Even if it lasts with the new supply, the cycles are taking place within the relationship. Love bomb, devalue,discard,hoover or Love bomb, sustained devaluation, respite periods,emotional( not physical) discard, hoover-Rinse repeat-Very sad people.
I’ve always heard this, but wow, I just found out yesterday that my ex after just a couple weeks has a new woman and she is definitely out of his league with what I know of her and I’ve heard she’s had a couple other bad relationships. It’s a wonder she didn’t spot him a mile away, but he has that power charm that can probably mesmerize anyone it’s all fake don’t know if his mask will slip on this one
With these kind of people, it’s not a matter of forgiving but of gratitude. Be thankful your eyes opened to what was happening, and live your life without another tear shed about them nor hoping they will change and come back. It’s a one-sided, abusive, codependent, dead end relationship. Best to everyone out there. Heal and believe real love will find you.
yes, he had me convinced to marry him and Im glad my instinct kicked in, not to know just weeks after our break up he’s with someone else after he said he could never trust another woman again it wouldn’t be in a relationship😂😂
Yes another thing to be grateful of is No more narcissistic psychopath with dementia as they age and cancer.... they can have those too on a silver platter. Have you ever seen bitter old people? That's where they are all heading. You don't want to be hanging out with them. And even if you stay in the relationship...you will never be one really because the truth is...they will have alot of supplies available wherever they impulsively decide. You will waste energy on every girl he comes across as anyone can be a potential supply. He's Like the snake 🐍 mesmerized by all the mouse in the cornfield. Hes a predator. Let him enjoy the unwanted easy pests. You are more than that.
I wish I would have found material like this instead of the "how to get your ex to want you back" videos. I was SO CONFUSED and it made it extremely difficult to process it all, find closure alone and get over it. Now that I finally understand what a Narcissist is I feel like I can finally FULLY heal from all of this. And I suppose that was her intent all along
I wish they would all go live on a huge island together where they can never get off and just drive each other crazy and leave the rest of us alone. Where’s the genie when you need him
I've kicked her out as she's been cheating on me n the lies.she got stuff her stuff in my house.i really don't want to talk or see her but think ll bite the bullet n then I'm done with her.ill block her on media.its a mess she created for me
You really can “feel them” somehow. This is because it’s a spiritual attachment and their evil spirits keep up on us. That’s exactly why they know when to hoover and when you are either vulnerable or are pulling away. They have a spiritual sense akin to the spiritual sense that believers in Christ have. There is power in the darkness, too, just not equal to the light. It’s all spiritual, friends.
I needed to read this I'm feeling that right now. Like I can't get her off my mind. Trying to find out what that means because I'm done never going back. I feel weak when I think of her nonstop. I feel like a hoover attempt is coming. I pray to Jesus everyday that this soul tie severes
Thank you. That makes a lot of sense. I am just haunted by this feeling of they are still around and still watching. The first year of the split after 28 years with this narc was fantastic. I was alive and doing the house up all by myself. I very rarely have him a thought. I couldn’t really grasp his level of cruelty and the financial abuse and he took my two younger teenage children with him so he could get housing and use them. Then when I was told by one of his friends that he has got a girlfriend it just made me feel so down. I don’t understand why I feel like that. It was such a relief not to be stonewalled lied to and bullied. But since that I have felt on edge. I feel watched. I think it was an attempt to triangulate me with her.
Thank you so much for your invaluable information. You are spot on about everything. The most insidious part of a narcs trying to keep in contact with the ex when they have someone new is that they do it because they already know the new supply has a shelf life, that whatever “relationship” is being created is not permanent and there will be discarding at some point. HORRIBLE!
My experience w a Narc was that their childhood/upbringing was centered around the Narc being a golden child and could do NO wrong. I believe being raised that you’re entitled, very special, superior, talented and smarter than others contributes to someone becoming a narcissistic as well.
My narc ex told me that his parents didn’t treat him the same as his siblings when he was growing up. He said they made a difference by treating them better than him. 5:03
I knew one that had a terrible childhood according to her with a lot of childhood traumas and SA. She said her parents weren’t around much so a lot of things happened. I guess overtime using her childhood story and telling them to people was getting her attention and validation. She implied it made people care and want to do things for her. That’s fine I can understand to an extent… however, why did I have to pay the price and mental breakdowns for what the world did to you? Why did I have to be the one to get blamed for things I never did to you? Why did you make me fight for your love, knowing I never had a chance to ever get you back? -All this time the answer was simple. She was a narcissist. She never cared for my love and never respected me. I was just there to be used for whatever she needed. When I found that out I called her out on it and walked off. 7 years of blame for things I didn’t do and mental torment for what? I am worthy, never again will I allow this upon me!
The narcissist I was with said his mother would always say he was talking crazy and he was bullied at school so he dropped out and began of life of women and alcohol. He has little to no self esteem and that makes a man worthless.
They aren't sure the new supply will measure up. They have difficulty understanding their and everyone else's feelings( alexithymia). Did they make the right decision maybe they should come back to you. They want you to think they have moved on..it's part of the illusion. It's a competition.
ANOT 1:47 HER PERSON WHO DID A COMMENT ON ONE OF THE OTHER VIDEOS SAID THIS: NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR SHOULD BE PROSECUTED AS A FELONY. I COULDN'T AGREE MORE!!
We gained more than we lost removing them for our lives. Get off social media, block them and put yourself back together. Your in a better place now! In time you will get your self worth and love back. Dont focus on your ex anymore let go and put the focus in your own growth.
You get used to that horrible energy attachment and you end up making sure your logic steps up to the plate and never let contact happen. It is much like being chased by a devil where you know that your future depends on your resistance. It does get easier over time. Just think of them banging other people and use that thought to stay well clear, pat yourself on the back that they will never touch your body again.
Thanks for advice... it's really hard and heavy this horrible energy attachment.. pain in the chest, hole in the soul, bleeding heart, restless in the mind, tears in the eyes... like it will never pass 😥
@@lydiaqny you aren't alone in this, it is extreme anxiety from the dopamine levels in the brain - the narc trained you to depend on the hits. Like with any addiction, the only thing to do is ride out the cold turkey.. The next part that happens is you will start to feel extreme anger, which is what is needed to get you on the path to healing - it will happen. You are a survivor, the fact you are looking for answers is proof. Baby steps, every day is another step forward, you can do it ♥️
@@pallasathena1369 exactly right, the very fact that you looking for answers tells you that you knew there was something wrong. You are finding you're own closure, baby steps indeed. Well said...
