Why Over Pursuing Turns Her Off

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  • Why over pursuing a woman you want to date turns her off and causes her to lose interest so you can avoid these common mistakes.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss three different emails from three different viewers. The first email is from a guy who has been following me for two years and listened to my audio book fifteen times. He shares a very detailed email that reveals his mindset and the mistakes he made that led to him getting blown off. The second email is from a guy who met a girl on tinder who had a guy in the background she really liked. He got pushed away. The third email is from a guy who lost his wife of thirty years about five years ago. A woman who was a friend showed interest, but because he was in mourning, he pushed her away and said he wasn’t ready to date. Then he finally developed feelings for her and told her how he felt on Valentines Day, now she refuses to see him. He’s trying to figure out why. These are three great emails to learn from to learn the sweet spot between pursuing too much and not enough.
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    “When we love and value ourselves, we tend to demonstrate confidence, certainty and decisiveness. When we don’t think very highly of ourselves, we tend to try too hard to make friends and date those we have interest in. Men who feel this way tend to call, text and force too much interaction too soon due to their feelings of potential loss and scarcity. This causes them to fail tests of their strength and self respect by the women they have interest in. When a man won’t stand up for himself, women are repulsed by this unattractive beta male behavior. Set and enforce healthy boundaries with all people in your life. Respect must be earned before it is given. Women will never love men they don’t respect.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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ความคิดเห็น • 375

  • @davidp2888
    @davidp2888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    When she goes cold, walk away and don't look back. If she's sincerely interested in you, she'll seek you out. Never stop working on your mission and purpose, in good times and bad.

    • @robertcollins7034
      @robertcollins7034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Amen brother

    • @davidp2888
      @davidp2888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @jballs squirrel I've learned a lot from Coach's videos, but the one thing that's stuck with me is "the power of the walk away." If you're not being treated right, you tell her "When you're ready to treat me with the respect I deserve, give me a call" and then you walk. Let her think about it and if she reaches out, good. If she doesn't, you're already on your own path so keep going. A woman who values you and is worth it will pursue you and work for your attention.

    • @Papagiorgio153
      @Papagiorgio153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      "If you blow chunks and she comes back, shes yours, but if you spew and she bolts, it was never meant to be" - Wayne Campbell

    • @bvresplendor3169
      @bvresplendor3169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The problem is we care too much about girls, we should not bother so much, you should learn what coach is teaching but if she's treating you like a 2nd class citizen, just forget her, not worth it, most importantly you should not care, not have a single thought about her, that's the only way to not let these girls get to our head, but well if she likes you, she's gonna make a way to see you, seems pretty straightforward guys

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bvresplendor3169 Amen brother!

  • @exquizit_d
    @exquizit_d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Telling her he was gonna go see other girls was horrendously cringy. He might as well have taken a selfie of him crying and sent it to her.

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @carnalgonzo7712
      @carnalgonzo7712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He should just don't anything after she told him she was going to dinner with her family . But normally when a woman do that they got another dude or ex

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ Dino and Juan...... Ya ever done that before?

    • @exquizit_d
      @exquizit_d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@frankiegunnz8066 Take a selfie of me crying and send it to a girl? No. Get butt hurt when a girl doesnt immediately reply to me and my response to it is to tell her I'm gonna see other girls? No. Not saying I've never been butthurt in my life, I've just never done that lol.

    • @carnalgonzo7712
      @carnalgonzo7712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@frankiegunnz8066 yea I have and never heard from that woman again . But I learned the hard way if a girl opens her legs I won't contact her first till I now she's really in to me that would take like a month we're she always calls me first

  • @kingsbasketballclub5251
    @kingsbasketballclub5251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Almost texted this girl I have been on 2 dates with today. Our last date was 2 days ago. All i could hear was Coach Corey saying Cmon Man. She texted me tonight and we have a date Thursday night.

    • @danisirooszadeh7305
      @danisirooszadeh7305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'll press "f" to pay respect to you ma man

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Don't listen to that little devil on your shoulders

    • @jamest681
      @jamest681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happens if her dating coach is telling her not to text first either. How is the empasse broken then.

    • @fuadahmed6060
      @fuadahmed6060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jamest681 Women are more emotional and tend to break before a real man does that. She will eventually break and reach out, u just have to outwait and outwit her a little more than she does.

