Sleeping At Last - "Two" (Official Lyric Video)

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  • "Two" is from Sleeping At Last's "Atlas: Year Two" project.
    Spotify: open.spotify.com/user/sleepin...
    Produced by Wonderkind Studios
    Wonderkindstudios.com
    Handwriting by Ryan O'Neal
    www.sleepingatlast.com
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  • @kenzie7571
    @kenzie7571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9966

    This song is for the personality trait of a” giver” which means that you give all you have to make someone else happy even if you’re miserable so this isn’t really a love song

    • @ikebranstad7631
      @ikebranstad7631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      It's more of a struggle for finding self love and the struggles of a Two

    • @kun8170
      @kun8170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      it's as if you give everything and think it is fine to not get something back in return. to build up so much stress that you don't even know how to love yourself anymore. where you just get lost and you wouldnt mind as long as another person is happy. it hurts, everybody knows that, because we're all two's.

    • @robyn9315
      @robyn9315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Koen Ye it doesn’t always hurt I know I always love seeing people happy I am In the middle of sad and happy so nothing really bothers me ya know like I’m happy a lot but sad also but it makes me even more happier knowing people are happp and extra happy when I make them happy

    • @dreamwish286
      @dreamwish286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Tbh I’ve never thought of it as a love song, for some reason I thought of it as a father daughter thing

    • @jamilbarbee6169
      @jamilbarbee6169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@dreamwish286 my mother was definitely like this she gave everything to make everyone happy

  • @juls_sisyphus
    @juls_sisyphus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12641

    "I just want to build you up, build you up 'til you're good as new. And maybe one day I'll get around to fixing myself too" I felt that

  • @matveyxivan7159
    @matveyxivan7159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4663

    this song is so powerful, it sounds like a typical love song originally but then the second verse comes and suddenly you start to realize that this song is actually about someone caught in a self destructive pattern of giving all and accepting nothing in return

    • @joycesmagnets
      @joycesmagnets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      yep. sounds about right.

    • @Neil_mccauley365
      @Neil_mccauley365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      That's what makes it love. Both have to do it tho

    • @shiplirani7621
      @shiplirani7621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Guess that's unconditional love

    • @aubreenickle8530
      @aubreenickle8530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @SHIPLI RANI … Unrequited seems a better fit

    • @anti_fragile
      @anti_fragile 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@aubreenickle8530 Kinda both. Unconditional because the Two would love their person regardless of anything. Even through unrequited love , which is the situation they're in in the song.

  • @uprisingsun9105
    @uprisingsun9105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2891

    I read something that hit deep; it said Twos love deeply and selflessly but that doesn't mean there aren't any conditions. There is only one. They don't always know about this condition, and they might deny it. But it's that they want to be loved back. They relate to this singer, but they want to be the audience, too.

    • @kyra4318
      @kyra4318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      this hit pretty deep not gonna lie

    • @samuelransom4494
      @samuelransom4494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      So I've been reading the comments on this video, and so many people seem like they need to be loved and cared for. I don't know how to help people, but this comment section is one of the nicest I've seen, and after putting some thought into it I thought that maybe if the people here had a place to communicate with other people like them it could help. I decided to create a discord server that's open for anyone here, and is just for people to get help from each other or to talk. I don't want to pressure anyone into joining, nor do I know how it will turn out in practice, it seemed like a good idea in my mind, so I decided to do it. If you want to join, the link is
      discord.gg/2Bg2EYpghr
      EDIT: Replaced the link

    • @kathrynelaine9736
      @kathrynelaine9736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      that’s the sad part, when we first hear it we imagine we are the one being sung to, only to realize we are the singer. the giver of love, not the receiver.

    • @siriusblack7472
      @siriusblack7472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@kathrynelaine9736 I was the opposite. I've always known I was the singer, but it hit me after reading comments that how I treat others is how I want others to treat me, but it never happens.

    • @limeylemon1685
      @limeylemon1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@kathrynelaine9736 Thats exactly what happened to me. I listened to it multiple times mostly imagining im being sung to, and tonight I came back, and unexpectedly it just started hitting differently. Suddenly I could see myself being the singer.

  • @nathannieves8987
    @nathannieves8987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16294

    “No I don’t want to talk about myself, tell me where it hurts”
    This line hit me hard

    • @jeremypatient4575
      @jeremypatient4575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      me too

    • @celly6787
      @celly6787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Nathan Nieves same

    • @viivil6637
      @viivil6637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same

    • @v1cki307
      @v1cki307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nathan Nieves me too

    • @g_calla2579
      @g_calla2579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It hit really hard

  • @raccoon_socks03
    @raccoon_socks03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6193

    Took the test. Got a two. And I can promise this isn’t a love song XD it’s about how you’re too caring to the point where it’s self destructive.

    • @harliemacdougall466
      @harliemacdougall466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      It is a love song. Its a love song about a person with a type 2s personality doing whatever it takes to make their partner feel loved and safe and not sad or stressed.

    • @jaydine6336
      @jaydine6336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

      @@harliemacdougall466 it's not really a love song though. it's about loving everyone, and caring about everyone, so much so its self destructive. like you want to do everything in your power to help people, and you forget to help yourself along the way. i like your perspective though, and maybe your in love with someone but I really dont have anyone so I dont really consider this a love song between 2 people. I considerate more a love song for everyone.

    • @isagroot1321
      @isagroot1321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I think it can have more perspectives, I see it as not giving too much love to yourself bc you are busy with pleasing the rest

    • @xxayeitsme-ashleyxx3731
      @xxayeitsme-ashleyxx3731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I got a two, and in my perspective I see at as 2s would do any to make their partner/friends, anyone they have a good connection with feel pleased happy anything that would give them a smile in their face. 2s would risk their own lives just to save another’s just to make them happy or feel alive. 2s are too nice they care people too much that they forget to take care of them selves that they would have the fear of losing control of their emotions. I’m a two I can certainly agree with this song and comments I really do care about people in my life they are them who make it keep going and they know them selves I’m thank full:)

    • @casper3471
      @casper3471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jaydine6336 that's how I've always felt the exact comment

  • @cptnwynn
    @cptnwynn ปีที่แล้ว +1571

    I will never get over the line "what a privilege it is to love, a great honor to hold you up"

    • @greeneyes011765
      @greeneyes011765 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      My favorite line too, so inspirational to love someone up so high for everyone to see how special and beautiful they are.

    • @Celtic_Fairy
      @Celtic_Fairy ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same here. I absolutely have always loved this line the most .

