for the second one- it’s honestly quite selfless(?) that the daughter was less upset about being in trouble and more upset that her friend was outed. she’s a good friend.
I fully understand where her mom is coming from and agree with the mom. But I see where the daughter is coming from. Hopefully they talked it out and the daughter accepts a form of punishment but the mom always acknowledges that her daughter wasn’t trying to go to hook up but more or less let her friend feel more comfortable in his own space. Hopefully his parents didn’t take his coming out negatively and they talked it out too.
@@moniquegrove9809 There's a difference between outing someone, and keeping them safe. Under age gay boy sexuality, going to a gay bar full grown adults is not safe. That is an unsafe situation. Mom didn't out him, she's trying to protect him. There's nothing wrong with wanting to explore your sexuality, but do not go to a bar full grown adults that could so easily prey on you.
@@camicrossman4655 I fully agree with you. That’s why it’s tricky. I know why the kids went and how they would see it but also the parents. Think the parents have every right to punish them for going. But should hear them out and allow the son the space to come out and hopefully be able to go to pride festivals and feel more comfortable in his skin.
The last story bro. I fucking hate it when you specifically tell people not to do something and they go and do it and not even feel sorry for it and offer something to repair the damage. It's not even fat shaming the wife was understandably pissed .
And her husband was like it's just a freaking swing she literally just got that, how the heck do you say it's just the swing when she literally just got that
I totally agree that she should apologize deeply and offer to get a repair or a new one. If she can't afford it. Then try to do whatever she can. And the husband really don't get it. Still. She took it too far. That IS fat shaming. And a but hole move. Demand apology and compensation. But don't shame like that on weight.
Is it just me or did the husband just ignore that that was most of HIS OWN SONS SAVINGS THAT SISTER-IN-LAW JUST THREW DOWN THE DRAIN BECAUSE SHE CANT TAKE A “IT WONT BE ABLE TO HOLD YOU’RE WEIGHT!?”
@@ashleyluna4497because she knew that they were in an LGBT area and was literally tracking her daughter secretly so she *knew* that her daughter had to have had a reason to not tell her. Yes, they tried to get into bars with fake ids but we don’t even know if they were actually trying to drink, they were just trying to find a place for her friend to feel accepted. The daughter shouldn’t have snuck out but the mom being so controlling and strict is what led her to sneaking out in the first place.
@@artistic_lj you are right, we don't even know if they were even going to drink, but it still leaves it as a possibility. We aren't given context about what happened prior to the story, but you could also argue that it was the daughter's actions that led to the mom having to put rules in the first place. But yet again, that would be on the mom for raising her daughter like that and having to be strict, leading to her wanting to sneak out even more. For all the mom knew, her daughter could've been the one in LGBTQ and the friend was there to support her. In the mom's eyes her daughter lied to her and was at a bar, the mom was upset and informed the parent, you can't really expect her to keep quiet and not ask a parent where their child is at, for all she knew it could've just been her daughter that went to the bar while the friend stayed home so she thought to inform the parent and ask, which is how they found out that both their kids lied. I do think the mom is partially at fault, but for raising a daughter that makes choices like that and being a bit too strict, since again, we don't know if she was always so strict or only strict because of the daughter's behavior. But she couldn't have known that the friend was the on closeted, it could've been the daughter who was closeted
Her mom: abandons her child Her family: 🫥 The child: pulls the uno reverse and kicks the mom out of the house instead Family: goes off on the child that was ABANDONED
I see the colors going into the jar and I always think to myself “ew those colors look really bad together” then this QUEEN over here whips it out and blinds me with beauty
Story 3: yta. I mean if y'all couldn't afford the wedding then why did he propose? You made a promise to your sister and broke it because of your parents. Honestly your sister doesn't deserve that hate at all. She should be treated better
And even the boyfriend is shitty for saying “I don’t like you sister” tf I just feel the women is being gaslit and as soon as she has some time with normal peeps then she would realize she shouldn’t even have the wedding. Who forces a fiancé to not invite a family member
For the second story: YATA. “Privacy? Dont know her” kinda mom. Even though the daughter snuck out, she has no right to track her every move. And when she said “I know teenagers can be sneaky” No, only you raise them to be sneaky, no privacy, no freedom, ect. If her child felt the need to sneak out, then obviously, she wasn’t raised right.
I have mixed feelings about the 2nd one. She shouldn't have snuck out but at the same time the mom shouldn't track her every move because she feels controlled. I know this from experience
Any teen raised or not can be sneaky it’s her child so she has the right to track her privacy or not I have a tracker on my phone and I would never lie to my mom where I’m going she obviously lied to her and said she was somewhere but she obviously wasn’t that’s why parents like that put trackers in their car
That second story, yes you caught them drinking coffee. Yes they might’ve been trying to do something they shouldn’t have been doing, but only because you were literally stalking your child and I can’t get past that. Let alone outing that kid like that. That can be so dangerous so dangerous
@@ceekat7134 STALKING IS STALKING IF YOU TRY TO KEEP A CLOSE EYE ON YOUR CHILD 24/7 WITH A TRACKING DEVICE AND THEM NOT KNOWING IS STILL CONSIDERED STALKING (sorry my caps lock keeps on holding it’s self down and I’ve tried fixing it)
i kinda disagree its important to know where your kid are. The world is a dangerous place filled with dangerous adult and teens. If i had a daughter or son i'd stalk them too. I couldn't live with myself if anything happened to them. And as for the outing a child that was really unfortunate but completely accidental, if the daughter would had been honest with her dad her friends wouldn't have been outed, and maybe her dad could've found a safer more age appropriate space for her and her friend to go to
@@victorodo2853 I wasn’t upset until after they had gotten home and were safe and the daughter confided in her mother and the mother then decided to e out the other kid. There was no reason for that. There was no reason for that. There are a lot of families were that mother put that kid in danger by outing him.
