You can definitely be a minimalist and have a home that is colorful. I moved from a 13 room Victorian "cottage" in 2008. Over time I've gradually downsized to the point that I now live in my condo of just 386 square feet. I went from over 6,000 books to just my favorite 300 books. I kept all the art work that I truly loved so each wall is full of vibrant art work and, in fact, I painted the walls in my main room black which makes the colors really "pop". I have a small "reading room" area with about a dozen plants because I no longer have a yard and a large garden. You would never enter my home and say it's minimally designed. But it is 386 square feet and contains only what I really love and appreciate. So, minimalism doesn't mean "no stuff". It means carefully selecting what works for you.
The wasting money part was a big challenge for me to overcome. It’s true that the money was already spent, but I couldn’t let go of things until I realized they were being wasted sitting in my house. I’ve found such joy giving things away in my local “pay it forward” group. I love that I can give something with value to someone who may not have the funds to purchase it. It helps me feel like I’m not wasting money anymore because it’s being used! Just not by me!
I just had a newborn 3 weeks ago. And I completely agree with the way people around us say you need so much stuff or to spend so much money on your child. But in reality it’s what is needed for your life style! Because it depends on the climate, the size of your baby and how big your house/apartment is. Overall it’s about getting the absolute necessities for your child. Thinking about better investment items that grow with your child so you aren’t wasting money. And if the family or friends want to spoil your child, try to guide them into getting items that will be useful for the present and near future to help out. Instead of random gadgets that will take up so much space in the house. But good luck to every parent and just know it’s really a beautiful journey !
I love #3. My home actually got a lot less boring when I started practicing a minimalism 8 years ago. I kept only what was valuable, functional and beautiful to me and my home is now filled with color, not clutter. The upside is that it looks like a curated art gallery and still only takes me 5 minutes to clean. Wins all around!
Decluttering brought up lots of emotions for me I didn't realise were there. I needed to get rid of rubbish because it was taking over my living space and I had no room to move. So my son and I packed up the car and took several trips to the dump. The stuff I got rid of was actual rubbish - cardboard boxes from purchases, old broken furniture that couldn't be repaired, etc. But it upset me no end and I cried every time whilst driving to the dump. But afterwards I felt much better. I also fell into the trap of keeping stuff "just in case". I have plans to start a sewing business working from home and was busily gathering supplies so I could jump right into it, but I didn't start anything. I just kept gathering. I still have a lot of purging of stuff to do but I'm taking it one step at a time so I don't send myself into a nervous breakdown. Now I'm looking forward to having stuff that I need and want without drowning in unnecessary clutter. Being ruthless is tough on the psyche but well worth the effort.
I love your decluttering videos. They’re physically, practical and mentally encouraging at the same time. Something you said really struck me: “Our identity is not defined by what we own, it is shaped by our character, values, experiences, and contributions to the world.” I recently went to the funeral of my beloved cousin’s husband. I had always seen him as fun, loving very good to his family, both immediate and the rest of us, and he had such a loving bond with his wife and children. What I didn’t know was how much he had impacted his world while he was alive. There were over 200 people who came to celebrate Bob‘s life. And what really impacted me was looking at his urn (he been cremated as he requested) and noticing that all the things that he had possessed in his life, we’re gone. All that was there for his ashes, some flowers, a few pictures especially one of him in his favorite shirt which read I’m sorry I’m late, but I didn’t want to come. LOL! HE AND HIS LIFE or what was the most important. His impact on our lives, cannot be seen by what he owned by who he was. He gave me the courage to see my possessions as really not very necessary to who I am. And now with your videos, I’m truly ready to begin decluttering not only my home, but my life, finances and emotional baggage as well. Thank you so much for your videos and I’m proud to be your subscriber. 😊👍🙏
I am a more seasoned parent. Around year three, I realized that most of the stuff that people told me that I needed I did not need. Kudos to you Nf hour family for creating boundaries and being clear about your vision
I've been going through decluttering youtube videos all day and yours are by far the most clutter-free (no frills, no bs, no unnecessary dialogue... ), great insights, plus great production quality. Subbed!
As a mum of 5, almost 6, kids (10 and under), having less of the gadget type stuff is SO nice when they are little. With our first two or three, we had all the big, bulky things that really aren’t great for the babies anyway and just take up soooo much space. With the last few babies, I baby wear to avoid strollers taking up space and don’t use the big walkers or bouncers and such. Baby really doesn’t need much but we’re constantly told by others and companies that they NEED this or that. Thank you for addressing this. I’ve had worries lately that my house will just never be declutterred even with keeping baby stuff to a minimum but now you’ve given me good ideas to get back at it! ♥️
Wow! If you ever wonder if you have helped someone, you did today. I needed to hear the things you are saying. I was playing your content while I cleaned my refrigerator. Mind you, I have been wanting to clean out the fridge for a very long time. In fact, I've been meaning to do ANYTHING. I've watched many people who are organizers and talk about decluttering. But you got thru to me. Thank you. ❤️
Yes please more minimal parent content!! Living in Scandinavia in a small city apartment puts some natural boundaries to the amount of stuff we can have but still we try to keep it as lean as possible. A practical toy store for kids is just overwhelming, what they really need is time and attention from their parents and loved ones. Capsule wardrobe also makes a lot of sense! Anything to simplify the babylife. You got yourself a sub.
