid drugs and those who use them, have less kids, max out 401 K if your job has it, learn about investing & wealth from your library, save some money for life's emergencies, exercise and eat healthy for good health, listen to positive audio books from the library, research passive income & multiple streams of income, read more & watch less tv, be open to new ideas, always be striving for self improvement, google frugal living, pay bills on time to avoid late fees, work to improve your credit score.
Signing in from Kenya to the world We feel you Alux When it's impossible for a lady to tick all those boxes.... Find one who'll tick atleast 80%-90% of them Great video will share
What if she's emotionally unstable, but ticks all the other boxes? Or, what if she's not interested in sex but ticks all the other boxes? Men are expected to tick all their boxes. If you are a quality man, you deserve a quality woman, one who ticks all the boxes.
@@uncleruckus9241 that's really true brother noone wants anything to do with UN unstable woman... But she just can't be unstable and tick the other boxes... Or doesn't like sex and ticks the other boxes... It's just one of those things that can't go together.... But on that note... I think it's dividable into hierarchy on what she must have like must and what is forgivable
Power Couple. Great video. I'm currently single right now as well as living with my father and stepmother, but I'm seeking a girlfriend, my very first girlfriend, to be exact, though I haven't gained one as of yet. I'm going to continue trying and persist in my pursuit of the ideal girlfriend and possibly ideal wife, if I ever decide to get married at some point in my life.
john washington you’ll find life easier and more care free when you don’t look for love but let love find you. In you going about your day to day life and being successful, you will find her. Don’t necessarily look for her, just trust on that one.
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No, I'm single by choice at this time. I am still finding myself as it is, so I think it's best to give myself time to do so.
HELLO
I only look for one thing in a woman:
Pussy !
I want pussy ! For free !
(Odb)
Yeah, I want pussy !
Hard sex, wild sex !
I am a wanker !
Yeah that's right !
I'm a wanker !
Make a video on the other side of coin.
Power couple
Good taste!
Looks 1:26
Confidence 2:46
Smarts 3:44
Knows what she want 4:48
Someone who has dreams and goal for herself 6:00
Someone who can take care of herself 7:30
Knows how to communicate 8:11
Someone who admires him 9:00
Someone to have great sex with 10:05
Someone who will make a great parent 10:50
A positive attitude with the right amount of realism 12:50
Good taste 13:20
Reliable honest and emotionally stable 14:30
Someone who can take pride in 15:20
Someone who genuinely loves him 16:05
Look for BONUS too yourself
Cooking not on the list? Smh. Not even “Knows how to stfu..."??
Thanks for the list, it's very useful!
Thank you.....😄
I'm all of these things and still single so apparently this video isn't telling why men aren't taking action when they find the woman.
@@shereencollington7954 nowadays men are like women and women are like men😂😁😂😂
" WE'RE SEEING A RISE IN STUPIDITY IN THE WEST' - The most honest line i have ever heard
Not only in the West unfortunately...
@@trezeguet48 yeah we too in the south are fuket.
Jealous much?
My wife is EVERYTHING in this video! I'm extremely lucky to have found her.😎
#powercouple
William Rick Graham salute
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@@everythingbyjohn appreciate it. Hope you find something interesting on my channel.
Yes you are! Cherish her!
if a man compliments you as beautiful he is talking about your face . If he says you are hot he is talking about your body. If he says you are cute then most probably your personality or actions. and finally if he says you are gorgeous then he is talking of you as whole or in other words you have totally nailed the outfit of the occasion. These are inferences and not a rule or something ,don't get confused.
Exactly..
Thank you ☺️❤
For me, what is the most important is "Someone who takes care about what is fragile" : hearts, kids, wounds and sorrows.
Power Couple!!!! This month my lover and I are celebrating our 19th year anniversary. The secret to our success has been kindness and personal growth. No mater how bad things got, and they got bad. We were always kind to each other. Our ability to grow together ensured that we didn't grow apart. Today I judge women on there kindness, wisdom, and generosity. For these are the qualities I value. Thank you for your service.
Honestly, all that matters to me is confidence, smartness, and being clear at communicating. Everything else comes second.
Lol like loyalty, vulnerability, humor ?
What is she was the ugliest women in the world?
