Koj cov lus kawg hais tau zoo thiab yog heev lawm.... short simple n directly to where it should, it is a true wise words fr a very wise person. You own nothing to anyone, God bless!
What a heartbreaking story. So proud of you! You definitely set the bar and led by an example! I love your perseverance and success! Also I support the decision you made as well... some bridges are meant to be burned!!!!
Your story is so sad but you should be super proud of yourself. You survived the hardest time of your life without help from anyone. You do not owe anyone anything. I'm so proud of you young man.
Hmong people are like that, when you become successful they want to acknowledge you and want to be a part of ur life but when you are struggling and needs help they don’t bother, I’m happy for you brother, you over came all obstacle that came into your ways and succeeded with out the help from anyone, I would not go back and stay away from ur uncles, your a strong person and may god continue to bless you……..
Thank you so much for sharing your story. My heart quivered in agony. I admire you so much and wish that I could've hugged you as a child and a growing child. I had a very loving and fulfilling childhood so I can't begin to imagine the kind of heartache you've had to endure. May your Mom rest in peace and may your life be greeted with nothing but happiness and peace
zaj neej neeg ntawm tus me nus ntawv ces txaus tu siab tshaj plaws li lawm os thaum koj tseem me ces tag kwv tag tij tag neej tag tsav tsis xav yuav tsis xav tau koj kiag li koj nrog leej twg nyob los cuag li koj tsis yog lawv nkauj lawv muam yug li cuag li koj yog ib tug yeeb ncuab rau lawv xwb ces nim no koj twb peem2 tsheej neeg muaj kev txawj kev ntse koj khwv tau noj tau haus koj lub neej zoo lawm lawv mam ua tus paub2 koj los tsis txhob quav ntsej li lawm mog me nus aw lub neej no ces txoj kev ua ntsoj ua ntsuag ces yeej zoo li no mog yeej raug luag ntxub raug luag tsim txaus nkaus lawm koj thiaj peem2 tsheej neeg lawm nco ntsoov tej kev luag tsim koj ua koj lub neej kom zoo xwb txhob cia koj tej me nyuam rau luag tsim li lawv tsim koj xwb ces yeej zoo lawm os thaum ub lawv hlub koj li cas ces nim no koj tsuas hlub lawv li thaum ub lawv hlub koj xwb mog koj yeej tsis tshuav leej twg nuj nqis lawm os txoj kev koj tsim txiaj ces yog koj peem koj tus kheej xwb yeej tsis muaj ib tug kwv tug tij los yog ib tug dab luag niam dab luag yuav pab koj txhawb koj li ib puas tsav yam yog koj peem koj xwb qhov koj yuav ua tsaug ces ua koj niam thiab lub ntuj tsaug qhov koj niam tuag lawm los tseem tshuav tus me ntsuj me plig saib ntsoov koj txhawb kom koj peem ua ib tug neeg zoo neeg tsim txiaj xwb os mog
Children should not be held accountable for their parents sin. It’s not right. They are just children. My heart goes out to this child. I’m so glad that you became someone successful with no help from anyone. I applaud you for all the decisions you made. Live your own life and be happy. Let no one take that away from you. Do not ever feel guilty about any of your decisions. God be with you, brother.
Yog kuv los kuv yeeg tsi nrov qab li nwg thiab thaus yu txog nyem lawm twv tsi xav yuav yu tshaj no yu zoo lawm ces lawv xav tau yu muas siv xwv tsi txob mu zoo tshaj lawm
Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry abt the loss of your mother and father going to jail. I just wanna give you hug! 😔 am happy for you and the decisions you made. Most importantly, God bless gma for being there. Your gma is an angel.
koj zam dab neeg zoo heev li thiab tu siab tiag2 li es thov kom koj ua lub neej kaj siab mus lawm xwb mog me tub aws nrog koj zoo siab tias koj kawm tiab Dr. lawm thiab nawb mog
I’ll be using this story as motivation. Thank you for being brave and sharing with us. You are worth more than what you feel you are. Despite all your struggles and not being loved from family you preserved.
koj hais yog kawg os me brother. thaum yus txom nyem lawv tsis hlub yus. thaum yus twb ua neej zoo lawv mam lees yus ces no you don't need them in your life.
So glad u never gave up and continued with your education. You are where u are today because of you no one else can take that credit. Don't look back and don't let the past keep u from going forward. You have a supportive wife and children to enjoy your success with. Best luck to u and your bright future.
Kev rau luag ntxub thib tsim ces yog leej twg tsis tau ntsib ces zoo li dag xwb tab si yog leej twg ntsib lawm ces tsis tham los yeej nkag siab zoo ... zoo siab rau koj os tus nus ua qhov koj kuj tau lub neej zoo lawm os. Yog yus tsis zoo ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg lees yus . Ua tsaug koj tseem muab koj zab dab neeg qhia rau peb cov ua muaj lub neej raug luag ntxub nmoog thiab ua kev txhawb siab rau peb txua tus ua tsaug nawb.
