I know your content is more aimed towards men, but as a female your content is helping me too! Thank you for your strength and wisdom and putting it out there for others who are seeking a more fulfilling sense of self and life! 🙏 Also, I think people confuse disengaging from lust for rejecting our healthy sexual selves altogether, which is very damaging, and actually inadvertently contributes to lust. So thank you for explaining that distinction for everyone!
Been thinking about this. The point is not to have no sexual energy, you actually want a lot of it, but put into productive ends, rather than viceful ends. Good video.
13:45 “The moment where you lose is where you believe that because you have an emotion [such as lust], then you have to act upon it.” Brilliant quote. I want to be less reactive to my emotions, especially lust and boredom. Thank you for another “lecture” (lol) Joseph!
I like the change of terminology that your propose. After all, we are not trying to become neutered, or even assexual. We are trying to become lust-free.
That energy of lust is the fire that motivates me to get off my ass and so something with my life. When I don’t have it I genuinely feel like doing nothing. All I want to do is lay in bed all day and watch TV
Discernment is key, contrast is invaluable, cease unnecessary judgement~ Learning to distinguish the difference with a mix of objective and subjective observation Makes all the difference. 🙌🙏💛
10:00 if some people think that the urge to have sex is stronger than the urge to eat it only means that this people have never been trully hungry and had their stomach full most of the time .. when you are not satisfying your coloric needs you will notice that the urge for sex dissapears ... as a matter of fact to have the "urge" usually also means that you overindulge in food and certain types of foods (besides the sexualizing content everywhere)
Recently I have had the confliction of shutting down any sexual thought and seeing it as bad, I feel shame. Whenever sexual moments would take place with my girlfriend, I struggled to feel genuinely aroused because I would have something in the back of my mind that was anchoring me down. This led to awkward moments of having a more than lack luster sex life, Im glad this video was created because I was trying to remove my sexuality from my biology.
Yep, can confirm. 2 times in my life i "achieve" state of completly desexualise myself and 2 times it ended really badly. I remember that i had literally 0 sexual thoughts etc. and it lasts months. Sure, it has pros, shit ton of energy and hyper focus on purpose and goals, but for me it had major flaw. After couple months my mental health droped so drastically and instantlly, that second time it happened to me i was serious of ending myself. That "state" lasts months so it wasn't fun at all. Other cons: anxiety through the roof, completly not working D no matter what, literally you can put hottest and naked chick in front of me and my D will not even move. Maybe it was just my mental health, and other will not have same problems, but it happened to me 2 times, same exact script, so id rather deal with lust than thinking about how i will end myself
Not even kidding u I just hit the 2 1/2 month mark and I feel the same way. Especially without social media I feel completely detached and deprived, to the point where I plan on hooking up and restarting just to feel something. Maybe in the future I’ll have more opportunities and ideas to “transmute” but as of now I’m waiting for fkn Army basic training😹
@@adrianvictor7705 I think these 3 things helped me keep my sexual being alive. 1. training legs very intense 2 days a week. 2. 1 day a week of sprinting 3. being around woman a lot more, getting hugs, talking to them. I feel like they power my energy after im done hanging out with them.
To be fair, i still didnt recover fully. I gave more thoughts yesterday to this situation and i remember that i was feeding my mind sentences like "i dont want s*x, i dont want girls, i dont want to be horny" etc. and it really worked. To recover from this i started doing opposite, "i really really like girls, i like sexual tensions and their body" etc. turns out its really true what you feed your mind, that become your reality
Sorry about multicoments but the addiction thing is like a magnet the further you draw away the less the force of pull that is the trap ppl cant see in addiction
Joe Dispenza, breaking the habit of being yourself. Great book to describe in greater detail what your talking about here Joseph. I’m sure you have read it already though.
Can you make a video on how you are so calm in front of the camera all the time? I checked out your old videos and you are still so natural and authentic in them. I have been trying to copy your way of speaking for a while, but I am wayy offf. I go crazy when speaking on camera. I know it's not related to your regular videos, but it would be a waste not to teach something you are so good at.
Great video! But, who is responsible for that hardcoded subtitles? A lot of mistakes on those subtitles!!! E.g. 17:01 You said "Huberman" and the subtitles says "Human"!!! Common mistake, but I think should be revised before hardcoding into the video!!!
I know your content is more aimed towards men, but as a female your content is helping me too! Thank you for your strength and wisdom and putting it out there for others who are seeking a more fulfilling sense of self and life! 🙏
Also, I think people confuse disengaging from lust for rejecting our healthy sexual selves altogether, which is very damaging, and actually inadvertently contributes to lust. So thank you for explaining that distinction for everyone!
Been thinking about this. The point is not to have no sexual energy, you actually want a lot of it, but put into productive ends, rather than viceful ends. Good video.
Could you help me out? I would like to know how to achieve using sexual energy towards productive pursuits?
@@farragoprismproductions3337 look into "sexual energy transmutation" it's about learning tantric yoga or chi Kung or both.
@@farragoprismproductions3337You know the answer. Work out, brainstorm, socialise. Come on now
13:45 “The moment where you lose is where you believe that because you have an emotion [such as lust], then you have to act upon it.”
Brilliant quote. I want to be less reactive to my emotions, especially lust and boredom. Thank you for another “lecture” (lol) Joseph!
