My Relationship with Water After Nearly Drowning | Cole and Charisma
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ม.ค. 2025
- This is an Official Cole & Charisma Video Of: My Relationship with Water After Nearly Drowning | Cole and Charisma
Subscribe: bit.ly/sub_CC | Cameo: www.cameo.com/...
Follow Us on Social Media:
Our Instagram: / roll.with.cole
Cole's Instagram: / colesyd
Charisma's Instagram: / happilycharisma
Our TikTok: / coleandcharisma
Watch the NEWEST videos:
• Binge from the start |...
Follow our House project!
www.patreon.co...
Shop for Adaptive Tools: amazon.com/sho...
Our camera equipment: www.amazon.com...
PO Box:
Cole & Charisma
PO Box 28616
Henrico, VA 23228
Watch more Cole & Charisma:
Adventure Vlogs: • Adventure Vlogs! | Rol...
Travel Vlogs: • Travel Vlogs | Roll wi...
How-To/Educational: • How-to/Educational | R...
Newest Videos: • Binge from the start |...
Most Popular: • Popular Videos | Roll ...
About Cole & Charisma:
Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma TH-cam channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!
tbh Cole really had /has the perfect parents for this to happen to him, they dont seem to be too overprotective and not letting him do the things he can do and that has really led him to be the awesome person he is today. other parents might have panicked and not let him leave the house but yours did it right!
also Charismas parents are super cool as well i just love seeing you guys and with your family as well its so awesome to not see in-laws fighting and stuff you guys really lucked out in the parent and families departments!
His whole family, plus he's still very close friends with the guys he was with when he had his accident.
Omg your mom jumping in the pool to comfort u 😭 that is so sweet what a babe
Kelly is simply awesome on so many levels. Such a selfless and loving mother. And Quint is the best big brother ever; so worried that Cole was in danger. What a lovely family!
Mamma love,there's nothing like that kind of love
There’s a video where they go back to his rehab facility and they talk about that day. You should check it out if you haven’t it was touching.
🤣
Ahh, never thought about the PTSD that could have possibly come with the accident. I'm glad you and water are back to being friends now, Cole.
Charisma you ARE cool!😎
I’m so glad to hear that therapy was a part of your recovery. That is so, so necessary!
Charisma, don’t you just get lost in Cole’s beautiful blue eyes, when you’re facing him to talk? Seriously Cole , you have gorgeous blue eyes, I’m sure Charisma agrees. 🥰 You are a beautiful couple. Love your vlogs!
I do adore them. What a loving couple
You're the best, keep soaring!!
Mother's intuition is strong with Kelly
I totally would've jumped in fully clothed for my baby.
I love that you both try so many things in spite of fear or apprehension.
I love how Cole conquers his fear and lives his life to the fullest. Thank you for inspiring me to do the same ❤️
She reminds me of a lovely actress from way back in the day called Eartha Kitt.
She sure does! I didn’t even notice
Wow i see exactly what you mean, never noticed
Right! Eartha Kitt,With the pretty deep dimples
feel the love ❤ between this 2 beautiful person ( respect and taking care of each other )
Bad things happen in life, oftentimes if we hold on to fear, progress will never happen.
Happy you pushed beyond fear!
It is so heart warming to see how you're embracing life fully.
The difference between optimistic and pessimism is glaring! Stay positive
With a supportive & partner any challenge in life is manageable. But after a traumatic event there will be some level of fear. Every time you get in will be healing. 🥰 you guys are cute!
Listening to Quint get stressed made me cry, what ❤️ love he has for you Cole. Momma Kelly jumping into the pool , just WOW....
Yes, me too.
Kelly Momma deserves a friggin award. She's such an amazingly strong woman. I cry every time Cole tells a story about her or she is on this channel. I want to be a mom like her when I grow up! 🥰🥰
That is quite a breath listening to Cole's story about his rel'ship with the water after the accident. As if I felt how he feels about the water before and after the accident. And Charisma is such a sweet and supportive woman of Cole's life! 😍😙
You are my favorite couple now. I feel the joy with you two!!
Charisma you are a cool strong young woman .take care.
