What Koreans Think Of PDA (Public Displays Of Affection) | ASIAN BOSS
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Lol, Steve just casually eating the girl's popcorn.
hahaha what I thought
The popcorn girl is soooo funny I love her lol
I thought like that LOL
hahahahha
I know right 😂😂😂
Basically in Korea you show the same amount of affection to friends and to the person you are in the relationship with in public.
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Sean's Piano
U mean skinship?
Not only korea but most asian countries
So it's best to be friendzoned 😂😁😁😁😁😆
@@dikshajha7804 Most? Not all? Which asian countries actively have PDA?
3:27 I have a question for that man............. *WHAT WAS HE DOING IN THE WOODS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT?*
I was thinking the same exact thing..
gemma 3 he was with his girlfriend during the interview,Look at her face when he started talking about it 🌚
plot twist: it was him & his girlfriend doing it in the woods in the middle of the night
gemma 3 Ikr? On a random sidenote, he looks like Jun Curry Ahn from BGA 😂
He was relieving himself
lol He just took that girl popcorn casually
Yuniati Adinda he was holding the container earlier tho
I was about to say that😂😂
Haha same lol
Well actually, I think I saw in a certain video somewhere that Koreans consider it rude not to share your food with others?
Bahahahaha'
I'm fine with all that but I think hugs should be more acceptable
+Aztec Pepper's hey
hugging is most intimate thing there i heard.
Mortred Silkwood and arm and hand holding.
schackmountain no wonder they be overdramatic on k dramas😮
Aztec 11 tf
3:51 him casually taking popcorn from the girl's cup xD ME
IGotARMY TaeJin i was gonna say that too 😂😂😂
IGotARMY TaeJin lmao😂 i would just keep staring at the food until someone offered me some 😂
IGotARMY TaeJin dont lie
IGotARMY TaeJin I like your name.😏
LOL DID SHE NOT SEE THAT
kissing and hugging its fine but not like french kiss aint nobody who wants to see that
Ikr xD (When you're in France it's normal but I see that even in the subay i'm like "ewwwwww")
Don't ever come to Paris then xD
+In Es OH MY , it reminds me when I saw in the rer a couple French kissing for 3 stations !! 15 minutes of succion sounds ! We had the time to get out of Paris and two other towns ! ewwwwwwwwwww!!
just get a room already !
titemartiniquaise
Lool I I can see how it can e shocking if you're not used to it but honestly, I live there and I don't even see it anymore x). I wouldn't do it because I find awkward but I don't mind other people doing it x)
+In Es really ??!!
I'm born and raised in France but this couple was like....in they aroused world X'DDD
I'm used to couples kissing each other every two seconds or hugging during the whole traject even caressing each other (limit sexual but still not sexual) and I find them so adorable ~~~!(I'm actually their fangirl for 5-30min XDD)
But here... succion noises for 15min...nope nope nope XDD
THE GUY IN THE PINK SHIRT GOT FRIENDZONED 😂😂😂
yeh felt bad for him
+비밀이야 stop watching your k-dramas bud. They're not real...
+비밀이야 doojoon lol
+비밀이야 I agree. I think she's just playing hard to get
+ryedj707 +protect Lovelyz and oh my No, I think he's right. Koreans have this thing about being ambiguous with the guy or girl they like.
If it is not sexual, PDA makes me feel kinda happy for just watching it. lol Hugging and kissing couples are cute for me and I'm Korean :D
I'm agree with you. I don't like people that assume that PDA is always sexual
yeah its makes society less of a robotic place lol..