    • @topshelfbullys7889
      @topshelfbullys7889 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jamest681 she ant watching no coach. Remember. Women chose

  • @FranciscoSanchezXO
    @FranciscoSanchezXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    For all your guys reading the book (10-15 times lol) I made a playlist with all the Videos that the coach lists in his book for us to watch IN ORDER. I made it public because its very useful. The playlist is called "Corey Wayne Book Video Recommendations in Order" Although I feel like i should've called it "Come on, man" lol

  • @casperincityboy867
    @casperincityboy867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Look fellas im 25 and have had alot of experiences with woman, they like the idea of chasing you but get turned off when you get soft and start being too nice so they shit test you every once in a while to see if they got you whipped so the key is to never be too nice but be a gentleman and let them know you are never putting them on a pedestal . You are the prize and are willing to walk away if they dont act right.

    • @Nina-jc3be
      @Nina-jc3be 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you are the prize, then you will get the emotionally unstable woman who will constantly have her happiness depend on you. Talk about being full mode beta. A strong woman, who is emotionally warm and caring won't stay with you.

    • @johnnycalderon9951
      @johnnycalderon9951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Nina-jc3be 😭😭😭 good answer

    • @Nina-jc3be
      @Nina-jc3be 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@johnnycalderon9951 that's just common sense and experience in life. It just works that way psychologically.

    • @johnnycalderon9951
      @johnnycalderon9951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just want both of us to be the prize

    • @Nina-jc3be
      @Nina-jc3be 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@johnnycalderon9951 absolutely. That is the whole point. Give 100%. Either you are in or you aren't. If the other person doesn't see that, you win because they're not right for you in the first place. The moment someone is cold with me, I get the f out of there. Don't entertain playing games and you won't have games to play then. I vet people that way, and always have healthy relationships. But it is hard, since people are way entitled in 2020.

  • @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546
    @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Hi Mr Wayne I got shown your work 5 years ago and bought your book and obviously read it 20+times so I’m only here to keep up as I’m in a happy relationship where I am the man hope your audience realise how good 3%man works 💓 from a happy customer

  • @lloydbeal613
    @lloydbeal613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Dude just talk to more than one woman, until it's time to just talk to one..he just got whipped too easily..

    • @hyperwarrior908
      @hyperwarrior908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Easier to said if we were before the era of Covid19!

    • @ModernValorDating
      @ModernValorDating 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truth! Guys like that need to learn how to SCREEN. It's a very underrated topic that doesn't get brought up enough in men's dating.

  • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
    @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This man that changed my life, a little over 2 months ago my ex left me and I found this mans work. I started working on my purpose, created my TH-cam channel and started traveling and working. Guys I begged and pleaded with my ex to come back but after I found my purpose in life, now i don’t want my ex back.

    • @UngdommensMonopol
      @UngdommensMonopol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Banks da Lone Traveller Exactly my situation.
      No pressure, no diamonds. I have had the best year of my life since practicing his material. Everything in life happens for a reason. Expect to win every day. Repetition creates your reputation.

    • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
      @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      In The Mix thanks bro. Keep moving on too bro.

    • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
      @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In The Mix Just little update, soon after posting this comment, my ex’s mom sent me a message to say ( God bless you) from nowhere. Someone I haven’t spoken with since the breakup and she was there when my daughter called police for me. I don’t even know she will have my number. Guys it just crazy. I wasn’t expecting anything especially from her.

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad to hear you are better and alive my friend and that u found Corey! Stay strong and healty !

  • @deshawn1801
    @deshawn1801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Been listening to you since I was 23 in 2017 I’m 26 and man you’ve helped me so much I’m glad i discovered you at such a young age most guys don’t get this stuff till they’re 40 smh keep up the good work bro !

    • @champinatorr
      @champinatorr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same age and same time as me

    • @gilGames82
      @gilGames82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      21 right here, I feel fortunate as hell

    • @deshawn1801
      @deshawn1801 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are the lucky ones

    • @jasinbiggs7189
      @jasinbiggs7189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      31 here and discovered corey at 29.

    • @s2003katalin
      @s2003katalin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We didn’t have access to this information the same way you guys do today. Take advantage.

