Brendon, I had to listen to this message FOUR times before I could finally hear what I needed to hear. Then I almost had tears. Forgiveness isn't about giving up my power. I know this but I'd forgotten. I need to forgive my brother and unload him and the baggage that he brings to my life. His poison has been making me physically sick. Your words, as usual, are powerful. Thank you.
i woke up today! not just in waking from my sleep but i found this guy right away and now i feel woken up with in myself.. it feels so good like a shadow in myself that fades away..i will continue on this path now and give the best of myself to myself and the people i love
I've bought every product Brendon has launched. Yes I've spent over $10k on his products but I don't regret it one bit. I view money as exchange of values, the $10k investment is minuscule in comparison to how much value Brendon has provided in to my life. Keep it up Brendon, Live. Love. Matter!
HOW TO APOLOGIZE: - express sorrow (I’m sorry) - own guilt (I was wrong) - name specific wrongs (I did X) - name impact (I hurt you) - no IFs (sorry if I) - don’t blameshift/defend (but you) - no passive voice (sorry you were offended) - make amends (what can I do)
This is a key to successful relationships. My husband (#2 & final ; ) taught me this. We didn't learn forgiveness in our family growing up. What I learned was martyrdom. Forgiveness has been the most incredible life lesson for me . . . it truly does move you forward in life. Thanks for this!
Another amazing video by you Brendon, but I have a remark on this. If you apologize just because they need that switch to be flipped to release bitterness, it may not come out as authentic as it should be. And the most valuable characteristic of an apology is its authenticity. So I think when you apologize just to make someone feel better, do it while thinking "I'm doing this because I care about you and about how you feel. And I genuinely want you to feel better" It will still come out genuine I guess, even though you may not think that you were at fault. Also, what you are preaching on forgiveness could be easily misunderstood by those living in abusive relationship or situation. Forgiving those who abused you doesn't mean you should stick around. You have to move away from abusive situation if you can't fix it or change it. You can still be forgiving even when you move on. I just wanted to clear this out.
Apology and forgiveness is nothing to do my ego, forgiveness is dropping weight .... just let it go ... that makes u free and charged again ... Love you brother
Good job man I loved it... Thank you... I had a situation that I needed to apologize when I was not wrong... And I just apologized just to make that person feel better than what I felt... Thank you very much😊
Brave!The problem with EGO is just when you think you have beaten that 5-0 , you see that you are just in the mount of that giant!" Its about progress not about perfection" and apologizing is always help making the progress! I found only one solution for letting ego go and it is LOVE
Thank u so much Brenden. I haven't tried this method yet, on my boyfriend, because We had a huge argument on something stupid. Trust me, it was stupid. But, I just wanted to say "thank u" because 1. I felt that I was in church and someone out there was helping me trying to figure this out with me. 2. I just felt power. I hope life works between me and "him" because I can't afford to lose that man. We've been together for two months. Going onto 3 months in April on the 15. Ugh. Thank u Brendon. I'll send this video to my boyfriend. Hope this changes his mind. If your reading this comment. I'm sorry, I just want you to be happy..
Yet he still chose to forgive. This truth has helped me to move on in my relationship, however, I still. Need to talk about it like some said they aren't perfect just making better progress in our relationship. Ty Brendon for reminding me. Cheers!
