Sleeping At Last - "Three" (Official Lyric Video)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ย. 2018
- "Three" is from Sleeping At Last's "Atlas: Year Two" project.
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Produced by Wonderkind Studios (Huge thanks to Brian MacDonald!)
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Handwriting by Ryan O'Neal
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"I finally see myself,
Through the eyes of no one else" I felt that
Reminds me of the line "you're always trying to see yourself, through the eyes of someone else." Only here ones own opinion is sufficient and that's an incredible way to do life.
right as i read this the song played it lol
Luigi Torres yeah deep
❤❤
every song of sleeping at last is very aesthetically pleasing and beautifully written.
It's simple: Because it's true music, done with love and time, not meant to catch views, but hearts.
Vyacheslav Shevchenko that's right ): everytime I feel like I'm lost, sleeping at last is the one I listen to. They have this kind of impact in my emotions and it feels good tbh. 💜
because so are they, just like you
@@v2v962 Oooo Well said :)
The same kind of warm when I listen to BTS’s songs 🥺 (maybe it’s just me lol )
“it’s so exhausting on this silver screen, where i play the role of anyone but me” that line hit so hard
Please, don't take this as me trying to pressure you or anything, but you should really change your screen name. It's not the truth and it's not a good fit for you at all :)
I saw this comment immediately after that part played
I get you, it reminds me of my anxiety for some reason
It’s a punch in the face, really
same
this song is the definition of gifted kid burnout
U feel like the only time u were validated is when u read that massive book when u were 6
Reminds me of my big brother
Thought as a kid if I got the best grades people would be proud of me but there’s always different goals to catch for them
As a 3w2, I find this so amusing for some reason to the point that it hurts a bit.
@@lc9381 same here, fellow 3w2.
No one:
youtube recommendations: hey you, wanna cry?
me:Of course I wanna cry
i am not going to like this because it is has 420 likes
but srlsy tho lol
IKR
th-cam.com/video/-YJNFGc2Xxc/w-d-xo.html
thanks youtube
This may sound weird but I can finally see the color in my eyes. They're a pool of milk chocolate churning with emotion. I never noticed how beautiful they are until now.
they're as beautiful as the rest of you, and no one can tell you how beautiful that truly is
❤️🧡
💜
That is beautiful
I never liked my eyes. They are always changing between green and brown and I thought that this is strange and ugly because I didn't had "one" eyecolour. Now I live them, they are like a forest with trees and green leaves :) I appreciate this comment a lot
I took the quiz and I was a three. I didn't think it meant anything until I listened to this song
what's this quiz everyones talking about?
@@breeanahross7980 look up the enneagram quiz. It will give you a number and then sleeping at last made a song for each number
@@mariasands5209 ooooh okay i see. thanks! hahah
yes, mine is 3 -- 1 - 5 all of this I just reveal !!
@@breeanahross7980 It talks about the person's basic desire, basic fear, and motivation. It touches sensitive topic like childhood wounds and your inner (evil) monologue. It's quite sensitive if you chose to learn it. In the end, it will give you advice how to heal and improve. Enneagram is very sensitive and might trigger repressed emotions.
My lovely type three,
You are capable of doing things that we only can dream of
doing. You love improving yourself, you are pasionate and authentic. You want
to be different and you really are one of a kind. You are a natural born leader
and there is not a single soul that does not want to follow you and your
enthusiastic presence. When you smile,
you shine, even though you doubt yourself very often. You may feel worthless
from time to time, but the truth is that you add value to everything you touch.
People admire you for who you are and it is time for you start appreciating
yourself more. You are more than enough and you do not need validation from
enyone else.
I know it is difficult to love yourself but that is alright, one step at a time.
It is so sweet of you to let the others take credit for
your hard work, this is how you show that you really care about them.
No gold, silver or bronze can ever replace the love you
crave... there are people out there that would do anything for you. Open your
eyes and maybe, for the first time, see that you are loved and appreciated for
who you are, not for what you achieve. It is ok not to be perfect, you are
enough just the way you are. Keep shining.
Yours sincerely,
type two friend
Really thank you, there's nothing else I can say except for thank you
this comment hurts in the best way possible. thank you. you probably saved a lot of people by typing it
"Sweetheart, you look a little tired, when did you last sleep?"
