Interviewing Japanese Girls Who Got Molested in Public (Chikan)

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  • @SarahConnor618
    @SarahConnor618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    people dont realize how crowded these trains are

  • @mikeysmoooth5322
    @mikeysmoooth5322 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    That's crazy that they tolerate that. I've heard of their mindset being taught in school "not to be an inconvineince to others" but they have to learn how to put some assertiveness when it really counts and stand up when it really matters. Japan really does have a self destructive problem when it comes down to peoples self worth forreal man, its sad.

    • @clinton4161
      @clinton4161 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There's also hierarchy. That makes it even more difficult to speak up. It's mostly older men that do it because they're higher up.

    • @RussiAashiq
      @RussiAashiq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You don't know if she like it or not

    • @jsslgn
      @jsslgn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@RussiAashiq yup. You also don't know if your mother would like it or not.

    • @veramusic638
      @veramusic638 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RussiAashiq wow, then u like it when some strangers grope you? U have a weird fetish

    • @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY
      @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yap Yap Yap no more future,their mindset already broken

  • @robertwisniewski2029
    @robertwisniewski2029 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    any act of violence, including sexual violence, is always the perpetrator's fault, never the victim's, and young women should not be blamed for it. But in this case, the culprit is clearly a culture in which making a fuss in public is seen as a greater offense than sexual assault. This is something that should be combated by government-funded social campaigns that reverse the perception of such events

  • @Republicofpeter
    @Republicofpeter 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Another banger of a topic. Love how unique your questions are compared to other street interview channels. Looking forward to whatever else you have cooking!

  • @Sociologist66
    @Sociologist66 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    In Peru, my Fatherland, it's a high felony touch the parts of a woman in a crowded train. And, if she is a teenager, and the man is his 40's or 50's, he can be arrested, trialed and sent to prison for many years.

  • @riffgroove
    @riffgroove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    10 years ago, the Japanese gibally put "women only" cars on subway during rush hour.
    When I visited, I also saw "beware of upskirt photography" signs on all of the up escalators.
    According to a new law, offenders face a 3 year prison sentence or 30,000 dollar fine.

  • @tangente00
    @tangente00 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    True story, I was drunk and stole a mamachari in Tokyo to get home. Police caught me and I ended in Shinjuku police main station. During the 5 hours I was there two Japanese man were also brought there, both guys that were caught groping. One police officer said to me, that someone gropes women is understandable, but stealing a bicycle is unforgivable. WTF. Even the police thinks that it is not that bad.
    By the way this shows how unbelievable safe Tokyo is. On a weekend night in a lively place only two gropers and 1 thief were arrested.

    • @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY
      @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes they have that kind of mindset, treating woman as an object is okay, stealing is not allowed . It's their culture 😏😏😏😏😏😏

    • @たまこちゃん-o8q
      @たまこちゃん-o8q หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      But still I wanna say, Japanese women are not objects to be toyed with. They have a heart and are human beings just the same

  • @michaelwatson9089
    @michaelwatson9089 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I was groped by dudes in the club in Shibuya, this has happened a few times and I was sure I didn't end up in a gay club. Was wondering what was with Japanese dudes grabbing my a$$. Almost got into a fight, but was held back because I was military and in a foreign country. They apologized, but still you don't just grab a grown mans butt. Do that to the wrong people where I am from one is going to get a charge the other is going into the hospital.

    • @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY
      @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes because nowadays many BL in japan it's common for them

  • @clinton4161
    @clinton4161 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've noticed that the men seem to be on the older side. It's probably due to the age hierarchy. It makes much more difficult to speak up against someone older.

  • @nobodynothing00000
    @nobodynothing00000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just finished 3 weeks across Japan. Tokyo and Osaka still have plenty of no chikan signs. A lot of girls commuting to and from work wearing those "anti chikan" outfits, the extra thick clothes that prevent you from getting a hold on anything meaty. The youth are in visible rebellion against society: talking loudly on the phone, eating while walking, crossing the street wherever they wanted. The teevee news talked about it everyday like it was the biggest scandal.

