Why Younger Women Date Older Men

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  • Why younger women date older men and how you can use this insight to attract beautiful younger women.
    In this video coaching newsletter I interview Ashley Ayurveda, and Dr. Dominick D’Anna, who share a twenty-five year age difference, but love each other without attachments. Ashley shares what she finds attractive about older men and what men her age don’t do that turns women off, so you can avoid their common mistakes. Ashley works with Dominick and they went from not liking each other when they first met, to dating exclusively, then to friends with benefits, and now they are supporting each other as they both look for love with other people. They dated for about two and a half years exclusively. They are two friends of mine who I highly respect and who just went through the type of healthy breakup and relationship transformation that I discuss in my book, How To Be A 3% Man. They give some great insights on attraction, dating, love and relationships.
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  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Dominick and Ashley are coming over in a few hours to film another video. If you guys got some questions you want me to ask them, then post them on this thread.

    • @kellypantss
      @kellypantss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ask Dominick why men should be okay with paying for dates they ask women out on. Seems silly but alot of men on here dont understand why they shouldnt split the check.

    • @jonathandelarosa6082
      @jonathandelarosa6082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How important is it to hang out, have fun, and hook up? Question for Ashley (What if someone is very serious)

    • @matthewsauer6522
      @matthewsauer6522 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are red flags for women and men when it comes to dating? Also, when should you leave a relationship and the best way to leave a relationship?

    • @coachpaulhagen1036
      @coachpaulhagen1036 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell Dr D'Anna and Ashley I said Hi.... need to see you guys soon....Coach Paul Hagen from the Space Coast

    • @analyticalattraction7973
      @analyticalattraction7973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here’s the situation with a woman in my life. I moved on her and I failed. I’ll admit it. I did try to fuck her. She was married. And I moved on here very heavily. In fact I took her furniture shopping. She wanted to get furniture and I said “I’ll show you where they have some nice furniture.” I moved on her like a bitch. And I couldn’t get there. And she was married. And all of a sudden I see her and she has the new big phony tits. She’s totally changed her look. Any advice coach?

  • @shatteredsoldier81
    @shatteredsoldier81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    At 38, I am still able to get women in their early 20’s. What I have leaned and thanks to Corey is to have your shit together as well as having your own life.
    Most women were impressed that I lived alone, had my own vehicle, paid my own bills, had a career, was in good shape, didn’t have baby mama drama nor had kids, and wasn’t on drugs.
    However, the main issue I kept running into with younger women was most either wanted kids or had kids with a boatload of issues. I’m fixed, so I’m waiting for someone to say I knocked them up. Another issue I would run into is that they had no plans for their future nor had another going for them. Sleeping with younger women is great and fun, but at some point, I had to let them go because I felt that I was way ahead of them in life, and I didn’t want to be held back.

    • @t_marting5642
      @t_marting5642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 32 in the same situation, thanks for sharing your experience

    • @kitteylovesu
      @kitteylovesu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @TheCamshafter
      "I can beat that"
      So this is a competition on who can get the most youngest? Just that statement alone makes you undesirable and immature.
      The main op has it right. He wants more than the stupid "game" that kids like to play. Which is attractive he wants more. And he should. He deserves it.

    • @themapples288
      @themapples288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      high five

    • @martinchan168
      @martinchan168 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But she said she’s attracted to the older guy because he’s a daddy.

  • @dtay7545
    @dtay7545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    She said that the guy made her feel like he wasn't interested when she showed up to the date. I know Corey was probably saying in his head its a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men who's feelings are unclear.

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What I have discovered with this stuff, is that the truth often lies in what appears to be the contradictions. Cory does say "woman are attracted to men who's feelings are unclear"... he also says "Don't be a cold fish"

    • @billsmith8825
      @billsmith8825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It sounds like his intentions and feelings were clear. He wasn't interested. What don't you understand about that? You should be excited to see them, but that doesn't mean you should gush all over them and tell them how much you love them when you're just dating for the first few times.

    • @jrc5049
      @jrc5049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But don’t be a COLD FISH ! lol

    • @Heeej235
      @Heeej235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it is about balance, if you show disinterest come date night. She will ditch you (unless she has low self-esteem, which many girls fall have) like Corey says explicitly all the time; it’s not about being a cold fish/Dick. Its more about indifference as in ” Im glad you are here, but just as glad if you’re not” that Will give the impression that you have options, she Will intuitively feel that ” I just ditched this guy, and he didn’t even come unglued, he must have options!” Think about it, how many guys have women dumped? Alot, and most come unglued. So to summarize it, its about being attentitive and a gentleman when you meet her, but be indifferent before you start dating cause it is there alot of guys mess up.. That is my take on it, but of course feelings being unclear applies to other phases of dating and relationships to, like if she disrespect you , then you need to show displeasure and walk away so she doesnt think she can do anything. :)

    • @martinchan168
      @martinchan168 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Money/ Provider/ FWB 😎

  • @BiohazardRay
    @BiohazardRay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Because money and experience

    • @TSKNL
      @TSKNL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And sandwiches

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That sounds like the conclusion of a young guy who won't learn anything from this video.