As a Three who once was a Two, I really appreciate this comment, but I also want you to know how much value you hold. You want to help everyone but who helps you? You keep your emotions to yourself because you don't want to be a burden to anyone, while they all keep on loading their stuff onto you. You don't need to be the burden keeper for everyone & you deserve to be heard & listened to. You & your emotions are valid and you are so strong for everything you went through
I see you, I value you
much love!
thank you, really.
You twos are are a blessing to this world.
I’m a 3. This song makes me feel like someone finally understands me. I feel like my accomplishments are my identity so I try to do my best and only my best. This makes people believe I’m stuck up or arrogant...I’m just trying to make people appreciate and love me.
It's like we 3s hide away our feelings in a locker, till we don't even remember what it really means to be "us"
It has come to a point when if someone says to me "you should focus on yourself more" I'm just left there wondering what I really need and want....apart from this need to be noticed
Sorry for the rant lol
*I only want what's real. I set aside the highlight reel, and leave my failures on display with an asterisk WORTHY OF LOVE ANYWAY.* omg my heart
What does it mean literally? I love this song, but hard to interprate it
@@patrickmarw1174 you may have found out already but if not there is a podcast from sleeping at last where he talks about how he made each song and each song is supposed to represent one of the 9 types of the enneagram, they explain it very well and beautifully I would reccomend listening to it
@@patrickmarw1174 "the highlight reel" is like the best parts of a football game, that they keep playing over and over. Sort of how most people only show the best parts of their lives to others on social media, etc.
To set aside the highlight reel and leave my failures on display means to stop only showing the good parts to the world and show my whole self - with the "asterisk" to note that even with the failures I'm worthy of love anyway.
@@jdubbis thanks for the explanation
Best line in the song.
dear grandma,
im not sure what got into me to write this in the comments of a TH-cam video of all places but i just needed to say this.
it’s been almost 8 years since you died. i don’t remember a lot about you because I was only 8 but I remember how you smiled when you heard someone with a beautiful voice. i think you’d like this song a whole lot. so if you’re up there watching me like they all say, please listen with me. i love you and miss you still every day. ill see you soon my angel, it won’t be long.
with all the love in the world,
-gabbie
Gabbie Layos 😭😭❤️
@Gabby Layla, i’m praying for you, your family and friends, it’s hard, and we can’t get through this together.
I lost my grandma six years ago and your comment defines what I feel everyday without her at my side. I'm crying now but in a good way
Omg 😭🥰
God. That got me 😭💔
On January 3, 2019, I attempted suicide. I swallowed a handful of pills and laid on my bed, sobbing, and listening to this song play over and over. This song...it means the world to me. I never thought I’d live to be 18, but here I am, 18. The only thing I truly remember from that experience was the feeling of peace and terror. I was terrified of what was waiting for me on the other side, but I was happy to know no one could hurt me any longer and I could finally rest. Remembering that...it makes me sob.
i am so proud of you
i am so so proud of you.
I am so happy you are alive!!
I have a similar connection to this song, but c*tting my wrists.
I hope you've realized you're worthy of love ❤
i'm glad you're here
So proud of you🌹🤍
The fact that a bunch of people are here right now watching at the same time
"maybe this trophy isn't real love"
This is where i started crying.
My mom has been pushing me to be top one in EVERYTHING. And whenever we fought because of grades and test scores, that just made me hate myself throughout my whole life. And i met someone who's very outgoing, and she gets mad at me when I get mad at myself. God, I love her lol..
even if you have a few bad grades, it doesn't mean you don't deserve real love. don't hate yourself because of what she thinks you have to be. just be enough for yourself. i'm proud of you
I TOTALLY RELATE
I feel you. I was raised to be perfect. To do the best and to be nr.1 in everything.
God loves her & you too
Felt. My mom forces me to be the best of the best in everything, its so tiring..
"a mess of a story i'm ashamed to tell"
Felt that
Just a few seconds in and it's already beautiful.
And now I'm crying like an infant.
That's true ❤️
Exactly
0,2 seconds in and I was tearing up
i will never get enough of sleeping at last it just melts my heart
I do not have a heart anymore. It's theirs!!
