Don't Know What You Want? Do These 4 Easy Steps!

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  • @smokinghot5373
    @smokinghot5373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    when i was a kid i thought i would be a power ranger, now i'm very frustrated. i can't think of anything.

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do you need to know what you'll "be" right now?

  • @buam4802
    @buam4802 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm only 15 years old and after this holiday I will be in my second year of high school so I have to choose which direction I wanna go already from now , and your video is literally what was I need to decide , you have no idea how much your video was helpful for me! you saved my life
    :(💜!!

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awe I love hearing this. Be sure to check out some of my other videos that might help further: 10 Things I Wish I Knew In High School + Should I Go To College? 😘 wishing you the best of luck. Stay true to yourself girl.

  • @Evajeanfreedom
    @Evajeanfreedom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm 36 and only just been living the life I want to live, this past year or so. life's too short not to do what your passion IS! Great video 💗

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Girl preach 🙌🏻 Love that you're living the life you want too...it's never too late to get started!

    • @dylanpower1438
      @dylanpower1438 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karen Coaching For positive health! What job did u do before

  • @neddymarella1571
    @neddymarella1571 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    What if I still can't think about anything?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then it's time to do some soul searching. Start asking yourself some questions. If you haven't signed up for my free 3-part video training, I think you'd find that very beneficial...especially Video 3!

  • @DebbieBuckland
    @DebbieBuckland 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow... I'm 44 and needed this so much 😉😉

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woot woot, happy it could help 😀

  • @PheadrasArts
    @PheadrasArts 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I usually find these types of videos and feel bad about myself but girl you are funny and straightforward and that makes this video cheery as hell! Good job!

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha thanks! And thanks for watching :)

  • @messyroomstudios
    @messyroomstudios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video!!!!

  • @Suxanes
    @Suxanes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your way of thinking!💛 Ill try this.

  • @joycea3290
    @joycea3290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a 36 year old mother with a son and I don't know what to do with I am very short money no job and I thought I knew what I wanted but no I don't.
    Now what?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Time for some soul-searching. Get your day job right- something that's not too stressful, but pay the bills, while at the same time...figuring out what your big dream is!

  • @erkutgurun
    @erkutgurun 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Out of all the "I dont know what I want" videos out there, yours is not only the best, but the most precise. Go girl! And by the way, you should think of being a rocket scientist as a side-job :)

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha I'm contemplating it! Thanks for watching, glad you enjoyed it :)

  • @dukkothelovebird
    @dukkothelovebird 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Push back your beliefs
    Ponder thinking money is not a issue.
    Poke 10 min a day for what you want
    Persist to it

  • @elaynalayne4610
    @elaynalayne4610 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always look forward to seeing your videos, and this one was definitely something I needed some guidance on. 👌🏻

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      😀 I love when I choose a topic that people need in the moment! Thanks for always watching. xo

  • @thaliabell4139
    @thaliabell4139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank u so much I really needed to hear this and it's exactly what I'm going to do thank u

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! Wonder what you'll come up with in the ponder stage 🤔

  • @nomistake123
    @nomistake123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is awesome. Totally what I need right now. :)

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love that! Glad it could help :)

  • @plutowithlove
    @plutowithlove 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that's what I wanted...thanks..happy Easter ☺😊😀

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay!! Happy belated Easter :)

  • @mentalist115
    @mentalist115 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love all your videos. The video starts and I feel so good... all my worries go away...

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's really nice 😊 it's nice to know my personal goals in making these videos are being met. More to come...

  • @chellichaima8387
    @chellichaima8387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg u r amazing

  • @sez1124
    @sez1124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    anyone else don't know if they should move schools or not?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No right or wrong decision. Just like the reason you choose to stay or go and have your own back :)

    • @sez1124
      @sez1124 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShainaLeis thank you :)

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank uuu for uploading the video trainings!! lots of love

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome! I'm glad you like them

  • @ryansledge8536
    @ryansledge8536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i don't get it.
    I'm 14 and I'm kind of on a sort of road of self discovery, and I'm really indecisive. i know, one youtube video isn't going to inspire an epiphany or anything and that really, i need to find out for myself, but it was worth a try.

