I'm glad that you remembered who gave you their helping hands in the time when everyone including your birth parents turned their backs on you and you did not go back to your birth father. Anyone can be a father but it take a dedication to be a dad. Your birth father saw that you and your siblings are successful now and he stand to gain something to have you and siblings back in his so that is why he tried so hard. If you guys are not successful he wouldn't even look for you and your siblings. You are truly blessed to have your adopted parents came into your life. I'm glad that you're a grateful continue to love the one that loved you.
Tus txiv tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nrog Kuv tu siab heev tab sis kuj Thov ua tsaug qhov lub ntuj tsim tau ib leej txiv thiab ib leej niam lub zoo, siab loj thiab siab dav li koj txiv thiab koj uas yog tus tsa koj yim os🙏🙏🙏 Thiab kuj ua tsaug uas koj thiab koj cov kwv, cov muam nrog koj hlub nej niam thiab nej txiv uas sau nej los nrog nkawv nyob os. Nej cov nus muag kuj cov ib co menyuam uas muaj hmoo kawg li. Leej niam leej txiv txoj hauj lwm yog saib xyuas, hlub, tu, nrhiav rau noj rau hnav, thiab tsa yim rau tej menyuam tab sis nej niam thiab nej txiv yug nej muab nej dua tes tseg ua ntsuag cia. Yuav pib lub neej xwb tseem yuav tau mus pe niam hlob txiv ntxawm, peb koj txiv yug koj, pe Thov koj niam yug thiab tau pe tus coj ntawm koj tsev neeg los lawm ua ntej lag muag dig rau koj xwb. Tom qab no nej niam thiab txiv coj nej cov nus muag los tsa cia neeg, muaj neej zoo lawm kav tsij hlub nkawv xwb mog. God you and your family!
AMEN brother I'm proud of your reasoning and attitude and personality, your kindness and thoughtfulness. You did right. God has blessed you and your siblings with your foster parents. Your decision is 100% correct and I'm glad and happy you didn't turned and walk backwards. You guy's did right. Hold onto your wife and kid's and those that love you. Your father only wants you guy's back because now your all doing good and are well off. He is only aiming to used you guy's to benefit him and his needs. He washed his hands off with you guy's it's good that you do the same with him. He may gave you life but he didn't raised you nor was he there for you. They abandoned and discarded you guy's like trash. Left you guy's like orphans. So no you do not owed your relatives or your real father a damn thing except to closed the door in his face.
As a parents, it’s hard to see children torn between divorce. I’m glad you’re blessed with such kind hearted new adopted parents. Your biological parents do not deserve your love since they were never there during your darkest years when you needed them the most.
I love this story. Thanks for sharing, there's alot of terrible people in the world but every now and then you meet one in a million like this father figure who accepted you.
You absolutely make the right decision to stay with the adopted parents. I would do the same as well. Hat off to you. He will look down to watch you and bless you. As for your biological parents, forgive them, but “tough love”. Thanks for sharing your story.
No one is perfect. Kuv zoo siab nrog koj uas koj ua tau ib tug qauv zoo rau sawv daws kawm. Kuj txhob tu tu siab thiab nyias nqa nyias txoj hmoo los ua neej xwb .
You and your siblings are so blessed to have your new parents take you in and support you all. You made the right decision to stay with your new parents.
Listening to these kind of stories make me feel so lucky to have a good parents who love me regardless. I’m sorry that u have to go through all this, but ur new father is really ur role model.
I’m totally agree with your brother-in-law and his father saying…you’re good where you are now…love those who love you first. Your adopted parents loved you and pulled you and your siblings out of the dark when there’s no one to help you even your own parents. Don’t betray them…😩👍🤠!
Lub neej niam txiv tuag tsis muaj ntxa li no tej tub ki mas yeej txom nyem lub siab lub ntswv thiab kev noj nyob kawg li os tus mi tub tus neeg zoo li koj niam koj txiv nkawv txog hnub tsis taus txhob hlub cia nws txom nws nyem thiaj haum li nws lub siab lim hiam
Bravo to your strong-will. Glad you stick with your adopted parents. That's how you show your appreciation to them. Forget about your biological father. Fake love from him.