Great video, Ron! I wanted to thank you for all the inspiration I've gotten from your channel over the last few years. I luckily met a wonderful man in 2019 (who I know live with) - but as we are both in our forties we had duplicates of everything so some urgent decluttering was needed for us both to fit into our three-bedroom home in Wales, UK (admittedly, a lot of his stuff was donated - we kept mine!) While there are a few (very few!) things I think maybe I shouldn't have decluttered, this process has given me much more confidence in all my decision-making in all aspects of my life. So I got rid of some stuff that I regret but, you know what? nothing bad happened, I've learnt that it's ok to make mistakes, and this has led to some amazing life-changing decisions that I felt confident to make now. Additionally, I was able to sell so many things that I was able to pay off all my debt, and as I sold my property, I am now mortgage free! This enabled me to change my career and work part-time. My time is now my most precious 'possession'! (although I realise that not everyone is this fortunate). I wouldn't have been able to change my life in every way if I hadn't first strengthened my "decluttering muscles"! Thank you for all of your great videos, and huge Congratulations on your new baby son! To anyone who is still struggling with decluttering, I say just jump in! It might just be the best thing you've ever done!
When I had my kids I was young and we were poor , I was a stay at home mom who had a calligraphy business , my husband a machinist working man job at first , and there wasn’t so many new gadgets back then , the 80s we didn’t have much at all , and we went to the library a lot , they got ‘ new “ books every week . We went to the park every week and played on the “ big” toys, we fed the ducks the ends of bread , we baked pies and cookies together my girls are now grown , both very well educated, well rounded , creative individuals I am very proud of , we did ok , with the bare minimum
Wow. This is the second video of yours I’ve watched. You are so eloquent and insightful. You definitely have gained a follower. I have started my declutter ing journey and am grateful to have a “coach” to rely on. Thank you.
Wow, thank you! I’m honored my content resonates with you so much. I definitely look forward to growing on this journey with you my friend. If you have questions don’t hesitate to reach out!
Love the clear purpose. The white everything makes what we see a nice backdrop, but a 1 large piece of art in calm colors that reflects the both of your personalities would go so far to solidify your shared discoveries and tell us more about you, your interests and your experiences. You would be supporting an artist and have a finished deliberate look in your home that would be curated by your new choices. Just my opinion here suggesting a further refinement of your stated journey. Thank you for sharing your story.
As useful as your specific suggestions are, your insights into human nature and your ability to articulate those things are extremely impressive. You're a smarter man than I.
Becoming a parent was exactly what set me alone a path of becoming more intentional and minimal, esp as a parent. It was a huge eye opener and allowed us to stay in a smaller place until the time was right to upsize.
Congratulations on the baby! We have always shared with the children that new toys are awesome and need room to live. For every 1 new toy In, 3 old toys go out. We have held on to this rule for our family and encourage others to incorporate it into their families.
I am slowly decluttering my home but the most important thing I have learned is I stopped buying stuff. I now ask myself do I love it and what will I remove out of my home for it.
Thank you thank you thank you for saying about minimalism with kids, I needed to hear this, I’m on a journey to simplifying my life with a 3 year old. I’m a terrible hoarder 🙈 a work in progress. We have family that buy our son lots of things. We do toy rotations also and it’s definitely the best thing ever! I still have a long way to go decluttering toys and well…everything!! But I’m so glad you have spoken about minimalism with children!! Thank you!!!
Thank you for this great video, helpful information. My home does NOT look like the youtube/instagram minimalist home, it is FULL of color, but I don't have lots of things and everything I own is useful and brings joy when I look at it as I use it, I keep people, mail, digitally stored stuff, etc very limited.
Right on time with just the inspiration I needed to continue my decluttering journey. Took a breather for a bit. Now getting ready to tackle the difficult task of decluttering the sewing room. Its not so much the things but rather the plans and ideas that are difficult to let go of now.
Great! The whole thing about having kids and cherishing minimalism is possible! And it remains possible even when they reach adolescence. It's the mindset that counts. I love how open-minded you are! To live clutter-free is not a fashion, it is a matter of alignment, so why cling to specific colour codes for instance, isn't it true? Great work, Ronald!