    • @MrAlexanderLang
      @MrAlexanderLang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@markwilding3828 That is a conclusion made out of data, women typically date along same or higher socioeconomic strata, and 0 to +3/5 age range.
      What did you take from this?

  • @mjreynolds9618
    @mjreynolds9618 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just wanted to come here to say that I got divorced a year ago, I’ve been very depressed and feeling inadequate, but I spent the last year getting in shape and bettering myself.
    I discovered you 3 months ago and have read 3% Man 7 times so far.
    Tonight, I had two 22 year olds literally fighting over me at the club. I’m 40.
    Corey, you are the man! Thank you!

  • @carlowens2193
    @carlowens2193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    She said it "I want to feel secure". Most young dudes dont have their priorities straight, no goals or no direction. Not working on self makes you unattractive

    • @aurianajohnson14
      @aurianajohnson14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Jordan Sharpe it's not always about the money it's more so about the maturity of the man that attracts a young woman to date older guy's. My significant other and I are 10yrs apart and we get along just fine. Me personally I don't need a man in my life I want one there's a difference. Plus all I attract is older guy's, guy's my age(23) don't have their priorities straight, not taking things seriously 😑 worried about things that they shouldn't listening to others about how to be in a relationship, etc. There's multiple reasons why woman date older men and I assure you that money is not the focus for a mature grown woman

    • @Lightskinemagic1995
      @Lightskinemagic1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aurianajohnson14 naw it cause no do in there 20s wants u lol so u go for the grandpas haha

    • @aurianajohnson14
      @aurianajohnson14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lightskinemagic1995 the fact that you think I don’t attract men in their 20’s is hilarious cause I do lmfaooo I attract everyone but I pick and choose because my time is valuable and I’m not wasting it men in their 20’s most of them don’t got their life together or is not trying too get there

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@aurianajohnson14well you did say "plus all I attract is the older guys"..... that's why the commenter said you aren't attracting guys your age

  • @jeffmoss118
    @jeffmoss118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He helped Ashley build her career and in turn he got the best SMV years of Ashley

  • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
    @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I found your work after a bad break up, your videos changed my life. If my ex ever comes back good but if not, thank her for leading me to you.

  • @fambam6935
    @fambam6935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Telling her how you feel...well, she’s got you now! Lol

    • @danrobert3674
      @danrobert3674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is this true

    • @fambam6935
      @fambam6935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dan Robert pretty much. She already knows how you feel so she can manipulate you at anytime. If she doesn’t really know how you feel, it keeps her guessing and she’s going to act accordingly. Most women want to fix a man and if they don’t know how you truly feel, they want to work for that validation. Once they get it...then what? Excitement is lost.
      Women don’t know the difference between content and boredom

    • @jessesarmiento1433
      @jessesarmiento1433 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fambam6935 Well said my man

  • @gioabashidze6960
    @gioabashidze6960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Corey wayne and george clooney

    • @luke304
      @luke304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😭

    • @aronchas
      @aronchas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      and natalie portman..

    • @Melbelle-nl9vn
      @Melbelle-nl9vn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are the exception

    • @5O4evr
      @5O4evr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looks like Epstein

  • @paulypipes3082
    @paulypipes3082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey you brought the original soundtrack back =). I'm reading your book. I'm on my 3rd run.. I have 12 more read throughs to go
    Great to see you coach. You look good for your age

  • @AFloridaSon
    @AFloridaSon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She offers to pay, but expects the man to pay. Sounds like there's a little sugar issues mixed with that daddy thing.

  • @noxan1487
    @noxan1487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Idk man, paying for dates is cool I don’t mind but having this mindset is an absolute turnoff. Definitely not my type of chick.

    • @BobbylightRCE
      @BobbylightRCE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Zunïx I agree man. We live in a different era. It’s like they’ll only go out with us for a free meal. Fuck that. I pay you put out at least.

