I decluttered my house about a year ago but still find myself decluttering further, drilling down to my minimum amount of stuff. It's a journey that I'm committed to.
Julie! Keep making progress and focusing on what’s important to you. Minimalism for you will look different when compared to others. So don’t make that comparison. Sounds like you’re making a ton of progress so far and I’m proud of you. Keep it up! It’s a journey for sure but like you said, you’re committed to it! If you need help or have questions don’t hesitate to reach out to me. I’m a resource if you need it!
Way to go Julie! I'm in a similar boat. I thought one big decanter would do it. It did for a little while till I realized I still had room to grow! I am almost there now!! Literally everything is easier without so much stuff!
I’m going in waves. It finally dawned on me to get rid of furniture, break up “sets”, and old craft stuff and memorabilia it’s made a huge difference. But I’m still going. Just hit a burn out so searching for inspiration again 😂
When I realize that I am watching videos to avoid doing what I don't wanna do( folding and putting away laundry, exercising, cleaning the kitchen/ bathroom), I watch them while doing those things. Thanks for the video!
I’ve been thinking about this just this week- I need to put my phone down and clean my place up. My life has been on hold since my mom died 9 years ago. How have I lost 9 years to nothing. The state of my home and my life are appalling for someone of reasonable intelligence and health
I understand how you feel. The next Jan 31 will be the second anniversary of my mothers death and I am so sorry for your loss. It’s hard to lose our moms. But I also realized through that loss that life is not guaranteed and we need to live for ourselves now not 20 years from now. So I am working on really making 2023 about living my life. I hope you can find that too.
I don't know if this is relevant for you or not, but The Grief Recovery Method is a free online live course that walks you through your grief in a way I've never seen anywhere. Pretty much gave me my life back, my SELF back, after a brutal series of devastating losses left me broken. Wishing you the best in your journey, wherever it may lead.
One of your best videos I’ve seen. Thought provoking. I wonder at what point we’ll collectively acknowledge the negative impact of mobile phones for our mental health and relationships. I’m a child psychologist and I genuinely think the increasing numbers of young people diagnosed with high-functioning autism is partly attributable to screen time inhibiting the development of social communication skills. Thanks.
You're not wrong, and I do think that social media has an impact, if not a strong one. Every person, young or old, develops at their own pace despite what textbook statistics would say. I don't want to sound too naive because I know social media did affect me some when I was a teenager and throughout my 20's, but I guess my argument comes from being able to distinguish a more developed mind in youth, both mentally and emotionally, and understanding the severity of different illnesses without the use of technology. I feel as if what's missing though is the tools for better relationship-building as well as communication, and this NEEDS to be addressed more often in society. Autism, anxiety, depression, ptsd, etc.... These disabilities takeaway a person's ability to communicate effectively and build healthy relationships, but that doesn't mean that they can't still have that and try to maintain them.
Thanks for replying @@amyli092 It’s too complex an area to do it justice here in the comments, but I’ll try to expand a little. ‘Doom scrolling’ is addictive and can be simultaneously a symptom and cause of poor mental health. Ronald’s point is that if you’re scrolling on your phone, what are you not doing? Taking part in physical activity? Connecting with each other? Being productive? Sleeping? All things that would benefit your health and well-being and general quality of life. I regularly ask young people to check their daily ‘screen time’ in the settings section of their iPhones. Some of the time, it’s in double digits (hours) with 200-300 pick-ups (interruptions/ distractions) per day. That includes their learning time in school and late at night. Even if you argue that what they’re consuming online is totally harmless, that amount of screen time has to come at a cost, right? These are kids who have been referred to the psychologist, remember… There is a separate point about children born with inherent social communication difficulties (ie. the genetic basis of Autism, specifically ‘high functioning autism’) who are then doubly disadvantaged because as infants, they’re not socially motivated, interaction is difficult and they prefer watching cartoons or playing games on a device rather than playing with peers. That becomes habitual and by the time they start school they’re some way behind their peers, lacking the pre-requisite social skills to learn and play within a group. Perhaps they’d always have had some level of social difficulty, but the impairment is significantly greater because socialisation has been limited and they end up referred for neurodevelopmental assessment. There’s no definitive test as such, so the diagnosis is given based on their presentation and a developmental history taken from the parent. Screens are not the cause of autism, but they’re exacerbating the symptoms in what might otherwise have been a non-clinical population. I find it fascinating that here in the U.K., children diagnosed with autism often talk with an American accent. It’s so common that it’s almost considered a symptom of autism by itself. It’s a fascinating area and there’s loads of research out there for anyone who wants to read up on it, but I’m mainly reflecting my own hands-on experience with children and families.
