May Allah swt protect our marriages from Shaytan and evil. Make dua that Allah makes it easier on people. To keep good intentions and maintain worship. It's not easy to maintain happiness in a marriage. Make Allah swt your number one and Inn'Shaa'Allah your love will increase
Masha'Allah I'm proud of my husband he showed me Love and Mercy and when I'm angry he just keep his silence and if he's hurt too much he wud leave the house and comes back with Food and smile .. he is a man of Sabr and Gratittude, he respect his Mother his wife and his family and I love him even more bcuz of that. he is very generous and kind hearted Alhamdulillah for giving me A man like HIM!!!! A beautiful gift from ALLAH S.W.T 💖💖💖
It hurts the husband? It also hurts the wife when she gets no love, attention, romance or affection from her husband. Always the woman who gets blamed. Some women don't want to be nice to their husband because he doesn't deserve it and he doesn't earn their respect or love. And that's the truth. It's a 2 way Street. Mens primary needs are physical and woman's primary needs are emotional. Both are to be fulfilled equally
emm b that's why both husband and wife have to give each other unconditional love and unconditional respect. Imagine if she does not respect him because he does not love her. And the reason why he feels disrespect is because the wife thinks she is unloved. You see the circle here? So to break the circle is one of them have to give unconditional love and/or respect to one another. At least that's what I learned
I think arranged marriage is best especially if the guy is well brought up and from a good family. All my proposals have been from guys who are mature, intelligent and well settled. I think guys my own age act like clowns. And after my marriage proposals, I feel like anything outside of arranged marriage is a downgrade. I've chosen arranged marriage from amongst my proposals. It's definitely a two way street. I think it's important that the guy is older and mature. I think young guys are very immature and don't know the responsibility required of a husband
emm b I think women need to be more open about their concerns. And not pay attention to guys who can't give them what they want unless its to tell them to buzz off
Can a woman be satisfy with a spouse and who does not provide basic needs for her and her children and makes her feel it's her responsibility because she has a more stable income.
@@kiddiesthreshold6143 no this would not be a stable marriage. In Islam the husband is required to provide the basic needs to the wife and children not the other way around. Wife can work too of course but as long as the husband is providing the basic essentials like house, food, clothes, etc.
My parents never hid that they first weren't in love when they married. As a child I would find this sad. But now I realized that real love isn't necessarly that thing that pushes us to marry, it can be the bonding formed with time and a healthy relationship. MashaAllah my two parents make a great couple and now they are indeed in love so much so that they can't spend 3 hours without their other half.
Guys respect the people whom u are married to,,breaking each others hearts,, that's not very nice,, follow the step of Muhammad saw) he had many wives ,,he never hurted his wives ,, he was kind ,,gentle and loving husband to his wives,,great Human in this earth,, when things go wrong in marriage ,,call out to Allah ,,open the Qur'an ,,read it,, ur problem will be solved,, insha'Allah,,never lose hope,,trust Allah ( almighty )
What a wife can do when the wife expects to spend quality time with her husband but he is too sleepy(as that is the only time when they r face to face alone) or he is late in coming from his friends....plz give some duah that u can make ur husband understand that the wife do need his time attention care.plz share a duah for it
“Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. (Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata a`yunin wa’j`alna li’l muttaqina imama)” [Qur’an, 25:74] Recite this Dua... In Shaa Allah... Allah will change his Heart and Mind towards you...
Greet him with the smile and don't nag too much instead share your feelings with him. Sometimes wives feel trapped in a marriage but husbands don't realizes and they need to be told how you feel and why you feel this way in a respectable way. Have a hobby and pray. Things will change Insha Allah
Insh Allah! I will marry next year please pray for my beautiful new life and may Allah SWT bless me with the best partner which leads me to Jannah and may Allah b pleased with me...
MEN ARE HUMANS. THEY ARE NOT PERFECT. THEY COME HOME EXHAUSTED AFTER SPENDING THE ENTIRE DAY EARNING FOR YOU. Which part of this do you not understand?
@@mustang9724 Do you not get the point? We think it's okay for women to be angry and emotional, think it's okay for them to scream and fight, but when men do the same, they are labeled as abusive and undeserving. Women ARE humans and are treated as one, but men are treated like emotionless beings who should never feel prickly or angry, which, I feel, is incorrect.
I'm not married but as a woman this is very educational I have recently started to learn more about my religion (unfortunately) but I'm happy and content with everything I am learning AlHumduillah.
Asalam waleikum my beloved muslim brother's and sister's. I'm 23yrs started doing istiqara and i usually pray tahajjud Alhamdulilah may ALLAH bless me with religious wife with iman and taqwa in shaa Allah
Sheik you solve my problem i have to fight sheytan I shout on my husband whay I don't know but I love him oh yaa Alhaa Alhamdililaa my husband have Saber after this I want to give love for him please make dua for me
My marriage is in risk. I am planning to go back to my father house. Ya Allah help me and forgive me I never want to do something that displease you. I need prayers
Aladji Diallo same with me here the pains just unbearable my kids are begging me not to go. There is no day that I don’t cry and all for what. Please I really need your prayers 🙏
Try ur best to work things out, then if it still fails then seek advice from elders an the learned maulanas then decide At least then u have tried an done ur bit My duas r with u x
If men (husbands) can be distressed with their works, so does women (wifes). Ask your mother, if you think that I tell you lies. Wifes also wants their husbands' love and attention. Wifes are also human being. They can be tired too. When you see your women showing the signs of tiredness, stressful, you also have the obligation to less their burden. And talking about desires of the opposite sex, believe me women also have that. But most women are too shy that they choose to hide it.