Hey, Ronald. Happy Father's Day. 💛 The way you looked around you while talking about the "boring" minimalist home, cracked me up. 😂 And also, I don't have kids yet, but thanks to minimalism and your videos, I'll be ready. 😁
Oh my goodness, so much has changed in your life since I last really watched a few years ago. So many more people have found your wisdom, how wonderful for the world! Congratulations on your little one and Happy Belated Father's Day! My son is a born minimalist. He's 18 now and has never once wanted more than just a couple of pairs of pants, a couple of shorts, and a handful of shirts. He wants enough clothing so that he has a full load at the end of the week with nothing left over. He has a pair of sneakers and a pair of crocs. He has a laptop, a Switch, and books. He has a small shelf where he has a few gaming items. That's it for him. This is what he has always, always wanted. He played with one of those baby clip on rings shaped like a shower curtain ring until he was about a year old and then moved to a couple of trains. That's literally it for him. Minimalism is most definitely possible for children and some definitely prefer it without input from their parents. I didn't take the turn towards minimalism until a couple of years ago so it wasn't me! I still have a long way to go. My younger sister is a minimalist and has very young children (1,3). It's proving hard for her. It's all about balance and making sure that the kids are happy. Some kids do need more than others to keep them occupied. They spend most of their time outdoors and electronics aren't allowed for the kids until they're older, they simply need more to keep them occupied than she prefers. My oldest is a crafter and always has been, this has meant a lot of projects over the years. And a whole lot of craft supplies. Their collection is meaningful to them, but certainly not minimalist and they're ok with that because it keeps their mind clear to have their inspiration nearby. I think the emotional, mental, financial, commitments decluttering is probably the most important. Thank you for sharing your words and wisdom.
Definitely drowning in other people's generosity over here. Being surrounded by family members that can see beyond consumerism is a blessing. I am blessed in many ways and that ain't one of them 🥴 Thank you for sharing your journey😊
Hi Ronald. Thank you for your interesting videos. I easily get overwhelmed. You also seem (if I may say so) like a lovely guy. God bless you and your family.
I wouldn't call myself someone who's into materialism, but because fashion is something that I truly enjoy, I'm having to learn how to balance out my shopping habits so that I can have enough money while still enjoying the things I use and/or buy for myself. Too many minimalist TH-camrs (most of which I've unsubscribed from) have a very narrow view of what it means to be a minimalist, which makes me appreciate content like yours a whole lot more. Thanks for all that you do, Ronald, and happy belated Father's Day! 😊
Watched a couple of your vids. I knew i had to subscribe when you mentioned you have a fam and still managed to stay ckutter free. Thank you for these videos! It's possible when you are intentional!
Ten years ago I acquired a delightful Modernist-style white metal coffee table. A few months later, I had to move and could not take the coffee table with me, so I had to sell it. As I saw it leave with its new owner, I had an epiphany: it is your objects that define you, but the type of objects that you love that do. I am still a person who enjoys whimsical furniture with a minimalist touch, and that is what defines me, not the actual stuff that I have. What we like, what we enjoy, what we find useful, what drives us and are passionate about - that is what defines us
Thank you for putting out such great NEEDED video content. I find your videos to be informative and very inspiring. Keep up the good work and I look forward to many more ideas, tips and advice you have to offer. Much appreciation
"Capsule wardrobe baby addition", brilliant! You could easily monetize that and create a baby clothing market niche. How about labeling 2nd hand baby clothes (used/thrifted) as "Vintage". This is a such a great idea!
We also minimize on kids stuff - we have a toddler and grandparents who love to spoil (we're working on that haha). But we love having a small selection of really great, age appropriate toys, as well as our baby capsule wardrobe (1 drawer of clothes fit for the current and upcoming season). Great video!
When I was to become a grandparent, my daughter asked that the stuff I wanted to buy for my granddaughter stay at my house. It keeps me from buying too much, keeps her small house to cluttered and gives my granddaughter a special set of toys and clothes at my house. Maybe that will help the grandparents when they want to buy things. I love it because my daughter doesn’t have to bring anything to my house, because we have it here.
We asked the grandparents to buy the kids experiences rather than things. Swimming pool memberships, tickets to the theater, punch pass at rock climbing center etc.
I do like the video, and believe it is a good list of 'lies'. However, the 1st one "It is not just about the physical stuff", while probably true, I think physical stuff was the right place to start for me. Physical clutter kept me busy enough that I never had time to look at other areas of my life that were a mess, and as I decluttered my physical environment I started to have enough time to see other areas that needed work.
The speaker discusses debunking misconceptions about decluttering, emphasizing holistic decluttering, managing clutter with kids, maintaining personal style, identity, and understanding the true cost of holding onto possessions.
Your ideas are interesting and I'm sure they work for many but this is not for me. I want to enjoy my belongings because I'm sentimental and seeing things brings me happiness. Your home looks beautiful but to me it does look a little boring. It would be great for your child to see color, it's a part of development. What will he have to remember you and the many places you've been to and things you did together. When my son comes to my house, that will one day be his, it's like going back in time for him. He takes his 3 yr old son I into his room and shows him his toys even from when he was 3. It means a lot to him. I have antiques that have been in my family who cherished them as well as myself. I remember stories that my grandmother and mother told me about the item. I don't have a color scheme all over the house with the exception of furniture and curtains being similar in color. I'm not a neat freak but I am a germ freak. I have clean clutter lol I'll be 61 in December and I know I need to get rid of "stuff" for many reasons. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed but many, many times I experience joyful and happy feelings. I've told my son when I die to get rid of anything he didn't like or means nothing to him. I think knowing he has my permission to let it go will make it guilt free. I guess every home and person likes what they like. Personal things reflects the person. Good luck with your beautiful clutter free home and mind but it would be nice if you at least had black and white framed selected photos on your wall. It's part of your life. ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for your video!