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..
I feel her energy BIG TIME! I don't block my ex narc on SM because I WANT her to "watch" ME having fun, enjoying life, smiling, laughing and having fun with my friends! She can watch all she wants to!! 🤣😂🤣😂😁🤙
It's cause you STILL care! When you stop caring you wouldn't want them to know anything about you even if they were blind and all they could do was hear it!
No social media, changed email, phone abd addresses. Blocked the in-laws. He had no friends or work colleagues. He doesn't know after I left when he discarded me, anything about me. I understand about the energy exchange, but he can't do anything with it. I'm getting better and stronger and thinking of him less and less everyday and moving on the best I can. Eventually, he will be a memory.
My ex does that. Emotionless staring at me. I never noticed before, as in the early months post-divorce, I avoided or ignored him heavily Gradually we've attended family events at the same time, and while I still mostly ignore him and his stupid antics with the grandkids, I have caught that stare several times now. I hate it. And he already has a new girlfriend.....he should be paying attention to her, instead of looking for a reaction from me, for his having begun to bring her to every family event.
I did not respond to him for 8 months, so he called me from a different number and acted like nothing happened😂 he was moving so fast asking me, .. where are you now ?" Let's meet for a coffee today😂 i said," Man, I forgot you already. I don't want any coffee with you. Just get lost, please🙏 so he texted me after the conversation, and I blocked the new number again !!! Be careful with them ! Sick individuals🤮
I have blocked him on everything and deleted his numbers so their is no way he will ever be able to come back to me ever again. I feel blessed that I was strong enough to save myself🙏I am so grateful to myself
I had never had an experience with a narcissist before. After being discarded I did a lot of work on myself. Then I came across your video and WOW! THANK YOU SO MUCH! I see them for what they are now and thank goodness I didn't end up getting hoovered. I was finally able to heal without closure. THANK YOU AGAIN!
Mine never got rid of his ex wanted us to have every holiday together. You figure it out. I was told to ask his ex and daughter about holidays. I told him he was crazy. They never let go of their main supply
So true, even though they are gone their aura remains. It's in my brain, I'm realizing it's from years on gaslighting, manipulation and fear. My nervous system has changed to adapt to her, even though she is gone by me discarding her, my body and mind could no longer take it. What is amazing me is now I'm realizing the damage to my mind as I'm healing, its makes me sick to my stomach, these relationships will kill you eventually. No contact like your life depends on it, never again, never.
You feel energy because you are a true empath with sensitive emotions and you can switch it to something or someone else instead of the x narc,,,, live your best life without a narc.🙂
Videos like this have helped me more than my psychiatrist, or any therapist I've ever had, and by far more than the therapist I had during the last 7 or 8 years of my marriage.
All it is is copy/paste with the new supply. Different person, same behaviours. Narcs don’t change, ever. I’m glad I’m out. One day she will understand why I left him.
I’m so lucky! My narc came back for a couple months after telling people lies about me so when she betrayed me very shortly after I just forwarded her love bomb texts to the people she told she was done with me and she thought she would basically use me till she had a new supply so all the people found out she was back with me after talking so much crap. It felt great! And now for sure she’ll stay away because she’s been outed! Lol
there's a name for this--I forget--and a treatment. create a ceremony where you physically enact breaking the karmic bonds that tie you to him. repeat as often as necessary. the ho'oponopono chant, for example. pray for divine protection, to be surrounded by light that keeps you from harm or danger.
I 100% agree. There are times when I can feel HEAVILY that my ex is trying to energetically reel me in to contact him or to just make me thing about him so he can feel that energetic power and control. I am SO happy I found God toward the end of that relationship. He protects me from all of his demonic tactics whenever I feel him trying to get into my head. My ex is absolutely the type to stay silent and "wait people out" so you end up reverse hovering since he is so good at making you feel like you have 0 importance to him. Such a sad life to live. I'm pretty sure he wen't back to his ex from before me. He devalued her to me sometimes then sometimes told me she was better than me in other ways. They really do hold onto all of their exes in some ways. Comparing them all. It's been 6 months out and he texted me happy b day but that's it and I just said I wish you well. He will eventually start comparing and "missing" my supply over his ex then want me then want her then possibly a new supply. They recycle as much as they can unless they are cut off.
Hey i just wanted to say that im very thankfull for your videos.. having a hard time the last months and often fell like im standing at the edge and i have often tears in my eyes when im watching your videos but you with every video you give me an new power to go on and help me to get over my childhood traumas
I'm rooting for you too! We gotta stick together and know that others feel YOUR pain too - as I do. Stay strong....WE are in this fight together. ....stay strong my friend. 🙏
Stay strong hun, you are not alone . I just got discarded after 3 years no contact he hoovered me and i fell for it . I thot i had healed and thot i will never fall for the bait but i did . I have literally wasted 15 years with this jerk.
I know mine is still watching me by communicating with people I interact with. I'm done! I am going to disappear from his radar. Disconnect with people we have connections with. Staying off social media. He will never be really happy.
You're advice is absolutely spot on. I had suspicions of my ex girlfriend and her behaviors and after watching quite a few of your videos it just substantiated though stocks that I had about her. She absolutely turned my world upside down and now that life is in the rear view mirror and lately she has been making Surprise appearances and I suspect trying to entice me back. She is psychotic and needs help. By the grace of God I am in therapy and my compass has been set in the right direction. I still pray for heard find the happiness And peace that she is desperately searching for
I spent a year trying to fix my engagement with my nEx after I found out she was cheating on me. I finally got free only to be repeatedly contacted then hoovered back in 2 months later. 7 months later I'm still trying to get out!! When you get out, stay out people!!
I am hurting so badly right now guys - my narc ex has moved on with a new improved younger version of me... I feel like I have been used up and spit out.. I don't know how long this pain is going to continue, and I wish I could just grab onto someone like my ex did.. ANY advice or words of encouragement are truly appreciated
It’s a blessing, you are still too close to it to realize how awful and hell ish it is Stay strong! You deserve better and not to worry/ he will toss her anyway. They constantly look for the next shiny thing. You dodged a bullet!!!!
