This reminds me of when I moved in with my dad and he gave up binge drinking and I had to wean off of addictive medication in my adolescence. We both went through withdrawal together and mental health problem and came to this super deep understanding and unconditional love. This will be my wedding song with him. I love you so much daddy. You're my rock.
Anyone that has loved and lost on account of themselves can relate to this song. If you have you know the feeling of the world around you melting and the feeling in your heart you get the first time it really hits you that you screwed this perfect place up... The cold overwhelming emptiness that leaves you breathless. To roll over in the middle of the night and reach for someone only to find it was a dream. Its been a dream... Your still alone. And you have no one to blame but yourself. "If you just walked away, What could I really say? Would it matter anyways? Would it change how you feel?" This part is deep for me. You can hear it in his voice. My feelings are on fire. all i want more than anything id to wrap her up in my arms. For her to trust me. For her to let go and let me in again. But she won't. Its too late and nothing that i could possibly do or say will change the way she feels anymore. She's all i want... but she's gone... and im stuck knowing that the chance that only comes around once in my life has passed me by and its all my fault. I feel this man. I hear this song and i want to drop to my knees and let go. How do you feel toward someone again when you lose that person you want to spend the rest of your life with because of your actions.
I've listened to Staind since the first album. Their music has always been one of things in life that I could fall back on to help me escape the world around me. Each album they've released is attached it's self to the years of my youth, and growth
4months clean to the day, I think God he has saved me, I pray that my life keeps going in the direction it is and understanding how Everything Changes to the Good and to reunite my family
Lydia Kayotuk can't be no worse than mine. But it's ok, look up n around you. Look for the good. I live with the weight of all my wrongs daily, but if you want good, it will come. We can't change the past, it's those trying times that defy whom we are n press on.
Lydia Kayotuk your welcome sweety, you can email me anytime if you need. jagox129345 at Gmail.....don't give up, God knows I don't wanna now, I've been trying so hard alone and I have peace but don't have anyone to share my experience with now cause how I been. But I'm alive n push to become just one decent person whom my family can count on someday.....
Everything does change, and it's something we all take for granted. Live for today, anticipate tomorrow, and keep the sweet memories close to your heart.
people say time heals everything. but it doesnt. all time does is teach us that it will never heal. you just find a new someone or buy things to fill the hole or gap in your heart that the special person you had in your life left behind. we learn to live with the pain. and hide the pain as well. so no one but you knows about.
I'm sad that I'll never see this amazing band live :( this is one of those rare bands that truly speaks to us as humans instead of money and power hungry animals.
Said who? They're just on hiatus while Aaron pursues country, he never ruled out future albums or shows as Staind, he in fact says it's more than likely.
Words ......there are not any that can describe what this song and Staind and Aaron Lewis mean to me. Thank you for singing the songs that let me know I feel and it matters !! XO
if you all love staind as much as I do you should check out VOLBEAT I fell in love with their music as much as Staind they both helped me through tough bloody times marriage breakdown,being homeless and dealing with trauma 👍 they both sooth my soul better than any drug or drink could ever hope to satisfy...
High end up going with me coming to get to be a good day at a lot of time and effort in this week and best of all time and it was 💯👌 but not gonna make me
I'm sorry for letting my depression over come me and ruining the beautiful love we had, I'll never love anyone the way and to the depth I love you, depression is the most horrible and silent killer in the world, if you have someone you love, don't ever let them go no matter how dark your world gets
this message really touch me because I went thur same depression in my life after losing my mom 3yrs ago and i was in a dark place for a long time in my life
dude wat u said truely hit the spot on my own life. u cant help who u love or why they have a hold on u so bad it hurts to stay or leave. but da true meaning of love is stickn by them thru thick and thin. Weather the storm together i say, i bet she feels the same but fightn her own demons. thats y ppl need one another u cant finish wat yall started. humans are meant tobe dependent on one another.
I let Réka go... I couldn't handle the pain of her being separated from me, she was transferred to another psychiatric hospital and our plans has split up. I didn't go after her... I chose avoidance to deal with the pain back then. It has been over 4 years by now... I contacted her half a year ago and she rejected me, she told me she doesn't want to stir up the past. I've been thinking about what I could possibly do that wouldn't make it any worse but I got nothing. I haven't looked at anyone the way I did look at Réka. Her mind is a beautiful place... I wish I could swim in her thoughts like I used to. :( I could listen to her for hours... I hope that her life is still in order like it was 2 years after our short-lived encounter. She has no idea but she means a lot to me. I wish there was anything I could do to change her mind.