Nrog koj tu siab kawg li os tus me tub aw...leej twg hlub yus li cas ces yus tsuas hlub lawv li ntawv xwb thiab nawb. Peb cov hmoob muaj lub siab phem2 xyov hnub twg thiaj li yuav hloov tau li os....qhov tseeb yog qhov tseeb ua tsis tau cuav.
I'm so proud of you brother. It break my heart when listening to your story. You did the right thing. You already sevive without anyone love and help since you were a child. So now you no need those people.
Brother, your life is inspirational for many of us. Your uncles on both side of the families are old people who are blind like many Hmong people and eat quav nyuaj laus xwb. God has given you a gift, may you and your family be safe.
Zoo siab qhov koj yeej koj txoj kev txom nyem lawm tabsi hnov koj zaj neej neeg mas zoo li koj tseem chim heev. As educated as you are, you should know that the only person to blame is your father.
🥲🥲😭😭This is such a very sad story! It broke my heart listening to it. I’m very happy that this brother now has a good life, all because he never gave up on himself, and believed in himself when he had no one. Children should never ever have to pay for their parent’s mistakes. I’m so happy you have a great life now! May God continue to watch over you and your family and continue to bless you and your family os tus nus.
Koj lub neej tu siab ua luaj li os tus brother aws zoo kawg tias koj muab koj lub neej los piav rau peb sawv daws tau mloog thiab hnub no koj txiv los yuav tau mloog koj zaj neej neeg tu siab txom nyem. Hnub no los koj cov dablaug thiab koj cov kwv tij yuav paub qhov tseeb ntawd txoj kev lawv tsim txom thiab tsis hlub koj.
This is Hmong culture at its cruelest level. Orphans are viewed as less than human in our culture even if they are our own family members. Abused, neglected, and taken advantage by your own family. Very sad indeed. So glad, you made your life better so that you challenged the view our culture have on orphans. I don’t blame you for how you feel about your family.
It was so wrong of all your relatives to place the burden of guilt of your father's crime on you. Shame on all of them for treating you so badly, and they now want you in their lives once you became a success in life just so they can now use you--shameful, absolutely shameful of them. You don't owe any of them anything, don't ever let them talk you into giving in because they don't really care about you, they just want to use you. Everything you earned (education and job) you earned on your own through hard work and perseverance. It's despicable that your father tried to guilt trip you into accepting him back into your life when he's the one that killed your mother because he didn't love her. Stay strong and support only those who supported you during your darkest hours.
I'm so sorry for everything you had to go through. I swear Hmong people are the cruelest and that's why they don't have a land of thier own. I can't believe this happened here in the USA. I hope your uncles and Aunt get KARMA back. I'm proud and happy you made a commitment to pursue your goals and dreams and never gave up. Remember to love yourself, your life and everything you have. DOn't even bother to give in to other people just they looked down on you. Always remember you deserve to be loved and deserve every right just as much as any other.
Thats a very immature thought process to generalize an entire group of people because of some bad apples. Thats like saying, "she's dumb" so hmong women deserves to beat treated like dumbasses.
Your story made me 😭😭😭😭😭 how can anyone turn their back on their orphaned nephew/grandkid. It is absolutely inexcusable! Absurd! What terrible people your relatives are. Your tais was truly a hero. I’m so proud of you for not letting those people who mistreated you get in the way of your education. Love yourself and love your wife. Forget everyone else. They only want you now for benefits. Your maternal uncles, they are ashamed and hopefully trying to redeem themselves, but your paternal family, forget about them. They basically threw you to the wolves in fear of your tais’s curse. Of course she would curse them! Their person killed her daughter in cold blood. Now that he has no place to die he wants to claim you as his son! How shameless and thick face. All those years in prison didn’t teach him any lesson. He still thinks you owe it to him for conceiving you.
Dang tu diab tshuaj plaws li os, me nus aw pob Zeb tsis nia hau ob mog, yeej yog li koj hais leej twg Hlub koj li cas ces koj tsuas hlub lawv li ntaw rov qab xwb os mog koj txiv los tsis tas Hlub li os twb tim koj txiv es koj niam thiaj li tuag tso loj tseg. Pab koj tu siab os mog
I don't get how they can be so cruel to you? You were only a kid!!! So proud of the Man you've become...Stand tall and live a proud life. You've worked hard & all the Credit goes out to you, brother!
That is true if the uncle decided to help you got marry you would not finished your Doctor degree, you would have many children and work harder in the restaurant until these days.