    • @GalestianMusic
      @GalestianMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BobbylightRCE No longer an issue in parts of Europe. Check out this thread: www.reddit.com/r/germany/comments/93rbeb/dating_a_german_guy_who_never_pays_for_dinner/

    • @rking8385
      @rking8385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Especially in this me too movement. These women out here hollering they independent well shit they can pay too.

    • @kellypantss
      @kellypantss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@BobbylightRCE It's not about the mindset of just the guy always pays it's just the role we each have in society. The man asks the woman on a date, plans the date, pays for the date and it's very gentlemen thing to do. Not saying girls don't play their part. They wear make up, get a blow out, wax, expensive outfit. Were grateful and appreciative for what men plan. I always tell my fiance thank you for taking me out I always love your ideas, this was fun and it ruffles his gentlemen feathers. I used to think I should pay for a date when I was young or at least split it and one guy I went on with said, this is why you dont get second dates. You paying half makes me think you just want to be friends, its emasculating. I was blown away. He was right.

    • @GalestianMusic
      @GalestianMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kellypantss This sort of mentality is archaic in Germany.

  • @saketautee2329
    @saketautee2329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Two old dudes asking her why do you like old dudes 😂.. love you Corey

    • @saketautee2329
      @saketautee2329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mary Teresa then what is he

    • @saketautee2329
      @saketautee2329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mary Teresastop being so butt hurt ,bitch !😂

  • @karene1503
    @karene1503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    You meant! “Why SOME younger woman date older men”

    • @TheCaffeineFix
      @TheCaffeineFix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      But ALL women follow and enjoy CW’s Idea of masculine feminine energy. Even homosexuals. ALL of us have masculine or more feminine energy. And based on that balance we as in males and females choose someone that balances that. Even two more alpha individuals for a balance to happen one is more masculine and one is more feminine. If not then women turn more masculine when a guy doesn’t have strength. They cut their hair short stop dressing feminine and they feel upset having to be masculine. I read the book 10-15 times 😉

    • @eddie054
      @eddie054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A hard dick without Viagra.

    • @happybrave7618
      @happybrave7618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheCaffeineFix everything you said is 💯 except the short hair part, I don't think that's revelant. the pixie cut is sexy.

    • @mr.friday4932
      @mr.friday4932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mathewvanostin7118 look into red pill with an open mind, great videos here on TH-cam. It'll definitely change your opinion, because a lot of what you said is blue pill thinking.

    • @Lexmorningstarnz
      @Lexmorningstarnz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My husband is a year older than me! I think it helps knowing we are on the same page about most things and can relate to one another as we’re from the same generation and grew up around the same things.
      To be honest, I’ve been approached by older (richer) men and it’s not really my thing.

  • @omarelrafhi9595
    @omarelrafhi9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Seems like she needs a good dad not necessarly a boyfriend

    • @paulypipes3082
      @paulypipes3082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lmao seriously. She mind as well call him dad

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You're just butt hurt a girl like her wouldn't be interested in you.

    • @Mandolindo
      @Mandolindo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Butthurt guys in their 20s always say crap like this. One day you'll grow up and understand how the sexual marketplace works, if you're smart.

    • @omarelrafhi9595
      @omarelrafhi9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@CoachCoreyWayne i am your student coach, you changed my dating life, i know anyone can get attractive girl, i was talking about this specific video, and i might be wrong, it was just my opinion,
      No need go judge me corey :)

    • @omarelrafhi9595
      @omarelrafhi9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@CoachCoreyWayne and you are the one always talking about dady issues, enlighten me please and tell me why you disagree with me

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    One word and that is hypergamy...true or facts?

    • @TheAlkebulanTrust
      @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JayTheLordIsMySaviorJones hypergamy as nothing to do with low or high value man or a man with a scarcity mindset. It's just a woman's nature to want a the strongest of males to breed with. And by strong it's not just the physical it's the financial which even if you are an Alpha Male you don't necessarily have to give her money or children. But you can use it to your advantage to get what you want from them. Same way they use what men want to get what they want. Which they usually only do that to Beta Males. Even though they crave an Alpha male.

    • @Kevo2blessed
      @Kevo2blessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True facts

  • @waterbourne9282
    @waterbourne9282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lovely vibe going on there, a privilege to watch, thanks for sharing. After absorbing Coreys book for a year or so I'm experiencing the same thing. Big thanks you guys.

  • @mattzilla331
    @mattzilla331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Its incredible to me that this question needs to be answered. Ppl are so distant from reality they don't even know 2+2=4

    • @ibuprofen303
      @ibuprofen303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2 + 2 =4? Now you tell me. I am employed by the national astrophysics laboratory to perform theoretical safety calculations for the next space exploration with 11 astronauts on-board for 6 months. I'm going to have to start all over again now.

