I cried my eyes out watching "The Half Of It" 😭 (Movie Reaction)

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  • @blanquitaa
    @blanquitaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21883

    i appreciate how cindy starts crying and then she just makes a joke to cover her emotions as quick as possible

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3407

      please do not expose me like this

    • @erinalexander4017
      @erinalexander4017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +441

      Cindy 15 minutes later: unpin🤣🤣

    • @sclohessy4759
      @sclohessy4759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +398

      @@withcindy conceal don't feel don't let it show

    • @urgonnabeok
      @urgonnabeok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      blanquita actually though lmao

    • @Udontkno7
      @Udontkno7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      that slightly traumatized lewk

  • @MinaReads
    @MinaReads 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13930

    cindy saying "he's so dumb" while sobbing is the ultimate mood

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1236

      a perpetual mood

    • @watcherboy2723
      @watcherboy2723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +331

      Me reading fan fiction with misunderstandings and angst and they’re just both pining over each other and they just are so dumb

    • @InfinitelyAnon
      @InfinitelyAnon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      The face he was making.... we love a himbo ally

    • @booperdooper9762
      @booperdooper9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I- yes T_T

    • @ellesmith1801
      @ellesmith1801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He may be a dumbass, but he’s *our* dumbass

  • @sarvcsm7208
    @sarvcsm7208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4461

    this movie made me realize my favorite duo ever is stupid straight man with good intentions and smart shy lovestruck lesbian . i just think we need more of this

    • @bm-oy7oz
      @bm-oy7oz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I’m not okay with this

    • @ives6622
      @ives6622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Sydney and Stanley
      Steve and Robin

    • @almi7256
      @almi7256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      But consider, they're both gay

    • @valentinavillota3348
      @valentinavillota3348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Noah and Audrey!

    • @lindseyw5023
      @lindseyw5023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The pairing we never knew we needed 🥺❤️

  • @elliexaster4763
    @elliexaster4763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7727

    I just realized they called her chugga chugga chu chu because her last name is chu and she works at a train station-

    • @SaraH-jn5db
      @SaraH-jn5db 3 ปีที่แล้ว +712

      Took me like 3 months and multiple watches to realize that too

    • @tedros6917
      @tedros6917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +758

      it's honestly pretty clever, if only it wasn't said as an insult

    • @iferawhite7661
      @iferawhite7661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +340

      Oh my god I didn't realize that jesus I am dumber than the freaking himbo
      I thought they called her chugga chugga chu chu because she had such a slow ass bike, so IDK it was like... the train engine that could but in a very snarky side-remark kind of way as an insult to how damn slow her bike is

    • @areolagarage1528
      @areolagarage1528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      FR it’s so funny how ppl put in so much effort to make ppl feel bad about themselves 💀

    • @renzbar150
      @renzbar150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Fun fact: it was based on Alice Wu's real life experience bc of her name.

  • @thatrantinggirl7376
    @thatrantinggirl7376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4577

    Kinda sus how quiet Shakespeare's been since Himbo dropped that letter

    • @Network-yp8de
      @Network-yp8de 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      oop- drag him paul

    • @noonstyles3973
      @noonstyles3973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Underrated comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @clownestfan
      @clownestfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      you might say.... as quiet as the dead o.o

    • @Winkiefacedd
      @Winkiefacedd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao the funny think is that your likes are on 4k 🤣 im sorry I laugh too easily

  • @aanchalsaxena1135
    @aanchalsaxena1135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11530

    WE NEED TO APPRECIATE HIMBO'S MOM THOUGH LIKE SHE THOUGHT HE'S GAY, AND WAS LIKE I STILL LOVE YOU
    THEN HE SAYS HE MIGHT WANT TO CHANGE THE RECIPE AND GETS HIT WITH HER PURSE

    • @ds-lb6ms
      @ds-lb6ms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1733

      she said : not the fucking recipe my himbo son

    • @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea
      @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

      That part had me laughing 😂

    • @CeCe1066
      @CeCe1066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Aanchal Saxena I LOVED THAT!!! I had to replay it cause it was just golden🤣

    • @sketchlee1856
      @sketchlee1856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +303

      She's got her priorities straight

    • @marisevw7935
      @marisevw7935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      ... and then when he’s like ‘I’m not gay’ she says ‘oh thank god’... that’s not what I call acceptance

  • @scout72430
    @scout72430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9012

    I know I'm late to this movie, but did anyone else notice how Paul also helped Ellie's dad out of his depression? I just thought it was so cute how he started to bring him those stupid sausages LOL and by the end of the movie, her dad was wearing a suit instead of his pjs. 😭

    • @avsambart
      @avsambart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +878

      Paul and her dad was my favourite part!!! Their scenes were so wholesome 😭

    • @helenwinter3320
      @helenwinter3320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      yess i knoww it made me cry 😭

    • @adwoaowusu7208
      @adwoaowusu7208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      It’s the character development for me

    • @GINSHOTGUN
      @GINSHOTGUN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I know right 😭

    • @spammusubi1607
      @spammusubi1607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      IKRR it was so wholesomeeee

  • @tiffanymariehill8557
    @tiffanymariehill8557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4977

    When you realize all that running Paul did throughout the moving was training to chase after Ellie’s train😢

  • @samanthasherrard162
    @samanthasherrard162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6371

    I think Paul’s little “there’s more than one way to love” speech in the church was also referencing not just the gay but also love in general. At first he was like “dating/love is going out and making out and physicality and the sort” and after meeting Ellie his perspective changes about what love is

    • @roxys207
      @roxys207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      Exactly this! I also thought he was talking about his relationship with Ellie.