Same hahah I feel the same
Yup some couples just look adorable on how they show affection to each other
Nice try! Hobbits are from The Shire
i think i kinda relate their opinions. for me, kissing and hugging are fine. but touching private parts and kissing like they are eating each other's faces in public are really uncomfortable to watch :/
So true and its legal on their country
Aira Sambajon Same
In america, just don't watch! It's that simple :P
Then Don't watch! Lol I don't. hahaha
In Singapore we'll got fined bcoz people may report on us as sexual deviant, so PDA in Singapore = Crime 😫
3:50 best part
Lol lemi get some of that popcorn 🍿
POPCORN STEALING HAHAHA
LOOOL i didnt see thst
man these korean people are lucky if the worst pda they see is hugging or kissing on the lips 😩 ppl in london go way too far sometimes
May Jeganmogan agree!! I also live in London and I saw things that are hundred times worse than that.. like I'm not even talking about couples licking each others faces in public that became normal over here lol Once I saw a guy who literally pulled off his thing in central London for no reason..
literally! ahhhh that's so disgusting man. tbh that kinda stuff is not uncommon for the underground and stuff: sadly.
May Jeganmogan yeah! i mean it's ok to be able to show your love for the other... but they shouldn't do that with sooo many peopz around to see and i mean sth like SUPER KIZZING GROPING AND STUFF like they're about to get down in public... i don't wanna see a porn in real life!! 😂
these pdas weren't too much at all
its so true omfg 😂😂 I was on the bus once and this girl putting her hands in her partners jeans gropping his bum and them sucking each others faces off like no please chill and do that somewhere else 😂😂 nothing wrong with PDA but sometimes people go overboard.
preach
3:51 LMAO, I know what you did.
Oh ! Tu es là !!! :D
XDDDDDDDDD WOW I DIDNT EVEN NOTICE THAT!!
haha that popcorn grab
lol
I guess he's actually acquainted with them.
1:38 "... or groping private part" in public? Dude, I'm sure it's too much in every country XD
Well, as a chilean I can say that's not too much in every country xD
DecadeofDecay Nope, not too much in Finland, especially on a warm summer evening. People in Finland tend to lose all their sexual inhibitations when the summer heat is on, it's not uncommon to see people making out or having sex in a park when there's no children in the vicinity, Helsinki is a great place during summer. 👌😄
remember it's not just groping of the private parts, but it is groping with the intent to cause sexual arousal. XD
In korea, many girls hold hands of each other or hug. but that doesn't mean they are in relationship. it means just friendship. and i also think men more hug or touch each other in just friendly way than other country.(when there is a good thing to share or when they didn't meet for a long time) people in here aren't aware of gay that much than western country. a little touch is just a way of expressing their friendship. but kissing or hugging for too long time can be seen rude in here.
also men wear pink clothes a lot and that doesn't mean they are gay...
you're right
with girls, in any country i don't think people think too much when girls are being affectionate like hugging and holding hands. Especially where I'm from, the states, it's normal. I hold hands and hug my girlfriends all the time and it's fine.
Same for men, as i remember being a kid having hand over another friend shoulder was considered as friendship, now society made it look like being gay.
Weird how things change...
0아큐큐 This is actually in a lot of countries it applies in England where I live because often in my class the girls will just give each other hugs because they want to comfort them or as a way of getting closer and I usually link arms with my friends when walking
Love how Steve just casually stole some popcorn at 3:51 XD
2:23 she is 100% enjoying that hug lmao
I ship it
No u.
Lmao
I have a feeling they both give good hugs
I ship it ugh❤
casually taking a popcorn and eating.
I think this is so interesting because Koreans think that most people in foreign countries are more prone to showing PDA, and from my experience, that is simply not true. As a person who has lived in the United States my entire life, I had never seen as many people holding hands, kissing, and showing other displays of affection as I did during my two months in Seoul. It was hard for me to even walk down the street a lot of the time due to the fact that almost everybody was holding hands with their significant other and basically taking up the entire sidewalk.
I think most people in Korea have this over-dramatized view of the Western countries as places with overly-sexualized people who are always making out with each other in a public setting, and that entire misunderstanding comes from the media. What they should realize is that what they see in romance movies and celebrity instragram accounts is not an accurate representation of our society as a whole. So a lot of Asians think that they are still way more reserved and conservative in comparison to the Western countries, but that may no longer be the case with today's generation.
omg yess!!! exactly what i thought. I'd rather see a short kiss from a couple instead of the constant giggling and hugging, and touching I saw so much in Korea
Asian countries in general are conservative when it comes to this I guess....