HAPPY NEW YEAR. Don...i am happy you liked my comment. I actually forgot the saying that day. However I believe the saying is " WHEN YOU HAVE EVERYTHING LEFT BUT TIME...YOU MAKE EVERY MINUTE MATTER.Yes my friend...depression is real and so many people do NOT understand that. I do.You MADE MY DAY BY LIKING MY COMMENT! AND ALWAYS REMEMBER...YOU MATTER.HOPE THIS IS A WONDERFUL YEAR FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND ANYONE WHO SUFFERS FROM THIS. JUST REMEMBER..."YOU ARE LOVED"❤ music helps me.
Absolute 💯 facts .been struggling my whole life ,and have lost so much time I can't get back , living every day as of. Drowning and I can't find my way back to the top for air ,it's a constant battle every day all day with your self ,and it gets exhausting all around , mentally , physically , emotionally, and I have lost a lot more then time ,I've lost myself ,and my heart bc I thought e being this way would hurt him , so i stood away ,he thinks he isn't good enough , and he's so much more...staying alone I feel was my best option not bring anyone else into my suffer and pain , struggling is hard ,and I refuse to let dark completely take over and hope he'll understand I'm working my way to find myself , so I can give my all like he does deserve .he saw the real me the bad and the good but still accepted every part ,that is why he is the love of my life ANF 💔
Wow! I must have listened to this song 210 times by now...but it is spot on for my life right now. Funny how songs change w u over the years. Thanks again
I sourly weep when I hear this song. She simply walked away, and told me not to call her again. And when I asked her to give me another chance and that I can change for the better, she said that she had found someone else; when I asked her older sister, she told me that she did so to simply and permanently let you go. I still love her, and can't let her go, or find any fucking closure. I don't think that I can ever let go. I know for sure that if I get married and have a good wife, she will still be deep into my heart and running through my veins, because she was the first woman that I've truly loved. Sometimes you make mistakes that are irreparable, even if she tells you that it wasn't your fault; you still know that it is. Thank you Aaron Lewis and your entire band for understanding the way I feel.
I never had a dad role model growing up. When my dad wasn't working, he was kicking the shit out of us. I'm 34 now and have 2 kids, almost 3 of my own. It feels like most of the time I'm walking on shaky ground. Some nights when everyone is in bed, I sit and cry. I question everything I do with my kids. My living nightmare is to ever lift a hand to my kids. My biggest fear is becoming my dad. Me and my dad have moved on since then and never spoke about what happens but a part of me still blames him for the problems I've had. Him and a combination of things. Drugs, alcoholism and deep depression. I know I'm a good dad but there is and always will be a part of me that tells me I'm a shitty dad. This song and Fade are the two songs that remind me of what he put me through. Sorry. To who every read this, thank you for your time. You're an amazing person.
the one who has my heart this is for you. everytime I hear this I'll think of you an the memories we shared.. hope you made the right choice. I'll always love you!!
in the end everything works out the way it should. it was worth it to make someone else happy. I knew he wasn't ready to give up on her. it hurt but as long as he's happy an she's happy I'm ok. :)
Dude, plz edit the spell, cuz see, even some of the brightest faded people, those who even know this tune, and the beauty in it, have to go back and check, I mean,.... oops, nevermind meds,,, sorrry.... lol
To everyone out there in a hellistic relationship, go your seperate ways. Im currently in that situation & i try my hardest to keep my head up. But im dying inside. On another note if you found love, may you have a good life, after all, that's what everybody deserves. ✌️
Man, I can't get this song out of my head. I've been re-playing it over and over for the past few days. It describes so well what I'm going thru right now. Just ended a 6 year long relationship. I acknowledge that I was never perfect and I could have been a better person, but again, Everything Changes. I know she deserves a better person. Time to say good buy and move on...
Where do I start. This song hits me on so many different levels. When I want to take that final step this song brings me back every time. My heart hurts and broken. I have faith in the good lord that he has a plan for me I may not know yet but someday I will.
13 years of heartache and disappointment. Still remained here and waited for you to come back Everytime, just to prove nothing has changed. This time I cannot forgive you, But I will still love you
5 years was all we got before things fell apart . We both had issues , I see that now , but this feeling of emptiness let's me know I do love you . We will fix this and one day we will be stronger for it . I love you Stephanie
That's the appeal of Aaron's writing. He's just a regular ass dude. So glad they are writing a new album. I wish him luck in his county endeavor but it's just not the same
Every time I hear this song I think my 5 year love and father of my child. He was a waste of time but will always hold a special place in my heart. I’ve moved on to bigger and better things. Found someone who deserves my time ❤️
There was a time when I couldn't listen to this song without crying, when my wife walked out on me. That was about a year ago.Time will heal and time changes everything just like the song says. Great song.