    • @dillonwatson7840
      @dillonwatson7840 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💜🤟🏽🤟🤟🏻💜❤️

    • @unknownno1456
      @unknownno1456 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​​@@wuba5456honouring and loving someone deeply with everything you have(which is very rare❤) doesn't bring down your self esteem.

    • @mellotune7
      @mellotune7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wuba5456It’s my favorite line, too. I didn’t realize what a privilege it was to love the love of my entire lifetime until they were gone.

  • @lemyosotisbleu3180
    @lemyosotisbleu3180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1005

    "It's okay if you can't catch your breath
    You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest"
    Always resonates so loud and so deep in me. Absolute beauty. Did you ever love someone that much too?

    • @OneBiasedOpinion
      @OneBiasedOpinion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah. It was beautiful. ^_^

    • @joyliu9268
      @joyliu9268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh yeah... I love people around SO MUCH🥲 and I resonate to this line as well, I even yelled when I saw it.😭

    • @janedoex1398
      @janedoex1398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes. It ended horrible. I was in love with a narcissist.

    • @ivanalaiguana1131
      @ivanalaiguana1131 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@janedoex1398 been there :-/

    • @andreeaburcea2862
      @andreeaburcea2862 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes…and he died, now he is angel like I always told him he is 🥹 ❤

  • @kyleyreinhart1558
    @kyleyreinhart1558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9930

    What is funny about two's is that this song is speaking about how we behave, but it also is exactly what we want to hear.

    • @betsyann453
      @betsyann453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      What you just said is how I felt and didn't even know it until I read it 😭😭😭

    • @kristalasmr
      @kristalasmr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      im a two and this very true i read it and started crying :/

    • @Eshal_
      @Eshal_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Omg

    • @remmi5592
      @remmi5592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I feel this so hard, just the opening line makes me cry, I am tired and no I haven’t ate but I’m always the one to ask this question to others

    • @purpleneons
      @purpleneons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      THIS. i'm a 9 but i probably have 2 in my tritype, and god isn't this me

  • @diyasabapathy2774
    @diyasabapathy2774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9841

    the worst feeling is when you want to cry but no tears come out and it's just this heavy feeling inside your chest

    • @mrtruth311
      @mrtruth311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      It's because we're so used to being so comfortably numb,let it all out sometimes,it'll really help ..till then don't keep it all to yourself,take care

    • @sadweeb35
      @sadweeb35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      i have that every day :( i'm always so jealous of people who can just cry when they hurt. i can't let it out, it just keeps building up. even when it feels like it's gonna burst, nothing comes out...

    • @nureenmahmoud7893
      @nureenmahmoud7893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yesssssss exactlyyyy✨✨

    • @marzana4643
      @marzana4643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hehe

    • @nassan1599
      @nassan1599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Jesus christ, get of my soul

  • @misora7657
    @misora7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +595

    this hits different when you're crying and you feel so hopeless. it's like someone is comforting you through their words and there's an invisible hug wrapping around you.

    • @babyegypt4514
      @babyegypt4514 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢

    • @JustABitJank
      @JustABitJank ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me roght now, also a 9 so basically being depressed is my personality?

    • @kemaniparker4697
      @kemaniparker4697 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yea...

    • @alexandriariley9565
      @alexandriariley9565 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This song is from the perspective of a two and is not necessarily from the perspective of a healthy one

    • @jesussavedme6260
      @jesussavedme6260 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus loves you so much. He can heal the areas of pain you hide. ❤

  • @aryannacharles5232
    @aryannacharles5232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    type two’s,
    you are infinite,
    in simply the way you are and exist.
    the way you impact people every moment,
    the way you connect with others,
    the kindness and selflessness you radiate,
    the way you see the world,
    the way you put your heart and soul
    into everything you do.
    but most importantly,
    in all of the ways that you love.
    that love will always guide you.
    and despite it all,
    you’ve stayed kind.
    you are rare.
    it’s what makes you extraordinary,
    and truly
    beautiful.
    no matter how long it may take for you to realize,
    all of the the love that you’ve put out into the world
    will always find its way back to you.
    you live on in the memories, minds, and hearts of others.
    infinite.
    - your type two pal :)

    • @AutumnMarston
      @AutumnMarston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You are the kindest, most incandescent person I’ve ever had to meet on this platform; thank you SO much for your kindness, sweet star

    • @anthonmarlz32mb
      @anthonmarlz32mb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you

    • @lolafisher9500
      @lolafisher9500 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      shit. this is beautiful.

    • @dianalaughlin
      @dianalaughlin ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you

    • @ImTired17
      @ImTired17 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry, but what do these types mean? How do you know what type you are?

  • @gdrm4023
    @gdrm4023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3010

    “It’s okay if you can’t catch your own breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest”
    This line hits hard. I started crying at this part.

    • @jeffreitz1629
      @jeffreitz1629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That line kills me everytime. That's exactly how it feels to give everything to/for someone.

    • @thisyofavoritesng
      @thisyofavoritesng 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too, me too

    • @xyz123ohme
      @xyz123ohme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. I really felt that.

    • @rowan4308
      @rowan4308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I heard the first line and knew it would hit heard and started bawling my eyes out

    • @valentynaroudnicka4885
      @valentynaroudnicka4885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too..

  • @maryv5815
    @maryv5815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5614

    I think when most people first hear this song, they don’t initially position themselves as the singer. At first you kind of imagine that you are the one being sung to, especially with first lyric being a direct question. I think this is very intentional. I think it represents how “twos” want to be to others what they wish others were to them. They give to others what they never received themselves. And I think that’s pretty beautiful, but also a bit sad.

    • @musicallands7385
      @musicallands7385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Agreed it is very beautiful and sad at the same time and it hurts twos when what they give to others is not reciprocated back to them. But yet they continue loving others anyway.

    • @user-tatibaby
      @user-tatibaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yes yes yes!!!!

    • @alynfrancis
      @alynfrancis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      :'(

    • @abbiewhite7987
      @abbiewhite7987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Just listened to the podcast that the artist has about the creation of this song (highly recommend btw-very very informative and fascinating!)
      But the song is meant as both how the twos give to others and as a love song back to twos as a reminder that they need to take care of themselves

    • @youreverydayace9768
      @youreverydayace9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I actually did think this at first, as a two myself. It made me cry first time I listened to it.

  • @sunnyc.612
    @sunnyc.612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    As a two who has been trying and making progress on the road of recovery and self love, i dedicate this song to my inner child. Have it child.