Unfortunately there are two realities. 1. You do find another, and you may feel somewhat happy, but not really. 2. You do the most difficult thing and figure out how to heal, and eventually, someday in the future, you will receive such a deep seated happiness that is worth all the pain you must go through to get there. A lot of people actually miss out on the opportunity to really get to know themselves and what they truly want that will bring them the utmost satisfaction. It’s personal counseling that you may learn. Learn how to be okay, without someone dictating even a part of your life. You set the stage, your the main character, then the world becomes your oyster, all because you complete yourself.
I been where you are. I was in love with him. Then he quit me then he would pick me up again, and dump me pick me and dump me again. I didn’t know what was going on. This went on for years. I felt like a fool then and I feel a fool now. It hurts like hell. I was in love with him. But all he did was hurt me and talk down to me and used me when I know I am a good person. I cried for many nights. When he would ignore me or blocked my calls. After I finally realized I was nothing special to him, I started praying and asking God to move him out of my life and it is working. I don’t long for that demon anymore. I don’t cry anymore for someone who left me hanging with feelings I didn’t know what to do with. All I hope is one day he get a hold of some woman who will treat him the same way he did me or worse. Pray and it will get better.
I am 71 years old and the lady that I was with is 70. I believe that she is a narcissist, covert, narcissist, maybe. She shows no emotion. We broke up and went back together, many times, and she said it was always my fault. We’ve been apart for eight months, she is involved with a guy who was remodeling her basement. Same age as me I cannot stop thinking about her. Wondering what she’s doing with him. I’m going crazy.
It is incorrectly presented that narcissists - in their uniquely toxic way - won’t give closure. Closure for me is when I’m ghosted. I learned, goodbye
That is the reason I deleted all text, photo’s etc so the person is out of my life. Blocked all the persons who are connected with here on total social media. Next all connection request with new unknown people on social media deleting
Your spot on ,my soon to be ex had already many girlfriends and it doesn't last. I did not had any contact for over 3 years and waiting on my divorce after 38 years.i am getting better every day and start enjoying my freedom . thank you Anushka you a my biggest help for the last 3 years.
The end is when you decide, we have all the power really. Block them go no contact and stop looking back. The word of God states "forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth to those things which are before, I press towards the mark of the high calling which is in Christ Jesus". Stay encouraged.
I lost a connection with 3 kids that I loved. Hoping I can fix myself and my life so I can continue to be a positive influence to them. And learn to brush off the constant attacks from my ex.
I did the same I felt I had to stop talking to her to feel myself again but I'm waiting to get in child support to see my daughter.. she thought I would still help her with her new supply lol she thought I would be oh I still love you anything you want even though your with someone else lol
Yes I believed you about energy when he is thinking about me! I can sense it and I know he can sense my anger too!!! He is totally blocked from all of social media, phone and all types of communication! But he still stalked me, flying monkeys and he still come to the area where I live!
Would love to do a live with you. This is such an important subject that so many people still don't recognize or understand. Keep doing all your great work♥️
This literally happened with me. He was moving on with someone while still wanna be around and maniuplating me. That was point i blocked him and guess what he stills wanted to show me he is around
100% correct. I never thought any of this could be true, because it didn't make any sense whatsoever. I think one of my best friends put it best... "Stop trying to understand crazy, or you'll drive yourself there."
Thank you for all support,its so difficult to comprehend,my Narc went back to her ex husband after being married to me for 21 years,and yes now i have time to reflect,she was keeping in touch overtly with her ex inlaws, xmas cards,birthday cards etc.... and i even delivered them and gave her ex father uinlaw a job.....i feel such a fool......but i am out now and doing the work to heal.....you are a insparation Anouska.
They stalk, harrass, me. They placed undetectable spyware on my phone, watching everything I do. Its creepy, & it caused me 2500 to replace my connected devices, & still.stalk me. Thank you for your help, with all your videos.
Thanks Anoushka this is another wake up call for me. An ex colleague blocked me 6 yrs ago communication became very intense. Before watching videos on narcissism I was led down the twin flame journey thinking this person was my twin flame but reality has kicked in and I realized it was a narcissist empath dynamic type of connection because I started feeling negative vibes from this person and it left me feeling lots of guilt, unworthiness lack of confidence, not enough lots of mixed emotions and doubt has kicked in. This person got married 5 year yrs ago and I have not spoken to this person since 6 yrs but I still feel this energy and connected like he stalks and watches me secretly and talks about me to other colleagues! I feel constantly why i never get any closure and I feel its not fair but then realize I will never get that from this person! 😊💖😇🙏.
The ignoring kills them as I recently found out. He used someone else’s phone to pretend he was a woman named Linda and text me asking who I was that my phone number was somehow in their phone but did not know who I was. They asked for my name to see if they knew me. I said they had the wrong number but they kept asking my name, why?? Because I’m no contact with my ex and when he recently tried to connect with me I IGNORED HIM. He was literally checking to see if I had purposely Ignored his attempt to communicate!
Belive me I though i was winning I was like wow look how good looking charming and single he was boy was I wrong that's why it doesn't hurt as much if he's with someone else I heard he treated every girl horrible good riddance
That’s what I did ignore him and still do but he continues. Why can’t he go in another day on the weekend. I know there is no love it’s a competition with themselves.
Mine is truly not watching me. I am inaccessible. We moved provinces together, when I left him, I moved back to my home province. He is blocked on everything, my profiles are private if it’s a fake one and I don’t even share much via social media. We have no mutual connections. And my family would NEVER respond to him if he reached out.
Please tell me he will be the same with the girl his parents will arrange for him to marry. Currently he playing with lonely vulnerable older women who are easy pray. How about when there is familial and societal accountability?
I understand what you're saying and i believe the energy link is real, but i believe that the narcissist that I dealt with, is completely done with me. When it comes to supply, I am at the bottom of the barrel. She thrives off of supply that gives her money, gifts, vacations and material supply. In return, she gives her them sex bc she believes sex is her love language. She also moved out, blocked me on facebook and is having the time of her life. I am going to rise above it and keep moving forward. This may happen to others, but I believe I have pushed the narcissist away.
