I wish someone would just make a video showing the emotional damage a man goes through being lead on. It can cause a great deal of depression. I mean there's no excuse to lead a man on.
Yeah I just got off the phone with the girl I’m interested in and she said some slick shit about her ex and I pressed her about it. Then she finally told me what was up and now I feel like a rebound. Haven’t been in a relationship since 10th grade due to personal reasons and now that I’m in college and finally try to break out of my shell this shit happens. I guess that’s just how the cookie crumbles🤷🏽♂️that’s life
Perfect example of what the friend zone is. There's a thing going around with women saying the friend zone doesn't exist and that women are free not to like a guy without having to labelled as putting someone in the friend zone. Sure, but actual friend zone is what this lady describes. Being more than friends in a way that leads him on, being affectionate, etc etc. The emotional sponge. But doesn't lead to anything. This isn't how she interacts with normal male friends. It's different than being just friends.
1) secret relationship 2) helpless woman ( bones everything on her life ) 3)Flirts w other men in front of you 4) only needs you when she’s lonley 5) doesnt get involved in your life 6)she shows affection but never gets deep with you in talks 7) says you’re a great friend but very affectionate
Couldn't stress #1 enough. Was in a multi-year relationship with a woman who never invited me to meet her friends or posted me on social media. SHe gas lit me about how she didn't want folks in her business, but truth is any woman who is proud of her man isn't trying to hide him. That's a woman who is using you for either money/attention.
How to handle a woman that is leading you on/friendzoned you, ditch her and find a chick that will date you, or just smash. There, no need for a '2 hour product'.
This happened a lot to me in my single years-but I learned from those people who led me on and I learned from it-I saw the signs and I was able to avoid those kinds of people.
One thing I look for now is how willing is a girl is to go out of her way for you. Regardless of what she SAYS, is she making time for you. Is she imitating contact/sex. Does it seem like she even cares if you stay or leave. Women who want you in their lives will do things to make sure you stay.
The very moment a woman wants to keep it a secret, you know something is off. And when you see that, run away from her like you would a wildfire. No matter what she says to make you feel bad for leaving, do not listen to her. Run and don't look back.
I had an employee like that do all the flirting stuff leading me on calling me late at night talking for 3 to 5 hours at night then she's asking personal favors for her then she started demanding money from my personal pocket not from the company then I fired her on Christmas week
If you ever have a son, he will be the luckiest guy on the planet with a beautiful and very intelligent mother to guide him in the right direction in life with women! 😍
Apolonia...met a girl who had the audacity to tell me that "to be honest with you I'm seeing someone else n u(meaning me) n I are just good friends" but she was messaging n calling my phone non stop n would not leave me alone...she even told me the other guy is above every other guy she knows including me...in other words I'm "second best". I got feddup n blocked her on my phone n on WhatsApp...just imagine the cheek of this woman. Thank you for these tips, it's good.
I've slept with women in the backseat of my car who would tell me to shut up when her fiance calls her... and I would sit there awkwardly and wait for her to finish scolding her fiance about how he needs to deal with his trust issues and if he doesnt stop being jealous of her girls night out she will call off the engagement. We are brought up to believe that women are all sugar and spice but that couldnt be further from the truth.
@@BillClinton228 ...I've had 2 ex girlfriends of mine that are currently married try to get me to be their side piece. I don't sleep with married women so I couldn't do it but it's crazy how so many of them don't take marriage serious. It's basically a business move for them nowadays.
Once I visit Florida, I'd to take apollonia out to personally thank her for all she's doing and if we vibe I'll go for the kiss, she gives me her cheek is still a win, guys what matters is you go for it, build confidence that's key!
Leading someone on is an evil thing . I had a girlfriend who never introduced me to her friends as her man . That's when I realized she was leading me on .
Ive met a girl. Been seeing her for a while. Ive met a few of her friends, she even told me she talks about me to them all the time. But I still feel like she's leading me on and doesn't truly like me?
I was looking for someone who had a heart that cares for one another that don't make up little games and play games just to piss out the person off and like real life stuff not they're made up stuff in their mind I want someone who loves cares and that's what I was looking for and when I find them I will be very happy then and if I don't I will be very happy
This was actually truly informative and all of the warning signs were accurate and spot on! For other guys who still casually date or are so logically driven this video is worth your time!