@@pyroplusvulnerability is Bad
@@anotherguycalled6253 got an aneurysm trying to figure out what you said
@@avkrm im mexican so sorry 4 bad English
A woman who wants to always grow, and grow with you.
A woman who has motherly nurturing qualities
A woman who enjoys the finer things but isn't materialistic
Every one I no tell me that I have those qualities about me it's in my heat to love care and try to understand others it's patience it only takes to understand others
Still looking for the person who has the same mindset as mine. Thanks Alux as always. From Africa (Mozambique) to the world.
Wawoooo, this is very key bro. İ queue behind you. Guess what, am a Ugandan student but abroad in a Turkish University. This point has restricted me from commitments no matter how beautiful these female genders are. İ Credit this view.
Exactly, i don't think they exist tho.
@@mayombweremigius4203 share your email bro, we can share impressions.
@@mayombweremigius4203 am also from Uganda bro...this is the best TH-cam channel ever..👏❤
@@isaac7769 We agree with you Isaac
Power couple. Thank you for making this video and adding that last part. God, it’s refreshing to see a company not follow the crazy ideas of what’s going on these days. Women be women, your femininity is not a weakness and is not a weapon. Femininity is a strength that empowers the yourself and others. It’s a trait that is to be valued and adored.
Men be men, your masculinity is not a weapon-it’s a treasured strength that empowers yourself and others. A lot of women adore and desire masculinity in their men. Both traits can be toxic to an extent but let’s avoid trying to get rid these traits all together and let’s just embrace the strength our natural traits allow us to have as a person.
Well said!
I look for a woman who can allow me to be a man and be the best version of me #powecouple
Wilbert Martin I look for a woman is confident and obedient and inspires me to be the greatest version of myself also
When you guys find a woman like that, let me know
Be the best version of yourself first everything will follow
@@podthetrue Lmao!
@@jfyne03 😂😂😂😂 i will be shocked
I actually read 12 rules for life, really recommended!
Nice :D
Great video.
One thing i believe which should have been stressed a little more is 'loyalty' and 'faithfulness' ... These are paramount for men.
That goes under the category reliable and honest
More emphasis on that point, perhaps ..
Absolutely true , trust is a very important aspect of relationship.
But those are just natural traits of females I'm sure it would have been on the list if it was about what women should look for in a man.
When my nephew was younger he would get upset when I would tell him to "man up" or some variation on that phrase. One day he got really angry at me for saying it; I asked him "What do you think I mean when I tell you to be manly? Better yet, what's your definition of being manly?" He gave me a string of words like 'strong', 'tough', and 'macho'. I realized that we have very different conception of what being "manly" was. I told him manliness is the ability to use your skills and talents to acquire the things you need in life, while having the discipline to deny yourself of things you want for something greater. The more skills and talents you have the easier it is to get what you need in life. "So, when I tell you to man up and do your homework I'm telling you to hone skill of learning. You may never use some math equations again in your adult life but the logic required to solve those problems you will use every day." Latter that night his Judo instructor said my nephew was the most focused and disciplined he had ever seen. I would like to hear what ALUX has to offer on the subject of "manliness", perhaps it can be part of the "15 things women look for in a man" so we can all learn to be better power couples.
POWER COUPLE!
Men like myself also look for women who are hospitable and caring.
Nice video Alux! Much clarity obtained. To deserve a woman like that, I'd hold myself accountable for the same standards
That's the only way to do it Peter :)
Power couple! Great video! When you said “Only weak men go after obedient women”, that really opened my eyes! You guys are awesome! 🙌
As a man I can only agree with that quote
We tell it like it is Cristina
"Only weak men go after obedient women." That's why I want a yandere. I'd rather be with someone who's a bit....dominating.
Power couple
Total BS. No man wants a disobedient woman. Or, only foolish men will put up with a disobedient woman. Being confident doesn't mean you shouldn't be obedient. There's no sense being in a relationship where you are not in agreement. Or, where one's goals do not align with their partner.
This channel is too incredible it has such depth and perspective... btw you should do ‘things women look for in a man’ 😇
You are so right
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I always love and welcome a women who is free and let other person to be free 😍
#powercouple
Dont look only on the woman. Also her family, it reflects alot about her personality and how she will raise your children.