    • @ellenkristiantisitompul5683
      @ellenkristiantisitompul5683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I thought he was talking about his relationship with ellie and not about gay relationship

    • @northbelle2317
      @northbelle2317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      There IS after all more than one kind of love. Eros, phillia(?) I forgot the others but yeah 😂

    • @vexusmorpheus932
      @vexusmorpheus932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@northbelle2317 p l a t o n i c

    • @seatheparade
      @seatheparade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yesss she changes every perspective of his and they made each other grow with their friendship!

  • @shebagal12
    @shebagal12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6075

    “If she straight don’t worry wait till she graduates art school” as someone who started art school straight and ended it with being bisexual...I feel called out

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1370

      another one bites the dust

    • @terrasimone5528
      @terrasimone5528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      Did we have the exact same college experience??? lol

    • @shebagal12
      @shebagal12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Terra Simone must have 😂😂

    • @mildredhuertas9573
      @mildredhuertas9573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I am in art school and am bisexual, I feel called out

    • @tailbonetailbone9380
      @tailbonetailbone9380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Life constructs, college deconstructs.
      I mean seriously, I entered med school a straight moderate and now I'm a bi communist.
      And I have T H R E E M O R E Y E A R S

  • @rozmia9102
    @rozmia9102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5308

    When Cindy guesses the entire plot beat for beat in the first minute I-

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +851

      I'm a natural at guessing teen movies lol

    • @jolintoh
      @jolintoh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      i know right!!! i was SHOCKED

    • @half-bakedthot
      @half-bakedthot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      lmao i did the exact same thing almost immediately like every single beat but i LOVED it for its tropeyness

    • @DonMutley
      @DonMutley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      not only first minute, but from THE TRAILER. I'm just... shocked

    • @gabssza8569
      @gabssza8569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This means that set ups and pay offs make sense and are sensible so that's good

  • @soupandsalad7624
    @soupandsalad7624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3207

    AS AN AROMANTIC PERSON THE IDEA OF PLATONIC SOULMATES HITS ME SO HARD AND IM SOBBING BYE

    • @yziez
      @yziez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      AHHHHHH metooooo and I love their platonic relationship!!! Just the fact that it’s platonic makes me so happppyyyy

    • @vexusmorpheus932
      @vexusmorpheus932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      HEY ARO BUDDYY

    • @goblinhat0985
      @goblinhat0985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      im not aro but me and my bestie have so many failed relationships we realised were platnic soulmates because she is the one person i feel super connected to, and i dont need to love her romantically because ive got her as my friend

    • @vexusmorpheus932
      @vexusmorpheus932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@goblinhat0985 I'm glad you found them :)

    • @naranciabestboi8498
      @naranciabestboi8498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      AHH SAMEE

  • @SaraH-jn5db
    @SaraH-jn5db 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11758

    When mediocre white boy stood up in the middle of church and said gay rights i cried

  • @madigable2125
    @madigable2125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3149

    When you look at Ellie and Paul as platonic soulmates, the opening scene hits you harder than the train scene.

  • @kristenjones355
    @kristenjones355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3245

    I wrote a theatre kids WHOLE PLAY (13 pages) and i charged them $100 and they gave me $200 because he ended up getting an A+

    • @v0id_d3m0n
      @v0id_d3m0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      stonks

    • @daliluher9435
      @daliluher9435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Fuck yeah 🔥 got that bag. I once got 200 (pesos) for editing a video for someone's history project. The most basic of things and I did it in max 3 hours.

    • @adeleaslan8182
      @adeleaslan8182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aw how sweet

    • @BritneyT.
      @BritneyT. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is what I aspire to be

    • @ashleyvirtuoso618
      @ashleyvirtuoso618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@daliluher9435 200 pesos?! nahhhh you shouldve charged higher than that🤣

  • @peeblespebbles5689
    @peeblespebbles5689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8394

    I'm an idiot, I just noticed this.
    At the start of their messages Ellie says "If I knew what love was, I'd quote myself" and the last quote screen was a quote from Ellie about love. BECAUSE SHE LEARNED!
    Was this blinding obvious to everyone? Is my brain a potato? Please someone else say they missed this the first time!

    • @blueberrymuffin113
      @blueberrymuffin113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +368

      Peebles Pebbles No, your brain is not a potato! I didn’t notice it either! Thanks for letting me know, this is beautiful!

    • @rosadiaz6770
      @rosadiaz6770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Wow actually your brain is not a potato, but for those of us whose brains are, you are right here helping us out!❤️
      Also, can't help but imagine how hard Cindy would roast me if I were in a movie. And probably also if I were a booktuber. Lol.

    • @alysham4n4l0
      @alysham4n4l0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      no i missed this lol

    • @loveloveaii
      @loveloveaii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s just beautiful

    • @geminijones3414
      @geminijones3414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I legit missed it the first time too, so if your brain is a potato, then my brain is also a potato.
      Potato brain and proud.

  • @adrianbooklecter7545
    @adrianbooklecter7545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5160

    “You think that reading books gives you a personality”
    I feel personally attacked.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +591

      I'm attacking booktube

    • @tranhanam0027
      @tranhanam0027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@withcindy The queen is dealing out some truths!

    • @hmjolley
      @hmjolley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      It’s my only personality trait during quarantine

    • @ohohnenyeoo2654
      @ohohnenyeoo2654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AdrianBookLecter 😂😂

    • @thebookhunter2913
      @thebookhunter2913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahhaha The shadeeeeeee

  • @kennennededy3767
    @kennennededy3767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4185

    netflix is really coming thru with all these amazing himbo/lesbian friendships.... ellie and paul, steve and robin, syd and stan....