Apollonia, you are a god!! I've been in this awkward situation for 2 weeks now & don't know how to handle it. the timing of this vid is just right...!! thank you
I have been single for 17 years, I need help 🤣🤣🤣, I’m picking and get turned off with simple things that show me the true intentions. I may be making excuses but I’m picking as can be, to many games for that I own an Xbox. Thanks for all your advice 🙏🏽
HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!! I got the helpless woman, but she is busy with work and told me she afraid not living up to my expectations, not willing work on it in her actions, so thats the end of that for her, she just left it as that, Just acting that I'm just ok with it and no one gets hurt except me.... like I wasnt important or ment anything,. but if you see how ridiculously beautiful she is it just angers me even more, cuz I makes it feel and think it's all me....
Yeah right she takes me for granted and she leads me on I thinks I'm chopped liver frankly I've got sick of it there are a lot more women that are more deserving and more loving and caring and more respectful and just all of the above why do I put up with that?
thanks so much for your informative videos. sometimes though I struggle to pay attention to the message you're delivering because your voice is just soo sweet and awesome ...... cheers
Some of this is awful advice. If a woman says she "needs to work on herself," that means she wants you to hang around as an option, while she bangs Chad and Tyrone. Stay far away from these women. Men should never initiate a conversation about commitment with a woman. If a woman wants you bad enough to desire commitment, she will bring it up. By chasing her for commitment, you give her all the power, and become less attractive to her.
Exactly. They tend to not like men that they feel put them on a pedestal. Unless the man has a lot of money of course. Other than that they want men that they feel like other women can have. That's why a lot of them chase after "bad boys." Bad boys tend to not have a lot of respect for women and usually aren't quick to get too attached to any particular woman.
@@TalkingIsh100 for some its not putting the women on a pedestal, its appreciating the very few woman that come in and out of a guys life every 5 to ten yes if they are lucky. Maybe the nice guys just stop being kind caring respectful and turn into total arshole guys and see if that works. If we can't compliment a woman do we have to call them ugly as fuck, then will that work. Or do we just try and joke a and tease. Its too bloody hard these days.
More Lions I know exactly how you mean. If I can’t give a girl a complement then what? Why is it that I have respect for you but you don’t like me for that? It’s not like I put woman on this huge pedestal but I don’t treat girls like they’re everything either. It’s just a bunch of trash now days and we just got to learn how to push through it.
Overview: 1 - It's a secret relationship. 2 - Makes herself appear helpless. (e.g. too busy, chaos in life, etc. without talking about commitment) 3 - Flirts with other men in front of you. 4 - Only needs you when she's lonely or down. 5 - Doesn't get involved with your friends or activities in your life. 6 - Intimate physically but not in conversations or emotionally. 7 - She says you're a great friend while being very affectionate.
For me my last "relationship" had number 2, number 4, number 5, and number 7. She mostly used number 2 for why we can't date, while selling me a dream we would date one day in the future.
Thank you Apollonia. It's so sad that some men cope with this awful treatment. That shows how important self dignity and boundaries are. By the way, I'm happy that you didn't make us miss you for a long time 😉😆. You used to not upload videos on Sundays for a period of time. Keep up the work and happy look. Allah bless you Apollonia.
I'm nonbinary and only dated men so far but I've been on and off with this lovely lady who is a great communicator but I have my doubts. I guess time will tell
👑 Kings 👑 Don't fool yourself never under look little things she does never! Love will make you blind. Been there done that never again. Life is like a ballerina, Always got to stay on your toes.
I'm seeing alot of people jumping to conclusions when a woman says she isn't ready for a relationship. I'm talking to a woman now who suffered immense physical trauma from her ex. We've talked for a while and our infatuated with one another, however she mentions that she doesn't want anything from the past to affect her future. She mentioned that she wants to work on overcoming her past as she still thinks about her ex, as well as consider counseling for her bipolar side. She doesn't want it to affect a future relationship either. She can see us together but not right now. Is that a form of leading on? She's cancelled dates with guys to see/hangout with me and openly admits to never being treated so well before or open with so much personal "issues"/ past experiences with anyone else.
This is what I need to do. Used to text a lot, she wrote this big thing how she really likes me. Then slowly less and less. Even to point snapchat texts. She is 5 months divorced. Lol I think she doesnt know I'm seeing other women.