Very insightful. Number 1 hit me hard. Guilty. I sabotage myself daily by spending way too much time on my phone or tablet. I think this was easily one of your best videos. Thank you for what you do. Have a happy & blessed Thanksgiving.
Number 1 is one of the realist things I’ve said in my videos and I’m happy this hit home for you! Ours phones and other gadgets are helpful for sure but they can quickly become a huge distraction in our lives in we’re not careful! I’m rooting for you Grace! Keep growing on your journey and you have a happy and blessed Thanksgiving as well!
That’s a powerful journaling topic! Allow yourself to free-write through that. Don’t overthink the thoughts you have. Your pen will eventually lead you down and path that brings a ton a clarity! Sounds like I posted this video at the perfect time also and I’m happy it reached you! Keep growing!!
Excellent!! 🙌🏾 I’m happy this encouraged you to put your phone down and get that paper clutter out of your life! Keep making progress on your journey Tess!!
This was a good one. The authentic reflection on your past, and the question "Who are you without your possessions?" is such a good one. Nice job, man!
so real! thank you! emotional clutter is real. when I feel overwhelmed and have alot of things on my mind I force myself to just sit in silence. and the urge to go on the phone or netflix to distract myself is real. Its like an involuntary movement your body as gotten used to.
Exactly!! An involuntary movement is an excellent way to describe it. We all do it! The key is being aware of it enough to take action against doing it. “Avoidance is not a solution for clutter.” Keep growing on your journey Reese! I’m confident that you’ll overcome your emotional clutter for sure!!
My room is so cluttered I have been called a hoarder by my sisters ,I keep things for ever and keep getting new things too 😮 and it’s 100% me holding onto somethings,in that it’s due to emotional and mental clutter.A manifestation of procrastination and failure.It started when I had a low period and feeling things were out out of my control. I hate it and see how much anxiety it brings me ,makes me hate my space and a daily reminder of failures and my lack of control. I want to throw it all away but keep making excuses.I need to write this whole video out because so much truth.
I am so glad I found you yesterday. Everything, I have heard you say is so on point with where I am in my journey to minimalism. This video clarified 😂 some of the questions I have recently been pondering.
Excellent discussion as always. An average of 300,000 items in a home is mind blowing. I've decluttered 300 items this year. Definitely hoping to do some more before the end of the year ☺
Let’s make it happen Christina! I’m rooting for you! Let’s make a huge dent in your clutter before the new year. 300 items so far is awesome!! You got this! You need help don’t hesitate to ask. I have tons of resources available!
The most minimal I lived was when I studied abroad in France. (And even less so when I studied abroad in UK for six weeks… I didn’t even bother with cooking utensils there and had a smaller suitcase). I had a small dorm with just the bare essentials. Less than 2 weeks worth of clothes. 1 coat. 1 plate, 2 glasses, 1 fork spoon and knife. A skillet and pot. I reflect on that mini fridge with enough food for 3-5 days max. A comforter, blanket, maybe 2 pillows I don’t remember. Toiletries. And my laptop and a couple notebooks and pens for school. It’s wild I didn’t care about any of that… just having fun in a foreign country and making friends. That’s what was important to me. Now since buying a new house my husband and I are drilling into our possessions and donating a lot to goodwill. We’re donating 300 books to the prisons so they can be put to great use by people in need. There are many things I don’t NEED but I recognize that what I WANT and value is made valued by the space around it. I want more plates than my husband does for hosting friends and family. We could always get disposable, but I love the set and it’s more environmentally friendly. These are the things we really get down to after what isn’t important is stripped away.