    • @calimon00
      @calimon00 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And here I am feeling sorry for myself because the one I’m with, as with many before, doesn’t seem to love/ accept me enough, but really I could stand to love myself this unconditionally.😢

    • @AHappyFlower
      @AHappyFlower ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m in the same place.

    • @leenbee17
      @leenbee17 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!

    • @charityann0611
      @charityann0611 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! 🙌💛😭 Let us learn to love ourselves as much as we love everyone else

    • @zentimehd1551
      @zentimehd1551 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😁
      That made me genuinely smile - so thank you 😊
      And have a wonderful day ^^

  • @oliviahaglund8978
    @oliviahaglund8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    I'm not a two, but my best friend, my platonic soul mate, is a two, and imagining her singing this to me literally made me start crying.

    • @justme-rr3dy
      @justme-rr3dy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Trust me she loves you with her whole heart. I hope you show her how much you love her, it says with no strings attached but we 2's wanna be loved back or at least shown that we are thought about at random times

    • @alyssasehn
      @alyssasehn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THIS.

    • @enk335
      @enk335 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @ash._.brianna
    @ash._.brianna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5904

    This song gives me the feeling of finally being asked “are you ok?” By someone who actually wants to listen rather than asking because they feel obligated. Like the weight of the world in finally lifted
    Edit: yes I’m ok and doing better

    • @dumbghsot
      @dumbghsot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      you ok?

    • @maheentuba2166
      @maheentuba2166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      The song didn't make me cry this comment did oof my heart 😔

    • @summysmile
      @summysmile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      woah... relatable

    • @darkbeast3034
      @darkbeast3034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too... 😭

    • @mariannavandergriff3281
      @mariannavandergriff3281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly. If someone asks me if I'm ok or if something's wrong I breakdown

  • @raiukii
    @raiukii 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6195

    "It's okay if you can't catch your breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my chest"
    That's the sweetest line I've heard in a long time. This song, I swear. It really makes my heart go soft.

    • @mariee_e
      @mariee_e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      Eunice I feel like that line sounds sweet on the surface, but it’s actually talking about the person self sacrificing, for the other person to be okay, even if it comes at the expense of the other person’s oxygen, at the expense of that person not having enough for himself. which isn’t sweet or healthy. I interpreted this line as something maybe a not so healthy two might say, just because it’s something I absolutely believed in 100% before I realized it was actually damaging to put other people’s needs above your own.

    • @raiukii
      @raiukii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@mariee_e That's actually a pretty good interpretation. That makes perfect sense as well. We all have our own way of interpreting and understanding things anyways, and I'm happy to hear different perspectives on this song :)

    • @Holycryptonite47
      @Holycryptonite47 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yours and mine

    • @trivandrysam8628
      @trivandrysam8628 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh sammee, agreee!

    • @mariee_e
      @mariee_e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eunice Yes!! :) ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aspenserage4610
    @aspenserage4610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    "You and your brother," She said ", are bound by something stronger than fate, and stronger than death." She dropped her hands and stepped back. The distance between them was a chasm. "One is gone, but not forever. One is gone, but not the other."
    -Kristen, Passerine.

    • @ijustwantedcookies2549
      @ijustwantedcookies2549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Dont mind me, just gonna go re-read it and fuckin sob my eyes out (:

    • @nekoyumi2774
      @nekoyumi2774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Pain

    • @nekoyumi2774
      @nekoyumi2774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@butter3d_t0ast Same I can't get pass chapter 2 without crying

    • @urangeltruly
      @urangeltruly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      :(

    • @kyliemac2651
      @kyliemac2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      STOOOOP I LITERALLY WILL CRY

  • @cynthialasher6334
    @cynthialasher6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    To someone in a relationship this might be a good reminder to take care of your own needs. But as a mom whose son died 6 months ago, this song says every single thing in my heart. I would have given my last breath to help him. I sob every time I listen to it, but it is beautiful and perfect.

    • @mushroomkid4510
      @mushroomkid4510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hey i hope you are at least a little ok and have people who are there for you, especially in a time like this💜

    • @HL-hr4ox
      @HL-hr4ox ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m so sorry, as a parent I honestly don’t want to imagine the immense soul shattering grief you must feel. I immediately thought of my child, too.

    • @gabrielapontes9243
      @gabrielapontes9243 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i'm truly sorry about it. hope your pain heals, and you get the love and care you need for that

    • @fahimakbar123
      @fahimakbar123 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry for ur loss , souls of kids who die r taken to a garden where they live under guardianship of Prophet Abraham or Ibrahim peace be upon him , they live there until they r resurrected n then entered into paradise
      th-cam.com/video/8nlKcQTdjY0/w-d-xo.html

  • @nicoleaguirre9961
    @nicoleaguirre9961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1307

    "Sweetheart you look a little tired. When did you last eat?" that hurt

  • @candiewrapper
    @candiewrapper 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1591

    Okay twos, let's all love each other so we can each feel loved ourselves. We all know we need it. ❤

    • @gabrieljones502
      @gabrieljones502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Twos unite

    • @SionaHouses
      @SionaHouses 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Candiewrapper, whoever you are, wherever you are, I do love you. :3
      A two.

    • @theschuylershippers7604
      @theschuylershippers7604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I'm a two and I love you all. You guys are such amazing and compassionate people

    • @chrisellellesirhc26
      @chrisellellesirhc26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I needed this comment so much. Thank youu ❤

    • @alissakipp01
      @alissakipp01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me and my bf are both 2's and honestly we give our all for eachother but at the same time receive the same love we give, it balances out and honestly this is the happiest I've ever been in my life

  • @shamirazoeb.dullas2594
    @shamirazoeb.dullas2594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    "And maybe one day I will get around to fixing myself too." That line hit me hard. I feel like as a type two, we help others not only for them but also ourselves. We seek validation in a way that if we can "fix" them, maybe one day we'll realize what is the solution to fixing our own problems ans hardships.

  • @adamb9477
    @adamb9477 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    My wife is a 2. This song describes her perfectly. I know how lucky I am to have her in my life. I may not have always been perfect throughout my life, but she loves me despite it. She lifts me to places I have never been before, and makes me feel a love like I have never felt in my life. She tells me I love her well, and I hope she is telling me the truth because she deserves to be treated well. She is light, love, hope, kindness, faith, empathy, humanity, and compassion. Every single day of her life. She is the warmth in my bones. I tell her everyday how much I appreciate her sensitive soul, and just how lucky I am to have her love me. I will tell her every single day until my last breath.