Facts. I was on a cold streak with the pun and ended up dropping fb for reasons unrelated. I got laid twice by two different chicks that I had known for years within weeks. Women want what they can’t have or see.
Here's the dead give-away, "I love you and I don't want to loose you." What comes next is the dump as you swirl around in the porcelain pull-chain facility.
🙄. So many things... including my following the Narcissistic man who left her when she was 6 months pregnant 1.5 years ago, went back to his ex wife who didn’t want kids and one who now is controlling every aspect of her life financially as well as emotionally manipulating her by using the precious child as bait and leverage. Going out and doing whatever he wants but hindering her ability to move on... showing up whenever he wants and not allowing her to set boundaries and keeping himself inserted in her other sons life who’s 14 (from a previous marriage) giving him hope that he’ll come back...your Dating her after a Narcissist video rang some bells as well. I walked away after I pressured her too much thinking she was finally deciding to make changes. I realized I had things to work on myself but truly hope she finds peace and gets this F-Stick out of her energy and space!!! Only time will tell. She wears a solid mask but deep down has major trust issues and fears... rightfully so.
The more and more I listen to your videos. Is the less I'm motivated to get out there and date again. Because you continue to prove its all a mind game. Dealing with women is chess not checkers. Because they can't be trusted. It seems like its all some form of manipulation. Not to say men aren't trying the same things. But women are way more clever about it. What would you say to men who have spent years healing and rebuilding? To be better versions of the men that were seriously damaged by dealing with the wrong women. Men who see dating women as way too much of a risk because they can't be trusted. Nobody wants to be "Me Too'd".
Thanks for the educating video. I was highly interested on todays topic. Huge eye opener on signs to look for when getting back into a relationship. Hope to see more. Keep it hun.
Damn. She was happy to hold me, fuck me and take my money but she would always dodge or make an excuses and never acknowledge us as a couple in public. I'm sad
The Best thing to do is just walk away and their always a better female out there to meet up with that want do crappy mess that low quality damage women does
Would a woman keep trying to lure you in even if you don't give in to her tactics? Even if she's not getting what she wants out of leading you on? For like an year?? Help me here.
Yes my ex wife of 38 years has shown more interest in the past year than in the last 35 years. They can't accept the fact you are done. Like stick a fork in me done
Apollonia, thank you so much for your videos they are a great resource in bettering ourselves and understanding woman - What i wanted to ask was if you could do an entire video on close ended questions? examples of them in situations such as no contact or to create mystery as well as when to use them and when not to use them, that would be great if you could. Thanks so much
I've asked this girl out a couple of times, she has blown me off twice (didn't feel well etc.) I tried walking away no contact, and she keeps texting me at all hours of the day and night? She even has gone as far as to tell me about a "busy" day she had and ended it by going out on a date? With someone else?? I've been up front with her about my feelings so she knows I like her but this is all I get??? She is a co worker so it makes it even harder to completely walk away????
number 7 is pretty much my roommate. I see her do it so often to so many dudes she says are just her friends (including myself early on when we first started hanging out).
one sign she's leading you on . she cracks on to you gives you her phone number and never answer or call reply . she cracks onto you than ditches you fkn tease!!!
Hey thanks for the tips I've seen most of your videos and I've definitely felt a higher value for myself and how I treat woman, and perhaps could you please do a video on dating older girls like 5 years difference I just feel I don't want to be treated like a child and more as her equal
Thank you...yes a lot of the affection in any setting but says we are just friends bur she says I'm really special to her only to find out she's dating someone. That's a huge red flag...do I really wanna end up with someone who speaking sweet nothings to me and she's with someone else...because that tells me...she may do that to me if we ever became committed...immaturity maybe a big tall tell sign there.
I wish someone would just make a video showing the emotional damage a man goes through being lead on. It can cause a great deal of depression. I mean there's no excuse to lead a man on.
They wouldn't watch it because they don't care
Yeah I just got off the phone with the girl I’m interested in and she said some slick shit about her ex and I pressed her about it. Then she finally told me what was up and now I feel like a rebound. Haven’t been in a relationship since 10th grade due to personal reasons and now that I’m in college and finally try to break out of my shell this shit happens. I guess that’s just how the cookie crumbles🤷🏽♂️that’s life
End it now
If it were considered an enforceable crime in America then women would NOT do it right?