Awesome well said video !!! Following your video for quite some time . Trying to switch to the simple life to free my mind ❤️What do you value is the best question !!!!! It shouldn’t be things .
I’m happy you decided to give simple living a try! Make sure you grab my core values worksheet to help you identify your values. If you have any other questions don’t hesitate to ask! www.ronaldlbanks.com/values
Thank you Ronald! Great video, so true on every point. I watch my screen time and definitely get frustrated at myself for wasting time. I need to make changes for sure, you give me the motivation!
I’m happy I’ve given you the motivation you need Judy! Let’s make those changes. Would love to help you if you’re open to it! If you have questions don’t hesitate ask!
I’m happy you noticed!! I’m trying something different with my videos and being more candid is one of those things. Thanks for being part of this community Ben! I appreciate you!
I’m guilty of this as well. I’m definitely not perfect but this is something we call can get better at. My daily average when I check my screen time has been steadily decreasing and I’m proud of myself for that! Haha! Keep growing on your journey Giona!
@@RonaldLBanks Thanks 👍😊❤️ Ron! Kudos to you. That is awesome! I'm a Libra so don't ever show us anything glittery when we are to be focusing LOL 🤣 because it's all OVER
Thank you for your always great insight! My place has been cluttered for the last 8 months because I am in grad school and it is driving me absolutely CrAzY! A few more months and I can tackle it! It will be a win win!
First off congratulations in regards to Grad School! What are you studying if you don’t mind me asking? Be sure to let me know once you graduate too. Would love to celebrate with you virtually! 🙌🏾 also I’m rooting for you! PLUS I’m confident that you’ll conquer your clutter. I’m have a ton off resources available so if at any time you have questions, or need help, don’t hesitate to reach out to me! Keep growing Craig!
@@RonaldLBanks hello, thank you for your thoughtful reply. I always enjoy you content and ideas. I am almost finished with an MA in SEL (social emotional learning). Not to flex my ego my organization abilities are 100!
holy crap but the identity part hit me...just the question you asked...just me and a mirror - who am I? what a great way to get down to the real you and to highlight the importance of cultivating your inner self and not some bizarre "instagram" version that we are pretending to be. Thanks again for your thought provoking content. Your vids are never a waste of time or just fluff.
Our lives became cluttered due to a death in the family, I, we. maybe you, try ro keep that person near us by holding onto their things, It doesn't bring them back, but it feels closer for a while. It can be very emotional, letting go of someone through their things.
🙌🏾 “it’s always less than you think it is!” I need to have more direct conversations like this. I feel that hit differently for sure! Keep growing on your journey my friend!
From the outside looking in, "smooth" is absolutely part of your identity, lol. Also, regarding your list of whys, you ain't never lied! Putting my phone down now to get rid of some of this crap now.
Your content and your ability to share and communicate wisdom and practicality so effectively and efficiently is a blessing. For me, and for any others that choose to listen. Thank you for the work that you do!
Thank you so much for this Video Ronald. One of the best in my opinion and spot on with what is important to be who we are. Look forward to more content, you’re always so true. And belated Congrats to you and your wife on the birth of your son 🎉 x D
I didn’t have Wi-Fi for about a month of this year. It was super annoying cause I couldn’t sort anything out, but honestly, it was like my attention suddenly came back. It’s made me use my phone with way more intent and less time looking at trash that adds no value.
Very deep isn’t it?! When I first asked myself this question years go at the beginning of my journey, I struggled to answer it! It really makes you think and it forces you to consider your values!
I used things and cluttered my room exactly in an attempt to define myself. I must say, it did help. Through all these things I've seen what I am reaching out for, or what things lost their appeal fast. I started paying attention to my actual interests, opposed to forever doing what I believed I should. If I never had these things, I think I would find it impossible to understand what I actually like... But now I do need to declutter, getting rid of everything that didn't stuck or that stuck for a short time, of some things I am no more :)
Great video. Very ease to put into perspective and relate. I love the ideas of minimalism and do much of it at home. HOWEVER, my husband is not into it. Any advice for combining lifestyles??
