The whole point of marriage is to jointly raise children. So when a man reaches a certain level of life where he can provide and protect and lead one family, he surpasses that and can provide, protect and lead another family. That's where polystuff comes in. Not just a dude having multiple wives to sleep with.
The average man is not qualified nor mentally or emotionally mature enough to adequately provide for multiple woman. Polygyny is only reserved for the select few that are capable to be in that type of relationship.
There are so many people in the consciousness community who peddle poly without the intention of having children. SO MANY! Quite a few of those men have poor intentions with poly life and quite a few are ill equipped emotionally, spiritually & financially. It’s not intended for a lot of us IMO. You have to be in a proper place mentally and physically before even contemplating embracing a true poly union. Random Q - By chance, do you know how many locs you have? How do you maintain them? How long have you been growing them?
A man can have 10,000 dollars in his wallet and give a woman 100. A man can also have $200 in his pocket and give her 100. He can also have 100 dollars in his pocket and give her 100. Wealth is a mindset, Being rich is a state of existence. Stop using statistics to support lack and poverty, change the way you think, show up, act- change your life!
@@esaiamystic Def. there are rich men who mind isn't right so that won't work either. I think it is dope you spoke on this topic cleanly despite there is a possibility that you may not do it yourself, displaying great emotional intelligence. Would luv to hear your insight on Reparations tho you may not be a Reparationist.
@@esaiamystic my goodness if you are just tooo selfish n you can’t get along in a cohesive group just keep it real you are jealous of other women if women could come together without purposely being difficult
I'm currently dating a woman whom I like very much but she brought up the fact that she wants husband & a wife. I'm a single woman with no children who is financially well off. How would being a built in baby sitter and sharing resources benefit someone like myself (what she described as the foundation of poly relationships benefitting the black community)?? I'm trying to be open minded but I'm also not going to involve myself in anyone's selfish mess. She has a child and I don't.
*"The answer to the question lies in understanding the Natural laws involved. People argue that man is polygamous by nature, but that is only so because human body evolved from animals. Polygamy is actually a quality of animals, and with further maturity of the human soul in constant incarnations and reincarnations, they are expected to have outgrown the issue to the monogamy principle. Unfortunately, due to the fall of man, we not only degenerated back to the level of animals but went far below them. Our concept of love became warped, It became confused with lust and its attendant ills of jealousy."* - Uche Mbah
Your average man is unaware of his testosterone levels. If he thought it was low...he would go to see a doctor. Getting an extra wife would be a costly way to fix testosterone issue. I would say that some of those men already have high testosterone. They may see the polygany as a sex advantage to do what their already high testosterone leads them to do.
You know I'm right there with you honey it's usually from a place of lust and financial advantage or both intertwined. Because a man with low testosterone wouldn't even want to entertain a woman sexually let alone many
practice chi gong and you can please all your wives thy cup shall not run over. kingz. beyond polygamy is king queenship not based on selfish sexual needs rather on family and community.
I get what you mean and i also agree that most people that pursue a polygamous life style are doing so from a place of lack, which will only result in a negative and toxic outcome, but i do want to point out that what you described about feminine and masculine energy respecting females and males is part of an "old template", or should i say the old paradigm, which has caused all the issues you described on this video, and New Earth is coming into being so the old paradigm will not be sustainable anymore, as it creates codependance and addiction to another person based in a sense of lack within you, so, in this new paradigm both men and women have to have self worth, be confident, independent, assertive, loving, caring, compassionate, forgiving, trustworthy, strong, powerful (real power that's not forced upon others), brave, receptive, creative, etc, because we will all come into balance of our both "male" and "female" energies by our own, we don't need a counterpart to achieve balance, because as i said, that's all part of the old template, a template based on the 4D at best in its higher frequency, a template based on having to achieve balance and harmony with external things, situations, people, etc outside of yourself, and we are shifting into 5D consciousness, which means a lot of stuff regarding true spirituality, acceptance of what is, living in the now, unity consciousness (i am the all and i'm the one), unconditional love, complete indepence of form (physical stuff/metaphysical stuff) for your well being due to the realization that you have everything you could possibly need is already within you, all we have to do is to remember who we are, that we are deeper than thought, that we are a soul having a human experience, that we don't lack anything and we have everything already, so there's no need for a counterpart or anything really to be in balance within yourself, and that's what people have to realize in this time and age, i do believe that the old template of feminine and masculine energy did serve its purpose in the past and got us to where we are now, but it is time for a new stage of our human evolution in which each individual is whole by themselves, without a need for anything or anyone, and that's what is going to bring New Earth into being, which is the reality that's based on wholeness instead of lacking, unconditional love instead of conditional love, of complete self empowerment as the creators that we are tapping into the peace, harmony, love and wisdom that we have at our core, a new paradigm/new vision that will set us all free from conditioning and the lies that we have been told about ourselves, a joyful and peaceful new era, what has been referred to as also the "Age of Aquarius", and this shift it's already taking place as we speak.