I just had this happen to me fucking sad and pathetic
Don't give importance to women. Give importance to your career, goals, hobbies and fitness
👍👍TOTALLY INCLINED TO AGREE DUE TO MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE..✌️🏃💨
Woman can come after you work on yourself
Trouble is they're more attuned to playing a longer game than us guys.
100%
@Deliq Man, that sounds bleak.
Perfect example of what the friend zone is. There's a thing going around with women saying the friend zone doesn't exist and that women are free not to like a guy without having to labelled as putting someone in the friend zone. Sure, but actual friend zone is what this lady describes. Being more than friends in a way that leads him on, being affectionate, etc etc. The emotional sponge. But doesn't lead to anything. This isn't how she interacts with normal male friends. It's different than being just friends.
Number one sign she is leading you on is that she flakes on dates.
So true √
Says you
1) secret relationship
2) helpless woman ( bones everything on her life )
3)Flirts w other men in front of you
4) only needs you when she’s lonley
5) doesnt get involved in your life
6)she shows affection but never gets deep with you in talks
7) says you’re a great friend but very affectionate
Couldn't stress #1 enough. Was in a multi-year relationship with a woman who never invited me to meet her friends or posted me on social media. SHe gas lit me about how she didn't want folks in her business, but truth is any woman who is proud of her man isn't trying to hide him. That's a woman who is using you for either money/attention.
I fucking hate secret relationships. They're so evil. It's so scummy
Living Trash.
How to handle a woman that is leading you on/friendzoned you, ditch her and find a chick that will date you, or just smash. There, no need for a '2 hour product'.
Yup! Tell her you have enough friends and ditch her. If she don't chase then she loses you. Very simple.
You teach us men lots of "secrets" we need to know. I thank you Apollonia
Apollonia ! Thank you ! 6 out of 7 ! Maybe I need to take the blinders off and accept what I didn't want to accept. THIS helps ! thank you !!
1-7) She's a woman
Woman needs to have expectations on their behavior.
Holypikemanz you’re right... if she acts a certain way... she should expect certain outcomes... cause and effect.
😂😂😂
Hypergamy
Lol
This happened a lot to me in my single years-but I learned from those people who led me on and I learned from it-I saw the signs and I was able to avoid those kinds of people.
Best part about going thru it . What stands in the way becomes the way
I’ve heard enough after tip number 4, it’s time to move forward. Thank you.
Yup lol , hope you're doing good my dude
The stuff i overlooked... When i set boundries it was game over..
Wow! That explains alot. Thank you for the video. It time to let her go permanently.
One thing I look for now is how willing is a girl is to go out of her way for you. Regardless of what she SAYS, is she making time for you. Is she imitating contact/sex. Does it seem like she even cares if you stay or leave. Women who want you in their lives will do things to make sure you stay.
The very moment a woman wants to keep it a secret, you know something is off. And when you see that, run away from her like you would a wildfire.
No matter what she says to make you feel bad for leaving, do not listen to her. Run and don't look back.
Wow everything she just talked about has happened to me recently that is crazy
Omg u r soooo right. I can't handle being with a girl that flirts with other guys
I had an employee like that do all the flirting stuff leading me on calling me late at night talking for 3 to 5 hours at night then she's asking personal favors for her then she started demanding money from my personal pocket not from the company then I fired her on Christmas week
All women try this so I do the same thing . I most cases she's seeing someone else .
If you ever have a son, he will be the luckiest guy on the planet with a beautiful and very intelligent mother to guide him in the right direction in life with women! 😍
Wish i was her son lol
Wish she was one of my Mom sister’s
BIG SIMPIN!!!!!
You know bugger all about genetics my friend!
Pay attention, and be ready to walk.
Apolonia...met a girl who had the audacity to tell me that "to be honest with you I'm seeing someone else n u(meaning me) n I are just good friends" but she was messaging n calling my phone non stop n would not leave me alone...she even told me the other guy is above every other guy she knows including me...in other words I'm "second best". I got feddup n blocked her on my phone n on WhatsApp...just imagine the cheek of this woman. Thank you for these tips, it's good.
the ex wife would flirt in front of me with others..
not wife anymore!
Angry SimRacer not
I've slept with women in the backseat of my car who would tell me to shut up when her fiance calls her... and I would sit there awkwardly and wait for her to finish scolding her fiance about how he needs to deal with his trust issues and if he doesnt stop being jealous of her girls night out she will call off the engagement.