I remember listening to this when I was too young for relationships and loved it. Hearing it years later.. It's like wow. Aaron Lewis and his whole band really was amazing. Ever word I feel too much now.
Drumstick! The work i did before I met you helped me to be who i am. Before you i felt like I was running in place. You helped me grow soooo much, YOU'RE such a blessing. This song has another meaning to it too. I hope you feel it.
One of the loves of my life passed away. I was writing him a letter shortly after and my phone turned on a music streaming service by itself. This song came on. The things I was writing and the questions I had.. this song answered all of it. I knew he was there. It's been 7 Years tomorrow. I have since fell in love again and I still miss him. I miss his laugh the most.
High end up going well and that is a lot of money and it is a good idea of what you can come to your office and you are not going for me to be a lot to be a good day at a lot of things but it will help me out with me and I'll be back in touch when we can get to know you and you can do it for you and you have a lot of fun and be safe out with me going to be a good day at school tomorrow and tomorrow but if you can you please send a copy
"I Am The Mess U Chose, The Closet U Cannot Close, The Devil N U I Suppose.." This song..Hits♡ I LOVE Aaron Lewis, All his songs u can relate to n some way, From some time n ur life♡ Really makes ya think..♡
Wow. I remember years ago when I used to love this girl and she tore me apart so I came here listened on repeat for hours and cried til I fell asleep. Looking back on it she damaged me so fucking much it makes me sick thinking about her. 2 years later I'm happy with a girl who actually brings me together and loves me for who I am. You can probably find my comment somewhere far down maybe under a different name. But I'm here to let you know moving on is possible and the right one will come to you. Live for someone who loves you for you, doesn't judge, and brings you together energetically and emotionally.
I thought the same thing when I got divorced, all i wanted was her back in my life. But 1.5 years later and I wouldn't take her back for nothing, not even if she won the lottery.... well depends on how much $$$$....Lol
I'm not a fan of Staind's ballads, but this song, along with their recent "Here And Now", destroys me. It's like a huge lump in my throat. I dedicate this song to my mother, she had to put up with my depression her entire life and I will never be able to repay her for everything she did for me.
I would give all my words, all my breath, even all of my life for just 1 moment, 1 split moment to feel how I used to feel. So true.. Everything does change. Once I was a king, now I am a fool.
I love music so much love just playing songs like this laying head back breathing slow and listing to every word and motion in the song.. music hits me strong it's like medicine to meI can listen to music all day
take it from an old man who has walked down this road don't spend too much time on regret life is way to short & way to fast to live with all the loves lost remember the great spirt loves you no matter what ☺
There's so many things happen to life this pass year. I can't believe its almost 15 years since i first heard about this song. Wow. Now its pandemic. Everything really change.
I normally wouldn’t comment but this don’t reminds me of what happened to my friend. She went missing early this year and I miss her so much 🙁 if she sees this I love you and I hope to hear from you soon... you’ve always been my best friend...💔
How is it possible to love someone so much and them feel nothing towards you after 8 years together and a beautiful child.. how can I possibly live and let go?
Take one day at a time. Some times steps outside of your inside feelings. Go for a walk, look at the beautiful, wonderful things around you. Feel breeze in your hair. Sun on your skin. Take it in .
You have to let it go. Look at that beautiful child and feel the love. Not for him, but the child. THAT love will get you through. You don't have a choice. Find that beautiful smile and shine on you crazy diamond! Be strong for the child. Don't let your sorrow cast a cloud. You are bigger and stronger that you know. You fill a room with your brightness. Light your light! Dance your dance. No one else can do what you do! Enough! It's time to enjoy life JUST for the sake of enjoying life! Now, let me see you shine! Angelica, you got this! You always did. Now, GET UP!
*All I pray for is to hope, all of our dark days will be put behind us! 6 kids 12 years later and 1 year of falling and holding on for dear life i hope we can be US again because I miss it*
I learned about STAIND and Aaron Lewis way after they came out, didn't know what great music I was missing. Everyone says todays music sucks, well this is the 1 case where it's not so. Great lyrics and singing.
trust me the pain never really goes away, you just bury it deep down. find ways to mask it. but never forget it. just know that things will get better,easier. just know that no matter what no matter how hard you try to forget,just know your missed by me everyday. your not possibly replaceable. I think about you everyday. the drugs don't stop the pain they just numb it. I would give it all up in an instance for you and our beautiful daughter to be home with me. I love you both very much.
When you meet the perfect unperfect woman.... She has you and you know it. Just happens. She knows the truth now that she is gone. Rest in peace Tawnya.