Ok so first story nta here’s why. So HIS BIRTH MOM didn’t want him to go on trips treated her STEP children with more care than him and it’s his property, he tried getting with him but if they don’t wanna talk to the landlord than that’s there fault the landlord should know if your going to be busy if you don’t want to have to talk with the landlord buy your own house and property it may take a while but really…? You ignored your own son why, bc you wanted some dude that probably is a gold digger so nta thats why for me if your own son is the land lord then why we’re you ignoring him? Never in my life have i seen people ignore there own kids they way that mother did that’s just wrong you left YOUR KID that would probably want to go on the trip so yeah his mothers the a🕳
I mean she told him to leave HIS home when he was 17. So she has no right to tell him what to do with the house (not that she had any before, it was left for him and not for her). If she wants the house she could have talked to him to pay rent or buy it,but not just demand to live in it for free
The 3rd story is completely unfair Leaving a child to someone and then expecting them to help out with your next child even though they raised your 1st child And announcing it on your 1st child's special day Very entitled
The first one…. no he’s not the asshole. I’m assuming the dad who left everything to him seen something that wasn’t mentioned in the story about the mom & did EVERYTHING correct to protect his sons inheritance. That mom should have known this was gonna happening. Honestly I’m surprised they were able to continue to live in that house as long as they had, especially when the son wasn’t living there. I’ve known lots of people in situations where the couple had divorced & the house/property was in the dads name, so as a compromise, he allowed the mom & kids to live in his house, he moved out, until the last kid graduated HS & moved out, then the mom (& her new husband) would move out & the dad would take possession of the home. (They divorced when the youngest was like 5, so there was a long time there). I’ve known other people who have done similar things. That mom is trying to use her son, like she tried to use the sons dad. That dad was smart to protect his properties… So no the son is NOT the asshole, actually the mom is the asshole here.
Surrounding yourself with horrible people and conforming to their ideals makes you a horrible person as well. OP giving into transphobic ideals is part of the issue.
That story is a confusing situation for me, cause it could be that OP is scared that she will be shunned if she supports her sister, but she wants to be there for her sister. All I know is that OP needs to distance herself from her family, and she absolutely should not marry that guy
8:33 I've actually heard this story before lmao, but YATA. Their ''being really respectful by using her pronouns and her name'' was the *bare minimum* of what they could have done. They uninvited their transsexual sister because it would make them look bad in front of the family, AFTER PROMISING SHE WOULD BE INVITED NO MATTER WHAT tbh they could have invited her and taken the shit from their family if they actually supported their sister
The biggest issue is if the fiancé didn’t allow her to be at the wedding, you can damn well bet he won’t let her visit their house or be near their future children. By choosing this particular assho** of a fiancé, she is effectively abandoning her sister for life. The fact that her transphobic parents who have abandoned their child loves this guy, should be a huge red flag to the woman. What if their kid turns out trans? Marrying an intolerant person is not the best relationship choice, IMO
@@sofiacabrera239 You cant just hear ur bf/gf being transphobic or homophobic and just fall out of love. It's hard to let go someone who you planned on marrying.
OMG I love the resin art. The AITA really raise my blood pressure (so many sensitive subjects!!!!) but I really enjoy them because it helps me see I'm not the only one with problems and my reactions are not uncalled for. I also appreciate having outside advance foresight from parents and spouses.
Ok, first story NTA. I get vibes from the mom that are like “Oh son! I will treat you less than my step kids, even though we are blood and get surprised when you kick me off YOUR property”
For the trans sister (I'm trans myself btw) one I'd say OP is in a neutral place what they did definitely wasn't nice to the sister but it was understandable. To nitpick however, the stuff they said was them being nice was literally the least you can do, using anyone's pronouns and name is just basic respect, not some special gift. All in all I'd say OP can't be cleanly classed as TAH or NTAH, the family and OP's partner are 100% TAH and trans sister is 100% NTAH.
@@thegirlwhodoesgood4423 THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING (as a trans mans op) if your going to marry someone never let them pressure you into not letting you bring you're sister,do secretly ,so when the wedding does happen its already payed for and they can't back out on it,plus why would it matter if the parents didn't show up? Fuck them and there biest op,bring the sister, or don't marry the guy in the first place,simple as that,if it were me I would have cut off half the family If they we're pulling that shit,and I'd leave the guy the instint he starting saying some shit lol
nah OP is TA bc not only did she break that promise, shes choosing her transphobic husband and family over her sister who has OP left as immediate family that would stick up and support her. Its like.... the bare minimum for family to respect you and use your pronouns / name but to not stick up for you? yeah, still an ahole
I love all the designs you make for cancer! I’m a cancer zodiac and a cancer survivor AND my favorite color is teal. So yeah… great videos and beautiful art!
It is NEVER wrong to make yourself a priority in your life! Sometimes to do that we have to make some tough decisions & follow through no matter what. There’s nothing wrong with that, unless you’re doing these things with malice towards the other person(s). Especially when others show you their true self over and over, time to get the scissors ready
For story 1: No are you insane? This woman clearly did not care for her own child and has been using him for free living accomodations. The dad clearly know what sort of person she is and wanted to make sure she couldn't exploit their child.
Story 1. I think the dad did that to protect the kid from his mom.replay it and really listen to the story and you will hear that she literally threw her son out of his own dam house and practically disowned him unofficially to have a new start with her boyfriends family who I would not be surprised if she had a affair with before getting together officially. Story 2 The mother were not wrong to do that because you just proved that she can’t be trusted. 1 she had a fake ID 2 she went to a bar that served alcohol 3 she lied to her parents face 4 she would have to drive drunk if they had managed to get inside 5 if something had happened you wouldn’t have known till the next day. She could have been raped,kidnapped or even killed. The phone trick with the phone could have saved their life and the daughter should think of her actions.sure it sucks that the friend were pushed out of the closet to their parents but it’s their own fault for doing something so stupid or dangerous. I myself were taught that if you go somewhere tell the truth so that if something happens call so that the parents can either send someone you know to pick them up or drive them themselves. Story 3 No they did the right thing and it’s a wonder that their child could turn out to be such a useless slutty bitch. They aren’t horrible because they said send the kid to be adopted by someone that is qualified or become a fucking responsible adult that can take care of a child! They have already raised one of her children they were of no obligation to do that but they did when she literally abandoned her first born to party and do god knows what with her wast of a life. She needed the reality check and you did the right thing and if she did keep the baby and you know that she haven’t changed call child service and tell them your concerns to protect the child. Story 4 No you were literally told do this or we are not getting married and you we’re probably scared that you’re fiancé you’re leave you together with your family if you had choice to invite your sister. In my honest opinion you should dump him and you family because they just sound like manipulating and toxic people that are not healthy to be around especially if you were to have a child in the future. Story 5 No she totally deserved it and I would force her to pay for a replacement and throwing her out of my life. It was your home and she disrespected you by doing something that you told her not to do especially when you went and showed her the box it was a clear sign that read DON’T SITT HER IF YOU ARE OVER THE WEIGHT LIMIT!!!! And she ignored it and didn’t even fucking apologies to you. I hope you mad your husbands life a living hell for siding with her when he and your sister in-law were in the wrong.You we’re not the asshole it was them.
The son is not the asshole in story 1. The mom isolated her own child to prioritize a deadbeat man and his kids. It sounds like she only kept talking to him because of the will. For all we k ow, she was cheating on his dad with that same man. It's his stuff and he has no obligation to give her anything if he doesn't want to.she literally kicked him out of the house. He don't owe her a cent.