Android users: settings --> digital wellbeing and parents controls. You can use this to set timers on your apps. You can also set up a weekly report to show you which apps you've used most in that time. This is how I know I wasted nearly 7 hours on Instagram, which I don't even like anymore, instead of using my Japanese learning app 🙃
l just watched your video and it helped so much right from the start you had already got me... lm a little dissappointed though that because of my current location your website is not allowing me to download the values list
Stop the video at 2:04 lol because I looked around and thought I got work to do so I’m going to sleep so I can get up and get the work done on time and then I’ll watch it from the beginning
My question is why would anyone put down a phone that has cost them $1,000+ or making payments? That is like owning a car and not using it and still paying insurance. I think people justify adding apps and using the phone more because of the cost they spent on it. P.S. I am one of those people that justify my usage with cost. I have thought about using a dumb phone for daily usage and a smartphone for travel. We shall see.
Emotional clutter is a thief
You can say that again!! You’re absolutely right! 🙌🏾
I decluttered my house about a year ago but still find myself decluttering further, drilling down to my minimum amount of stuff. It's a journey that I'm committed to.
you'll find yourself in an empty room with 4 walls someday. you need help
@@ДмитрийНиколаев-м5ц You're assuming my minimum is NOTHING and that's not true. I still have plenty of things.
Julie! Keep making progress and focusing on what’s important to you. Minimalism for you will look different when compared to others. So don’t make that comparison. Sounds like you’re making a ton of progress so far and I’m proud of you. Keep it up! It’s a journey for sure but like you said, you’re committed to it! If you need help or have questions don’t hesitate to reach out to me. I’m a resource if you need it!
Way to go Julie! I'm in a similar boat. I thought one big decanter would do it. It did for a little while till I realized I still had room to grow! I am almost there now!! Literally everything is easier without so much stuff!
I’m going in waves. It finally dawned on me to get rid of furniture, break up “sets”, and old craft stuff and memorabilia it’s made a huge difference. But I’m still going. Just hit a burn out so searching for inspiration again 😂
When I realize that I am watching videos to avoid doing what I don't wanna do( folding and putting away laundry, exercising, cleaning the kitchen/ bathroom), I watch them while doing those things. Thanks for the video!
I’ve been thinking about this just this week- I need to put my phone down and clean my place up. My life has been on hold since my mom died 9 years ago. How have I lost 9 years to nothing. The state of my home and my life are appalling for someone of reasonable intelligence and health
I understand how you feel. The next Jan 31 will be the second anniversary of my mothers death and I am so sorry for your loss. It’s hard to lose our moms. But I also realized through that loss that life is not guaranteed and we need to live for ourselves now not 20 years from now. So I am working on really making 2023 about living my life. I hope you can find that too.
I don't know if this is relevant for you or not, but The Grief Recovery Method is a free online live course that walks you through your grief in a way I've never seen anywhere.
Pretty much gave me my life back, my SELF back, after a brutal series of devastating losses left me broken.
Wishing you the best in your journey, wherever it may lead.
Cluttered mindset, equates to a clutter life. Prioritize what we value. Tfs these gems of wisdom, Ron!
I’m very happy this resonated with you my friend! Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share it with you!
Keep the hard truths coming! Tough love is a must.
One of your best videos I’ve seen. Thought provoking. I wonder at what point we’ll collectively acknowledge the negative impact of mobile phones for our mental health and relationships. I’m a child psychologist and I genuinely think the increasing numbers of young people diagnosed with high-functioning autism is partly attributable to screen time inhibiting the development of social communication skills. Thanks.
You're not wrong, and I do think that social media has an impact, if not a strong one. Every person, young or old, develops at their own pace despite what textbook statistics would say. I don't want to sound too naive because I know social media did affect me some when I was a teenager and throughout my 20's, but I guess my argument comes from being able to distinguish a more developed mind in youth, both mentally and emotionally, and understanding the severity of different illnesses without the use of technology.