This song holds a special place in my heart because it's connected to the woman who walked out of my life 6 years ago. Gone but not forgotten and with the hopes of one day reconciling but who knows
This reminds me of when I moved in with my dad and he gave up binge drinking and I had to wean off of addictive medication in my adolescence. We both went through withdrawal together and mental health problem and came to this super deep understanding and unconditional love. This will be my wedding song with him. I love you so much daddy. You're my rock.
Okay thanks ☺️☺️☺️ you have a lot of things to get done before then
The ones who aren't afraid of to be willing to stay through the pain are truly ours to be had in our lives.
That’s beautiful
You're so lucky blessed to have expirenced something so magical and rare.
What a great story!! I too have struggled with addiction. But those closest to me gave up. Been sober 5 years now. Their loss I guess!!
Being on this level with a parent is truly one of the biggest blessings life has to offer. I owe everything to my father.
I remember sitting in my car listening to this. I was 17. I'm now 32 and still love their music! ❤
Jayb Ottantadue ...I agree! ❤
exact same for me...
There music is really inspired too!!
Hands down one of the best songs ever, both in terms of lyrics and vocals/music. It has this authentic and grounded sadness to it
Anyone that has loved and lost on account of themselves can relate to this song.
If you have you know the feeling of the world around you melting and the feeling in your heart you get the first time it really hits you that you screwed this perfect place up... The cold overwhelming emptiness that leaves you breathless.
To roll over in the middle of the night and reach for someone only to find it was a dream. Its been a dream... Your still alone. And you have no one to blame but yourself.
"If you just walked away, What could I really say? Would it matter anyways? Would it change how you feel?" This part is deep for me. You can hear it in his voice. My feelings are on fire. all i want more than anything id to wrap her up in my arms. For her to trust me. For her to let go and let me in again. But she won't. Its too late and nothing that i could possibly do or say will change the way she feels anymore.
She's all i want... but she's gone... and im stuck knowing that the chance that only comes around once in my life has passed me by and its all my fault.
I feel this man. I hear this song and i want to drop to my knees and let go. How do you feel toward someone again when you lose that person you want to spend the rest of your life with because of your actions.
Johnny Calabro we are in the same boat
@@miguelmendoza8514 yes mate it sucks some music just hits me in the face
Busted me rite in the feels man damn it
@@dustinfrye4749 same boat now; hope you are in a better mindset.
Such a heart wrenching song always
I've listened to Staind since the first album. Their music has always been one of things in life that I could fall back on to help me escape the world around me. Each album they've released is attached it's self to the years of my youth, and growth
Cody Elix name there first album. poser
4months clean to the day, I think God he has saved me, I pray that my life keeps going in the direction it is and understanding how Everything Changes to the Good and to reunite my family
Lydia Kayotuk God Hope so. Have a good evening.
Lydia Kayotuk why?
Lydia Kayotuk idk? What do you mean?
Lydia Kayotuk can't be no worse than mine. But it's ok, look up n around you. Look for the good. I live with the weight of all my wrongs daily, but if you want good, it will come. We can't change the past, it's those trying times that defy whom we are n press on.
Lydia Kayotuk your welcome sweety, you can email me anytime if you need. jagox129345 at Gmail.....don't give up, God knows I don't wanna now, I've been trying so hard alone and I have peace but don't have anyone to share my experience with now cause how I been. But I'm alive n push to become just one decent person whom my family can count on someday.....
Aaron lewis... you were always an inspiration to me. the lyrics touch me every single time
🤘❤️✊🏻
Everything does change, and it's something we all take for granted. Live for today, anticipate tomorrow, and keep the sweet memories close to your heart.
people say time heals everything. but it doesnt. all time does is teach us that it will never heal. you just find a new someone or buy things to fill the hole or gap in your heart that the special person you had in your life left behind. we learn to live with the pain. and hide the pain as well. so no one but you knows about.
issac lopez
you're so right.
xxx👙👙
xxx 👙👙
That's so true
Except the love I have for him will never fade... I'd rather be alone if I can't ever have him at my side again. Only time will tell.
Fact,I've waited 10 years to heal.the pain has only gotten worse😑😔
1:57 Damn. I've never cried from watching a lyrics video. But, this one really makes me cry. I miss my old friends.
I'm sad that I'll never see this amazing band live :( this is one of those rare bands that truly speaks to us as humans instead of money and power hungry animals.
Said who? They're just on hiatus while Aaron pursues country, he never ruled out future albums or shows as Staind, he in fact says it's more than likely.
“I am the mess YOU choose” love that lyric.
Words ......there are not any that can describe what this song and Staind and Aaron Lewis mean to me. Thank you for singing the songs that let me know I feel and it matters !! XO
Angie Fenn ..Me too
staind has the best songs.