We are brought up to believe that women are all sugar and spice but that couldnt be further from the truth.
Take the sex away, and you'll come to find that they offer nothing. Work on yourself.
I feel ya.
@@BillClinton228 ...I've had 2 ex girlfriends of mine that are currently married try to get me to be their side piece. I don't sleep with married women so I couldn't do it but it's crazy how so many of them don't take marriage serious. It's basically a business move for them nowadays.
Don't know why this triggered me... this is so true
This is a woman most guys want. Don’t be hard on this woman,she serves a good purpose. Good video
Your the teacher that’s gonna change the world
One thing for sure dont take long distance relationship s too serious...because your not there to really know what's going on
You're the sister I wish I would've had growing up. Thanks for the advice.
Once I visit Florida, I'd to take apollonia out to personally thank her for all she's doing and if we vibe I'll go for the kiss, she gives me her cheek is still a win, guys what matters is you go for it, build confidence that's key!
Thanks to you l now have more women than I can shake a stick at! But none of them look as FANTASTIC as you do!
Leading someone on is an evil thing . I had a girlfriend who never introduced me to her friends as her man . That's when I realized she was leading me on .
Ive met a girl. Been seeing her for a while. Ive met a few of her friends, she even told me she talks about me to them all the time. But I still feel like she's leading me on and doesn't truly like me?
I feel bad for you!!!! It is sad that there are people out there in the world and everything is about them!!
I was looking for someone who had a heart that cares for one another that don't make up little games and play games just to piss out the person off and like real life stuff not they're made up stuff in their mind I want someone who loves cares and that's what I was looking for and when I find them I will be very happy then and if I don't I will be very happy
This was actually truly informative and all of the warning signs were accurate and spot on!
For other guys who still casually date or are so logically driven this video is worth your time!
THANK YOU FOR REMINDING ME
wow this video is exactly what i needed right now
You awake many of us Apollonia!
Have been through this and I can vouch all what you just said is absolutely nothing but the truth!
Kudos Appollonia... Much love✊🏾
This Is Gold Gratitude Appollonia😄😄😄👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿
It gets on my nerves how accurate you are in all your videos. It's like getting punched in the kidney 😂 Reality checks. Thank you!
Apollonia, you are a god!!
I've been in this awkward situation for 2 weeks now & don't know how to handle it. the timing of this vid is just right...!! thank you
I wish I could go out with this woman!!!
Always a fan mam u inspired me big fan from india
I have been single for 17 years, I need help 🤣🤣🤣, I’m picking and get turned off with simple things that show me the true intentions. I may be making excuses but I’m picking as can be, to many games for that I own an Xbox. Thanks for all your advice 🙏🏽
HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I got the helpless woman, but she is busy with work and told me she afraid not living up to my expectations, not willing work on it in her actions, so thats the end of that for her, she just left it as that,
Just acting that I'm just ok with it and no one gets hurt except me.... like I wasnt important or ment anything,. but if you see how ridiculously beautiful she is it just angers me even more, cuz I makes it feel and think it's all me....
Yeah right she takes me for granted and she leads me on I thinks I'm chopped liver frankly I've got sick of it there are a lot more women that are more deserving and more loving and caring and more respectful and just all of the above why do I put up with that?
thanks so much for your informative videos. sometimes though I struggle to pay attention to the message you're delivering because your voice is just soo sweet and awesome ...... cheers
Some of this is awful advice. If a woman says she "needs to work on herself," that means she wants you to hang around as an option, while she bangs Chad and Tyrone. Stay far away from these women. Men should never initiate a conversation about commitment with a woman. If a woman wants you bad enough to desire commitment, she will bring it up. By chasing her for commitment, you give her all the power, and become less attractive to her.
Thats where I keep messing up at
Hmm...I wonder about that last part.
Exactly. They tend to not like men that they feel put them on a pedestal. Unless the man has a lot of money of course. Other than that they want men that they feel like other women can have. That's why a lot of them chase after "bad boys." Bad boys tend to not have a lot of respect for women and usually aren't quick to get too attached to any particular woman.
@@TalkingIsh100 for some its not putting the women on a pedestal, its appreciating the very few woman that come in and out of a guys life every 5 to ten yes if they are lucky. Maybe the nice guys just stop being kind caring respectful and turn into total arshole guys and see if that works. If we can't compliment a woman do we have to call them ugly as fuck, then will that work. Or do we just try and joke a and tease. Its too bloody hard these days.
