omg the ipad one made me so mad, it wasn't in the sisters place to take her stuff, especially since 1) she was going to give it to young kids that might (and did) break it and 2) she probably knew there was working stuff on there so DEFINITELY THE AH💯
Yeah as an artists with the same iPad model used for the same purpose if someone took it and gave it to a kid and they broke it I would 100% be seeking compensation. It’s very clear the sister is a deadbeat and she absolutely needs to pay for her actions
Story 1: absolutely the AH as someone who was gifted a nose job at 19 it's an extreme confidence booster and helped me get through lots of body confidence issues. I haven't had any other surgery like that. It was a gift from a family friend and im eternally grateful
Idk like yea he’s 18 but also those are his parents I think there’s more nuance there. Like the parents need to be more accepting. But people also shouldn’t be sneaking around. I think we just don’t have enough info.
For the bacon one, OP is NTA. He was as supportive as he was, getting her her own pan and being generally supportive of his daughter's new diet. This shouldn't mean he needs to change his own diet. She shouldn't expect her parents to change their own lifestyle just to make her feel better. She should deal with it and move on.
The hypocrisy of “wanting her to be comfortable in her own home” while simultaneously making her own parents who actually own and pay for the home uncomfortable baffles me.
ok story 3 with the Taurus pissed me off- The PARENTS didn't go to your wedding because your SISTERS DOG was sick and she was upset that's straight up bs yes dogs are like family but the parents should have gone especially since it's not there pet to begin with and if this happened on every single major part of op's life where the sister gets upset about something and they don't go just cut them out your life it's clear who they favor putting up a post like that on social media is just the consequences of bad parenting in this case. Op is NTA
Exactly , like yes the sisters dog being sick isn’t good but it was a freaking wedding missed over the OP’s sisters dog being sick . The parents are playing very very very very VERY extreme favourites . They’ve missed out on all of OP’s major events
The story about the person who was the result of an affair. How tragic that this child was basically tossed because of the affair. The fact that they go on to have more kids in each family and she is totally left out is also heart breaking. I kind of think that they got what they deserve. The kid needs to know about her history and also medical incase that ever becomes an issue. Its unfortunate that everyone is now divorcing but damn that should have been dealt with early on. I say not the AH.
I've missed your stories and your beautiful art. You picked the perfect story and the perfect colors for Leo (8/4) that was a total Leo move the sister pulled 🤣 P.S. I'm still waiting for the mailman to deliver that jar to my door 😂😂😂😂
For the story that came with the Cancer Sign, NTA! So let me get this straight, OP's parents had sex outside of both their marriages, had OP, LIED to their families and pretended he/she didn't exist, had the ABSOLUTE AUDACITY to tell OP to not say anything even though he/she only wanted to get to know them and his/her siblings, and OP was just supposed to be OKAY with it?! Not going to lie, I would have done the EXACT same thing! The parents made their bed, and they get to lie in it. It does suck that families had to be torn, but the parents should have thought about that before deciding to cheat on their spouses! I really hope OP is getting to know his/her other family members, and has a relationship with them now. He/she deserved better parents than the garbage he/she came from.
The one about the Christian foster mom- I myself lived in a Christian group home where Christianity was forced on me and I was mistreated for not being Christian. That lady is 1000% the AH and needs to fix herself.
I feel like the fact they picked the name knowing how it affected the BIL makes it wrong. If they had already chosen the name not knowing their story at all I could understand them not wanting to change it once they came to a decision. But it almost seems like they picked the name BECAUSE they knew of it through their story. Also I understand picking a name because it’s pretty but if it’s the one I think it is (Clara) then there are so many other iterations of that name!
Baby name one, like OP was heartless for that. They lost the baby and u still have yours and you're gonna pick the name they picked years ago? Then to make a comment like "you should be worried about a healthy baby, not names." Like wow. Heartless.
You are so dang good! I haven't seen a piece I haven't liked that you have made. I'm new to resin and you are such an inspiration. I can only hope to be as talented as you one day! 💜💜💜
Virgo - on this one i think its 50 50 bcs on one hand it was meant for the daughter and it could rlly help her out in life even if its not spent on education. On the other hand its op money and it was for college
Second story: I do think she needs tp pay back her sister for the ipad but I also think because she doesn't have all the money she can pay in instalments
Also, why was her very valuable iPad not just in her room in her care? She is partially responsible for the situation, and she should be reasonable in terms of working it out.
@@CaitlinKelly-mo1ldIn the story she says that it was charging in her father's study because she was working on something which means that the sister went into the study and took the iPad without permission
If princess is staying out late and coming back stinking of weed , being rude then out she goes. I do think though that the dog could stay in another area of the home vs an entire room. Im sure whether having a room or not Princess would still be rude and inconsiderate. But if other people came to visit it would be better to have a bedroom vs the livingroom couch. I suspect fido will be just as happy with a comfy bed in their bedroom, the kids bedroom or the livingroom or kitchen. Dogs arent near as fussy as people so long as they are loved.
Aquarius: I think the op is the asshole, most of the time miscarriages are extremely hard on a person, and they usually name their lost babies. To name your child the same name as their miscarriage baby is probably incredibly traumatic to them, and the fact that they blatantly took the name from them with the excuse that they liked it is just really cruel.
Oh it wasn’t a miscarriage. In the comments of that story, it was revealed that the baby had passed when the brother’s wife WAS KILLED IN A CAR ACCIDENT, OP IS TA TENFOLD
The one who stole the baby’s name YTA!!!! Not only are you going out a wedge in the family you’ll also be creating a constant reminder for your brother that he can’t have kids. Your type is the worst type of siblings. So entitled.
I love the Leo colors. I use to be a wear black or navy blue everything due to my size. I recently started losing weight but not enough that you can say I’m not over weight, it’s like one day it clicked in my head to start loving myself no matter what size I am. So I started to expand my color selection and one on my favorite colors is pink!