Of all time
if you all love staind as much as I do you should check out VOLBEAT I fell in love with their music as much as Staind they both helped me through tough bloody times marriage breakdown,being homeless and dealing with trauma 👍 they both sooth my soul better than any drug or drink could ever hope to satisfy...
High end up going with me coming to get to be a good day at a lot of time and effort in this week and best of all time and it was 💯👌 but not gonna make me
Highest level is going well for a good idea to go to me and my family is in a lot to do
But it will not allow me please and thanks for letting me
Staind saved my teenaged life.....32 yrs old and I still come back to all of their albums. Especially when I'm in my feelings.....
35..... aint that the fuckin truth!
Exactly where I'm at right now. Epic song.
36 even with the years I will come back
Same ♡
Man His music is like a treasure box. Everything he gets his hands on its perfect. I'm glad he makes such good music. The dude has talent!
I'm sorry for letting my depression over come me and ruining the beautiful love we had, I'll never love anyone the way and to the depth I love you, depression is the most horrible and silent killer in the world, if you have someone you love, don't ever let them go no matter how dark your world gets
this message really touch me because I went thur same depression in my life after losing my mom 3yrs ago and i was in a dark place for a long time in my life
dude wat u said truely hit the spot on my own life. u cant help who u love or why they have a hold on u so bad it hurts to stay or leave. but da true meaning of love is stickn by them thru thick and thin. Weather the storm together i say, i bet she feels the same but fightn her own demons. thats y ppl need one another u cant finish wat yall started. humans are meant tobe dependent on one another.
I let Réka go... I couldn't handle the pain of her being separated from me, she was transferred to another psychiatric hospital and our plans has split up. I didn't go after her... I chose avoidance to deal with the pain back then. It has been over 4 years by now... I contacted her half a year ago and she rejected me, she told me she doesn't want to stir up the past. I've been thinking about what I could possibly do that wouldn't make it any worse but I got nothing. I haven't looked at anyone the way I did look at Réka. Her mind is a beautiful place... I wish I could swim in her thoughts like I used to. :( I could listen to her for hours... I hope that her life is still in order like it was 2 years after our short-lived encounter. She has no idea but she means a lot to me. I wish there was anything I could do to change her mind.
HAPPY NEW YEAR. Don...i am happy you liked my comment. I actually forgot the saying that day. However I believe the saying is " WHEN YOU HAVE EVERYTHING LEFT BUT TIME...YOU MAKE EVERY MINUTE MATTER.Yes my friend...depression is real and so many people do NOT understand that. I do.You MADE MY DAY BY LIKING MY COMMENT! AND ALWAYS REMEMBER...YOU MATTER.HOPE THIS IS A WONDERFUL YEAR FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND ANYONE WHO SUFFERS FROM THIS. JUST REMEMBER..."YOU ARE LOVED"❤ music helps me.
Absolute 💯 facts .been struggling my whole life ,and have lost so much time I can't get back , living every day as of. Drowning and I can't find my way back to the top for air ,it's a constant battle every day all day with your self ,and it gets exhausting all around , mentally , physically , emotionally, and I have lost a lot more then time ,I've lost myself ,and my heart bc I thought e being this way would hurt him , so i stood away ,he thinks he isn't good enough , and he's so much more...staying alone I feel was my best option not bring anyone else into my suffer and pain , struggling is hard ,and I refuse to let dark completely take over and hope he'll understand I'm working my way to find myself , so I can give my all like he does deserve .he saw the real me the bad and the good but still accepted every part ,that is why he is the love of my life ANF 💔
To whomever may read this, You’re loved. ❤️
You too mate.
Love you too ,, 🖤
You too bro. ❤️
Awww.. some will disagree 🙄
THANKS
Haha thank you
I'm in love with the way he pieced together the chorus 🖤
This song is just my soul
Amazing lyrics!! This song NEVER gets old!! Time truly does change EVERYTHING!!!
One of their best songs!!! Classic!!!
Another beautiful song ! Can definitely relate to.
Wow! I must have listened to this song 210 times by now...but it is spot on for my life right now. Funny how songs change w u over the years. Thanks again
Yeah it affects everything.
One of my most favorite Staind songs.
I sourly weep when I hear this song. She simply walked away, and told me not to call her again. And when I asked her to give me another chance and that I can change for the better, she said that she had found someone else; when I asked her older sister, she told me that she did so to simply and permanently let you go. I still love her, and can't let her go, or find any fucking closure. I don't think that I can ever let go. I know for sure that if I get married and have a good wife, she will still be deep into my heart and running through my veins, because she was the first woman that I've truly loved. Sometimes you make mistakes that are irreparable, even if she tells you that it wasn't your fault; you still know that it is. Thank you Aaron Lewis and your entire band for understanding the way I feel.
the same thing is happening to me right now man, I feel your pain.