    • @heralisa3202
      @heralisa3202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      The fact I know all of them YESSSS

    • @Ari_Nekochan
      @Ari_Nekochan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Where are the other two came from?

    • @fae2797
      @fae2797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      @@Ari_Nekochan steve and robin from stranger things, syd and stan from im not okay with this.

    • @luuuuux_
      @luuuuux_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes. I know all of them!

    • @Pumpkin_3890
      @Pumpkin_3890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Syd is actually bisexual but ok

  • @Casper-hn7qq
    @Casper-hn7qq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8493

    Paul is like a golden retriever dog but a human

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1127

      that must be why i love him

    • @MystearicaClaws
      @MystearicaClaws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

      My thoughts exactly while he was chasing the train. Lolling tongue and all🤣🤣🤣 he's a good boi!!!

    • @BelladonnaHarker
      @BelladonnaHarker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      the ultimate himbo

    • @qualcosadinerd7471
      @qualcosadinerd7471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Now I cannot unsee it anymore

    • @DingoTheDemon
      @DingoTheDemon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Ngl that's my type

  • @Paracrom
    @Paracrom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2340

    Cindy: do you think reading books gives you a personality?
    Me: *i silently meet myself in the mirror, my reflection mouths 'no'*

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +280

      im gonna put this mirror up in front of booktube

    • @aalba9107
      @aalba9107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I felt that-

    • @orimengu
      @orimengu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@withcindy oooh what a burn

    • @adrianbooklecter7545
      @adrianbooklecter7545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      666 likes, no one else is allowed to like this

  • @Abidaily247
    @Abidaily247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4027

    I know im watching this really late but when paul says 'its a sin, you're going to hell' I always think he says that not to make ellie feel bad or to be homophobic but i think it's the realisation for him that acording to the religious world hes been brought up in his friend will be going to hell. i think that scene shows how the surroundings paul grew up in affected his world view but i also think it shows how much paul has come to care for ellie so finding out that ellie likes aster is difficult for him because he doesnt want his friend to go to hell and suffer but also maybe the realisation that everyone in their town will think that ellie is going to hell and he doesn't want his town to hate ellie. maybe im reading way past the line but i can't help but think that when i watch that scene.

    • @clemencefurnari679
      @clemencefurnari679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +624

      I felt the same way, his fear of losing her and seeing her hated by everyone was really well portrayed, plus I think his words were supposed to be just thoughts that he said out loud because he was so shocked, so he haven't processed it enough to know he hurts her the moment he said it

    • @Shona100
      @Shona100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +345

      I felt like he was kinda saying what everyone around him projected into his brain and so it sounded like he was just repeating words from what he grew up on

    • @somebody0586
      @somebody0586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Yup thats what i thought too since he was looking down and not at her ... thats what we do when we are in those realistaion times ,we speak to ourselves .

    • @strangersopinion8243
      @strangersopinion8243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I read somewhere that the first thought or opinion about something is usually laced with standards or reasons(opinions ) we are surrounded by and somehow grew up with, the second thing that comes to your mind is what you think. So I agree.

    • @kaidouhottopicgiftcard
      @kaidouhottopicgiftcard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I know that it is a very important and emotional scene but I can't help but laugh when he says that. I'm a bisexual girl so I'd probably be really upset if someone said that to me but he says it in such an overly dramatic way it's just so hard to not laugh.

  • @25luvfaith
    @25luvfaith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2016

    “do you think books give you a personality” i have nothing else Cindy don’t take this from me

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +389

      im sorry u can have this, as a treat

    • @cryingthrowingup4256
      @cryingthrowingup4256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      cindy: you can have a little personality, as a treat

  • @chaido
    @chaido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1945

    "he can't process more than two emotions at once, it's too much for his brain"
    for a quick second I thought you were talking about me

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      who said i wasnt

    • @rosadiaz6770
      @rosadiaz6770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same sis same
      😭

  • @annadau8612
    @annadau8612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3113

    Paul's invention of a taco sausage is an allusion to his love for Aster as it mixes a traditional dish from Aster's heritage (tacos from Mexico) with his own (sausages from Germany).

  • @chedderman101
    @chedderman101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2904

    I love how the soulmate thing was portrayed. I honestly feel like my friend are soul mates (we both straight dudes... I know SAD) but we just “connected” like THAT. complete opposite people from completely different upbringings (I’m Native American he a white boy, I’m poor he’s rich, etc) friendship soulmates are great. This movie got me crying cuz my friend is as himbo and he dumb as hell but his heart is in the right place lmao 😂

    • @starrynight5207
      @starrynight5207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      look up the pre dunya, it sounds similar to what you’re saying, as in connecting

    • @oliveproject10
      @oliveproject10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Aw why did I love reading this 🥺

    • @brandleythecat4570
      @brandleythecat4570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Yes! Platonic soulmates for the win!

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      i am so happy for you and also getting weepy :''''')

    • @coralia.i9702
      @coralia.i9702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      ME BEING DUMB AS HELL AND MY BEST FRIEND FACEPALMING

  • @itsmekatewhite
    @itsmekatewhite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2048

    Cindy every five seconds: “this is gonna be foreshadowing” Cindy every two seconds: “this is a pg13 movie! Taco sausage? Don’t be so nasty!” Cindy every one second: “HIMBO!”