    • @leenbee17
      @leenbee17 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for appreciating her so much! 😢

    • @SpiritedReds
      @SpiritedReds ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Adam, God Bless you for being able to feel & express your love & gratitude to your wife. Heartfelt ❤

    • @Muh-gc2lv
      @Muh-gc2lv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're both lucky to have found each other. I'm happy for you.

  • @mikaylatober6459
    @mikaylatober6459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5057

    This song hits different after you find out you're actually a two.

    • @gracewlmao
      @gracewlmao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      omg ikr
      or if you knew you were a two before hearing the sing but coming back to the song after doing something very two-ish hits different too

    • @ellahawkins6178
      @ellahawkins6178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      i know! i though i was a 6 but turns out i'm at 2w3

    • @woahhello9167
      @woahhello9167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      can i be enlightened on what 2 is?

    • @ellahawkins6178
      @ellahawkins6178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@woahhello9167 a two is an enneagran number. 2's are the caregivers.

    • @woahhello9167
      @woahhello9167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@ellahawkins6178 thanks

  • @whiskeyeyedfool
    @whiskeyeyedfool 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5592

    The saddest parts of this song aren't the lyrics or the melody, it's the fact that I thought this was what love was. I thought love existed in self-destruction, in sacrifice without anything in return. I thought love was "no, I don't wanna talk about myself, tell me where it hurts" I thought it was "I just wanna build you up, build you up, 'til you're good as new and maybe one day I'll get around to fixing my self, too". This isn't love, it never was and that's the saddest part.

    • @purrclaws
      @purrclaws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      :,((

    • @ailanygutierrez6329
      @ailanygutierrez6329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      ColdFridgePizza same 😓 but that was beautiful and you wrote something that I’ve been trying to put into words for the longest time. I hope your ok and I’m happy u realized it as sad as it is

    • @hyacinthars
      @hyacinthars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      lord, your comment though!!! this hit me hard really :(:(

    • @nataliecampos1732
      @nataliecampos1732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I've seen you post on other emotional songs, and I resonate with you deeply. 💕

    • @whiskeyeyedfool
      @whiskeyeyedfool 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ailanygutierrez6329 I'm glad I could put into words what you've been feeling for a long time. I'm okay and I'm happy too

  • @destroyedparadise234
    @destroyedparadise234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    It's wild how at the start of the song, I immediately put myself only in the singer's shoes. And it isn't until the 2:17 mark that I realized how much I wanted to be the person being sung to, as well.
    Ryan absolutely 1000% understood the assignment when creating these songs for each of the enneagram types, I am in tears thank u sir

  • @vsbjd627
    @vsbjd627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Its fascinating to me how before the song starts, you can hear something is going on, rustling or taking a deep breath and the singer starts to sing. Shows how the singer, would drop everything to prioritise someone else, mentally and physically. The singer also uses a different tone or note when he sings about himself, it goes much quieter whenever he mentions himself. Some of the examples would be my own chest, put my mask on first, fixing myself too and to be loved myself. Like the singer has his own issues that he'd rather hide and keep secret about. Throughout the song, there is also a sense of exasperated? in the way the singer sings to his significant other. To tell and assure that they are loved, they are safe and that the singer would move heaven and earth for them. Exasperated in a good way? Idk the exact adjective to describe it. Like the feeling you get when you're explaining something to someone and getting so breathless and fired up but them being clueless still. And after the song ends, you can hear the singer releasing a breath or rustling about. Other songs on this project dont really have that bits left out, but I can be wrong. That last bit as if to indicate, the song has now end and the singer can take off their mask because during the song singer represses their emotions and feelings and basically put on masks to comfort others.

    • @NateSearson
      @NateSearson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Each song in this series starts with the sound effect of someone in Ryan's life that matches up with the enneagram type that's being focused on. If I remember correctly the rustling at the start is his wife making a bed, as his wife is a Type 2.

  • @gremnda
    @gremnda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    song: ”sweetheart-”
    me: *ugly sobbing

  • @sockonthewall
    @sockonthewall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2182

    I feel like no relationship will ever be healthy for me because I’m too eager to give myself away, and it’s nobody’s fault but mine.

    • @bellyfulochelly4222
      @bellyfulochelly4222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes. This.

    • @francescadilorenzo1530
      @francescadilorenzo1530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Hey! As a type 2 in a healthy relationship, my advice is to go slow. Get to know the other person slowly, give yourself the time to think about the way you feel towards your potential partner. You can tell them straight up that you have a tendency to care for others and to put them before you and your well being. When you'll open up slowly to them, they'll be aware of the reason why you are doing that. Hopefully they'll respect your way of thinking. That will show honesty, transparency and emotional maturity on your part and respect on theirs.
      I think it's a blessing to be a type 2 because we have so much love to give to everybody, even to ourselves. We just need to find balance between the rest of the world and us, and learn that it's okay to be loved and allow other people to help us love ourselves.
      Be hopeful.

    • @niayx3838
      @niayx3838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      this is everything i couldn’t put in words

    • @vania7462
      @vania7462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My advice, get to know yourself first, try to love yourself more... it ain’t easy... it took me 9 years.... i don’t want to get myself in relationship with a mindset I don’t need to be loved as much as i do for him...but after all those years you spent loving yourself, your true self is still there, and sometimes you love other people more than they do, and it hurts you, but as long as you remember that you need to be loved too, you will speak up to him/her, and the right person will give you all the love you need. Good luck to you my friend

    • @sockonthewall
      @sockonthewall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fran Shadow thank you so much, i’ll keep that all in mind 💘✨

  • @freyacowburn5998
    @freyacowburn5998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I've always imagined myself as the singer, because when I'm cared for, I feel greedy, like I need to give back in some way and say thank you constantly, so eventually I just stopped being the receiver at all, two's are givers, sometimes to the point of exhaustion, they give until nothing is left, they dont fix themselves to focus on others, they believe that their problems aren't as a bad and therefore unworthy of being resolved, so they bundle it up and put it in the back of their heads, putting all their focus and fixating on someone else in need of help, to distract them from their own burdens. It isnt love, it usually is a distraction.

    • @limeylemon1685
      @limeylemon1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dont think its necessarily a distraction.. given that often its so painful to help others.