I remember going to weight lifting competitions in highschool and this song would be playing and my blind daddy would be cheering me on.....R.I.P DAD
I never had a dad role model growing up. When my dad wasn't working, he was kicking the shit out of us.
I'm 34 now and have 2 kids, almost 3 of my own. It feels like most of the time I'm walking on shaky ground. Some nights when everyone is in bed, I sit and cry. I question everything I do with my kids. My living nightmare is to ever lift a hand to my kids. My biggest fear is becoming my dad.
Me and my dad have moved on since then and never spoke about what happens but a part of me still blames him for the problems I've had. Him and a combination of things. Drugs, alcoholism and deep depression.
I know I'm a good dad but there is and always will be a part of me that tells me I'm a shitty dad.
This song and Fade are the two songs that remind me of what he put me through.
Sorry. To who every read this, thank you for your time. You're an amazing person.
the one who has my heart this is for you. everytime I hear this I'll think of you an the memories we shared.. hope you made the right choice. I'll always love you!!
in the end everything works out the way it should. it was worth it to make someone else happy. I knew he wasn't ready to give up on her. it hurt but as long as he's happy an she's happy I'm ok. :)
High school and college of engineering in touch when we can get to know that I'm going to have to get a job
"I am the mess you chose, the closet you cannot close." The best lyrics ever written.
Kid Skinner and you spelt them wrong
Heath Beckett closet* My bad.
Dude, plz edit the spell, cuz see, even some of the brightest faded people, those who even know this tune, and the beauty in it, have to go back and check, I mean,.... oops, nevermind meds,,, sorrry.... lol
Johnny B Biggers lol There ya go.
cool
To everyone out there in a hellistic relationship, go your seperate ways. Im currently in that situation & i try my hardest to keep my head up. But im dying inside. On another note if you found love, may you have a good life, after all, that's what everybody deserves. ✌️
I hope u r in a better situation and well now.
I miss this band and this music! 2019 and still giving me chills!!
Man, I can't get this song out of my head. I've been re-playing it over and over for the past few days. It describes so well what I'm going thru right now. Just ended a 6 year long relationship. I acknowledge that I was never perfect and I could have been a better person, but again, Everything Changes. I know she deserves a better person. Time to say good buy and move on...
Elliot Chaparro stay strong
Where do I start. This song hits me on so many different levels.
When I want to take that final step this song brings me back every time.
My heart hurts and broken.
I have faith in the good lord that he has a plan for me
I may not know yet but someday I will.
Keep that faith brother because in the end that's what's going to help you pull through. 💯
Love Staind.. everything has so much meaning .. makes me cry ♡
Things can change in a split second. And it’s always far more than you can ever imagine.
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL SONG. I LOVE U GUYS
Beautiful song.... and all these sensitive men on here commenting! Glad to know they're are still some around that have feelings and emotions! 😍😍
Donna Brunet I hated losing my true love . I would have died for her
Granville Friel , 😢
Donna Brunet what are feelings and emotions
Donna Brunet there are a very few of us left. I'm one of them.
13 years of heartache and disappointment. Still remained here and waited for you to come back Everytime, just to prove nothing has changed.
This time I cannot forgive you,
But I will still love you
Quit wasting your time
@@ATCAdventureland youuure right, but I guess when you love someone it's not that easy
Sad 😞
@g Boyd i did not. Have not had contact in months
Wow, i was going to feel awesome commenting 10 years later, but here i see people still view this. SMALL WORLD! WOO
I wasn't even looking for this song, BUT IT'S SO GOOD!
5 years was all we got before things fell apart . We both had issues , I see that now , but this feeling of emptiness let's me know I do love you . We will fix this and one day we will be stronger for it . I love you Stephanie
I hope things get better for you brother 🤘🏻
It’s wild how accurate this song is in soo many peoples lives
You ain't even kidding
That's the appeal of Aaron's writing. He's just a regular ass dude. So glad they are writing a new album. I wish him luck in his county endeavor but it's just not the same
seen this band twice live. by far my favorite band and top 5 best song by them ever.
Every time I hear this song I think my 5 year love and father of my child. He was a waste of time but will always hold a special place in my heart. I’ve moved on to bigger and better things. Found someone who deserves my time ❤️
There was a time when I couldn't listen to this song without crying, when my wife walked out on me. That was about a year ago.Time will heal and time changes everything just like the song says. Great song.