I get the "keeping Jamal a secret from the family thing" cause i had to keep being bi from my family and wasnt allowed to introduce my gf of the time to my family. As a teen, i mean, it sucked but i understood. i still love my family and understood that they just grew up in a different time
My mum got a gift from her brother because he broke her nose when she was younger so she was really insecure about her nose and stuff so she decided to get a nose job and her brother paid for it I was a little she was going to move out But I think it was okay if you say so and securities
For the capricorn one, NTA because it not "Princess's" house. If she wants to sleep anywhere, she can get her own house. She needs to learn that not everything she wants is gonna happen. Also, loved all the jars🤗 10/10 for all😆❤
So with the meat one you are NOT bring mean, if *you* respect her decisions she needs to respect yours, and she is being ridiculous as hell and very dramatic like god damn! So no you are not being mean.
Honestly I think both sides are kinda being assholes and not the asshole simultaneously. The kid is 14, and if it were me I'd probably just cut meat out when around her. My family is big on meat too, we always have at least some kind of meat with every single supper. Steaks, Salmon, etc. But if it makes the child so distressed and I could afford it I'd just eat meat when she isn't around and deal with it honestly. And on the other hand, while maybe the parent is being somewhat unreasonable, it is indeed also unreasonable for her to act the way she's described to be acting as well. If her parents are being supportive of her she should be grateful of that, and pushing for them to stop eating meat around her is understandable but a little unreasonable all things considered. Forcing them to change their diet for her isn't okay if they don't want to. But again, this kid is *14*. Her behavior is understandable, even if not correct entitely, and she may even grow out of it. (The rude behavior, not the veganism.) Overall I think it's the parent's responsibility to come to a compromise both they and their child can benefit from. Though.. it seems like a red flag that the parent felt the need to go to reddit to complain about their child and look for help from strangers.. this is something they could have easily hashed out on their own by talking to their daughter and partner, not random people over the internet. But then again, I get that they wanted to get a second opinion on if they were being an asshole in this situation.
Honestly, as a vegan, I’m perfectly fine with people eating meat around me. Also I have my own pots and clean my own dishes. Also, the kid needs to learn that everyone around her doesn’t need to change their life-style to cater to her needs. I think having her own pots and pans is reasonable. But forcing her parents to stop eating meat completely is just honestly ridiculous. Though I think nobody here is the AH. The daughter just needs to learn that she can’t always get her way.
If it was my family oh 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that behavior would not go down well That girl needs to learn that the world does not revolve around her and will never do
I mean of this had been a visitors Ipad, what she gonna say think of my kids? hell no. You only give kids tablets that are designed to be handled by kids, with a case and good glass etc. Your sister was reckless and she needs to pay up, especially if you were using it for work related business. 🤬
1 story: I mean I get that he did this behind her back but other then that I just don't know, doesn't seem like anything bad, that his uncle got him a nose job as present if he doesn't mind spending money on this, but that's just my opinion
in the one about christianity, op is 100% NTA for standing up to the wife- but honestly at that point if your spouse is spouting shit about 'getting rid of the jewishness' just fucking divorce them and never talk to them again. thats goddamn vile and i hope OP doesnt stay with her and put that poor child through having to live with a foster parent who is so obviously bigoted toward her religion.
Team Taurus ♉️! We're so loyal and caring that we're often taken for granted, but when we're done, we're done. For the record, supporting racism in ANY way makes you the AH 💯. While your racist parents are dead and gone, you'll be begging to see your daughter and grandkid(s)!
When it comes to the parents who feel their kids will be discriminated against by dating outside their race or economic background. The parents should just let the kids face it head on. You can standby your kid but you cannot change other people's minds. People are set in their ways you can argue all day long but at the end it's you against them. Sometimes you just have to make a choice be happy and live your own life. Or you can fold like a lawn chair from family pressure.
Story 6: the college fund. I have no children of my own. I have been setting aside a small amount of money for each of my grand nieces and nephews. I told this to their parents, and that there is one major stipulation: The funds must be used for post high school education. It doesn't have to be for college. It can be for trade school or other education. If it's not used for that the children do not get the money until they turn 35. I don't want them to blow the money. It's mine to gift as I deem appropriate. Story 7: the foster child. The foster mother is being a bully and a bigot by pushing Christianity on a child who's been raised Jewish. No one has the right to push their views on anyone. The poor girl is already in a difficult situation being put into the foster care system. Give her the chance to choose for herself. Ask her if she'd like to go to church. If she says no, leave it at that. Don't push. Story 11: the vegan 14 year old: If this was my house I would tell her that the household would go fully vegan when she can pay for the groceries for the whole household. Otherwise, she's out of luck. Get used to the sight and smell of meat girlie. The world is full of carnivores and you can't change it.
Ok, for the wedding video one: what is wrong with OP's parents? I kinda understand that you have to take care of a sick dog (if the dog even exists), but that doesn't mean that ALL OF THEM can't come to the wedding! 1000% NTAH
1st Story: Yes, honestly - it is not your body to decide what should happen to it. If the son is old enough to legally make decisions himself, then it’s time you respect that. Grow up. 2nd story: Nope, the sister is the asshole - that was not her property to touch let along give to her unsupervised kids. Her kids are not everyone else’s highlight, just because they’re her nieces and nephews does not mean they are entitled to everything she owns. 4th Story: honestly, the friend is the asshole. She intentionally bought her ‘bestfriend’ an outfit to wear out in public that turned see-through when it hit the water. That shit is not a joke - so it is unjustifiable. I say it’s honestly what the ‘friend’ deserved. And that the OP is not the asshole. 6th Story: she is not the asshole for finally getting to keep her own money that was constantly being extorted out her by her own sister in law. The sister in law had clearly intentionally left her wallet at home in hopes of not having to pay again even though she was told that she wasn’t being shouted for anymore. 11th Story: No, as it is your house. You supported her, and provided for her and changed things in the house for her. She should have been happy enough with that. Instead she tried to force her own dietary preferences onto her family - complaining that everything’s been infected. When she moves out, she can decide what food is brought into her house, and the dad should respect that. Just as she should respect his decision now. Just because you stop eating meat doesn’t make the pig come back to life. 12th Story: No, and I’m surprised you hadn’t kicked her out of the house the moment she brung drugs into range of your kids. It wasn’t her house, her and her mother agreed that she’d sleep on the couch, she treated your families kindness with rudeness, and disturbed everyone when she’d come home late and brung substances into the household. Not only that, but her petty ass then proceeded to insult OP’s daughter’s engagement because of a ring? As if she had any right!? Honestly, niece or not, I woulda kicked her out. 13th Story: Yes, absolutely. If you were aware that your own family had picked out a dream name for their baby - then decided to use that name for yours after theirs had passed makes you a prick.