So true! I mentioned that in my comments too. Check out my list of additional content.
I agree.
I will do and have been doing the opposite my family ever did ❤️
Not really, the mistakes or successes of her parents should not determine about her or even the guy.
Powercouple. That's a great video Alux, you have gone over almost all things I have in my list of a perfect woman for me. I will add "a woman who is active physically" not necessarily an exercise freak, but somebody who takes cares of her body.
Compatibility is also important. A couple that is on the same page in every area of their lives well go to great lengths and will achieve greatness
POWER COUPLE
POWER COUPLE!
The point I liked most is the last one: it's so good, for both men and women, to feel that complement that they just can't have alone. A healthy diversity that makes people fuller
2:20 yeah you shouldn’t overdo it w the makeup but in nature bright colors like red also mean sexual maturity and health so if you put it in the right places it can be attractive and doesn’t just mean danger
Power couple!! Thanks alux. This is why I love this community ❤️😍
You're awesome Niko
#16 🙌🏾
Only if the dude plays the role of being a real man!
This is true. Require it and these young men will pay attention and learn it! Steve Harvey said, "Chivalry isn't dead, it's not required!"
@@willmallory9085 Steve Harvey is a clown
@@michaelellis772 you sound like a hater to me!
@@willmallory9085 And Steve Harvey still sounds like a clown. His advice to men isn't good advice. It caters to his day time TV audience: WOMEN. He says what women want to hear and disguises it as advice for young men. I remember him specifically telling a man who works all day that he should be proud to come home and cook for his wife because she can't cook and he can. If he told the woman to learn how to cook like he should have, he would have lost views. As I said, Steve Harvey is a clown. In the words of a real man, Joe Rogan, "Don't trust a male feminist". Steve Harvey is a male feminist.
@@michaelellis772 you clearly don't know of his youth mentoring program. While you're hating on him, what good are YOU doing for society? Obviously nothing! Stop hating on him and get busy!
15 steps to master the art of conversation
For a Woman . Thanks bro 👍 nice
This is a lost art in people! A lot of times I wish we had NO Cell Phones!
@@nikosantiago8641 I'm talking about as a video itself. For men and women.
Uhhhh... this would be a nice one!
ALUX this has been One of the BEST help measures i have heard besides the Bible. Balance in life is bith Physical & Spritual as well as both parties agreeing to such, but the wau you packaged is more cake with the frosting. I let my now former wife come back into my life mistake, shes in the wind again and goid riddence. Now i can forget the Narcissant and find a Women. Thank you .New Power Couple soon.
I think the most important thing to all this Alux is... A woman who understands that she can't be all this but tries and learns to be most if not all of these.... That's maturity
You'll never find the perfect woman... but someone can try to grow alongside you and become perfect for you
And don't be an unreasonably jealous, possessive and controlling to your man
Yep, be the teammate not my mother. Read the comments I wrote. I have a lists.
A Women is never jealous, possessive or controlling with a man who makes her feel protected, respected, safe and loved.
What I'm looking for: Attractive, smart, fun and reliable.
Car or a girl
The more she laughs the less she looks at your face 😂😂 good one Alux !
power couple. Alux rocks.... Keep the video's coming.
Power Couple!
I loved this whole list and could defiantly relate. I think 16 was most important. I tell my friends, my sister, and even my mom all the time... Make your man, feel like a woman. That doesn’t make you any less of a woman, in fact it makes you a better one. Thanks ALUX. You are truly making ALL the difference!
Oops, when I get excited, I make typos lol
I’d rather be in a relationship with my money🤗
(Thats why I’m financially stable now)
Even the richest confess that family is more important than money
Come on,you don't mean it.
You are financially stable are you emotionally? :-)
Shayla Bandz same here girl!
Hussein masri
I said A RELATIONSHIP, i didnt say anything about FAMILY! Thank u very much😉
I'm totally going to have one of those power couple type of king and queen type of relationships. I will wait patiently for the perfect time for it to happen
Alux! You nailed it! I'm certain that I don't summit comments as much as you'd like but, this is one video I sincerely hope all of your female listeners truly digest. No time or patience to settle.....it's worth the wait (and work) to embrace and enjoy the benefits of being a power-couple. Many Thanks!