More Lions I know exactly how you mean. If I can’t give a girl a complement then what? Why is it that I have respect for you but you don’t like me for that? It’s not like I put woman on this huge pedestal but I don’t treat girls like they’re everything either. It’s just a bunch of trash now days and we just got to learn how to push through it.
Overview:
1 - It's a secret relationship.
2 - Makes herself appear helpless. (e.g. too busy, chaos in life, etc. without talking about commitment)
3 - Flirts with other men in front of you.
4 - Only needs you when she's lonely or down.
5 - Doesn't get involved with your friends or activities in your life.
6 - Intimate physically but not in conversations or emotionally.
7 - She says you're a great friend while being very affectionate.
For me my last "relationship" had number 2, number 4, number 5, and number 7. She mostly used number 2 for why we can't date, while selling me a dream we would date one day in the future.
commitment is an unrealistic expectation
I always assume she leading me on. Thats what women do.
I’m going through the same at work 🤦🏿♂️ wow this is a revelation. How can women be so cruel
That is life don't worry move on
PhillyPhil201 bro those hos are heartless
They live in a world of romantic abundance for options while most men must endure harsh scarcity.
Apollonia, you’re the baddest. Just wanted to say that. Mad love
Thank you Apollonia. It's so sad that some men cope with this awful treatment. That shows how important self dignity and boundaries are. By the way, I'm happy that you didn't make us miss you for a long time 😉😆. You used to not upload videos on Sundays for a period of time. Keep up the work and happy look. Allah bless you Apollonia.
This helped open my eyes
Great insight. I need to think a little more and book a phone session.
Apollonian you continue in every video to inspire me to fight for my channel. Thanks.
I'm nonbinary and only dated men so far but I've been on and off with this lovely lady who is a great communicator but I have my doubts. I guess time will tell
Ever powerful Apollonia.Always love also
I feel that my female friend is not honest with me and didn’t wish me happy birthday and left town with out me knowing
am from south Africa I always click to your channel every day
Apollonia is a dime!!!!
Dear Appalonia
Thank you. Your videos gave me immense clarity and helped me figure out my life.
Thank you. From the bottom of my heart.
Regards.
👑 Kings 👑 Don't fool yourself never under look little things she does never! Love will make you blind. Been there done that never again. Life is like a ballerina, Always got to stay on your toes.
There really only needs to be 1 sign: she’s breathing
I'm seeing alot of people jumping to conclusions when a woman says she isn't ready for a relationship. I'm talking to a woman now who suffered immense physical trauma from her ex. We've talked for a while and our infatuated with one another, however she mentions that she doesn't want anything from the past to affect her future. She mentioned that she wants to work on overcoming her past as she still thinks about her ex, as well as consider counseling for her bipolar side. She doesn't want it to affect a future relationship either. She can see us together but not right now.
Is that a form of leading on?
She's cancelled dates with guys to see/hangout with me and openly admits to never being treated so well before or open with so much personal "issues"/ past experiences with anyone else.
Dude similar thing happened with me now she is saying she has feelings for someone else
Thank you for tips Apollonia. You are the best and I love all your positive motivation.😊🤗
Loads of love apollonia...Thanks for the advise... God bless You
We all in the same boat, we searched for this...😞
Been watching your videos for sometime, thank you for another gold gem 👌
Block em, they'll go insane😉
Yep.
Better yet stop texting her. Her loss
This is what I need to do. Used to text a lot, she wrote this big thing how she really likes me. Then slowly less and less. Even to point snapchat texts. She is 5 months divorced. Lol I think she doesnt know I'm seeing other women.
David Wallner i think she is seeing other guys...
Facts. I was on a cold streak with the pun and ended up dropping fb for reasons unrelated. I got laid twice by two different chicks that I had known for years within weeks. Women want what they can’t have or see.
Here's the dead give-away, "I love you and I don't want to loose you." What comes next is the dump as you swirl around in the porcelain pull-chain facility.
Apollonia
Well stated. Excellent video, in all ways.