respecting the differences between masculine/feminine man/woman is not an old paradigm its the way things are and always will be on earth because man and women are here and coexist with one another that’s a reality we have no choice but to acknowledge. This new paradigm and new earth and 5D consciousness is just a fancy way for the new age wave to say that the earth is returning to her original polarity before it was hijacked by celestial outcasts wanting to create humanoids and use them to perpetuate their doctrine and agenda. I see what you’re saying, but you must be aware of spiritual bypassing.
@@esaiamystic I didn't said anything related to not respecting or not finding value in women and men and their respective roles/general ways of being that we currently have, all i said it's that we don't need anything or anyone to be balanced on our own. This is not a New Age thing, there's no structure to this, i have to use this sort of terms because that's the way we have of communicating, and that's the only way for you and everyone that is deepening their knowledge of the theory of spirituality to understand what i'm talking about, but what i'm talking about is true spiritualism, it's not a theory, it's pure action, pure being, which is traditional zen spiritualism that is thousands and thousands of years old, and it is not based on any dogma, rules, mythology, etc, it is not based on things of the astral body, it is not based on mind stuff, it's purely based on being, on spirituality, on presence and wholeness, and i get it may sound similar to the new age bullcrap due to having to use the same or similar terms, but again, this is the only way we have of communicating, but spirituality it's not based on anything mind based, it's purely based on your inner feeling and awareness, on pure intuition which are not words, we give meaning to our intuition, awareness, presence because it is the way that we have to communicate and bring a sort of understanding to ourselves and others through language, structure and duality, but spirituality it's soul level stuff, and at that level all the mind based structure, duality, the physical, etc, none of it is relevant there, there's no doctrine, there's no dogma, there are no rules, there's no agenda, there are no good/bad, wrong/right, light/dark, there's purely consciousness/awareness of being, it's true freedom and being able to see the ilussions of emotions and thoughts. Yes, i'm aware of this term, but none of what i said has to do with spiritual bypassing, as being whole on your own it's the ultimate way of being responsible of your own reality, it's the realization of knowing that you and nothing but you have the power to shape your own reality, so it has nothing to do with ignoring or avoiding anything, or pushing/forcing your ideas unto others, in fact it's the complete opposite to that, it is complete awareness of your inner and outer space which involves everything and nothing at the same time, it is complete acceptance and allowance of what is, it is a complete realization and awareness of the reality we live in, it is about taking responsability and ownership of the reality you are living, it is a universal truth that can't be explained by words, and it is based on being on the present moment with the full awareness that you are the creator of the reality you are living, it is Nirvana, Samadhi, Satori, etc, it is the death of the ego and the awareness of your true power which relies in neutrality, balance, harmony, peace, wisdom and love, based on our true selves (the soul/God). Our next step of evolution is to trascend the ilussion.
I get what you trying to say though. I do think woman and man relations can work well in polygany though. I think if man an women are on point spiritually...then it would be beutiful.
If you're average looking most colored men are astronomically less motivated to support a woman and her children. Even if there is another woman on the property he will still always be shopping for something better AND kick you out of the house too out of Ego bc he's looking at you as just the maid. Under natural circumstances gender ratios do not produce a surplus of women. Normally its people over age 50 who have a surplus of females & our people tend to negate that reality & negate our true nature bc they've lived with the prison system & almost nonstop warfare for so long. You tell our people this & its like.....in one ear out the other.
I came to watch this because I just got into it with one of these “trendy spiritual love and light” black women on insta pushing this polyamory shit and telling me it’s my fault for only attracting broke men 🤨🤨but she is very happily married with ONE man...EXPLAIN IT TO ME LINDA ? How you promoting a lifestyle and putting ppl down when YOU don’t even live like that?