Koj ua yog lawm os pab txhawb Koj vim Koj very smart guy made the right decisions about koj cov txiv ntawm lawv xav kom Koj los hlub Koj txiv es lwm hnub Koj los Koj txiv xwb nawb Koj txiv tsis tsim nyog tau kev hlub ntawm koj ib lub nyiaj liab li lawm os , yog Koj tseem hlub thiab pab los Koj txiv ces tshe Koj niam tus ntsuj plig yuav los 2 kua muag 😭
Brother bless your soul. This is probably the saddest story I have heard to date in 2022. Not only are you humble but wise. I'm glad you stood your ground and you didn't let anyone try to take credit for your hard earned success. Continue to hold those that truly love you near you and distance those that see your success as their opportunity to be relevant. Although my story is different than yours mine is similar in that mistreatment only makes a conscious person work harder to make it in life owing to no one. Let go of the pass and live life how you want it for you and your family. I'm pretty sure your mom is with you always in spirit and proud of you. Hats off to you brother.
I feel you. I feel really sorry for your loss. your life is so sad. I cry listening to it. What you doing right now is 100000000 000000% right. paub tib txha ti plawv tag hlub tus lawv hlub yus xwb tus dag tus ntxias txhob care yog lawv pom yus neej zoo muaj nyiaj lawv xav siv yus xwb.
Thats so sad...if I knew you back then I would've helped you. May god bless you with a wonderful and happy future. Your so called dads family does not deserve you. And Im glad that you see that too. Love yourself first before anyone else. Always remember that!
Me tub aw, ua tsaug rau Vajtswv coj tau koj tuaj rau teb chaw no es Asmekas hlub2 cov me nyuam ntsuag es koj thiaj kawm tau koj daim DR Degree o. Yeej yog koj rau2 siab es koj thiaj kawm tau thiab tab si Asmekas tej kev hlub es tej menyuam ntsuag thiaj peem tseej neeg os me tub aw. Koj tsis hais rau koj cov nai khu es lawv muaj koj rau Amekas tu ces koj twb tsis txom nyem li ko thiab o.
Your story has a lot of anger and resentment. You may think you will not need any of those people in your life, because you made it on your own, but remember you can’t scratch your own back without help. There’s a saying we are like bamboo, the taller it grows, the more it bends. So be humble.
txiv neej yeej ua txhua yam kom txiv neej yeej xwb . txiv neej twb ua txhaum thiab ua phem npaum twg los txiv yeej ua txhua yam kom txiv neej yeej. tsis kam yuav swb li yom.
Koj ua yog lawm os me tub tus neeg hlub koj ces yog koj niam thiab koj niam taislaus lawm xwb os hlub koj tus niam tsev es koj thiaj tsheej ib yig neej xwb os
Kv ho hais rau tus phooj ywg npawg kj zaj neej neeg no tu siab kg li os kj cov ntsiab lus tu siab yog li kj hais yeej txaus tu siab dhau Lm kj niam cov dab Laug lo yeej xoos ntxiv nyiaj rau lv kg kj 2 tug txiv ntxawm tuaj hais tos kj lo yeej tsim nyog hais li kj hais kg yeej tsim tsim nyog mus li thiab os tab yog kv lo kv g mus thiab os ua tsaug kj zaj Lus tso tawm nrog huab cua ntawm niam ntsuab teev tuaj peb mloog nawb ua tsaug os ?
What a sad story! Brother you don’t owe anyone anything especially your uncles. Live your life and be happy on your accomplishment your mother is watching your and sending you blessings.
Ua ca tu siab ua luaj li os. Zoo siab vim tias Now You are a Man, Everything you want is in your hands. PLEASE dont let them control and torture anymore. MOVE away as far as u can!
I m so proud of you for being strong and made this far. Your story has touched many of us.. My story is similar to yours as well. Yours mom is watching over you at all times.
Li cas lo kav liam koj yua tau mus coj koj txiv lo lhub nawb koj lub neej thiaj yua kaj siab lug lawm yav tom ntej no, muaj yus es thiaj muaj tes xwm tsheej zoo li no os.
Koj zaj dab neeg no zoo kawg rau sawv daws kawm thaum tub ntsuag ntxhais ntsuag txom nyem txhua leej txhua Tus cem thaum yus tsim txiaj ces txhua leej txhua Tus xam nqi zias xwb peb ua neeg nyob sawv dawsyeej muaj siab muaj ntsws ib yam yog koj cog paj ces koj yeej yuav tau sau paj hos koj cog pos ces yeej yuav tau sau pos xwb sawv daws yeej paub zoo tias zeb tsis nias hau muaj ib hnub luag yeej txawj loj es vim li cas tsam no luag txawj luag ntse no ho ua txuj tiaspeb pab2 koj luag nrog koj nyob los luag twb muaj luag ib kuab nyiaj los yuav mov thiab me nyuam ntsuag nyob teb chaws no nom tswv yeej pab me nyuam ntsuag nyiaj los yuav zaub yuav mov thiab
As a real Christ follower who love Jesus with all their heart must forgiveness it hurts but it will heal to be free from unforgiven let Jesus be your joy don't let unforgiven feelings overcome your good heart. . Forgive my brother for saying but I feel all your pain but we must forgive okay...Amen
Zoo heev koj mus tau txoj zoo rau koj lawm, koj niam cov neej tsa ces coj li koj coj rau lawv los yeej yog lawm tab sis koj Tseem coj tsis tau yog rau koj cov kwv tij. Txawm koj txiv tsis yog neeg zoo los Tej kwv tij Tseem hu koj tsis yog tias koj Kawm tiav doctor lawv ntshaw nthsaw koj los Pab lawv no, Kuv xav tias lawv hu koj vim lawv xav qhov zoo Tsam koj ho ntsaw kwv tij xwb. Rooj teb no ces Txawm leej twg yuav Kawm tas doctor los tsuas yog Ib txoj kev khwv noj xwb yeej yuav Pab tsis tau lwm tus yog yus tsis muaj lub siab Pab luag.