    • @ibuprofen303
      @ibuprofen303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hang on. Make that 12 astronauts. Er... I think.

    • @angelfrom666
      @angelfrom666 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matt Richards LMAO

  • @TrapPhoneLoveMelodiesss
    @TrapPhoneLoveMelodiesss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is dope Corey. Bro, you have changed my life. I’ve been through to book about 20 times total and now I teach all my friends.

  • @AndyGinny1
    @AndyGinny1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m 39 she’s 26. Going ok but I can start to see a difference with the gap. But you only live once. Nothing serious happening here.

    • @isaacmettle
      @isaacmettle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andrew McGuinness im in the same situation. except im 40.

    • @AndyGinny1
      @AndyGinny1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Black Son Goku how are you finding it?

    • @isaacmettle
      @isaacmettle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andrew McGuinness im a goof ball she’s a goof ball. no matter the age, THEIR ALL BOSSY!!

    • @AndyGinny1
      @AndyGinny1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Black Son Goku haha very true! She told her sister about us and her sister is telling her that I’m too old and the age gap will become a problem. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @isaacmettle
      @isaacmettle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andrew McGuinness i believe its all in how u make her FEEL!! i still look like im 25

  • @jmf8279
    @jmf8279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for another great video ! It’s always interesting when you bring on a guest or two.

  • @surajvarne3992
    @surajvarne3992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love these vidoes man Corey Keep up the work. Its really great that you work so hard to teach us

  • @TheRoddie16
    @TheRoddie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ah, this is exactly how Sexual Market Value works. Hers is in decline so she is seeking provision from an older man. A successful 35 year old and the hot 20-24 hold the same Sexual Market Value.

  • @messaroundok4747
    @messaroundok4747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That dude looks like Adam Carolla.

    • @MrKrushgutz
      @MrKrushgutz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      messaround ok Yeah I thought that was him.

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks! that was bugging the hell out of me.

    • @Descalante87
      @Descalante87 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grumpy cat

    • @5O4evr
      @5O4evr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And Epstein

    • @Fitbody_bysarah
      @Fitbody_bysarah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the same thing!

  • @somedonkus_
    @somedonkus_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could meet you man, shake your hand and tell thank you for your work. I’ve been following you for like 5 years now and you produce nothing but great work. Keep it up man cause you da man!

  • @enelsecadomejora
    @enelsecadomejora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for your videos, coach.

  • @FaithfulServant
    @FaithfulServant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey coach I really like these new videos with other people. You should set it up like a podcast with mics and headphones so the audio is clearer and maybe sit across from each other instead of next to each other. Either way, it was a good episode.

  • @freddyj5845
    @freddyj5845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am glad you brought back your original intro!

  • @marlinshanklin1855
    @marlinshanklin1855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hello your fighting a uphill battle Coach some guys just won't get it.

    • @francisc7358
      @francisc7358 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you explain what you mean?

    • @marlinshanklin1855
      @marlinshanklin1855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@francisc7358 Guy's think it takes looks,money and status it helps. If you have masculine energy and act like a man, women will respond.

    • @samuels-moua9464
      @samuels-moua9464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marlin you've got a good point brother!!! These guys are deluded in their own thinking and haven't read the book 10-15 times!
      Coach Corey keep doing you! You've beena great help!

  • @Brand.on18
    @Brand.on18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She clearly hasn’t given her own situation much thought.

  • @thedoctorkellyshow5252
    @thedoctorkellyshow5252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you brother! Hey, do you have a list of the TH-cam videos that are cited in the 3 Percent Man audio book. Thanks!

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wondered about that too. Someone created this playlist... I haven't checked to see if it follows the book, but maybe it does
      th-cam.com/play/PLF0GFZFKtu6k96U_kppkG9HkD3NVpgCG7.html

  • @SK-zm8iu
    @SK-zm8iu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    DUDE, this is the first time i have seen your physique. I cannot believe you're 50! cheers to another 50, coach

  • @tomschumann5857
    @tomschumann5857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Corey, I just wanted to pass on my highest respects to you for the intimate and personal experiences you share in Mastering Yourself, particularly those about your upbringing and your beautiful mother. I’ve now read Mastering Yourself 4 times, and I have taken away so many great life lessons from those difficult events in your life. I honour you for how courageous you were in sharing those things that may have been hard to talk about. I think it’s amazing that your beautiful mother enabled you to learn so many key lessons about life, that you could pass onto me,, and that I can now pass on to others in my future profession as a Life Coach. Because of your mother, the world is now a better place, and will continue to become better as the lessons she lent us continue to be transmitted. God bless you for everything Corey. Everything you have been through has allowed you to put a dent in this universe. You deserve every bit of success that you enjoy today. Your mother will forever be in heaven smiling down upon you, for the impact you have had. You have done her proud, and she would be honoured to call you her son. I will always have your back no matter what people say.