I just watched your SBSK video for the first time. After watching this one, I think I just fell in love with you both as a couple. I'm really happy that destiny brought ya together, the kind of relationship most wish for in their lives. Anyway, what beautiful people you are. "And your little dog, too!" Peace. 🤗 💜
Cole is so adventurous and fearless he has a wife that loves him unconditionally and so supportive
I get goose bumps whenever I get notification when you guys posted. Love you guys C&C Squad
I love hearing and seeing how you interact as enjoying your lives. You posts lifts me up!!!!
water is powerful and dangerous for sure...and having a tragic life changing accident involving water must add to the level of awareness ..good to see you still enjoying water....and having it in your life...
I'm a straight woman, but DAMN, Charisma is GORGEOUS!
She's beautiful inside and out!
Ikr, her face features are so perfect that skin that body, the goddess hair.. i wanna look like that 😭❤️
@@palea6436 yessss me too!
God’s making! She is adorable beautiful!
Imma lesbian and i completely agree she is 😍
Y'all are a great couple. And you ARE cool Charisma.
Omg, when Cole talks about his mom getting in the pool to comfort him, with all her clothes on... I started crying!!!
Hey Cole and Charisma, good content, I wondered how Cole reacted to getting back in the water. Cole does not show any fear of the water. Wow, what a pleasant life that you two have together. Your love and happiness shows in each video, makes me feel good about life to see you both so happy and positive. Thank you.
Where there's a will there's a way, that seems to be this Couple Motto 🙏♥️🙏♥️🎉🇬🇾
I just love the way you don't let your handicap stop you from enjoying the things you like to do, God bless the both of you!
Glad your counselor worked with you on your justified fear. Watching your channel educates me on working with clients who may have the same fear. Thank you , both and God bless you .
Beautiful wife beautiful couple🌹Blessings fr above
Be safe Cole as you swim and do all the activities in the water.
Cole you’re emotional stability is SO inspiring! Love you both!
MAY GOD BLESSINGS,COURAGE AND STRENGTH CONTINUE TO BE WITH YOU BOTH ALWAYS 🙂💖🙏🙏🙏
Awww, baby Cole so sweet! ❤️
Moms know before hand somehow. My mom told me twice to change my shoes from flipflops into sneakers before i left my house the day of my accident. She told me “be careful you should have better shoes on. You will get hurt” anddddd i ignored her to wear my pretty flip flops. Ive had a couple other people whose mothers predicted something going wrong with their child before it did. I think they have a power!
Hey Cole I suffered a spinal cord injury and was paralyzed from the waist down for about a year. I do hope and pray that you will be able walk again. And Charisma you are very kool and sweet inside and out.
You are such a perfect couple. Charisma is an amazing woman, and Cole has inspirational internal strength. Colour means NOTHING!! You're both human, part of the human race. You're both awesome and inspirational!
So proud n happy that you Cole don't let anything hold you back. You give your all at everything you try n do. You face your fears head on n overcome them n not let them deter you. Your passion to continue living your life to the fullest n do everything your heart desires is so powerful! Keep shining n don't ever hold back and last but not least...STAY POSITIVE!!
I love how much this man love this woman 💝💝💝
You guys are so fun to watch! I totally take it seriously when you say “stay positive” like you’re talking to me personally😂 (l’m so dorky😂) thanks for putting out such positive content and teaching me about the power of positivity!
You guys are such a cute couple. So obviously in love and in tune with each other. Beautiful to see.
I always admire people who suffer life changing injuries or illness and just find the strength to keep on living. They honestly motivate me in life and remind me to stop complaining.
Glad to see you both having fun and conquering your fears of the water...
You give the one who never get out hope in over coming their fears...Thank you Both so much.
So happy for a new video
So lucky to have your supportive family....Quint is a great brother...its a bro thing to think they have to be the one to protect...after all Quint has been through as Cole's brother I think he deserves a round of applause 👏
Love you guys....Stay Positive!!
I'm so happy to see you having fun and it's amazing after having a traumatic accident you're willing to conquer your fear🥰🙏I'm a gunshot wound survivor and I suffered PTSD afterwards my accident happened at age 16 and for years I couldn't stand to hear fireworks and after I started therapy years later I was finally able to conquer my fear and sit through it 🥰🙏God is awesome and with all the support you have and especially your beautiful wife you'll conquer much much more as year's go by❣️ Blessing's to you and your family 💕🙏
Cole is correct 🙂 even when he is wrong, I think of him as my friend, thank you charisma, so are you
What I receive out of watching your channel is how unconditional love should be thanks for your channel thanks for letting us in thanks for teaching us how to love one another in spite of the differences and the difficulties you are a light in a dark place and salt to the Earth may God continue to bless you too , to have life more abundantly. 💯🛐😇😇❤️
I honestly just love you guys telling stories and and explaining different things... Since I've been following yall I've learned so much about this type of injury and it's such a beautiful thing to know that they can still do activities even injured
Aww, thanks for sharing! Love hearing on how you guys are venturing out to conquer all!