I appreciate this community so much at this time in my life. I'm 35 and going through a 15yr break up. Its very hard and exhausting. not talking, thinking, or seeing this person after so many years is so very hard. I must say I feel like I've had a stroke some mornings. Some of his last words to me were "I'm still very much in love with you but the other person will help me run my trucks if something happens to me. But she wont help me if I'm with you, she wants me to be with her. I have to see if I can make it work with her." I feel very lost right now in my life. I don't know if I'm coming or going. Wrong or right in this situation. Its just me and our autistic son now. Everyday seems like a mountain that I have to battle alone. Its sad so say that I feel I can only truly heal if he's dead or someone hurts him as much as he's hurt me. I don't take joy in having these emotions. I don't like having these feelings about a person that I loved unconditionally. Apart of me doesn't want to be here anymore.
One day when chemicals get settle down in your brqin post abuse... it will take you to a new direction in life. 6 months it will start to get better. Just no contact. Focus on diverting thoughts to positive things..even extremely minute finding your inner child again
I am sorry you feel that way .... but when it hurts please pray to God , yell , curse and let it out. Don't suppress your emotions, try and sit with them , give yourself time to mourn and place a deadline to end the mourning too and start picking pieces and mending you. I have been discarded for the 10th time in 15 years. I am disappointed in my self for letting him hoover me and love bomb me because 3 years I have lived without him and felt at peace . Then met them 3 weeks ago and just went back and now he is gone again. This he says he is going because he can't deal with the fact that I might have been intimate with other people during the 3 year period . Total bullshit , he no longer has use for me. So I have to run now and not look back , do the same . You are not alone
12 years ago I was the new supply. I know this in retrospect. I see all the signs now to me as then to her ex. I don't even care...what does that say? 4:42
I never realised I was with a narcissist until she left me, she left me because I had 1 glass of southern comfort and lemonade on a week day and she had told me I shouldn’t drink in the week so when I did she said I was on a slippery slope and started to make me think I was an alcoholic. She also left me because I went back to my old job that she hated for no reason. I could t wrap my head around why she would leave me for these reasons but now it makes sense. We loved together in her house and she kicked me out and was back on dating sites 2 weeks later. Really really messed me up until I started watching your videos and others. Thank you
Had this recently, it's devastating.... The love Bombing was heaven, the devaluation was horrific and the discard came totally out of the blue.....following me setting a single boundary of "please don't contact X's while in a relationship with me".....turns out she had loads of X's that were her supply 💪 Destroyed me, but I move on....x
The more I learn about these narcissistic people the less I care about them.
Same
"people" lol no demons
I see them a very where now.. I now have little tolerance for them
Amen!!!
Same
My condolences to the new supply.
Some of those side chicks are getting what they deserve.
Looolll 😂😂😂
My ex-Narc new supply knew that she was cheating on me. No condolences from me. You reap what you sow.
Well said 😂😂😄😄😆😆
Amen!
The only thing you lost was a huge nasty problem ..be thankful you're blessed! And now you know what to avoid
Thanks for the reminder
Said beautifully ❤
NASTY 🤮🤮🤮🤮 sickening problem
Amen
Amen
Thank you new supply for my FREEDOM!!!
Exactly, well said
Amen
Omg… I never really thot of it that way. It does make it easier if he isn’t texting / calling me because he is concentrating on her. Whew!!
Don't ever take them back , they feel they can do whatever they want.
We didn’t loose we gained peace ✌🏼
If we lost,then we lost trash. How wonderful
Through them we desire finding our own inner child when we reach then healing stage from trauma.
Yes.. we did😅
@@christoffeljongwa192 lmao 🤣 exactly
What are they doing ? I DON'T WANT TO KNOW
Don’t take away the satisfaction of letting the new supply find out for themselves..
Totally !
Experience is a good teacher
Nobody told me soooo, congrats MF
Yeah but I feel for them in a way.
My ex can’t keep a female. Pathetic
They wouldn’t listen regardless
They can't stand being ignored but can ignore the heck out of you...interesting. These people are unbelievable.
Or flip if you even talk about another man, or ex, but serial cheat
Their beyond mind twisting!! After 12 yrs til I got out 4 yrs ago... if I run into him here & there just being the room with him is draining 😮😂😱
Mine went ballistic when I referred to mutual friend as beautiful in a group chat
Yup
Absolutely!
Even if it lasts with the new supply, the cycles are taking place within the relationship. Love bomb, devalue,discard,hoover or Love bomb, sustained devaluation, respite periods,emotional( not physical) discard, hoover-Rinse repeat-Very sad people.
Absolutely
What is rinse?
@@patralichatterjee9953like a washing machine, they work in neverending cycles; wash, rinse, repeat until the supply is empty and broken
I’ve always heard this, but wow, I just found out yesterday that my ex after just a couple weeks has a new woman and she is definitely out of his league with what I know of her
and I’ve heard she’s had a couple other bad relationships. It’s a wonder she didn’t spot him a mile away, but he has that power charm that can probably mesmerize anyone it’s all fake don’t know if his mask will slip on this one
ABSOLUTELY!!!
With these kind of people, it’s not a matter of forgiving but of gratitude. Be thankful your eyes opened to what was happening, and live your life without another tear shed about them nor hoping they will change and come back. It’s a one-sided, abusive, codependent, dead end relationship. Best to everyone out there. Heal and believe real love will find you.
yes, he had me convinced to marry him and Im glad my instinct kicked in, not to know just weeks after our break up he’s with someone else after he said he could never trust another woman again it wouldn’t be in a relationship😂😂
Yes another thing to be grateful of is
No more narcissistic psychopath with dementia as they age and cancer.... they can have those too on a silver platter.
Have you ever seen bitter old people? That's where they are all heading. You don't want to be hanging out with them. And even if you stay in the relationship...you will never be one really because the truth is...they will have alot of supplies available wherever they impulsively decide. You will waste energy on every girl he comes across as anyone can be a potential supply. He's Like the snake 🐍 mesmerized by all the mouse in the cornfield. Hes a predator. Let him enjoy the unwanted easy pests.
You are more than that.
Thank you
I agree with you, there is so much to enjoy in life that I will enjoy the things that I get to moving forward.
I know you are right. Narcopaths are stalkers. They just can’t believe that YOU have gone and succeeded!