I agree with you but the thing about women desires is it decreases a lot after childbirth and continues to to decrease with age then menopause. But for men it’s almost same as when they’re teenagers
@@ummabdullah7601 not everyone is the same. Maybe lot of cases are just like what you described in the past, but in the kind of era, nah. It's just the same
@@ummabdullah7601 ah yes I forgot. Women must excuse this "desire" of their husbands and let their husbands marry 4 wife's 😂 Islam and their fair logic ✨😂✨✨😂✨
Even me. always praying to ALLAH to keep me strong. Lacking respect for my spouse and he is. . But i always keep my children safe and do my job well of being a mother. But my husband. I dont know. I feel like hes not around. Even the morning comes and me as a mother doing the cooking for their food and so on. Rushing and running everywhere to catch the time. But my husband hes like deaf he cant hear us he just cuddling to his pillows and blanket. And when we are shouting hes mad. And says why we need to shout hes sleeping. And wow. I dont know. Allah give me more strenght to keep my family safe. Alhamdulillah.
Never fear, Allah's here. As long as you believe in Allah, He will reward you for every trials and hardships. Don't complain just everywhere, complain to Allah, in your Du'a, ask him for Forgiveness, He knows. May Allah Grants you Heaven.
Maa Shaa Allah,Maa Shaa Allah,Alhumdulillah........JazakAllah khair..............May Allah Azzawajal guide us n give success to walk on the right path(seerat ul mustakeem)Aameen
Assalamualaikum, my parents are now in a very troubled stage of their married life and almost in the process of getting separated. Please please everyone make dua :( I want them to be happy :(
may Allah guide us all, and not let the shaataan get hold of us and weaken us, may Allah protect us from back biting and making any types of bad habits every little sin will become mountains of sins, may Allah help us, save us, protect us and unite us. Ameen
Sir nouman ali khan shudn't the husband smile at his wife???? Dey smile outside but vn dey come home dey r all tired and uninterested in family.... only interested in internet and deir work..... and news...... women can also keep demselves busy vd dese things but dey prefer family(child and husband ) over internet and office work and over news......
Plz people... These scholars are the only ones i know that talk about BOTH MEN AND WOMEN IN THESE ISSUES. In some cases they even criticize men more!! This is not the full lecture. If u search u will find out that he has talked about the rights of wives so many times!! And in such great detail!!
We can only start a change with ourselves, Greet him with the smile and don't nag too much instead share your feelings with him. Sometimes wives feel trapped in a marriage but husbands don't realizes and they need to be told how you feel and why you feel this way in a respectable way, men are more interested in listening to a woman's feelings than nagging. Have a hobby and pray alot. Say Ya latifo ya wadoodo .Things will change Insha Allah
Well disappear for those who theirs intentions aren’t pure,because my wife and me we gonna turn 5 years married and alhamdolillah we still loving each others like if we were met yesterday. She is Moroccan and I’m Cuban alhamdolillah she is priceless for me.
Yeah , how sad to be a woman right? When you're still in married you have to listen to your parents. You can't befriend boys, you can't go out alone, If you want to go out must be for a reason and must have company. When you get married, you have to behave yourself for your husband, you have to obey to your husbands need as long as it isn't Haram,will be asked for your responsibility towards your children's, have to pray five times a day when you can, fasting when ramadhan, can't go gossiping around... And you will enter Heaven In Sya Allah. But no no no.. you don't believe it.. look at men, how easy it is to be them. They just have to care for their parents and yours too, just have to make sure their wives are healthy emotionally and physically, they just have to make sure their families have foods, clothing's and shelter. They just have to work for family and for Islam, you know, just the responsibilities of men to make sure they right their Deen and also their Mothers, sister's, and Daughters less they got thrown to hell coz of em you know? It's sooo nice to be men.
@@etzain1917 "look at men, how easy it is to be them" sorry but nearly all the things you listed are what men also have to do. "You can't befriend boys" - This goes for men too vice versa "When you get married, you have to behave yourself for your husband" - This goes for men too vice versa. also if you're not going to behave just do everyone a favor and don't get married "will be asked for your responsibility towards your children's" - This goes for men too "have to pray five times a day" - This is the basics of being a Muslim in general "fasting when ramadhan" - This is the basics of being a Muslim in general. These shouldn't be complaints, are you even Muslim? "can't go gossiping around" - This goes for men too. i really don't understand why backbiting is necessary in this list, its a major sin. "they just have to make sure their families have foods, clothing's and shelter. They just have to work for family and for Islam, you know, just the responsibilities of men to make sure they right their Deen and also their Mothers, sister's, and Daughters less they got thrown to hell coz of em you know? It's sooo nice to be men." this is the most stupid point I ever heard. It's way harder providing foods, clothing's and shelter for everyone in the family. be grateful for what you have. Thats like me saying women have it easy. They just stay home with kids, take care of home and cook food. It's sooo nice to be a woman. so think before you speak
Alhamdulilah. Thank you so much for sharing. May Allah continue to bless you and your family. Please make Dua for my marriage. May Allah bless May marriage. My husband and my children. In Sha Allah.
If a woman doesn't tell you why she's crying, it means that either she doesn't trust you or you aren't mature enough to share the reason 😀 but don't think that women are complicated in a bad way, rather they're complicated because you've never tried to understand them 😖😖 and silence isn't always the right solution to the problem. The solution is to be understanding, compassionate & loving when you're with your family which most of the man don't practice!!