Very
아미!
+fishsj13 yess 아미~
I see you everywhere, my husband's chair 😂😂😂
your name 😂😂
I saw sooooo much PDA in Seoul. It was kind of surprising. In Tokyo, even a couple holding hands was unusual.
What kind of stuff?
Eh~?
What kind of stuff?
Ehehehe ahahaHAHA~
i'm laughing so hard because of this
they doing certain repetitive motion
Seems like she'd be really fun to hang out with in general, haha. And Steve too!
@@subscribeofficial7134 "to and fro " motion 😛
@@mr.noname6109 ievan polkka
In France, PDA is so common ! I personally hold hands or hug or even kiss on the cheeks my boy and girl friends and people aren't shocked. But you know, there is also this thing, "La bise", so even with strangers, there is "intimate" interactions so yeah, it's not weird at all here since everyone does it.
it is the same in America, at least where I'm from.
I just don't like if they tongue or grope or a full on makeout
It's so right. . . But as a french I hate "la bise" and seeing people like. . . kissing or idk. . .I mean holding hands is okay, but I don't like seeing PDA, even tho I have some with friends x)
So I need to move to France, lol, I'm sick of people-hating shut ins who can't handle other people loving each other.
+Krystal Lawrence where do u live?
One of the guys made a clear distinction when it came to kissing. He mentioned "using your tongue" when kissing in public was going too far. That I agree to. But kissing with just your lips and without tongue, or a peck on the lips or cheek is fine in my opinion. Besides, even hugging is technically PDA, and hugging is just hugging. But groping is something totally different. Like the guy said "if it's for sexual arousal" then yeah, it's going too far. But that's when PDA becomes okay, because there's a difference between "Public Display of AFFECTION" and Public Display of "SEXUAL AROUSAL". They're getting the two mixed up. PDA, hugging and kissing, is fine. PDSA, groping and tongue kissing, is not okay. Every one of these people, when they said PDA, had a slightly different definition of the word. So people are SAYING the same thing but MEANING something else, making PDA a general relative concept to the majority of people.
the girl with the cap is ssssoooooo pretty 😍
The black haired girl at 2:20 is gorgeous
almost all of them were!
I love her too
James you are gross
외국인들의 취향이 이리 특이할줄이야... 신기할따름...
Jhon-moon-ga Hunter ㅉㅉ... 에휴
3:51 I SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE
Lol.. i would suffer in S.Korea.
lol
It's quite the same in Philippines though
Good one lol Gema naa
Gemakrisindo W. Naa
Same...we cant have sex anymore in the street without being judged :(
Haha at 3:50 she didn't even notice he snatched some popcorn or whatever they are eating and the girl on the left covers her cup with her hand.
I've never seen my parents hold hands either... and I'm even not korean i'm actually latina
karolkat same lol i saw it once and i cringed *currently cringing at memory*
SuperVandal101 lmao xD ikr
karolkat are you my sister? lol jk that would be crazy
Are you latina, and this is the only thing that you saw?
I'm brazillian, is usual to me always one of my parents go to work,they kiss each other.
Hugging and kissing is normal to me.
Sorry for my english
SuperVandal101 I am >:D
lol jk
4:03 Im addicted to that laugh.
as far as I'm concerned as a Korean it's not conservative just envying
lololol
That seems like that's really what it may be for most people, or most Koreans? I think.
no.
I'm from Ireland and here people kiss, hug, caress in public. Not sexual but more affectionate. Nobody seems to care because it's really none of their business. People should do what they want but at least keep it PG in public areas
I get the vibe that Koreans are way obsessed with being in a relationship. Being single is like the worst thing ever, and you should feel like a horrible person and that there's something wrong with you. It's ridiculous. Be single, be free, do your thing. There's more to life than settling down and pumping out babies asap. ;)
In India couple can't even hold hands
And they think Korea is conservative😂😂
😂🤣true
Same
Your questions are rly commendable ,you make them to answer fully to every question of yours but also ours too ,your interviews flow normally like an everyday conversation :D
Great Job!!