  • @robertcollins7034
    @robertcollins7034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    We cant date now with chrona virus !! But perfect time read / listen to the book many times !! So wiser for the future.

    • @rochelledavenport4054
      @rochelledavenport4054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ...Unless it 's online!

    • @marymilygomezsara4505
      @marymilygomezsara4505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I totally agree with you. Get ready!

    • @robertcollins7034
      @robertcollins7034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @A Mugger legend !

    • @robertcollins7034
      @robertcollins7034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rochelledavenport4054 have to meet in person! When you meet online all seems well till you meet and zero chemistry weeks or months chatting online wasted!

    • @robertcollins7034
      @robertcollins7034 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marymilygomezsara4505 amen sister :)

  • @russr5128
    @russr5128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was familiar with your work several years ago but I didn’t apply it in my last relationship and made tons of mistakes. This stuff is for life!

  • @nicklily4033
    @nicklily4033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    love how real this man is. I'm 15 and I'm getting this helpful info young and early! thank you so much, so helpful!

  • @oznearerl3255
    @oznearerl3255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A woman sometimes seems to want to be the most important thing in her man’s life. However, if she is the most important thing, then she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to divine growth and service. She will feel her man’s dependence on her for his happiness, and this will make her feel smothered by his neediness and clinging. A woman really wants her man to be totally dedicated to his highest purpose-and also to love her fully. Although she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.
    -The way of the superior Man

  • @nickg4252
    @nickg4252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m 20 yrs old and I’ve been watching ur videos since I was 17

  • @AIRJAC33
    @AIRJAC33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    First story was like watching a train slowly approaching a car on the tracks and the driver doesn’t know.

  • @srdjanix
    @srdjanix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Coach just keep the beard bro. Looks great on ya!

  • @stilldreaming56
    @stilldreaming56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    4:58 Just happened to me. A few weeks ago. Stings like a bitch. I never struggle with getting girls until I find a "unicorn." Then I just change who I am gradually without noticing, over pursue, scarcity mindset, etc. You've got to treat every woman the same. Shame I missed out on that "unicorn" but at least I figured out what went wrong. I'm on my third read through of your book. Thank you Corey!

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Read It 10x more dude!

    • @stilldreaming56
      @stilldreaming56 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frankiegunnz8066 Will do man!

    • @MMKnight_1
      @MMKnight_1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lost my unicorn a few weeks ago aswell... =(. I also over pursued and was a little vague when asking her out which was probably what turned her off.

  • @aquemeni1979
    @aquemeni1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve read your book 1 1/2 times so far, so I’m like an 80% man so far. Thanks for the coaching sir

    • @Larrybird1980
      @Larrybird1980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep going man. Changed my life. On my 14th time over about a year and a half. One day it just clicked. That was about 7 months ago.

    • @aquemeni1979
      @aquemeni1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John Apple thanks for the encouragement brother. I’m a slow learner but I hear that repetition is the mother of skill lol. He’s definitely helped me with my texting skills and looking at myself more positively, I believe that has historically been my major deficiency.

    • @Larrybird1980
      @Larrybird1980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BeeBeeInn hahhahahahhaha it is the mother of skill. You’ll soon be able to give a presentation on this book from front to back. It becomes you. Remember get right to the point, the phone is for setting dates, not getting to know. Also, if a girl texts you, instead of responding with a text,. Try calling her, you’ll be surprised it will catch her off guard. (Sets you apart from 97% of guys) lol.

  • @Stuntkrazy929
    @Stuntkrazy929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Coach Corey you should get a mug that says “10 -15 Times”

    • @bigounce1292
      @bigounce1292 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He should sell it too, would buy

  • @peter-simonejike6282
    @peter-simonejike6282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Girl: I have been admitted to the hospital hospital from car accident leaving me with with a fracture on my right arm.
    Corey student: okay that's fine, so when are you going to be free to meet up?

  • @ricardoset5390
    @ricardoset5390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The GOAT is back thank god please continue to upload new content it’s certainly helpful in such a difficult time More Life Corey Wayne 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "If a woman really want you, they will go all out and pursue you once you both at least exchanged phone numbers" - #RaphaelOnochie

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who's Raphael?