With a mom and dad that toxic you handled it the best you can and with a cheating mom and dad who made sure his money helped you and not her and the new man after it happened be thankful he protected you that well or you could have ended up with nothing sounds like if mom has control she would have took everything from you to keep the peace with the new man and family wow unbelievable toxic as crap js first story jmo
I think the young guy with the house is doing the right thing. The mom shows her selfish ways and excludes him from everything. She most likely was not being a good mom or wife when his dad was alive.
The second story really think she ate it with the stricter rules but it just shows how little that daughter and parent trust each other. The daughter probably just wanted a little fun but the mom was trying to catch her daughter doing something BEFORE SHE DID ANYTHING. She raised her daughter to be sneaky it's literally her own fault.
@@tinhnem2703 Okay, but she hadn't done anything before she was getting tracked. Following someone's every move is creepy as hell and if anyone else was doing it you would be outraged. This is just going to further show her daughter that no one can trust anyone in that relationship.
for the second one- although you ended up finding out what she did, that is a huge violation of privacy. if i were your daughter i would probably never trust you again, and be really pissed at you for a LONG time. you remind me of the kind of mom who would take the doors off of her room if she got bad grades.
for the first one, I think the mother may have been neglectful even before the passing, and considering she "got a new partner" not even 2 weeks after he died, I have a feeling that was the reason they werent married to begin with. She treated her own sôn as if he was a stranger, those expressions of love felt forced third story: "I do the bare minimum for a trans person but decide to uninvite them from a special event because I'll get free stuff from the people oppressing her" is the best summary for that story, youre both TA and NTA cause I do acknowledge that there was some peer pressure, but the fact you even considered it to begin with without that pressure is bad
@@ResinateByChanel I get where yall are coming from, protect your kids, but going as far as to track you kid without telling them ON TOP OF hella strict rules? It's almost like a "what did you think was going to happen" type thing. The parent adding more strict rules is going make EVERYTHING worse; it's not only going to ruin their relationship, but it's going to ruin her all together; and THEN outing someone ELSE'S kid, oof
@@corey1937 I agree and disagree. Though they did raise their child with kindness they were going to a bar. They were probably teenagers 16-17 at best. Yes it’s messed up the kids weren’t aware they’re rare being tracked but at least nothing happened. In OP’s eyes they were trying to get drunk and party with adults and could of gotten hurt. But outting someone else’s child. Nah I can’t respect that.
Story 3: OP is naive, they are being controlled by their parents and the boyfriend. Grow a spine. Pretty soon you won't have a sister. The 2nd story. Guess OP only has a year left to control their daughter, probably less because I know when this story came out. OP's daughter is going to probably go low to no contact. I hope she does
Yeah it was a pretty harsh decision imo... And technically it's illegal to kick someone out without 30 days if they have been getting mail at that address! At least that's how it is where I live!!
@@ResinateByChanel but then again, she was not paying rent. And ok, he needs the money. But ¿Why so suddenly? I meant, is obvious that she neglected him, but... First he can try to get her paying rent.
The last one first no, I’m not trying to judge her sister for being over but she strictly said don’t sit on the swing. Then she sat on the swing and broke it💀
Last story: you are the AH but not completely. Your sister in law, despite the weight limit warning you gave her, decided to disobey the one simple rule you gave her. However, you handled the situation wrong. You could’ve just told her that it was fine but tell her to reimburse you. Look at the situation maturely. I listened to this again and holy shit all of them are AH 😐
Ikr... It's really messed up!!! They all suck pretty bad... But the last one I understand... Like I would be so pissed if someone broke my stuff and didn't offer to pay!!!
@@xixi69 but, they should’ve understood that the person didn’t have bad intentions and can ask HER to reimburse her. She could give the money reimbursed to the son for him to buy her a new one so it would have the same meaning.
@@OrcusLupin nah once she was told not to do it and the weight limit and she did it anyways she knew the possibility of it breaking and was also over stepping a boundary of "don't sit in my swing" the op had every right to get pissed.
@@OrcusLupin Op already asked her to not sit there, as she said, she rarely gets any gifts and that was from her son too, not to mention she had been wanting it for a while. Son spent savings to get that for her. No means no. She shouldn’t have sat there especially when told to not. Nta
1st story NTA I've commented before on this Bridged is that the Father knew something was up if not she was cheating then at least how toxic the mother could be and did what he could to protect his son in the will Mother clearly distanced and left out her own son if at most to use him for his fathers property and kicked him out when he became to much of burden for her and was of no help to what she wanted...son didn't owe her a dime nor an explanation and decided to serve his own karmic justice 2nd story YTA strict rules and invading privacy is the quickest and easiest way to raise a "Sneaky" Child as well as create a gap in the relationship and any open communication from a child moving forward if there was any in the first place bottle necking any open communication with a teenager is also the quickest and fastest way into them getting themselves into trouble or situations you would rather they not be in all of which cause a child or teen into hiding any thing and everything from there parents them believing they can't come to there parents for any help and even refusing to believe or trust any advice given by said parent ultimately trusting or going along with any peers around them and making bad situations worse out of complete terror of backlash from strict parents...also outing any LGBTQ from family's they would rather not know can be seriously dangerous 3rd story NTA but could have handled the situation better by taking her aside like the family suggested i only hope the second child doesn't end up in foster care down the road 4th not only are they TA but they are now transphobic by inaction using correct pronouns and gender is the bare minim and just common decency and respect choosing a wedding and what sounds like a transphobic partner over your sister is beyond betrayal and I feel incredibly sorry for the sister and for her having such a toxic family last story Yes an A-hole but just for the response she made a which give a 1/10 and could have been handled better but I understand the anger as to why the sister and husband are the bigger A-holes for not replacing what she literally broke and guilt-triping her own sister for what was her own fault the husband should have sided with his wife and understood what losing the swing meant to her
For the last story, I am on the submitter's side. I don't have a lot of money and it all goes to bills. I saved up and bought myself a car 3 years ago. It is completely paid off and totally my baby. I treat that thing like it's my child and I have no regrets. My boss borrowed it and kind of trashed it. I was pissed. Everybody tells me it's just a car, to me it is not just a car for many reasons but one of those being I can't really afford a lot for myself outside of my bills and necessities and sometimes I struggle for that So being able to do this for myself was really big for me and I take care of it. People need to respect other people's property and their wishes.