Thank you Brendon. I am really great fan of all your videos. As an individual, I follow your principles and philosophy and that has made tremendous difference in me as a professional. Thanks again
hi Brendon I love your videos. Here is the thing though. I am 21 years old. I'm a student and still live at home. I feel as if I have a bad relationship with my mother however. I want to live the so called charged life. But she is trying to stop me in my progress. She wants me to just finish my studies and live an average life, cause that is the safe way to go. I have talked about this with her. I told her how I do not want to live the average life that many have done before me. But she thinks I am crazy, young and stupid. I decided to not talk about this with her anymore, finish my studies and slowly but surely I am starting up a blog. So basicly I decided to ignore her since I cannot remover her out of my life which is what a lot of motivational speakers advice me to do. Then you uploaded this video and I felt understood in the way that my mother never says sorry. Never have I heard her say sorry in those 21 years that I am living with her. When I point out a mistake that she might have made she just gets angry, tells me how she is right and often gives me a feeling of guilt. My sister feels the same way, as does my stepfather. Last week she picked on my little brother as he was reading something and she got angry with him because he did not read fast enough according to her. She got really mad that and told him that he was lazy all the time. As I was defending him telling her that it was just recreational and that he was trying to read a joke to me, she got even more mad. She yelled at me and at my little brother that we were both too lazy and how she was right for yelling at him cause she knows what's best... So I just shut up because I knew out of experience that it would just get out of hand even more... Am i just to live with this untill I go and live on my own? I tried talking to her several times but it just ends up into her yelling at me how I do not appreciate anything she does. And even though it might end soon since i'm 21, I would feel bad for letting my little brother suffer through that as well. Can I change this in anyway? Sorry for the long post and the occasional gramatical or vocabular mistakes, English is not my mathernal language.
she has always been that way. I tried talking to her but when that happens she blames me for not being appreciative ever. For being lazy and never doing something on my own. I am lazy sometimes I do admit that, but these are my flaws and I am working on them. However she does not only get angry with me but with my stepfather, my brother and my sister ( when she still lived at home ) as well. She divorced my birthfather because he could no longer deal with it. When I talk to my mom about him all I hear is bad things. When I talk to my dad about her he is not that negative but tries to not talk bad about her because he does not want to feel as if he is trying to win me over by talking bad about her. Next to that my sister and I sometimes tell her to go out with friends some more to relax some more... Then she says that she has but one friend that she hardly ever sees. Who is in the wrong then... She has no friends and is angry with her family a lot.... I can't advice her to go to a psychiatrist or something or she would freak out even more...
Maarten Vansteelandt If you're not able to start living on your own jet, maybe try to talk to you birth-father to move over to him. That will take you out of the bad circle. Maybe she will try to understand why it happened? But then don't forget about you little brother. Try to build up his self confidence by talking a lot with him. Another solution might be have a conversation with your stepfather and siblings about how you want relate with each other. Make a plan and then all of you can show up it to mother and say why is important for each of you. If she starts shouting don't argue. Just say you understand she can be upset, but from now on things going to change. Start be nice to each other and to her too - even if she's bad for you - That could break bar patterns and she will try to adapt. Don't force her to say sorry. Just do your plan. Remember that this should take months, be happy with every progress and don't forget that bad things could came back from time to time. If it didn't work out you will be better person anyway and deep down in you heart you'll know you did all you can. I'll hope you will find your way to be happy
I hurt my wife, she disconnect and found connection elsewhere and in return hurt me. We’ve both stopped the behavior that originally hurt each other, But she doesn’t want to reconcile because she hasn’t forgiven me. She has also brought up divorce many times, but hasn’t acted on her declaration. It’s been 13 months and I still believe we will get through this and it’s just a matter of God’s timing. It’s very difficult tho to have her bitterness cause her to vacillate and the separation from her, her family (my nieces) is saddening to say the least. I don’t want bitterness to consume me and I have been working on truly forgiven her. Looking for prayer, help and guidance.
Yes, if you do something that upsets someone, just apologize. It de-escalates the situation and shows you care that you upset them, even if you didn't mean to. Very simple.
Beautiful so fantastic so much help in the words...I can see this in someone I care about whom left and will not come back because he cannot say he is sorry.
When I does something wrong and see my fault, then I always say Sorry and not even one time... I can't stop to say Sorry, because I feel so bad that I was a Idiot and hurt a other Person. My Problem is also that I can't get over that I was wrong. I can't forgive myself. I never say sorry just for Fun. Always comes from my heart. It's not easy to say, but is the right way. Awesome and great Video, Brendon 🌹
+Lu_Bu_official I have made this mistake.. many times until she just gave up on me... and by that point after that happen, you've learnt your lesson. I've learnt my lesson.
thank you Brendon, for believing in your source gift... you are a great positive reflection... love and hugs to your heart... feel the gift of heart... namaste
I'm glad I found your videos, everything you say is me you hit the nail on the head with everything... I'm tired of being that way and I'm going to apply your words of wisdom and become a better person for me. I'm tired of be unhappy. Thank you!