    • @Vickiluv
      @Vickiluv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If that woman is masculine she will

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Vickiluv That's you?

    • @Vickiluv
      @Vickiluv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Frankie Gunnz hardly, but I notice a lot of “men” are looking for a “woman” in her masculine energy so he can in the feminine role and be courted and pursued..the whole role reversal.

    • @Vickiluv
      @Vickiluv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Frankie Gunnz hardly, but I notice a lot of “men” are looking for a “woman” in her masculine energy so he can in the feminine role and be courted and pursued..the whole role reversal.

  • @ultragoldcoin8780
    @ultragoldcoin8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Before you listen to this; I wanted to tell you, that you are beautiful and exceptional. Also your a phenomenal human being; I love you and I hope positive experiences will start happening in your life, if they haven't already. Keep moving forward my friend; start adopting positive and beneficial habits & behaviors. Eat healthy and treat yourself with kindness, in addition to others also. Fair well my friend; God Bless you 💖

  • @ReachingFullPotential
    @ReachingFullPotential 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dating during the virus is boring af! I’m really just focused on my goals now.

  • @ALLWEDOISVIEW
    @ALLWEDOISVIEW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Although I read the book plenty, the robotic thing happened to me at first and I blew it. A little bit more practice and you'll get it down pat. It's a balance of understanding the principles while still being yourself. It will become natural soon, no worries! You're on to the NEXT!

  • @knkpro011
    @knkpro011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. I am currently watching "Why chasing women causes rejection" as recommended from the book. Now I will watch this to learn more.

  • @simonpyza5270
    @simonpyza5270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your beard is great coach. Masculine, strong and mysterious. Chuck Norris would be proud.

  • @victorsenna5729
    @victorsenna5729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Coach Corey, I'd like to tell you that this intro music blasts my eardrums hard everytime, but I love your content, thanks!

  • @EternalLife91
    @EternalLife91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hi Corey, hope you are doing well and staying safe!

  • @SeductionUnleashed
    @SeductionUnleashed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The first and most fundamental harsh lesson all white knights must learn in life. Sometimes touching base on the basic fundamentals is the best thing. I remember boxing when I was younger, sometimes you'd get so caught up with other aspects. You'd forget to just break it down to controlling the tempo with your footwork/jab. Cheers fellas, lets make the best of this

  • @terryjoeljunior
    @terryjoeljunior 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coach Corey bro, it's soon time for me to take over sailor, your getting up there in age! hahahaha! Pass the torch brother

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It must be the universe working! It just happened a similar situation with me, I know well your material but after a while dating I just couldn't maintain my strenght after a set of challenges the girl I was dating put on me. What scares me the most is when Im going to find my next girl (especially during this Covid months), cos until this day, I never had a great relationship for a long period of time. I am 32! At least I will keep improving and moving on to what I really want and deservr!

    • @UngdommensMonopol
      @UngdommensMonopol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pablo Giorgio read the book 15 times. Take care of your body, your social circle and your purpose. Within a year you will excel in ways beyond anything you have experienced before.
      How bad do you want it? Create a winning culture in your mind. Expect to win and radiate curiosity and entitlement.

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be happy yourself ,dont expect women to make you happy. When u are good with yourself women Will come ;-)

  • @rangergains3614
    @rangergains3614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Can you make a video on what to do when you just started talking to a girl during this COVID-19?

    • @dominick000
      @dominick000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ranger Gains 😂😂😂

  • @evanhiggins7298
    @evanhiggins7298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a similar experience, but I didn't go that far. I was too confident with my late success, so I re-listened to the book and wrote it off as experience. Its definitely more challenging when you have gotten together with or talk to someone you're more interested in

  • @joeyjummati6809
    @joeyjummati6809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Coach, you are great! I listen to your videos every night. I took your advice and I have your book and I’m in a relationship now because I listened and followed what you taught. It was like magic! Keep up the good work. I’m going to order your 3% man coffee mug! - Joey Jummati

  • @itsjustnopinionok
    @itsjustnopinionok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm all over your book. On my 2nd of what will be 15 readings over this year. I already feel better. And had a chance to put some of your work in action and got a positive responce. 1 day at a time. Thanks.