I wish I would have found material like this instead of the "how to get your ex to want you back" videos. I was SO CONFUSED and it made it extremely difficult to process it all, find closure alone and get over it. Now that I finally understand what a Narcissist is I feel like I can finally FULLY heal from all of this. And I suppose that was her intent all along
God bless you, seek God for help.
It’s called evolution baby. Keep growing. Things in the universe can’t make their way to you if you don’t open your heart and spirit up for them.
I wish they would all go live on a huge island together where they can never get off and just drive each other crazy and leave the rest of us alone. Where’s the genie when you need him
It's funny The Narcissist I have to deal with her name is Jeannie LOL
I wish I could quit her.
I can feel that energy even now over 3 years later. Unbelievable
Bryce me too man
Same here. But I am reminding myself I am out of that toxic relationship.
Me too
Soul ties
same
I forgave my ex not for her but for me. I put it all down and walk away.
Are you doing better now?
I've kicked her out as she's been cheating on me n the lies.she got stuff her stuff in my house.i really don't want to talk or see her but think ll bite the bullet n then I'm done with her.ill block her on media.its a mess she created for me
You really can “feel them” somehow. This is because it’s a spiritual attachment and their evil spirits keep up on us. That’s exactly why they know when to hoover and when you are either vulnerable or are pulling away. They have a spiritual sense akin to the spiritual sense that believers in Christ have. There is power in the darkness, too, just not equal to the light. It’s all spiritual, friends.
@@brianrossiter6427 What a load of rubbish lol it's a personality disorder from childhood..Nothing tk do with man made fairy tales
I needed to read this I'm feeling that right now. Like I can't get her off my mind. Trying to find out what that means because I'm done never going back. I feel weak when I think of her nonstop. I feel like a hoover attempt is coming. I pray to Jesus everyday that this soul tie severes
Thank you. That makes a lot of sense. I am just haunted by this feeling of they are still around and still watching. The first year of the split after 28 years with this narc was fantastic. I was alive and doing the house up all by myself. I very rarely have him a thought. I couldn’t really grasp his level of cruelty and the financial abuse and he took my two younger teenage children with him so he could get housing and use them. Then when I was told by one of his friends that he has got a girlfriend it just made me feel so down. I don’t understand why I feel like that. It was such a relief not to be stonewalled lied to and bullied. But since that I have felt on edge. I feel watched. I think it was an attempt to triangulate me with her.
Thank you so much for your invaluable information. You are spot on about everything. The most insidious part of a narcs trying to keep in contact with the ex when they have someone new is that they do it because they already know the new supply has a shelf life, that whatever “relationship” is being created is not permanent and there will be discarding at some point. HORRIBLE!
They need someone to make miserable to make themselves feel better and they don't want to abuse the new supply yet.
My experience w a Narc was that their childhood/upbringing was centered around the Narc being a golden child and could do NO wrong. I believe being raised that you’re entitled, very special, superior, talented and smarter than others contributes to someone becoming a narcissistic as well.
And Bipolar...
My narc ex told me that his parents didn’t treat him the same as his siblings when he was growing up. He said they made a difference by treating them better than him. 5:03
I knew one that had a terrible childhood according to her with a lot of childhood traumas and SA. She said her parents weren’t around much so a lot of things happened. I guess overtime using her childhood story and telling them to people was getting her attention and validation. She implied it made people care and want to do things for her.
That’s fine I can understand to an extent… however, why did I have to pay the price and mental breakdowns for what the world did to you? Why did I have to be the one to get blamed for things I never did to you? Why did you make me fight for your love, knowing I never had a chance to ever get you back?
-All this time the answer was simple. She was a narcissist. She never cared for my love and never respected me. I was just there to be used for whatever she needed. When I found that out I called her out on it and walked off. 7 years of blame for things I didn’t do and mental torment for what? I am worthy, never again will I allow this upon me!
The narcissist I was with said his mother would always say he was talking crazy and he was bullied at school so he dropped out and began of life of women and alcohol. He has little to no self esteem and that makes a man worthless.
They aren't sure the new supply will measure up. They have difficulty understanding their and everyone else's feelings( alexithymia). Did they make the right decision maybe they should come back to you. They want you to think they have moved on..it's part of the illusion. It's a competition.
ANOT 1:47 HER PERSON WHO DID A COMMENT ON ONE OF THE OTHER VIDEOS SAID THIS: NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR SHOULD BE PROSECUTED AS A FELONY. I COULDN'T AGREE MORE!!
@@ronaldschlager4888I fully agree!!!!
Can’t imagine how easily I was manipulated. Good thing I was still somewhat coherent in the end.
We gained more than we lost removing them for our lives. Get off social media, block them and put yourself back together. Your in a better place now! In time you will get your self worth and love back.
Dont focus on your ex anymore let go and put the focus in your own growth.
Ty I need this
Sorry, but I want revenge
You get used to that horrible energy attachment and you end up making sure your logic steps up to the plate and never let contact happen. It is much like being chased by a devil where you know that your future depends on your resistance. It does get easier over time. Just think of them banging other people and use that thought to stay well clear, pat yourself on the back that they will never touch your body again.
Thanks for advice... it's really hard and heavy this horrible energy attachment.. pain in the chest, hole in the soul, bleeding heart, restless in the mind, tears in the eyes... like it will never pass 😥
@@lydiaqny you aren't alone in this, it is extreme anxiety from the dopamine levels in the brain - the narc trained you to depend on the hits. Like with any addiction, the only thing to do is ride out the cold turkey.. The next part that happens is you will start to feel extreme anger, which is what is needed to get you on the path to healing - it will happen. You are a survivor, the fact you are looking for answers is proof. Baby steps, every day is another step forward, you can do it ♥️
@@pallasathena1369 exactly right, the very fact that you looking for answers tells you that you knew there was something wrong. You are finding you're own closure, baby steps indeed. Well said...
yuck, feel like i need to bathe in bleach
@@paddyh6530 nooo, they need to be boiled in bleach...
I definitely feel her energy. I promise, I won’t get back to her. I’m not going to be fooled by her anymore.
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..
I feel her energy BIG TIME! I don't block my ex narc on SM because I WANT her to "watch" ME having fun, enjoying life, smiling, laughing and having fun with my friends! She can watch all she wants to!!