  • @RonaldoSanchez-g1y
    @RonaldoSanchez-g1y 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ironically enough "Twin Peaks Fire Walk With Me" was a box office smash hit in Japan. Japanese women identified with Laura Palmer.

    • @InterviewingJapan
      @InterviewingJapan  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Audio improvements are in the works. Thanks for the feedback!

  • @Jonas_Eduardo
    @Jonas_Eduardo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don't know why they smile so much... that is crazy.

    • @ryanspinoza6586
      @ryanspinoza6586 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Don't read into it too much, it's a smile to hide nervousness or their uneasiness. It's a common thing in east asia.

    • @Felhek
      @Felhek 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's a defensive behavior to prevent other unwanted mind states.

    • @kafrikotroll8610
      @kafrikotroll8610 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      From shyness

    • @sleefy2343
      @sleefy2343 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ryanspinoza6586east Asia?
      Chinese and Korean women don’t do that lol

  • @Sociologist66
    @Sociologist66 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In Peru, when a guy touches a woman, or worst, a teenager, she smacks him and call the police. Our Police Force is not good enough, compared with other Police corps worldwide, but in these cases, they help inmediately to the female.

  • @dl5641
    @dl5641 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I think it would be helpful for these women to think about the consequences of letting the man go scott free too. I totally get they'd be scared and their cultural upbringing really makes it hard to feel like they can approach people, but the problem is they're in a position to potentially put an end to this vicious cycle by reporting the guy in some way. They say they want the gropers to understand the harm they cause by their actions, but they should understand the harm their own lack of action causes because the groper will absolutely repeat the same crime and cause more victims.
    They have virtually no incentive to stop as 90% of these women won't say or do anything, and they actively avoid the 10% that would. Unfortunately at times, even if they do talk to the police they may not get punished as they should, but if the majority of women started pushing back like the 10% that do then men would have no choice but to think twice about touching anyone.

    • @dayla8634
      @dayla8634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Maybe because even if they did report it, nothing would happen.

    • @dl5641
      @dl5641 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@dayla8634 Which I am fully aware of. It's easy to dismiss a few rare cases where women actually speak up; it's virtually impossible to ignore a continuous wave of them doing so. A few black men sharing their discontentment with segregation wouldn't have done much, but the whole community rallying together is what actually effected change. The same would undoubtedly happen in Japan with this issue, but culturally, Japanese people are just too timid to do anything about it and don't work together on this issue with the same solidarity needed to push back. That's what I'm saying is something these women would need to reflect on if they actually wanted this problem to stop instead of just accepting it as a bad deal and moving on.

    • @dayla8634
      @dayla8634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dl5641 well then you're aware of the problem. It's an issue of both sides to accept any kind of change.
      "just accepting it as a bad deal and moving on." is the Japanese way. Otherwise they wouldn't use the words "shoganai" "gaman" all the time.

    • @dl5641
      @dl5641 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dayla8634 Right, so then that's an aspect of their approach to societal problems that needs to change is all I'm saing. It won't be easy or happen overnight, but it needs to happen.

    • @dayla8634
      @dayla8634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dl5641 I agree with what your saying 100%. All I'm saying is nobody cares about change here.

  • @therearenofactsonlyinterpr3780
    @therearenofactsonlyinterpr3780 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The worsts ranked..
    1. Terrorists
    2. Pickpockets
    3. Gropers
    4. Farmers who bring their goats / chickens riding train
    In Japan, one only has to worry bout #3
    In my country, one has to worry about all of them....

  • @relaxationstation7374
    @relaxationstation7374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It sounds like a lot of Japanese women are trying to add the words, "Silent Scream" to Japanese vocabulary!

  • @jitarijones4284
    @jitarijones4284 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always tell people Japan might be a cool place, but there’s a Darkside to it

  • @Nagano08
    @Nagano08 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    インタビューありがとうございました!!

    • @InterviewingJapan
      @InterviewingJapan  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ありがとうございます!また機会があればよろしくお願いします♡

    • @Mechjeb661
      @Mechjeb661 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@InterviewingJapan Average British 'person' begging for views.