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      my jokes in a nutshell

    • @kristidavidhi1756
      @kristidavidhi1756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      only two braincells dont forget bout that

  • @Eliaskip
    @Eliaskip 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3028

    I was trying to figure out where I knew Paul’s actor from. Then I realized I knew him from every Golden Retriever ever

    • @sarroumarbeu6810
      @sarroumarbeu6810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Lmaooooo

    • @additionalsky
      @additionalsky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      OMG THAT SMILE IN THE CHURCH HIT ME IN THE SOUL

    • @tatianabarrios8358
      @tatianabarrios8358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The true mr peanutbutter

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cannot unsee Mr. Peanutbutter from him.

    • @combat_chameleon
      @combat_chameleon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      EXACTLY, he smiling while running along w the train literally made me said out loud that he's just like a dog

  • @nicolefendi3896
    @nicolefendi3896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1855

    Cindy: "I profit off my tears"
    me: *already halfway through emptying my wallet*

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      money pwease

    • @teresabakalarska6001
      @teresabakalarska6001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I kid you not I read "*empathying* my wallet" and was like ~same~

  • @aanchalsaxena1135
    @aanchalsaxena1135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2283

    Honestly, the Asian representation was SO GOOD in this movie, and also I screamed when that Bollywood movie scene came up :")

    • @rishitaumasankaran7159
      @rishitaumasankaran7159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      YES

    • @Roma-kp4qg
      @Roma-kp4qg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      I love that this comment summoned 3 other Indians to come and scream about the Bollywood movie including me

    • @rakshyakharel9398
      @rakshyakharel9398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      OH MY GOD I HAVE BEEN LOOKING EVERYWHERE FOR SOMEONE TO COMMENT ABOUT THIS!!!

    • @164vishakhakeshavaprasad2
      @164vishakhakeshavaprasad2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      One more has been summoned lolol

    • @kumarabhishek1500
      @kumarabhishek1500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      ONE MORE HAS BEEN SUMMONED

  • @ajesguerra9560
    @ajesguerra9560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    The guy is actually somehow refreshing to watch because finally we don’t have an overly-confident guy. 🤣

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      i luv him!!

  • @artisticaperture846
    @artisticaperture846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1669

    why is cindy lecturing ellie about her flat rate while waving around cantaloupe on a fork such a Mood

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

      i just think ellie could do better, she's underselling herself

    • @artisticaperture846
      @artisticaperture846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@withcindy It's true and you should say it

    • @madeleinekennedy5342
      @madeleinekennedy5342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know i love it

    • @iciajay6891
      @iciajay6891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's an aesthetic.

    • @Krjwzhr
      @Krjwzhr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Omg yes! That was the only thing that got me pissed off. Literally was watching the movie, ranting through the scene about her poor business choice. Like 3-10 pages for $20? ELLIE! Is you dumb? $10 per page minimum.

  • @miyunidinara4097
    @miyunidinara4097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +880

    Paul is dumb but, he does have some emotional intelligence, you know after some time and training

  • @trees____383
    @trees____383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +977

    Cindy: If she’s straight don’t worry wait till she graduates art school...
    Me: *clutches my sketchbooks*

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      U aren't safe from it either

    • @useroffline9999
      @useroffline9999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I came into performing arts school a lesbian and came out trans

  • @angelbiscuits
    @angelbiscuits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1247

    when the himbo ran after the train, it reminded me of a dog running after their owner 😢😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      awwww cute lil puppy!!

  • @anna831
    @anna831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    Hi! This guy is probably immigrant from poland (maybe second generation) that’s why he loves sausages (and giving food is his love language), speaks like this and he has loud and big family. So my theory is that he is polish himbo (his surname is Muński/Munsky)

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +312

      Awww I love that!

    • @gabssza8569
      @gabssza8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      I wish our main export were supportive golden retriever himbos 😭😭😭

    • @thatb1h855
      @thatb1h855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      probably second gen. the recipe is from his grandma, so it can be assumed that she migrated to america and had Paul's mum

    • @hat7475
      @hat7475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Headcanons yeaHHH!!!!

  • @aidam7822
    @aidam7822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2716

    this movie's leads showcase the true spectrum of humanity:
    himbo - gay

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

      i adore both

    • @coliyllahnnaht.6274
      @coliyllahnnaht.6274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      then there are those of us who are brave enough to be both

    • @parkchimmin7913
      @parkchimmin7913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Coliyllahnnah T. Gimbo? Hay? Himga? Boay?

    • @aidam7822
      @aidam7822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@parkchimmin7913 Gimbo soumds legendary

    • @parkchimmin7913
      @parkchimmin7913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      butterflyy Gimbo it is!

  • @humbuggery0511
    @humbuggery0511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    I’d rather watch Cindy cry over nerd-jock friendships than pay attention in history any day of the week

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      i love nerd-jock friendships!!

    • @raven4029
      @raven4029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Legit doing history work rn whaaaaaat

    • @humbuggery0511
      @humbuggery0511 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      a shadow reader Coincidence? I think not

  • @digitalmimi
    @digitalmimi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +963

    The scene with her Dad and Paul actually had me tearing up. It felt so dignifying.
    I love that he spoke in Mandarin instead of English, because I know that feeling of wanting to express something and knowing that no one around you will understand, but just saying it anyway because it’s more for you than for others.

  • @renshifter3804
    @renshifter3804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2593

    Fun fact the director said that she wrote this movie because of heart break, but not because of love love but because she lost her best friend.
    Apparently she n the guy were best friends until he started dating a girl and the gf felt intimidated by their closeness as friends so they stopped hanging out :(
    Edit: oop guess I should've mentioned that the director is a lesbian and the guy knew that.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +439

      awwwwww :((((

    • @jadelovesmovies
      @jadelovesmovies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      That’s actually annoyingly sad 😔

    • @a.l.michael6240
      @a.l.michael6240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      That’s terrible.