I’m glad you stand up for yourself and not take them back. They have no right to asked you back when you don’t need them anymore. They weren’t there for you when you needed them to love and support you the most. Do what is good for you.
Yeej yog koj li hais ,leej twg hlub li cas ces yus tsuas nco ntsoov tus ntawd nruj nraim rau hauv yus lub hlwb thiab muaj yam zoo los thiaj li nco tias yuav hlub tus ntawd yuav pub tau dawb paug rau tus ntawd yam zoo Siab hlo tsis xav ntau yam.
Congratulations on your sucess. The life of being a orphan no one will understand til they walk on it. You are brave. This Hmong culture is to cruel. May you live healthy and long. God bless you.
Wow your story is sad. I am glad you found love from your wife and kids. Our Hmong people doesn't know how to love orphan children. You don't owe anyone anything. I am also happy that you are strong and didn't give in to your all your uncles and your dad. Orphans that are strong like you need to not give in to people like your aunts and uncles. This will teach some that they need to love Orphan children too. Never know what they can grow up to be in life.
Son, it is not your fault. Please use this experience as a motivation to educate yourself. You are the only person who you can control. Please remember that if you succeed, they will claim the credit. If you fail, they say it is your fault. Please ignore these BS. Your story brings tears into my eyes. Thanks for sharing!
Koj cov lus kawg hais tau zoo thiab yog heev lawm.... short simple n directly to where it should, it is a true wise words fr a very wise person. You own nothing to anyone, God bless!
What a heartbreaking story. So proud of you! You definitely set the bar and led by an example! I love your perseverance and success! Also I support the decision you made as well... some bridges are meant to be burned!!!!
Your story is so sad but you should be super proud of yourself. You survived the hardest time of your life without help from anyone. You do not owe anyone anything. I'm so proud of you young man.
Hmong people are like that, when you become successful they want to acknowledge you and want to be a part of ur life but when you are struggling and needs help they don’t bother, I’m happy for you brother, you over came all obstacle that came into your ways and succeeded with out the help from anyone, I would not go back and stay away from ur uncles, your a strong person and may god continue to bless you……..
Thank you so much for sharing your story. My heart quivered in agony. I admire you so much and wish that I could've hugged you as a child and a growing child. I had a very loving and fulfilling childhood so I can't begin to imagine the kind of heartache you've had to endure. May your Mom rest in peace and may your life be greeted with nothing but happiness and peace
zaj neej neeg ntawm tus me nus ntawv ces txaus tu siab tshaj plaws li lawm os thaum koj tseem me ces tag kwv tag tij tag neej tag tsav tsis xav yuav tsis xav tau koj kiag li koj nrog leej twg nyob los cuag li koj tsis yog lawv nkauj lawv muam yug li cuag li koj yog ib tug yeeb ncuab rau lawv xwb ces nim no koj twb peem2 tsheej neeg muaj kev txawj kev ntse koj khwv tau noj tau haus koj lub neej zoo lawm lawv mam ua tus paub2 koj los tsis txhob quav ntsej li lawm mog me nus aw lub neej no ces txoj kev ua ntsoj ua ntsuag ces yeej zoo li no mog yeej raug luag ntxub raug luag tsim txaus nkaus lawm koj thiaj peem2 tsheej neeg lawm nco ntsoov tej kev luag tsim koj ua koj lub neej kom zoo xwb txhob cia koj tej me nyuam rau luag tsim li lawv tsim koj xwb ces yeej zoo lawm os thaum ub lawv hlub koj li cas ces nim no koj tsuas hlub lawv li thaum ub lawv hlub koj xwb mog koj yeej tsis tshuav leej twg nuj nqis lawm os txoj kev koj tsim txiaj ces yog koj peem koj tus kheej xwb yeej tsis muaj ib tug kwv tug tij los yog ib tug dab luag niam dab luag yuav pab koj txhawb koj li ib puas tsav yam yog koj peem koj xwb qhov koj yuav ua tsaug ces ua koj niam thiab lub ntuj tsaug qhov koj niam tuag lawm los tseem tshuav tus me ntsuj me plig saib ntsoov koj txhawb kom koj peem ua ib tug neeg zoo neeg tsim txiaj xwb os mog
Koj zaj neej neeg tu siab dhau lawm thiab, ho zoo siab uas koj kawm ntawv tiav theem siab kawg kiag lawm. Xav ntsib koj thiab paub koj kawg li os.