Listen.. majority not man is bad.., and what about women, when she is coming from home after marriar she plays very bad role...making quarrel between her husband and her mother-in-law, betray her husband, dating with other men, sneezing every properties from him, why u r not saying this things...why...R u mad...93% is divorce rate goggle it because of tht wife bad behaviour....Try understand the situation and say well....go have proper treatment
How about me doing all the job that my kids needs and husband. And me doing also making money for my family and kids.. even when my tummy is so big i am still on the street selling anything to get enough money for our daily needs.. god help me to be more patient here. Alhamdulillah
These vids will tell you it's your fault in some way. It's not. Never believe it's your fault and never believe a man can't be mature and that he is born to flirt. It's nonsense. If it wasn't nonsense how come western men can remain loyal to their wives? With small percent of women in hijab how could he remain loyal? Right? This guy believes anyone not in hijab is wearing fewer clothes to get men's attention. He is so wrong it's made me angry. Western women dress to please themselves. Women are not objects and are not born to only keep house and have sex. We may want to do that and it's fine but if we don't then that's fine too. We are intelligent humans and deserving of being spoken about better than this. He needs to open his eyes to a woman's right to have their own life. Doing what they want to do. Not just to be at the beck and call of a man. Aspire! You only get one chance at this short life. Be happy. It can't be harem for a woman to be happy.
I just got out of that situation. Im trying to heal. I realized a men cannot respect you when he cant even respect himself. He cannot give you what he himself doesn't have. I pray for all women. ❤
A healthy marriage also depends on good family backgrounds too.. especially of grooms. If the groom's family is ignorant, he will also be thinking in the same way...
Very sad our myanmar Muslim brothers, sisters childrens are brutally tortured and killed by Burmese cruel soldiers we general public can't do any thing but pray to Allah for this helpless peoples. Every one us pray to Allah continuously in our daily five prayers and night prayers for the helpless victims in Myanmar. Let's try our best to let every one know in every corners of the world the atrocities committed by the wicked lady priminister of Burma who has been awarded noble prize by the blind organizational comitee. Let's pray for justice and the mercy of Allah on this innocent people . Hasbunallah wa nyamal wakeel! Allah is sufficient for us and he is best judge. Ameen ya rabbul alameen. If every member of our family friends and relatives pray Allah will listen to this huge mass prayers . More over it is our duty to at least pray them or else we will be questioned in Akhira for our contribution. It is a test and trial for us too. We should not enjoy the comfort of life instead we should cry for them as tomorrow we or our family could be the victims like them. May Allah guide us to pray for his supreme justice
Prince of Peace your message touched my heart. Yes we should be making duas and do as much as possible for them. And it's not just them it's happening everywhere to all Muslims. May Allah give us out golden times back Ameen
ross private They are not vermin! They are human beings just like you & I. Created the same as you & I, by the same Creator. What differentiates us from animals & all other creation is our brains & that we have free will to think & make choices. In turn for those choices we are tested & judged by God. Sometimes we make good choices, sometimes we don’t. We have to deal with the consequences of our choices & others must live with the consequences of their choices. All of our choices correlate & are intertwined with each other as we all make up “mankind” & the world we live in, together! It all has a rippled effect! You throw the stone across the water & first you see the inner ring, then the next & the next, until the outer ring. We are all connected. Look at the cause of what they do & it might give you insight as to the why? I’m not saying that any of us are perfect! We all make mistakes. Our goal should be to try to avoid making mistakes & help our fellow man. Make the world a better place! Don’t kick someone when they’re down! Treat others the way you want to be treated! Your actions directly & indirectly affect your own life & those of whom you love. “First they came for “So & So” & we did nothing!, etc. Then they came for “Us”, & there was no one left to help!”. “Divide & conquer!” That’s how they win! First they get everyone to hate each other, then before you know it, no one has any rights left! Think carefully before you throw “someone else” under the bus! Stand up for ALL human rights, because you or someone you know or love could be next!! “May God protect us from such a fate, Insh’Allah!! (God Willing!!🙏 “I pray for you to be rightly guided, God Willing, & Allah guides whom he wills!! Ameen!!”🙏
Ya Allah all its in your hand Ya Allah guide us all to the straight path eh denasseratal mustakeem ameen Ya Allah,, inspiring brother menk and brother Nouman,, wa antum fa jajakallah khairran,,
im engage it took me 39 years to find a good man i had to do a self reflection of my own soul . i was taught you attract whats within. many woman including my mother told me to pray and be specific on what you want but i also change my heart. you cant expect God to send you a good person when you not right within. I thank God for my soon to be husband. We all have fault but love understand and forgiveness and prayer is powerful.
I will smile once again at my husband. After kids I get too tired and irritated to attend him but I love him and our relationship. Thanks for reminding and pray for me.
Hi brother/sister I just wanted to let you know that when he was reciting the Quran the nasheed didn’t stop I don’t know if it’s bad or not but I think it’s better to pause the nasheed until he finishes reciting and have a nice day
salam .... kwow wat i said to my wife..well .i was actually a former christian.. and alhamdullilah trying my best to research and accepting islam.. i said to him.... i am not afraid of ... i really afraid to. Allah dat i promise to love her cos i consider him ad agift af Allah.... cos true him i found islam and. never turn....