“And your golden child grew up “ i was such a happy child. I always smiled. I always made everyone happy around me. Now everything’s just dull. Everything’s just not happy anymore, i barely know what happy is. I’m sorry mum , I’m sorry For what i became. I’m sorry you got to see your child grow up and tell you that i want to kill myself i’m sorry that I’ve become a burden. I love you , mom. And I’m so sorry.
Hey! I hope you know that you don't have to be sorry for who you are and what you feel and the people who love you will never think of you as a burden. The words of a stranger may not matter to you but we are all worthy of love anyway yk :) I hope you find your happiness someday :)
Hey lad, I'm here to 2nd Sara's comment, there's indeed no reason to be ashamed for who you are and what you feel. It can be quite difficult to deal with suicidal tendencies but I truly hope you'll make it my man, you deserve better than this
Please, keep fighting, you're strong enough to face all of this mess, I swear, you're fantastic, please listen to my empty words
I love u! I’m here!
it’s going to be ok. take time for yourself. you are enough. take a moment and think of how you are amazing, you really are. even if your amazing in a weird, sad, sometimes messed up way. i’m sorry you feel this way, you are not a burden, you are loved, even if it’s by strangers.
*this isn’t even my type but I love this one the best*
im a 2/7 but i love them all sososo much
Lol yeah I’m type 5
I feel that, I'm a two and my favorite is Seven.
I’m a 6w5 but I like 1 best. A personality test cant truly decipher who you are.
I'm a 5w9, but I still relate to this song as well.
Tell me why I thought he was gonna say “utterly worthless” but then hits me with that “worthy of love” 😭
this is something this song made me feel that only a few people will relate too, the line “and your golden child grew up”. as a kid i was a prodigy, as a 4th grader i was doing 6th grade work, i started ballet and was immediately moved up with the older children, i sang for our church and was always with the older kids even though i was younger. now that i’m a teen i’m not a prodigy anymore and i feel like i let my family down so i keep working and working trying to always be the best like i used to but i just can’t. my mom thinks that’s i just don’t try anymore but i am. idk if that’s what that line is referring to but it hit hard
I can relate to this, but my downfall was because I had clinical depression. I gave up almost everything even suicide attempt. If I wasn’t sad, I’d still be consistent in what I did best, but now I can only imagine. 3 years later I gathered my thought, and now, I’m trying to get back on track, where I left off. It’s challenging, but I won’t give up. It takes time to be back up on your highest check point, but it isn’t impossible.
same idk if things will ever go back to how they were im tired of my family always wondering what happened because idk either 😕.
I relate to that
its exactly what it is referring to, yes. you deserve love and praise no matter what, for just who you are. :)
I'm a three. Sometimes I make it all the way through this song without crying, but even if I do, I can't help but choke up at the last line. "i leave my greatest failures on display with an asterisk: worthy of love anyway"
Any 3's over here who are afraid of relationships as they scared of being only loved for their achivements and not for who they really are?
My favorite part is that this lyric video was typed out in handwritten font and the spelling mistakes were shown. It's as if we were watching the writing process of the song. Plus, of course, it reiterates the revealing of the mistakes and failures and that it's okay to have them. Even with the words crossed out, it is still such a beautiful video. I think as 3s, we find ourselves covering up our mistakes and presenting ourselves with perfect grammar, eloquent vocabulary, and flawless thought. However, we hide the mistakes because it is embarrassing to allow others to see us as human. Do we see ourselves as superior, or do we see ourselves as lacking superiority and have to make up for it by performing this act? I even notice while I'm typing this comment that I keep hitting the backspace key when I have a typo. In fact, my backspace key is probably the key that gets the most strokes on my keyboard. I don't know. Food for thought, I guess.
And the words want to linger on the screen and stay on for as long as possible, only to eventually fade away like all the words that came before them
Ps. Edited to fix a grammar issue. What’s the opposite of irony? Lol
three and eight have always hit harder than the others even though I'm almost sure I'm a four
"For the first time i see an image of my brokenness utterly worthy of love". This was the moment i began to sob. I took my Enneagram and got number 3 "the achiever", i came here thinking this was a dumb TikTok trend yet i cant stop listening to this song. The name Amanda means "Worthy of Love" and i have searched my whole life trying to actually believe that. Thank you for this, it truly means more than you will ever know.