  • @PeteAndersen
    @PeteAndersen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When it comes to reading 10-15 times might be enough. But when it comes to listening you should do at least 20-25. Why? Because you’re not as focused when listening. And then you should keep the the knowledge alive inside by reading or listening once every second month. How do I know? Because I’ve been listening 23 times and I’m still doing small mistakes here and there. It’s like old habits or cravings that have to go. But all in all I’m much more masculine, mysterious and nonpursuing than I used to be. You’re a gentleman but not a ‘gentle man’ as my new Unicorn lovingly said to me yesterday. ❤️ Thx Corey for getting me out of The Matrix and into The Real World. Greetings from Mr. Anderson. 😎😎

  • @ThomasGrdv
    @ThomasGrdv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the videos and the value you give them man, every time I watch I learn something new. You’ve helped me so much in this journey of dating I can’t thank you enough. The best coach there is!

  • @sanatatemasculinadrn
    @sanatatemasculinadrn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is why is important to have more women at the same time in your life until you accept to be exclusive with the one that earns your heart.

  • @samsmith6279
    @samsmith6279 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have this exact situation as email 1.
    I was going to shoot my shot and reach out to coach, but this first email answered all my questions!
    I know this video is half a decade ago but those are Coach Corey Wayne gems!

  • @alphainteractions3408
    @alphainteractions3408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Chase success. Do the selfcare work on your personal development , fashion and fitness and let women chase you. Irish Dating Coach.

    • @Murf1211
      @Murf1211 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No Name take your low value behavior some where else, we ain’t interested.

  • @juliobucio2036
    @juliobucio2036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    For those of you worrying about COVID19 affecting Corey Wayne’s philosophy: you obviously don’t know it well enough. The approach should not change. Instead of an in-person date, try and set up virtual (Skype, FaceTime) dates. This will obviously work better if you’ve already met them in person. Once she reaches out after your virtual date, use that as an opportunity to set up your next “date.” This is the best way to go. Otherwise, as some have already mentioned, avoid dating all together and use this time to work on yourselves. Remember, there is no scarcity of women. Love yourselves!

    • @MattDiGi
      @MattDiGi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      facetime doesn’t sound like a fun filled opportunity for sex to happen

    • @juliobucio2036
      @juliobucio2036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MattDiGi which is why I mentioned that this is best for those who have already established an in person relationship. Webcam sex is always a possibility. Otherwise, as was also mentioned, refrain from dating during this time and work on yourself.

    • @voltinur
      @voltinur 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliobucio2036 what about invite her over to your place? Stay at home and order some food online

    • @juliobucio2036
      @juliobucio2036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@voltinur I believe this all depends on the current stage of your relationship and what the current government guidelines are in your area. If you've already been intimate, I would float the idea and get her thoughts and go from there. The pandemic is serious, you don't want to prioritize seeing her during a time like this, especially if the relationship is in the early stages. Remember your purpose.

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😃🤯

  • @Theclassiccarnut
    @Theclassiccarnut 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Corey, you da Man! You reminded me that I'm a Man as well. 6 year relationship back on track but 2nd option of being single again was exciting as well. Either way, all is great and loving life!

  • @gthang8978
    @gthang8978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    😂 “C’mon Man!” Awesome!

    • @mav7804
      @mav7804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      G Thang hahahahhaha

  • @andudontstopyo
    @andudontstopyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Corey, I absolutely luv watching your videos on dating and relationships. It gives me real insight on techniques a man should use when dating; and after looking at some of your videos I'll definitely know if he reads your book. By the way, you are too funny "Come on Man"..Hilarious😂 Great video boo!😘

    • @deshawn1801
      @deshawn1801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This guy is a life saver

    • @andudontstopyo
      @andudontstopyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deshawn1801 Yes, it's a breath of fresh air to finally have a male perspective.

    • @andudontstopyo
      @andudontstopyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MrAkaalis If I realized it; I would be impressed. They give us women so many tools when it comes to dating and relationships; I think men should have tools as well. Men want to feel loved too❤

  • @denbysk8
    @denbysk8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In times like now focus on yourself and dont worry about the woman leave her to it

  • @montrose252
    @montrose252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was getting hot and heavy with the woman I'm dating. She hit the brakes. I said "You do what you have to do, but I would like to see you." I never reached out I worked hard on my own projects. After three weeks radio silence she sent an SMS: "I have been thinking about you a lot." I passed the test of strength! We are back in business, but we are on COVID 19 lockdown, so won't be able to hang out for a while....