My ex was on online dating apps that I found on his phone, I made a profile to see what happens?. Omg the amount of married men, men in relationships on these apps, cheating, lying on their partners! They would ask me to be their secret affair, I was so shocked as I was a loyal lady. Please don't trust no one and don't put yourself in a situation that you can't get yourself out of. Never trust, never go to their home, never be alone, never allow some to buy to a drinks and food, never tell people where you live. This could happen to anyone!
May Allah swt protect our marriages from Shaytan and evil. Make dua that Allah makes it easier on people. To keep good intentions and maintain worship. It's not easy to maintain happiness in a marriage. Make Allah swt your number one and Inn'Shaa'Allah your love will increase
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I'm not married yet but I see such lectures to become a good partner and want Allah SWT to be pleased with me.
The Quranic Wisdom good luck 😎
Same here but it somehow where i get peace and keep on believing in Allah
Me too
insha'Allah 🙏 for all of us ....
@@astrokh7359 why do u scared married like this 😕
Masha'Allah I'm proud of my husband he showed me Love and Mercy and when I'm angry he just keep his silence and if he's hurt too much he wud leave the house and comes back with Food and smile .. he is a man of Sabr and Gratittude, he respect his Mother his wife and his family and I love him even more bcuz of that. he is very generous and kind hearted Alhamdulillah for giving me A man like HIM!!!! A beautiful gift from ALLAH S.W.T 💖💖💖
Ma sha Allah hide your matters plz
I wish I will have women like u make doa for me to find good wifev
@@hadiyabhatti4138 she has by not using a real name!
Lucky you
@@redlilly2584 Aothiibillah any bad dua or jealousy you say on someone who doesn't deserve so Allah puts back on you.
It hurts the husband? It also hurts the wife when she gets no love, attention, romance or affection from her husband. Always the woman who gets blamed. Some women don't want to be nice to their husband because he doesn't deserve it and he doesn't earn their respect or love. And that's the truth. It's a 2 way Street. Mens primary needs are physical and woman's primary needs are emotional. Both are to be fulfilled equally
emm b that's why both husband and wife have to give each other unconditional love and unconditional respect.
Imagine if she does not respect him because he does not love her. And the reason why he feels disrespect is because the wife thinks she is unloved. You see the circle here?
So to break the circle is one of them have to give unconditional love and/or respect to one another.
At least that's what I learned
I think arranged marriage is best especially if the guy is well brought up and from a good family. All my proposals have been from guys who are mature, intelligent and well settled. I think guys my own age act like clowns. And after my marriage proposals, I feel like anything outside of arranged marriage is a downgrade. I've chosen arranged marriage from amongst my proposals. It's definitely a two way street. I think it's important that the guy is older and mature. I think young guys are very immature and don't know the responsibility required of a husband
emm b I think women need to be more open about their concerns. And not pay attention to guys who can't give them what they want unless its to tell them to buzz off
CMA Ishaque Ahmed it is in so many ways. If the proposals are from good families then it's worth it otherwise I guess it isn't.
emm thank you ill keep this in mind
Before marriage shaytan makes you attracted to do zina. Then after marriage shaytan puts hatred between you two to break your marriage.
True
Abdulalim Omar 100% agree
In form of in laws
That's right
Abdulalim Omar
May Allah protects our marriage Amen 🙏
What a powerful statement ''The more we involve in Haram the less sweet the Halal will be" 1:35
Can a woman be satisfy with a spouse and who does not provide basic needs for her and her children and makes her feel it's her responsibility because she has a more stable income.
@@kiddiesthreshold6143 no this would not be a stable marriage. In Islam the husband is required to provide the basic needs to the wife and children not the other way around. Wife can work too of course but as long as the husband is providing the basic essentials like house, food, clothes, etc.
May Allah give us good spouses and good children who go to Jannah with us. Ameen
Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen
I m a Hindu but would love to put these words into actions in my future so that when I get married.. I could become a better husband
In’sha’Allah
I also want to be a good wife to my husband
And be a Muslim brother from another mother ln Shaa Allah
May Allah guide you to the Truth
We wish u all the best.
Even if the women smile at here husband when he comes home .The husband don"t see that .... that"s the proplem at this time
May Allah bless u
When you enter in your house you must say "assalamu alaikum " than durud and surah ikhlas you will see the effect of salam within days inshallah
My parents never hid that they first weren't in love when they married. As a child I would find this sad. But now I realized that real love isn't necessarly that thing that pushes us to marry, it can be the bonding formed with time and a healthy relationship. MashaAllah my two parents make a great couple and now they are indeed in love so much so that they can't spend 3 hours without their other half.
Aww, so sweet to hear that dear.👍🤲🕋🙂
❤
Alhamdhullilah
Good submission.. These has been my physiology
Guys respect the people whom u are married to,,breaking each others hearts,, that's not very nice,, follow the step of Muhammad saw) he had many wives ,,he never hurted his wives ,, he was kind ,,gentle and loving husband to his wives,,great Human in this earth,, when things go wrong in marriage ,,call out to Allah ,,open the Qur'an ,,read it,, ur problem will be solved,, insha'Allah,,never lose hope,,trust Allah ( almighty )
Dont morgen with people me always I'm not to much saying
Don't worry for me I'm allahmdullah happy with my self
My family allahmdullah
Mustafa jan I hope you more gona for you morgeing people s with contact always so what aziz I dont know you what's problems so much
But oh care for me hahahaha
What a wife can do when the wife expects to spend quality time with her husband but he is too sleepy(as that is the only time when they r face to face alone) or he is late in coming from his friends....plz give some duah that u can make ur husband understand that the wife do need his time attention care.plz share a duah for it
“Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata a`yunin wa’j`alna li’l muttaqina imama)” [Qur’an, 25:74]
Recite this Dua... In Shaa Allah... Allah will change his Heart and Mind towards you...
i know i can relate with u 😔
Greet him with the smile and don't nag too much instead share your feelings with him. Sometimes wives feel trapped in a marriage but husbands don't realizes and they need to be told how you feel and why you feel this way in a respectable way. Have a hobby and pray. Things will change Insha Allah
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@@riyazlenova2545 oh I know how that feels 😔
Insh Allah! I will marry next year please pray for my beautiful new life and may Allah SWT bless me with the best partner which leads me to Jannah and may Allah b pleased with me...