-Wendell
🙄. So many things... including my following the Narcissistic man who left her when she was 6 months pregnant 1.5 years ago, went back to his ex wife who didn’t want kids and one who now is controlling every aspect of her life financially as well as emotionally manipulating her by using the precious child as bait and leverage. Going out and doing whatever he wants but hindering her ability to move on... showing up whenever he wants and not allowing her to set boundaries and keeping himself inserted in her other sons life who’s 14 (from a previous marriage) giving him hope that he’ll come back...your Dating her after a Narcissist video rang some bells as well. I walked away after I pressured her too much thinking she was finally deciding to make changes. I realized I had things to work on myself but truly hope she finds peace and gets this F-Stick out of her energy and space!!! Only time will tell. She wears a solid mask but deep down has major trust issues and fears... rightfully so.
The more and more I listen to your videos. Is the less I'm motivated to get out there and date again. Because you continue to prove its all a mind game. Dealing with women is chess not checkers. Because they can't be trusted. It seems like its all some form of manipulation. Not to say men aren't trying the same things. But women are way more clever about it. What would you say to men who have spent years healing and rebuilding? To be better versions of the men that were seriously damaged by dealing with the wrong women. Men who see dating women as way too much of a risk because they can't be trusted. Nobody wants to be "Me Too'd".
Not only that, you practically need to be an expert in dealing with them, or you're likely to be burned.
Thanks for the educating video. I was highly interested on todays topic. Huge eye opener on signs to look for when getting back into a relationship. Hope to see more. Keep it hun.
Straight up facts
Thank you so much Apollonia 🙂🙂
You're welcome!
Signs that I never ignore!
Damn. She was happy to hold me, fuck me and take my money but she would always dodge or make an excuses and never acknowledge us as a couple in public.
I'm sad
if u searched this video, she probably is.
The Best thing to do is just walk away and their always a better female out there to meet up with that want do crappy mess that low quality damage women does
Would a woman keep trying to lure you in even if you don't give in to her tactics? Even if she's not getting what she wants out of leading you on? For like an year?? Help me here.
Yes my ex wife of 38 years has shown more interest in the past year than in the last 35 years.
They can't accept the fact you are done.
Like stick a fork in me done
Bro this is so true 😢😢😢😢😢❤❤
Apollonia.. You are awesome, that's exactly I am facing right now..🙁🙁
Apollonia, thank you so much for your videos they are a great resource in bettering ourselves and understanding woman - What i wanted to ask was if you could do an entire video on close ended questions? examples of them in situations such as no contact or to create mystery as well as when to use them and when not to use them, that would be great if you could. Thanks so much
I've asked this girl out a couple of times, she has blown me off twice (didn't feel well etc.) I tried walking away no contact, and she keeps texting me at all hours of the day and night? She even has gone as far as to tell me about a "busy" day she had and ended it by going out on a date? With someone else?? I've been up front with her about my feelings so she knows I like her but this is all I get??? She is a co worker so it makes it even harder to completely walk away????
Hi Apollonia,
Good morning beautiful ❤
number 7 is pretty much my roommate. I see her do it so often to so many dudes she says are just her friends (including myself early on when we first started hanging out).
Good morning Ms. Appollonia this a great video keep up the great work & much love to you and your family 🌹
Brutal when you put it like that..
one sign she's leading you on . she cracks on to you gives you her phone number and never answer or call reply . she cracks onto you than ditches you fkn tease!!!
There were a lot of two-way street points here. Respect goes both ways or no way at all.
Hey thanks for the tips I've seen most of your videos and I've definitely felt a higher value for myself and how I treat woman, and perhaps could you please do a video on dating older girls like 5 years difference I just feel I don't want to be treated like a child and more as her equal
These are facts
You look 👀 great appollonia! And love ❤️ your sage advice 👈👊
Your hair is very lovely and flowing! Nice scenery in the backdrop too👈🕶
Stop giving free validation
Thank you...yes a lot of the affection in any setting but says we are just friends bur she says I'm really special to her only to find out she's dating someone. That's a huge red flag...do I really wanna end up with someone who speaking sweet nothings to me and she's with someone else...because that tells me...she may do that to me if we ever became committed...immaturity maybe a big tall tell sign there.
I really needed this video
You 're absolutely correctly,👍
Apollonia, great video. Thank you for sharing. Make it a great day.
Good points, good video. Your background looks too bright though, can you make it a bit darker.
When I find that someone if she does that I will know thanks to you thank you very much