    • @megib901
      @megib901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      @@withcindy she also has another movie about 2 Asian women falling in love and it has so much Asian rep in it ! It's called Saving Face and it's so nice.

    • @iciajay6891
      @iciajay6891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      That sucks. My sisters bff is a guy named Jesse. They have been bff's for like 15 years. My bff, her other bff is a guy. It can be done. You just gotta be open about shit.

  • @rebeccaly633
    @rebeccaly633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2894

    “ it’s always the brunette girl reading a book in the corner to make up for lack of personality”
    Me: a brunette that likes to read
    Also me: damn I didn’t expect to get crucified by Cindy

    • @morley364
      @morley364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      Me, a brunette girl, realizing I have no personality: *throws a book at the problem*

    • @delightfulmochas
      @delightfulmochas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      *Belle from Beauty and the Beast is quaking*

    • @graceless000
      @graceless000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me

    • @youareloved4226
      @youareloved4226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@morley364 okay but not having a personality isn't a problem. it's okay to not know who you are. you are not obligated to know how you want to be to deserve love and respect and have your presence enjoyed by others

    • @itsbambi92
      @itsbambi92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m a brunette and I buried myself in books during high school because I struggled to fit in. I was too weird I guess and my family didn’t really like my “strong personality”. Whatever that meant. I tried to become what people wanted or think would like because it seemed that was the only way people would “accept me” but then I lost myself and became unhappy. I didn’t accept myself and I think that’s why I didn’t fit in because I didn’t think I could. It’s still a challenge feeling lost and not fully knowing yourself despite the years. From an outsiders perspective, one would think “of course it’s the brunette reading a book lacking personality” but I guess from my perspective it was an escape of a reality I didn’t want to be a part of and I wanted to see if I could find some inspiration from the people I read about in the stories. I was hoping for happy endings but then when I finished reading it left me unsatisfied and realizing that there are no happy endings. You can’t take someone’s life in a story and make it your own. You can’t expect that what happens in the story it’ll be the same outcome. What I did take away is that these stories give you hope that despite the hardships, there’s always a way and the ending is left as an open ending.

  • @eastonlaskey6825
    @eastonlaskey6825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    Paul wasn't a homophobe. He WAS homophobic but only cus he was raised that way. That was a big part of the story. The live in a small, Christian, racist, and homophobic town. He didn't know any better.

    • @aleb8244
      @aleb8244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      yeah you can tell with his mom saying "oh it's Paul's Chinese friend" 💀

    • @frenchgirl5878
      @frenchgirl5878 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We can say that about every racist person though. That’s not a valid excuse.

    • @AmandaPanda531
      @AmandaPanda531 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@frenchgirl5878 it's not an excuse but it gives context to a person. a lot of the time, hatred is taught, so living in a racist/homophobic society can teach people to be that way. they're ignorant and can unlearn their hatred, but it takes time, education, and willingness. now, if they're given access to the education and refuse to learn, that's their own fault. with paul, he was taught to be homophobic, but he sought out education and understanding to unlearn the hatred.

  • @011mph
    @011mph 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2515

    "Not all men" you're right Paul would never

  • @FlyingWolfWings
    @FlyingWolfWings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2222

    Cindy, sobbing uncontrollably: "He's so dumb... He's so dumb!!"

  • @margarete5920
    @margarete5920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    "If she straight, don't worry. Wait until she graduates art school. Then we fucking got her." GIRL LOLLL i entered art school straight and graduates as bi and like, my 5 other friends hahahaha

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      excellent

    • @salem-01
      @salem-01 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The gay agenda is working

  • @jaysahunter256
    @jaysahunter256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2190

    I like how Cindy says she loves Paul but is roasting him the whole video but is also exactly like him

  • @etherealmushroom846
    @etherealmushroom846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    Cindy encouraging a fellow Asian to be more selfish (in terms of charging more money for her work) is surprisingly entertaining.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      i always encourage selfishness

  • @alexandram2486
    @alexandram2486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2556

    Aster: It's nice hanging out with girls and not talking about boys for a change
    Also Aster, 5 seconds later: I'm gonna marry Trig

    • @JM-vr1br
      @JM-vr1br 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      She doesn’t have enough personality to do anything else.😂

    • @meriem.j.3633
      @meriem.j.3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      @@JM-vr1br That is her personality, seriously. Her dilemma is that she's spent her whole life fitting a role so she doesn't know herself. That's her character development and it's really obvious if you pay attention to her that this is it. ALSO when she was saying "I'm happy to not talk about boys" she means she's happy to not be putting these assholes on a pedestal just to fit in with the other girls. The contrast when she talked with Ellie was that she was being honest about her struggles on not wanting to to be tied down, and being conflicted with ideologies she grew up with (as a Latina) and the reality she wants to live. Y'all need to look at her character more because (again as a Latina) this happens a lot (not the being pretty but the having to fit in and losing yourself) so maybe I just caught onto nuance you didn't, but she's deffo my favorite character.

    • @meriem.j.3633
      @meriem.j.3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@JM-vr1br Ellie also pointed out how she "stops being so perfect [when she laughs]" at 16:29

    • @TenderNoodle
      @TenderNoodle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@meriem.j.3633 doesn’t mean she isn’t boring to watch lol

  • @isanagill
    @isanagill 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1887

    Lmao why is everyone out here tryna act like Paul doesn’t have depth to his character, I think he is really simple and doesn’t have much to say but he’s really sweet and nice and yeah, sometimes even simple bois can’t process emotions lmao, doesn’t make him an absolute dumbass but I don’t disagree on the fact that he has 2 braincells 😂🙃 But she kept saying it everytime he was on screen lmao like let him breathe jeeezus 😂😂😂😂

    • @nickspace19
      @nickspace19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      this is what i thought too!!