Children should not be held accountable for their parents sin. It’s not right. They are just children. My heart goes out to this child. I’m so glad that you became someone successful with no help from anyone. I applaud you for all the decisions you made. Live your own life and be happy. Let no one take that away from you. Do not ever feel guilty about any of your decisions. God be with you, brother.
Yog kuv los kuv yeeg tsi nrov qab li nwg thiab thaus yu txog nyem lawm twv tsi xav yuav yu tshaj no yu zoo lawm ces lawv xav tau yu muas siv xwv tsi txob mu zoo tshaj lawm
Son your story was a tearing. You are now full grown n mature. Your childhood story would never be forgetting. I glad you are succeed.
Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry abt the loss of your mother and father going to jail. I just wanna give you hug! 😔 am happy for you and the decisions you made. Most importantly, God bless gma for being there. Your gma is an angel.
koj zam dab neeg zoo heev li thiab tu siab tiag2 li es thov kom koj ua lub neej kaj siab mus lawm xwb mog me tub aws nrog koj zoo siab tias koj kawm tiab Dr. lawm thiab nawb mog
I’ll be using this story as motivation. Thank you for being brave and sharing with us. You are worth more than what you feel you are. Despite all your struggles and not being loved from family you preserved.
koj hais yog kawg os me brother. thaum yus txom nyem lawv tsis hlub yus. thaum yus twb ua neej zoo lawv mam lees yus ces no you don't need them in your life.
So glad u never gave up and continued with your education. You are where u are today because of you no one else can take that credit. Don't look back and don't let the past keep u from going forward. You have a supportive wife and children to enjoy your success with. Best luck to u and your bright future.
Kev rau luag ntxub thib tsim ces yog leej twg tsis tau ntsib ces zoo li dag xwb tab si yog leej twg ntsib lawm ces tsis tham los yeej nkag siab zoo ... zoo siab rau koj os tus nus ua qhov koj kuj tau lub neej zoo lawm os. Yog yus tsis zoo ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg lees yus . Ua tsaug koj tseem muab koj zab dab neeg qhia rau peb cov ua muaj lub neej raug luag ntxub nmoog thiab ua kev txhawb siab rau peb txua tus ua tsaug nawb.
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Thanks for sharing.. this is a very touching sad story. I am glad you become successful. May God continue blessing you and protect you
Phauj ntsuab teev aw kj txoj neej neeg no tus siab tshaj os
Tu tu siab li os, tsis yog leej twg ces yuav tsis tau taub txog txoj kev tu siab no. Cheem tsis tau lub kua muag thaum mloog.
Nrog koj tu siab kawg li os tus me tub aw...leej twg hlub yus li cas ces yus tsuas hlub lawv li ntawv xwb thiab nawb. Peb cov hmoob muaj lub siab phem2 xyov hnub twg thiaj li yuav hloov tau li os....qhov tseeb yog qhov tseeb ua tsis tau cuav.
I'm so proud of you brother. It break my heart when listening to your story. You did the right thing. You already sevive without anyone love and help since you were a child. So now you no need those people.
Your story is sooo...sad 😢💔. I'm glad you never give up, you have a very good life today.
Brother, your life is inspirational for many of us. Your uncles on both side of the families are old people who are blind like many Hmong people and eat quav nyuaj laus xwb.
God has given you a gift, may you and your family be safe.
Peb Hmoob yeej zoo li os
Nyiam thiab hlub tus muaj nyiaj thiab neej zoo xwb
Pab hlub koj os txiv ntxawm
koj ua yog lawm os me tub ntsuag txhob mus thab koj cov kwv tij laug ua siab mus tshawj xwb yuav kaj koj siab dua nawb
สู้ๆนะค่ะพี่ชายฟังแล้วซึ้งใจมากเราเป็นม้งไทยค่ะเขียนภาษาม้งไม่ได้ คนดีเอาชนะทุกอย่างค่ะ
May God bless you abundantly and richly !
Zoo siab qhov koj yeej koj txoj kev txom nyem lawm tabsi hnov koj zaj neej neeg mas zoo li koj tseem chim heev. As educated as you are, you should know that the only person to blame is your father.
Made me 😭 what a beautiful story brother… hlub lawv li lawv hlub yug xwb…
Koj ua thiab hais yog lawm. Tab txawm koj txiv tua koj niam tuag los tsis tsim nyog lawv yuav tsis hlub koj tsis xav yuav koj. Twb tsim nyog lawv yuav hlub koj es sawv tam koj niam rau koj,, txawm yuav pub tsis tau 1 thoob Nyiaj rau koj los tsuas pub koj nrog lawv nyob thiab lawv muaj noj li cas tsuas pub koj noj li ntawd xwb, tsis tsim nyog lawv yuav muab koj piv rau koj txiv.