  • @austinmurray6134
    @austinmurray6134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Other than reading your book and applying the principles, what are some other ways younger men can stand out from women that typically date older men because they have the mindset that older men are better?

  • @RedRose2355
    @RedRose2355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks YOU Correy! Yes yes yes...I'm a woman who listen to your videos, its helpful for me because I improve and learn why I like the things I like...plus I try to coach nice guys, I think nice guys are so sweet....but I need a man to take over some time, so your videos have made me a better listener....Yes I bought your book as well! You are great and I see you as a man...direct...is a potty mouth and unapologetically....doesnt take things too seriously (doenst get butthurt) but still mentions that it's ok to connect with feelings....I have my bf now, I'm his first long term relationship, I'm his first sexual expirience at 28 years old....before your videos and therapy, I would go for the asshole over him...but I am fully aware what I like, I communicate it (not to change him, but sometimes the nice guy needs permission to be the bad boy), I love him, he is so sexy to me....its gonna take work, but he is amazing and I am willing to put the effort. Thanks for your videos.

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you get him to read the book?

  • @dylansd1277
    @dylansd1277 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! Always great.

  • @NK-bw5de
    @NK-bw5de 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Once again, here is a woman confirming everything that’s discussed in the book. Corey may fancy himself just another guy, but for some of us, he is a literal lifesaver and truly helped change the trajectory of countless lives and I for one will forever be indebted.

  • @soniav6119
    @soniav6119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! I've been with my partner who is 10 years older than me, for 22 going on 23 years this year.
    At the time I wasn't looking for anyone nor did I realize that I would have been with or interested in someone that much older than me. But, we connected on a level that I did not find with guys my age and apparently he didn't either. (With women though) Although I was not looking, we had the same common ground, we wanted to be with someone that shared the same values, both family and personal. Such as maintaining an honest relationship with each other, supporting one another, building/growing a life/ family together and gain a best friend, someone we could both run and talk to when things got rough or share great news and even gossip with.
    Honestly, I felt that we were meant to be in a relationship before it even evolved into one. I had always knew what I wanted and didn't want and when things felt right or wrong and he was/is the same.
    I feel as though we were lucky to have found each other. There is a reason why both of our lives was the way it was prior to meeting, because it literally lead us to one another. I can't even imagine a life without him today.
    Yes, we are far from perfect, but we are constantly evolving and continuing to learn from each other. To me that is what keeps our relationship strong, aside from still sharing the same values, which has evolved over the years and still are.
    We have family members that look up to us and say they hope to find what we have and I pray that they do. I would love for everyone to find their person to build a life/ family together and have ups and downs with but always remember the Why and continue to grow together.

    • @ellapark8770
      @ellapark8770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sonia V that’s so amazing!
      I met this older guy last year, and i’m in love with him. He’s much older, more accomplished, smarter, etc, so i feel extremely insecure / shy around him. Like the video, when i met him, i remember thinking “wow i want someone like him”.

  • @brennarisjohnson6101
    @brennarisjohnson6101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a admitted talk to much . I have some social issues . all though Im very social. If that even makes sense . I constantly analyze everything getting lost in all around me . It can allow a women to look past me based on this . I'll attract a women to wanting even a single date , Then I'll do the stuff I stated earlier . Im working on the broken parts of myself . With no intention of being in a relationship. Still a man like myself needs the need a lot. Any advice on how I can not unseal the deal . Any and all advice. From People 0ver 35 only

  • @DarthVeers2
    @DarthVeers2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach, I love those new videos with guests like Dominik and Ashley! You’d be a great podcaster!

  • @carstuff4u942
    @carstuff4u942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    He's a Dr. That's one of the reasons she dated him.

    • @Blodia1990
      @Blodia1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Of course. The steps needed 2 become a dr embody masculinity. Dude is also handsome as hell and is confident as fuck

    • @aurianajohnson14
      @aurianajohnson14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Blodia1990 right I agree with you he's got his life together

    • @snguyen7311
      @snguyen7311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes and no ;)

  • @misterace1191
    @misterace1191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've got a question about his book, does anyone know how can I contact Corey without paying for email coaching?

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what's the question? have you read it?