Honey I believe you would call that person a hypocrite pushing the lies but live in a totally different life. Sort of like cardi b married but pushes sleep with various men and get your money and be a whole and my p**** is wet. You got a lot of hypocrites out here they ain't living a life but they pushing the lies
Our problems in these type of relationships. I can remember a fella who was Muslim who took me home and introduced me to his first wife as the potential second wife and when I tell you I could feel the hot jealousy feet seething off of that woman. She made tea and I refuse to drink it because I didn't know what the hell she put into that's how thick her jealousy was. I'm not going never going you would never train me that way Honey I left and never spoke to that man again
The only way it will work is if the dude is a Solid alpha not in money but in mindset n his women have to believe in him , it won’t wrk if it’s u luv her n not her or she strictly lesbian n like the (girl) n like u too Won’t wrk the Man must choose his women n kno wat the fucc going on Solid .. but if women rule him then it’s gonna b prollems
So have you talk to any men in this lifestyle? What me and told you that we get into polygamist relationships in order to stimulate our testosterone? Especially the really young dudes are doing it. What about those that just have multiple women that are not in polygamous relationships but they just sleep around? Is it because of the testosterone That their sexual appetites are stimulated? You think that men and sit around and say I want more women because I want to stimulate my testosterone? I don’t know not one do that practice This cultural form of relationship that sits around and says hey my testosterone is dropping so I better get some more women. On the contrary we know in order to build testosterone we just change our diet and workout.
The whole point of marriage is to jointly raise children. So when a man reaches a certain level of life where he can provide and protect and lead one family, he surpasses that and can provide, protect and lead another family. That's where polystuff comes in. Not just a dude having multiple wives to sleep with.
I agreed
The average man is not qualified nor mentally or emotionally mature enough to adequately provide for multiple woman. Polygyny is only reserved for the select few that are capable to be in that type of relationship.
Lol the average woman can’t do a lot to
There are so many people in the consciousness community who peddle poly without the intention of having children. SO MANY! Quite a few of those men have poor intentions with poly life and quite a few are ill equipped emotionally, spiritually & financially. It’s not intended for a lot of us IMO. You have to be in a proper place mentally and physically before even contemplating embracing a true poly union.
Random Q - By chance, do you know how many locs you have? How do you maintain them? How long have you been growing them?
It's not honorable to take care of another mans children. That female is struggling that's her problem, she should have made better choices.
Bible says take care of widows, meaning her husband DIED. Not some female whose been passing it around and getting herself pregnant.
Polgamy def. can't be used just to slept around. It's rooted in family, spirituality, and building.
A man can have 10,000 dollars in his wallet and give a woman 100. A man can also have $200 in his pocket and give her 100. He can also have 100 dollars in his pocket and give her 100. Wealth is a mindset, Being rich is a state of existence. Stop using statistics to support lack and poverty, change the way you think, show up, act- change your life!
And out of all of those women who received $100 dollars, which man is she likely to trust, and respect most?
@@esaiamystic Def. there are rich men who mind isn't right so that won't work either. I think it is dope you spoke on this topic cleanly despite there is a possibility that you may not do it yourself, displaying great emotional intelligence. Would luv to hear your insight on Reparations tho you may not be a Reparationist.
I agree because wisdom must be used in dealing with polygyny in order for it to work. Righteousness is a major key as well.
@@esaiamystic my goodness if you are just tooo selfish n you can’t get along in a cohesive group just keep it real you are jealous of other women if women could come together without purposely being difficult
I'm currently dating a woman whom I like very much but she brought up the fact that she wants husband & a wife. I'm a single woman with no children who is financially well off. How would being a built in baby sitter and sharing resources benefit someone like myself (what she described as the foundation of poly relationships benefitting the black community)?? I'm trying to be open minded but I'm also not going to involve myself in anyone's selfish mess. She has a child and I don't.
Do you want children?
Do not give in.
FACTS FACTS , SIS , HOWEVER , This is to much for me , SMH, I'm just better off being with me I and myself ,
*"The answer to the question lies in understanding the Natural laws involved. People argue that man is polygamous by nature, but that is only so because human body evolved from animals. Polygamy is actually a quality of animals, and with further maturity of the human soul in constant incarnations and reincarnations, they are expected to have outgrown the issue to the monogamy principle. Unfortunately, due to the fall of man, we not only degenerated back to the level of animals but went far below them. Our concept of love became warped, It became confused with lust and its attendant ills of jealousy."*
- Uche Mbah
Your average man is unaware of his testosterone levels. If he thought it was low...he would go to see a doctor. Getting an extra wife would be a costly way to fix testosterone issue.
I would say that some of those men already have high testosterone. They may see the polygany as a sex advantage to do what their already high testosterone leads them to do.
You know I'm right there with you honey it's usually from a place of lust and financial advantage or both intertwined. Because a man with low testosterone wouldn't even want to entertain a woman sexually let alone many
A woman having multiple husband's is not by God's design.