Ah. Very much looking forward to seeing how all this holds up under a kid honestly. Also have NO RESPECT from other family members or help in the house often. Makes a huge difference
I'm interested to see how your minimalism lifestyle is impacted when the kid grows! I'm sure there are tons of things newborns and toddlers don't really need, but I think at some point kids start to want certain things and of course you don't want to give them everything they want, but some things start to become important to them as individuals. I guess moderation is key here, wouldn't want to force kids to be more minimalist than what is comfortable to them, and at the same time it's okay to put some boundaries in place regarding stuff.
Thanks for sharing such amazing content and wisdom with the masses. Quick question? Where did you find your white square storage dressers at? I've been in search of a great storage that's sleek and clean appearance. Thank you immensely! God Bless!
The white storage dresser in my son’s room and the one behind me in my videos is from IKEA. It’s their Besta Collection that we custom configured to fit our needs. You can do so much with them and it’s affordable so you’re not breaking the bank.
The more you own, the more that owns you. For everyone there is a harmony and balance that comes with owning stuff. I keep possessions to remind me of experiences. However on the flip side, just like you had your clothes and kicks I have that same problem with hats so now it's time to declutter. Onward! haha.
Emotional currency is such a topic for great dialogue. If you ever skip through Colorado I'm curious if you would do a round robin at a coffee shop about minimalism and decluttering. 🙃
I was just in Colorado Springs with my family at the end of May. Took my son hiking…. I’d love to schedule some meet ups at coffee shops in various cities. Would be great meeting you all and chatting about minimalism.
I'm an MIP (minimalist in progress) & I have never seen a video about minimalism with a baby. It's brilliant! Love your point of view bc you're absolutely right, there's no reason why minimalism can't work w/ a baby in the home. Wish I knew that when my kids were babies!!
The problem with decluttering is that it becomes a hobby. Sure some people have so much clutter it affects their lives and brings down their quality of life. However, it gives them something new to do as they go through their stuff, finds ways to sell it, give it away, and donate it. When it is all done, the hobby is over, there is nothing more to declutter and you are left with a much more empty living space. Then all the declutter activity is over, the hobby is over, the activity is over leaving an empty time and if you have not spent the mental time to decide how you will live your life after the clutter, you are more likely to go back to gaining stuff to fill the active time you now have.
my home as a minimalist is 99% white 1% light wood 😂 , if you ask me why , because I love it this way 😊 . Don't try to understand it ,( just like I can't understand how someone would live in a space with colourful decor because to me it is overwhelming and it will drive me crazy ) but just appreciate that we are all different 😉😊
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"I view decluttering as a means to create my life rather than strip away the life I have." I love this!
You can definitely be a minimalist and have a home that is colorful. I moved from a 13 room Victorian "cottage" in 2008. Over time I've gradually downsized to the point that I now live in my condo of just 386 square feet. I went from over 6,000 books to just my favorite 300 books. I kept all the art work that I truly loved so each wall is full of vibrant art work and, in fact, I painted the walls in my main room black which makes the colors really "pop". I have a small "reading room" area with about a dozen plants because I no longer have a yard and a large garden. You would never enter my home and say it's minimally designed. But it is 386 square feet and contains only what I really love and appreciate. So, minimalism doesn't mean "no stuff". It means carefully selecting what works for you.
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The wasting money part was a big challenge for me to overcome. It’s true that the money was already spent, but I couldn’t let go of things until I realized they were being wasted sitting in my house. I’ve found such joy giving things away in my local “pay it forward” group. I love that I can give something with value to someone who may not have the funds to purchase it. It helps me feel like I’m not wasting money anymore because it’s being used! Just not by me!
I just had a newborn 3 weeks ago. And I completely agree with the way people around us say you need so much stuff or to spend so much money on your child. But in reality it’s what is needed for your life style! Because it depends on the climate, the size of your baby and how big your house/apartment is. Overall it’s about getting the absolute necessities for your child. Thinking about better investment items that grow with your child so you aren’t wasting money. And if the family or friends want to spoil your child, try to guide them into getting items that will be useful for the present and near future to help out. Instead of random gadgets that will take up so much space in the house. But good luck to every parent and just know it’s really a beautiful journey !
I love #3. My home actually got a lot less boring when I started practicing a minimalism 8 years ago. I kept only what was valuable, functional and beautiful to me and my home is now filled with color, not clutter. The upside is that it looks like a curated art gallery and still only takes me 5 minutes to clean. Wins all around!
Congratulations on becoming a father! 🎉 ❤
Decluttering brought up lots of emotions for me I didn't realise were there. I needed to get rid of rubbish because it was taking over my living space and I had no room to move. So my son and I packed up the car and took several trips to the dump. The stuff I got rid of was actual rubbish - cardboard boxes from purchases, old broken furniture that couldn't be repaired, etc. But it upset me no end and I cried every time whilst driving to the dump. But afterwards I felt much better. I also fell into the trap of keeping stuff "just in case". I have plans to start a sewing business working from home and was busily gathering supplies so I could jump right into it, but I didn't start anything. I just kept gathering. I still have a lot of purging of stuff to do but I'm taking it one step at a time so I don't send myself into a nervous breakdown. Now I'm looking forward to having stuff that I need and want without drowning in unnecessary clutter. Being ruthless is tough on the psyche but well worth the effort.