U did right
I'm so proud of you
Good job u made a very good decision 👏 👍
🥲🥲😭😭This is such a very sad story! It broke my heart listening to it. I’m very happy that this brother now has a good life, all because he never gave up on himself, and believed in himself when he had no one. Children should never ever have to pay for their parent’s mistakes. I’m so happy you have a great life now! May God continue to watch over you and your family and continue to bless you and your family os tus nus.
Very great, sad and inspiration story, friend.
This is one of my favorite stories. I hope there will be more stories like this❤
Tu siab kawg ntsuag lub neej na
Koj lub neej tu siab ua luaj li os tus brother aws zoo kawg tias koj muab koj lub neej los piav rau peb sawv daws tau mloog thiab hnub no koj txiv los yuav tau mloog koj zaj neej neeg tu siab txom nyem. Hnub no los koj cov dablaug thiab koj cov kwv tij yuav paub qhov tseeb ntawd txoj kev lawv tsim txom thiab tsis hlub koj.
This is Hmong culture at its cruelest level. Orphans are viewed as less than human in our culture even if they are our own family members. Abused, neglected, and taken advantage by your own family. Very sad indeed. So glad, you made your life better so that you challenged the view our culture have on orphans. I don’t blame you for how you feel about your family.
Wow, your story inspired me a lot. I'm so glad that your priority is to keep continuing your education. U can start your life now.
It was so wrong of all your relatives to place the burden of guilt of your father's crime on you. Shame on all of them for treating you so badly, and they now want you in their lives once you became a success in life just so they can now use you--shameful, absolutely shameful of them. You don't owe any of them anything, don't ever let them talk you into giving in because they don't really care about you, they just want to use you. Everything you earned (education and job) you earned on your own through hard work and perseverance. It's despicable that your father tried to guilt trip you into accepting him back into your life when he's the one that killed your mother because he didn't love her. Stay strong and support only those who supported you during your darkest hours.
Zoo siab nrog koj os tus me tub. Hnub no koj hnub tau koj tus kheej lawm es txhob tu siab os mog.
Do what you think it's right. Good for you 👍
I'm so sorry for everything you had to go through. I swear Hmong people are the cruelest and that's why they don't have a land of thier own. I can't believe this happened here in the USA. I hope your uncles and Aunt get KARMA back. I'm proud and happy you made a commitment to pursue your goals and dreams and never gave up. Remember to love yourself, your life and everything you have. DOn't even bother to give in to other people just they looked down on you. Always remember you deserve to be loved and deserve every right just as much as any other.
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Thats a very immature thought process to generalize an entire group of people because of some bad apples. Thats like saying, "she's dumb" so hmong women deserves to beat treated like dumbasses.
Your story made me 😭😭😭😭😭 how can anyone turn their back on their orphaned nephew/grandkid. It is absolutely inexcusable! Absurd! What terrible people your relatives are. Your tais was truly a hero. I’m so proud of you for not letting those people who mistreated you get in the way of your education. Love yourself and love your wife. Forget everyone else. They only want you now for benefits. Your maternal uncles, they are ashamed and hopefully trying to redeem themselves, but your paternal family, forget about them. They basically threw you to the wolves in fear of your tais’s curse. Of course she would curse them! Their person killed her daughter in cold blood. Now that he has no place to die he wants to claim you as his son! How shameless and thick face. All those years in prison didn’t teach him any lesson. He still thinks you owe it to him for conceiving you.
That is right. Only give back to the ones who loves you.
Cas tu siab ua luaj.. 😭😭
Truly heartbreaking story. I’m so glad you became a strong person and not allow Hmong culture/society to tie you down. Best wishes to you.
you doing right, don't k whatever he saib, love your mom...
Dang tu diab tshuaj plaws li os, me nus aw pob Zeb tsis nia hau ob mog, yeej yog li koj hais leej twg Hlub koj li cas ces koj tsuas hlub lawv li ntaw rov qab xwb os mog koj txiv los tsis tas Hlub li os twb tim koj txiv es koj niam thiaj li tuag tso loj tseg. Pab koj tu siab os mog
txau tu siab ua luaj
I don't get how they can be so cruel to you? You were only a kid!!! So proud of the Man you've become...Stand tall and live a proud life. You've worked hard & all the Credit goes out to you, brother!
Mloog tag mas tu siab kawg li os tus nus aw...zoo kawg uas neb lub neej twb zoo 2 lawm os
That is true if the uncle decided to help you got marry you would not finished your Doctor degree, you would have many children and work harder in the restaurant until these days.