    • @Bluey306
      @Bluey306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      cindy (lovingly) bullying paul for nearly half a hour 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @joe-hk5dn
      @joe-hk5dn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ikr like im sorry that not every main character isnt a multi talented, 160 iq, musician that reads 50 books a month lmaoo

    • @lucy489
      @lucy489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right?! His kindness and ability to connect with people in his own way is his intelligence/strength

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also, I think him seeming "dumb" might be an allusion to how since studies have proven increased rates of brain hemorrhage from American Football, many white varsities are pulled out from the sport by their families because of this. Meanwhile black (and other POC) athletes stay because they believe it's their only way out of poverty and to good universities. This mindset also remains in poorer white families.
      Meaning I get a sense that not only is Paul born with set of questionable intellect, football also exacerbates it but he knows nothing outside of sports to keep for himself.

  • @AnimeCountDown
    @AnimeCountDown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +762

    “This was like me when I entered BookTube and made all the whites mad.”
    Let me tell you I WHEEZED and nearly choked on my goddamn lunch I laughed so hard

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      i live in their heads rent-free

  • @Fiona-fk9zo
    @Fiona-fk9zo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +597

    When Paul said Ellie was going to hell I got so sad because I feel like he is saying that because he know thinks his best friend is going to hell. That's how he was raised and it's just so sad on both ends and it makes me so sad but in the end it's okay and he learns, but man that scene killed me : (

    • @yziez
      @yziez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He’s just a Himbo with mix views :(

  • @declanlevesque8015
    @declanlevesque8015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +963

    I loved this movie because it’s main character is a “not like other girls” type but isn’t obnoxious about it

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      i agree!

    • @LoveK1
      @LoveK1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Because it’s real and not an act she’s putting on to be edgy.

    • @saitamatrash2527
      @saitamatrash2527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Declan Levesque yeh but she doesn’t dislike other girls or put them down which is an important characteristic of “not like other girls” girl. She’s just a loner, who’s sad cuz she lost her mum.

    • @declanlevesque8015
      @declanlevesque8015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Saitama Trash that’s what I mean by she’s not obnoxious about it, she knows she’s different but doesn’t judge other people for not being as smart as her

    • @pellaw8011
      @pellaw8011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Honestly I felt like Aster was kind of a NLOG girl

  • @silverplim
    @silverplim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    This movie is really a beautiful take on love triangles and platonic love. Most movies just can’t seem to do love triangles properly...
    Also a huge win for Asian wlw! Let’s go

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      we love to see asian wlw!!!

  • @ButterflyColors
    @ButterflyColors 4 ปีที่แล้ว +947

    Alternative title for this movie: Sappho and Bimbo

    • @meriem.j.3633
      @meriem.j.3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Y'all forgetting the latina 😟

    • @myriamanonya7142
      @myriamanonya7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@meriem.j.3633 who’s Latina ?

    • @meriem.j.3633
      @meriem.j.3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@myriamanonya7142 I don't remember her name, but the girl that the Sappho and Bimbo are both in love with :D

    • @myriamanonya7142
      @myriamanonya7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@meriem.j.3633 she's latina?

    • @madhatter4129
      @madhatter4129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Aster, people, ASTER💀

  • @lyannastarkweather
    @lyannastarkweather 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1196

    There's a small part of me that wants Ellie and Aster to reconnect a few years later, once Aster goes to art school and gets a personality.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +357

      i think ellie can do better than aster hehehe

    • @awesomeEVILbunny
      @awesomeEVILbunny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      OH SHIT SPILL THAT TEA, SIS

    • @reesekosinski124
      @reesekosinski124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      I just want the sequel to be called The Rest Of It

    • @sophiemontecalvo7503
      @sophiemontecalvo7503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I totally get that, but.... this was Ellie's movie, not a love story. It was about her coming to terms with herself and taking a "bold stroke." Would it be awesome to see the two of them years later? Definitely, but I feel like this movie ended perfectly. It's just open enough that you can assume Ellie and Aster would reconnect, and she and Paul would retain their friendship. The movie focused perfectly on both Ellie's friendship and romantic loves, but ultimately it was about her. We got that kiss, so I feel satisfied.

  • @pinkbalm975
    @pinkbalm975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +603

    The one dislike is the guy who looks like he’s from Riverdale.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      i forgot about him already

  • @jennynykonorova5254
    @jennynykonorova5254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    "if he runs after her TRAIN im gonna CRY"
    (2 seconds later, in tears"
    "...i knew it"
    cindy ur so full of heart i genuinely laughed im currently working on a boring ass assignment for school so im happy you make it just a bit more bearable

  • @Parabatai93
    @Parabatai93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    "Of course, is always the brunette girl reading a book in the corner, to make up for a lack of personality..." damn girl...did you have to come for me like that? 😟

  • @hershey4079
    @hershey4079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1392

    I could physically see your heart stop when he said "I like nazis"

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +294

      thats why i clutched my heart

  • @thatshadowgirl
    @thatshadowgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +862

    i kinda love how quickly paul worked through a lifetime of religious homophobia to support his bff like stan!!!!!

  • @Kamomilla
    @Kamomilla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    Moments I related to:
    "That's sooooo saphicccc"
    "He is like a dumb dog....."
    I really liked this movie. My sister didnt, but I think it's because she is young. I told her all of the three characters were lonely, and to me the whole thing about this movie is finding out you are not alone. Being seen and understood. It's not about romance or who will end up with who.