    • @misterace1191
      @misterace1191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@markwilding3828 I'm just interested whether his texting rule for just setting dates and getting off the phone when she contacts you also applies that extremely for high school?

    • @misterace1191
      @misterace1191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madleed4727 Yes, but watch Corey Wayne - Thoughts on texting around minute 10, he mentions something about that age group

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@misterace1191It's not as extreme as it sounds. I can't speak on Corey Waynes behalf, but what I believe he means, and it has definitely worked for me, is you want to apply the principle as much as possible to your situation. If you set up something with the girl, make a date to spend time together then back off until the date comes around. You might see a bunch of other guys getting in her face and interacting with her and worry that you are losing ground and need to compete for her attention, but hanging back and keeping cool shows confidence and you will look different from the other guys in her eyes... and that is definitely what you want.

  • @sblackfox
    @sblackfox 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    one of the best video on relationships so far

  • @0s0sXD
    @0s0sXD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ashley: Thank you Dominic, next!
    Dominic also "taught" Ashley to be happier. Just like the song too. 7 rings Ariana grande

  • @alexandergarcia5389
    @alexandergarcia5389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More videos like these, coach!

  • @arafatkazi9811
    @arafatkazi9811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finally a live specimen in coach's video.

    • @paulypipes3082
      @paulypipes3082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅 Look it's moving and speaking words!!!

  • @mjdekock9410
    @mjdekock9410 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach i love how you give quotes of your book👌

  • @MatthewBorza
    @MatthewBorza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The second your friend questioned the date regarding the less interested man and his potential good looks it was a giveaway that this isn't a mutual decision, anyone else think that?

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      not really... I have been in situations with this much of an age gap (largely thanks to Cory, lol) ...and you are aware that the biological clock is ticking for a woman that age and it is selfish to hold onto her for too long.

  • @rozadafacundo
    @rozadafacundo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was nice seeing the three of you. And also very important to hear these things from a woman.

  • @tony8118clifton
    @tony8118clifton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I use to hate this fact, now i love it lol... great video coach!

  • @RandomPersonsOpinion
    @RandomPersonsOpinion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That's why I'm 28 with a 49 year old Hes a real man!

  • @therelationshipzonet.r.z.2258
    @therelationshipzonet.r.z.2258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in this current situation right now. I'm 44 and he just turned.. wait for it....67. He's fit, wise and fun.

  • @tonyl.barbur7327
    @tonyl.barbur7327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really like this segment. :)

  • @stuart4679
    @stuart4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She just needs a sugar daddy .... he's paid for it and still is, if she's an employee. Young guys would and should avoid this type of woman at all cost, whilst the older guy thinks he can't get a (crazy, insecure) lil hottie like that without paying either financially, emotionally or spiritually for it.

  • @raiderrick
    @raiderrick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ashley and Dominick have an interesting dynamic going for them. They have a great mutual respect for each other and a mutual attraction that is still evident but the question remains why did there relationship change and what are their individual motivations and agendas now? That still remains unanswered.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She wants babies and he doesn't want more kids. People either grow together or they grow apart. I wrote about this extensively in my first book. A relationship is not a failure because two people don't want to stay together forever.

    • @raiderrick
      @raiderrick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Coach Corey Wayne Thanks for the explanation. Makes complete sense.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now they’re back together and planning on getting married. He’s also getting his vasectomy reversed.

    • @TimmySampson
      @TimmySampson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VoiceOfThe And now she is pregnant.

  • @ronandheather3079
    @ronandheather3079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks coach! I love you bro. You helped me change my whole life and I appreciate you! May god bless you and give you more than you can ever ask or think of!

  • @danielgiordani7625
    @danielgiordani7625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Coach I wanna meet you. You’ve had a huge impact on my life and I want to take you out for a drink so show my appreciation. Please reply!

  • @travischill
    @travischill 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You could be doing interviews with people more often. That might be interesting take on your work!

  • @n1ghtmare724
    @n1ghtmare724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Early coach gang 💪

  • @JarinUdom
    @JarinUdom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Haha let’s ask the guy whose girl left him how to keep a girl like her

  • @professormarcusbryan
    @professormarcusbryan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good morning coach from Detroit

  • @marianpotcovaru1609
    @marianpotcovaru1609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Except for some gray hair, this gentleman looks in good shape, he is positive, calm and full of energy. No wonder he is dating this beautiful lady. I currently talk to a girl who is 16 younger, I'm 39, and she is testing me a lot. I just smile and keep it cool.

  • @kingberry100
    @kingberry100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read in your book that not tipping the staff while on a date is a mistake. Like why? What if you dont believe in tipping?