I felt that
I love your decluttering videos. They’re physically, practical and mentally encouraging at the same time. Something you said really struck me: “Our identity is not defined by what we own, it is shaped by our character, values, experiences, and contributions to the world.” I recently went to the funeral of my beloved cousin’s husband. I had always seen him as fun, loving very good to his family, both immediate and the rest of us, and he had such a loving bond with his wife and children. What I didn’t know was how much he had impacted his world while he was alive. There were over 200 people who came to celebrate Bob‘s life. And what really impacted me was looking at his urn (he been cremated as he requested) and noticing that all the things that he had possessed in his life, we’re gone. All that was there for his ashes, some flowers, a few pictures especially one of him in his favorite shirt which read I’m sorry I’m late, but I didn’t want to come. LOL! HE AND HIS LIFE or what was the most important. His impact on our lives, cannot be seen by what he owned by who he was. He gave me the courage to see my possessions as really not very necessary to who I am. And now with your videos, I’m truly ready to begin decluttering not only my home, but my life, finances and emotional baggage as well. Thank you so much for your videos and I’m proud to be your subscriber. 😊👍🙏
I am a more seasoned parent. Around year three, I realized that most of the stuff that people told me that I needed I did not need. Kudos to you Nf hour family for creating boundaries and being clear about your vision
I’ve ALREADY LOST THE MONEY ❗️❗️
News flash!!
Priceless ❗️❗️
Thank you ❤
I've been going through decluttering youtube videos all day and yours are by far the most clutter-free (no frills, no bs, no unnecessary dialogue... ), great insights, plus great production quality. Subbed!
Yes, thank you! I tend to follow minimalists that keep it brief and inciteful.
You're a very wise young man. I enjoy your videos!
The last two points were what I was thinking.
Thanks man for these words.
As a mum of 5, almost 6, kids (10 and under), having less of the gadget type stuff is SO nice when they are little. With our first two or three, we had all the big, bulky things that really aren’t great for the babies anyway and just take up soooo much space. With the last few babies, I baby wear to avoid strollers taking up space and don’t use the big walkers or bouncers and such. Baby really doesn’t need much but we’re constantly told by others and companies that they NEED this or that. Thank you for addressing this. I’ve had worries lately that my house will just never be declutterred even with keeping baby stuff to a minimum but now you’ve given me good ideas to get back at it! ♥️
Wow! If you ever wonder if you have helped someone, you did today. I needed to hear the things you are saying. I was playing your content while I cleaned my refrigerator. Mind you, I have been wanting to clean out the fridge for a very long time. In fact, I've been meaning to do ANYTHING. I've watched many people who are organizers and talk about decluttering. But you got thru to me. Thank you. ❤️
Yes please more minimal parent content!! Living in Scandinavia in a small city apartment puts some natural boundaries to the amount of stuff we can have but still we try to keep it as lean as possible. A practical toy store for kids is just overwhelming, what they really need is time and attention from their parents and loved ones. Capsule wardrobe also makes a lot of sense! Anything to simplify the babylife. You got yourself a sub.
You are a light in this world
You speak like poetry ❤️ It’s calming to listen too.
Great video, Ron! I wanted to thank you for all the inspiration I've gotten from your channel over the last few years. I luckily met a wonderful man in 2019 (who I know live with) - but as we are both in our forties we had duplicates of everything so some urgent decluttering was needed for us both to fit into our three-bedroom home in Wales, UK (admittedly, a lot of his stuff was donated - we kept mine!) While there are a few (very few!) things I think maybe I shouldn't have decluttered, this process has given me much more confidence in all my decision-making in all aspects of my life. So I got rid of some stuff that I regret but, you know what? nothing bad happened, I've learnt that it's ok to make mistakes, and this has led to some amazing life-changing decisions that I felt confident to make now. Additionally, I was able to sell so many things that I was able to pay off all my debt, and as I sold my property, I am now mortgage free! This enabled me to change my career and work part-time. My time is now my most precious 'possession'! (although I realise that not everyone is this fortunate). I wouldn't have been able to change my life in every way if I hadn't first strengthened my "decluttering muscles"! Thank you for all of your great videos, and huge Congratulations on your new baby son! To anyone who is still struggling with decluttering, I say just jump in! It might just be the best thing you've ever done!
When I had my kids I was young and we were poor , I was a stay at home mom who had a calligraphy business , my husband a machinist working man job at first , and there wasn’t so many new gadgets back then , the 80s we didn’t have much at all , and we went to the library a lot , they got ‘ new “ books every week . We went to the park every week and played on the “ big” toys, we fed the ducks the ends of bread , we baked pies and cookies together my girls are now grown , both very well educated, well rounded , creative individuals I am very proud of , we did ok , with the bare minimum
I def need to do another round of decluttering, thank you for the tips!