    • @ericacardoso2301
      @ericacardoso2301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessssss! Couldn't have said it any better

    • @Kirihere
      @Kirihere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't like it either :/ hmm

    • @rie03Tayaku
      @rie03Tayaku 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess the movie was too deep for your sissy to make sense of it

    • @Kirihere
      @Kirihere 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rie03Tayaku honestly, it can be difficult to understand at times for quite a few people. There aren't a lot of big drama plot points which a lot of people are used to.

    • @chelseaxoxo784
      @chelseaxoxo784 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rie03Tayaku hmmm. I didn't like it either but all these concepts are making me think

  • @kaylamorgan9094
    @kaylamorgan9094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    “You gotta take you reparations. Make your ancestors proud”. Cindy, as an African born black woman I have never heard anything truer

  • @LivinitBigTime
    @LivinitBigTime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    Okay, but I love how in the end, the real soulmates this movie ended up being about were Ellie and Paul, showing that platonic love is just as important as romantic.

  • @cattd00
    @cattd00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    Cindy doesn’t want us to know that she doesn’t actually have the emotional capacity of a frat boy.

  • @aurorabalkanis
    @aurorabalkanis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I really loved the last scene when Paul runs after Ellie's train, I thought it was a really nice reversal of the trope 😭 I feel like the message I took away from this movie is that a soulmate doesn't have to be someone you end up in a romantic relationship, it can also be your friends who love and accept you for who you are ❤️❤️

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      EXACTLY!!! UGHHHH IM CRYING

    • @bubbles4897
      @bubbles4897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aida Salaman girl....you’re making me cry I

    • @alxgeo
      @alxgeo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      really hope thats not gonna be my case except if its gonna be a frends with benefits type of friendship

  • @lauramartens30
    @lauramartens30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    *Cindy literally said "My secret is I'm an Asian Lesbian..."*
    She said it
    She can't deny it anymore
    SHE SAID IT

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      The foreshadowing was as clear and beautiful as any crystal thats ever formed

  • @myname1304s
    @myname1304s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    The fact that this is such a wholesome and emotional movie......and cindy still found a way to make dirty jokes 😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      i cant rest unless i make a dirty joke every 5 minutes

  • @rckrchica03
    @rckrchica03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +771

    "This is like when I entered Booktube, and I made all the whites mad." 😂 That line made me pause the video to bust out laughing!!!!! I freaking loved that! I wholeheartedly enjoy watching your videos for these moments. Subscribed!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @Sam-0827
      @Sam-0827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She’s just iconic

  • @punkartwantstew
    @punkartwantstew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    "Look at that himbo, he's such an idiot. But I love him" is one of the only positive things I can think about men in a good movie

  • @kalijohnston561
    @kalijohnston561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    you sobbing while calling paul a stupid himbo was my EXACT experience watching this movie

  • @avahogan8683
    @avahogan8683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    “u mean u failed the bechdel test everytime? that’s a reflection on YOU” made me laugh SO HARD FOR SO LONG

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      its not THAT hard to not talk about boys

  • @ea7109
    @ea7109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    He was just soo innocent. I love how he supported her. The scene where he ran after the car of teens who disrespected her and when he gave her the guitar😍 . Had my hand on my heart for a majority of the movie🥰🥰

  • @vellichor
    @vellichor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +636

    I'm crying with laughter over all your himbo jokes, hE'S MY EMOTIONAL SUPPORT CHARACTER OKAY

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      i joke on him cuz i love him

  • @lavenderwisteria6826
    @lavenderwisteria6826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    6:07 is he really a himbo if he actually uses the correct version of 'too/to'???

  • @DoraG99
    @DoraG99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    My favourite part of this vid is the subtitles cause 90% are right but then you get ‘Jewish trees’ and ‘Pastor no’ lmfao

    • @DoraG99
      @DoraG99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      'when chrome horse was a jin troll' wow the subtitles can speak mandarin too!!1!!!

    • @lovelykitty42
      @lovelykitty42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      and i don’t think it’s auto generated which makes it even better

  • @elisegranato8689
    @elisegranato8689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    “I’m pretty sure he’s never read a book in his life.” Maybe reading a book will at least give him some semblance of a personality

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      how dare u, only i can insult him

  • @ppgbubbles28
    @ppgbubbles28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I like how we all collectively bullied paul at the start and in the end, it turned into no one can bully paul but ellie AND us

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      YES!! precisely

  • @peepmam
    @peepmam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    "OMG HE'S LEARNING HIS ABCs! we love character development" IM DEAD

  • @olana997
    @olana997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    I came out two days after I watched this movie. There was something about it that compelled me to want to be more of me openly, and it made me finally bite the bullet. Seeing a TH-camr I love to watch, watching/crying to a movie I loved so throughly that it drop kicked me out of the closet was amazing. Thank you for your kindness, wit, and absurdity.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      awww im proud of you!!!!

  • @gabgonzales4570
    @gabgonzales4570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    "This is reverse colonialism, you gotta make your ancestors proud."
    That's my new life mantra right there

  • @readingrosie2184
    @readingrosie2184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    "you think a guy asks? you think a guy asks for consent?" damn too real

  • @IreensBeans
    @IreensBeans 4 ปีที่แล้ว +535

    "If she's straight don't worry. Wait till she graduates art school" AS AN ART STUDENT I AM SCREAMING LMFAOOOO Okay still waiting to become lesbian but I have two more years

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      ill wait for u

    • @Andi-mk7ud
      @Andi-mk7ud 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Praying for ur journey

    • @musicalnerds101
      @musicalnerds101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You can do it just stick with it!