Koj yog 1 tug tub muaj peev xwm thiab rau siab rau koj lub neej heev. Nrog koj zoo siab thiab Tu siab heev. Thov kom koj lub neej vam meej mog
Koj ua yog lawm os pab txhawb Koj vim Koj very smart guy made the right decisions about koj cov txiv ntawm lawv xav kom Koj los hlub Koj txiv es lwm hnub Koj los Koj txiv xwb nawb Koj txiv tsis tsim nyog tau kev hlub ntawm koj ib lub nyiaj liab li lawm os , yog Koj tseem hlub thiab pab los Koj txiv ces tshe Koj niam tus ntsuj plig yuav los 2 kua muag 😭
Txhob tu siab os tus nus zoo siab koj twb txim txim txiaj tau ua ib tug kws kho mob lawm os mog
Brother bless your soul. This is probably the saddest story I have heard to date in 2022. Not only are you humble but wise. I'm glad you stood your ground and you didn't let anyone try to take credit for your hard earned success. Continue to hold those that truly love you near you and distance those that see your success as their opportunity to be relevant. Although my story is different than yours mine is similar in that mistreatment only makes a conscious person work harder to make it in life owing to no one. Let go of the pass and live life how you want it for you and your family. I'm pretty sure your mom is with you always in spirit and proud of you. Hats off to you brother.
I feel you. I feel really sorry for your loss. your life is so sad. I cry listening to it. What you doing right now is 100000000 000000% right. paub tib txha ti plawv tag hlub tus lawv hlub yus xwb tus dag tus ntxias txhob care yog lawv pom yus neej zoo muaj nyiaj lawv xav siv yus xwb.
Thats so sad...if I knew you back then I would've helped you. May god bless you with a wonderful and happy future. Your so called dads family does not deserve you. And Im glad that you see that too. Love yourself first before anyone else. Always remember that!
Tu siab ua luaj li o
Me tub aw, ua tsaug rau Vajtswv coj tau koj tuaj rau teb chaw no es Asmekas hlub2 cov me nyuam ntsuag es koj thiaj kawm tau koj daim DR Degree o. Yeej yog koj rau2 siab es koj thiaj kawm tau thiab tab si Asmekas tej kev hlub es tej menyuam ntsuag thiaj peem tseej neeg os me tub aw. Koj tsis hais rau koj cov nai khu es lawv muaj koj rau Amekas tu ces koj twb tsis txom nyem li ko thiab o.
Txob tu siab os mog hnub no yus twb txim txiaj lawm os
Ntawm cov kwvtij ces yog rho ncaws taw uantej mam rov phlws taubhaus tsis muaj nuj nqi quav dev dab tsis.
Kwv tij peb hmoob tsi Hais kwv tij los yog neej tsa kuv ntseeg tias ntawm 100 leej nyaj yuav muaj ib tug lub siab thiaj loj thiab hlub taus tej tub nroj ntxhais nruag yog yus ua nruag ces yus txhob ciasiab rau lwm tus txoj kev hlub nco nroov tias zeb tsi nias hau hmab tsi khis dluav yug yij meej peem tsaw yus lub peev xwm xwb mog.
Your story has a lot of anger and resentment. You may think you will not need any of those people in your life, because you made it on your own, but remember you can’t scratch your own back without help. There’s a saying we are like bamboo, the taller it grows, the more it bends. So be humble.
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Yog kuv yog koj, kuv yuav txais tos cov neeg uas ua phem rau kuv thaum lawv rov los thov txim, qhov no thiaj ua rau koj muaj nqis , yog koj tseem ua ib yam li lawv thiab ces txhais tau tias koj zoo ib yam lawv
I love this story. Such a blessing that you are now successful. God bless you and your family. ❤️
txiv neej yeej ua txhua yam kom txiv neej yeej xwb . txiv neej twb ua txhaum thiab ua phem npaum twg los txiv yeej ua txhua yam kom txiv neej yeej. tsis kam yuav swb li yom.
Very sad story txoj kev ua ntsuag koj hais xwb ces twb touched txhua2 tus taug koj txoj kev os mog
Koj ua yog lawm os me tub tus neeg hlub koj ces yog koj niam thiab koj niam taislaus lawm xwb os hlub koj tus niam tsev es koj thiaj tsheej ib yig neej xwb os
Kv ho hais rau tus phooj ywg npawg kj zaj neej neeg no tu siab kg li os kj cov ntsiab lus tu siab yog li kj hais yeej txaus tu siab dhau Lm kj niam cov dab Laug lo yeej xoos ntxiv nyiaj rau lv kg kj 2 tug txiv ntxawm tuaj hais tos kj lo yeej tsim nyog hais li kj hais kg yeej tsim tsim nyog mus li thiab os tab yog kv lo kv g mus thiab os ua tsaug kj zaj Lus tso tawm nrog huab cua ntawm niam ntsuab teev tuaj peb mloog nawb ua tsaug os ?
What a sad story! Brother you don’t owe anyone anything especially your uncles. Live your life and be happy on your accomplishment your mother is watching your and sending you blessings.