For the last one NTA when someone tells you not to do something you don't do it like imagine you have a wedding ring then someone you tell wants to try it on but you tell them no cus it won't fit but they put it on anyway and now the ring has to get cut off youd be pretty pissed right? and on top of that they don't even apologize or offer to pay for it
I would give them more than two weeks, especially because A) someone is pregnant and B) they need time to find somewhere that isn't the streets. Besides that, you are not the AH, and have the right to sell your own property. A month and a half should be fine and no more, with how bad the housing retail prices are now though, I'd warn her to look for an apartment first or something. It might piss her off, but shows her for picking men over her own children, even if you aren't her biologically, but I don't know the facts and what your relationship dynamic specifically is. (Also anyone who is decent morally speaking should give themselves more time than that to grieve, even if just a little, and also should have set firm boundaries on her future partners. Tbh, your mom sounds like an AH, not you.)
As a daughter who had a mom tracking me by the GPS in my car, no you are not an asshole. I'd literally be dead now if the guy I was with hadn't known that my mama knew my every move, even from 500 miles away, if I hadn't had a mama that cared, he would have buried me somewhere on the outskirts of Sacramento. Never stop watching your little girls, especially nowadays, these dudes out here are evil! And make sure to make them understand why, and to let people know about it, don't hide it from her, explain that times are scary and it will keep her safe.💜💜💜💜
For the story that ended at 2:25 basically you should’ve waited until they came back to tell them so they would have more time to figure things out and (just saying) if it was me I probably would’ve considered giving them a temporary place in one of your other properties but that’s my opinion (please no hate)
2:30 I know they’re not technically op’s family, but they should show them a little more empathy. The mom and stepdad don’t deserve empathy, but his step sister and brother do deserve it. 5:19 she was absolutely in the right no children should be going to any bar.
Second story: as the daughter of a homophobic mother I can personally say that if that happened to me I'd be more than livid. Given their ages as well the parents might have kicked out the friend if they were...y'know. The mother has the right to check up on her child but I personally think that crossed the light a lil too much
Story #2: it's unfair of the daughter to brand what happened as outing her friend. They lied about their whereabouts, were actively trying to break the law and got caught. This isn't about outing. Bring gay doesn't make it okay for you to falsify your identity to get into gay clubs as a child.
I think you should let your mom and her children or whoever people want to live in there with your mother living there but they have to pay you rent cuz you said you're going to rent it out so might as well make her pay rent
The ungrateful pregnant teen story - the parents are NTA. Yes they adopted Opal but that was 16yrs earlier and they were 40 not 56. The daughter needs to grow up. If you can't look after a baby then don't have/keep it, put it up for adoption or raise it yourself
Last one: no you are not but a little harsh 4 : Yes you are a horrible sister to your sister 3 : No but you did raise a brat 2: 1000000%YES you outed someone when you should not have I wouldn’t be shocked if she cut you off 1:no you were abandoned by her
Ummmm if they have been there after 30 days, they are residents and in most states that is illegal to just change the locks. That's cause fir a lawsuit.
For the last one, i would say no, she is not an as*hole I mean, her son bought that for HER with HIS savings and not even a week later it broke and i would be really mad too
The daughter's situation... she is a minor, and you are responsible for her, so I think keeping a close eye on her whereabouts is the responsible thing to do. Now, if she were a grown adult out of your home, then I'd say you were overprotective but still not an asshole.
Absolutely not that one his mother neglected him and his childhood, wouldn’t take him on the family vacations, treated him like shit his entire life. No. Stepdad can go out and get a job and they can go get the own place to fucking live
Kelly isnt the ahole but they could have been blunt to her in private. Though i also feel if she had then the daughter would have spread lies or something so tricky situation.
The second one is kind of fucked. Unless your kid ACTUALLY killed someone, uses intense drugs, or has some kind of disability or disorder you are justified to hide a phone in a car. But if the kids done nothing wrong YOU are either crazy or extremely controlling. I hope your kid gets some help
You forgot they were sneaking into a bar. Ya know where drugs, and booze can be consumed. They were 17 at best. OP is wrong for putting the child and yeah over the top but imagine if they got in? Got drunk? Went home with someone? Then what? OP isn’t fully in the right but they aren’t fully in the wrong either
For the last one no you are not because they should have listened and you were defending your self when you "fat shamed" her it was understandable what your sister (I think) was in the wrong too
for the second one- it’s honestly quite selfless(?) that the daughter was less upset about being in trouble and more upset that her friend was outed. she’s a good friend.
Agreed
hell yeah and she even confessed to her mom
I fully understand where her mom is coming from and agree with the mom. But I see where the daughter is coming from. Hopefully they talked it out and the daughter accepts a form of punishment but the mom always acknowledges that her daughter wasn’t trying to go to hook up but more or less let her friend feel more comfortable in his own space. Hopefully his parents didn’t take his coming out negatively and they talked it out too.
@@moniquegrove9809 There's a difference between outing someone, and keeping them safe. Under age gay boy sexuality, going to a gay bar full grown adults is not safe. That is an unsafe situation. Mom didn't out him, she's trying to protect him. There's nothing wrong with wanting to explore your sexuality, but do not go to a bar full grown adults that could so easily prey on you.
@@camicrossman4655 I fully agree with you. That’s why it’s tricky. I know why the kids went and how they would see it but also the parents. Think the parents have every right to punish them for going. But should hear them out and allow the son the space to come out and hopefully be able to go to pride festivals and feel more comfortable in his skin.
The last story bro. I fucking hate it when you specifically tell people not to do something and they go and do it and not even feel sorry for it and offer something to repair the damage. It's not even fat shaming the wife was understandably pissed .
I know!!!? Omg the SIL made me soooo mad!! Like how dare you break someone's things and not offer to pay!!!???
And her husband was like it's just a freaking swing she literally just got that, how the heck do you say it's just the swing when she literally just got that
Yeah, and if that happened to me when I'm older, and my kid bought that for me. I would fight with my sister. No matter what happened.
I totally agree that she should apologize deeply and offer to get a repair or a new one.
If she can't afford it. Then try to do whatever she can.
And the husband really don't get it.
Still. She took it too far. That IS fat shaming. And a but hole move.
Demand apology and compensation. But don't shame like that on weight.
Is it just me or did the husband just ignore that that was most of HIS OWN SONS SAVINGS THAT SISTER-IN-LAW JUST THREW DOWN THE DRAIN BECAUSE SHE CANT TAKE A “IT WONT BE ABLE TO HOLD YOU’RE WEIGHT!?”
That mom is absolutely the asshole for violating pricy and outing her friend. And not realizing how dangerous that could be for her friend
How was the mom supposed to know? Plus, those teenagers tried to enter a bar with fake IDs
@@ashleyluna4497because she knew that they were in an LGBT area and was literally tracking her daughter secretly so she *knew* that her daughter had to have had a reason to not tell her. Yes, they tried to get into bars with fake ids but we don’t even know if they were actually trying to drink, they were just trying to find a place for her friend to feel accepted. The daughter shouldn’t have snuck out but the mom being so controlling and strict is what led her to sneaking out in the first place.