Definitely Will! Thanks for being an Aluxers and joining the conversation :)
my priorities using items from this (great) video:
Reliable, honest and emotionally stable 14:30
- no "Hot Mess" types, lairs, disrespectful bitches (of you, your friends, her and your families, coworkers, waitresses...) - no matter of how good she looks , how confident, or smart she is
Someone to have great sex with 10:05
- she will be your partner for life - so better be the greatest one you've ever have (does not show immediately, but quality partners grow and improve with time when sex is important to both of them)
Someone who will make a great parent 10:50
- bad examples for kids, careless of personal hygiene, not taking care of her living space, car... no way. Ask yourself; would you like your kids to be like that one day? (as they will be!
Your comment screams pain or past traumas…😢 hurt ppl hurt ppl.
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7:30. this is the most important one- "She must not be a liability for the man"..!
One of the most important ones for sure
So true, I mentioned that in my comments also. Check out my list of additional content.
T GR8-1 well if you decide to marry her then she will become a liability for you.
@@massielpimentel6134 well said..! But not all married women agree to this.. Still, truth is bitter.. Swallowing is even harder.. They can't take it!
T GR8-1 a woman will always be a liability for a man.
Trust and genine admiration. Having balance, purpose,and commitment. That's key!
I think you listed them all perfectly with the best elaborating I’ve ever heard.
PowerCouple
Thank you. This was an interesting topic and we wanted to do it right!
LMAO at "looking like a Neopolitan Ice Cream".
Great video! Power couple!
Adding to:
#2 & #8: Be the "wife" not the "knife". You're my teammate, not my competition and definitely not my mother!
#6 & #16: be independent to a point. Yes, have knowledge of balancing the check and put air in the tire, but allow men to get the door for you. Know when to shut off independence. If a man doesn't feel needed, he'll disappear!
#8 & #15: want "me" not what you can get "from me" Character is what counts as looks inevitably change with age, but character gets better with time.
#7: talk "to me" not "at me". Get my attention before you shoot random words. We don't communicate like women. Discretion is a must! Knowing WHAT to say, WHEN to say it, and most importantly WHERE to say it. I hate seeing adults argue in public.
Finally, don't speak with emotions. Men don't understand how to decipher the message. We are not your female friends.
#9: your genitals are not a museum (for looking only) they are made to be used. A sexless marriage is a divorce lawyers best profit maker. Doesn't matter if you "feel like it" you didn't "feel like " going to work did you? (Rhetorical)
#10 instead of that book, read the most plagiarized book of all time: The Holy Bible!
#11 & 13 if you are full of drama, and you can't stand for things to be peaceful, WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO BE WITH YOU? You'll run off every male including your son when he's old enough. Ask yourself, "What complimentary value do I add beyond sex?" You should have something to say after the orgasms.
Not listed: Just because momma had a bad attitude doesn't mean you have to treat your spouse like crap!
Don't take the frustrations of your ex out on the new guy. He is not the bad guy...remember?
Hopefully these will save you some divorce court money. Be blessed y'all.
#powercouple
A self-sufficient, intentional woman who selflessly loves you and chooses to be both an inspiration and loyal supporter is irreplaceable and defiantly someone to be proud of. She's wonderfully made.
Thank you for the compliment. We are rare single and isolated at times to better our tribe… finding like minded women who elevate each other.
Our service in society is huge…
Finding equal yolk can be daunting
❤☺️✝️
Thanks for another interesting video. I would add No. 17. Someone who has at least 1 or 2 things in common with you that they like to do and have fun with. Of course, no woman in the world is going to have all these amazing qualities on this list but if a man can find a woman with a few of these traits which are the highest priority for him, it’s a job well done.
At first I didn't like the title but the content was really good.
Actually the title should be" what do good men look for in a woman "
Please make a video about what women look for in men.
Ok
Kk
Power couple...... I will have to share this with all my female friends because this is 99% correct for all relationships
I think another thing men look for in a woman is a good personality. Power Couple
Treat each other the same, as you want to be treated.
loyalty, understanding, care about him, sincerity, perseverance, honesty, not a hypocrite, respect him, appriciate him, support him never betray him especially in the hardest moment of life, love him genuinely not for benefit, not a gold digger, not a narcissist
Before all these,
We look for Loyalty.