The more I listen to these stories the more I realize there is a pattern with Hmong families. The first marriage breaks apart, no one wants the kids so they are abandoned. The divorced parents remarry and start a new life and new family. They only come back to their kids from the first marriage once they realized the kids success and want some of their money. The Hmong way of thinking and some of the cultural excuses are so backwards. I’m glad the author of the story stayed with his adopted parents. And found strength to support his family during their darkest days.
Yes the hmoob families pattern is too predictable!!! 1. Married too young as teens 2. Divorce by 20’s 30’s 40’s 3. Abandon kids 4. Remarried to evil person 5. Comes back to beg old marriage Plus……only care for kids when kids become wealthy!! GREEDINESS!! Selfishness!! Some do go on with 2nd life n be happier but most I hear on here, the hubby always the reason for destruction in family n become loser at the end uugghh.
That is the Hmong culture and that is the decision of the parents. They divorced and abandoned their children and remarried and move on with their lives having new children and a new family. God bless you brother. You found a better foster father. Remember the one's who's there for you in your good and bad times unconditional. Love and appreciate them.
Hmong are a selfish, entitled and inconsiderate group. All these stories are the same. It shows how behind and backwards we still are as a community because no one wants to break away from all these outdated traditions.
This was such a sad story, yet a touching one. For the family that accepted him, you are amazing. You are the definition of what a good heart is. Im glad that his family is doing well, May God bless you with many more years of health and happiness! You and your loving wife deserve it! ❤️
Cas tiam tshiab Nov tseem muaj tej zaj neej neeg TU siab npaum Nov thiab os hmoob aw...cia koj txiv Tom ub khib xim nej cov nus muag tag tiam Nov nawb mog cov me tub me ntxhais aw...nrog nej zoo siab nej muaj neej tag ua neej zoo lawm os mog...
Txhob rov qab lawm mog Tus me nus… nyob nrog koj txiv tshiab thiaj yog tus cawm koj Txoj sia vim yog koj yog neeg siab me ces ntshe koj twb dai tuag li ib txhia me nyuam lawm tab sis koj txiv tshiab yog koj tus cawm seej es thov koj hlub nws nawb
Just so glad you do the right thing so proud of your family! Don’t know what kind the parent you have but you Adopted parent are the good people for you and you brothers and sisters God blessed your family
You made the right decision to stay with your foster parents. You were meant to be their child but was born at the wrong time wrong place to the wrong parents. That's why at the end he finally found you and bring you back to reunited with him. Eventhough it was only for a short period of time the times you both spent together was worth it. I'm so proud of you for the man you have become. And thank you so much for sharing your life story with us. May your father watch over you and your extended family. 🙏
The dad asked for them to live with the dad NOT because he loved them. But because he simply didn't want to pay child support. Now he denies doing his son's wedding all because his son didn't live with him so he can avoid child support. Amd the wife isn't any better! she just wanted money too. It's a shame the real people who suffers are ALWAYS the kids shame on these parents!!!
People really think they can birth a bunch of kids, abandone them, come back 10, 20 years later, throw a "I'm sorry," and expect to be accepted back into those kids' lives. What a joke.
Wow so sad😥😥zoo siab nrog koj os koj kuj muaj hmoo muaj tus los pab rub koj tes es koj lub neej thiaj sawv es nco ntsoov luag tus txiaj ntsim nawv mog es yus lub neej thiaj zoo os
Zaj neej neeg no zoo rau cov niam txiv sib nrauj sib tso mloog, txawm ob niam txiv tsis sib haum lawm es yuav sib nrauj los txhob muab tej me nyuam sab lais es cia tej me nyuam txom nyem, muaj ib txhia me nyuam tsis muaj hlwb ces lawv xav hais tias lawv yuav ua neeg liam mus vim niam txiv tsis yuav lawv. Tabsis cov xav ua neeg zoo li tus txiv tsev no ces zeb tsis nia hau li os mog, peb nyob meka teb chaw no tus ruam tus nre los yog nquag ces yeej yuav vam meej xwb nawb. Pab tus txiv tsev no zoo siab nawb mog.