I like the change of terminology that your propose. After all, we are not trying to become neutered, or even assexual. We are trying to become lust-free.
That energy of lust is the fire that motivates me to get off my ass and so something with my life. When I don’t have it I genuinely feel like doing nothing. All I want to do is lay in bed all day and watch TV
here within a minute. Best topics for deep thinking on the art of masculinity.
appreciate you bro!
@@MasculineTheory Awesome to see a reply!
I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.Your insights made me a different man today. God bless you.
Discernment is key,
contrast is invaluable,
cease unnecessary judgement~
Learning to distinguish the difference with a mix of objective and subjective observation Makes all the difference.
🙌🙏💛
Great points.. I love the urges as they give me huge energy! Lusting over those temptations is the issue! Facts brotha
Your videos are helping me day to day with my struggle with SR. I’m looking forward to reaping the long-term benefits.
Favorite channel of 2024
Thanks for this important facts 💙
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if some people think that the urge to have sex is stronger than the urge to eat it only means that this people have never been trully hungry and had their stomach full most of the time .. when you are not satisfying your coloric needs you will notice that the urge for sex dissapears ... as a matter of fact to have the "urge" usually also means that you overindulge in food and certain types of foods (besides the sexualizing content everywhere)
Recently I have had the confliction of shutting down any sexual thought and seeing it as bad, I feel shame. Whenever sexual moments would take place with my girlfriend, I struggled to feel genuinely aroused because I would have something in the back of my mind that was anchoring me down. This led to awkward moments of having a more than lack luster sex life, Im glad this video was created because I was trying to remove my sexuality from my biology.
Day 1 of asking for a video on how to speak and articulate yourself in a manner similar to urs
Actually going through this as we speak. So thank you
Yep, can confirm. 2 times in my life i "achieve" state of completly desexualise myself and 2 times it ended really badly. I remember that i had literally 0 sexual thoughts etc. and it lasts months. Sure, it has pros, shit ton of energy and hyper focus on purpose and goals, but for me it had major flaw. After couple months my mental health droped so drastically and instantlly, that second time it happened to me i was serious of ending myself. That "state" lasts months so it wasn't fun at all. Other cons: anxiety through the roof, completly not working D no matter what, literally you can put hottest and naked chick in front of me and my D will not even move. Maybe it was just my mental health, and other will not have same problems, but it happened to me 2 times, same exact script, so id rather deal with lust than thinking about how i will end myself
Not even kidding u I just hit the 2 1/2 month mark and I feel the same way. Especially without social media I feel completely detached and deprived, to the point where I plan on hooking up and restarting just to feel something. Maybe in the future I’ll have more opportunities and ideas to “transmute” but as of now I’m waiting for fkn Army basic training😹
I am in the same position now.How did you recovered from that?
@@adrianvictor7705 I think these 3 things helped me keep my sexual being alive.
1. training legs very intense 2 days a week.
2. 1 day a week of sprinting
3. being around woman a lot more, getting hugs, talking to them. I feel like they power my energy after im done hanging out with them.
To be fair, i still didnt recover fully. I gave more thoughts yesterday to this situation and i remember that i was feeding my mind sentences like "i dont want s*x, i dont want girls, i dont want to be horny" etc. and it really worked. To recover from this i started doing opposite, "i really really like girls, i like sexual tensions and their body" etc. turns out its really true what you feed your mind, that become your reality
Love the captions. With hearing loss it’s hard to hear you sometimes but having them really helps.
Also makes it feel more professional.
The Art of “Unclutching”
keep it up bro
8:36 made me think of that JCole song about meditation and medication
j cole is so corny
Joseph, have a look at "The Alchemist" Sarah Elkhaldy. She's got a lot.
Sorry about multicoments but the addiction thing is like a magnet the further you draw away the less the force of pull that is the trap ppl cant see in addiction
Joe Dispenza, breaking the habit of being yourself. Great book to describe in greater detail what your talking about here Joseph. I’m sure you have read it already though.
Good community in this comment section 💪
That chip to live on is the devils plan to live on eternally without god without heven
Can you make a video on how you are so calm in front of the camera all the time? I checked out your old videos and you are still so natural and authentic in them. I have been trying to copy your way of speaking for a while, but I am wayy offf. I go crazy when speaking on camera.
I know it's not related to your regular videos, but it would be a waste not to teach something you are so good at.
I can do that bro
@@MasculineTheory Thank you so much!
Thanks man
please look at your subtitles bro :D they became very good comedy,but i guess that wasnt their purpose :)
Would love to hear your thoughts about the 7 deadly $in$. Brother Joseph.
Common man if have since months no urge for sex anymore
Yes you can turn off your base chakra with your mind but the yoga pants apocalypse is now.
Great video! But, who is responsible for that hardcoded subtitles? A lot of mistakes on those subtitles!!! E.g. 17:01 You said "Huberman" and the subtitles says "Human"!!! Common mistake, but I think should be revised before hardcoding into the video!!!
You use an AI for making thumbnails for your previous videos. I've been wondering, what AI is that?
What for books do you have in the background
Do you utilize Mudras while meditating or breathwork?
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How do you make your voice sound like that?
he has a video on that too.
Brotha i HAV NOT MET ANY-1 WHO'S DONE WHAT I HAV😊 SO I'M GOOD❤
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Needed this informational. Thanks Joseph 🫡