  • @nyxldx
    @nyxldx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    When he was running after her while she was on the train. I truly saw a golden retriever instead

  • @coRynnstar
    @coRynnstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Cindy crying "he's so dumb" with pity and fondness is a mood i feel OFTEN

  • @shoshaaja9312
    @shoshaaja9312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    "if she straight don't worry wait till she graduate art school then we got her"

  • @sarahnipper1013
    @sarahnipper1013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Cindy commenting on the movie while waving around her fork and eating cantaloupe is a whole mood

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      im gonna eat more cantaloupe today

    • @sarahnipper1013
      @sarahnipper1013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      readwithcindy you eat that cantaloupe, Cindy you eat that cantaloupe

  • @soulvasseur7138
    @soulvasseur7138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I have a crush on all three main characters, but mostly Paul. When he's being all dumb and adorable on screen, I'm just like "damn it not again, I am NOT turning MORONSEXUAL for this FICTIONAL STRAIGHT BOY."

    • @Vivian2043
      @Vivian2043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks to your comment now I have the urge to get a tattoo with the phrase "I am NOT turning MORONSEXUAL for this FICTIONAL STRAIGHT BOY" and I swore I would never get any words tattooed on me.

    • @Vivian2043
      @Vivian2043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Screw it. One day in the future, I'm getting a T-shirt with that sentence. It's just so freaking relatable.

  • @enyaroberts4988
    @enyaroberts4988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    Cindy sobbing "he's so dumb" with tears falling down her face is honestly a solid mood.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      the bigger he smiled the more i cried

    • @cryingthrowingup4256
      @cryingthrowingup4256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      readwithcindy HIS SMILE WAS SO DUMB

  • @Mel-mu1hk
    @Mel-mu1hk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    When you said "your lesbian is showing" that felt like a direct attack at me and my thirsting after Leah Lewis after watching this film and immediately following her on instagram

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Leah is a queen!!

  • @noahmurphygordon1928
    @noahmurphygordon1928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    Taco sausage is the bi representation we all crave

    • @stutid582
      @stutid582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Noooooooo omg 😂😂😂😂

  • @Loulydollx3
    @Loulydollx3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Me too girl me too. That s the best screenplay for a coming out of age movie out there

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I hope more coming of age movies will follow this!

  • @rs5075
    @rs5075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    NGL, the teacher was literally my spirit animal. Like, she alone stands on the precipice between a sassy queen and supportive queen and we love to see it.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      She looked like a Karen but she was one of the good ones

  • @brilliantlyizzy725
    @brilliantlyizzy725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    I'm going to play devils advocate and say that I loved how they handled Paul needing time to accept changing his perception of Elly. He was raised in a small town with certain ideals which he had not had to challenge until he met Elly. To expect any 17 year old to suddenly jump without questioning or needing a minute to reflect is unrealistic. He's shown the whole movie that he is caring and accepts Elly for who she is and we know he will figure out. He's a product of his environment, people need time to adjust to new ideas and beliefs and its should be okay to hold space while you figure it out. I think they portrayed a healthy idea of changing beliefs and coming into acceptance. People have their own journeys towards changing a belief system or coming to acceptance and so long as they get there without hurting anyone it should be allowed! It was one of my favourite things about the movie.

    • @sugassugar8036
      @sugassugar8036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you for this! I somewhere related to Paul with the whole homophobic environment ish. I grew up in one, and I remember being 13 and finding out what it means to be gay and my first thought was it must be so "wrong". Thank god! I researched and figured out - it took time. That's why I loved how realistic that part was.

    • @BritneyT.
      @BritneyT. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!

  • @clarytaylor8582
    @clarytaylor8582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    “what if a student doesn’t have a talent” okay excuse you cindy i personally think having a panic attack onstage for 15 minutes is talent enough

  • @alyssainlow9135
    @alyssainlow9135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    “speaking of five strokes, ellie chu’s about to show you them” IM SCREAMING FFS CINDY 😭😂

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      HEHEHEHE GO ELLIE

  • @crystalnguyen7087
    @crystalnguyen7087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I did not know this was called “The Half of It” so I thought you were watching only half of the movie lmao.

  • @Babisaur_
    @Babisaur_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    The Love Language of Asians and Latinxs: "Eat something!"

    • @angelkrystal1495
      @angelkrystal1495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For real!

    • @dylang8980
      @dylang8980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      And Italians! God the Nonna's never stop........

    • @Babisaur_
      @Babisaur_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dylang8980 of course! Can't forget about the nonnas!

    • @alexvilla1443
      @alexvilla1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup 🤦‍♀️✨

  • @reaper95656
    @reaper95656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    Me when I see a romance movie:...
    Me when I see a movie that focuses on friendship:Thats😚 the 💓good 👌shit🔥 right✔ there💥.

  • @awesomeEVILbunny
    @awesomeEVILbunny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    Did anyone else get annoyed that most of Aster’s acting was: “O-oh.. *mouth twitch, eyebrow twitch, hair tuck*”

    • @vsboardza
      @vsboardza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Bella Stewart .2

    • @gracegardner9409
      @gracegardner9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@vsboardza but *gay* bella stewart...

  • @tia3509
    @tia3509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Alternative name: making fun of himbo for 29 minutes straight 😂

  • @starryskies9655
    @starryskies9655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    Cindy, when the Himbo starts running next to the train: “Watch how hard I can cry, HUUUUUU”

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      HES SO DUMB SOBSSSS