🤣😂🤣😂😁🤙
That's what happens right before a Narcissist destroys you
Arent you the narc?
@@estelao.b.1473 no. 😁
It's cause you STILL care! When you stop caring you wouldn't want them to know anything about you even if they were blind and all they could do was hear it!
No social media, changed email, phone abd addresses. Blocked the in-laws. He had no friends or work colleagues. He doesn't know after I left when he discarded me, anything about me. I understand about the energy exchange, but he can't do anything with it. I'm getting better and stronger and thinking of him less and less everyday and moving on the best I can. Eventually, he will be a memory.
Thank God I got away from that psycho!!!
Please talk about their stare and smirks. I found one video about this and it is so true. They stare at you and do not smile.
The horrible stare black eyes evil !
Yeah why is that? The stare
My ex does that. Emotionless staring at me.
I never noticed before, as in the early months post-divorce, I avoided or ignored him heavily
Gradually we've attended family events at the same time, and while I still mostly ignore him and his stupid antics with the grandkids, I have caught that stare several times now.
I hate it.
And he already has a new girlfriend.....he should be paying attention to her, instead of looking for a reaction from me, for his having begun to bring her to every family event.
I've experienced the stare. I'm not sure what she is doing.
The strangest and most deranged of human beings narcissists are
I did not respond to him for 8 months, so he called me from a different number and acted like nothing happened😂 he was moving so fast asking me, .. where are you now ?" Let's meet for a coffee today😂 i said," Man, I forgot you already. I don't want any coffee with you. Just get lost, please🙏 so he texted me after the conversation, and I blocked the new number again !!! Be careful with them ! Sick individuals🤮
I always thought we were connected. Now I know better.
4 years post discard and even if im in a much better place in my healing, he still pops up in my dreams often.
I'm 3 months away but dream of her constantly.. randomly waking in sweats in the middle of the night
I can feel his energy I was thinking I was Crazy. He watches me.
I have blocked him on everything and deleted his numbers so their is no way he will ever be able to come back to me ever again. I feel blessed that I was strong enough to save myself🙏I am so grateful to myself
Never give up your worth!! Listen to those who have had similiar experiences and can help guide you to stronger friendships .
I can feel evil coming from them
I had never had an experience with a narcissist before. After being discarded I did a lot of work on myself. Then I came across your video and WOW! THANK YOU SO MUCH! I see them for what they are now and thank goodness I didn't end up getting hoovered. I was finally able to heal without closure. THANK YOU AGAIN!
Mine never got rid of his ex wanted us to have every holiday together. You figure it out. I was told to ask his ex and daughter about holidays. I told him he was crazy. They never let go of their main supply
So true, even though they are gone their aura remains. It's in my brain, I'm realizing it's from years on gaslighting, manipulation and fear. My nervous system has changed to adapt to her, even though she is gone by me discarding her, my body and mind could no longer take it. What is amazing me is now I'm realizing the damage to my mind as I'm healing, its makes me sick to my stomach, these relationships will kill you eventually. No contact like your life depends on it, never again, never.
And yes .. I FEEL her energy still
You feel energy because you are a true empath with sensitive emotions and you can switch it to something or someone else instead of the x narc,,,, live your best life without a narc.🙂
@@robin2319 Thank you. I needed this
@@celestemondlane8286 your very welcome . Same as me
Videos like this have helped me more than my psychiatrist, or any therapist I've ever had, and by far more than the therapist I had during the last 7 or 8 years of my marriage.
No one explains the narcissist’s mind as well as Anoushka does! I learn so much from listening to her. Thank you, Anoushka!
All it is is copy/paste with the new supply. Different person, same behaviours. Narcs don’t change, ever. I’m glad I’m out. One day she will understand why I left him.
My narc ex started dating my friend and said it was my fault because I had him blocked at the time 🤦🏻♀️ so lame … never took accountability
omg😮
Ugh.. 🤮
That’s so sad 🤮
They are evil
Same here
I hope his ex realized I was just an illusion like her, and all the ones before.....
Get out of that dark harem garage.
Amen.
I’m so lucky! My narc came back for a couple months after telling people lies about me so when she betrayed me very shortly after I just forwarded her love bomb texts to the people she told she was done with me and she thought she would basically use me till she had a new supply so all the people found out she was back with me after talking so much crap. It felt great! And now for sure she’ll stay away because she’s been outed! Lol
interesting.... i keep feeling his energies.... stressin me out -_-
there's a name for this--I forget--and a treatment. create a ceremony where you physically enact breaking the karmic bonds that tie you to him. repeat as often as necessary. the ho'oponopono chant, for example. pray for divine protection, to be surrounded by light that keeps you from harm or danger.
I 100% agree. There are times when I can feel HEAVILY that my ex is trying to energetically reel me in to contact him or to just make me thing about him so he can feel that energetic power and control. I am SO happy I found God toward the end of that relationship. He protects me from all of his demonic tactics whenever I feel him trying to get into my head. My ex is absolutely the type to stay silent and "wait people out" so you end up reverse hovering since he is so good at making you feel like you have 0 importance to him. Such a sad life to live. I'm pretty sure he wen't back to his ex from before me. He devalued her to me sometimes then sometimes told me she was better than me in other ways. They really do hold onto all of their exes in some ways. Comparing them all. It's been 6 months out and he texted me happy b day but that's it and I just said I wish you well. He will eventually start comparing and "missing" my supply over his ex then want me then want her then possibly a new supply. They recycle as much as they can unless they are cut off.
Hey i just wanted to say that im very thankfull for your videos.. having a hard time the last months and often fell like im standing at the edge and i have often tears in my eyes when im watching your videos but you with every video you give me an new power to go on and help me to get over my childhood traumas
I'm rooting for you too! We gotta stick together and know that others feel YOUR pain too - as I do. Stay strong....WE are in this fight together. ....stay strong my friend. 🙏
@@rclark7807 thank you for this lovely words
Stay strong hun, you are not alone . I just got discarded after 3 years no contact he hoovered me and i fell for it . I thot i had healed and thot i will never fall for the bait but i did . I have literally wasted 15 years with this jerk.
I know mine is still watching me by communicating with people I interact with. I'm done! I am going to disappear from his radar. Disconnect with people we have connections with. Staying off social media. He will never be really happy.