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If you put the poo-swa on a pedestal, they’ll run away and either go to their backup plan, or find a Chad, Tyrone, or Dirty Dick Rodney, because they never chase or pedestalize her.

  • @pinoy122793
    @pinoy122793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Going to read the book 20x Corey. Keep it up. 💪🙏.

  • @kimberlys4075
    @kimberlys4075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very informative, even for us ladies...

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I used to over pursue a lot especially on dating sites. I would always get girls interested in me who lived further away and would say “too bad you live far away.”
    I never had a good answer for that. But I would tend to try to convince them that I didn’t live far away. Never seemed to work for me.

  • @zobboy8641
    @zobboy8641 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you can’t control your emotions around a woman and falling all over yourself you’re already done for! Mental fortitude goes a long way.

  • @simonmonoa2561
    @simonmonoa2561 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much respect for you man, really changed my life. ✨

  • @Jordanickel
    @Jordanickel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! A new video. These stories are very entertaining!

  • @hectorcollazo8845
    @hectorcollazo8845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I admit I made a grave mistake on texting too much on 3 beautiful women--2 Caribbeans and 1 Southern Belle--who were interested in me after I met them on online dating apps. This hits home, so now I know and accept why I was ghosted by them. The problem isn't them, it's me. I was guarding myself too much (maybe it's the Capricorn in me, I dunno) into making sure that they're serious about me as I was to them. I wanted to play it safe by texting in order to get know each other better. Well I'll no longer make that same mistake ever again! I had a great single life in all my teens and twenties. Had a short relationship, but I'm ready for a newer, better one. I don't plan to stay single in my 30s and beyond 'cause singlehood is boring and lifeless to me.

  • @markroden9968
    @markroden9968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even if you don't have plans, don't tell her you don't have plans. #1 rule of the game.

  • @bvresplendor3169
    @bvresplendor3169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was watching your channel after ages and you uploaded damnnn, that timing coach, guess it's never a co-Incidence

  • @JFKennedeez
    @JFKennedeez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every girl you have feelings for feels like a unicorn, until you’re over her, then you couldn’t care less.

  • @iamasian4464
    @iamasian4464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The OG is back! Havent aged since coach corey

  • @B1GK1NG
    @B1GK1NG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg! Telling her that he’s going to see other women was major cringe. Wow!

  • @JohnMorris.77
    @JohnMorris.77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That look when he says “Come on, man” as he takes a swig from the mug. Classic.

  • @djdoncruse1952
    @djdoncruse1952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coach I’m dying laughing !! When you say ( Come on man)😂😂

  • @romancebuie8390
    @romancebuie8390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wo! Coach really hitting on the truth there 2:45. Similar message to what i found in the book Wild at Heart

  • @nathanberry5828
    @nathanberry5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Looking sharp at 50 dude!

  • @griff4899
    @griff4899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for another great video man.

  • @davidstenta1629
    @davidstenta1629 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video as always CCW. Stay safe coach 🙏

  • @gamermasta525
    @gamermasta525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LMAO Corey's faces are so funny. You can see the look of horror and disappointment

  • @LSwaggy
    @LSwaggy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey coach... Can you make a video about positivity despite Covid-19? I'm a Welding Student / Amateur Boxer who can't even Weld or Train at the moment and feel lost on New York lockdown...

  • @writingmaster3008
    @writingmaster3008 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    There were 3 girls i liked last year but we didn't work out for various reasons. Said hi this year, made a bit of friendly banter, jokes, tested the waters slightly then each one of them made it clear they wanted to see me again. I was like, yup, buzz me when you are in town BYE!!!!! and i dont text them. U gotta have other shit going on and you gotta as corey says, focus on your mission. They'll be in touch again.......

  • @vycaso
    @vycaso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A great movie I think that gives a great example of how men should act and behave around a woman is Christopher Reeves Superman the scene where Lois interviews Superman. I like that scene to me that's a great example how men should act and behave around women.