  • @kairus1
    @kairus1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i really liked this episode

  • @Michael-Harrison544
    @Michael-Harrison544 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Coach.. I been watching your videos on youtube the past few years.. how can i email you.. I Got a brain stomp to ask you about date with this wonderful woman I caught

  • @activitylog1655
    @activitylog1655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like these group videos can you do more of these?

  • @aqadaptiveintelligence
    @aqadaptiveintelligence 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Network!!! SRI!!! My peoples! I am a Network doc thanks to Corey Wayne’s videos.

  • @coloradoluvinit
    @coloradoluvinit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    society would of been so much better if we men would have and should have embraced this essence of peace. 10-20 years younger would be the greatest gap had this norm been established. My sister is first hand in a marriage like this he is 14 years her senior. They seem to be enjoying themselves! Some how I missed this point! He is also super financially stable as well with a younger catch!

  • @alanlnorbert
    @alanlnorbert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Biggest thing for me is to feel safe and supported and the girl isn’t going anywhere - then she is not with the guy who was giving her this- --never listen to women

  • @RobStone
    @RobStone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Reminds me of a conversation with a female friend the other day that people like to talk about themselves. Women do, as soon as us guys talk.. women start to become less interested

  • @Shrimpin_Needles
    @Shrimpin_Needles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    MAAAAANNNNEEEYYYYYYY

  • @duaneacamp
    @duaneacamp ปีที่แล้ว

    What are there zodiac signs

  • @Kyle-fc8jv
    @Kyle-fc8jv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Younger women date older guys because they have more resources and money. As for young teen girls you notice they’re never attracted to guys their age but always a guy who is like 18,19 or 20 because they hit puberty and have more developed features than guys their age during the early years of their teens looks matter a lot to them so that’s why it would be harder for guys to date them at that because aren’t as developed yet and the girls are experiencing feelings, affection and relationships for the first time so they tend to have a simple narrow vision of what relationships are at that age.

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most young women prefer somewhat older guys. Most older women prefer somewhat younger men. That's what I've experienced.

  • @monchichisekiguchi6477
    @monchichisekiguchi6477 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    make a video on how to get a friends with benefits- i prefer fwb than relationship

  • @jonathandelarosa6082
    @jonathandelarosa6082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the awesome collab coach!

  • @chrisklecka4190
    @chrisklecka4190 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brought back the old.intro...woahh

  • @drewelliott9062
    @drewelliott9062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why are they both leaning away from her?

    • @stuart4679
      @stuart4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because subconsciously they feel repelled

  • @Ferg778
    @Ferg778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If things were so great, then why did it end?... 🤔 just like when Corey Wayne talks about is ex wife... if she was a good women that you had a lot of fun with, why did he want a divorce? 🤔.. always wondered that...

    • @kellypantss
      @kellypantss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just because it ended doesnt mean it wasnt successful. People want different things but still wish eachother the best. Not every relationship ends on bad terms. And remember longevity is not the metric for success.

    • @Ferg778
      @Ferg778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly my point... I never said the relationship had to end on bad terms, I always just wondered why it ended if things were so good. In his book Corey Wayne did mention a couple bad things about his wife, but I’m not sure if that’s actually what happened, or if he just put those things in there.... in the book he mentions the different ways of ending the marriage.... he said a person can put a positive spin on things, or a negative spin on things.

    • @kellypantss
      @kellypantss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JayTheLordIsMySaviorJones well what you feel is pretty standard in our society. They tell us if we get in a relationship we gotta be with someone until the day we die. But trust me if you're with the wrong person, everyday feels like the day you're going to die lol.
      You can be with someone until you're 85 and it could of been a very unsuccessful toxic weird relationship that wasnt fulfilling.
      But I do think marriage can be great if you do it right.

    • @kellypantss
      @kellypantss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JayTheLordIsMySaviorJones I think the thing is though is shes 25 so maybe she didnt think about it yet. Sometimes you're in a relationship and questions get deeper and your needs get deeper. Maybe that's what she realized she wanted but it wasnt what she thought she did before she started dating him. Early 20s I didnt care about having kids. Mid 20s I did and had my first at 26.

    • @kellypantss
      @kellypantss 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JayTheLordIsMySaviorJones well I think in this situation the problem wasnt her boyfriend it was their relationship. I've gotten off on good terms with some exes that there wasnt anything "wrong" with the relationship but it just wasnt right. It wasnt right anymore. And still got off on good terms.

  • @0s0sXD
    @0s0sXD 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This girl was so fucking honest at the start
    "I didn't know what I wanted when I dated him" lmao

  • @1KingJacob
    @1KingJacob 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like older woman.