I hate that I was in a relationship like this God saved thank you God Amen
You're advice is absolutely spot on. I had suspicions of my ex girlfriend and her behaviors and after watching quite a few of your videos it just substantiated though stocks that I had about her. She absolutely turned my world upside down and now that life is in the rear view mirror and lately she has been making Surprise appearances and I suspect trying to entice me back. She is psychotic and needs help. By the grace of God I am in therapy and my compass has been set in the right direction. I still pray for heard find the happiness And peace that she is desperately searching for
I spent a year trying to fix my engagement with my nEx after I found out she was cheating on me. I finally got free only to be repeatedly contacted then hoovered back in 2 months later. 7 months later I'm still trying to get out!! When you get out, stay out people!!
You went back for the yum yum 😂
@@bluedogfish2 yes, yes I did. To be honest, it was pretty fvcking yummy! It just came at the cost of my health and well-being 🤣
I am hurting so badly right now guys - my narc ex has moved on with a new improved younger version of me... I feel like I have been used up and spit out..
I don't know how long this pain is going to continue, and I wish I could just grab onto someone like my ex did.. ANY advice or words of encouragement are truly appreciated
It’s a blessing, you are still too close to it to realize how awful and hell ish it is
Stay strong! You deserve better and not to worry/ he will toss her anyway. They constantly look for the next shiny thing. You dodged a bullet!!!!
Unfortunately there are two realities. 1. You do find another, and you may feel somewhat happy, but not really.
2. You do the most difficult thing and figure out how to heal, and eventually, someday in the future, you will receive such a deep seated happiness that is worth all the pain you must go through to get there.
A lot of people actually miss out on the opportunity to really get to know themselves and what they truly want that will bring them the utmost satisfaction. It’s personal counseling that you may learn. Learn how to be okay, without someone dictating even a part of your life. You set the stage, your the main character, then the world becomes your oyster, all because you complete yourself.
I been where you are. I was in love with him. Then he quit me then he would pick me up again, and dump me pick me and dump me again. I didn’t know what was going on. This went on for years. I felt like a fool then and I feel a fool now. It hurts like hell. I was in love with him. But all he did was hurt me and talk down to me and used me when I know I am a good person. I cried for many nights. When he would ignore me or blocked my calls. After I finally realized I was nothing special to him, I started praying and asking God to move him out of my life and it is working. I don’t long for that demon anymore. I don’t cry anymore for someone who left me hanging with feelings I didn’t know what to do with. All I hope is one day he get a hold of some woman who will treat him the same way he did me or worse. Pray and it will get better.
Mine to just got too hold your head up best thing is to just stay mad mad mad like they are below you and your r better than them
I am 71 years old and the lady that I was with is 70. I believe that she is a narcissist, covert, narcissist, maybe. She shows no emotion. We broke up and went back together, many times, and she said it was always my fault. We’ve been apart for eight months, she is involved with a guy who was remodeling her basement. Same age as me I cannot stop thinking about her. Wondering what she’s doing with him. I’m going crazy.
Same age as you. Very similar to your situation with new supply before the discard. She could give a flying F about me.
To be honest everyone hates to be ignored, not only the narcissist.
It is incorrectly presented that narcissists - in their uniquely toxic way - won’t give closure. Closure for me is when I’m ghosted. I learned, goodbye
That is the reason I deleted all text, photo’s etc so the person is out of my life. Blocked all the persons who are connected with here on total social media. Next all connection request with new unknown people on social media deleting
Your spot on ,my soon to be ex had already many girlfriends and it doesn't last. I did not had any contact for over 3 years and waiting on my divorce after 38 years.i am getting better every day and start enjoying my freedom . thank you Anushka you a my biggest help for the last 3 years.
Your a damn blessing. Highly appreciated work. Definitely been able to move forward with this information.
Thankyou Anoushka ✨They Still Linger One’s Narc( Former Daughter) Not Forgiven Almost Forgotten 🙏After 8 Years Peace ✌️ Prayers For All 🙏
I have a camper van and that's going to be my home for the next few months until I'm back on my feet
Congrats!
My ex has his new supply hating me because he has now lied to her just like he lied to me about the ex before me…it’s a never ending cycle
The end is when you decide, we have all the power really. Block them go no contact and stop looking back. The word of God states "forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth to those things which are before, I press towards the mark of the high calling which is in Christ Jesus". Stay encouraged.
I lost a connection with 3 kids that I loved. Hoping I can fix myself and my life so I can continue to be a positive influence to them. And learn to brush off the constant attacks from my ex.
Same bro. Im fixing it now. It affected my ability to be around them as i couldnt focus.
I did the same I felt I had to stop talking to her to feel myself again but I'm waiting to get in child support to see my daughter.. she thought I would still help her with her new supply lol she thought I would be oh I still love you anything you want even though your with someone else lol
😢😢me to. But I im keeping it pushing
Yes I believed you about energy when he is thinking about me! I can sense it and I know he can sense my anger too!!! He is totally blocked from all of social media, phone and all types of communication! But he still stalked me, flying monkeys and he still come to the area where I live!
Would love to do a live with you. This is such an important subject that so many people still don't recognize or understand. Keep doing all your great work♥️
This literally happened with me. He was moving on with someone while still wanna be around and maniuplating me. That was point i blocked him and guess what he stills wanted to show me he is around
100% correct. I never thought any of this could be true, because it didn't make any sense whatsoever. I think one of my best friends put it best...
"Stop trying to understand crazy, or you'll drive yourself there."
Thank you for all support,its so difficult to comprehend,my Narc went back to her ex husband after being married to me for 21 years,and yes now i have time to reflect,she was keeping in touch overtly with her ex inlaws, xmas cards,birthday cards etc.... and i even delivered them and gave her ex father uinlaw a job.....i feel such a fool......but i am out now and doing the work to heal.....you are a insparation Anouska.
I don't know if it is real or not but some people call this ongoing connection a soul tie.
Yeah … a toxic soul tie.
Congratulations on hitting 100k thank you for helping others🎊 👏🏽 💐 🥳
thanks for the video. I needed to hear this!
Brilliant video Anouska ❤
They stalk, harrass, me. They placed undetectable spyware on my phone, watching everything I do. Its creepy, & it caused me 2500 to replace my connected devices, & still.stalk me. Thank you for your help, with all your videos.