Its too bad that your parents did petty things to hurt each other and never thought about you guys..but in this country you dont need your parents either..you are better off without them...you already made it so just live your life and move on...dont look back on things that no longer served you no more.
I very proud you choosed you adopt father instead of the bilogecle father . you word to you evil father and your foster father word to his kwv tij very powerful messenger to our young hmong people in the generation to come .God bless
Koj niam thiab txiv nkawv ces yog ob tug 🐕 xwb os.........kuv twb them child support rau Ib tug maum dev thiab....txog thaum kawg kuv twb tseem nta kuv ob tug tub thiab....vim kuv hlub kuv ob tug tub heev.....pab koj tu siab kawg li os tub.....
Cov niam txiv tsis sib haum sib nrauj tiam sis neb responsible rau cov me yuan.tsis tsa yim lawn hnub yuav tuag txhob los thawj paub nej tu siab.rau siab ua neej mog me tub
Great example for all the kids now who are experiencing this from their parents . You are very lucky. So many bc parents only see themselves, they forget their kids will be grown adults someday. They never watch what they say or do. Always “xav txhob lig”
PharmD and PhD are different. She probably meant PharmD. Good job on working hard to support you and your wife and siblings! I'm proud of you! Best wishes to you.
cov neej neeg nov yog neej neeg cuav xwb txhuas zaj tau degree tas lis xwb tiam si hais tom qab cov laus tuag mam kam hais xwb ces yog dag222 nkaus xwb.
thaub kuv yog koj ces xub haujlwm tuag nthi khaws nyiaj kom koj muaj nyiaj yuav vaj yuav tsev mam yuav pojniam twb tsi lig koj cov yau koj twb take care tsi tau tseem mus lob niag pojniam los nyuaj siab thiab ua neej xeem koj niam koj txiv ntag hos lwm hnub nkawv laus nkawv los thov koj ces plhe ncauj rau nkawv xwb tiag yeej tsi txhaum li os yog niam yog txiv los coj phem ntawv yeej tsi npam koj li os
Koj niam thiab koj txiv yug koj nkawd ces tuag mus zoo dua nyob lub ntiaj teb no los nyhav av xwb os! Koj txiv tsis tsim txiaj los koj niam yeej tsis tsim txiaj thiab tiag2 li os! Nrog nej cov menyuam tu siab dhau lawm! Nco ntsoov hlub tus neeg tau rub yus tes xwb nawb 😭
You are such a great and good son to anyone. This such a beautiful story. It makes my heart melt. He is luck to also have you as his adoptive son to care and love him.
Oh man, this story make me cry so much. But good think I didn’t left my kids and my new husband love my kids. We both gave them a good wedding and help them throughout everything without Hesitate anything. There dad didn’t want so do anything for them.
Tus me nus...koj ua yog lawm. Tus twg hlub yus ces hlub tus ntawv xwb. Txawm niam txiv yug kiag twb nta tsis tau lub neej lawm ces ua ib siab mog. Tus txiv limhiam thiab siab nyoos ua twb tsis hlub yus cov me nyuam ua yus kiag. Koj hmoov ces tag lawm!
Koj tsis nug koj txiv yug koj pab kwv tij seb yog nej tsis muaj hnub no es yog nej tseem txom txom nyem li qub lawv puas rub nej tes thiab koj txiv puas yuav rov lo lees nej....yog koj nug li no lawv yuav tsis muaj peev xwm teb tau koj...
Dang, dont even have to be Hmong, parents can be so entitled and F up. This story is too sad and relatable. People have kids thinking its an investment when theyve done nothing to help the child intellectually or set them up for success and then blame them when theyre just kids🤡 Just because someone turned 18 that DOES NOT mean they are a grown up now and left to fend for themself. Being a parent is a lifetime deal
This is so sad. Thank you for sharing such a heart sorrow story and hope many others will learn this lesson. You were so blessed to have such a great man to take you all in. May God bless him with great place in Heaven. Your biological father and his clan have no right to claim you back at all. Shame on them. When you needed them, they turned their backs on you. When they realized they can depend on, they came begging for your return. No thanks. I can’t imagine that they even had the face to face your adopted father to take you face. If I would your biological father, I wouldn’t even dare to come close to you. What a shame. God bless you.