You two are an amazing couple. I came across you by accident and am so glad I did. I live in your area and cannot wait to watch more of your adventures. Hugs to that sweet pup as well. ❤️
I really love how you guys balance each other out ❤️
Love when yall post makes my day love you guys #staypositive
Their “Hello” got me to smile and that isn’t easy! Thanks for making your story educate others while making them smile🙂❤️
Awww Cole your brother is your keeper ❤ that really stressed him out seeing you like that. That's a beautiful bond when you're sibling will do anything to make sure you're ok 🥰
Cole you are so amazing. You deserve a awesome love like Charisma. I enjoy watching you both and I learn so much.
I learn a lot from watching your videos. Thank you Cole and charisma.
I admire you two. Love seeing your journey
Lovely couple! Charisma is absolutely stunning and I can tell she has a kind and beautiful soul. Such a sweet smile and kind eyes 😍❤️
miss Kelly is MOM OF T HE YEAR in my book. A real WONDER WOMAN.
The lighting on that rooftop pool is soooo gorgeous! U two look stunning !💗💗💗
Love you guys!!
Really guys I don't know you in person but you became part of my family. I pray that God will always bless you guys
LOVE THISSS. I’m a full time life guard/ swim instructor and I’ve taught adults who are overcoming their fear of water. My boss has actually taught ppl who have had amputations and who are paralyzed to some degree/disabled in some way. Seeing that Cole has arm function I bet he could learn to use hand fins! Idk just an idea (: I love you guys! Have a good day 🌸🌸
Charisma, you are cool and awesome!!!! Blessings to you and Cole! Ya'll are so lovable! Thanks!!!
You guys are so interesting. I continue to learn so much. Thanks for continuing the education. Blessings for your upcoming projects.
You’re such a great couple blessings on your marriage 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸
Whoa, amazing and sooooo happy you are living your best life. Those volunteers are so wonderful and caring. You are surrounded by so much love!
Cole...your mom is the STUFF.!! Damn she was such a ROCK! You my man are truly blessed.
Hi guys hope yall are doing great God bless be safe..( love peace and positivity)
It’s not a question just a general statement about how great you both are, Charisma is always so happy and full of life and down to earth and Cole trying new things and “overcoming” the fear of water is amazing. A truly powerful and captivating couple.
Awwww I love you both. Charisma is not only stunningly beautiful,but also a beautiful person & Cole is soooo handsome & also a beautiful person. A match made in heaven xx
Is it possible to interview your friend that rescued you?Or would it be to hard on him
Sometime it's not to relieve the moment, it can be a strong mental pain. Going forward and looking back makes a difference.
I would be terrified of water if I couldn’t move in it! With it without a water injury. Very brave of you getting out there. Y’all are the cutest!!
You mum😭😭ooh my😭😭you are really blessed with a good family who got you and cheer you up.And now your other half she is wonderful woman
Cole- Do you still talk to or have a relationship with your friend that jumped in and saved you?
Always lovely… the sparks between you two are still there after 2 years. Maybe even more so.
Keep living, loving and swimming. Love you guys.
I’m a new viewer & I love both of u. I’m praying that Cole will walk one of these days. He is so very lovely. What a great wife u r, so strong & lovely. I wish u both all the very very best
Love you both!! So curious why anyone would thumbs down this lovely couple’s sweet video. Makes no sense to me. Excited for more adventures with y’all 👍
Trolls will be trolls. It's quite sad how some people are so miserable they have to smear a little of it around.
There are a lot of miserable people out there, ( some of them racist..), who hate to see others get on with their lives. Those are the ones giving the thumbs down
You’re both so cool. Missed seeing you guys.
Excited to see a new video! Can’t wait to see all the Disney videos and see Cole enjoy all the rides. 😊
Just found you guys minutes ago and had to subscribe!! You both are so genuine
Welcome to the fam! You know you're going to have to binge watch all their past vlogs now, right? Lol
Welcome!! ❤️
I soooo love you both. You go guys...Hope you will get the chance to visit Jamaica one of these days...stay blessed.