Am I the asshole?!?! When I was 31 I was in an abusive relationship with chronic PTSD and eventually I resorted to drugs and alcohol to numb the emotional pain. I fell on extremely hard times and ended up homeless with a mental health diagnosis. I found out my mom had lung cancer while I was in a mental hospital. I told mom about being evicted and living in a group home and that I was miserable. She told me to come home and she would help me. She has been married for 19 yrs to a man that tried to sleep with my sister at 14 and did when she was 18. My mom knew about it to say the absolute least. They got married when I was like 16 and I didn't go to the wedding because I did not support the decision and I was not the only one. Furthermore he used to make somewhat lewd comments about my and my sister's bodies, things like I knew that wasn't you walking down the street because your booty is way bigger. I did the best I could to cope but eventually I cut ties with my mom over a number of things; my sexuality and chief among them trying to force him into my life and telling me I couldn't come home from school for Christmas because he didn't want me there. She had a whole new family and sort of abandoned us, her biological children in favor of caring for them. She's been a way better step mom to his kids than he's been a dad to them. Fast-forward a few years and I'm in the hospital trying to reach out to my family. They, the hospital staff, allowed me to get numbers from my phone so that I could reach out to my family. I called my sister who I hadn't spoken to in a couple years because she didn't approve of my fiance or my sexuality and we immediately made up. She gave me my mom's number who had moved cross-country. I talked to her everyday and when I was released I continued to talk to her. When I got evicted I didn't tell her right away that I was living in a group home, when I did it was because conditions were so rough that I thought I would be better off on the street. She told me to come to her and she even paid my fare. When I got here my brains were like scrambled eggs because of all the alcohol and weed. She administered the medication I had until it was gone then helped me find a new clinic. Everything was fine for a while but then her husband's petty behavior started to flare up. It started with little spats like the deep freezer, going into it whenever he felt like it, and progressively got worse. I felt cornered, so I took all the medication and a fifth of rum, got on the bus and went to the end of the line. I wanted to die but not in the house because my brother committed suicide when I was like ten and I remember how traumatic it was just being in the room where he died and I didn't want her to find my body. Also she had attempted suicide when I was like six or seven and I did the same thing she did, I didn't want anyone to rescue me. I figured between the benzos and alcohol and Arizona heat it wouldn't take that long. Someone found me and called EMS and took me to the hospital. Once I was conscious they, the hospital, told me that I had no choice but to go inpatient because they believed I really wanted to die and that it wasn't a cry for attention. I didn't leave a note and I didn't have any ID. I was there two weeks and when I got home she had cleaned my room and folded all my clothes. It made me forget about all the things that made me uncomfortable and for a while everything was ok. One day he, my mom's husband, went into the hospital and they told him he was in renal failure. I felt really bad, because my mom makes it seem like she's so happy with him. I told him since I'm O+ blood type I would donate a kidney in exchange for a car. They agreed. Mind you, he has 4 children of his own 2 of which live in the same state and are healthy. I probably should note that his oldest son sodomized me while me and my sister were in foster care on visitation because my mom had to work, and he has lupus now (karma or something right?) As time went on he kept doing petty stuff. She would play mind games with him against me because she knew I couldn't remember much. Eventually things went from bad to worse, she left town and he came into my room while I was sleeping and took my cigarettes. I felt violated. I told her when she got back that I could not donate anymore because that was just inexcusably wrong. She said she understood. His petty went from 0-100 real quick. We got into an argument and she told me I had to leave and gave me 30 days. I said fine, you'll never see me again. One day again I woke up and couldn't find my cigarettes and they were both in the house. He does peritoneal dialysis at home, but the machine has a battery in case the power was out. I knocked on the door, no answer. I turned the radio on full blast with white noise, no answer. I turned off the power they came out, sn they had their TV on blast. She told me to get out right then and do I started cleaning the room, my bag was already packed. I slammed doors going in and out because I was furious. She called the cops on me saying I was endangering her and her husband. I'm 5'0 and maybe 110lbs. They came out and gave me a warning. He started playing his guitar and I took offense because he can't play. I cut the power of again. She had asked me why and I said because I felt like it. Sn my sister hit her back once and said the same thing. I can admit it was a trigger. She raised her hand to hit me and I tried to block it. Her husband then grabbed me threw me on the ground and sat on my chest. I ended up in the crazy tank. The officers also accosted me by kneeing me in the butt into the car. When I got out I wanted my bags that I had packed but she brought me the smallest bag in there with nothing but a few underwear and a puzzle book and a dead phone. I was pissed and heartbroken. I lived in the streets a few days and ended up being robbed. I walked about 15 miles to the hospital where I was violated by one of the male nurses: he swabbed my rectum but did not do a rape kit. I finally pulled it together and walked 10mi back to her place and asked for my things. My eye was swollen shut and I hadn't slept in like 36 hrs. She took pity I guess and said I could stay but that I would have to sleep on the patio outside. It was October. She locked me out all day and allowed me to go to the store. I slept on the patio until late November when it started to get cold. After that I went through a lot spiritually and ended up in the hospital two more times. The last time I was petitioned and had to go to court for court ordered treatment hearing. She lied on me in court and said I started the altercation and tried to kill her husband. I was so heartbroken I cried on the toilet and shut down. He kept me from talking to her on Thanksgiving and helped her lie in court because she was in the phone and not present. Everybody lied on me that day and I was done with the world. Fast-forward a few months and he kept trying to get me to talk to the donation coordinator, but I never called. All the conversation was about his aftercare and I wasn't looking forward to recovery from a major surgery on the couch. There was no one to take care of me. Finally he came to me and said if you don't feel led to do it don't but consider being a caretaker. I said ok. A week or two goes by, mind you I am required to see my doctor every two weeks or I will have to spend the rest of the year I'm court ordered in the hospital, it's like prison I swear, and we find out his biological daughter is in fed lock up for illegal immigrant smuggling. He doesn't have a driver's license so he asked me to drive him and his baby momma to Tucson for their arraignment. I did. Then they asked me to take them up there for their property which was the same day I had an appointment. I said no. We went the next day and while I was stretching his daughter said, you fighting off those demons? Mind you he said I had demons when he was sitting on my chest. So I know he told her. I said no but we all trying to figure out what possessed you to pack 8 immigrants into a car that seats 4. End of discussion. Then on the day I was supposed to go with him to sign the caretaker papers, right so my mom can't because she has stage 4 lung cancer, I was laying on the couch bed in the living room and he kicked my house shoes clear across the room and hummed into the bedroom like somebody's mischievous child. So when he asked me was I going I said no. Am I the asshole for not donating the kidney or being his caretaker? IDK, even if I am I don't care. 🙄🥱
Hell no, she also said there was other things to be paid for as well. Honestly if the sister can’t watch her goddamn kids she better be ready to pay that because it was her fucking fault.