This is why your mom shouldn’t ask for child support. Should have done a 50/50. Feel bad for those kids that their mom demanded child support but fail to support them all the way.
Wow! What a sad situation where both parents fail their own kids. I am so happy you got an angel to help you through ur toughest time. I hope you pay it forward.
Son It's sadly storied, but don't bring on your father, Because you has chosen on the days you father devoted and you going with your mom. Your mom take all child support please see this so , your mom problem didn't take you all way to the end.
tu me txiv tsev aw koj xaiv tu yuav poj niam rau koj koj xaiv tau yog kawg nkau lawm thiaj koj tu yawm yij hai yog lawm nawb yog tia koj tseem rov qab mu nrog tu tib neeg tsi kam tsa koj yim ko nyob thiab ce koj tseem tshuav kev npam thiab osv, koj niam thiab koj txiv yug nkawd ma siab phem 1 yam nkau 2 tug ntawd ce koj txawm tsi hlub lo yeej tsi npam koj 1 zaug li os nawb, nkawd ce tsua yog nkawd ua kom nkawd zoo nyob xwb tab sis ho xeeb tau nej lawm nkawd thiaj lam muab nej yug xwb nkawd thiajli tsi hlub nej os
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I'm glad that you remembered who gave you their helping hands in the time when everyone including your birth parents turned their backs on you and you did not go back to your birth father. Anyone can be a father but it take a dedication to be a dad. Your birth father saw that you and your siblings are successful now and he stand to gain something to have you and siblings back in his so that is why he tried so hard. If you guys are not successful he wouldn't even look for you and your siblings.
You are truly blessed to have your adopted parents came into your life. I'm glad that you're a grateful continue to love the one that loved you.
Tus txiv tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nrog Kuv tu siab heev tab sis kuj Thov ua tsaug qhov lub ntuj tsim tau ib leej txiv thiab ib leej niam lub zoo, siab loj thiab siab dav li koj txiv thiab koj uas yog tus tsa koj yim os🙏🙏🙏 Thiab kuj ua tsaug uas koj thiab koj cov kwv, cov muam nrog koj hlub nej niam thiab nej txiv uas sau nej los nrog nkawv nyob os. Nej cov nus muag kuj cov ib co menyuam uas muaj hmoo kawg li.
Leej niam leej txiv txoj hauj lwm yog saib xyuas, hlub, tu, nrhiav rau noj rau hnav, thiab tsa yim rau tej menyuam tab sis nej niam thiab nej txiv yug nej muab nej dua tes tseg ua ntsuag cia. Yuav pib lub neej xwb tseem yuav tau mus pe niam hlob txiv ntxawm, peb koj txiv yug koj, pe Thov koj niam yug thiab tau pe tus coj ntawm koj tsev neeg los lawm ua ntej lag muag dig rau koj xwb. Tom qab no nej niam thiab txiv coj nej cov nus muag los tsa cia neeg, muaj neej zoo lawm kav tsij hlub nkawv xwb mog. God you and your family!
AMEN brother I'm proud of your reasoning and attitude and personality, your kindness and thoughtfulness. You did right. God has blessed you and your siblings with your foster parents. Your decision is 100% correct and I'm glad and happy you didn't turned and walk backwards. You guy's did right. Hold onto your wife and kid's and those that love you. Your father only wants you guy's back because now your all doing good and are well off. He is only aiming to used you guy's to benefit him and his needs. He washed his hands off with you guy's it's good that you do the same with him. He may gave you life but he didn't raised you nor was he there for you. They abandoned and discarded you guy's like trash. Left you guy's like orphans. So no you do not owed your relatives or your real father a damn thing except to closed the door in his face.
As a parents, it’s hard to see children torn between divorce. I’m glad you’re blessed with such kind hearted new adopted parents. Your biological parents do not deserve your love since they were never there during your darkest years when you needed them the most.
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Blessed your adopted parents hearts. You are lucky to have found your true parents. Glad you made the right choice to stay with your adopted parents.