Wow. This is the second video of yours I’ve watched. You are so eloquent and insightful. You definitely have gained a follower. I have started my declutter ing journey and am grateful to have a “coach” to rely on. Thank you.
Wow, thank you! I’m honored my content resonates with you so much. I definitely look forward to growing on this journey with you my friend. If you have questions don’t hesitate to reach out!
What a video! I agree with the first lie the most, minimalism is not just the physical, it is a mindset in all areas of life
I wish there were more parents like you 🥰
Love the clear purpose. The white everything makes what we see a nice backdrop, but a 1 large piece of art in calm colors that reflects the both of your personalities would go so far to solidify your shared discoveries and tell us more about you, your interests and your experiences. You would be supporting an artist and have a finished deliberate look in your home that would be curated by your new choices. Just my opinion here suggesting a further refinement of your stated journey. Thank you for sharing your story.
So good ! Thank you ! And congrats to you & your wife on the birth of your beautiful son ! Liz
As useful as your specific suggestions are, your insights into human nature and your ability to articulate those things are extremely impressive. You're a smarter man than I.
Becoming a parent was exactly what set me alone a path of becoming more intentional and minimal, esp as a parent. It was a huge eye opener and allowed us to stay in a smaller place until the time was right to upsize.
Glad I started listening to Ron again! I'm inspired to get back to being a minimalist/simplifying my life.
Awesome! I’m honored! Please let me know if you ever have any questions!
Congratulations on the baby! We have always shared with the children that new toys are awesome and need room to live. For every 1 new toy In, 3 old toys go out. We have held on to this rule for our family and encourage others to incorporate it into their families.
The math doesn’t add up
I am slowly decluttering my home but the most important thing I have learned is I stopped buying stuff. I now ask myself do I love it and what will I remove out of my home for it.
So smart! Children with fewer toys are more creative and happier.
Thank you thank you thank you for saying about minimalism with kids, I needed to hear this, I’m on a journey to simplifying my life with a 3 year old.
I’m a terrible hoarder 🙈 a work in progress. We have family that buy our son lots of things. We do toy rotations also and it’s definitely the best thing ever!
I still have a long way to go decluttering toys and well…everything!! But I’m so glad you have spoken about minimalism with children!! Thank you!!!
Love how active you are with decluttering.
Thank you for this great video, helpful information. My home does NOT look like the youtube/instagram minimalist home, it is FULL of color, but I don't have lots of things and everything I own is useful and brings joy when I look at it as I use it, I keep people, mail, digitally stored stuff, etc very limited.
Happy Belated Father's Day Ron. Thank you so much for your inspiration.❤
Summer 2023. I love this series. I have needed it for at least 40 years. A pleasure and an inspiration.
Hi Ronald,
I really admire the way you SPEAK. You are very good at talking (to an audience)
This aha moment is amazing❤ thank you for this very valuable video
Right on time with just the inspiration I needed to continue my decluttering journey. Took a breather for a bit. Now getting ready to tackle the difficult task of decluttering the sewing room. Its not so much the things but rather the plans and ideas that are difficult to let go of now.
Congratulations on the kid Ron! Looking forward to seeing more content from you and Matt about minimalism with kids.
Great! The whole thing about having kids and cherishing minimalism is possible! And it remains possible even when they reach adolescence. It's the mindset that counts.
I love how open-minded you are! To live clutter-free is not a fashion, it is a matter of alignment, so why cling to specific colour codes for instance, isn't it true? Great work, Ronald!
Hey, Ronald. Happy Father's Day. 💛 The way you looked around you while talking about the "boring" minimalist home, cracked me up. 😂 And also, I don't have kids yet, but thanks to minimalism and your videos, I'll be ready. 😁
I'm truly glad I found this channel 💯💪🏾
Ronald, it is so heart warmning to see young man like you speaks politely and gently. ♥️♥️
Ewwwwwwww just be silent
Or at least write proper English when you make such statements
Oh my goodness, so much has changed in your life since I last really watched a few years ago. So many more people have found your wisdom, how wonderful for the world! Congratulations on your little one and Happy Belated Father's Day!
My son is a born minimalist. He's 18 now and has never once wanted more than just a couple of pairs of pants, a couple of shorts, and a handful of shirts. He wants enough clothing so that he has a full load at the end of the week with nothing left over. He has a pair of sneakers and a pair of crocs. He has a laptop, a Switch, and books. He has a small shelf where he has a few gaming items. That's it for him. This is what he has always, always wanted. He played with one of those baby clip on rings shaped like a shower curtain ring until he was about a year old and then moved to a couple of trains. That's literally it for him. Minimalism is most definitely possible for children and some definitely prefer it without input from their parents. I didn't take the turn towards minimalism until a couple of years ago so it wasn't me! I still have a long way to go.
My younger sister is a minimalist and has very young children (1,3). It's proving hard for her. It's all about balance and making sure that the kids are happy. Some kids do need more than others to keep them occupied. They spend most of their time outdoors and electronics aren't allowed for the kids until they're older, they simply need more to keep them occupied than she prefers.