J03 DaDdY this is how I'm feeling now. I wish I could turn back time. Good luck to you
KillaKelly Bell thanks, I wish you the best as well. Love the user name BTW.
J03 DaDdY I feel you on that one and Zoe Jane is another one mine took my baby girl my life it's been rough
I feel your pain brother, my wife left me behind as well. God speed my friend.
I remember listening to this when I was too young for relationships and loved it. Hearing it years later.. It's like wow. Aaron Lewis and his whole band really was amazing. Ever word I feel too much now.
I miss you dad ... You will always have a place in my heart. Life will be so hard without you.
Alex Lattano sorry for your lost I lost a friend teacher aunt, also uncle
Otaku sorry for your loss I'm here if you need anything ❤
BALANCE that's sweet. He just passed away. It breaks my heart.
I jus lost a very good friend in a motorcycle accident
Chris Scalf I'm so sorry. My dad died from artery disease. I came home and found him dead.
Still Jammin' years later, some songs just never get old.
Drumstick! The work i did before I met you helped me to be who i am. Before you i felt like I was running in place. You helped me grow soooo much, YOU'RE such a blessing. This song has another meaning to it too. I hope you feel it.
This one breaks my ❤
Missing my husband ..God called him home 12 years ago today. Rest in Peace Chadwick John Daigrepont
Rest in peace, chad
One of the loves of my life passed away. I was writing him a letter shortly after and my phone turned on a music streaming service by itself. This song came on. The things I was writing and the questions I had.. this song answered all of it. I knew he was there. It's been 7 Years tomorrow. I have since fell in love again and I still miss him. I miss his laugh the most.
Liar
Nope. But I'm glad you were there to see it happen. Oh wait. You weren't. This actually happened.
Thank you. Just came out of a rough breakup and this song really helps even though it’s meaningless at this point
High end up going well and that is a lot of money and it is a good idea of what you can come to your office and you are not going for me to be a lot to be a good day at a lot of things but it will help me out with me and I'll be back in touch when we can get to know you and you can do it for you and you have a lot of fun and be safe out with me going to be a good day at school tomorrow and tomorrow but if you can you please send a copy
@@tawanahickey9234 wtf are you talking about
Same. Just Totally Expresses Feelings encompasses the special sentiment
Take care I Hope Life Improves forU ✨💫
same here
"Not friends
Not enemies
Just strangers with memories "
Deep comment and so true
"I Am The Mess U Chose, The Closet U Cannot Close, The Devil N U I Suppose.."
This song..Hits♡ I LOVE Aaron Lewis, All his songs u can relate to n some way, From some time n ur life♡ Really makes ya think..♡
One of the greatest vocalist...
Yes
I'm shattered...need this right now❤
Angel Forster , so sorry angel 😭
Rodney F. Thank you!
Staind is my life. Every song describes it in a certain way. Especially this one. It's honestly my favorite.
This one reminds me of my ex ,,,,,,sad thing , great song
Wow. I remember years ago when I used to love this girl and she tore me apart so I came here listened on repeat for hours and cried til I fell asleep. Looking back on it she damaged me so fucking much it makes me sick thinking about her. 2 years later I'm happy with a girl who actually brings me together and loves me for who I am. You can probably find my comment somewhere far down maybe under a different name. But I'm here to let you know moving on is possible and the right one will come to you. Live for someone who loves you for you, doesn't judge, and brings you together energetically and emotionally.
your story made me feel better.
Happy to know that you found the one (^___^)
Jaxon Hanna nice to hear this from a male perspective. Thanks
I thought the same thing when I got divorced, all i wanted was her back in my life. But 1.5 years later and I wouldn't take her back for nothing, not even if she won the lottery.... well depends on how much $$$$....Lol
sure is..good luck to you both 👍
Im here for the long haul Drumstick. Everything changes, we have changed. Im loving this new life. Thank you!!!!❤
"It's sad when the people you know, become the people you knew" 😭💔
I'm not a fan of Staind's ballads, but this song, along with their recent "Here And Now", destroys me. It's like a huge lump in my throat. I dedicate this song to my mother, she had to put up with my depression her entire life and I will never be able to repay her for everything she did for me.
You never really get over it
It is very sad how life pulls you away from people you used to love.
yes it is.especial when you watching it,n feel helpless
yes, it all changes, totally know where your coming from...Great Song! Thanks AARON..
That's beautifully written
I would give all my words, all my breath, even all of my life for just 1 moment, 1 split moment to feel how I used to feel. So true.. Everything does change. Once I was a king, now I am a fool.
Whoflungdung same. Same.is how I feel
I was the shrine to her everyone said know I'm just a fool w/o her.
Fading Dandelion lover's never fade. But given the chance my be the king long strong. Ready 4 gourgous lady to see he again...