This is a great video on the importance of apologizing. It would be helpful to explain HOW to apologize. Just saying ‘I’m sorry’ or ‘I apologize’ is not enough.
Brendon; Truly from the deepest light of the right side of my heart, thank you. You've really helped me tonight. So timely. I've been hurting, an am hurting, but this video has truly lighted me & spoke directly to my heart an soul. -Namaskar
Well, that's a hell lot of wisdom in a single video. Thanks for uploading... I feel like you have that way saying all this stuff that will make people want to pay attention.
awsome i was looking at apolgy letters and came across this. you are exactly right my friend people now days rarely acept apologies. It amazes me how people dont forgive each other .I used to bitter at life and now i let it go really works one happy mutha don't let people rent space in your head ,one happy mutha it takes time tho hehe cheers!!! lol !!
So true!! I live In A relationship just like this I always have to apologize constantly for yeeears , I have done this because I do t care have no respect how tired and horrible and sick this person , feels we don’t care …all day long. Soon as I heard this it resonated with me to my soul omg 😱 soooo true for me !! I will try this , mind you I do this but they keep it up!! What can I do???
Forgives is not an action , its a tool. I have a feeling this guy doesn't take his own advice . Lets say you forgave your friend for something, its not over, you put that forgiveness in your pocket and pull it back out whenever that friend makes you doubt or regret your decision so you can remind yourself why you forgave in the first place ... and continue to forgive . Its not as simple as he makes it out to be
Yes, forgiving is literally let go of ego., it is,spieituality...i love your brain Brandon❤❤❤ it is literally a decision! Let it go and suddenly at the end you find yourself fully charge again. Keep it up idol..Lovelots!
Apologizing is only good if one is manipulating for positive CHANGE...but to many people apologize to not take accountability, but are brainwashed , with repetitive behaviour, thus resulting in keeping themselves low esteemed. don't be a DOOR MAT , damn it !! that's my thought on this vid. Cheers ;-))
When a person apologize often because he/she did not know should they apologize? ie... they would express " I am sorry i woke up late, i am sorry i did not know,i am sorry about him"??? thanks
You're Amazing! I find inspiration and wisdom, in your video. It give real insight to discover more about myself. Keep up the good work is a blessing!!
awesome video. i sent it to my Girlfriend. she cant apologize and her daughter is the same way but they expect me to say sorry and i do all thr time but cant say it anymore
say sorry only if you truly did something wrong. dont say sorry just because the other wants to hear it for there benefit. its an egocentric way of thinking. In my opinion!!!
can you tell me why my husband won't apologize even though I tell him that's what I need to make me feel better to make me stay? why would be rather lose his family than to apologize?
IamDottieDandridge --- Sorry to hear that, but we (men) want a direct question rather than go around and around of what women want from us. Try to ask him that you need (and not want or demanding) an apology. Give him a reason why you need an apology. Don't expect a quick reply. Let him process that in his head as men will go to their caves and give a deep thought about it. Don't/never step into his cave. Give him a time to go out of his cave by his own. And just wait for it. Remind him again if it took a long time. Wish you all happiness!
IamDottieDandridge Maybe he still thinks that apologize is about him and not about u, as he says in the video. I had this problem and after seen this video my mind changed.
WOW, I never looked at it that way, I never realized apologies and forgiveness are that powerful!
Thanks!
Same ive been living the wrong way
Tears streaming....more tears streaming....Brendon your insight, words are life changing xx
Brendon, I had to listen to this message FOUR times before I could finally hear what I needed to hear. Then I almost had tears. Forgiveness isn't about giving up my power. I know this but I'd forgotten. I need to forgive my brother and unload him and the baggage that he brings to my life. His poison has been making me physically sick. Your words, as usual, are powerful. Thank you.