My oldest is a crafter and always has been, this has meant a lot of projects over the years. And a whole lot of craft supplies. Their collection is meaningful to them, but certainly not minimalist and they're ok with that because it keeps their mind clear to have their inspiration nearby.
I think the emotional, mental, financial, commitments decluttering is probably the most important. Thank you for sharing your words and wisdom.
Definitely drowning in other people's generosity over here. Being surrounded by family members that can see beyond consumerism is a blessing. I am blessed in many ways and that ain't one of them 🥴 Thank you for sharing your journey😊
Hi Ronald. Thank you for your interesting videos. I easily get overwhelmed. You also seem (if I may say so) like a lovely guy. God bless you and your family.
One of my all time favourite videos! Thank you 😊
Wow! I really appreciate that. That’s amazing. Thank you. I’m also glad you enjoyed this my friend!
Always remember he is his own person too and would want to stay true to himself. He may lean your way and he may not
THANK YOU for always guiding us in path of improvement! Really good and helpful advice. All The Best to you and your sweet family.
I wouldn't call myself someone who's into materialism, but because fashion is something that I truly enjoy, I'm having to learn how to balance out my shopping habits so that I can have enough money while still enjoying the things I use and/or buy for myself. Too many minimalist TH-camrs (most of which I've unsubscribed from) have a very narrow view of what it means to be a minimalist, which makes me appreciate content like yours a whole lot more. Thanks for all that you do, Ronald, and happy belated Father's Day! 😊
Hey Ronald, your videos are helping me though my decluttering journey From west Africa Liberia.
This is awesome! I’m rooting for you my friend. I’m excited for your journey ahead. Let’s keep growing together!
Wow! Your channel is truly inspiring! You're eloquent and relatable!
This video was very helpful! It confirmed and helped me move forward decluttering in other areas of my life. Thank you!❤
Brilliant and eloquent video. I love how you phrase everything. Even your words are well chosen and thought out.
Excellent.
Thank you for this message it was truly open and genuine, wishing you and your family well.
Watched a couple of your vids. I knew i had to subscribe when you mentioned you have a fam and still managed to stay ckutter free. Thank you for these videos! It's possible when you are intentional!
Hello Ronald. Totally love your videos. Great advice. Any plans to publish a book of your views and life lessons? How about a TedX talk?
Ten years ago I acquired a delightful Modernist-style white metal coffee table. A few months later, I had to move and could not take the coffee table with me, so I had to sell it. As I saw it leave with its new owner, I had an epiphany: it is your objects that define you, but the type of objects that you love that do. I am still a person who enjoys whimsical furniture with a minimalist touch, and that is what defines me, not the actual stuff that I have. What we like, what we enjoy, what we find useful, what drives us and are passionate about - that is what defines us
This is already the best decluttering video and I'm only a couple minutes in.
Thank you for putting out such great NEEDED video content. I find your videos to be informative and very inspiring. Keep up the good work and I look forward to many more ideas, tips and advice you have to offer. Much appreciation
Great thoughts here! I always enjoy what you share!😊
Nine whole months! Wow! An expert!
Yes, a nine month infant is not 'staying decluttered with kids'
Always empowering to hear what your insights are on decluttering our lives. Thank you once again! 💚😊💚
"Capsule wardrobe baby addition", brilliant! You could easily monetize that and create a baby clothing market niche. How about labeling 2nd hand baby clothes (used/thrifted) as "Vintage". This is a such a great idea!
thank you for what you do...
We also minimize on kids stuff - we have a toddler and grandparents who love to spoil (we're working on that haha). But we love having a small selection of really great, age appropriate toys, as well as our baby capsule wardrobe (1 drawer of clothes fit for the current and upcoming season). Great video!
When I was to become a grandparent, my daughter asked that the stuff I wanted to buy for my granddaughter stay at my house. It keeps me from buying too much, keeps her small house to cluttered and gives my granddaughter a special set of toys and clothes at my house. Maybe that will help the grandparents when they want to buy things. I love it because my daughter doesn’t have to bring anything to my house, because we have it here.
We asked the grandparents to buy the kids experiences rather than things. Swimming pool memberships, tickets to the theater, punch pass at rock climbing center etc.
Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there, I’m still in process of decluttering, but I’ll get there very soon. Thanks for the video. 👍🏻
I value you the perspective you have shared. Thank you for this very much.
Just found your videos. You have a great and very accessible communication style. Thank you. Bringing my husband on board…
Brilliant as always Love the idea of minimalist is more than physical things.
Congratulations 🎉
Happy for your growing family ❤
Love watching your videos.
I do like the video, and believe it is a good list of 'lies'. However, the 1st one "It is not just about the physical stuff", while probably true, I think physical stuff was the right place to start for me. Physical clutter kept me busy enough that I never had time to look at other areas of my life that were a mess, and as I decluttered my physical environment I started to have enough time to see other areas that needed work.
Love content on decluttering. There are many good ones. But your approach resonates with me and by far my favorite of all.