Polyamory is having multiple lovers. Polygamy is having multiple marriage licenses (Kenya, South Africa), open marriage, open relationship,
One Year later your message was well received and I actually learned a lot. Thanks
You have gorgeous locs.
I'm doing poligamy to raise my testosterone lol said no man ever
practice chi gong and you can please all your wives thy cup shall not run over. kingz. beyond polygamy is king queenship not based on selfish sexual needs rather on family and community.
It doesn’t even work that way
Exactly 😂😂😂😂
I get what you mean and i also agree that most people that pursue a polygamous life style are doing so from a place of lack, which will only result in a negative and toxic outcome, but i do want to point out that what you described about feminine and masculine energy respecting females and males is part of an "old template", or should i say the old paradigm, which has caused all the issues you described on this video, and New Earth is coming into being so the old paradigm will not be sustainable anymore, as it creates codependance and addiction to another person based in a sense of lack within you, so, in this new paradigm both men and women have to have self worth, be confident, independent, assertive, loving, caring, compassionate, forgiving, trustworthy, strong, powerful (real power that's not forced upon others), brave, receptive, creative, etc, because we will all come into balance of our both "male" and "female" energies by our own, we don't need a counterpart to achieve balance, because as i said, that's all part of the old template, a template based on the 4D at best in its higher frequency, a template based on having to achieve balance and harmony with external things, situations, people, etc outside of yourself, and we are shifting into 5D consciousness, which means a lot of stuff regarding true spirituality, acceptance of what is, living in the now, unity consciousness (i am the all and i'm the one), unconditional love, complete indepence of form (physical stuff/metaphysical stuff) for your well being due to the realization that you have everything you could possibly need is already within you, all we have to do is to remember who we are, that we are deeper than thought, that we are a soul having a human experience, that we don't lack anything and we have everything already, so there's no need for a counterpart or anything really to be in balance within yourself, and that's what people have to realize in this time and age, i do believe that the old template of feminine and masculine energy did serve its purpose in the past and got us to where we are now, but it is time for a new stage of our human evolution in which each individual is whole by themselves, without a need for anything or anyone, and that's what is going to bring New Earth into being, which is the reality that's based on wholeness instead of lacking, unconditional love instead of conditional love, of complete self empowerment as the creators that we are tapping into the peace, harmony, love and wisdom that we have at our core, a new paradigm/new vision that will set us all free from conditioning and the lies that we have been told about ourselves, a joyful and peaceful new era, what has been referred to as also the "Age of Aquarius", and this shift it's already taking place as we speak.
respecting the differences between masculine/feminine man/woman is not an old paradigm its the way things are and always will be on earth because man and women are here and coexist with one another that’s a reality we have no choice but to acknowledge. This new paradigm and new earth and 5D consciousness is just a fancy way for the new age wave to say that the earth is returning to her original polarity before it was hijacked by celestial outcasts wanting to create humanoids and use them to perpetuate their doctrine and agenda. I see what you’re saying, but you must be aware of spiritual bypassing.
@@esaiamystic I didn't said anything related to not respecting or not finding value in women and men and their respective roles/general ways of being that we currently have, all i said it's that we don't need anything or anyone to be balanced on our own. This is not a New Age thing, there's no structure to this, i have to use this sort of terms because that's the way we have of communicating, and that's the only way for you and everyone that is deepening their knowledge of the theory of spirituality to understand what i'm talking about, but what i'm talking about is true spiritualism, it's not a theory, it's pure action, pure being, which is traditional zen spiritualism that is thousands and thousands of years old, and it is not based on any dogma, rules, mythology, etc, it is not based on things of the astral body, it is not based on mind stuff, it's purely based on being, on spirituality, on presence and wholeness, and i get it may sound similar to the new age bullcrap due to having to use the same or similar terms, but again, this is the only way we have of communicating, but spirituality it's not based on anything mind based, it's purely based on your inner feeling and awareness, on pure intuition which are not words, we give meaning to our intuition, awareness, presence because it is the way that we have to communicate and bring a sort of understanding to ourselves and others through language, structure and duality, but spirituality it's soul level stuff, and at that level all the mind based structure, duality, the physical, etc, none of it is relevant there, there's no doctrine, there's no dogma, there are no rules, there's no agenda, there are no good/bad, wrong/right, light/dark, there's purely consciousness/awareness of being, it's true freedom and being able to see the ilussions of emotions and thoughts. Yes, i'm aware of this term, but none of what i said has to do with spiritual bypassing, as being whole on your own it's the ultimate way of being responsible of your own reality, it's the realization of knowing that you and nothing but you have the power to shape your own reality, so it has nothing to do with ignoring or avoiding anything, or pushing/forcing your ideas unto others, in fact it's the complete opposite to that, it is complete awareness of your inner and outer space which involves everything and nothing at the same time, it is complete acceptance and allowance of what is, it is a complete realization and awareness of the reality we live in, it is about taking responsability and ownership of the reality you are living, it is a universal truth that can't be explained by words, and it is based on being on the present moment with the full awareness that you are the creator of the reality you are living, it is Nirvana, Samadhi, Satori, etc, it is the death of the ego and the awareness of your true power which relies in neutrality, balance, harmony, peace, wisdom and love, based on our true selves (the soul/God). Our next step of evolution is to trascend the ilussion.