How about husband smile everyday when entering the house??
MEN ARE HUMANS. THEY ARE NOT PERFECT. THEY COME HOME EXHAUSTED AFTER SPENDING THE ENTIRE DAY EARNING FOR YOU.
Which part of this do you not understand?
Celestial Venus oh i didnt know women werent humans too....lol
@@mustang9724 Do you not get the point? We think it's okay for women to be angry and emotional, think it's okay for them to scream and fight, but when men do the same, they are labeled as abusive and undeserving.
Women ARE humans and are treated as one, but men are treated like emotionless beings who should never feel prickly or angry, which, I feel, is incorrect.
@@mustang9724 women we complsin too much give the man some credit
Am blessed with this, alhamdu lillah
I'm not married but as a woman this is very educational I have recently started to learn more about my religion (unfortunately) but I'm happy and content with everything I am learning AlHumduillah.
All praise be to Allah,that’s is understood
my two favorite scholar :)
Sharm's Kitchen : Mine too!!!!
AshAllahumulekum Sharm's Kitchen mine too
Asalamualaikum sister. I just wanted to correct you. (Scholar(s)**)
Mine as well., I have subscribed to both 🙂 love to listen to them always and act accordingly
They r not scholars. They r dai's.
Alhamdullilah may Allah S.W.T protect us and forgive us all and teach us how to protect and love are spouse Ameen.🙏🏿
Ameen
Ameeen ya Allah
Asalam waleikum my beloved muslim brother's and sister's. I'm 23yrs started doing istiqara and i usually pray tahajjud Alhamdulilah may ALLAH bless me with religious wife with iman and taqwa in shaa Allah
May Allah lead us in every decision we take 🤲🤲🤲
May Allah bless us with truthful and pure marriages
Insha’Allah Ameen sister
May Allah grant all of us righteous, loving and kind hearted spouse and help to love each for the sake of Allah.
Aameen
Am just watching again again n again...brother you solved my problem thankyou
Tariq Dau good luck 😃😃
Sheik you solve my problem i have to fight sheytan I shout on my husband whay I don't know but I love him oh yaa Alhaa Alhamdililaa my husband have Saber after this I want to give love for him please make dua for me
May Allah protect you sister from Satan
AlhumduliAllah....my husband is a true gift from Allah....wat a man mashAllah love him forever❤❤❤
This is just amazing. May Allah bless you both. Am a bride of 3 Nov. 2018 inshaallah. And was so so handy😍
My marriage is in risk. I am planning to go back to my father house. Ya Allah help me and forgive me I never want to do something that displease you. I need prayers
Enshallah keir sister
Pls sis,don't do it,pray to Almighty Allah, be patients n try to always fast.may Almighty Allah give u patients. Aameen
Aladji Diallo same with me here the pains just unbearable my kids are begging me not to go. There is no day that I don’t cry and all for what. Please I really need your prayers 🙏
Try ur best to work things out, then if it still fails then seek advice from elders an the learned maulanas then decide
At least then u have tried an done ur bit
My duas r with u x
May Allah always show you the right way
If men (husbands) can be distressed with their works, so does women (wifes).
Ask your mother, if you think that I tell you lies. Wifes also wants their husbands' love and attention. Wifes are also human being. They can be tired too.
When you see your women showing the signs of tiredness, stressful, you also have the obligation to less their burden.
And talking about desires of the opposite sex, believe me women also have that. But most women are too shy that they choose to hide it.
I agree with you but the thing about women desires is it decreases a lot after childbirth and continues to to decrease with age then menopause. But for men it’s almost same as when they’re teenagers
@@ummabdullah7601 not everyone is the same. Maybe lot of cases are just like what you described in the past, but in the kind of era, nah. It's just the same
@@isabellacalistacross sometimes yes. But majority of men have more physical desires than majority of women especially as they age.
@@ummabdullah7601 ah yes I forgot. Women must excuse this "desire" of their husbands and let their husbands marry 4 wife's 😂
Islam and their fair logic ✨😂✨✨😂✨
@@isabellacalistacross yes you’re right, if she doesn’t want to engage in the deed as often as he does then the option of another wife is there
Even me. always praying to ALLAH to keep me strong.
Lacking respect for my spouse and he is. . But i always keep my children safe and do my job well of being a mother.
But my husband. I dont know. I feel like hes not around. Even the morning comes and me as a mother doing the cooking for their food and so on. Rushing and running everywhere to catch the time. But my husband hes like deaf he cant hear us he just cuddling to his pillows and blanket. And when we are shouting hes mad. And says why we need to shout hes sleeping. And wow. I dont know. Allah give me more strenght to keep my family safe. Alhamdulillah.