  • @afifasimlee2111
    @afifasimlee2111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a good adviser...but the problem is I know what I wanted to do..My parents wants me to be a lawyer...But I want to be simple..i want to live my life with happiness not with huge books, files,and cases...I don't know how overcome it....😶

  • @smitha.scheruvathur310
    @smitha.scheruvathur310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Were is the steps

  • @kalpitruparel6136
    @kalpitruparel6136 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep it up Shaina

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much! Will do 😄

  • @nogasdivone2753
    @nogasdivone2753 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what if I actually don't know what I want?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did you come up with when you asked yourself one of the questions? Such as, "If money was not an issue at all, I would...?" (How would you spend your time?)

  • @MuhammadJunaidHTMLTutorial
    @MuhammadJunaidHTMLTutorial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    shinna you are making so good videos

  • @Ittybittysteph
    @Ittybittysteph 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video shaina 💕 if I may ask, are you a full time you tuber? 😊

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! Full time- as in this is all I do for work? If that's what you mean, then no...I do it on the side!

  • @joycea3290
    @joycea3290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a slow poke and I can't handle working in a restaurant.

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then maybe working at a restaurant isn't your thing. That's OK. What about retail?

  • @normajean010626
    @normajean010626 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this video so much :-) thank you thank you thank you

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome you're welcome you're welcome :)

  • @the1betterpodcast84
    @the1betterpodcast84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    didnt expect that it's that good eh

  • @ocsosweet
    @ocsosweet 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    makes sense, Les Brown says that too

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ohhh really, didn't even know that!

  • @budgetrebelgoals
    @budgetrebelgoals 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks so much

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're very welcome!

  • @kainat_khalil
    @kainat_khalil 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awsome i love ths video girl ❤well done

  • @niklasnordahl8841
    @niklasnordahl8841 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A great and inspiring video

  • @niceandgloomy
    @niceandgloomy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If money wasn't an issue, what would I do? Lounge around all day reading and jet off to paris every other weekend. I swear every video about how to discover what you want says 'you do know actually' and just leaves it at that. What if I don't know?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You must SHIFT your thinking first. Try going from "I don't know" to "it's possible that I do know." Saying "I don't know" closes you off. I know it sounds silly, but TRUST!

    • @niceandgloomy
      @niceandgloomy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShainaLeis I think lying to myself is a negative thing. I want to always be honest with myself. I don't know what I want. I want to discover what I want. Just pretending I already know, which I don't, doesn't help me achieve that.

  • @katyharding6431
    @katyharding6431 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Should I be stressing about my future job at 14?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No

    • @arimamira
      @arimamira 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shaina Leis should I be at 13?

  • @alexandriatodorova1261
    @alexandriatodorova1261 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started, but I don't even know do I want this

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How interesting is that though! You can then go further and ask yourself even more questions. Why might I want this? Why not? Where do I think this confusion is coming from? So much valuable info to gain here about YOU!

    • @alexandriatodorova1261
      @alexandriatodorova1261 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShainaLeis Thank you for helping me out! I actually found out that I want this. :)

  • @alukodemilade4116
    @alukodemilade4116 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are really beautiful..thank you for this video❤❤❤

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! And thanks for being here ❤️

  • @emma_2242
    @emma_2242 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad asked what I want for a snack and I don't KNOW

  • @ruthhaus1804
    @ruthhaus1804 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if i want a million different things ?

    • @ShainaLeis
      @ShainaLeis  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Start narrowing it down! Hone in on what's most important and exciting

  • @somaghosh5053
    @somaghosh5053 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are soooooo cute👒☺️☺️

  • @titoboyclassic5503
    @titoboyclassic5503 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LIKE YOU SUPER CUTE HIHIHI 😚