How did they place undectable spyware on u?
Must be why I'm not blocked 😮I was with him 4 years
I got out . He is with one of his ex and tried another ex too. She told me . Unbelievable! 🎉 I am out !!!!!!!
You know what youre talking about, its so true, everything you say
This is so hard to hear. But so true. Thank you Anoushka for educating us ❤
A new word just popped into my mind. "Traumantic" nuff said!
My ex narcissus told me she has quit drinking and smoking thanks to her new supply. She said he makes her super happy lol
Thanks Anoushka this is another wake up call for me. An ex colleague blocked me 6 yrs ago communication became very intense. Before watching videos on narcissism I was led down the twin flame journey thinking this person was my twin flame but reality has kicked in and I realized it was a narcissist empath dynamic type of connection because I started feeling negative vibes from this person and it left me feeling lots of guilt, unworthiness lack of confidence, not enough lots of mixed emotions and doubt has kicked in. This person got married 5 year yrs ago and I have not spoken to this person since 6 yrs but I still feel this energy and connected like he stalks and watches me secretly and talks about me to other colleagues! I feel constantly why i never get any closure and I feel its not fair but then realize I will never get that from this person! 😊💖😇🙏.
Why would anyone care about them and new supply. Once they gone, you forget they ever existed.
The ignoring kills them as I recently found out. He used someone else’s phone to pretend he was a woman named Linda and text me asking who I was that my phone number was somehow in their phone but did not know who I was. They asked for my name to see if they knew me. I said they had the wrong number but they kept asking my name, why?? Because I’m no contact with my ex and when he recently tried to connect with me I IGNORED HIM. He was literally checking to see if I had purposely Ignored his attempt to communicate!
This has happened to me to, i thought maybe it could be my ex playing with me to but at the time he and I was together , I feel it was just a scam.
@@cadejawilson925 The entire relationship with a narc is a scam. The scams are different per person but they are scams none the less.
Linda 😂😂
That’s crazy yess I fell it too I’ve had dreams of her and I haven’t been thinking about her or been in contact with her crazy
Belive me I though i was winning I was like wow look how good looking charming and single he was boy was I wrong that's why it doesn't hurt as much if he's with someone else I heard he treated every girl horrible good riddance
It's good to see that I'm not the only one .
That’s what I did ignore him and still do but he continues. Why can’t he go in another day on the weekend. I know there is no love it’s a competition with themselves.
Mine is truly not watching me. I am inaccessible. We moved provinces together, when I left him, I moved back to my home province. He is blocked on everything, my profiles are private if it’s a fake one and I don’t even share much via social media. We have no mutual connections. And my family would NEVER respond to him if he reached out.
It sounds horrible, but....I'm so thankful for the new supply.
Please tell me he will be the same with the girl his parents will arrange for him to marry. Currently he playing with lonely vulnerable older women who are easy pray. How about when there is familial and societal accountability?
I understand what you're saying and i believe the energy link is real, but i believe that the narcissist that I dealt with, is completely done with me. When it comes to supply, I am at the bottom of the barrel. She thrives off of supply that gives her money, gifts, vacations and material supply. In return, she gives her them sex bc she believes sex is her love language. She also moved out, blocked me on facebook and is having the time of her life. I am going to rise above it and keep moving forward. This may happen to others, but I believe I have pushed the narcissist away.
Mine absolutely doesn't care Gaurenteed about me, and I'm good with that.
I appreciate this community so much at this time in my life. I'm 35 and going through a 15yr break up. Its very hard and exhausting. not talking, thinking, or seeing this person after so many years is so very hard. I must say I feel like I've had a stroke some mornings. Some of his last words to me were "I'm still very much in love with you but the other person will help me run my trucks if something happens to me. But she wont help me if I'm with you, she wants me to be with her. I have to see if I can make it work with her." I feel very lost right now in my life. I don't know if I'm coming or going. Wrong or right in this situation. Its just me and our autistic son now. Everyday seems like a mountain that I have to battle alone.
Its sad so say that I feel I can only truly heal if he's dead or someone hurts him as much as he's hurt me. I don't take joy in having these emotions. I don't like having these feelings about a person that I loved unconditionally. Apart of me doesn't want to be here anymore.
One day when chemicals get settle down in your brqin post abuse... it will take you to a new direction in life. 6 months it will start to get better. Just no contact. Focus on diverting thoughts to positive things..even extremely minute finding your inner child again
I hope you feel better today. I can tell you pray for protection of your soul. Remind yourself Living your best life is Not living with a narcissist.
🙏🙏🙏🙋
Damn 15 years same here!!!
I am sorry you feel that way .... but when it hurts please pray to God , yell , curse and let it out. Don't suppress your emotions, try and sit with them , give yourself time to mourn and place a deadline to end the mourning too and start picking pieces and mending you. I have been discarded for the 10th time in 15 years. I am disappointed in my self for letting him hoover me and love bomb me because 3 years I have lived without him and felt at peace . Then met them 3 weeks ago and just went back and now he is gone again. This he says he is going because he can't deal with the fact that I might have been intimate with other people during the 3 year period . Total bullshit , he no longer has use for me. So I have to run now and not look back , do the same . You are not alone
12 years ago I was the new supply. I know this in retrospect. I see all the signs now to me as then to her ex. I don't even care...what does that say? 4:42
Run ❤🎉
I never realised I was with a narcissist until she left me, she left me because I had 1 glass of southern comfort and lemonade on a week day and she had told me I shouldn’t drink in the week so when I did she said I was on a slippery slope and started to make me think I was an alcoholic. She also left me because I went back to my old job that she hated for no reason. I could t wrap my head around why she would leave me for these reasons but now it makes sense. We loved together in her house and she kicked me out and was back on dating sites 2 weeks later. Really really messed me up until I started watching your videos and others. Thank you
In my case, my partner was investing her energy in a “friend” that had feelings for her. Let me tell you… that was super fun for me.
Had this recently, it's devastating....
The love Bombing was heaven, the devaluation was horrific and the discard came totally out of the blue.....following me setting a single boundary of "please don't contact X's while in a relationship with me".....turns out she had loads of X's that were her supply 💪
Destroyed me, but I move on....x
Exactley i was stalked when i left