    • @whowhatwhenwherew
      @whowhatwhenwherew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      as a two dont really think its a distraction, i see giving as my way of giving other people what i so desperately wish for everyday: lots of pure straightfoward gentle love kindness and compassion

  • @raven8069
    @raven8069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This reminds me of my grandma who passed away recently at 91, she survived two heart attacks, one at home and one in the hospital and then she died due to an untreated UTI. It went septic the day they sent her home. She was such a kind person and always had a beautiful smile, she put everyone way before herself and always thought the world of her family.
    I will never forget her. She was like a mother to me as she raised me unlike my biological mother, well my dad has always been there for me too.
    I’ll miss her so much, I spoke at her funeral and I broke down crying when I talked about how much I wanted to just wake up and see her in her chair again.
    I’ve been thinking about sharing my story to spread awareness on how hospitals treat the elderly.

    • @Violet_Jedi_Sylveon
      @Violet_Jedi_Sylveon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😢
      How are you doing now?

    • @lavandercharmander2307
      @lavandercharmander2307 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would love to hear your story.Your story will connect with a few people and impact them as well which sounds like a blessing.

  • @nitsuji6705
    @nitsuji6705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4239

    Some see a love song, I see a plea for help.
    I relate to the lyrics. Being so broken and unable to love yourself so you desperately build others up in hope of some sort of reciprocation happening. The part where the singer refuses to talk about himself hints at this disconnection happening inside him due to years of devoting everything unto others except himself. I am in love.

    • @theonlybingledingle
      @theonlybingledingle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Well, that's the beautiful thing about songs like these. Some see a loving, devoted partner wanting to do everything to make sure their partner is happy. No matter what.
      Whereas some people see someone tearing themselves up to make someone shine brighter.
      I understand both and see both. This song is immaculate.

    • @laurelcaumbey115
      @laurelcaumbey115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jayce D'rick I know how you feel, if you ever need to talk my Instagram dms are always open; bbydoll.gnv

    • @luciellawliet
      @luciellawliet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jayce D'rick I understand it as well, love hurts

    • @shinypokemonfan3582
      @shinypokemonfan3582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      On the Enneagram test I'm a 2 and what you said is what I live threw all the time. I try finding self worth in helping others. To a point I became suicidal. I had to get professional help to be able to over come that. I still struggle finding the balance because its who I am to want to help people.

    • @mykonto5098
      @mykonto5098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What you wrote is really wise. I understand what you mean.

  • @retardedtimes7529
    @retardedtimes7529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3509

    i’m going to be completely honest i’m a 2 and i just realized how true this is for my friends i would stay up with them until 3am if i had too just to make them feel better but when i’m feeling sad no one rlly knows bc i don’t make a big deal of it and when i get home i sit here and cry and i check my phone and there r no messages so i’m just sitting there alone staring at my ceiling and wondering if anyone actually cares. ok so it is now been 6 months since i wrote that message but when i wrote that i was at a tough time in my life i had lost my grandma and grandpa and now that i’m looking back at all of these comments i realized ppl can relate... rn i am doing perfectly fine and some advice i can give to u guys is to find something that u feel passionate about and focus on that for me it was video game... thank you for reading and god bless u all

    • @mantipost6247
      @mantipost6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      You might be a stranger to me but, I care about you. I know that there are lots of people who care about you

    • @natalieadams3463
      @natalieadams3463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      This hits close to home

    • @katief8839
      @katief8839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      joe mama what i’m doing right now.....

    • @ellagoede2682
      @ellagoede2682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      holy shit thats always me

    • @savannahmeland8966
      @savannahmeland8966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      You basically just described my whole life. I may not know who you are, but I care about you.

  • @starsforeyes6545
    @starsforeyes6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I cry to this for different reasons,
    1, I'm hurt.
    2, I feel like I'm always there for everybody and yea, I do it cause I love them, but sometimes it'd be nice to have someone love and care for me in the same way but I will never say that aloud.
    3, nobody understands me.

    • @whowhatwhenwherew
      @whowhatwhenwherew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if you want you can reply, will listen and maybe i wont understand but it will be heard by a random person on the internet

    • @TheThora17
      @TheThora17 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is exactly how if feel. It sounds selfish, but I’m so giving and thoughtful, so selfless and am a people pleaser. And I’m not even looking for recognition or credit or whatever… I don’t even know what I’m looking for.. maybe attention? Appreciation? Myself?

    • @houtsin
      @houtsin ปีที่แล้ว

      You are understood here. Stay strong. Sometimes tell someone close to you about it. Its okay to do so.

    • @cristiancouso6938
      @cristiancouso6938 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheThora17 being cared for and being loved. As someone who is not a 2 and having a wife that is a 2 I can say that you guys give that much love and attention (I'd say plenty of time uncall for and not needed) because you have an extra need to receive that loved back, you are loving the way you'd like to be loved back. Sadly the non 2 types out there dont have to that degree the need of love, apreciation and care, nor can we give it or are willing to. It's a priorities problem. We have to compromise, I do every now and then the extra loving thing for my wife because she really needs it and enjoys it, but I just can't do it or want to do it to the degree or frecuency she feels she "needs". Same way for her with my extra needs.

    • @TheThora17
      @TheThora17 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cristiancouso6938 that makes sense- thank you🌸

  • @PotatoSmashes
    @PotatoSmashes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    For all the twos out there: sing this to yourself in the mirror because you deserve love too

  • @samanthabaker8060
    @samanthabaker8060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    This song isn’t a love song. It’s about “the giver” type of persons and how they worry more about other people than themselves. Like me. I’m sobbing right now

    • @francescadilorenzo1530
      @francescadilorenzo1530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hey! Another type 2 here. Hope you're feeling great and ready to tackle the day ahead of ya! Stay safe and keep on lovin those around ya and take some time to love and take care of yourself too! Toodles👋🏻

    • @cleliaoconnell3705
      @cleliaoconnell3705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel really bad for people who are type 2, but I just can't stand being near them. I can't stand when someone tries to help others while they're broken to pieces. The worst is when they deny it. It just... breaks my heart. I can't just stay there and watch them smile as they crumble to ashes.
      I guess what I'm trying to say is... take care. We care about you too, even when we sound rude.

    • @spogmairabnawazmaken4848
      @spogmairabnawazmaken4848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      its crazy how im not generally the self destructing giver type of a person for everyone, but would completely wreck myself for that one special person- over and over again.

  • @ethanpanganiban4937
    @ethanpanganiban4937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    “What a privilege it is to love”
    it makes you think.

    • @deepakumari9507
      @deepakumari9507 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah true

    • @diyasabapathy2774
      @diyasabapathy2774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg so true

    • @phauxdy
      @phauxdy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't think we understand just how intensely unique the emotion of love is. To have such an unwavering attraction to another individual aside from yourself because they simply are them, is powerful. It's an honor to encounter this intense experience like no other. To think some deny this emotions existence, that it's a construct of society and economy.. No. It has been deep within human capacity since we reached this level of intelligence. And type twos just know how love works.