  • @kawaiihikari0
    @kawaiihikari0 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a great and interesting video man wow 🤯

  • @svix01
    @svix01 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Such ''self control'' culture country but yet things like these happens often.

    • @summerwinter89
      @summerwinter89 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the trains are so crowded you literally have to pushed to get in.

  • @jennyohara4011
    @jennyohara4011 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If they have to think about it..then nothing happened, these Women just say yes to feel better that someone paid them attention...

  • @qq84
    @qq84 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    11:44 Like with violent crimes, it's also about power and harming someone, not just about the sexual aspect.

  • @Johnny-cu4zi
    @Johnny-cu4zi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope these beautiful ladies have their own train for them to commute to work, school, or anything. As a religious person myself, I would not tolerate this if I see it in Japan as for me visiting the first time.

  • @Hzkfk
    @Hzkfk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In our country, there are separate coaches for women in trains which are called women coaches. is this not in japan?

  • @zaynes5094
    @zaynes5094 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Should've asked a few guys if they've been groped or something like that, too. That would be just as uncomfortable for us guys here in the states.
    Also could've asked if they know of any other girls who have groped boys or groped girls. At least where I live in upstate NY my town actually put out a statement forbidding any groping because there were some girls saying they were being groped in crowded bars in town.

    • @dayla8634
      @dayla8634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I grew up in Japan in the 80's. My dad was military. It happened to me a few times on the train. Probably old men touching my ass. So little boys aren't safe either.

  • @SarahConnor618
    @SarahConnor618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    chikan means spoon in cantonese

  • @Mecks089
    @Mecks089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don't know if it would be necessary to tell them, but maybe you could of told them how foreign women react/handled such a harassment.
    Japanese would be shocked.

    • @mikeysmoooth5322
      @mikeysmoooth5322 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Right I was thinking the same thing. I’m from New York and if that ever happened to a girl it’s a scene on sight, but that lets people around her know that she has self respect.

    • @kylesavage4525
      @kylesavage4525 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Western women make up stuff like that all the time so they are the polar opposite in the matter

    • @horeageorgian7766
      @horeageorgian7766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also tell them where that brought western women.

    • @dayla8634
      @dayla8634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They already know and don't care.

  • @Felhek
    @Felhek 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So basically they don't report it because that society doesn't care about the others.
    You're alone among people

  • @wesmallette5994
    @wesmallette5994 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They should have they're cellphone camera ready to take pictures.

  • @blue_asahi
    @blue_asahi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I knew by the way questions were asked, other than the accent, that it was a foreigner that was the interviewer. If it was a Japanese interviewer, the question style would have been different.

    • @InterviewingJapan
      @InterviewingJapan  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I've been found out👀

    • @KevJDunn
      @KevJDunn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How would it be different? I think that's why they are laughing so much. It's an unusual situation for them/

    • @horeageorgian7766
      @horeageorgian7766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Interesting. Do you care to elaborate further?

  • @peterbedford2610
    @peterbedford2610 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A friend who lived in Tokyo in the 1970s said this was a problem back then!?

  • @jaishreeramjaanki
    @jaishreeramjaanki 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we need more videos like this expressing social concern of women rather than imaginative useless k-drama

  • @relaxationstation7374
    @relaxationstation7374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hmmmm, i wonder if Japanese men aren't touching young girls because they like cute and salty things or they are simply having a very hard time letting go of their ability to sexually interact with women, even though prostitution is literally legal in Japan?

    • @riffgroove
      @riffgroove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How is it "literally legal?"

    • @zaynes5094
      @zaynes5094 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@riffgrooveIt's not readily legal, but it's an epidemic in the country that especially young girls will go to brothels and "love hotels" and wait to be picked up by older white men or Japanese men for a night. They get compensated for it and the men get sexual pleasure.

    • @invaderrach315
      @invaderrach315 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@riffgrooveall prostitution that doesn't involve penetration is legal

    • @relaxationstation7374
      @relaxationstation7374 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @riffgroove There are several legal options for transactional sex in Japan, they just don't flatout call it Prostitution, they call it Fashion Health or Soapland!