I lost my wife 6 months ago and I think of her everyday! Love you Malinda!
Johnny Oliver I'm soooo sorry!!!!😣😔😢
Sue Glitter91 Thanks Sue
Johnny Oliver I lost my husband Christmas eve of 2017 from cancer.i know how you feel
Hang in there buddy people love you
Johnny Oliver I am so sorry.
brought me to tears 😥
Me too . still
2018 and this song still gives me the feels.
I love music so much love just playing songs like this laying head back breathing slow and listing to every word and motion in the song.. music hits me strong it's like medicine to meI can listen to music all day
staind is my favorite band...I've been to there concerts 3 times and know every song....there such a inspiration to me
take it from an old man who has walked down this road don't spend too much time on regret life is way to short & way to fast to live with all the loves lost remember the great spirt loves you no matter what ☺
thank you for this
Perfect. Thanks. ❤️
There's so many things happen to life this pass year. I can't believe its almost 15 years since i first heard about this song. Wow. Now its pandemic. Everything really change.
This was played at our graduation reunion. Love you GB!
Staind is such an underrated band. Some of the songs that they made are way better than the trash we hear today.
I normally wouldn’t comment but this don’t reminds me of what happened to my friend. She went missing early this year and I miss her so much 🙁 if she sees this I love you and I hope to hear from you soon... you’ve always been my best friend...💔
did you ever find her? I hope so. If not I pray that you do.
I have nnanxnmmmsmsmjsmnsmmsmmsmsmmamjsmjmmznmzmjmzj of this bananas
Wow!! Everything changes for sure.
This song reminds me of him, I miss you so much , I hope you are happier now
Makes you think of that high school love that got away back in the day.
I repeat this over and over again this song really touches me especially with what I'm going through right now
How is it possible to love someone so much and them feel nothing towards you after 8 years together and a beautiful child.. how can I possibly live and let go?
I am 54 and I can understand. trials and tribulations what do you do is married 22 years I finally get a breath of fresh air
Its very possible. It really hard as well
Take one day at a time. Some times steps outside of your inside feelings. Go for a walk, look at the beautiful, wonderful things around you. Feel breeze in your hair. Sun on your skin. Take it in .
You have to let it go. Look at that beautiful child and feel the love. Not for him, but the child. THAT love will get you through. You don't have a choice. Find that beautiful smile and shine on you crazy diamond! Be strong for the child. Don't let your sorrow cast a cloud. You are bigger and stronger that you know. You fill a room with your brightness. Light your light! Dance your dance. No one else can do what you do! Enough! It's time to enjoy life JUST for the sake of enjoying life! Now, let me see you shine! Angelica, you got this! You always did. Now, GET UP!
Michael Richards thank you! 😌
This song breaks my heart because I love someone I miss 😢
its songs like these that help me keep balance through the storm.
I've recently got lucky enough to get the love of my life back , and I couldn't walk away .. I love you Ryan Thompson
I have ADD and Bipolar, songs like this and epiphany are my medication
Honestly same
Same
one of my favorites!!♡
That hit hard ... 2019 anyone?
*All I pray for is to hope, all of our dark days will be put behind us! 6 kids 12 years later and 1 year of falling and holding on for dear life i hope we can be US again because I miss it*
I learned about STAIND and Aaron Lewis way after they came out, didn't know what great music I was missing. Everyone says todays music sucks, well this is the 1 case where it's not so. Great lyrics and singing.
This isn't today's music unfortunately. Staind has been disbanded for a long time. Aaron Lewis is now a country singer.
trust me the pain never really goes away, you just bury it deep down. find ways to mask it. but never forget it. just know that things will get better,easier. just know that no matter what no matter how hard you try to forget,just know your missed by me everyday. your not possibly replaceable. I think about you everyday. the drugs don't stop the pain they just numb it. I would give it all up in an instance for you and our beautiful daughter to be home with me. I love you both very much.
Listening to this now feels like a lifetime ago...💔🖤💞
This is a nice presentation of lyrics.
When you meet the perfect unperfect woman.... She has you and you know it. Just happens. She knows the truth now that she is gone. Rest in peace Tawnya.
Creighton Hughes you couldn't be more right.
This song holds a special place in my heart because it's connected to the woman who walked out of my life 6 years ago. Gone but not forgotten and with the hopes of one day reconciling but who knows
Buddy Holland yep
Buddy Holland you
This song was out right in the middle of the worst breakup of my life. It was such a struggle. But in a strange way it helped me through it
I’ll never forget who’s been a part of my life… forgiveness is part of life..
It doesn't, dumb twat. The original song fadesout then back in at ending