  • @garrettjanz7382
    @garrettjanz7382 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I'm feeling burnt out from loving unconditionally. I feel like I can't recharge as people keep taking, and I can't say no.
    This song is the beginning of me taking back control. It's hard, though. It's hard to feel like I am being selfish. I hope I can love myself as much as I love others. I hope I can feel love too.

    • @nataliabarnett6113
      @nataliabarnett6113 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm here too, I'm the same way. I want to befriend the people like this, and give to and love them so they don't give up on loving at all. I wish you well. If you need a friend I am here. If you need to vent I don't judge. Don't lose yourself, but please don’t give up on being kind.

    • @garrettjanz7382
      @garrettjanz7382 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Natalia Barnett it's a tough spot to be in when you give so much, but then feel like you don't receive any in return. Luckily, I've been focusing on how I can move forward. It's come to the point where I need to possibly get rid of a friend in my life who has been a big source of these issues. I had to talk with many people to realize that he was using me, and it wasn't healthy for me to give in all the time.
      Thank you, Natalia, for responding and offering to be someone I can vent to. I bet you are feeling like this as well, and I would love to be someone you can talk to as well. You have value, and it's not in what you can do for others. You have value because you are you.

    • @cristiancouso6938
      @cristiancouso6938 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You feel burnt out because truly, you are "just" a human being. You can't love unconditionally.

  • @cosmicgames7092
    @cosmicgames7092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “It’s okay if you can’t catch your breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest” that’s such a deep, powerful line. You just feel that one

  • @waffleamv_
    @waffleamv_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2202

    helping people and ruining yourself in the process only to realise they wouldn't do the same for you

    • @daddlus5274
      @daddlus5274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ouch

    • @rasmitdevkota5295
      @rasmitdevkota5295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I felt that

    • @Rachel-og8jy
      @Rachel-og8jy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The point is that no one should ruin themselves for someone else, not that everyone should

    • @waffleamv_
      @waffleamv_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Rachel-og8jy when did i say everyone should? i was just talking about an experience i had in the past that some people found relatable

    • @czareanajousch
      @czareanajousch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      y u gotta do me like that

  • @tirucatalina1157
    @tirucatalina1157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3496

    My lovely type two,
    You tend to love people like nobody else does. You really live to help us connect with our hearts. You are nurturing, emotionally inteligent and seriously, you are the embrace of all that is good in us. You understand people better than people understand themselves, you are empathetic, generous and supportive. You totally give yourself to your inner work, you minimise your needs and you give yourself away.
    I know it is devastating for you to acknowledge that you have needs but it is totally OK to admit that you crave love. It is time you realise that people around you appreciate and love you even though you do not. You need to understand that you have to love yourself as much as you love the others. You are one of a kind, gorgeous, sweet, enough and worthy for all the love in the world. I know it hurts when people take you for granted and that you fear rejection more than anything. It is totally OK to say no sometimes even though your heart is so big and forgiving that you would be willing to give people endless chances. You are not weak for loving the others, your love is a superpower that not many people know how to handle.
    Your key word is love, the superpower to handle love at its best. Use it to change the world!
    Yours sincerely,
    type two friend
    UPDATE: I am on instagram @tirucatalina for anyone who wants someone to talk to.

    • @emmagreen6120
      @emmagreen6120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Wow... Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

    • @shelierichardson4165
      @shelierichardson4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m not a 2 but trying to help one.....Your note confuses me. I thought the pride of thinking they are the most loving is one of the issues of a 2? So why would it be helpful to tell them over and over that they are the most loving?

    • @tirucatalina1157
      @tirucatalina1157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@shelierichardson4165 because we are loving, and on our way to love everyone we forget to love ourselves. We don't actually realise how loving we are... we just do it. Of course, when we are toxic we do it for our self purpose, we love to get it back... but our aim is to be healthy and love just because we enjoy loving.
      Hope it helps!

    • @juliamartins5369
      @juliamartins5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hey... I fell like this could be something my older self writted for me, Thank you, realy, thank you 🥺❤❤

    • @ByeByBui
      @ByeByBui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I teared up as I was reading this and the music was in the background. I felt this. Thank you.

  • @Fruit_Cake_Boii
    @Fruit_Cake_Boii 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This song is the musical version of being given a hug and told that everything is going to be okay.

  • @kelseyregank-drawproductio9510
    @kelseyregank-drawproductio9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I jokingly say “I’m a 2 in Recovery.”
    I had a dream awhile back… In it a friend and I were talking about a super stressful and upsetting thing I was experiencing. Though it was still happening in real life, the dream conversation was referring to it in the past tense. In the dream I asked my friend “Are you mad I didn’t tell you about X? Was I right or wrong to wait until it was over?”
    The friend looked at me and in grief said “You robbed us of the chance to love you.”
    I started sharing the situation with friends the next day. Really glad I did, they were a huge support and made things so much more bearable.

  • @kaitlynn8646
    @kaitlynn8646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1417

    “I will love you without any strings attached.” _”You know I’d tear my heart clean apart if it helps yours beat”_ *” I just want to build you up until you’re good as new.”*

  • @ryleethompson2788
    @ryleethompson2788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2461

    I’m a type 2. I feel this. I feel like crying.

  • @LauRen-pr2ic
    @LauRen-pr2ic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I always view this song as somebody finding a person who’s recently gone through the same trauma as them. They’re experienced in how to feel better, so they take in this newly traumatized person and heal them with the thought that it will heal themself as well

  • @Unhinged-chicken-nugget
    @Unhinged-chicken-nugget 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself" That line hits hard, partly because it's so relatable

  • @maturelydisapointingmember2699
    @maturelydisapointingmember2699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4009

    This isn't a love song
    However..
    ..if you are a type 2, then technically...this *is* a love song..Because it's the only love you know how to give

    • @darkbeast3034
      @darkbeast3034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      YES!!!! I mean I put everyone above me but I dont get nth bacck but Im just glad all my friends happy. Sometimes I do feel like if I dont deserve to be as alone as I personally am

    • @mariannavandergriff3281
      @mariannavandergriff3281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Truth.

    • @Tr4_k3y
      @Tr4_k3y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This needs more likes this is amazing

    • @earthtograysea7573
      @earthtograysea7573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this comment hit me hard

    • @dudaschone
      @dudaschone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OUCH

  • @lucy-bn8fh
    @lucy-bn8fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1501

    any other type 2’s crying their eyes out? just me?