I feel as if what's missing though is the tools for better relationship-building as well as communication, and this NEEDS to be addressed more often in society. Autism, anxiety, depression, ptsd, etc.... These disabilities takeaway a person's ability to communicate effectively and build healthy relationships, but that doesn't mean that they can't still have that and try to maintain them.
Thanks for replying @@amyli092 It’s too complex an area to do it justice here in the comments, but I’ll try to expand a little.
‘Doom scrolling’ is addictive and can be simultaneously a symptom and cause of poor mental health. Ronald’s point is that if you’re scrolling on your phone, what are you not doing? Taking part in physical activity? Connecting with each other? Being productive? Sleeping? All things that would benefit your health and well-being and general quality of life.
I regularly ask young people to check their daily ‘screen time’ in the settings section of their iPhones. Some of the time, it’s in double digits (hours) with 200-300 pick-ups (interruptions/ distractions) per day. That includes their learning time in school and late at night. Even if you argue that what they’re consuming online is totally harmless, that amount of screen time has to come at a cost, right? These are kids who have been referred to the psychologist, remember…
There is a separate point about children born with inherent social communication difficulties (ie. the genetic basis of Autism, specifically ‘high functioning autism’) who are then doubly disadvantaged because as infants, they’re not socially motivated, interaction is difficult and they prefer watching cartoons or playing games on a device rather than playing with peers. That becomes habitual and by the time they start school they’re some way behind their peers, lacking the pre-requisite social skills to learn and play within a group. Perhaps they’d always have had some level of social difficulty, but the impairment is significantly greater because socialisation has been limited and they end up referred for neurodevelopmental assessment. There’s no definitive test as such, so the diagnosis is given based on their presentation and a developmental history taken from the parent.
Screens are not the cause of autism, but they’re exacerbating the symptoms in what might otherwise have been a non-clinical population.
I find it fascinating that here in the U.K., children diagnosed with autism often talk with an American accent. It’s so common that it’s almost considered a symptom of autism by itself.
It’s a fascinating area and there’s loads of research out there for anyone who wants to read up on it, but I’m mainly reflecting my own hands-on experience with children and families.
Thanks! putting my phone down right now ...
Very insightful. Number 1 hit me hard. Guilty. I sabotage myself daily by spending way too much time on my phone or tablet. I think this was easily one of your best videos. Thank you for what you do. Have a happy & blessed Thanksgiving.
Number 1 is one of the realist things I’ve said in my videos and I’m happy this hit home for you! Ours phones and other gadgets are helpful for sure but they can quickly become a huge distraction in our lives in we’re not careful!
I’m rooting for you Grace! Keep growing on your journey and you have a happy and blessed Thanksgiving as well!
I sure am on my phone 😩
OMG! It’s funny this video came out today and I watched it. Not an hour ago I was journaling about what is life and what I want out of it!
That’s a powerful journaling topic! Allow yourself to free-write through that. Don’t overthink the thoughts you have. Your pen will eventually lead you down and path that brings a ton a clarity!
Sounds like I posted this video at the perfect time also and I’m happy it reached you! Keep growing!!
This was a great video, Ron. Thank you!
Hey thanks Christina! It’s been awhile since we’ve spoke! I hope you’re doing well!!
Thank you so much. I put down my phone and plowed through a bunch of paper clutter that was really bugging me. Much appreciated.
Excellent!! 🙌🏾 I’m happy this encouraged you to put your phone down and get that paper clutter out of your life! Keep making progress on your journey Tess!!
I needed to hear this today. Thank you. Peace.
I’m very happy this video reached you my friend! Keep growing on your journey!
This was a good one. The authentic reflection on your past, and the question "Who are you without your possessions?" is such a good one. Nice job, man!
so real! thank you! emotional clutter is real. when I feel overwhelmed and have alot of things on my mind I force myself to just sit in silence. and the urge to go on the phone or netflix to distract myself is real. Its like an involuntary movement your body as gotten used to.