This is the most beautiful story. It made me mad, sad, and happy. Thank you for sharing.💖
Niam tshuab teev cas kj zaj dab neegyuav tu siab uas luaj o 😢😢😢😢😢
Thank you for sharing how beautiful your father was from inside out. You are truly blessed with the best.
I love this story. Thanks for sharing, there's alot of terrible people in the world but every now and then you meet one in a million like this father figure who accepted you.
I'm so blessed that my siblings are not selfish like these families. If something happens to me, I know my children would be loved.
koj ua tau zoo thiab yog kawg li lawm nawb mog me tub
You were meant to be his son, I’m glad you found someone who truly loves you unconditionally!!
Your adopted parents have a very big heart. 1 out of a million!
You absolutely make the right decision to stay with the adopted parents. I would do the same as well. Hat off to you. He will look down to watch you and bless you. As for your biological parents, forgive them, but “tough love”. Thanks for sharing your story.
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Txawm li cas los tus txiv ntxawm ntawd yeej siab zoo nawb es thiaj kam pab koj thov Kom koj nco ntsoov tus txiv ntxawm pab koj ntawd mog
No one is perfect. Kuv zoo siab nrog koj uas koj ua tau ib tug qauv zoo rau sawv daws kawm. Kuj txhob tu tu siab thiab nyias nqa nyias txoj hmoo los ua neej xwb .
You and your siblings are so blessed to have your new parents take you in and support you all. You made the right decision to stay with your new parents.
Listening to these kind of stories make me feel so lucky to have a good parents who love me regardless. I’m sorry that u have to go through all this, but ur new father is really ur role model.
This is a beautiful story.
Kj yog ib tug tub zoo heev thov kom vaj tswv foom koob moov rau kj nawb mog
I’m totally agree with your brother-in-law and his father saying…you’re good where you are now…love those who love you first. Your adopted parents loved you and pulled you and your siblings out of the dark when there’s no one to help you even your own parents. Don’t betray them…😩👍🤠!
Tusiab thiab zoo siab rau koj os me nus ! Thov Vajtswv hlub thiab nyob nrog koj thiab koj cov kwv yaus mus in txhis mog !
Vuag cas yuav txom nyem ua luaj Nej NTxim hlub dhau lawm os cas niamtxiv yuav tsis Txawj xav li os
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Good blessed tus adoptive father tsheej muah cov neeg siab zoo li no
Tus me tub koj lub neej txaus tus siab heev tab sis txhuas2 yam koj ua koj xa nws yog kawg tsi yuam kev li mog
Bravo thov qhias koj os! Txoj kev koj ua no yeej tsis yuam kev mog leej twg hlub yus ces yus nco tus ntawv txiaj ntsim xwb thiaj tsis muaj tu siab kev npam mog..
Zaj dab zeeg no zoo mloog heev li os
Zoo li kuv lub neej thiab os ฮืมๆๆๆๆ
Lub neej niam txiv tuag tsis muaj ntxa li no tej tub ki mas yeej txom nyem lub siab lub ntswv thiab kev noj nyob kawg li os tus mi tub tus neeg zoo li koj niam koj txiv nkawv txog hnub tsis taus txhob hlub cia nws txom nws nyem thiaj haum li nws lub siab lim hiam
Wow brother you are good, you have a great mom and dad. Lawv yog neeg zoo thiaj muaj txoj hmoov zoo rau koj thiab all brother and sister too.
Bravo to your strong-will. Glad you stick with your adopted parents. That's how you show your appreciation to them. Forget about your biological father. Fake love from him.
The more I listen to these stories the more I realize there is a pattern with Hmong families. The first marriage breaks apart, no one wants the kids so they are abandoned. The divorced parents remarry and start a new life and new family. They only come back to their kids from the first marriage once they realized the kids success and want some of their money. The Hmong way of thinking and some of the cultural excuses are so backwards.
I’m glad the author of the story stayed with his adopted parents. And found strength to support his family during their darkest days.
Yes the hmoob families pattern is too predictable!!!