That's my middle name, and I am a 4w3😅😢 go figure.
This song makes me think of coming out to my family, finally realizing that there isn't anything wrong with me and i should just be who i was made to be
Sry that i'm a bit late but be yourself, always. :'>
❤️❤️❤️
Hailey Rosiere same. there is nothing wrong with you. always remember that
Queen ❤️
I took the quiz and I was a type three "the achiever". I didn't really believe it until I heard this song. My entire life I've felt like I have to be the best in every way possible and its exhausting. and when I didn't win or wasn't the best at something I would beat myself up about it. from learning about the ennegram type three you really get to look into your mind and think about if all the pain you go through in your life and always striving and needing to be better then everyone else at all costs really helps you and honestly it doesn't and that's something that ive been trying to learn how to do and these songs and books have really helped.
Wow. This is me. The mental pain, the beating up, everything.
Choco Blink search up the enneagram personality test on google
I got type 7 but I know deep down that I am type 3 it's become too exhausting on daily basis that recently I choose to change some aspects of my personality alittle bit so that I can cope with stress so I guess that's why l got 7.. also I relate to this song more than any other in the enneagram playlist!
i’ve literally heard this song a million times, but i just took the test and found out i was a three. and as i sit here and listen again, in depper thought, i am a mess in tears. i struggle with feeling like i’m not doing enough, i struggle with anxiety and self esteem, and i struggle feeling like i’m good enough. “but i’m slowly learning how to break this spell, and i finally see myself, now i only want what’s real, to let my heart feel what it feels”
This is so beautiful and touching. As a type 3, I have never heard something that has felt like it understood me in the way that this does. Much love to Sleeping at Last and all my fellow type 3's out there.
"and leave my greatest failures on display,
as an asterisk*
*worthy of love anyway"
I was holding it the whole song, then that last part came and I broke down. I've always been a perfectionist, I grew up as that kid with a lot of potential who was going places, and then my whole life went in a different direction. Now I struggle to feel worthy, when I haven't accomplished a single thing I set out to do. But I'm worthy of love anyway, despite my failings and failures. We all are, no matter who how we may mess up, or the expectations that we may fail to meet, we're still worthy of love, worthy of being loved, worthy of feeling at ease with ourselves.
Hope y'all are doing okay out there. Maybe we needed to hear this song at the time that we did, to help us move forward.
Thank you
Gosh this song makes me cry, especially at the line “leave my greatest failures on display with an asterisks worthy of love anyway”. My father makes me feel I have to be perfect, but I know love should not have to be gained this way.
u're perfect even if you fail. you deserve love for what you are, not what you accomplish.
My mom makes me feel like I have to be perfect as well. This line really struck a chord with me as well
Maybe I've done enough
And your golden child grew up
Maybe this trophy isn't real love
And with or without it I'm good enough
Maybe I've done enough
Finally catching up
For the first time I see an image of my brokenness
Utterly worthy of love
Maybe I've done enough
And I finally see myself
Through the eyes of no one else
It's so exhausting on this silver screen
Where I play the role of anyone but me
And I finally see myself
Unabridged and overwhelmed
A mess of a story I'm ashamed to tell
But I'm slowly learning how to break this spell
And I finally see myself
Now I only want what's real
To let my heart feel what it feels
Gold, silver, or bronze hold no value here
Where work and rest are equally revered
I only want what's real
I set aside the highlight reel
And leave my greatest failures on display with an asterisk
Worthy of love anyway
I can’t believe I see you here lol the biggest 7 I know
OHMYGOSH JUSTIN!!!
Thank you for posting these, from an equally 2/3 type!
Thanks
"They say the third time's the charm. It really is. You've tried twice, and gave it your all the third time. You've risen up to be like everyone else. Maybe more than others. Yet you share this feeling of hope to everyone else until you're broken down. You broke down from a 100 to.. a 3. Yes, a 3. You gave everything you had to others, but the 3. What's so special about it..? Simple. It's your mind, body, and spirit. You've given away traits of yourself that others needed. You may be plain and normal now, but on the inside, those 3 count for more than anyone could ever ask for."