@@artistic_lj you are right, we don't even know if they were even going to drink, but it still leaves it as a possibility. We aren't given context about what happened prior to the story, but you could also argue that it was the daughter's actions that led to the mom having to put rules in the first place. But yet again, that would be on the mom for raising her daughter like that and having to be strict, leading to her wanting to sneak out even more. For all the mom knew, her daughter could've been the one in LGBTQ and the friend was there to support her. In the mom's eyes her daughter lied to her and was at a bar, the mom was upset and informed the parent, you can't really expect her to keep quiet and not ask a parent where their child is at, for all she knew it could've just been her daughter that went to the bar while the friend stayed home so she thought to inform the parent and ask, which is how they found out that both their kids lied. I do think the mom is partially at fault, but for raising a daughter that makes choices like that and being a bit too strict, since again, we don't know if she was always so strict or only strict because of the daughter's behavior. But she couldn't have known that the friend was the on closeted, it could've been the daughter who was closeted
Her mom: abandons her child
Her family: 🫥
The child: pulls the uno reverse and kicks the mom out of the house instead
Family: goes off on the child that was ABANDONED
I see the colors going into the jar and I always think to myself “ew those colors look really bad together” then this QUEEN over here whips it out and blinds me with beauty
IKR?!
Kelly was positive you'd raise the next one cause you did it before and now she's panicking cause she can't use you nta cut all contact she's toxic
I completely agree!! She is a grown woman!! She needs to stop having kids if she can't raise them!!!
Story 3: yta. I mean if y'all couldn't afford the wedding then why did he propose? You made a promise to your sister and broke it because of your parents. Honestly your sister doesn't deserve that hate at all. She should be treated better
My dumbass meant story 4
And even the boyfriend is shitty for saying “I don’t like you sister” tf I just feel the women is being gaslit and as soon as she has some time with normal peeps then she would realize she shouldn’t even have the wedding. Who forces a fiancé to not invite a family member
For the second story: YATA. “Privacy? Dont know her” kinda mom. Even though the daughter snuck out, she has no right to track her every move. And when she said “I know teenagers can be sneaky” No, only you raise them to be sneaky, no privacy, no freedom, ect. If her child felt the need to sneak out, then obviously, she wasn’t raised right.
That and you're raising your child to not only NOT trust you, but to be worse off in the real world
I have mixed feelings about the 2nd one. She shouldn't have snuck out but at the same time the mom shouldn't track her every move because she feels controlled. I know this from experience
@@banirolls I agree with u like the mom should of given her kid her privacy but the kid shouldn’t of lied
@@corey1937 fr
Any teen raised or not can be sneaky it’s her child so she has the right to track her privacy or not I have a tracker on my phone and I would never lie to my mom where I’m going she obviously lied to her and said she was somewhere but she obviously wasn’t that’s why parents like that put trackers in their car
That second story, yes you caught them drinking coffee. Yes they might’ve been trying to do something they shouldn’t have been doing, but only because you were literally stalking your child and I can’t get past that. Let alone outing that kid like that. That can be so dangerous so dangerous
I completely agree
No you are not a parent 😒 so you never understand smh 🤦 how canyou stalk your own child 🤔 ppl are ridiculous
@@ceekat7134 STALKING IS STALKING IF YOU TRY TO KEEP A CLOSE EYE ON YOUR CHILD 24/7 WITH A TRACKING DEVICE AND THEM NOT KNOWING IS STILL CONSIDERED STALKING (sorry my caps lock keeps on holding it’s self down and I’ve tried fixing it)
i kinda disagree its important to know where your kid are. The world is a dangerous place filled with dangerous adult and teens. If i had a daughter or son i'd stalk them too. I couldn't live with myself if anything happened to them. And as for the outing a child that was really unfortunate but completely accidental, if the daughter would had been honest with her dad her friends wouldn't have been outed, and maybe her dad could've found a safer more age appropriate space for her and her friend to go to
@@victorodo2853 I wasn’t upset until after they had gotten home and were safe and the daughter confided in her mother and the mother then decided to e out the other kid. There was no reason for that. There was no reason for that. There are a lot of families were that mother put that kid in danger by outing him.
“It’s just a swing”
She never got anything better than that tho?
Ok so first story nta here’s why. So HIS BIRTH MOM didn’t want him to go on trips treated her STEP children with more care than him and it’s his property, he tried getting with him but if they don’t wanna talk to the landlord than that’s there fault the landlord should know if your going to be busy if you don’t want to have to talk with the landlord buy your own house and property it may take a while but really…? You ignored your own son why, bc you wanted some dude that probably is a gold digger so nta thats why for me if your own son is the land lord then why we’re you ignoring him? Never in my life have i seen people ignore there own kids they way that mother did that’s just wrong you left YOUR KID that would probably want to go on the trip so yeah his mothers the a🕳
I mean she told him to leave HIS home when he was 17. So she has no right to tell him what to do with the house (not that she had any before, it was left for him and not for her). If she wants the house she could have talked to him to pay rent or buy it,but not just demand to live in it for free
I know this is only a hint into there life but I think the husband who passed away knew that she would do something like this
The 3rd story is completely unfair Leaving a child to someone and then expecting them to help out with your next child even though they raised your 1st child And announcing it on your 1st child's special day Very entitled
Ikr
The first one…. no he’s not the asshole. I’m assuming the dad who left everything to him seen something that wasn’t mentioned in the story about the mom & did EVERYTHING correct to protect his sons inheritance. That mom should have known this was gonna happening. Honestly I’m surprised they were able to continue to live in that house as long as they had, especially when the son wasn’t living there. I’ve known lots of people in situations where the couple had divorced & the house/property was in the dads name, so as a compromise, he allowed the mom & kids to live in his house, he moved out, until the last kid graduated HS & moved out, then the mom (& her new husband) would move out & the dad would take possession of the home. (They divorced when the youngest was like 5, so there was a long time there). I’ve known other people who have done similar things. That mom is trying to use her son, like she tried to use the sons dad. That dad was smart to protect his properties… So no the son is NOT the asshole, actually the mom is the asshole here.
Bro you don't need to write a 100 word paragraph
@@paulinemnguni3014 ok? You didn’t need to say anything because frankly no one asked for your opinion 🤗
1: NTA
2: Most definetly TA
3: NTA
4: You, the parents and the fiance are TA
Surrounding yourself with horrible people and conforming to their ideals makes you a horrible person as well. OP giving into transphobic ideals is part of the issue.