1. Married too young as teens
2. Divorce by 20’s 30’s 40’s
3. Abandon kids
4. Remarried to evil person
5. Comes back to beg old marriage
Plus……only care for kids when kids become wealthy!! GREEDINESS!! Selfishness!! Some do go on with 2nd life n be happier but most I hear on here, the hubby always the reason for destruction in family n become loser at the end uugghh.
That is the Hmong culture and that is the decision of the parents. They divorced and abandoned their children and remarried and move on with their lives having new children and a new family. God bless you brother. You found a better foster father. Remember the one's who's there for you in your good and bad times unconditional. Love and appreciate them.
Hmong are a selfish, entitled and inconsiderate group. All these stories are the same. It shows how behind and backwards we still are as a community because no one wants to break away from all these outdated traditions.
Koj txiav txim siab yog lawm os
Now that your dad realized you're a txiv neej yawg and he needs someone to bury him he comes crawling to you. Glad to hear you stood your grounds.❤️
This was such a sad story, yet a touching one. For the family that accepted him, you are amazing. You are the definition of what a good heart is. Im glad that his family is doing well, May God bless you with many more years of health and happiness! You and your loving wife deserve it! ❤️
Vim nej tsi xaiv nej txiv yeej yuav paub hais tias thaum kawg yeej yuav zoo li no ntag lau...Nej niam xav tau nyiam noj xwb tsi xav tsa nej yim li os.
Cas tiam tshiab Nov tseem muaj tej zaj neej neeg TU siab npaum Nov thiab os hmoob aw...cia koj txiv Tom ub khib xim nej cov nus muag tag tiam Nov nawb mog cov me tub me ntxhais aw...nrog nej zoo siab nej muaj neej tag ua neej zoo lawm os mog...
Your adopted parents are your guardian angels! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.
Txhob rov qab lawm mog Tus me nus… nyob nrog koj txiv tshiab thiaj yog tus cawm koj Txoj sia vim yog koj yog neeg siab me ces ntshe koj twb dai tuag li ib txhia me nyuam lawm tab sis koj txiv tshiab yog koj tus cawm seej es thov koj hlub nws nawb
Ua li ko thiaj li yog txiv neej yawg tiag vim tus yug yus twb tsis yuav yus ces kawg mus hlub tus pab yus thaum yus Xav tau kev pab
You are very fortunate to find lovely parents.
Just so glad you do the right thing so proud of your family! Don’t know what kind the parent you have but you Adopted parent are the good people for you and you brothers and sisters God blessed your family
You made the right decision to stay with your foster parents. You were meant to be their child but was born at the wrong time wrong place to the wrong parents. That's why at the end he finally found you and bring you back to reunited with him. Eventhough it was only for a short period of time the times you both spent together was worth it. I'm so proud of you for the man you have become. And thank you so much for sharing your life story with us. May your father watch over you and your extended family. 🙏
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Lwm hnub koj niam koj txiv yug koj ces tsi thas yuav faus li nawb ob niag siab phem li koj niam koj txiv yug koj nas
This one should be titled, "Luj Neej Ua Ntsuag Ciaj"!!
The dad asked for them to live with the dad NOT because he loved them. But because he simply didn't want to pay child support. Now he denies doing his son's wedding all because his son didn't live with him so he can avoid child support. Amd the wife isn't any better! she just wanted money too. It's a shame the real people who suffers are ALWAYS the kids
shame on these parents!!!
People really think they can birth a bunch of kids, abandone them, come back 10, 20 years later, throw a "I'm sorry," and expect to be accepted back into those kids' lives. What a joke.
Only those who walk such path truly understand what Love is. Bless you and your family all the Love from here on....
Love the ones who love you during your darkest moments.
Wow so sad😥😥zoo siab nrog koj os koj kuj muaj hmoo muaj tus los pab rub koj tes es koj lub neej thiaj sawv es nco ntsoov luag tus txiaj ntsim nawv mog es yus lub neej thiaj zoo os
Love isn't defined through biological means it transcends beyond that. Good bless this gentleman for sharing this amazing story of love!
Love that statement Kevin. Yap, I agree. Love does not define by biological means and I have seen that in many forms.
Ua li koj yog lawm nawb
U made the right choice. Loyalty is everything!