Botchoy Manalundong sis i really feel sorry for you i swear. Allah make your life easier Ameen. (Ruby)
Never fear, Allah's here. As long as you believe in Allah, He will reward you for every trials and hardships. Don't complain just everywhere, complain to Allah, in your Du'a, ask him for Forgiveness, He knows. May Allah Grants you Heaven.
May Almighty Allah guard us all in our marriage
Masha Allah so beautiful may Allah bless you and your family Ameen yarab jizakallahu khair brother .
Maa Shaa Allah,Maa Shaa Allah,Alhumdulillah........JazakAllah khair..............May Allah Azzawajal guide us n give success to walk on the right path(seerat ul mustakeem)Aameen
MashaAllah its soo inspiring May Allah reward you this beautiful lecture
Allah has provided my soulmate and we are looking forward to the day of our Marriage, soon Insha’Allah
mashallah May Allah bless us all
Assalamualaikum, my parents are now in a very troubled stage of their married life and almost in the process of getting separated. Please please everyone make dua :( I want them to be happy :(
May Allah keep them together for good
How are your parents?
@@redgurl4138 they got divorced 😞
@@salmeenc sorry to hear that. What caused their separation?
@@redgurl4138 that’s a personal question and I am not comfortable to share 😀
Alhamdulillah, thank you Allah that I found this clip. Thank you for putting this up
may Allah guide us all, and not let the shaataan get hold of us and weaken us, may Allah protect us from back biting and making any types of bad habits every little sin will become mountains of sins, may Allah help us, save us, protect us and unite us. Ameen
Husband's are adulterous, woman has to face every time. Good speech...i loved it.
Behave sister
You can just leave, why do some women make things difficult for themselves
MashAllah thank you so much for sharing this with us may Allah protect our married and keep the evil eyes from us Ameen ya Allah 🙏🙌☺️
Sir nouman ali khan shudn't the husband smile at his wife???? Dey smile outside but vn dey come home dey r all tired and uninterested in family.... only interested in internet and deir work..... and news...... women can also keep demselves busy vd dese things but dey prefer family(child and husband ) over internet and office work and over news......
True
He meant the desire for women is fitna, as he said before that
Wow! truly defined
Plz people... These scholars are the only ones i know that talk about BOTH MEN AND WOMEN IN THESE ISSUES. In some cases they even criticize men more!! This is not the full lecture. If u search u will find out that he has talked about the rights of wives so many times!! And in such great detail!!
We can only start a change with ourselves, Greet him with the smile and don't nag too much instead share your feelings with him. Sometimes wives feel trapped in a marriage but husbands don't realizes and they need to be told how you feel and why you feel this way in a respectable way, men are more interested in listening to a woman's feelings than nagging. Have a hobby and pray alot. Say Ya latifo ya wadoodo .Things will change Insha Allah
Well disappear for those who theirs intentions aren’t pure,because my wife and me we gonna turn 5 years married and alhamdolillah we still loving each others like if we were met yesterday. She is Moroccan and I’m Cuban alhamdolillah she is priceless for me.
Mashallah, may God protect and bless your union
Mashallah i wish i had a marriage like this
In sha Allah I will have a marriage like this 🙏🏼
May Allah bless mine as He did to urs
Mashaalah
Beautifully explained. جزاک اللہ
Thanks mufti menk for your beautiful lectures of forgiveness, may Allah bless you and give you more knowledge and understanding
Ya Allah give grant me husband that will luv me for the sake of u
Ameen
I am here love
I am a good husband islf you are sincere
Aameen ya rabb 🤲
Ameen ... Me too
Yeah nothing's impossible for Allah, but Allah is just, Allah is fair, you ask for this and that but are you Worth It?
Woman go through so much man it’s crazy
Yeah , how sad to be a woman right? When you're still in married you have to listen to your parents. You can't befriend boys, you can't go out alone, If you want to go out must be for a reason and must have company. When you get married, you have to behave yourself for your husband, you have to obey to your husbands need as long as it isn't Haram,will be asked for your responsibility towards your children's, have to pray five times a day when you can, fasting when ramadhan, can't go gossiping around... And you will enter Heaven In Sya Allah. But no no no.. you don't believe it.. look at men, how easy it is to be them. They just have to care for their parents and yours too, just have to make sure their wives are healthy emotionally and physically, they just have to make sure their families have foods, clothing's and shelter. They just have to work for family and for Islam, you know, just the responsibilities of men to make sure they right their Deen and also their Mothers, sister's, and Daughters less they got thrown to hell coz of em you know? It's sooo nice to be men.
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@@etzain1917 so true😩😩😩
@@etzain1917 All the things that u mentioned guys is hard stop over looking it
@@etzain1917 "look at men, how easy it is to be them"
sorry but nearly all the things you listed are what men also have to do.
"You can't befriend boys" - This goes for men too vice versa
"When you get married, you have to behave yourself for your husband" - This goes for men too vice versa. also if you're not going to behave just do everyone a favor and don't get married
"will be asked for your responsibility towards your children's" - This goes for men too
"have to pray five times a day" - This is the basics of being a Muslim in general
"fasting when ramadhan" - This is the basics of being a Muslim in general. These shouldn't be complaints, are you even Muslim?
"can't go gossiping around" - This goes for men too. i really don't understand why backbiting is necessary in this list, its a major sin.
"they just have to make sure their families have foods, clothing's and shelter. They just have to work for family and for Islam, you know, just the responsibilities of men to make sure they right their Deen and also their Mothers, sister's, and Daughters less they got thrown to hell coz of em you know? It's sooo nice to be men."
this is the most stupid point I ever heard. It's way harder providing foods, clothing's and shelter for everyone in the family. be grateful for what you have.