~Me
this is so beautiful
;-; ♡
Thank you for this
This is like my way of telling myself that it's okay, that I did good enough, that I could always try better, that there'll always be better ones after the good and perhaps, the bad as well. Sleeping at last's songs has always been the ones I find soothing to listen to, mostly when I need a good cry and a sound sleep. I love their songs and I hope everyone could appreciate them too like I do. This is just what ART feels like. So heartfelt. So pure. I just love that feeling. And I am grateful someone close to me had introduced this musician to me. Thank you, Sleeping at last for existing and continuing to inspire!
“It’s so exhausting on their silver screen where I play the role of anyone but me.”
I got goosebumps.
Just crying. It"s like you sung the words my soul didn't know it needed to say
This is beautiful. It's crazy how he can write lyrics so accurate for each personality type.
My family expected perfection, they didn’t want a child, they wanted something to show off. It’s taking a lot for me to love who I really am, and I’ve had to stop contact with most of my family in the process. This song means the world to my recovery.
I feel you. ❤ you can be proud of yourself that you chose to love all of you. Its a process. We all want to feel loved but always remember you are love itself.
took the quiz for fun, got a 3, listened to the song, bawled my eyes out
I'm so glad WilburSoot mentioned this song. I love this so much. thank you
And leave my greatest failures on display*
(*worthy of love anyway)
I don't know why but it makes me feel kind of sad, even though it's supposed to be the happy thing I guess... And it's not even because I relate or something it's more like I'm sad it has to be pointed out in the first place (and I know it has to) yet I wish it was more known that no matter a person's failures and little faults they are still worthy of love, so the note would never be even needed, but instead acknowledged as something so obvious that you don't even have to add it... Yet I know it will never happen, possibly just can't happen, and it's just what makes me feel a little bitter and melancholic about this last line. And when I hear it, this small feeling of sadness ultimately mingles with just how happy I am for the person that they can finally see that they are 100% worthy of every little bit of love in this world as they surely are.
Well just make me damn emotional with the use of four words why don't you?
But to whoever reading this, no matter any mistakes, failures and faults you may have, you're *still worthy of love anyway*
Thank you that was beautiful. I understand how you feel and it's okay you are still worthy of love as well.
He just says that to reminds "worth of loving" by ourselves.
Thank you, I needed to hear that, God bless you 🤍
Yeah, me too. That's the part that made me cry.
@@katiemcintyre2470 glad to know I'm not the only one overthinking this line 💜
I think the scariest thing, for me, is that I can only see myself through my own eyes. That's all I've known. That's probably one of my biggest downfalls.
It's scary because I don't know if I'll ever be able to see myself through someone else's eyes. I try so hard to see it: the accomplishments, the beauty, the worth, and it's hard. It's hard to be proud of something I never viewed as worth having pride in.
It's hard for me to love me, and I think that's why this is the most comforting song I've heard. Because it gives me hope that maybe, just maybe, I am enough, and that's all I've ever wanted.
My husband is a type 3 and listening to this I'm in tears. My poor love 💔
Saaaaame. I cried more for his than mine. I love him so much
He appreciates you listening
I cried ugly tears the first time I heard this song.
I was a "gifted kid." The pressure to be perfect, to be flawless felt unreachable. The expectations that the adults around me pushed made me feel like I wasn't enough. I didn't know who I was supposed to be.
The past 2 years, I've grown more than I could ever imagine. I'm actually happy with who I am. I don't need to meet everybody else's expectations, I only need to work for myself.
"I finally see myself."
I can't tell u how many times I've cried to this.
This is so sad. Like I just recently got into Sleeping at Last and so I'm just sitting in bed and quietly listening to this.
Why didn't I discover him sooner????
This song resonates with me a lot. People easily admire me from the outside for being able to do all things, but honestly in the inside it's just a constant fear of being worthless if I fail to do one thing perfectly.