Kj hlub Yog lawm nawb 100 leej ntshe tsuas muaj 1 leeg li kj niam no xwb thiaj siab zoo yuav tau hlub nawb
You are such a good brother to ur siblings
Koj niam koj txiv xav tias tsuas muaj nej cov menyuam thov nkawv xwb, nkawv tsis nco tias muaj hnub nkawv laus nkawv yuav los thov nej.
Zaj neej neeg no zoo rau cov niam txiv sib nrauj sib tso mloog, txawm ob niam txiv tsis sib haum lawm es yuav sib nrauj los txhob muab tej me nyuam sab lais es cia tej me nyuam txom nyem, muaj ib txhia me nyuam tsis muaj hlwb ces lawv xav hais tias lawv yuav ua neeg liam mus vim niam txiv tsis yuav lawv. Tabsis cov xav ua neeg zoo li tus txiv tsev no ces zeb tsis nia hau li os mog, peb nyob meka teb chaw no tus ruam tus nre los yog nquag ces yeej yuav vam meej xwb nawb. Pab tus txiv tsev no zoo siab nawb mog.
Its too bad that your parents did petty things to hurt each other and never thought about you guys..but in this country you dont need your parents either..you are better off without them...you already made it so just live your life and move on...dont look back on things that no longer served you no more.
I very proud you choosed you adopt father instead of the bilogecle father . you word to you evil father and your foster father word to his kwv tij very powerful messenger to our young hmong people in the generation to come .God bless
Glad you love the one who helped you. My parents have helped many but they take it for granted. It’s so sad.
Yug tau hlub tsis tau tu siab kawg .
Koj niam thiab txiv nkawv ces yog ob tug 🐕 xwb os.........kuv twb them child support rau Ib tug maum dev thiab....txog thaum kawg kuv twb tseem nta kuv ob tug tub thiab....vim kuv hlub kuv ob tug tub heev.....pab koj tu siab kawg li os tub.....
Koj ma thiaj yog ib tug txiv tsev zoo tiagtiag kuv thov qhuas koj nawb
Wow what come back, take that!
Tu tsa koj yim thiaj li yog tu niam tu txiv yug koj nawb...tu yug koj nws tsuas yog qiv lub plab yug koj xwb
Cov niam txiv tsis sib haum sib nrauj tiam sis neb responsible rau cov me yuan.tsis tsa yim lawn hnub yuav tuag txhob los thawj paub nej tu siab.rau siab ua neej mog me tub
Great example for all the kids now who are experiencing this from their parents . You are very lucky. So many bc parents only see themselves, they forget their kids will be grown adults someday. They never watch what they say or do. Always “xav txhob lig”
God bless the parent that help him.
Qhov no qhia rau koj tias koj txiv tseem ceeb npaum cas vim koj txiv thov koj koj Tsis xaiv koj txiv koj thiaj raug kev npam
Blessed your new mom and dad……lawv muaj lub siab zoo zoo kawg……..muaj hmoo zoo kawg
PharmD and PhD are different. She probably meant PharmD. Good job on working hard to support you and your wife and siblings! I'm proud of you! Best wishes to you.
What a beautiful story.
Ntxub dhau lm hmoob na twb yg tim yus tej me nyuam thiaj txom nyem los thiaj chim rau tej me nyuam ntxub tiag2
Koj zoo nkauj heev li
cov neej neeg nov yog neej neeg cuav xwb txhuas zaj tau degree tas lis xwb tiam si hais tom qab cov laus tuag mam kam hais xwb ces yog dag222 nkaus xwb.
This story Made me cry...
thaub kuv yog koj ces xub haujlwm tuag nthi khaws nyiaj kom koj muaj nyiaj yuav vaj yuav tsev mam yuav pojniam twb tsi lig koj cov yau koj twb take care tsi tau tseem mus lob niag pojniam los nyuaj siab thiab ua neej xeem koj niam koj txiv ntag hos lwm hnub nkawv laus nkawv los thov koj ces plhe ncauj rau nkawv xwb tiag yeej tsi txhaum li os yog niam yog txiv los coj phem ntawv yeej tsi npam koj li os
Koj niam thiab koj txiv yug koj nkawd ces tuag mus zoo dua nyob lub ntiaj teb no los nyhav av xwb os! Koj txiv tsis tsim txiaj los koj niam yeej tsis tsim txiaj thiab tiag2 li os! Nrog nej cov menyuam tu siab dhau lawm! Nco ntsoov hlub tus neeg tau rub yus tes xwb nawb 😭
You are such a great and good son to anyone. This such a beautiful story. It makes my heart melt. He is luck to also have you as his adoptive son to care and love him.