NTA for most, except the obvious low-key racist crap against daughter and Jamal. Also, The family that stole the babies name that they knew was a name picked out for a baby that didn't make it. Those two are definite AH's.
story 1, I just don't know. Honestly, NTA. He should've checked in with his parents. 2, you just DON"T go giving stuff that's not yours and use it without permission from the owner, and then give it to young kids, ESPECIALLY when it's so expensive. That sister is a AH. Also, the one with the wedding, those are just horrible parents, and they have no right to tell their daughter/son what she/he should and shouldn't do. At that point, are they even his/her parents? Parents love you and support you, not ignore you and always put someone else over you. The bikini story. what. I don't even know what to say it was so inappropriate. AH for sure. I mean, he was her boyfriend, and you could have been making him extremely uncomfortable. Not the AH for ruining the marriages. they should not abandon their kid like that and they're the AHs. That woman/man, did the right thing by making his/her sister pay for the food. the dog story, not wrong. not the AH. she's being kind for housing a snotty brat like her. Bacon: no. NTA. he did everything he could to help her. she can wash the dishes in the sink by hand. she can get her own place to store her food. also, last I checked, he was the one paying the house bills, not her. I don't know about the mother, but they could at least say, fine, you can eat meat in the house, but just in the kitchen or dining room or something. The foster one is ridiculous. She was a foster child, and has been through enough already. Exactly what she doesn't need is some crazy christian trying to force her to change her religion. If she wants to change it, she will. The dad is 100% NOT THE AH. The one with the african-american is very tricky. they could have said, "We just wanted to warn you that they might react badly and cut ties with you, but he's your boyfriend, and you can introduce him to them if you would like to." the parents are AHs. you should not have picked the same name as the dead baby's. it is awful. imagine how much sadness that would bring to them. also, when the child grows up, she might feel responsible in some way for her cousin's death. Just find a name that's similar to it. AHs in every way.
Story #1 Neither or both are A-holes. It’s a case where it had to be done no matter what the consequences were. Son was 18 and wanted to get it done. End of story. Story # 2 OP is definitely the Ahole because he can’t even stop swearing. He doesn’t even have a case here and just keeps cussing to prove his point. Story #3 OP not the AH. Sister always steals the stoplight. Srory # 4 Op is not the AH because her friend tried to embarrass her. Story #5 not touching that with a 10 foot pole Story #6 OP proves that she’s not the Ahole Story #7 Op was originally the ah but do was the “child” So glad they worked it out! 😊 Story # 8 “Getting rid of the Jewishness” so funny! 😂 Story # 9 “Guess who’s coming to dinnner” much? Story # 10 Same story as number 2? Story # 11 OP is not the Ahole. Just buy her her own pan and tell her that’s enough.
Your wrong. Not everything has to be about you. Maybe they just wanted to make him feel special as an individual. Sometimes twins start to feel like they are a pair and not an individual. Nothing is wrong with what they did. At least they invited you. If it's that big of a problem to you and your going to be negative and take your negativity to the past. Maybe you shouldn't go. My boys have grown up like twins and they have always been super close. So I understand the closeness. Have you talked to the party planner and expressed your feelings. Maybe they have a reason behind it that you would feel better about if they explained the situation to you.
When are we going to stop catering to bigotry? I don't understand the one about the black boyfriend not being someone to introduce to one's grandparents, you should be focusing on supporting your kid and also trying to break your parents of this horrid habit of bigotry. "I'm no liberal but he's cool" why do you have to be "liberal" to accept someone for who they are?
omg the ipad one made me so mad, it wasn't in the sisters place to take her stuff, especially since 1) she was going to give it to young kids that might (and did) break it and 2) she probably knew there was working stuff on there so DEFINITELY THE AH💯
Yeah as an artists with the same iPad model used for the same purpose if someone took it and gave it to a kid and they broke it I would 100% be seeking compensation. It’s very clear the sister is a deadbeat and she absolutely needs to pay for her actions
For real.. if the kids need an ipad so badly, their mum can buy them one. She had no right giving the kids something that doesn't even belong to her.
I know like the sister is 1000/10 the a hole and she didn’t pay I would sue her she doesn’t have 22 hundred
Story 1: absolutely the AH as someone who was gifted a nose job at 19 it's an extreme confidence booster and helped me get through lots of body confidence issues. I haven't had any other surgery like that. It was a gift from a family friend and im eternally grateful
Yeah I completely agree!! They were an adult and it made them feel more confident!! That should be all that matters! 💯
Yeah and OP said that he isn't himself but he couldn't even be himself cause of u
Nah but the thing is op thought that the best graduation present could be a FAN
A FREAKING FAN 😭
@@La.morena123 no pretty sure he thought it was a van.
Idk like yea he’s 18 but also those are his parents I think there’s more nuance there. Like the parents need to be more accepting. But people also shouldn’t be sneaking around. I think we just don’t have enough info.