Thats like me saying women have it easy. They just stay home with kids, take care of home and cook food. It's sooo nice to be a woman.
so think before you speak
Great video...Thanks for sharing
May we guard each other spouses
Ameen sum Ameen
Allahu Akbar....... may Allah increase patient to all married couples (amin)
May Allah protect us from all bad Amiin
Mashallah mashallah i have learnt a lot jazakallah
Alhamdulilah. Thank you so much for sharing. May Allah continue to bless you and your family. Please make Dua for my marriage. May Allah bless May marriage. My husband and my children. In Sha Allah.
Shukran mm ctaki htaa nikuone hapa online wallah bas tuu cc Muslim thanks you
Am very happy for that .may Allha protect you all 🙌🏻☝️👍
Rashd Rashd Yusfi
Amen 🙏
Amazing speech by Mufti Menk and brother Nouman Ali khan❤️
Please include me in your precious duas for my happy life
If a woman doesn't tell you why she's crying, it means that either she doesn't trust you or you aren't mature enough to share the reason 😀 but don't think that women are complicated in a bad way, rather they're complicated because you've never tried to understand them 😖😖 and silence isn't always the right solution to the problem. The solution is to be understanding, compassionate & loving when you're with your family which most of the man don't practice!!
Listen.. majority not man is bad.., and what about women, when she is coming from home after marriar she plays very bad role...making quarrel between her husband and her mother-in-law, betray her husband, dating with other men, sneezing every properties from him, why u r not saying this things...why...R u mad...93% is divorce rate goggle it because of tht wife bad behaviour....Try understand the situation and say well....go have proper treatment
Ahhh what a speech just wow may Allah show us the right path🙂
If you follow the Qur'an and sunnah You'll definitely get jannah😻♥🤗
Iqra Imran
True may Allah make us from those who inherit jannah al-Ferdous
May Allah safe us I have a serious problem just can't find solution pray for me please
How about me doing all the job that my kids needs and husband. And me doing also making money for my family and kids.. even when my tummy is so big i am still on the street selling anything to get enough money for our daily needs.. god help me to be more patient here. Alhamdulillah
Botchoy Manalundong. You are a brave woman. May Allah s.w.t. help you in this world and best and best in the hereafter.
Botchoy Manalundong. What country do you live. Is it Malaysia, please reply.
What happened to your husband? Is he disabled? If he's healthy then make him disabled
@@etzain1917 "If he's healthy then make him disabled" lol savage
God*
Great message. Thank you for enlightening us concerning our marriages.
MA Shaa Allah ..may Allah guide our marriage and away from evil eyes.. Jazakallahu khairan
Wahaj Ch
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen
Masha Allah may Allah bless every Muslims guide us through doing good thanks protect us with blessing
Ameena Allah blessings sharing all appreciate🤲🏽👍
Both of them my very favorite scholars Alhamdullillah
what a great knowledge they have Subhanallah ..!!
What if a wife is taking care of husband in every possible way and he still smiles and flirts with every othet girl?
These vids will tell you it's your fault in some way. It's not. Never believe it's your fault and never believe a man can't be mature and that he is born to flirt. It's nonsense. If it wasn't nonsense how come western men can remain loyal to their wives? With small percent of women in hijab how could he remain loyal? Right? This guy believes anyone not in hijab is wearing fewer clothes to get men's attention. He is so wrong it's made me angry. Western women dress to please themselves. Women are not objects and are not born to only keep house and have sex. We may want to do that and it's fine but if we don't then that's fine too. We are intelligent humans and deserving of being spoken about better than this. He needs to open his eyes to a woman's right to have their own life. Doing what they want to do. Not just to be at the beck and call of a man. Aspire! You only get one chance at this short life. Be happy. It can't be harem for a woman to be happy.
I just got out of that situation. Im trying to heal. I realized a men cannot respect you when he cant even respect himself. He cannot give you what he himself doesn't have. I pray for all women. ❤
Slap his guts🤭
@@tf2506 what guy?
T F Shut up dumbass
Maashaallah may Allah(s.w) protect us
A healthy marriage also depends on good family backgrounds too.. especially of grooms. If the groom's family is ignorant, he will also be thinking in the same way...
That’s so true wlhi when we arguing he always loses even if he is right he just end up saying okay sorry it’s my fault and I make that face 😄
Habon Qurux 🤨
'He always loses even if he is right'
unbelievable
Don't take that 4 granted fear 4 the time he gets tired by that be understanding calm n gentle towards him he is rare
@@yobro6053Mind your business please
Subhsn Allah what a Strong,Meaningful and Worthy Speech
May Allah SWT Bless You .AmeeN
Very sad our myanmar Muslim brothers, sisters childrens are brutally tortured and killed by Burmese cruel soldiers we general public can't do any thing but pray to Allah for this helpless peoples.
Every one us pray to Allah continuously in our daily five prayers and night prayers for the helpless victims in Myanmar. Let's try our best to let every one know in every corners of the world the atrocities committed by the wicked lady priminister of Burma who has been awarded noble prize by the blind organizational comitee. Let's pray for justice and the mercy of Allah on this innocent people .
Hasbunallah wa nyamal wakeel! Allah is sufficient for us and he is best judge. Ameen ya rabbul alameen.
If every member of our family friends and relatives pray Allah will listen to this huge mass prayers .