  • @upnorf278
    @upnorf278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The funny thing about tests is that a reaction may be a win for one woman, but a fail for another. I.e. when a woman offers to pay i never jump up and say "no im paying". One gal explained that she loved I'm not insecure about my masculinity, whilst for this one in this video it's a fail. It's relative.

  • @alphainteractions3408
    @alphainteractions3408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Young women want a hit of masculine energy a boy can feel like a sister to her🤣 thanks for the brill video. Irish Dating Coach

    • @Slidehhy
      @Slidehhy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where did your videos go

  • @waynestewart1054
    @waynestewart1054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm 57 my girl is 20 been together almost two years we're having a fantastic time thanks to my main man Corey Wayne

    • @jpc51768
      @jpc51768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that's good, Im 51 my girl is 21.. we live in Russia, and she is such a help in so many ways.

    • @jpc51768
      @jpc51768 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RG-hf4et how old are you?

    • @amgonboost
      @amgonboost 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So you picked her up when she was 18 and you 55 that’s fucked up,
      She wasn’t even born when you were 37 🤮

    • @jpc51768
      @jpc51768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amgonboost did it hurt your feelings

    • @markwilding3828
      @markwilding3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amgonboost why is it your problem? blame yourself... if you young guys weren't so clueless, it wouldn't be happening.

  • @reddwarf3046
    @reddwarf3046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Got a house, profession, car...you can get a young girl who wants out of her parents’s house. When he's 60 and she's hot and 30, she's trading up dude...you're being used. A place to stay instead of her strict parents until she's ready to go off on her own.

  • @gustavochaves1490
    @gustavochaves1490 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahah this gives me some hope, was worried about a young lady i like being 10 years younger being an issue. Although i'd imagine it can be if it is a long term thing. In their case he is 25 years older. But it is still nice to see that at that age someone call pull that off if theyre at the top of their game. Good stuff. Inspirational.

    • @TimmySampson
      @TimmySampson ปีที่แล้ว

      Almost 10% of married couples have at least a 10-15 year age gap so it’s not that uncommon.

    • @TimmySampson
      @TimmySampson ปีที่แล้ว

      In some countries in Africa like Nigeria the most couples has around 12 year age gap.

  • @karrarvanquish
    @karrarvanquish 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey the man sitting like a king 👑

  • @nedertabbara3773
    @nedertabbara3773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This New video format is awesome dude, I'd love to see you, like, not necessarily in field, but just with guests more often... To see how you tease people. I feel like a lot of people need to learn how to be good teasers to create sexual tension and amplify it.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have lots of people I'd love for you guys to meet, however, there is no fucking way in hell they will agree to come on camera. Only people who have a public presence will. Just look at the comments on any video of mine. Who in their right mind would want to subject themselves to the harassment and insults of all the miserable feral humans that come out of the woodwork to project their self hate and self loathing?

  • @nevermindme313
    @nevermindme313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7 minutes in and I don't see what this has to do with age. Based on what shorty said so far, she just likes a man who listens and knows how to court. Older men Run their mouths just as much as younger men. He's just puts more value on a younger woman, because it's probably rare he dates a woman in her sexual prime. I just see a More "mature man" willing to treat her like a "princess" because who knows how long before he's able to snag another 24 year old. The. being each other's "support" is basically him being her support financially and emotionally because he probably acts as a father figure.

  • @lizimoodyspecter7281
    @lizimoodyspecter7281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Richer tends to be older.

  • @mariomaslik
    @mariomaslik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What did you guys smoke beforehand?

  • @tym5583
    @tym5583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Feel like the point doesn't come across as much if you have guests, rather than just yourself just my opinion.

  • @ben_voyage
    @ben_voyage 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He gave a talk about nutrition at her gym that she watched. Then she started working for him. He was a man with status and she was attracted to that. I think status should have been discussed more. Corey, future video topic ;)

  • @sigmatheenigma
    @sigmatheenigma ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The relationship devolved 😂

    • @gustavochaves1490
      @gustavochaves1490 ปีที่แล้ว

      true lol, I am still impressed by the fella. Good for him.

  • @berineayala4767
    @berineayala4767 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting

  • @ten-ub4xd
    @ten-ub4xd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The stoicism is strong in this room

  • @jtrtsay
    @jtrtsay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brad Pitt : Hello?

  • @alfhid1947
    @alfhid1947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She needed to prepare better for the interview.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      she was very nervous. It was her first time on camera.

  • @isss8120
    @isss8120 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So..who should pay for the date? I thought the girl pays for everything