The speaker discusses debunking misconceptions about decluttering, emphasizing holistic decluttering, managing clutter with kids, maintaining personal style, identity, and understanding the true cost of holding onto possessions.
Happy Father’s Day
Your ideas are interesting and I'm sure they work for many but this is not for me.
I want to enjoy my belongings because I'm sentimental and seeing things brings me happiness.
Your home looks beautiful but to me it does look a little boring.
It would be great for your child to see color, it's a part of development.
What will he have to remember you and the many places you've been to and things you did together.
When my son comes to my house, that will one day be his, it's like going back in time for him. He takes his 3 yr old son I into his room and shows him his toys even from when he was 3. It means a lot to him.
I have antiques that have been in my family who cherished them as well as myself.
I remember stories that my grandmother and mother told me about the item.
I don't have a color scheme all over the house with the exception of furniture and curtains being similar in color.
I'm not a neat freak but I am a germ freak. I have clean clutter lol
I'll be 61 in December and I know I need to get rid of "stuff" for many reasons.
Sometimes I feel overwhelmed but many, many times I experience joyful and happy feelings.
I've told my son when I die to get rid of anything he didn't like or means nothing to him. I think knowing he has my permission to let it go will make it guilt free.
I guess every home and person likes what they like. Personal things reflects the person.
Good luck with your beautiful clutter free home and mind but it would be nice if you at least had black and white framed selected photos on your wall. It's part of your life.
❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for your video!
These are great ideas. With 1 newborn though, I don’t know if you’re quite ready to talk about kid clutter.
okay thats it, i have to binge watch your entire channel
So glad to have found your channel. Hope to start my journey soon. 👏👏
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Very motivating ❤
You are so welcome my friend!!
Ah. Very much looking forward to seeing how all this holds up under a kid honestly. Also have NO RESPECT from other family members or help in the house often. Makes a huge difference
I'm interested to see how your minimalism lifestyle is impacted when the kid grows! I'm sure there are tons of things newborns and toddlers don't really need, but I think at some point kids start to want certain things and of course you don't want to give them everything they want, but some things start to become important to them as individuals. I guess moderation is key here, wouldn't want to force kids to be more minimalist than what is comfortable to them, and at the same time it's okay to put some boundaries in place regarding stuff.
Thanks for sharing such amazing content and wisdom with the masses. Quick question? Where did you find your white square storage dressers at? I've been in search of a great storage that's sleek and clean appearance. Thank you immensely! God Bless!
The white storage dresser in my son’s room and the one behind me in my videos is from IKEA. It’s their Besta Collection that we custom configured to fit our needs. You can do so much with them and it’s affordable so you’re not breaking the bank.
@@RonaldLBanks Thank you immensely! Hope you received the resources...I think it might have been deleted. Sharing is caring.
Amazing content. Thank you
The more you own, the more that owns you. For everyone there is a harmony and balance that comes with owning stuff. I keep possessions to remind me of experiences. However on the flip side, just like you had your clothes and kicks I have that same problem with hats so now it's time to declutter. Onward! haha.
Got you there, Ronald. I never even used a stroller. 😂 But years later, I do have something of an open-ended toy store. 🙃 Nice vid. 💯
Emotional currency is such a topic for great dialogue. If you ever skip through Colorado I'm curious if you would do a round robin at a coffee shop about minimalism and decluttering. 🙃
I was just in Colorado Springs with my family at the end of May. Took my son hiking…. I’d love to schedule some meet ups at coffee shops in various cities. Would be great meeting you all and chatting about minimalism.
@@RonaldLBanks Please start with Colorado again and Denver too if possible! 🙂
Then Austin, TX:)
I'm an MIP (minimalist in progress) & I have never seen a video about minimalism with a baby. It's brilliant! Love your point of view bc you're absolutely right, there's no reason why minimalism can't work w/ a baby in the home. Wish I knew that when my kids were babies!!
The problem with decluttering is that it becomes a hobby. Sure some people have so much clutter it affects their lives and brings down their quality of life. However, it gives them something new to do as they go through their stuff, finds ways to sell it, give it away, and donate it. When it is all done, the hobby is over, there is nothing more to declutter and you are left with a much more empty living space. Then all the declutter activity is over, the hobby is over, the activity is over leaving an empty time and if you have not spent the mental time to decide how you will live your life after the clutter, you are more likely to go back to gaining stuff to fill the active time you now have.
I love minimalist mom if you have not seen her content. She has a lot of kids lol. She's mastered it. Her home is also colorful.
I could not live without colorful art on my walls. Lots of it.
Great content.
Great video, good reminders. Thanks Ron
Thanks Ronald 😊
my home as a minimalist is 99% white 1% light wood 😂 , if you ask me why , because I love it this way 😊 . Don't try to understand it ,( just like I can't understand how someone would live in a space with colourful decor because to me it is overwhelming and it will drive me crazy ) but just appreciate that we are all different 😉😊
Great video! Thank You! 🙏
Even the colour scheme of the video is minimalist. 😆 I'm still decluttering.
I love this!!!❤
I love that you loved it! Thanks for watching my friend!
Thank you for your time and content 😊