As a Christian, and reflecting on my enneagram type, I am reminded that there will never be perfection in this life, and that I am not made to be perfect in this life either. My comfort is this: that "by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I, but the grace of God that is with me." (1 Cor. 15:10)
I work harder, but I know it is all by God's grace. So even if I fail, it does not mean that I am a failure. He loves me, not because of what I have done or achieved, but because of His mercy. Praise the Lord.
People should know more about these types of music its so beautiful
"I see an image of my brokenness utterly worthy of love." This song hits me deepest, even tho I'm 1. It's like a healing balm for all emotional burns I give myself with my harsh judgements & perfectionism. Like right now (listening in a loop, sobbing).
This song has literally changed my life In do many way. If there is a chance in my life I could meet you, I would want to personal thank you for your music. You will never truly know how greatful I am to you. Thank you.
this song has helped me through hard times so much. i’ve always been a perfectionist. i expected far too much of myself. i expected myself to be the person anyone could talk to when they are hurt because i was never hurt. i felt like i wasn’t allowed to be hurt, or i would be judged and people would hate me. i still feel this today. i feel like i can’t let anyone see me be human. i tell myself they can only see me happy, even if it’s fake. this is why this song means so much to me. i feel like if i cry i will be judged. if i show any emotion i will be judged. i can’t be anything less than perfect to them. whenever i really think about this it breaks my heart because i know that i am human and i am allowed to show emotions just as everyone else is but when it comes to actual human interaction i forget all of that. i try my best everyday to make people feel happy and comfortable so they don’t have to go through what i’m going through. one day i know i’ll fully realize that i don’t need to be perfect to make people happy. people will be happy with me for being me and if they’re not that’s fine. i hope that day comes soon, i just know it won’t be today.
_three words; this is beautiful_
I've listened to this several times and it just now struck me fully in the chest and knocked the wind out of me. I've always had the need to be perfect or I'm a failure, and this made me stop everything I was doing to listen to it again. And again. And again. I crave what this song gives, this safety, this comfort and contentedness. And to anyone else who feels this way, one day we will find it. We are worthy of love, and maybe one day we'll say it and believe it's true.
After such a hard time of confusion, there is no better song to describe the feeling of becoming better and healing than this.. Thank you Sleeping at Last ♥️
I always come back here whenever I feel stressed in school. It never fails to make me cry every, single time.
enjoy school life kiddo
This band is pure art. I've been through a hard time and It shows me hope, love and how rare and beautiful It is to even exist. ❤️
i listened to this a few times, and the lyrics didn't hit me till the third time. now the tears are flowing and i can't stop listening to this. it fits me perfectly, and i'm so thankful i found it, because it melts my ♡.
after listening to this song, i started questioning myself if i made the right decision about my life or if i choose the right part for myself in life....
We all need to hear this when we feel like nothing is worth doing anymore. Always keep in mind where you want to be not where people want you to be.
I didn’t know I needed this song in my life 🥺🥺 I alway tried to do my best, not to be the greatest out there but just to be as good as an ordinary person. I know that I am dumb, awkward and clumsy.. I am not good at doing anything even at what I want to do the most. This song make me cry so much but It comfort me at the same time, It feels like I finally can lift the burden off my shoulders. And from now on I want to appreciate myself more. I want to give myself a big hug and say: “ You’ve done enough”
ahhh this is healing 😭 i cried to sleep, been so long since i last did it
* hugs you *
@@laula813 thank you ✨💜
thank you. I was panicking about the sudden increased responsibilities of my job. but this song comforted me. thank you
Dear grandma
A comment inspired me to write this. I always think about you. Youre back in Poland with grandpa. I often think what will happen to my relatives if you pass away, but ive never though what will happen to me. I went through a giant heartbreak when your dog died. The dog whos been with me all my life. Im praying youll be able to see me walk down the aisle. The virus is dangerous for you. Im so scared it will take you away from me. You mean so much to me. Why is this happening? I always put others in front of me, and i would do anything for you. Youre one of the reasons im still here. Youre the reason i fight. It hurts so much that i cant be with you.
i love you.
i really do.