For the bacon one, OP is NTA. He was as supportive as he was, getting her her own pan and being generally supportive of his daughter's new diet. This shouldn't mean he needs to change his own diet. She shouldn't expect her parents to change their own lifestyle just to make her feel better. She should deal with it and move on.
The hypocrisy of “wanting her to be comfortable in her own home” while simultaneously making her own parents who actually own and pay for the home uncomfortable baffles me.
ok story 3 with the Taurus pissed me off- The PARENTS didn't go to your wedding because your SISTERS DOG was sick and she was upset that's straight up bs yes dogs are like family but the parents should have gone especially since it's not there pet to begin with and if this happened on every single major part of op's life where the sister gets upset about something and they don't go just cut them out your life it's clear who they favor putting up a post like that on social media is just the consequences of bad parenting in this case. Op is NTA
Exactly , like yes the sisters dog being sick isn’t good but it was a freaking wedding missed over the OP’s sisters dog being sick . The parents are playing very very very very VERY extreme favourites . They’ve missed out on all of OP’s major events
Yes! He is sick, nog dead, maybe ig ih important, but the parents said they aren't coming because ghe sister is mad, not because the dog is dying
The story about the person who was the result of an affair. How tragic that this child was basically tossed because of the affair. The fact that they go on to have more kids in each family and she is totally left out is also heart breaking. I kind of think that they got what they deserve. The kid needs to know about her history and also medical incase that ever becomes an issue. Its unfortunate that everyone is now divorcing but damn that should have been dealt with early on. I say not the AH.
I've missed your stories and your beautiful art. You picked the perfect story and the perfect colors for Leo (8/4) that was a total Leo move the sister pulled 🤣 P.S. I'm still waiting for the mailman to deliver that jar to my door 😂😂😂😂
Awww thank you for always supporting boo!! And it should be there any day now!! I hope you love it!! 🥰💜✨🩵
For the story that came with the Cancer Sign, NTA!
So let me get this straight, OP's parents had sex outside of both their marriages, had OP, LIED to their families and pretended he/she didn't exist, had the ABSOLUTE AUDACITY to tell OP to not say anything even though he/she only wanted to get to know them and his/her siblings, and OP was just supposed to be OKAY with it?!
Not going to lie, I would have done the EXACT same thing! The parents made their bed, and they get to lie in it. It does suck that families had to be torn, but the parents should have thought about that before deciding to cheat on their spouses! I really hope OP is getting to know his/her other family members, and has a relationship with them now. He/she deserved better parents than the garbage he/she came from.
The one about the Christian foster mom- I myself lived in a Christian group home where Christianity was forced on me and I was mistreated for not being Christian. That lady is 1000% the AH and needs to fix herself.
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For the name one I think is kinda wrong because the baby died it would kinda remind their brother in law of it
I completely agree!! I would never use the same name 😳
Yea I agree. Like … not an asshole move but it would feel wrong.
I feel like the fact they picked the name knowing how it affected the BIL makes it wrong. If they had already chosen the name not knowing their story at all I could understand them not wanting to change it once they came to a decision. But it almost seems like they picked the name BECAUSE they knew of it through their story. Also I understand picking a name because it’s pretty but if it’s the one I think it is (Clara) then there are so many other iterations of that name!
@@VampyBlood17 OP said it was Odette. But still, I think they're in the wrong for picking that name.
15:33 the jar lid is so cool!
For the Libra one they are absolutely nta!
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Baby name one, like OP was heartless for that. They lost the baby and u still have yours and you're gonna pick the name they picked years ago? Then to make a comment like "you should be worried about a healthy baby, not names." Like wow. Heartless.
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Pisces her! I LOVE the jar considering pink and white are some of my favorite colours, you nailed it!
Virgo - on this one i think its 50 50 bcs on one hand it was meant for the daughter and it could rlly help her out in life even if its not spent on education. On the other hand its op money and it was for college
Second story: I do think she needs tp pay back her sister for the ipad but I also think because she doesn't have all the money she can pay in instalments
Yeah you are responsible for your kids!! You have to pay if they break someone's stuff... Simple as that! 🤷🏽♀️
And pay for all the work money she misses out on while the sister takes her sweet time "making installments"
Also, why was her very valuable iPad not just in her room in her care? She is partially responsible for the situation, and she should be reasonable in terms of working it out.
@@CaitlinKelly-mo1ldIn the story she says that it was charging in her father's study because she was working on something which means that the sister went into the study and took the iPad without permission
For the wedding story: yeah you could’ve just taken down the vid, but they could’ve also just idk attended their child’s wedding?
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It’s disturbing to steal a name especially after a loss they’ll be constantly reminded 😒 very disgusting people
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Love your videos!! All of these stories are so crazy! Honestly it makes me glad that I have such a "boring" life! LOL!
If princess is staying out late and coming back stinking of weed , being rude then out she goes. I do think though that the dog could stay in another area of the home vs an entire room. Im sure whether having a room or not Princess would still be rude and inconsiderate. But if other people came to visit it would be better to have a bedroom vs the livingroom couch. I suspect fido will be just as happy with a comfy bed in their bedroom, the kids bedroom or the livingroom or kitchen. Dogs arent near as fussy as people so long as they are loved.
Aquarius: I think the op is the asshole, most of the time miscarriages are extremely hard on a person, and they usually name their lost babies. To name your child the same name as their miscarriage baby is probably incredibly traumatic to them, and the fact that they blatantly took the name from them with the excuse that they liked it is just really cruel.
Oh it wasn’t a miscarriage. In the comments of that story, it was revealed that the baby had passed when the brother’s wife WAS KILLED IN A CAR ACCIDENT, OP IS TA TENFOLD
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The one who stole the baby’s name YTA!!!! Not only are you going out a wedge in the family you’ll also be creating a constant reminder for your brother that he can’t have kids. Your type is the worst type of siblings. So entitled.
On taurus one, you weren't wrong
The sis and dad and mom were the BIGGEST assholes.