  • @drapered7762
    @drapered7762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach Corey with the number of people meeting online growing and ending the relationship successfully (and some which do not), especially long distance relationships, I hope you’ll have a discussion on how to start and keep an online relationship going even without ever meeting for some time. This is a tough subject but I’m sure you or someone on your team can address this.

  • @AJCzarkowski
    @AJCzarkowski 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "She gave me a 'lover's hug'", 🤣

  • @effortlessericcrypto3579
    @effortlessericcrypto3579 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally !!! The "Come on Man"Mug !!!

  • @richjnev70
    @richjnev70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I won't be doing a lot pursing now I'm locked down!

  • @cyrusthegreat1345
    @cyrusthegreat1345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the mug ! 💥💥

  • @coachpaulhagen1036
    @coachpaulhagen1036 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome as always!!!!

  • @maxwellverbout4571
    @maxwellverbout4571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Coach I’ve been following you for years. Could you please make a video surrounding how we should behave during what’s going on at this moment? It’s hard to watch the news in times like this and I think we need someone to spread some motivational wisdom.

  • @frankiegunnz8066
    @frankiegunnz8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The original TH-cam dating coach Is back!!! #ComeOnMan

  • @leewatling956
    @leewatling956 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach get the razor on the head and let that beard grow! I want to see you immortalised as a relationship warrior and masculine guru with your teachings echoing through time :)

  • @blingeefairy
    @blingeefairy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Corey you are the man. Please consider making a video about men who just don't get ''no'' for an answer. What's the psychology behind that? Recent example: he keeps texting you and if you don't respond or wait for hours to get back to him and give one worded answers in the hope that he will get the message and back off, he responds with sad emojis. You reach the point where you blatantly tell him ''Look. You are not my type, I'm into someone else, you are wasting your time on me'', he comes back with ''I don't think I am wasting my time'' waits for a few days, finds a stupid reason to text you, you respond with a simple ''thanks' because you feel sorry for him', he chooses to interpret that as interest on your part , next thing you know he is at it again. What is wrong with these people? Why can't they respect your choice? What makes them think they know better than you what YOU need or want in your life?

    • @Rage-_-Quit
      @Rage-_-Quit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      rejection breeds obsession

  • @karenbaird9757
    @karenbaird9757 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome content keep up the great content

  • @CoolClipsable
    @CoolClipsable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The first guy made the mistake of texting BETWEEN dates.

  • @SargentGunnery
    @SargentGunnery 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey! Stay safe man!

  • @NethervvoidBuilds
    @NethervvoidBuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually think the 'no texting or talking on the phone' thing is wrong. I've raised interest MANY times this way. I think the problem is most people don't know how to communicate over text and phone properly, so it's like oh just don't use it at all. But yes it's a balancing act. Overuse is never good, text, phone, or in person.

    • @NethervvoidBuilds
      @NethervvoidBuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have to know how to flirt and use sexual quips in order to use text and phone calls. Most people suck at this.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It applies mostly in the beginning when you are still dating, but once she falls in love and you're in a relationship, she will be calling and texting you all the time. She will be all over your ass and wanting your attention all the time.

    • @NethervvoidBuilds
      @NethervvoidBuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CoachCoreyWayne Thanks for the reply, Coach! Love your stuff! Got your book, 3% man. I agree with 90%+ of your stuff, so don't want this to come off as 'Coach is always wrong'.
      I do get the point of not looking needy by sending too many texts. Also def chop it short if the texts become 'boring', but honestly I have raised interest many times with texting in the beginning (usually funny and / or sexual things), I can use it to build anticipation, but like I said most guys don't know how to do it, so the default of 'dont do it' is probably best for most dudes.
      Thanks for the videos, etc! Great stuff!

  • @noisyether9211
    @noisyether9211 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAHAHAHA I'm cracking up...Fall into the Abyss!!!!!

  • @banaya29
    @banaya29 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found every year when I'm focused centered and ready I always find a UNICORN. The law of averages. We attract what we become plain and simple. Don't over complicate natural animal attraction.