    • @kaylahasbrook5906
      @kaylahasbrook5906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lucy- not just you, love.

    • @lucy-bn8fh
      @lucy-bn8fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kayla Hasbrook ❤️

    • @virginiecollin4162
      @virginiecollin4162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’re not alone 🥺❤️

    • @lucy-bn8fh
      @lucy-bn8fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Virginie Collin 🥺❤️

    • @virginiecollin4162
      @virginiecollin4162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lucy 🥺❤️his songs really knows how to make me cry

  • @lexi_catherine
    @lexi_catherine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "i will love you without a single string attached."
    that line felt like a knife straight through the heart.

  • @rueinred3153
    @rueinred3153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "I know exactly how the rule goes; put my mask on first."
    As a two with OCD, that line hit super hard because sometimes my mind makes rules for giving and receiving love that really hurt me.

    • @proto6086
      @proto6086 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's OCD?

    • @rueinred3153
      @rueinred3153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@proto6086 Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is different for everyone who has it, but for me, my mind makes rigorous rules and systems that I have to follow, otherwise I fear I am going to get hurt. What I meant in my comment is that my mind makes a set of rules for how I can give and receive love, and if I don't follow through with the rules, I feel as though I am undeserving of love.

  • @nina._.279
    @nina._.279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1289

    “I know exactly how the rule goes, put my mask on first. No I don’t want to talk about myself, tell me where it hurts”
    You treat others the way you want to be treated but you never give them the opportunity to wipe your tears away because you never show them.

    • @samuelransom4494
      @samuelransom4494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I feel that.

    • @lifeernest5672
      @lifeernest5672 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      never giving others the opportunity to care for me because I never let them know when I need their care. sometimes I could really use a friend. just sit with me and allow me soak in the experience of that moment, but it seems no one is really ever there then. smiles.

    • @vothienbaochau
      @vothienbaochau ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im the 666th like, idk why but i feel a lil happy so here is the comment :)

    • @bbhohahabook3391
      @bbhohahabook3391 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true.

    • @loisnicklas8180
      @loisnicklas8180 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes the 2 people put into a relationship what they can. All that matters is not who put what, it matters did they put their heart & sole in & love eachother.

  • @shrabanidash5570
    @shrabanidash5570 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2126

    There's nothing more angelic in the world than his voice

    • @sullivanlemaitre2819
      @sullivanlemaitre2819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know something more angelic, at least as angelic as his voice: Jón Þór Birgisson's voice.

    • @deactivated37
      @deactivated37 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Reine Ebeneser
      I dunno man Mike Wazowski has a pretty angelic voice

    • @sullivanlemaitre2819
      @sullivanlemaitre2819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Spooky Animator I will listen to him then. (:

    • @shrabanidash5570
      @shrabanidash5570 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Reine Ebeneser he/she is talking about the one eyed funny monster from monster inc.

    • @sullivanlemaitre2819
      @sullivanlemaitre2819 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shrabani Dash Why am I so stupid.

  • @lrkebryan-lund8277
    @lrkebryan-lund8277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is so accurate! Twos just want to make everyone around them happy because we feel this enormous empathy to all around us. But what we’re scared to admit is that we what that to and that feeling like nobody appreciates our help and devotion is suffocating

  • @charlieputman6836
    @charlieputman6836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My boyfriend is a two, I’m a six, and after listening to this song a couple times, I finally get the way he feels about me, it just took a while to get through my own self doubt in out relationship. I feel so lucky to have such an amazing guy at my side who is completely willing to give anything to me, and now I’m ready to give my all to him without any doubt. This is amazing.

    • @matthewglennon4326
      @matthewglennon4326 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How are you guys doing now? I am a two, who is looking to be in a relationship with someone I know very close, and want to know if you had any advice or insight from your guys' relationship

  • @tvishav4177
    @tvishav4177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    "And i just want to love you, to love you well. I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself."

  • @laikynvictoria
    @laikynvictoria 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1713

    I definitely don't see this as a love song. As a 2, I hear this song for what it is; a desperate cry to be loved in the same way the singer loves other people. In most of my relationships, I'm the "helper". The "oh you're so great to talk to" the "you're such a good listener" and "wow, you're really good at giving advice". I've never really felt like I COULD open up to other people and feel needy. It's more a feeling of "as long as everyone else is happy and loved and healthy, that's what matters" but deep down you have this intrinsic need to just be wanted.
    No, this isn't a love song.

    • @Corviidei
      @Corviidei 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see the relationship displayed in the song it more of a patriarchal on anyways

    • @blacklotus1875
      @blacklotus1875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Laik I know how you feel 😪

    • @aaqib6177
      @aaqib6177 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry but what is a two

    • @tori5788
      @tori5788 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aaqib6177 one of the enneagram test types (which this song is based off of) that goes through the numbers 1-9

    • @hixitzpeanut1433
      @hixitzpeanut1433 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laik that’s exactly how I see it

  • @sabrinalopez1420
    @sabrinalopez1420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Lyrics:
    Sweetheart, you look a little tired
    When did you last eat?
    Come in and make yourself right at home
    Stay as long as you need
    Tell me, is something wrong?
    If something's wrong you can count on me
    You know I'll take my heart clean apart
    If it helps yours beat
    It's okay if you can't find the words
    Let me take your coat and this weight off of your shoulders
    Like a force to be reckoned with
    A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss
    I will love you with every single thing I have
    Like a tidal wave, we'll make a mess
    Calm waters, if that serves you best
    I will love you without any strings attached
    It's okay if you can't catch your breath
    You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest
    I know exactly how your rule goes
    Put my mask on first
    No, I don't want to talk about myself
    Tell me where it hurts
    I just want to build you up, build you up
    'Til you're good as new
    And maybe one day, I'll get around
    To fixing myself, too
    I don't even know where to start
    Already tired of trying to recall when it all fell apart
    I just want to love you, to love you, to love you well
    I just want to learn how to somehow, to be loved myself
    Like a force to be reckoned with
    A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss
    I will love you without any strings attached
    What a privilege it is to love
    A great honor to hold you up
    Like a force to be reckoned with
    A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss
    I will love you with every single thing I have
    Like a tidal wave, we'll make a mess
    Calm waters, if that serves you best
    I will love you without any strings attached
    I will love you without a single string attached

  • @crossilleux
    @crossilleux ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This song was the ultimate call out I think I needed, my boyfriend of a few months introduced me to this artist so we can try to gain a better understanding of each other and from hearing these it helped us open up more and ever since he has been helping me break my unhealthy habits of keeping everything to myself. I never thought a song could help so much but this really is a blessing and I thank you greatly for this beautiful song.