2:21 awww they are cute!
theyre sooo funny! you picked the best people to intereview! great job! great questions too; I was curious about the parents question
These Korean interviews are sooo interesting! Keep up the awesome work guys :))
3:51 i love how the girl doesn't even care that he just took her popcorn
The most entertaining Asian Boss video I've seen to date - I love everyone in it, and laugh along!
I am became addicted to the Asian boss videos nice !
2:24 when the girls are hugging the caption just says ship it😂 they read my mind
prayers go out to the guy in the pink shirt.. never seen a friendzone live before
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It makes me happy to see others happy so when ever i see couples i smile and feel happy for them
I really enjoyed watching this interview because all of the people were so cheery and lively and nice! They just seemed to be having a fun time and it was nice to watch. :)
It was good when they started showing examples. Usually when you hear the "no PDA in public" you think like a kiss on the cheek or holding hands, but no it seems like everyone is on the same page lol. Like, if you go OVERBOARD, hugging your girlfriend for 20 minutes in a crowded doorway when she's just going to work lol, or making out and grabbing parts on the subway.
Cuz yeah, in fact, I already wish people would do less of that around me in the US. Sometimes you just want to have a friendly outing without the couple in your group making out at the dinner table or humping at the pool, and that should be alright!
In Korea PDA between same sex is fine, but in America when that happens people automatically think they're gay even if they're just holding hands or hugging very affectionately. Sometimes it gets irritating when people assume things that fast
Guys never do that.
Owl eyes Kinda sad though
Thank you for your videos.
Very interesting and informative video here and I certainly do love the ragtime piano background music also!!
the guy with the pink shirt was so cute and funny
agree
Steve is so good-looking. I like his skin color.
A hug is, in the end, just a hug. Not a crime! Be proud of showing your affection for another! Peace and Love!
It is nice when parents are affectionate with each other in front of the kids! Marriages are hard! And if parents can continue to respect one another, to cherish each other, etc.. that's truly special! It's good for kids to see this!
3:51 *stealth 100*
These reactions are actually kinda strange to me, because where I work there is a big Korean community, and whenever I see young Koreans, they're almost always lovey-dovey couples doing the usual hugging, nuzzling, pecking, caressing, etc.
This was delightfully fun to watch!
This is so funny and applicable to where I am from, thank you it's hilarious! :D
So my mom is chinese and my dad‘s german and they always hold hands and sometimes kiss eachother idk i think it‘s cute since it shows me that they still love each other
I love how the interviewer just takes some of the girls popcorn at 3:52 😂
In close American families, there is lots of displays of affection seen between the parents. I think it is a good thing for children to experience this as it influences how they treat their friends, girl friends/boy friends, spouses, and children. It seems affection between parents is not seen much in Korea and this affects their shyness level. Go to an American airport or other western country's airports and see how people greet friends and family there. This seems to surprise people from very conservative countries when they first experience it.
Displays such as hugging, even a casual public kiss, massaging an ear, holding hands are not usually seen in a sexual way here, but as ways of showing someone you care for them. Some of the skinship Koreans giggle about with shyness is not even given a second glance in the U.S. and other western societies. I rolled my eyes when I saw the girl afraid to touch her boyfriend's ear for a demonstration. There is a point though, even in western cultures when it gets obviously sexual that is not acceptable.
this channel is always badass, very entertaining when they make interviews like this
i love conservative societies like korea and japan, I love Koreans and Japanese, Koreans are so funny
yes that's true but some of them don't
Your voice is really nice :)
Okay this was great. love The guy in the salmon shirt when he was bending down volunteering for the PDA ear stroking demo had me rolling. 🤣
I like it when this guy do the interview because people always seem comfortable around him.. They would answer honestly like they're conversing with friends
4:03 Girl: EHEHEHEHEHEHEHEH
*Justin Bieber pops up* "I like that laugh"
Lmaoooolklkklookdjddbdbsjs
3:51 when he takes some of her popcorn omg
This was so funny and entertaining especially toward the middle to end
In Argentina, non sexual PDA are so common among friends and couples, and even between ppl who'd be considered almost strangers in other countries. It's really healthy!! touch boosts the immune system, it's extremely important in the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral development of babies and children, it reduces stress (lowers the lvl of cortisol) and improves the memory and health of elder people. In extreme cases of touch deprivation babies die and adults are more likely to develop eating disorders, agressive tendencies and depression. There's a lot of info about touch deprivation online, it's really interesting.