  • @TheShadeManGuitar
    @TheShadeManGuitar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo Corey Wayne do a video on talking to girls through the Coronavirus pandemic/ statewide lockdowns

  • @writingmaster3008
    @writingmaster3008 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Few points just on the 'quote'.
    1. quote by definition means you are repeating other's words. "to repeat the words that someone else has said or written' Cambridge Dictionary. You are writing 'maxims' 'a short statement of a general truth, principle, or rule for behaviour' Cambridge Dictionary.
    2. This maxim sums up so much of what you teach. I've written it down and will paste it on my wall. You need to get YOURSELF in a position of strength BEFORE you go chasing after anyone else to give it to you. It will flow from everyone, including the woman of your dreams, once you obtain it. More chasing of the one you THINK is the one is weak because you are desperate for her approval. If a woman sees you are weak, she has no use for you, and you are finished. Get yourself sorted first. Write affirmations on a wall, as a close friend to tell you what's good about you, build yourself up and then go for it.
    A big thanks to Corey for all his work. It works. All of it. Good luck friends!

  • @tonytrilex2555
    @tonytrilex2555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even though you are awesome Corey and like you say don't take anything personal but please moisturize buddy.

  • @macioluko9484
    @macioluko9484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    @10:53 Jesus Christ! She said she would like to go out "next time". Let her get in touch and shout your big yapper!
    @12:40 Dude. How do you feel, honestly, when a shady car salesman you want to get away from or a street marketer asks you when are you free the moment you say you're leaving? Creepy as F@CK! Stop this needy behavior.
    @13:52 and most importantly, you never allow her to wonder about you. Every time you walk away from an interaction and you DON"T text or call, she wonders!
    @18:50 Holy Shiate if guys would just put their damn phone down... 99% of their issues would go away.

  • @Piard
    @Piard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am buying the physical copy it will be easier.

  • @juelzd7172
    @juelzd7172 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey Wayne 3:51 welcome to 2020 lol you just need James Bond wrist bands

  • @Damon3825
    @Damon3825 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    We literally watched this guy become the needy guy that women block.

  • @avantegarde123
    @avantegarde123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Coach how should we approach maintaining attraction during Quarantine? My girl left me because she felt I did not put enough effort or was a cold fish.

    • @mmendoza1190
      @mmendoza1190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      leave her alone. move on

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There si someone else there haha. Do not contact her ,she is not your girl anyomore! Maybe some other dude is doing her now ;-) You just enjoy your life and that will show her you are happy without her and thats the only thing that can trigger her to contact you. Never show that you are sad,broken or weak without her, that will make you weak in her eyes!

    • @avantegarde123
      @avantegarde123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey guys thanks, it's alright. I did no contact and she came back, I have the power now. But it's hard to deal with her cause she has depression and B.P.D.

    • @gregbutler2985
      @gregbutler2985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@avantegarde123 good luck with that

  • @andyl7547
    @andyl7547 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This first guy was a train wreck. "When are you free? When are are you free?"

  • @Neptunianist
    @Neptunianist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really good analysis. I've made this mistake. Can't help but cling when feeling like I'm going to lose her. So lose it with the ones I really care about. But appreciate this analysis and will try to use it but it's easy to think I will but different when it's really happening as the connection with such a girl is critical and vital to maintain. Pretending to be casual when I'm feeling intense is difficult.

  • @sanjivkathuria644
    @sanjivkathuria644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    KING OF KINGS -COACH COREY WAYNE.

  • @wanderingwondering3437
    @wanderingwondering3437 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come on man!! I love this catchphrase

  • @KevZen2000
    @KevZen2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If a female friend zones or ghost you, you stop communicating with her. Don't waste your time, trying to get her. You can easily replace her. There's plenty of women available. There's no scarcity. There's an abundance.

  • @ConnorDRyan
    @ConnorDRyan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s hard to date during coronavirus!

    • @denverstoners
      @denverstoners 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hang out in the car or invite her over.it's obvious to her that there ain't shit to do.

    • @mav7804
      @mav7804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Honestly I think the best thing to do is wait until the virus thing is under control. It’s hard to build attraction unless you’re face to face, and trying to force a connection while women are more than likely prioritizing finances and family safety will come off as neediness.

    • @journeyquest1
      @journeyquest1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can blow her a kiss as long as its at least 6 ft away.

    • @wellstang
      @wellstang 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mav7804 truth. Even I'm priotizing finance and safety as well. Job income at stake

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had to break up with my ex, this lockdown felt like we were penpals. Fuck that