Exactly!! An involuntary movement is an excellent way to describe it. We all do it! The key is being aware of it enough to take action against doing it. “Avoidance is not a solution for clutter.” Keep growing on your journey Reese! I’m confident that you’ll overcome your emotional clutter for sure!!
My room is so cluttered I have been called a hoarder by my sisters ,I keep things for ever and keep getting new things too 😮 and it’s 100% me holding onto somethings,in that it’s due to emotional and mental clutter.A manifestation of procrastination and failure.It started when I had a low period and feeling things were out out of my control.
I hate it and see how much anxiety it brings me ,makes me hate my space and a daily reminder of failures and my lack of control.
I want to throw it all away but keep making excuses.I need to write this whole video out because so much truth.
I am so glad I found you yesterday. Everything, I have heard you say is so on point with where I am in my journey to minimalism. This video clarified 😂 some of the questions I have recently been pondering.
Working for the last 3 yrs on decluttering. Thanks new ideas🤔
Excellent discussion as always. An average of 300,000 items in a home is mind blowing. I've decluttered 300 items this year. Definitely hoping to do some more before the end of the year ☺
Let’s make it happen Christina! I’m rooting for you! Let’s make a huge dent in your clutter before the new year. 300 items so far is awesome!! You got this! You need help don’t hesitate to ask. I have tons of resources available!
Thank you, Ron! Enough is always less than what you think!
Yes!! It’s always less than you think!! Keep growing on your journey Natashya!!
The most minimal I lived was when I studied abroad in France. (And even less so when I studied abroad in UK for six weeks… I didn’t even bother with cooking utensils there and had a smaller suitcase). I had a small dorm with just the bare essentials. Less than 2 weeks worth of clothes. 1 coat. 1 plate, 2 glasses, 1 fork spoon and knife. A skillet and pot. I reflect on that mini fridge with enough food for 3-5 days max. A comforter, blanket, maybe 2 pillows I don’t remember. Toiletries. And my laptop and a couple notebooks and pens for school. It’s wild I didn’t care about any of that… just having fun in a foreign country and making friends. That’s what was important to me.
Now since buying a new house my husband and I are drilling into our possessions and donating a lot to goodwill. We’re donating 300 books to the prisons so they can be put to great use by people in need. There are many things I don’t NEED but I recognize that what I WANT and value is made valued by the space around it. I want more plates than my husband does for hosting friends and family. We could always get disposable, but I love the set and it’s more environmentally friendly. These are the things we really get down to after what isn’t important is stripped away.
Awesome well said video !!! Following your video for quite some time . Trying to switch to the simple life to free my mind ❤️What do you value is the best question !!!!! It shouldn’t be things .
I’m happy you decided to give simple living a try! Make sure you grab my core values worksheet to help you identify your values. If you have any other questions don’t hesitate to ask!
www.ronaldlbanks.com/values
Oh my goodness, I spent nearly 11 hours on my phone recently, how is this happening??? I needed this video, thank you 😳
Thank you Ronald! Great video, so true on every point. I watch my screen time and definitely get frustrated at myself for wasting time. I need to make changes for sure, you give me the motivation!
I’m happy I’ve given you the motivation you need Judy! Let’s make those changes. Would love to help you if you’re open to it! If you have questions don’t hesitate ask!
I enjoy your channel and videos on a regular basis. But this one seemed so honest and candid it really struck me. Thank you for what you do!
I’m happy you noticed!! I’m trying something different with my videos and being more candid is one of those things. Thanks for being part of this community Ben! I appreciate you!
Thanks Ron! This is so true...I'm guilty as charged lol......ohhhh that phone lol 💕😁
I’m guilty of this as well. I’m definitely not perfect but this is something we call can get better at. My daily average when I check my screen time has been steadily decreasing and I’m proud of myself for that! Haha!
Keep growing on your journey Giona!