At 2:49, you can clearly see the second girl dying a little on the inside as her friend rejects her lol
I was just in Korea a few weeks ago and I saw many young couples doing PDA on the subway, on the street and etc. Several of the couples kissed on the lips, but mostly it was kisses on the female's foreheads. It was very sweet to see and I saw nothing inappropriate.
that's a freaking nice channel, I'm from Algeria and i respect Asian civilizations specially Korea & Japan and glad to see & hear your opinions, your amazing as a conservative people ;)
Most of the Asian countries are conservative . For example China,India etc
@@ao_452 3 years and you still engage on the conversation, i'm just glad
thank you brother !
I would be cool if you guys made a video asking foreigners the same question. :D This vid was fun
Me and my friends do a lot of touching stuff and i feel like if western ppl saw us theyd think we're gay 😂😂😂 but really. Girls get really touchy touchy in pakistan and no one ever misunderstands and even if guys get touchy with each other. Its perfectly normal among friends. I too have never seen my parents get touchy with each other 😂
I love the two girls with popcorn XD
omg that blonde(?) girl with sunglasses on has a gorgeous laugh, she seems so ..you know? I really like her personality!
The moment you BE PROUD TO ASIAN..AND BE AN ASIAN...♡♡♡...
4:06 her reaction is me 100%
It seems like they're mixing PDA with over sexual behavior.
When I picture PDA I picture a couple is just being really cute and mushy holding hands, kissing on the cheek,and giving each other pecks.
Not grouping or making out. That's literally not okay anywhere.
I LOVE the Korean accent. It just sounds so cute. Both Korea and Japan have such cute sounding languages.
3:28 I had to replay that a few times, cracks me up everytime. xDD
I leaving for Korea in 2 days..
This is gonna be fun
Is nobody going to question the fact that that guy was in the woods at night
1:17 i like the slight smile you gave when the girl tried to give an example by hugged you 😁
I absolutely loved this topic and the responses to your questions.
They seemed embarrassed by you even saying PDA out loud, LOL! Ya'll would fall out if you came to Texas and saw what we consider PDA! I think it's the heat here that causes people to be all over each other in public, LOL!
I think there are limits to it but I think everyone should determine what those are for themselves. After all America is a free society which means you are going to see and hear some stuff that you don't agree with on occasion.
Thanks for sharing your video with the world. They make me want to visit Korea some day.
I dunno why, but I started laughing when Steve grabbed some of the girl's popcorn haha
OH THE HORROR!!! People showing affection for each other in... public!!!
My exact thoughts. Affection should not be a thing to be ashamed about. Especially the way we reject more erotic PDA shows that we dismiss not only other people's sexuality, but also our own. Stigma hurts. Let's become more accepting and happy for those who engage in PDA.
vicarious014 In Greece and Italy, in eastern europe too, you can get more warm and friendly greetings. Nothinf wrong with hugging people you meet, tis a wonderful thing. They're so much more family oriented and loving and warm than somewhere like the UK, where it is still quite cold with one another physically, yet on the other hand everything is sexualised. We miss out the in between parts. People don't have huge family meals and invite new people for dinner and such in the same way. Man I love traditional culture. Sex was private and people could be more human with one another in public.
vicarious014 I'm fine with affection, but when it becomes dry humping and foreplay then we have a problem.
Cindy Ge it's not even about other people's sexualities like that's their problems but idc whether you're straight, lesbian, pan, gay, trans I don't want to see you French kissing or groping each other in public like why? If you're in a public place you should have respect for the people around you and in my opinion when PDA gets to that level it's not considerate of the people around.