Thank you, I wish nothing but joy,health, love, happiness for you.
i woke up today! not just in waking from my sleep but i found this guy right away and now i feel woken up with in myself.. it feels so good like a shadow in myself that fades away..i will continue on this path now and give the best of myself to myself and the people i love
I've bought every product Brendon has launched. Yes I've spent over $10k on his products but I don't regret it one bit. I view money as exchange of values, the $10k investment is minuscule in comparison to how much value Brendon has provided in to my life. Keep it up Brendon, Live. Love. Matter!
10k on how to apologizes you played yourself 😂
"Limit your exposure to that person" hahaha so true.
HOW TO APOLOGIZE:
- express sorrow (I’m sorry)
- own guilt (I was wrong)
- name specific wrongs (I did X)
- name impact (I hurt you)
- no IFs (sorry if I)
- don’t blameshift/defend (but you)
- no passive voice (sorry you were offended)
- make amends (what can I do)
This is a key to successful relationships. My husband (#2 & final ; ) taught me this. We didn't learn forgiveness in our family growing up. What I learned was martyrdom. Forgiveness has been the most incredible life lesson for me . . . it truly does move you forward in life. Thanks for this!
Awesome. I think I need to listen to this more and more to learn it
He's great, I love his work =)...
سلام دوست عزیز خیلی سرم شلوغ شده با پروژه ام ولی همچنان یه وقتایی میام و یه سری به گوگل پلاس میزنم. ممنون که پرسیدی
Another amazing video by you Brendon, but I have a remark on this. If you apologize just because they need that switch to be flipped to release bitterness, it may not come out as authentic as it should be. And the most valuable characteristic of an apology is its authenticity. So I think when you apologize just to make someone feel better, do it while thinking "I'm doing this because I care about you and about how you feel. And I genuinely want you to feel better" It will still come out genuine I guess, even though you may not think that you were at fault.
Also, what you are preaching on forgiveness could be easily misunderstood by those living in abusive relationship or situation. Forgiving those who abused you doesn't mean you should stick around. You have to move away from abusive situation if you can't fix it or change it. You can still be forgiving even when you move on. I just wanted to clear this out.
Apology and forgiveness is nothing to do my ego, forgiveness is dropping weight .... just let it go ... that makes u free and charged again ...
Love you brother
Good job man I loved it... Thank you... I had a situation that I needed to apologize when I was not wrong... And I just apologized just to make that person feel better than what I felt... Thank you very much😊
Brave!The problem with EGO is just when you think you have beaten that 5-0 , you see that you are just in the mount of that giant!" Its about progress not about perfection" and apologizing is always help making the progress!
I found only one solution for letting ego go and it is LOVE
I came across your videos today and love them :) thank you so much :) and awesome energy :)
You just saved a soul...thank you Brendon
I can't stop watching your videos, so many tips to learn about life, thank you Brendon
raunak if u ever watch this video and think to forgive me. then bro i am sorry even if u belive me or not
Thank u so much Brenden. I haven't tried this method yet, on my boyfriend, because We had a huge argument on something stupid. Trust me, it was stupid. But, I just wanted to say "thank u" because 1. I felt that I was in church and someone out there was helping me trying to figure this out with me. 2. I just felt power. I hope life works between me and "him" because I can't afford to lose that man. We've been together for two months. Going onto 3 months in April on the 15. Ugh. Thank u Brendon. I'll send this video to my boyfriend. Hope this changes his mind. If your reading this comment. I'm sorry, I just want you to be happy..
Yet he still chose to forgive. This truth has helped me to move on in my relationship, however, I still. Need to talk about it like some said they aren't perfect just making better progress in our relationship. Ty Brendon for reminding me. Cheers!