I’m a 2w3 so let’s see how this goes-
Update; I’m crying more, again
I am 2w3 to
Dude me too, these two songs really got to me
I'm a 2w3 as well, it's interesting because the songs that affected me the most are 2, this 3 song, 8, and 4 (my main type, wing, and disintegration/integration)
I am 3w2 and I’m like “damn” while crying to both of them
@TheLazyArtist So the w2/w3 are wings. Basically the first number is your main type, so as a 2w3 I am a 2 (generous, helpful, etc...). The wing means that while I'm a two, I also share some type 3 characteristics. I am also image-conscious and have that type 3-esque charm. The best way to figure it out is to look at motivations.The motivation of a 2 is to love people in the hopes that they will be appreciated and loved back, the three is to get people to love them by being a "package" of sorts. Both types want to be loved, but Type 2 is the Giver (give love to receive love) and Type 3 is the Achiever (do/achieve a lot of great things to have others love you)
This website probably explains it best www.enneagraminstitute.com/misidentifying-2-and-3
ok, who else started crying at "golden child grew up"
This became my comfort song. It just feels relieving when the words I can't say was being heard. It's some sort of validation that what I feel is real, I grew up in an emotionally unhealthy household where my value as a person is measured by my productivity or usefulness. I'm even questioning my sanity after all the years gaslighting.
I just heard this for the first time. As I listened to the lyrics, it reminded me of my life.
I think about how it feels to want to please others. Then, I think about why that's even a thing? so I positioned myself to be heard because every time I got a little bit of praise. It was a desirable feeling.
When I'm not giving myself to others, it was for the majority of the time, a lonely space.
Adam was sick a lot, and he didn't really get to be a kid because of that. I don't blame him at all for his sickness or for my child hood issues.
A lot of the attention was on him and for good reason, but I felt forgotten and invisible. The attention was on me when I did something wrong which I noticed got more eyes on me. I can understand why I was a bit of a trouble maker because at that point any attention was good attention.
Somewhere along the line, I created this chain so thick it could lift the materials to build a high rise in downtown New York. That chain wasn't guided my me anymore. That weight got heavier and harder to loosen. Even when that chain broke, the weight was still there like a phantom pain from a lost limb. Blinded by what was normalized growing up and painfully learning the opposite through trial and error in my life.
The desire I had was written for me until the blurred lens were broken. I have an even stronger desire to see myself for who I am. Not who others have tried to create me to be, or thought I should be.
Chains getting lighter, but still theres some left to conquer. I'll face the mirror and know that I'm getting my control back.
---just some food for thought.
This song deserves to be heard by millions
These lyrics melt my heart as if someone has finally written a song I could relate to in many ways.
When I was hospitalized for anorexia, my therapist wrote this song out for me on my discharge date. I saved it for a day I thought I would need it and I didn’t open it until recently. This is the most heartbreaking and beautiful song I’ve ever heard. Brooke, thank you for being an amazing therapist who was there for me in highs and lows. Thank you for this song.
Peace of mind with a cup of tea! Along with sleeping at last _Aweee this vibe
"I'm good enough"......hits me every.single.time.
This song is so deeply healing to me. I’ve spent my whole life being the fixer, the peacekeeper. But it was never enough for them. No matter what I did, it was wrong. I finally accept myself. I’m finally free.
months late, but I'm so so glad you're out of there. good luck on your journey, wherever you go. stay safe, random stranger. I hope you don't have to see those people again anytime soon.
I freaking love that the end of every two part they repeat the beginning except for the last one, because they don't have to be perfect anymore. It's so beautiful
I think finally now my mind feels so much clearer than it ever has, I think about what I want, my dreams and I know the answer almost straight away and I know what to do. I look in the mirror and I see me, no one else just me finally. I’m not going to hide myself from anyone, I’m going to be me and if they don’t like me it doesn’t bother me anymore. Being a 3 means we are everything we are, ambitious and strong which is what I had inside me this whole time but up until recently I finally see, that I am who I am because of me and I am ready for anything. Thank you sleeping at last
hi threes.
how are you? did you drink water? did you have something to eat? did you shower? did you brush your teeth? whatever you’ve done today, and even if youve done nothing, im so so so so proud of you. im proud of you for making it through another day. you are worth so much more than words can explain. you’re beautiful, talented, kind, loving, and caring. but theres one thing im worrying about. you not putting yourself first. i need you to realize that you are so important, and you need to remember your self worth. now have a fantastic day/night. remember that i love you.