  • @xmistaxcashxcoll
    @xmistaxcashxcoll 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lmao that is fuck up!

    • @AC-LING666
      @AC-LING666 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is normal in Japan, you can do this over there and get away with it 😁
      😁

  • @デクです-d2j
    @デクです-d2j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Chikan is very nice sports.

  • @jeepman1961
    @jeepman1961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    they all talk about it like it's no big deal? Laughing about it?

    • @evinwondersol1732
      @evinwondersol1732 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      it's pretty often that people try to make light of unfortunate events such as this to be able to discuss it more easily, as it might be uncomfortable for them so making fun of the situation a bit can relax the atmosphere

    • @rosspengilley5349
      @rosspengilley5349 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@evinwondersol1732 Do some research on the Asian Smile.
      It is more than likely they are embarrassed
      .It is time for you to go to a re-education camp to learn how not to see everything through Western eyes

  • @antman4959
    @antman4959 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:52 😮

  • @rameshsingh2480
    @rameshsingh2480 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Problem persists

  • @enurtsold3296
    @enurtsold3296 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Everyone's laughing about it 🤔

    • @ayatosakamaki92
      @ayatosakamaki92 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah like WTF

    • @fionafidela
      @fionafidela 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Laughter can make it easier to cope with (telling) difficult situations, to lighten the load. It’s nothing new, and doesn’t mean they are happy experiencing them.

    • @PPB_Army
      @PPB_Army 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Seems like nervous laughter mixed with mild shame from admitting it happened to them specifically

    • @msig206
      @msig206 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Women laugh at uncomfortable situation. If you don’t know that, well now you know.. Next time you hit on a girl, make sure she’s 100% into you, you seem to have a hard time understanding subtle emotions.

    • @SyazWan-w6b
      @SyazWan-w6b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They Laugh about it cause the guy who touch them was his husbando 😂😂

  • @1Induu
    @1Induu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    once u get caught UR life is gone forever,UR name is blacklisted,it will haunt u all through UR life.

  • @usiohaki295
    @usiohaki295 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Japan is such a MCP society.

  • @mohamadhafiz3895
    @mohamadhafiz3895 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chikan is good...especially Kentucky fried chicken

  • @aratarivomed2868
    @aratarivomed2868 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Commenting for algorithm

  • @antman4959
    @antman4959 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:24

  • @stimpyfeelinit
    @stimpyfeelinit 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    japans groping broblem gonna get worse when i visit 😎

  • @ericastier1646
    @ericastier1646 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some men think if the subway car is packed to the rim (for people who have experienced this daily in their life would understand !) and they cannot budge even an inch sometimes your hips will make close contact with a woman's butt and that is not groping as it is forced on you. Even sometimes your arms get twisted between people. Off course from this unintentional to intentional groping is not a big step.
    I can see how some old men will find recomfort in that innocent contact with young women in common transportation, and although it may seem scary, it will be completely harmless.

  • @horeageorgian7766
    @horeageorgian7766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For none of them was the groping the problem. It was that it was not done by Brad Pit.

    • @stevenstone307
      @stevenstone307 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You're a strange person.

    • @horeageorgian7766
      @horeageorgian7766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@stevenstone307 For telling the truth or for unhiding what in unconveniable?

    • @HananeZah-k1e
      @HananeZah-k1e 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even brad pitt will go to jail if he touches someone without their consent you perverted weirdo

  • @relaxationstation7374
    @relaxationstation7374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When I lived in a very small (but absolutely wonderful) town called Minamata, Japan, we had about a 60 year old guy who was very nice to little girls when they were small children but started touching young girls when they became teenagers (because Asians in general obsess over age), who became very widely shunned in, and eventually moved out of, our town. However, my opinion was that, if the women were really smart then they would have helped find him a wife as opposed to solely criticizing and ostrisizing him and potentially turning him into a monster!

    • @ML-cc7gj
      @ML-cc7gj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Having a wife won’t stop a (Japanese) man like that at all. They’ll just keep groping and cheating and so on. Having or not having a wife has got nothing to do with it. Sadly!