Thank you Brendon. I am really great fan of all your videos. As an individual, I follow your principles and philosophy and that has made tremendous difference in me as a professional. Thanks again
You are amazing Brendon. I'm learning lots from you. God bless! :)
Best wishes ,thanks Brendon.
hi Brendon I love your videos. Here is the thing though. I am 21 years old. I'm a student and still live at home. I feel as if I have a bad relationship with my mother however. I want to live the so called charged life. But she is trying to stop me in my progress. She wants me to just finish my studies and live an average life, cause that is the safe way to go. I have talked about this with her. I told her how I do not want to live the average life that many have done before me. But she thinks I am crazy, young and stupid. I decided to not talk about this with her anymore, finish my studies and slowly but surely I am starting up a blog. So basicly I decided to ignore her since I cannot remover her out of my life which is what a lot of motivational speakers advice me to do.
Then you uploaded this video and I felt understood in the way that my mother never says sorry. Never have I heard her say sorry in those 21 years that I am living with her. When I point out a mistake that she might have made she just gets angry, tells me how she is right and often gives me a feeling of guilt. My sister feels the same way, as does my stepfather. Last week she picked on my little brother as he was reading something and she got angry with him because he did not read fast enough according to her. She got really mad that and told him that he was lazy all the time. As I was defending him telling her that it was just recreational and that he was trying to read a joke to me, she got even more mad. She yelled at me and at my little brother that we were both too lazy and how she was right for yelling at him cause she knows what's best... So I just shut up because I knew out of experience that it would just get out of hand even more...
Am i just to live with this untill I go and live on my own? I tried talking to her several times but it just ends up into her yelling at me how I do not appreciate anything she does. And even though it might end soon since i'm 21, I would feel bad for letting my little brother suffer through that as well.
Can I change this in anyway?
Sorry for the long post and the occasional gramatical or vocabular mistakes, English is not my mathernal language.
has she always been that way?
take a look at what he says from 5:50 to 6:43, then modify that to suit your problem and fix it.
I mean 5:50 to 7:50
she has always been that way. I tried talking to her but when that happens she blames me for not being appreciative ever. For being lazy and never doing something on my own. I am lazy sometimes I do admit that, but these are my flaws and I am working on them. However she does not only get angry with me but with my stepfather, my brother and my sister ( when she still lived at home ) as well. She divorced my birthfather because he could no longer deal with it. When I talk to my mom about him all I hear is bad things. When I talk to my dad about her he is not that negative but tries to not talk bad about her because he does not want to feel as if he is trying to win me over by talking bad about her.
Next to that my sister and I sometimes tell her to go out with friends some more to relax some more... Then she says that she has but one friend that she hardly ever sees.
Who is in the wrong then... She has no friends and is angry with her family a lot....
I can't advice her to go to a psychiatrist or something or she would freak out even more...
Maarten Vansteelandt If you're not able to start living on your own jet, maybe try to talk to you birth-father to move over to him. That will take you out of the bad circle. Maybe she will try to understand why it happened? But then don't forget about you little brother. Try to build up his self confidence by talking a lot with him.
Another solution might be have a conversation with your stepfather and siblings about how you want relate with each other. Make a plan and then all of you can show up it to mother and say why is important for each of you. If she starts shouting don't argue. Just say you understand she can be upset, but from now on things going to change.
Start be nice to each other and to her too - even if she's bad for you -
That could break bar patterns and she will try to adapt. Don't force her to say sorry. Just do your plan. Remember that this should take months, be happy with every progress and don't forget that bad things could came back from time to time.
If it didn't work out you will be better person anyway and deep down in you heart you'll know you did all you can.
I'll hope you will find your way to be happy
You've clarified a lot on this subject for me. Thank you Brendon.
I hurt my wife, she disconnect and found connection elsewhere and in return hurt me. We’ve both stopped the behavior that originally hurt each other, But she doesn’t want to reconcile because she hasn’t forgiven me. She has also brought up divorce many times, but hasn’t acted on her declaration. It’s been 13 months and I still believe we will get through this and it’s just a matter of God’s timing.