More over it is our duty to at least pray them or else we will be questioned in Akhira for our contribution. It is a test and trial for us too. We should not enjoy the comfort of life instead we should cry for them as tomorrow we or our family could be the victims like them. May Allah guide us to pray for his supreme justice
Prince of Peace your message touched my heart. Yes we should be making duas and do as much as possible for them. And it's not just them it's happening everywhere to all Muslims. May Allah give us out golden times back Ameen
You are 10000000000000000000%right we can only pray for them Allah help them Allah plizzzzzz help them.
ross private They are not vermin! They are human beings just like you & I. Created the same as you & I, by the same Creator. What differentiates us from animals & all other creation is our brains & that we have free will to think & make choices. In turn for those choices we are tested & judged by God. Sometimes we make good choices, sometimes we don’t. We have to deal with the consequences of our choices & others must live with the consequences of their choices. All of our choices correlate & are intertwined with each other as we all make up “mankind” & the world we live in, together! It all has a rippled effect! You throw the stone across the water & first you see the inner ring, then the next & the next, until the outer ring. We are all connected. Look at the cause of what they do & it might give you insight as to the why? I’m not saying that any of us are perfect! We all make mistakes. Our goal should be to try to avoid making mistakes & help our fellow man. Make the world a better place! Don’t kick someone when they’re down! Treat others the way you want to be treated!
Your actions directly & indirectly affect your own life & those of whom you love. “First they came for “So & So” & we did nothing!, etc. Then they came for “Us”, & there was no one left to help!”.
“Divide & conquer!” That’s how they win! First they get everyone to hate each other, then before you know it, no one has any rights left!
Think carefully before you throw “someone else” under the bus! Stand up for ALL human rights, because you or someone you know or love could be next!! “May God protect us from such a fate, Insh’Allah!! (God Willing!!🙏
“I pray for you to be rightly guided, God Willing, & Allah guides whom he wills!! Ameen!!”🙏
If they are martyrs in Islam then they are the real winners
Ya Allah all its in your hand Ya Allah guide us all to the straight path eh denasseratal mustakeem ameen Ya Allah,, inspiring brother menk and brother Nouman,, wa antum fa jajakallah khairran,,
Sometimes husband's too does weird things.
Wrong activities cannot be justified.
Amine ♥ thank you for this precious reminder all of us married muslim need !
When you don´t cross any haram limits. Your life and marriage will be saved. Ya Allah
im engage it took me 39 years to find a good man i had to do a self reflection of my own soul . i was taught you attract whats within. many woman including my mother told me to pray and be specific on what you want but i also change my heart. you cant expect God to send you a good person when you not right within. I thank God for my soon to be husband. We all have fault but love understand and forgiveness and prayer is powerful.
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How are you doing now?
Thank you very much Insak Allah always take care our family much better Amin .
I love this lecture! It is very powerful Solutions in relationship.
😶😶😶😶😶only 2 year n I'm getting married n I take care all of this inshallah I love him so much 😍😘😘😙😙
so did u marry
May Allah gave me and the rest who r single a good spouse 💞
May Allah shOwer His blessings upon us and keep everyone relatiOns safe
And make our marriage life safe and happy ameeen sumameen!!
Very useful and educative
Thankyou so much for sharing brother may ALLAH bless you and grant you heaven 👍💐
Masha-Allah beautifully described
I really love the way you preech
May Allah help us to keep marriage live
I will smile once again at my husband. After kids I get too tired and irritated to attend him but I love him and our relationship. Thanks for reminding and pray for me.
Just smiling won't satisfy him. You have to do more than just smiling...😜
@@mufasarobin9381 have some shame dude,talk to her the way you want your sister to be addressed on some TH-cam video comments section😑
Masha Allah thanks alot dad
Wow. Beautiful. MashAllah. Great message. May Allah reward you
Silence is the key ❤️
Hi brother/sister I just wanted to let you know that when he was reciting the Quran the nasheed didn’t stop I don’t know if it’s bad or not but I think it’s better to pause the nasheed until he finishes reciting and have a nice day
This is like me every day we are arguing with my husband even nonsense but we still 20yrs of married I dont know why??
Ya Allah forgive us
May Allah bless all of us with spouses with whom we will be happy with InshAllah
I will save this and insha Allah I will show it to my future wife💜 I'm just 19 lol😊
أمين يارب Maasha alaah jazaaka laah 👏👏👏 its great 👍 topic for both men and women
salam .... kwow wat i said to my wife..well .i was actually a former christian.. and alhamdullilah trying my best to research and accepting islam.. i said to him.... i am not afraid of ...
i really afraid to.
Allah dat i promise to love her cos i consider him ad agift af Allah.... cos true
him i found islam and. never turn....
Alhumdullilah and jazakAllah! May Allah help all of us
Marriage you never know true happiness until you get married now it’s too late ....true happiness were when u single
My ex was on online dating apps that I found on his phone, I made a profile to see what happens?. Omg the amount of married men, men in relationships on these apps, cheating, lying on their partners! They would ask me to be their secret affair, I was so shocked as I was a loyal lady. Please don't trust no one and don't put yourself in a situation that you can't get yourself out of. Never trust, never go to their home, never be alone, never allow some to buy to a drinks and food, never tell people where you live. This could happen to anyone!
@@JahannamHellfire interesting do your ex was cheating on you
i was loving the lecture till 5:39 ..
May Allah save our marriage
Mehtab Rani
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
I like mufti menk and Mufti md Numan Ali Khan.