@@RonaldLBanks Thanks 👍😊❤️ Ron! Kudos to you. That is awesome! I'm a Libra so don't ever show us anything glittery when we are to be focusing LOL 🤣 because it's all OVER
Thank you for your always great insight! My place has been cluttered for the last 8 months because I am in grad school and it is driving me absolutely CrAzY! A few more months and I can tackle it! It will be a win win!
First off congratulations in regards to Grad School! What are you studying if you don’t mind me asking? Be sure to let me know once you graduate too. Would love to celebrate with you virtually! 🙌🏾 also I’m rooting for you! PLUS I’m confident that you’ll conquer your clutter. I’m have a ton off resources available so if at any time you have questions, or need help, don’t hesitate to reach out to me! Keep growing Craig!
@@RonaldLBanks hello, thank you for your thoughtful reply. I always enjoy you content and ideas. I am almost finished with an MA in SEL (social emotional learning). Not to flex my ego my organization abilities are 100!
This is one of my favorite before/afters that April has done
You’re my favorite person here to help me declutter!
Ronald, The Poetic Preacher
Thank you for this insightful video.
Haha that has a nice ring to it! 😂 🎙️I’m glad you enjoyed this video Jenny! Thanks for being here!
holy crap but the identity part hit me...just the question you asked...just me and a mirror - who am I? what a great way to get down to the real you and to highlight the importance of cultivating your inner self and not some bizarre "instagram" version that we are pretending to be. Thanks again for your thought provoking content. Your vids are never a waste of time or just fluff.
#1 struck me really hard. I definitely have been on my phone more than I need to.
Our lives became cluttered due to a death in the family, I, we. maybe you, try ro keep that person near us by holding onto their things, It doesn't bring them back, but it feels closer for a while. It can be very emotional, letting go of someone through their things.
You are so underrated. Like really!
Excellent content….as always!
Thank you Jen! I’m happy you enjoyed this!!
Amazing video. THANK YOU
"enough is always less thanyou think it is"
i'ma need to sit on that for a while, ron
🙌🏾 “it’s always less than you think it is!” I need to have more direct conversations like this. I feel that hit differently for sure! Keep growing on your journey my friend!
Clarity is like oxygen. Wow, if that ain't the truth then I don't know what is! Gems 💎
I’m glad I allowed that thought to flow without overthinking it. The poet in me loves metaphors like this. I’m happy you enjoyed it A.O. 🙌🏾
@@RonaldLBanks I'm a painter but, I'm always so fascinated with how writers are able to paint with words 🙌🏾 Keep it flowing!
From the outside looking in, "smooth" is absolutely part of your identity, lol. Also, regarding your list of whys, you ain't never lied! Putting my phone down now to get rid of some of this crap now.
This video really spoke to me. Thank you.
I’m very happy you enjoyed this video Devlynn! Thanks for giving me the opportunity to share it with you!
Thanks for the clarity !
Thanks for giving me the opportunity to share this with you Chris! Keep growing on your journey!
Really good insights and catalysts for reflection. Thank you!
Always thankful to you Ronald.
Thank you Cozzy! I’m thankful you’re part of this community. I appreciate you as well. Keep growing and learning on your journey!
Very helpful - thank you for your honest insights.
Another brilliant vid that resonates. Thumbs up.
Also, great video. You always come from a place of love and I feel it. Thank you!
Spot on …. Well Done
Hi FRANK haha love your channel thank you for sharing
I need to stop over consumed contents😊thank you for this
your videos are amazing, I love them! happy 2023!
Your content and your ability to share and communicate wisdom and practicality so effectively and efficiently is a blessing. For me, and for any others that choose to listen. Thank you for the work that you do!
Thank you so much for this Video Ronald. One of the best in my opinion and spot on with what is important to be who we are.
Look forward to more content, you’re always so true. And belated Congrats to you and your wife on the birth of your son 🎉 x D
I didn’t have Wi-Fi for about a month of this year. It was super annoying cause I couldn’t sort anything out, but honestly, it was like my attention suddenly came back. It’s made me use my phone with way more intent and less time looking at trash that adds no value.
Good stuff as usual!
Awesome! I’m happy you enjoyed this!!