It’s very difficult tho to have her bitterness cause her to vacillate and the separation from her, her family (my nieces) is saddening to say the least. I don’t want bitterness to consume me and I have been working on truly forgiven her.
Looking for prayer, help and guidance.
I will not apologize for my apology!
Yes, if you do something that upsets someone, just apologize. It de-escalates the situation and shows you care that you upset them, even if you didn't mean to. Very simple.
Beautiful so fantastic so much help in the words...I can see this in someone I care about whom left and will not come back because he cannot say he is sorry.
When I does something wrong and see my fault, then I always say Sorry and not even one time... I can't stop to say Sorry, because I feel so bad that I was a Idiot and hurt a other Person. My Problem is also that I can't get over that I was wrong. I can't forgive myself. I never say sorry just for Fun. Always comes from my heart. It's not easy to say, but is the right way. Awesome and great Video, Brendon 🌹
Great video. Needed this for 2 selfish kids and one Daughter in law....let it go and my husband and and I feel great!
Thank you for leaving no stone unturned. Look forward to meeting you.
What happens if the person makes the same mistake over and over again? It gets hard to believe the apology after a while.
True my friend is doing the same wrong thing after apologizing all over again
+Lu_Bu_official I have made this mistake.. many times until she just gave up on me... and by that point after that happen, you've learnt your lesson. I've learnt my lesson.
Simple...He said it.... Limit your exposure to that person😂
thank you Brendon, for believing in your source gift... you are a great positive reflection... love and hugs to your heart... feel the gift of heart... namaste
This video has help me . I hurt someone and I didn’t mean to and have apologised and this video has really help 👍
I needed to hear this! This is very helpful. Thank you!
I needed to hear this... for so many reasons... Thank you,
I'm glad I found your videos, everything you say is me you hit the nail on the head with everything... I'm tired of being that way and I'm going to apply your words of wisdom and become a better person for me. I'm tired of be unhappy. Thank you!
This is a great video on the importance of apologizing. It would be helpful to explain HOW to apologize. Just saying ‘I’m sorry’ or ‘I apologize’ is not enough.
My Family needs this message
I hurt a girl that love. I was angry and I call a bad word and I'm sorry for it I really love this girl! I'm always screwup
what a fucking great video , dont come across these often .
Apologies can be life changing....
Thank you Brendon - You have allowed me to release the bitterness and hate of former employer.
I'm saying "I'm sorry" almost all the time. Even when there is no need to it. Even if I haven't done anything, I still say "I'm sorry"
Awsome video Brendon!!!
Let it go... let it go. :)
+Jonathan Li cant hold it back anymore
this is so true. Thank you Brendon
Brendon; Truly from the deepest light of the right side of my heart, thank you. You've really helped me tonight. So timely. I've been hurting, an am hurting, but this video has truly lighted me & spoke directly to my heart an soul. -Namaskar
Well, that's a hell lot of wisdom in a single video. Thanks for uploading... I feel like you have that way saying all this stuff that will make people want to pay attention.
Amazing! Thank you 🙏
Thanks Mr.Burchard! I acted like a doofus and my friends got ticked at me today. Tomorrow I'll apologize and mend the problem, so thanks again!
The caption made me subscribe.
your best I've watched, eye opening to hear such an awesome breakdown of the psychology of apologies
another inspirational gem...i love these videos
Thanks Brendon, your videos always inspire me.
awsome i was looking at apolgy letters and came across this. you are exactly right my friend people now days rarely acept apologies. It amazes me how people dont forgive each other .I used to bitter at life and now i let it go really works one happy mutha don't let people rent space in your head ,one happy mutha it takes time tho hehe cheers!!! lol !!
Great video! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Brendon, thank you!
speak the truth all the time
Great talk Brendon
You are the best guide everrrrr
Hit home man. Liked and subscribed. Eager to see what your message is all about.
"I'm working on forgiving everyone who hasn't yet subscribed to my channel." :D hahahahahahaha I LOVE YOU, Brendon!