    • @LarryJones-c4m
      @LarryJones-c4m 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With all due respect, RelaxationStation, that wouldn't have done any good. They would just continue groping young girls behind their wife's back. It's just like the 60 year old man who goes to topless bars and even has $ex with one of the dancers at a motel... and all while his wife is sitting at home thinking is just out drinking with his buddies. Getting married would not stop a dirty old man from groping girls, unfortunately.

    • @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY
      @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You victim blaming

  • @acmelbourne
    @acmelbourne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jumped the womens only carriage a couple of times in Osaka and was surprised how empty they were, the bulk of the local women were travelling in the mixed sex carriages. I thought that was strange if groping was such a problem, so I asked some westerners at an "expats" bar about this and there were two guys there that claimed they had been groped by Japanese women.

    • @acmelbourne
      @acmelbourne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KevJDunn You need to get out more, I met a guy who claimed he had lived there for ten years didnt believe how big the adult services industry is. Had a woman that I met on the train in Fukuoka that followed me back to my apartment - the guys at the "expat" bar said she was most likely a bored house wife back then bored housewives were actively seeking out foreign tourists to have flings with because they wouldn't be in town long therefore the risk of discovery was reduced. Went into a very busy Starbucks in Ozone Nagoya this women around 35 who had her young son with her just started coming out with sexual innuendo when I ignored her she had a verbal shot at me.

    • @horeageorgian7766
      @horeageorgian7766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just as I thought. Claim there is a problem until people indeed think there is a problem.

    • @tartempion5414
      @tartempion5414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @1sexymary I post a comment about it, but yeah I was saying as a white men working in Tokyo I've never groping voluntarily but it happens several times to me that jp woman position themselves in a way that they can be in close contact at a real unnecessary extend. I remember even sometimes moving because some woman position their "oshiri" just in front of my bulge, I didn't wanted to get into trouble or people seeing that.

    • @nielslund8343
      @nielslund8343 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      For real? If that is actually the truth that they are semi-empty, then that is really fucking strange then...

    • @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY
      @StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No you are a liar. The woman is the victim here.stop victim blaming

  • @kambiznazari6870
    @kambiznazari6870 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That Touching Does Not Always Have To Be Undesired. In Developing Countries If You Touch A Woman, You Must Realize That It Can Have Consequences. Woman Has Not That Level Of Financial Social Security. So Acquiring A Woman As Wife Is A Costy Initiative. So Touching Her The Way In Japan Happens Can Be Seen As An Assault Because It Is A Cheap Approach Without Serious Intentions. However In Economically Advanced Societies Where Citizens Man And Woman Assured Of Acceptable Standards Of Living, That Public Touch Feels Not Always As A Cheap Approach. If Woman Likes It, Man Likes It Either. I Think Woman Is Free To Need Sex But Not In A Context Of Serious Relationship And So Do Man. No Woman Will Ever Admit Loving Being Touched In The Train Or Bus Because Openly Admiting It Can Cause Severe Social And Ethical Problems. That Man Kicking The Other Man Is Public Barbarism. If The Woman In That Case Was Not Very Happy, She Could Go And Stand Somewhere Else But She Did Not. It Is The Law Of Nature Than Man Walks After A Woman. Woman Pursuing A Man Is Something Very Rare. Woman Is A Signal And Man Is The Receiver. Human Psychology Is Ever Evolving Consciousness. If All The Woman Was Replaced By Cyborgs And Every Man Had One Cyborg, That Kind Of Social Behaviour Of Touching Or Feeling Will Taste Stupid Because Cyborgs Takes That Kind Of Social Exciting Behavior Away. But Is It Really Healty Or Good Not To Be Excited Or Getting Excited But Strongly Controlling It And Wishing For A Day That You Can Buy That Esthetic Design As Cyborg In A Shop? I Like To Be Excited When I Walk In The Street And See Beautiful Female Anatomy Packed In Jeans Or Silk Because I Am Excited About Her Thoughts Either