I loved the stuff you did with editing. It was like visual poetry! ❤
That thumbnail sent me 😂😂😂😂
Wow all these things I definitely need to work on. Thank you for this ❤
I’m happy you found value in this conversation!! Keep growing on your journey!
Wow Ron another great video. I like the one about if all you had was yourself standing in front of mirror who are you. That deep. ❤
Very deep isn’t it?! When I first asked myself this question years go at the beginning of my journey, I struggled to answer it! It really makes you think and it forces you to consider your values!
Incredibly helpful. Boom 💡💡💡💥
I love lightbulb moments!! 💡I’m very happy this video resonated with you LizzieB! Keep growing on your journey!
Very timely message, thank you!
I have three times too much clothing but then again holding onto it. It just because I know I can wear it unlike most clothes that I'm allergic to...
I feel personally attacked 😩 Thank you for this.
I used things and cluttered my room exactly in an attempt to define myself. I must say, it did help. Through all these things I've seen what I am reaching out for, or what things lost their appeal fast. I started paying attention to my actual interests, opposed to forever doing what I believed I should. If I never had these things, I think I would find it impossible to understand what I actually like... But now I do need to declutter, getting rid of everything that didn't stuck or that stuck for a short time, of some things I am no more :)
This video is on replay
Awesome! I’m happy this video is resonating with you so much my friend!
@@RonaldLBanks 💯
Great stuff!! Thank you :)
Awesome! I’m happy you found value in this Kate! Thanks for giving me the opportunity to share this with you!
Really love your videos ❤ would you ever consider doing an updated wardrobe/closet tour ?
"And ... I'm not sure how to do this on an Android" ooohhh the shade 🤣🤣 jp
Haha! 😂
Oof.
…Woah. 🤯
…Oh dang. 🥺
…THANK YOU. ✊😭 ♥️
0:55 Wow, Point 1 😳... so true! 👏🏾...I pursed my lips 😏 then went ahead and liked the video 🤣
Great video
Thank you my friend! Thanks for being here as well!
Great video. Very ease to put into perspective and relate. I love the ideas of minimalism and do much of it at home. HOWEVER, my husband is not into it. Any advice for combining lifestyles??
Encouraging.
I’m glad you found value in this my friend!
Can you make a video on how you stay clutter free with the kiddo? You mentioned that in another video but would like to hear details
Android users: settings --> digital wellbeing and parents controls. You can use this to set timers on your apps. You can also set up a weekly report to show you which apps you've used most in that time. This is how I know I wasted nearly 7 hours on Instagram, which I don't even like anymore, instead of using my Japanese learning app 🙃
I'm watching this again like THERAPY 😊
Awesome my friend! I’m happy this is bringing you so much value!
Mr. smooth 😂
Clutter can be a symptom of trauma
You are psychic. 😂 I just started this too. Do you think it is trauma related?
l just watched your video and it helped so much right from the start you had already got me... lm a little dissappointed though that because of my current location your website is not allowing me to download the values list
Frank is good
Stop the video at 2:04 lol because I looked around and thought I got work to do so I’m going to sleep so I can get up and get the work done on time and then I’ll watch it from the beginning
It might be obvious but can someone explain the link between your identity and clutter? (Reason 2)
Thank you
I am on my Laptop with the Wi-fi .
It’s my break time!!! (TH-cam) 😂
My question is why would anyone put down a phone that has cost them $1,000+ or making payments? That is like owning a car and not using it and still paying insurance. I think people justify adding apps and using the phone more because of the cost they spent on it.
P.S. I am one of those people that justify my usage with cost. I have thought about using a dumb phone for daily usage and a smartphone for travel. We shall see.
My 5.5 yr old phone cost $80. Smartphone. Love it
which kind of person are you being a minimalist..it is too hard.
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Hope this conversation blew your mind in a good way haha! Keep growing on your journey my friend!
@@RonaldLBanks indeed sir. Literally touched my soul. But it’s the change needed that’s the issue. Oblivion & avoidance is so much simpler. 😣🫣
My privilege cost $140 per month 😢
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