Thank you Brendon. Fighting with people is time waste. Better is to say sorry and let go :)
On the heart for me. Ty.
So true!! I live In A relationship just like this I always have to apologize constantly for yeeears , I have done this because I do t care have no respect how tired and horrible and sick this person , feels we don’t care …all day long.
Soon as I heard this it resonated with me to my soul omg 😱 soooo true for me !!
I will try this , mind you I do this but they keep it up!! What can I do???
Thank you so much u have truly been a big help ..i am having some family issues and i really needed to hear this ..godbless🙏🏼
What a positive message! I do have a question; when do you say I’ve forgiven enough,?
I needed this. If I can't fix anythint else that I'm struggling with my crush through text breakouts, this is the video.
Gr8 topic.......well said as always .........expecting more such talks .......here is from muscat sangeethapuri
saying sorry seems to be the hardest word. That's why if you say, you should mean it.
i wish i can live wit brendon.
thank u sooooooo much have a great day
Thank you so much for this.
First class Mr Burchard! Your thumbnail though lmbo!
Forgives is not an action , its a tool. I have a feeling this guy doesn't take his own advice . Lets say you forgave your friend for something, its not over, you put that forgiveness in your pocket and pull it back out whenever that friend makes you doubt or regret your decision so you can remind yourself why you forgave in the first place ... and continue to forgive . Its not as simple as he makes it out to be
Yes, forgiving is literally let go of ego., it is,spieituality...i love your brain Brandon❤❤❤ it is literally a decision! Let it go and suddenly at the end you find yourself fully charge again. Keep it up idol..Lovelots!
Those videos are amazing thank you so much....
great stuff. odd question, can you tell me what camera/settings /fx you used to film? great classic look that kept focus on material. tks
Great ideas. Saying sorry can feel great. Very helpful.
Apologizing is only good if one is manipulating for positive CHANGE...but to many people apologize to not take accountability, but are brainwashed , with repetitive behaviour, thus resulting in keeping themselves low esteemed. don't be a DOOR MAT , damn it !!
that's my thought on this vid. Cheers ;-))
Did you watch the video?
Thank you Brendon. I love this message.
Thank you Brendon!!
okay you can release.....I just subscribed!
Thank you brothet
When a person apologize often because he/she did not know should they apologize? ie... they would express " I am sorry i woke up late, i am sorry i did not know,i am sorry about him"??? thanks
thank you ....love this video
Love you Brendon. Thank you.
You're Amazing! I find inspiration and wisdom, in your video. It give real insight to discover more about myself. Keep up the good work is a blessing!!
Thanks from Egypt
Thanks for this B.
i recently had a little fight with my mother and she wont accept my apology so im just gonna send her these types of videos
Brendon I am a fan!
thanks for video
Thank you.
Absolutely bloody lootly thank you 🙏 all is forgiven I can do this I’m happy already I’m sorry 😊😊😊
Thank you!
Hey can I get the background music? It sounds uplifting.
awesome video. i sent it to my Girlfriend. she cant apologize and her daughter is the same way but they expect me to say sorry and i do all thr time but cant say it anymore
say sorry only if you truly did something wrong.
dont say sorry just because the other wants to hear it for there benefit.
its an egocentric way of thinking.
In my opinion!!!
can you tell me why my husband won't apologize even though I tell him that's what I need to make me feel better to make me stay? why would be rather lose his family than to apologize?
IamDottieDandridge --- Sorry to hear that, but we (men) want a direct question rather than go around and around of what women want from us. Try to ask him that you need (and not want or demanding) an apology. Give him a reason why you need an apology. Don't expect a quick reply. Let him process that in his head as men will go to their caves and give a deep thought about it. Don't/never step into his cave. Give him a time to go out of his cave by his own. And just wait for it. Remind him again if it took a long time. Wish you all happiness!
IamDottieDandridge Maybe he still thinks that apologize is about him and not about u, as he says in the video. I had this problem and after seen this video my mind changed.