That story is a confusing situation for me, cause it could be that OP is scared that she will be shunned if she supports her sister, but she wants to be there for her sister. All I know is that OP needs to distance herself from her family, and she absolutely should not marry that guy
@@lavenderpotato5734 you worded it better/in a nicer tone^^^
8:33 I've actually heard this story before lmao, but YATA. Their ''being really respectful by using her pronouns and her name'' was the *bare minimum* of what they could have done. They uninvited their transsexual sister because it would make them look bad in front of the family, AFTER PROMISING SHE WOULD BE INVITED NO MATTER WHAT tbh they could have invited her and taken the shit from their family if they actually supported their sister
The biggest issue is if the fiancé didn’t allow her to be at the wedding, you can damn well bet he won’t let her visit their house or be near their future children. By choosing this particular assho** of a fiancé, she is effectively abandoning her sister for life.
The fact that her transphobic parents who have abandoned their child loves this guy, should be a huge red flag to the woman. What if their kid turns out trans? Marrying an intolerant person is not the best relationship choice, IMO
@@sbh2888 I honestly agree
@@sbh2888 agreed I would stop the relationship if I new my partner was homophobic/transphonic
@@sofiacabrera239 You cant just hear ur bf/gf being transphobic or homophobic and just fall out of love. It's hard to let go someone who you planned on marrying.
Number five is just heartbreaking. Heart breaking.
OMG I love the resin art. The AITA really raise my blood pressure (so many sensitive subjects!!!!) but I really enjoy them because it helps me see I'm not the only one with problems and my reactions are not uncalled for. I also appreciate having outside advance foresight from parents and spouses.
Ok, first story NTA. I get vibes from the mom that are like “Oh son! I will treat you less than my step kids, even though we are blood and get surprised when you kick me off YOUR property”
For the trans sister (I'm trans myself btw) one I'd say OP is in a neutral place what they did definitely wasn't nice to the sister but it was understandable.
To nitpick however, the stuff they said was them being nice was literally the least you can do, using anyone's pronouns and name is just basic respect, not some special gift.
All in all I'd say OP can't be cleanly classed as TAH or NTAH, the family and OP's partner are 100% TAH and trans sister is 100% NTAH.
I agree with your point... I just really hate that op broke the promise she made to her sister... 😥
@@ResinateByChanel yea, that's why I can't give OP full ntah status
J have to stay why is she marrying the dude if he’s transphobic and dislikes the sister even I’m pretty sure they have nether met?
@@thegirlwhodoesgood4423 THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING (as a trans mans op) if your going to marry someone never let them pressure you into not letting you bring you're sister,do secretly ,so when the wedding does happen its already payed for and they can't back out on it,plus why would it matter if the parents didn't show up? Fuck them and there biest op,bring the sister, or don't marry the guy in the first place,simple as that,if it were me I would have cut off half the family If they we're pulling that shit,and I'd leave the guy the instint he starting saying some shit lol
nah OP is TA bc not only did she break that promise, shes choosing her transphobic husband and family over her sister who has OP left as immediate family that would stick up and support her.
Its like.... the bare minimum for family to respect you and use your pronouns / name but to not stick up for you? yeah, still an ahole
I just discovered this channel, and it’s making me really want to try resin art
I love all the designs you make for cancer! I’m a cancer zodiac and a cancer survivor AND my favorite color is teal. So yeah… great videos and beautiful art!
It is NEVER wrong to make yourself a priority in your life! Sometimes to do that we have to make some tough decisions & follow through no matter what. There’s nothing wrong with that, unless you’re doing these things with malice towards the other person(s). Especially when others show you their true self over and over, time to get the scissors ready
For story 1: No are you insane?
This woman clearly did not care for her own child and has been using him for free living accomodations. The dad clearly know what sort of person she is and wanted to make sure she couldn't exploit their child.
Yes, there must’ve been a reason he wrote her out of the will.
Story 1.
I think the dad did that to protect the kid from his mom.replay it and really listen to the story and you will hear that she literally threw her son out of his own dam house and practically disowned him unofficially to have a new start with her boyfriends family who I would not be surprised if she had a affair with before getting together officially.
Story 2
The mother were not wrong to do that because you just proved that she can’t be trusted.
1 she had a fake ID
2 she went to a bar that served alcohol
3 she lied to her parents face
4 she would have to drive drunk if they had managed to get inside
5 if something had happened you wouldn’t have known till the next day. She could have been raped,kidnapped or even killed.
The phone trick with the phone could have saved their life and the daughter should think of her actions.sure it sucks that the friend were pushed out of the closet to their parents but it’s their own fault for doing something so stupid or dangerous.
I myself were taught that if you go somewhere tell the truth so that if something happens call so that the parents can either send someone you know to pick them up or drive them themselves.
Story 3
No they did the right thing and it’s a wonder that their child could turn out to be such a useless slutty bitch. They aren’t horrible because they said send the kid to be adopted by someone that is qualified or become a fucking responsible adult that can take care of a child!
They have already raised one of her children they were of no obligation to do that but they did when she literally abandoned her first born to party and do god knows what with her wast of a life. She needed the reality check and you did the right thing and if she did keep the baby and you know that she haven’t changed call child service and tell them your concerns to protect the child.
Story 4
No you were literally told do this or we are not getting married and you we’re probably scared that you’re fiancé you’re leave you together with your family if you had choice to invite your sister. In my honest opinion you should dump him and you family because they just sound like manipulating and toxic people that are not healthy to be around especially if you were to have a child in the future.
Story 5
No she totally deserved it and I would force her to pay for a replacement and throwing her out of my life.
It was your home and she disrespected you by doing something that you told her not to do especially when you went and showed her the box it was a clear sign that read DON’T SITT HER IF YOU ARE OVER THE WEIGHT LIMIT!!!!
And she ignored it and didn’t even fucking apologies to you.
I hope you mad your husbands life a living hell for siding with her when he and your sister in-law were in the wrong.You we’re not the asshole it was them.
The son is not the asshole in story 1. The mom isolated her own child to prioritize a deadbeat man and his kids. It sounds like she only kept talking to him because of the will. For all we k ow, she was cheating on his dad with that same man. It's his stuff and he has no obligation to give her anything if he doesn't want to.she literally kicked him out of the house. He don't owe her a cent.
With a mom and dad that toxic you handled it the best you can and with a cheating mom and dad who made sure his money helped you and not her and the new man after it happened be thankful he protected you that well or you could have ended up with nothing sounds like if mom has control she would have took everything from you to keep the peace with the new man and family wow unbelievable toxic as crap js first story jmo
Those rainbow combs and picks are so pretty omg
I think the young guy with the house is doing the right thing. The mom shows her selfish ways and excludes him from everything. She most likely was not being a good mom or wife when his dad was alive.
As much as I am against making people feel bad for being fat she should’ve listened.