Thank you!
This is the point where EVERY WOMAN thinks she has ALL these qualities 😂🚫😂🚫😂🚫😂
MavriikTM SMDH lol
THINKS for sure.
or they all say they are not like every other woman.
You joking
You know when you're alone and think about your life, that there are some things you need to work on. That's what our videos are supposed to do. Initiate that thought.
congrats Alux. content just keeps getting better and better. Well besides all you just said I like a woman that is Strong,independent but can still look fragile and girly when needed.
Humility and EQ is my cup of tea!
A woman who adheres to her integrity no matter what!
There's a girl at work I really love. I hope I can impress her, and start something! She falls into most of these catagories.
Hope it's going well
I'm a woman and I'm looking for those traits in men XD I know that no one is so well rounded that they can have every trait from this video. I'm also acutely aware that I'm not there yet myself. But the willingness to work on yourself should be there, like two world renown painters coming together to create one masterpiece. To make that happen, both need to work on themselves to have all the tools and techniques needed for that moment in their lives when they meet up. #powercouple
I like how alux is no longer politically correct
Have we ever been politically correct?
Alux.com yes 😂
@@littlereuby Say something critical about the Jews and your career is over.
This is so true. There is hardly anyone I can relate to here in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I always feel that so many of these women just want to be cool and don't like to read and learn. I get so frustrated. I want someone who I can be able to talk to and be able not to always agree and disagree with me and be able to invest with me. I love natural looking women.
Power couple. Nice video. I'm still praying for that good man.
Im a man that loves a women that can be loyal n respect me...respect/loyalty goes a long way
Great video still watching👌❤️😍
Thank you Katarina!
@@alux does alux is also single...................................m.m.........
Katarina You are Gorgeous
@@amogh5427 Thank you 😊😍
Aspirant, respect herself, similar mindset and views in life. Basically an Aluxer
Damn... She's spot on.
Thank you Alux.com. This is great video.
I can add: Someone who at least possesses one kind of skill, someone who can cook well and someone who appreciate my love.
POWER COUPLE, one other thing, Be Business partners.
amazing someone I just met 4 months ago is a close friend now and fits all the points raised here. :)
I can't stress this enough but THANK YOU ❤️
You're welcome!
Power couple!! Love this community and grateful to have stumbled upon all of these golden nuggets!
Hey also made video on this topic
Thing women look for men
It’s coming next week
We're doing it next week
1. Money
2. Money
3. More Money
4. Little bit more Money
5. And of course, Money.
@Retro Red..... oh SSSuuure. Some one like Trump?!? How heart-fulfilling....! Kindly don’t lump ALL women in the same category of greedy ones-it only perpetuities feeble thinking of BOTH sexes. And for the record- as sad, some women are chased for only their money as well. Thank you Alux for trying to raise the good-vibe for all. #PowerCouple 💯
Money
I've been in aluxer for the better part of a year now. I rarely comment. So you can see that women really get my blood flowing.
Where is 15 uncomfortable ideas to think about part 2. That video was really dope.
Here it is: th-cam.com/video/8rbeoTYia4E/w-d-xo.html
These women here in Colorado need to hear this everyday.
Very much philosophy and science of living happy married life. Will soon comment more philosophically. Best video may share with my maturity adults of my university class. A best lesson. I am loving and forwarding it to my friend . Firstly I have shared it with my wife then two boss also my best friend. Thanks for making video.
I agree with everything that has been listed in the above video. A man is lucky if his wife is a woman with all the characteristics mentioned in the video.
Thank you Alux for the Sundays Motivational Videos.
They are such inspiration and content the eachh of them made me realize
Why I'm different for the rest of the gruop.
We try to give our perspective to each topic, because we found that our community looks at world differently than the rest
As a man, I would say I completely agree with this video.
1. So friends, don't raise your expectations such a woman doesn't exist.😄
2. I look for Dominance, audacity, boldness in short she must have balls.😎
Wrong...They do...
Point 15 is absolutely important in a partner.