PEOPLE ARE TO WESTERNIZED.... SIMPLY
Please move to a continent that is primarily polygamous or polyamorous then and you would have that problem. Thank you and goodbye
I get what you trying to say though.
I do think woman and man relations can work well in polygany though.
I think if man an women are on point spiritually...then it would be beutiful.
If you're average looking most colored men are astronomically less motivated to support a woman and her children. Even if there is another woman on the property he will still always be shopping for something better AND kick you out of the house too out of Ego bc he's looking at you as just the maid. Under natural circumstances gender ratios do not produce a surplus of women. Normally its people over age 50 who have a surplus of females & our people tend to negate that reality & negate our true nature bc they've lived with the prison system & almost nonstop warfare for so long. You tell our people this & its like.....in one ear out the other.
I came to watch this because I just got into it with one of these “trendy spiritual love and light” black women on insta pushing this polyamory shit and telling me it’s my fault for only attracting broke men 🤨🤨but she is very happily married with ONE man...EXPLAIN IT TO ME LINDA ? How you promoting a lifestyle and putting ppl down when YOU don’t even live like that?
OH WOW, Great point. I'll definitely be making a response video to this one.
@@esaiamystic love it! Subscribed!!!
Khadi what’s her Instagram?
Honey I believe you would call that person a hypocrite pushing the lies but live in a totally different life. Sort of like cardi b married but pushes sleep with various men and get your money and be a whole and my p**** is wet. You got a lot of hypocrites out here they ain't living a life but they pushing the lies
I was always a polygynist
I just didn’t know it
I tried to conform to monogamy
Our problems in these type of relationships. I can remember a fella who was Muslim who took me home and introduced me to his first wife as the potential second wife and when I tell you I could feel the hot jealousy feet seething off of that woman. She made tea and I refuse to drink it because I didn't know what the hell she put into that's how thick her jealousy was. I'm not going never going you would never train me that way Honey I left and never spoke to that man again
The only way it will work is if the dude is a Solid alpha not in money but in mindset n his women have to believe in him , it won’t wrk if it’s u luv her n not her or she strictly lesbian n like the (girl) n like u too Won’t wrk the Man must choose his women n kno wat the fucc going on Solid .. but if women rule him then it’s gonna b prollems
The only family influent non lustful poly relationship is a polygynous as in >polygyny < not polygamy relationship one man multiple women
permaculture and polygyny that’s some great advice 👩🏾🌾👨🏾🌾👩🏾🌾
So have you talk to any men in this lifestyle? What me and told you that we get into polygamist relationships in order to stimulate our testosterone? Especially the really young dudes are doing it. What about those that just have multiple women that are not in polygamous relationships but they just sleep around? Is it because of the testosterone That their sexual appetites are stimulated? You think that men and sit around and say I want more women because I want to stimulate my testosterone? I don’t know not one do that practice This cultural form of relationship that sits around and says hey my testosterone is dropping so I better get some more women. On the contrary we know in order to build testosterone we just change our diet and workout.
You’ve been dealing with some messed up men.
Hey can you come on my show to talk about this subject
Sure send an email to earthfeminine@gmail.com with more details
You definitely spoke a lot of fact in this video
are you still single???
Speak on it queen
it has dropped cause wyt america is purposely putting things in our food omg just say you don’t wanna see a nigga happy this is sick content
Well said ❤
This was good enjoyed this sis 💡
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Good video.
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Awe thank you!
A bunch of negative speech about black men…. How original. Smh.
Where? Did you watch the video?
You got to watch out for trend s trends. Trends in culture are deviations that are deviant.
Just because your ancestors did it doesn't make it right or even lawful
These are very poor arguments for polygamy
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