I need to know what made little mister “self employed” in the first story think he had any right to open his mouth when he doesn’t even have a job
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Yes in her channel description she sells them on Etsy
The stones is a nice touch. Love it. Lisa
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@@ResinateByChanel ofc!!
Boundaries people Boundaries! People need to respect other's Boundaries 💯
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Love how you to put colors together is awesome 👌.
I just love your projects. The colors are beautiful.
Can you do leila with the coulors pink and purple and like galaxy
The second story really think she ate it with the stricter rules but it just shows how little that daughter and parent trust each other. The daughter probably just wanted a little fun but the mom was trying to catch her daughter doing something BEFORE SHE DID ANYTHING. She raised her daughter to be sneaky it's literally her own fault.
But the daughter and her friend literally tried to use fake i
I.Ds that’s illegal
@@tinhnem2703 Okay, but she hadn't done anything before she was getting tracked. Following someone's every move is creepy as hell and if anyone else was doing it you would be outraged. This is just going to further show her daughter that no one can trust anyone in that relationship.
8:30 I got a add that said “you got a point” right after 😭💀
for the second one- although you ended up finding out what she did, that is a huge violation of privacy. if i were your daughter i would probably never trust you again, and be really pissed at you for a LONG time. you remind me of the kind of mom who would take the doors off of her room if she got bad grades.
I need to get in on this drama
Love your vids thank you for making this
TYSM for your support bestie 💗💜
@@ResinateByChanel np besti
for the first one, I think the mother may have been neglectful even before the passing, and considering she "got a new partner" not even 2 weeks after he died, I have a feeling that was the reason they werent married to begin with. She treated her own sôn as if he was a stranger, those expressions of love felt forced
third story: "I do the bare minimum for a trans person but decide to uninvite them from a special event because I'll get free stuff from the people oppressing her" is the best summary for that story, youre both TA and NTA cause I do acknowledge that there was some peer pressure, but the fact you even considered it to begin with without that pressure is bad
Your art is so beautiful
These vidoes make me sleepy
Story 1 you are right
Yellow so close to purple can make a wierd brown
tracking teen NTA i get that you want your child to be safe however you do not out someone
Fr fr!!! That was the biggest problem!! But I don't blame him for tracking his sneaky daughter!!!
@@ResinateByChanel I get where yall are coming from, protect your kids, but going as far as to track you kid without telling them ON TOP OF hella strict rules? It's almost like a "what did you think was going to happen" type thing. The parent adding more strict rules is going make EVERYTHING worse; it's not only going to ruin their relationship, but it's going to ruin her all together; and THEN outing someone ELSE'S kid, oof
@@corey1937 I agree and disagree. Though they did raise their child with kindness they were going to a bar. They were probably teenagers 16-17 at best. Yes it’s messed up the kids weren’t aware they’re rare being tracked but at least nothing happened. In OP’s eyes they were trying to get drunk and party with adults and could of gotten hurt.
But outting someone else’s child. Nah I can’t respect that.
After watching the last one…. If someone tells you not to do smtg don’t do IT. Honestly I would be mad too and she should have bought you a new chair.
You have a very beautiful voice ❤️
Story 3: OP is naive, they are being controlled by their parents and the boyfriend. Grow a spine. Pretty soon you won't have a sister. The 2nd story. Guess OP only has a year left to control their daughter, probably less because I know when this story came out. OP's daughter is going to probably go low to no contact. I hope she does
The first one looks like.some info is left out. Like...I mean, I get it. But ¿Why don't try to get a deal first?
Yeah it was a pretty harsh decision imo... And technically it's illegal to kick someone out without 30 days if they have been getting mail at that address! At least that's how it is where I live!!
@@ResinateByChanel but then again, she was not paying rent. And ok, he needs the money. But ¿Why so suddenly? I meant, is obvious that she neglected him, but... First he can try to get her paying rent.
Well technically she did kick him out first
For the 2nd story NTA, i think people should be more carefull with their teenagers since really bad things can happen
The last one first no, I’m not trying to judge her sister for being over but she strictly said don’t sit on the swing. Then she sat on the swing and broke it💀
The fact that the third one is basically my mom
Last story: you are the AH but not completely. Your sister in law, despite the weight limit warning you gave her, decided to disobey the one simple rule you gave her. However, you handled the situation wrong. You could’ve just told her that it was fine but tell her to reimburse you. Look at the situation maturely. I listened to this again and holy shit all of them are AH 😐
Ikr... It's really messed up!!! They all suck pretty bad... But the last one I understand... Like I would be so pissed if someone broke my stuff and didn't offer to pay!!!
The swing was also a gift from her son, it’s gonna have more of a special meaning then having someone replace it. NTAH
@@xixi69 but, they should’ve understood that the person didn’t have bad intentions and can ask HER to reimburse her. She could give the money reimbursed to the son for him to buy her a new one so it would have the same meaning.
@@OrcusLupin nah once she was told not to do it and the weight limit and she did it anyways she knew the possibility of it breaking and was also over stepping a boundary of "don't sit in my swing" the op had every right to get pissed.
@@OrcusLupin Op already asked her to not sit there, as she said, she rarely gets any gifts and that was from her son too, not to mention she had been wanting it for a while. Son spent savings to get that for her. No means no. She shouldn’t have sat there especially when told to not. Nta
1st story NTA I've commented before on this Bridged is that the Father knew something was up if not she was cheating then at least how toxic the mother could be and did what he could to protect his son in the will Mother clearly distanced and left out her own son if at most to use him for his fathers property and kicked him out when he became to much of burden for her and was of no help to what she wanted...son didn't owe her a dime nor an explanation and decided to serve his own karmic justice
2nd story YTA strict rules and invading privacy is the quickest and easiest way to raise a "Sneaky" Child as well as create a gap in the relationship and any open communication from a child moving forward if there was any in the first place bottle necking any open communication with a teenager is also the quickest and fastest way into them getting themselves into trouble or situations you would rather they not be in all of which cause a child or teen into hiding any thing and everything from there parents them believing they can't come to there parents for any help and even refusing to believe or trust any advice given by said parent ultimately trusting or going along with any peers around them and making bad situations worse out of complete terror of backlash from strict parents...also outing any LGBTQ from family's they would rather not know can be seriously dangerous
3rd story NTA but could have handled the situation better by taking her aside like the family suggested i only hope the second child doesn't end up in foster care down the road
4th not only are they TA but they are now transphobic by inaction using correct pronouns and gender is the bare minim and just common decency and respect choosing a wedding and what sounds like a transphobic partner over your sister is beyond betrayal and I feel incredibly sorry for the sister and for her having such a toxic family
last story Yes an A-hole but just for the response she made a which give a 1/10 and could have been handled better but I understand the anger as to why the sister and husband are the bigger A-holes for not replacing what she literally broke and guilt-triping her own sister for what was her own fault the husband should have sided with his wife and understood what losing the swing meant to her
For the last story, I am on the submitter's side. I don't have a lot of money and it all goes to bills. I saved up and bought myself a car 3 years ago. It is completely paid off and totally my baby. I treat that thing like it's my child and I have no regrets. My boss borrowed it and kind of trashed it. I was pissed. Everybody tells me it's just a car, to me it is not just a car for many reasons but one of those being I can't really afford a lot for myself outside of my bills and necessities and sometimes I struggle for that So being able to do this for myself was really big for me and I take care of it. People need to respect other people's property and their wishes.