Great alux you have come to the right track
No. 17: Someone who has a secure attachment style
-Someone who can trust you in ur absence(not someone who will get all worked up when ur out with ur boys and start stocking u)
No. 18: Someone with minimal baggage
-Someone who doesn't have more than two kids especially with different men.
-Someone who's not in debts or blacklisted.
Power Couple.
*3 MAIN things men look for in women*
- Youth
- Beauty
- Fertility
And what do they offer in return?
This is the only video that hit the nail on the head. Can't wait for next Sunday.
Good content, curious to learn what women look for.
#powercouple 💪
All the points are true and good. One additional point of what man need from woman is RESPECT for me this number one.
Power couple! Reliable ,honest and emotionally stable'
That she means wat she says and respects me .that's all.
So many choices. So many candies. They are all good. I want them all. Really wish i could marry all of them.
Avoid big money mistakes:
Never co-sign on a loan, invest in a good education, never lend money to friends or family, education before relationships & marriage, buy a Roth IRA every year, live below your means, get a library card and use it, be careful who you bring into your life, take good care of your teeth by brushing and flossing daily, avoid drugs and those who use them, have less kids, max out 401 K if your job has it, learn about investing & wealth from your library, save some money for life's emergencies, exercise and eat healthy for good health, listen to positive audio books from the library, research passive income & multiple streams of income, read more & watch less tv, be open to new ideas, always be striving for self improvement, google frugal living, pay bills on time to avoid late fees, work to improve your credit score.
That about sums it up my friend...unfortunately hmm doesn't seem like most folks can do it!
@Emily oh my wife always says words like that...mine, I'll give you some, etc.
@Emily U see my money is her money and her money is her money...
@deep dive for some oh yeah it is!
A woman who is cleanly and organized!!!
I really love 💗 a woman 👩 who is an encourager, positive and at the same time realistic!!!:-)🇵🇭🇺🇸🇨🇦🌎 POWER COUPLE!!!:-)🇵🇭🇺🇸🇨🇦🌎
Thank you again Alux! And as usual went to listen til the end. Thank you for the book you recommended by Jordan Peterson. More blessings unto you😘
they like me not until they discover I'm a singlemom. So rather just love myself and never expect from men
For me....the ultimate things I look for in a woman is how nice and patient she is. If she has those two things down packed, that’s a keeper for me!
i prefer other videos of yours but it's ok to have this content esporadically
They has just described my girl in every single way
Signing in from Kenya to the world
We feel you Alux
When it's impossible for a lady to tick all those boxes.... Find one who'll tick atleast 80%-90% of them
Great video will share
What if she's emotionally unstable, but ticks all the other boxes?
Or, what if she's not interested in sex but ticks all the other boxes?
Men are expected to tick all their boxes. If you are a quality man, you deserve a quality woman, one who ticks all the boxes.
@@uncleruckus9241 that's really true brother noone wants anything to do with UN unstable woman... But she just can't be unstable and tick the other boxes... Or doesn't like sex and ticks the other boxes... It's just one of those things that can't go together.... But on that note... I think it's dividable into hierarchy on what she must have like must and what is forgivable
@@meshcreations8125 Really? Which one of the 15 traits are you willing to compromise on?
Thanks for sharing meshack
Power Couple. Great video. I'm currently single right now as well as living with my father and stepmother, but I'm seeking a girlfriend, my very first girlfriend, to be exact, though I haven't gained one as of yet. I'm going to continue trying and persist in my pursuit of the ideal girlfriend and possibly ideal wife, if I ever decide to get married at some point in my life.
john washington you’ll find life easier and more care free when you don’t look for love but let love find you. In you going about your day to day life and being successful, you will find her. Don’t necessarily look for her, just trust on that one.
I just want a woman who embraces her femininity. Who is not afraid of being a classy lady. Basically I don't want a feminist.
What is femininity? What is a feminist?
Father Leo you can be a feminist and be classy and be Feminine.
No, Mesiel Pimentel, a feminist can’t be all that while she’s still busy being sad.
Chinonso Muogbo it’s Massiel and what do u mean busy being sad?
Doesn’t it mean Massiel Pimentel. Aren’t they interchangeable?
Both of them should be best friends before becoming life partners