Tu siab heev os
Yg lm o peb hmoob yeej siv lub maib ko.kv tus txiv twb g yg me nyuam ntsuag.nws twb mj niam mj txiv lo nws twb tseem raug tsim o
Ua ca tu siab ua luaj li os. Zoo siab vim tias Now You are a Man, Everything you want is in your hands. PLEASE dont let them control and torture anymore. MOVE away as far as u can!
This is so sad 😭😭😭😭😭
Kwv tij koj ua yog lawm tus koj tshuav nqi ces tsuas yog koj tais laus xwb.
Tuaj caum koj lawm pab caum kuv ua tsaug
Just proud 👏 your self..God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️
I’m so happy for you and your hard work. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Ib Leej txiv siab phem li koj txiv ces tsis txhob yuav koj txiv os mog
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Congratulations to the person in this story. You did well, I hope God keep blessing your life. I know your mom is so proud of you.
I m so proud of you for being strong and made this far. Your story has touched many of us.. My story is similar to yours as well. Yours mom is watching over you at all times.
Li cas lo kav liam koj yua tau mus coj koj txiv lo lhub nawb koj lub neej thiaj yua kaj siab lug lawm yav tom ntej no, muaj yus es thiaj muaj tes xwm tsheej zoo li no os.
Koj zaj dab neeg no zoo kawg rau sawv daws kawm thaum tub ntsuag ntxhais ntsuag txom nyem txhua leej txhua Tus cem thaum yus tsim txiaj ces txhua leej txhua Tus xam nqi zias xwb peb ua neeg nyob sawv dawsyeej muaj siab muaj ntsws ib yam yog koj cog paj ces koj yeej yuav tau sau paj hos koj cog pos ces yeej yuav tau sau pos xwb sawv daws yeej paub zoo tias zeb tsis nias hau muaj ib hnub luag yeej txawj loj es vim li cas tsam no luag txawj luag ntse no ho ua txuj tiaspeb pab2 koj luag nrog koj nyob los luag twb muaj luag ib kuab nyiaj los yuav mov thiab me nyuam ntsuag nyob teb chaws no nom tswv yeej pab me nyuam ntsuag nyiaj los yuav zaub yuav mov thiab
Everything u do is right brother! They don't deserve your time and care. Appreciate the people who love and appreciate you back only.
Oppo pppppppppppp
Llloolll làm việc lỗ tai con ai
As a real Christ follower who love Jesus with all their heart must forgiveness it hurts but it will heal to be free from unforgiven let Jesus be your joy don't let unforgiven feelings overcome your good heart. . Forgive my brother for saying but I feel all your pain but we must forgive okay...Amen
Zoo heev koj mus tau txoj zoo rau koj lawm, koj niam cov neej tsa ces coj li koj coj rau lawv los yeej yog lawm tab sis koj Tseem coj tsis tau yog rau koj cov kwv tij. Txawm koj txiv tsis yog neeg zoo los Tej kwv tij Tseem hu koj tsis yog tias koj Kawm tiav doctor lawv ntshaw nthsaw koj los Pab lawv no, Kuv xav tias lawv hu koj vim lawv xav qhov zoo Tsam koj ho ntsaw kwv tij xwb. Rooj teb no ces Txawm leej twg yuav Kawm tas doctor los tsuas yog Ib txoj kev khwv noj xwb yeej yuav Pab tsis tau lwm tus yog yus tsis muaj lub siab Pab luag.
Txiv Ntxawm los pheej muab hu ua dab laug koj hais yuam kev heev li os
Ask you heart, you know what is what. Leej twg hlub koj los koj paub, tsis hlub los koj paub.
Very sad brother, made me cry 😢...life is sad but glad you are well now. Bless you with lots of love and happiness.
I’m glad you stand up for yourself and not take them back. They have no right to asked you back when you don’t need them anymore. They weren’t there for you when you needed them to love and support you the most. Do what is good for you.
Yeej yog koj li hais ,leej twg hlub li cas ces yus tsuas nco ntsoov tus ntawd nruj nraim rau hauv yus lub hlwb thiab muaj yam zoo los thiaj li nco tias yuav hlub tus ntawd yuav pub tau dawb paug rau tus ntawd yam zoo Siab hlo tsis xav ntau yam.
Congratulations on your sucess. The life of being a orphan no one will understand til they walk on it. You are brave. This Hmong culture is to cruel. May you live healthy and long. God bless you.
Niam hnoob no koj tus tub xa xov rau koj lawn koj yuav tig los saib tus tub ua neej
Wow your story is sad. I am glad you found love from your wife and kids. Our Hmong people doesn't know how to love orphan children. You don't owe anyone anything. I am also happy that you are strong and didn't give in to your all your uncles and your dad. Orphans that are strong like you need to not give in to people like your aunts and uncles. This will teach some that they need to love Orphan children too. Never know what they can grow up to be in life.
Son, it is not your fault. Please use this experience as a motivation to educate yourself. You are the only person who you can control. Please remember that if you succeed, they will claim the credit. If you fail, they say it is your fault. Please ignore these BS. Your story brings tears into my eyes. Thanks for sharing!