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I get the "keeping Jamal a secret from the family thing" cause i had to keep being bi from my family and wasnt allowed to introduce my gf of the time to my family. As a teen, i mean, it sucked but i understood. i still love my family and understood that they just grew up in a different time
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My mum got a gift from her brother because he broke her nose when she was younger so she was really insecure about her nose and stuff so she decided to get a nose job and her brother paid for it I was a little she was going to move out But I think it was okay if you say so and securities
Story 11 is a ah that name is special to them it's a baby they lost not most would agree but that's what I think
For the capricorn one, NTA because it not "Princess's" house. If she wants to sleep anywhere, she can get her own house. She needs to learn that not everything she wants is gonna happen.
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So with the meat one you are NOT bring mean, if *you* respect her decisions she needs to respect yours, and she is being ridiculous as hell and very dramatic like god damn! So no you are not being mean.
Honestly I think both sides are kinda being assholes and not the asshole simultaneously.
The kid is 14, and if it were me I'd probably just cut meat out when around her. My family is big on meat too, we always have at least some kind of meat with every single supper. Steaks, Salmon, etc. But if it makes the child so distressed and I could afford it I'd just eat meat when she isn't around and deal with it honestly.
And on the other hand, while maybe the parent is being somewhat unreasonable, it is indeed also unreasonable for her to act the way she's described to be acting as well. If her parents are being supportive of her she should be grateful of that, and pushing for them to stop eating meat around her is understandable but a little unreasonable all things considered. Forcing them to change their diet for her isn't okay if they don't want to. But again, this kid is *14*. Her behavior is understandable, even if not correct entitely, and she may even grow out of it. (The rude behavior, not the veganism.)
Overall I think it's the parent's responsibility to come to a compromise both they and their child can benefit from.
Though.. it seems like a red flag that the parent felt the need to go to reddit to complain about their child and look for help from strangers.. this is something they could have easily hashed out on their own by talking to their daughter and partner, not random people over the internet. But then again, I get that they wanted to get a second opinion on if they were being an asshole in this situation.
Honestly, as a vegan, I’m perfectly fine with people eating meat around me. Also I have my own pots and clean my own dishes. Also, the kid needs to learn that everyone around her doesn’t need to change their life-style to cater to her needs. I think having her own pots and pans is reasonable. But forcing her parents to stop eating meat completely is just honestly ridiculous. Though I think nobody here is the AH. The daughter just needs to learn that she can’t always get her way.
If it was my family oh 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that behavior would not go down well
That girl needs to learn that the world does not revolve around her and will never do
The second last one is just wrong he picked the name 3YEARS AGO plus he was very reasonable about it like there were other names
I mean of this had been a visitors Ipad, what she gonna say think of my kids? hell no. You only give kids tablets that are designed to be handled by kids, with a case and good glass etc. Your sister was reckless and she needs to pay up, especially if you were using it for work related business. 🤬
The son is 18, its his choice at this point. Your brother doesn't need your approval. Hes an adult now.
Story 2: NO you not an ass hole that’s a 15,000 DOLLAR IPAD, and you only saved $2000????? That woman need her kids taken away
1 story: I mean I get that he did this behind her back but other then that I just don't know,
doesn't seem like anything bad, that his uncle got him a nose job as present if he doesn't mind spending money on this, but that's just my opinion
in the one about christianity, op is 100% NTA for standing up to the wife- but honestly at that point if your spouse is spouting shit about 'getting rid of the jewishness' just fucking divorce them and never talk to them again. thats goddamn vile and i hope OP doesnt stay with her and put that poor child through having to live with a foster parent who is so obviously bigoted toward her religion.
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I’m sorry but what the heck your freaking daughter needed the money yet you gave away it to your other kids. AND TOLD THEM
Team Taurus ♉️! We're so loyal and caring that we're often taken for granted, but when we're done, we're done. For the record, supporting racism in ANY way makes you the AH 💯. While your racist parents are dead and gone, you'll be begging to see your daughter and grandkid(s)!
As a taurus, no I'm not. Also, yeah, racists? Rot in jail.
For the libra one op is in no way a AH his wife is and good on op for taken care hope
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When it comes to the parents who feel their kids will be discriminated against by dating outside their race or economic background. The parents should just let the kids face it head on. You can standby your kid but you cannot change other people's minds. People are set in their ways you can argue all day long but at the end it's you against them. Sometimes you just have to make a choice be happy and live your own life. Or you can fold like a lawn chair from family pressure.
Story 6: the college fund. I have no children of my own. I have been setting aside a small amount of money for each of my grand nieces and nephews. I told this to their parents, and that there is one major stipulation: The funds must be used for post high school education. It doesn't have to be for college. It can be for trade school or other education. If it's not used for that the children do not get the money until they turn 35. I don't want them to blow the money. It's mine to gift as I deem appropriate.
Story 7: the foster child. The foster mother is being a bully and a bigot by pushing Christianity on a child who's been raised Jewish. No one has the right to push their views on anyone. The poor girl is already in a difficult situation being put into the foster care system. Give her the chance to choose for herself. Ask her if she'd like to go to church. If she says no, leave it at that. Don't push.
Story 11: the vegan 14 year old: If this was my house I would tell her that the household would go fully vegan when she can pay for the groceries for the whole household. Otherwise, she's out of luck. Get used to the sight and smell of meat girlie. The world is full of carnivores and you can't change it.
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The mentally unstable sister though, so funny.
Ok, for the wedding video one: what is wrong with OP's parents? I kinda understand that you have to take care of a sick dog (if the dog even exists), but that doesn't mean that ALL OF THEM can't come to the wedding! 1000% NTAH
1st Story: Yes, honestly - it is not your body to decide what should happen to it. If the son is old enough to legally make decisions himself, then it’s time you respect that. Grow up.
2nd story: Nope, the sister is the asshole - that was not her property to touch let along give to her unsupervised kids. Her kids are not everyone else’s highlight, just because they’re her nieces and nephews does not mean they are entitled to everything she owns.
4th Story: honestly, the friend is the asshole. She intentionally bought her ‘bestfriend’ an outfit to wear out in public that turned see-through when it hit the water. That shit is not a joke - so it is unjustifiable. I say it’s honestly what the ‘friend’ deserved. And that the OP is not the asshole.