We have to do more awareness of disabilities in Jamaica...is there even something like the ADA? there's many places that don't make proper provision for ppl in wheelchairs. Even for ppl that may have difficulty walking.....eg professional buildings without elevators or ramps.. or people not properly trained to do transfers or if you can even provide a taxi that can accommodate a wheelchair... I have an elderly aunt that is now housebound here but enjoyed freedoms when she lived in the US. Maybe Cole can agitate for it for us...😉👍🏼
My ex-husband is from Maine. When he was 8 months old, his mom went with friends to the water and everyone was playing “chicken” when you sit on someone’s shoulders and try to push each other off. His mom dived into shallow water and broke her neck. This was in 1963, so her neck wasn’t protected too well on the ride to the hospital. She became a quadriplegic. A split second decision changed her life and that of the family’s. Like Cole, it was just a tragic mistake. I’m glad Cole wasn’t hurt any worse than he was and can live his life to the fullest and be happy with Charisma. They are an inspirational couple!!
I hope you’ll try white water rafting. We have a program in Canada that allows para and quads to enjoy rafting with experienced paddlers running the raft for you. It’s unlike anything I’ve ever experienced and have done it a couple of times. Well worth the expense and a ton of fun!
Many blessing be safe and happy 💘
Love you guys!!! Glad that Cole still is able to enjoy the water especially with his Beautiful wife Charisma!!❤❤❤❤❤ You guys are so Inspirational!! Love your videos!!!
I have a spinal injury - I broke T1 through T4 but thankfully my spinal cord wasn’t affected. I did it watching a band, a guy jumped off the stage and lansddd on the back of my neck. It happened 10 years ago and I still deal with the effects of it every single day. But I haven’t dealt with my fear of live music at all - i have just avoided it and really think I should confront it eventually but I’ll wait till after COVID. But Cole you’ve inspired me to try and face that fear!
Charisma, you’re an absolute queen and so beautiful. I can’t wait to see you become a mum!
You two are such a sweet couple! Love your videos!
Such a sweet and lovely couple. C & C rock all day everday
Charisma is drop dead GORGEOUS 👌
You are so brave you guys are beautiful together get as much help as possible so caregiving don't impact your relationship
Stay positive, love you guys👍🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Every time you post I RUN to watch. I love y’all🥰🥺💜
Go Warriors. Loved this video. I love, love, love, love, the water. I'm self taught. My introduction to the water was my boy cousin pushed me into the deep in (12 feet). I had to either sink or swim. I chose to swim. Now I am an excellent swimmer. Charisma you'll get better. You two are doing it, making water your friend. Staaaaay positive.
I understand I suffer with Covid anxiety after being hospitalized with it. Every time I go out and see people not wearing masks and social distancing I have a panic attack.
I always learn something new or have something verified when I watch your videos. I too have a fear of water not because of my injuries, but because my oldest brother thought it was great fun to torture his younger siblings. When our parents left us alone with him we had to stay away from him and not pester him. There are 5 younger children that are younger than him and our eldest sister was in college, so unless they got a paid babysitter we would be stuck with him. From the age of 6 or 7 he had blamed baby #5 for baby #3 getting sick with AML and dying 7 months later. Ned had just been born and he and Mom when our parents received the results from blood work and other tests on our brother Ricky who was Harry’s best buddy. Unfortunately they didn’t offer counseling or ways of dealing with grief or how to explain things to the other siblings. Because of this Harry hated Ned and would constantly make things miserable for him and the rest of us, but Ned was the prime target. We were playing in the neighborhood pool and Harry decided that it would be great fun to dunk us and not let us up to breathe. He had done this many times always behind our parents back so he wouldn’t get caught. Fortunately a neighbor saw what he was doing and reported it to our parents. He got in huge trouble which meant that the next time he was left in charge the consequences would be much worse even though we hadn’t said or done anything about him. So I can’t handle things on my head or face, claustrophobia, and not being able to get up out of water and anything dealing with the lack of oxygen.
Cole I was wondering if you have experienced not being able to regulate your body temperature or become hyper sensitive to changes in temperature and not being able to adapt to the changes since your accident?
OK you guys are so adorable it actually started making me laugh when you asked charisma had she get to be so cool and your little smirk on your face made me start laughing