For the last one NTA when someone tells you not to do something you don't do it
like imagine you have a wedding ring then someone you tell wants to try it on but you tell them no cus it won't fit but they put it on anyway and now the ring has to get cut off youd be pretty pissed right? and on top of that they don't even apologize or offer to pay for it
3:00 I think it was ok to dothat
Where do u get the Geminis and others ones from
Where you get the same things from to
I would give them more than two weeks, especially because A) someone is pregnant and B) they need time to find somewhere that isn't the streets. Besides that, you are not the AH, and have the right to sell your own property. A month and a half should be fine and no more, with how bad the housing retail prices are now though, I'd warn her to look for an apartment first or something. It might piss her off, but shows her for picking men over her own children, even if you aren't her biologically, but I don't know the facts and what your relationship dynamic specifically is. (Also anyone who is decent morally speaking should give themselves more time than that to grieve, even if just a little, and also should have set firm boundaries on her future partners. Tbh, your mom sounds like an AH, not you.)
For the forth one yes you are
As a daughter who had a mom tracking me by the GPS in my car, no you are not an asshole. I'd literally be dead now if the guy I was with hadn't known that my mama knew my every move, even from 500 miles away, if I hadn't had a mama that cared, he would have buried me somewhere on the outskirts of Sacramento. Never stop watching your little girls, especially nowadays, these dudes out here are evil! And make sure to make them understand why, and to let people know about it, don't hide it from her, explain that times are scary and it will keep her safe.💜💜💜💜
First story nah you ain't the a-hole its yo house and tried to tell her but didn't get to since she didn't pick up
10:39, yes you are.
With the wedding I’d get it paid for n planned except I would invite my sister just wouldn’t tell anybody she is coming
The last story the husbands the asshole for never doing anything nice for the mother of his children.
For the story that ended at 2:25 basically you should’ve waited until they came back to tell them so they would have more time to figure things out and (just saying) if it was me I probably would’ve considered giving them a temporary place in one of your other properties but that’s my opinion (please no hate)
Sounds like the dad knew about the lover before he died
How did she change her phones location if she had it on her?
story 2 she's 16 teens will be teens and if you keep invading her personal space when she's older she'll start kicking you out
2:30 I know they’re not technically op’s family, but they should show them a little more empathy. The mom and stepdad don’t deserve empathy, but his step sister and brother do deserve it.
5:19 she was absolutely in the right no children should be going to any bar.
For the first one i think the man knew the wife was cheating thats why he cut her of from the will cus how can you move on so fast when your man died
Obviously he knew the mom was messing around
All these AITA stories make me understand why divorce rates are so high. Most of the people mentioned in these videos I would dump in a heartbeat.
Second story: as the daughter of a homophobic mother I can personally say that if that happened to me I'd be more than livid. Given their ages as well the parents might have kicked out the friend if they were...y'know. The mother has the right to check up on her child but I personally think that crossed the light a lil too much
Story #2: it's unfair of the daughter to brand what happened as outing her friend. They lied about their whereabouts, were actively trying to break the law and got caught. This isn't about outing. Bring gay doesn't make it okay for you to falsify your identity to get into gay clubs as a child.
Naw take that girl to court NOW
I think you should let your mom and her children or whoever people want to live in there with your mother living there but they have to pay you rent cuz you said you're going to rent it out so might as well make her pay rent
The ungrateful pregnant teen story - the parents are NTA. Yes they adopted Opal but that was 16yrs earlier and they were 40 not 56. The daughter needs to grow up. If you can't look after a baby then don't have/keep it, put it up for adoption or raise it yourself
Mom/son drama you ntah she kicked you out at 17 but still cares for her step kids and gives them a home
Trans sister story: if you can't afford the wedding, don't get married. YATA
I mean the mom was clearly flawed in the first story but stilllll I just wouldn't want that karma on me. Some battles are better left unfought
Last one: no you are not but a little harsh
4 : Yes you are a horrible sister to your sister
3 : No but you did raise a brat
2: 1000000%YES you outed someone when you should not have I wouldn’t be shocked if she cut you off
1:no you were abandoned by her
The story about the phone in the car, that is some stalker level shit. You shouldn’t do that to ur own daughter.
Ummmm if they have been there after 30 days, they are residents and in most states that is illegal to just change the locks. That's cause fir a lawsuit.
For the last one, i would say no, she is not an as*hole I mean, her son bought that for HER with HIS savings and not even a week later it broke and i would be really mad too
Who the fuck just rolls up after abandoning one child, and then it’s just like op here’s another one.
The daughter's situation... she is a minor, and you are responsible for her, so I think keeping a close eye on her whereabouts is the responsible thing to do. Now, if she were a grown adult out of your home, then I'd say you were overprotective but still not an asshole.
Absolutely not that one his mother neglected him and his childhood, wouldn’t take him on the family vacations, treated him like shit his entire life. No. Stepdad can go out and get a job and they can go get the own place to fucking live
The toxic mom story was crazy. There’s no way she said sure I. Violated a human beings privacy but it’s ok because I’m a helicopter.
Trans Sister: You're not an AH but you'd sell your soul for a dollar.
Kelly isnt the ahole but they could have been blunt to her in private. Though i also feel if she had then the daughter would have spread lies or something so tricky situation.
For the fourth story girl run, your parents are controlling your life and your fiance is way too comfortable with it. No thank you
For the second one, the parent is definitely in the wrong.
The second one is kind of fucked. Unless your kid ACTUALLY killed someone, uses intense drugs, or has some kind of disability or disorder you are justified to hide a phone in a car. But if the kids done nothing wrong YOU are either crazy or extremely controlling.
I hope your kid gets some help
You forgot they were sneaking into a bar. Ya know where drugs, and booze can be consumed. They were 17 at best. OP is wrong for putting the child and yeah over the top but imagine if they got in? Got drunk? Went home with someone? Then what?
OP isn’t fully in the right but they aren’t fully in the wrong either
For the last one no you are not because they should have listened and you were defending your self when you "fat shamed" her it was understandable what your sister (I think) was in the wrong too