Sarah, I see you, whatever soul you are...you catched my ear and even my tears and my heart this time. Namaste, deepest thanx. Blessings to each living in and out the cultiversum.
His voice enters my heart and warms it from within...I can’t escape
Such a soft song, which brings back just that little bit of melancholy. It's genuinly perfect.
I like these songs (and the enneagrams), cause it’s like the vulnerable side you don’t always get to see in others, especially in the ones that hide it well : )
You never disappoint me, this is beautiful 😍😍
I WISH I HAD FRIENDS TO SHARE THIS AWESOME MUSIC
I can't help but cry every time I listen to this. I used to be really depressed and thoughts of feeling not to be good enough or the expectations of people and the mistreatment that I experienced consumed me to the point that I wanted to disappear. After years I slowly got better. I learned to love myself and be kind and forgiving to myself. This song is so healing. I always felt like I could always relate to your songs on a deep personal level and I am really grateful for that. Thank you for being there, for making these masterpieces of your music. It means a lot to me!
Like many of us, I've been thru some pretty intense trauma - in my childhood, my teens, and now again in adulthood. I was emotionally exhausted from self work, physical, emotional, and spiritual healing. From Life itself. When I was first lead to the Enneagram tool I resisted. I just didn't want to try to 'get better' anymore but I was gently encouraged with how impacting the results could be. It was. I was also led to Ryan's project and it was suggested to listen to my musical 'number'. I was warned that tears would reveal the core number if I scored closely or tied with my numbers (I did)- that one would expose which insight was closer to me and allow my soul to show me which one was truer for me. This project is profound and I am grateful for the easing of self-hate it's provided me over the past 2 years. Thank you for such a wonderful gift.
Oh my God! What a masterpiece! Your musics are so special... the rythm, the voice, the lyrics and everything about it. Thank you! Love from Brazil ❤
So beautiful... just as every single song of you.
I'm a 3w2. I started crying after the first verse. Seriously beautiful. Thank you.
These songs somehow describe every emotion I've felt in the past 24 hours. Never feel like I'm good enough, giving my all to everyone else but myself because I'm a giver, feeling like i can't be myself half the time but also loving who I am, and trying so hard to stay strong when i just want to cry.
beautiful as always💕💕
When sleeping at last makes a song it makes me happier and somehow I can relate to it 💗
The song is a bittersweet when you listen to it alone. When you read the lyrics along with it it makes you want to cry because you realize how poetic and relatable it is. I love this song so much 😭😭😭
"It's so exhausting on the silver screen where I play the role of anyone but me" these lyrics remind me that the worst kind of depression is the one where you pretend to be okay when you aren't. I've done that and it's more draining than just feeling sad.
Hermosa canción gracias Sleeping at last
i listened to this song, when my ex told me that he had an affair, after I spend 2 weeks of making him a beautiful christmas surprise, he felt bad and told me, and now I am over it but this songs depicts the pain you go through in learning to love yourself and seeing yourself as the person you are, with all the flaws, allowing your heart to feel what it feels, allowing yourself to be weak sometimes.
I've never had a band whose songs could move me before Sleeping At Last and I love it
I've never heard/seen an artist write pure poetry so beautifully set to tune so often. I'm speechless after this song. Who rewatched this 99+ times today?
All the Wilbur fans lmao
This song's fab tho
I went and took the test, got 7 and listened to 7, and then came here to listen to 3 to understand him better
@@lilyobrien2461 what’s the quiz
@@lanaayerstwitchvods9 Enneagram test
Food for soul❤
I absolutely LOVE this song, the only thing I would change is that it would longer, I want to listen to this on repeat forever. I've recently come to the realization that I'm a 3 and if anyone were to ask me to explain my inner self I could never lay it out as deeply as you did with this song. When I first heard this song right of the bat the first line had me in tears, it cuts so deep and it doesn't stop. Especially the line "It's so exhausting on this silver screen, Where I play the role of anyone but me" I can't tell you how many times I've said something very similar to that to myself throughout my life. This song, at least to me, is perfection and serves to be a brilliant anthem that is a gift I will treasure
Sleeping at Last songs are poetry and my comfort.