6th Story: she is not the asshole for finally getting to keep her own money that was constantly being extorted out her by her own sister in law. The sister in law had clearly intentionally left her wallet at home in hopes of not having to pay again even though she was told that she wasn’t being shouted for anymore.
11th Story: No, as it is your house. You supported her, and provided for her and changed things in the house for her. She should have been happy enough with that. Instead she tried to force her own dietary preferences onto her family - complaining that everything’s been infected. When she moves out, she can decide what food is brought into her house, and the dad should respect that. Just as she should respect his decision now. Just because you stop eating meat doesn’t make the pig come back to life.
12th Story: No, and I’m surprised you hadn’t kicked her out of the house the moment she brung drugs into range of your kids. It wasn’t her house, her and her mother agreed that she’d sleep on the couch, she treated your families kindness with rudeness, and disturbed everyone when she’d come home late and brung substances into the household. Not only that, but her petty ass then proceeded to insult OP’s daughter’s engagement because of a ring? As if she had any right!? Honestly, niece or not, I woulda kicked her out.
13th Story: Yes, absolutely. If you were aware that your own family had picked out a dream name for their baby - then decided to use that name for yours after theirs had passed makes you a prick.
The libra one the wife is the ah and she should stop 🛑 forcing her religion on to the daughter hope like let her believe what she wants to believe
Ignore your vegan child, they all behave this way its a form of control. She can make the rules in her own house
Am I the asshole?!?!
When I was 31 I was in an abusive relationship with chronic PTSD and eventually I resorted to drugs and alcohol to numb the emotional pain. I fell on extremely hard times and ended up homeless with a mental health diagnosis. I found out my mom had lung cancer while I was in a mental hospital. I told mom about being evicted and living in a group home and that I was miserable. She told me to come home and she would help me. She has been married for 19 yrs to a man that tried to sleep with my sister at 14 and did when she was 18. My mom knew about it to say the absolute least. They got married when I was like 16 and I didn't go to the wedding because I did not support the decision and I was not the only one. Furthermore he used to make somewhat lewd comments about my and my sister's bodies, things like I knew that wasn't you walking down the street because your booty is way bigger.
I did the best I could to cope but eventually I cut ties with my mom over a number of things; my sexuality and chief among them trying to force him into my life and telling me I couldn't come home from school for Christmas because he didn't want me there. She had a whole new family and sort of abandoned us, her biological children in favor of caring for them. She's been a way better step mom to his kids than he's been a dad to them.
Fast-forward a few years and I'm in the hospital trying to reach out to my family. They, the hospital staff, allowed me to get numbers from my phone so that I could reach out to my family. I called my sister who I hadn't spoken to in a couple years because she didn't approve of my fiance or my sexuality and we immediately made up. She gave me my mom's number who had moved cross-country. I talked to her everyday and when I was released I continued to talk to her. When I got evicted I didn't tell her right away that I was living in a group home, when I did it was because conditions were so rough that I thought I would be better off on the street. She told me to come to her and she even paid my fare. When I got here my brains were like scrambled eggs because of all the alcohol and weed. She administered the medication I had until it was gone then helped me find a new clinic. Everything was fine for a while but then her husband's petty behavior started to flare up. It started with little spats like the deep freezer, going into it whenever he felt like it, and progressively got worse. I felt cornered, so I took all the medication and a fifth of rum, got on the bus and went to the end of the line. I wanted to die but not in the house because my brother committed suicide when I was like ten and I remember how traumatic it was just being in the room where he died and I didn't want her to find my body. Also she had attempted suicide when I was like six or seven and I did the same thing she did, I didn't want anyone to rescue me. I figured between the benzos and alcohol and Arizona heat it wouldn't take that long.
Someone found me and called EMS and took me to the hospital. Once I was conscious they, the hospital, told me that I had no choice but to go inpatient because they believed I really wanted to die and that it wasn't a cry for attention. I didn't leave a note and I didn't have any ID.
I was there two weeks and when I got home she had cleaned my room and folded all my clothes. It made me forget about all the things that made me uncomfortable and for a while everything was ok. One day he, my mom's husband, went into the hospital and they told him he was in renal failure. I felt really bad, because my mom makes it seem like she's so happy with him. I told him since I'm O+ blood type I would donate a kidney in exchange for a car. They agreed. Mind you, he has 4 children of his own 2 of which live in the same state and are healthy. I probably should note that his oldest son sodomized me while me and my sister were in foster care on visitation because my mom had to work, and he has lupus now (karma or something right?)
As time went on he kept doing petty stuff. She would play mind games with him against me because she knew I couldn't remember much. Eventually things went from bad to worse, she left town and he came into my room while I was sleeping and took my cigarettes. I felt violated. I told her when she got back that I could not donate anymore because that was just inexcusably wrong. She said she understood. His petty went from 0-100 real quick. We got into an argument and she told me I had to leave and gave me 30 days. I said fine, you'll never see me again. One day again I woke up and couldn't find my cigarettes and they were both in the house. He does peritoneal dialysis at home, but the machine has a battery in case the power was out. I knocked on the door, no answer. I turned the radio on full blast with white noise, no answer. I turned off the power they came out, sn they had their TV on blast.