Excessive pda is immensely disrespectful to the people around you. It reflects on you see others and yourself. Selfish and inconsiderate. This what I hate. Besides, it's uncomfortable to watch two people go at it with each other's faces.
Nice interview, very good people and awesome the interviewer.
It's interesting how the things are different around the world. I'm brazilian and here we kiss, hug, and touch all the time, even with strangers. When I was child I grow up thinking that every people are already opened like this, but when my old sister and friends start to travel around the world, they told me that some cultures are more conservatives.
Omg love this kind of video
말씀드리고 싶은게 서양이나 진보가 옳고 우리나라나 보수적인 것이 더 하위이거나 틀린것, 부족한 것이라고 생각하지 않으셨으면 좋겠어요. 그냥 각자의 문화가 다른것 뿐이라는 걸
아무도 그렇게 생각 안하는데요?
반복적인 마찰행위ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
ㅁㅊㅋㅋㅋㅋ뿜었어여ㅋㅋㅋ
😂 this is one of my favorite episodes of Asian Boss
wheres the video of the students going at it in the classroom? link pls
While I don't think you should be overly affectionate in public, I think hugs or a quick kiss should be perfectly fine. I can understand how these people think, but when it comes to the lighter PDA, it seems like it's mostly jealousy. One thing that I see as problematic however is that they don't see their parents be affectionate toward each other. Of course, it might be uncomfortable at an older age, but to not see it at all simply means you don't get used to such things. It probably contributes to the extremely low birth rates in South Korea.
When it comes to me and my family, we are extremely open when it comes to just about anything except negative feelings. It's not that we don't listen, it's that we don't want to talk about them most of the time. So displays of affection and such aren't uncommon, and we've even talked about shaving vs. not shaving pubic hair during dinner... when the girlfriend I had at the time was present. She even joined in on the conversation. She grew up in Sweden, and while her mother is from the Philippines, she seems really open about most things as well. Well, her mother seems open about most things as well, she even told me about her dating younger guys the first time I ever met her, so I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
There are obvious lines between Affection and Bedroom behaviour. Holding hands, casual kisses and hugging is sweet. In fact, It makes me happy seeing two people in love and not afraid to express it. But groping and hardcore make out sessions is so unnecessary. At around age 7 I saw two people basically eating eachcothers faces and i was terrified lol
스티븐형님 진짜 좋닼ㅋㅋ
2:23초 오른쪽 여자분 넘나 이쁘다....천사다 천사
I'm American and I agree with them. I think linking arms, holding hands, and hugs are okay but kissing on the lips, groping, and such are too much.
Theresa Kirk i think kissing is alright, aslong as they arent sucking each others faces off
Theresa Kirk i completely agree with you , kissing and groping is way too much
mew Evamii in my country , people won't kiss each other in public ,hug is also really not common
Theresa Kirk exactly! But when you're in a different public place, light amount of kissing is okay and i don't mind it at all, but doing it on the lips for a long time is not worth it.
Peck on the lips is ok. A makeout session is too much. I’m American
Whenever I hear questions about PDA in Asia, it seems like the interviewer assumes that it's acceptable in the West. It's not really cool anywhere in the world.
I dont think so ... in germany hugging is completely normal, no one would even look at you, and kissing aswell but if you start eating each others faces people would stare lol
True, but in Western Europe it's for the most part okay, and in the US and Canada, it's fairly okay at least. I assume it's not as common Eastern Europe or South America, but I don't know much about how PDA is looked upon there. Did you think about some specific countries?
Nobody is gonna yell at you in Canada for it, but nobody wants to see it either. Same as in Korea.
+Krasniqi Donika Yeah like in europe or more specifically germany you see PDA everywhere and it's normal
I'm from eastern europe aswell, kosovo to be exact which is a muslim country and it would def NOT be okay at all there haha, if you kiss in public you can be sure that some older person is gonna yell at you lol
2:22 that was so cute when they hugged
I can tell that you guys interviewed them at Korea university during the festival period!!!!! 😀😀😀😉 I could've run into you guys on campus!!!