Txhob rov taw tuam ntuj rau tus tsa koj yim nawv mog
Oh man, this story make me cry so much. But good think I didn’t left my kids and my new husband love my kids. We both gave them a good wedding and help them throughout everything without Hesitate anything. There dad didn’t want so do anything for them.
Khaws koj tsev kwv tij ko tej lus cia ib hnub twg mam hais rov rau lawv mloog txhob tu siab tus me kwv
Zoo kawg li os ♥️♥️♥️♥️👌
Tus me nus...koj ua yog lawm. Tus twg hlub yus ces hlub tus ntawv xwb. Txawm niam txiv yug kiag twb nta tsis tau lub neej lawm ces ua ib siab mog. Tus txiv limhiam thiab siab nyoos ua twb tsis hlub yus cov me nyuam ua yus kiag. Koj hmoov ces tag lawm!
I am so glad your adoptive parents were so loving. You are blessed. It was ment to be. Your biological parents don't deserve you kids.
Koj tsis nug koj txiv yug koj pab kwv tij seb yog nej tsis muaj hnub no es yog nej tseem txom txom nyem li qub lawv puas rub nej tes thiab koj txiv puas yuav rov lo lees nej....yog koj nug li no lawv yuav tsis muaj peev xwm teb tau koj...
tej niam tej zoo li ko lwm hnub nws yuav tuag no txhob care kiag.
Very sad but good story to learn from.
Tus twg hlub yus yus nco ntsoov*
Dang, dont even have to be Hmong, parents can be so entitled and F up. This story is too sad and relatable. People have kids thinking its an investment when theyve done nothing to help the child intellectually or set them up for success and then blame them when theyre just kids🤡 Just because someone turned 18 that DOES NOT mean they are a grown up now and left to fend for themself. Being a parent is a lifetime deal
That's very beautiful happy ending story. That guy is your god father. i admire you, friend...
This is so sad. Thank you for sharing such a heart sorrow story and hope many others will learn this lesson.
You were so blessed to have such a great man to take you all in. May God bless him with great place in Heaven.
Your biological father and his clan have no right to claim you back at all. Shame on them. When you needed them, they turned their backs on you. When they realized they can depend on, they came begging for your return. No thanks.
I can’t imagine that they even had the face to face your adopted father to take you face.
If I would your biological father, I wouldn’t even dare to come close to you. What a shame.
God bless you.
This is why your mom shouldn’t ask for child support. Should have done a 50/50. Feel bad for those kids that their mom demanded child support but fail to support them all the way.
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Qiv luag roj ntsha los ua neeg xwb, txhob tu siab.
Wow! What a sad situation where both parents fail their own kids. I am so happy you got an angel to help you through ur toughest time. I hope you pay it forward.
Son
It's sadly storied, but don't bring on your father, Because you has chosen on the days you father devoted and you going with your mom. Your mom take all child support please see this so , your mom problem didn't take you all way to the end.
tu me txiv tsev aw koj xaiv tu yuav poj niam rau koj koj xaiv tau yog kawg nkau lawm thiaj koj tu yawm yij hai yog lawm nawb yog tia koj tseem rov qab mu nrog tu tib neeg tsi kam tsa koj yim ko nyob thiab ce koj tseem tshuav kev npam thiab osv, koj niam thiab koj txiv yug nkawd ma siab phem 1 yam nkau 2 tug ntawd ce koj txawm tsi hlub lo yeej tsi npam koj 1 zaug li os nawb, nkawd ce tsua yog nkawd ua kom nkawd zoo nyob xwb tab sis ho xeeb tau nej lawm nkawd thiaj lam muab nej yug xwb nkawd thiajli tsi hlub nej os
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