She told me to get out right then and do I started cleaning the room, my bag was already packed. I slammed doors going in and out because I was furious. She called the cops on me saying I was endangering her and her husband. I'm 5'0 and maybe 110lbs. They came out and gave me a warning. He started playing his guitar and I took offense because he can't play. I cut the power of again. She had asked me why and I said because I felt like it. Sn my sister hit her back once and said the same thing. I can admit it was a trigger. She raised her hand to hit me and I tried to block it. Her husband then grabbed me threw me on the ground and sat on my chest. I ended up in the crazy tank. The officers also accosted me by kneeing me in the butt into the car. When I got out I wanted my bags that I had packed but she brought me the smallest bag in there with nothing but a few underwear and a puzzle book and a dead phone. I was pissed and heartbroken. I lived in the streets a few days and ended up being robbed. I walked about 15 miles to the hospital where I was violated by one of the male nurses: he swabbed my rectum but did not do a rape kit. I finally pulled it together and walked 10mi back to her place and asked for my things. My eye was swollen shut and I hadn't slept in like 36 hrs. She took pity I guess and said I could stay but that I would have to sleep on the patio outside. It was October. She locked me out all day and allowed me to go to the store. I slept on the patio until late November when it started to get cold. After that I went through a lot spiritually and ended up in the hospital two more times. The last time I was petitioned and had to go to court for court ordered treatment hearing. She lied on me in court and said I started the altercation and tried to kill her husband. I was so heartbroken I cried on the toilet and shut down. He kept me from talking to her on Thanksgiving and helped her lie in court because she was in the phone and not present. Everybody lied on me that day and I was done with the world. Fast-forward a few months and he kept trying to get me to talk to the donation coordinator, but I never called. All the conversation was about his aftercare and I wasn't looking forward to recovery from a major surgery on the couch. There was no one to take care of me. Finally he came to me and said if you don't feel led to do it don't but consider being a caretaker. I said ok.
A week or two goes by, mind you I am required to see my doctor every two weeks or I will have to spend the rest of the year I'm court ordered in the hospital, it's like prison I swear, and we find out his biological daughter is in fed lock up for illegal immigrant smuggling. He doesn't have a driver's license so he asked me to drive him and his baby momma to Tucson for their arraignment. I did. Then they asked me to take them up there for their property which was the same day I had an appointment. I said no. We went the next day and while I was stretching his daughter said, you fighting off those demons? Mind you he said I had demons when he was sitting on my chest. So I know he told her. I said no but we all trying to figure out what possessed you to pack 8 immigrants into a car that seats 4. End of discussion.
Then on the day I was supposed to go with him to sign the caretaker papers, right so my mom can't because she has stage 4 lung cancer, I was laying on the couch bed in the living room and he kicked my house shoes clear across the room and hummed into the bedroom like somebody's mischievous child. So when he asked me was I going I said no. Am I the asshole for not donating the kidney or being his caretaker? IDK, even if I am I don't care. 🙄🥱
I get the iPad one. But 2200? Replace the damn screen.
Hell no, she also said there was other things to be paid for as well. Honestly if the sister can’t watch her goddamn kids she better be ready to pay that because it was her fucking fault.
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The sister who gave her sister iPad to her children without asking is the AH. And should Pay for a new one.
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story 2: your valled but petty
So for the bathing suit one it was a gag gift you didn't have to flash her boyfriend
NTA for most, except the obvious low-key racist crap against daughter and Jamal. Also, The family that stole the babies name that they knew was a name picked out for a baby that didn't make it. Those two are definite AH's.
story 1, I just don't know. Honestly, NTA. He should've checked in with his parents.
2, you just DON"T go giving stuff that's not yours and use it without permission from the owner, and then give it to young kids, ESPECIALLY when it's so expensive. That sister is a AH.
Also, the one with the wedding, those are just horrible parents, and they have no right to tell their daughter/son what she/he should and shouldn't do. At that point, are they even his/her parents? Parents love you and support you, not ignore you and always put someone else over you.
The bikini story. what. I don't even know what to say it was so inappropriate. AH for sure. I mean, he was her boyfriend, and you could have been making him extremely uncomfortable.
Not the AH for ruining the marriages. they should not abandon their kid like that and they're the AHs.
That woman/man, did the right thing by making his/her sister pay for the food.
the dog story, not wrong. not the AH. she's being kind for housing a snotty brat like her.
Bacon: no. NTA. he did everything he could to help her. she can wash the dishes in the sink by hand. she can get her own place to store her food. also, last I checked, he was the one paying the house bills, not her. I don't know about the mother, but they could at least say, fine, you can eat meat in the house, but just in the kitchen or dining room or something.
The foster one is ridiculous. She was a foster child, and has been through enough already. Exactly what she doesn't need is some crazy christian trying to force her to change her religion. If she wants to change it, she will. The dad is 100% NOT THE AH.
The one with the african-american is very tricky. they could have said, "We just wanted to warn you that they might react badly and cut ties with you, but he's your boyfriend, and you can introduce him to them if you would like to." the parents are AHs.
you should not have picked the same name as the dead baby's. it is awful. imagine how much sadness that would bring to them. also, when the child grows up, she might feel responsible in some way for her cousin's death. Just find a name that's similar to it. AHs in every way.
Story #1 Neither or both are A-holes. It’s a case where it had to be done no matter what the consequences were. Son was 18 and wanted to get it done. End of story.
Story # 2 OP is definitely the Ahole because he can’t even stop swearing. He doesn’t even have a case here and just keeps cussing to prove his point.
Story #3 OP not the AH. Sister always steals the stoplight.
Srory # 4 Op is not the AH because her friend tried to embarrass her.
Story #5 not touching that with a 10 foot pole
Story #6 OP proves that she’s not the Ahole
Story #7 Op was originally the ah but do was the “child”
So glad they worked it out! 😊
Story # 8 “Getting rid of the Jewishness” so funny! 😂
Story # 9 “Guess who’s coming to dinnner” much?
Story # 10 Same story as number 2?
Story # 11 OP is not the Ahole. Just buy her her own pan and tell her that’s enough.
Your wrong. Not everything has to be about you. Maybe they just wanted to make him feel special as an individual. Sometimes twins start to feel like they are a pair and not an individual. Nothing is wrong with what they did. At least they invited you. If it's that big of a problem to you and your going to be negative and take your negativity to the past. Maybe you shouldn't go. My boys have grown up like twins and they have always been super close. So I understand the closeness. Have you talked to the party planner and expressed your feelings. Maybe they have a reason behind it that you would feel better about if they explained the situation to you.
When are we going to stop catering to bigotry? I don't understand the one about the black boyfriend not being someone to introduce to one's grandparents, you should be focusing on supporting your kid and also trying to break your parents of this horrid habit of bigotry. "I'm no liberal but he's cool" why do you have to be "liberal" to accept someone for who they are?
Story 1:she/him is a a.h/Karen
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