  • @yourcoldshoulder7973
    @yourcoldshoulder7973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    Dear Twos, Beautiful Souls, sometimes, it is okay to be the one who takes. Because you never know, in some moments, taking equals giving. I love you ♡

    • @tracinetzband8492
      @tracinetzband8492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love you soo much😭💕

    • @mondog5399
      @mondog5399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love you too!

    • @visgirlfriend9295
      @visgirlfriend9295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You made me cry. I saw this comment and I started to cry 😭

  • @oliviad7029
    @oliviad7029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4877

    okay but "put my mask on first" is even more relevant now

    • @telescope_s
      @telescope_s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      No matter how or whatever you wanna do, put your mask on first 😅

    • @user-tt5tw3ut1x
      @user-tt5tw3ut1x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      IT TOOK ME A MINUTE FKJXND BUT YES

    • @justhere750
      @justhere750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      OMG YES

    • @jaylahrice1509
      @jaylahrice1509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      This really aged like fine wine, huh

    • @kelci2859
      @kelci2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Olivia D lol yeah

  • @shamirazoeb.dullas2594
    @shamirazoeb.dullas2594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh my gosh. I just realized that in the first chorus, they make us see it as helping and comforting one we love but in the second one, it feels as if we're talking about and to us.

  • @calimera41
    @calimera41 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm listening this again thanks to a mango called Two on Ice wich I'm almost certain hint that the music use in the story in the last chapter (26) is this one. Such a great song !

  • @corecore651
    @corecore651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2332

    dear unknown lover,
    I dedicate this song to you.
    Edit: thank you for 468 likes!

    • @squircle3593
      @squircle3593 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      thank you

    • @annahernandez6385
      @annahernandez6385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Crimson Blue and Orbit, wanna fight?! Shafisnotanerd is mine!!! Back the crap down!

    • @vanisharma1276
      @vanisharma1276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha seriously 🤭🤭

    • @bethbearden4507
      @bethbearden4507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No! I dedicate this song to you! 😂

    • @azazazz099
      @azazazz099 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shablegum wahhh- you know this song is about a guy who can’t love himself right???

  • @witchyyeol7531
    @witchyyeol7531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +495

    As a type 2 even tho this is how we act, I feel like the beginning is what we all want to hear in the end from other people.

    • @kyhoney
      @kyhoney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      witchyyeol agreed

    • @chenjipoo8329
      @chenjipoo8329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup 😢💜💜
      Btw I love ur name and pfp 😂

    • @fallingskies8991
      @fallingskies8991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry I probably sound really rude, but what type 2 do you mean? 🤔

    • @hxllie_2582
      @hxllie_2582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fallingskies8991 Enneagram test, it tells you which type you are and this song matches it

    • @epochabove8453
      @epochabove8453 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can shut your gorgeous face with your truth telling. I really don't feel like crying anymore, lol

  • @GachaKateUwU
    @GachaKateUwU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Pov: you found this song because of a fanfiction about a block game.
    Now....
    You can't stop listening to this...

    • @Genevire
      @Genevire ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it was so good i'm still crying 😭

  • @nathanm5653
    @nathanm5653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a two, I can attest that this is incredibly accurate. And.... it's heart-wrenching to hear my own personality spelled out by this musical master, with simple yet profound lyrics and beautiful instrumentation... love this song so much.

  • @keylasanga9660
    @keylasanga9660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5037

    Hey...
    Go easy on yourself, okay ? You're doing the best you can, and that's enough. Tomorrow will be better. I love you :)

    • @daddlus5274
      @daddlus5274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Hey, I don't think you have any idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you so much, I really appreciated it❤

    • @nadrealove927
      @nadrealove927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Me too, thank you

    • @eevemira3378
      @eevemira3378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you..🥺

    • @ellagoede2682
      @ellagoede2682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Sometimes it feels like I can’t do anything right

    • @nadrealove927
      @nadrealove927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@ellagoede2682 honestly I think a lot of ppl do but I promise you, you have your own special thing you are loved trying to smile and keep your head up

  • @twigthekid4025
    @twigthekid4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This makes me daydream of having someone there for me. A *best* friend. And I feel so, *so* good inside. But when the song ended I felt lonely. I am very glad I came across this so I could feel better even for a few minutes

    • @cheese___8589
      @cheese___8589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @samhitabanerjee5342
      @samhitabanerjee5342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      are you okay? i love you so much

    • @twigthekid4025
      @twigthekid4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@samhitabanerjee5342 I’m managing, thank you, really ☺️

  • @uhohspaghettios2391
    @uhohspaghettios2391 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Despite being a two, I never connected with this song in the same way I did with some of the others. I think, for me, it rings almost hollow because I am deeply, personally aware of how much pride and resentment can linger under the surface of twos, how we wish that others would give us the same forethought and consideration we give to them. We feel selfish asking for it, and fear that we'll be rejected in our request while still being expected to provide it.
    I think maybe this is supposed to be showing the outer mask of placidity, with only the tiniest glimpses of the sadness and pain underneath- before that pain turns to anger.

  • @a_paradise_bird
    @a_paradise_bird 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2565

    sleeping at last

    • @leilahammami4853
      @leilahammami4853 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      a paradise bird it's a great name because his music is soo relaxing and wonderful it's the only one that makes me sleep( at last).

    • @allison9132
      @allison9132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      a paradise bird I subscribed YOU ARE AMAZINGLY TALENTED

  • @_lostjams_5192
    @_lostjams_5192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    Listening to the first verse, I thought this was a song that was meant to comfort type 2s like us and make us feel loved, and I bawled bc I was like this is exactly how I want someone to treat me. Then the comments made me realize that this is me, this is how I act towards others. It made me cry even more bc it made me realize I want the love I give others to be returned to me too, and how frickin lonely that sounds. I want to be loved the same way I love them. I know how it feels to feel like you're unloved and unappreciated so I tend to be that caring and funny friend bc I don't want them feeling the same way. And sometimes, I have this little hope that they'll do the same thing for me. But yanno, there are some who just take it for granted. I just need someone.

    • @thehex2766
      @thehex2766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As another two, and as someone who has experienced similar things. You are loved and cared for. Remember that you have to love yourself as well. You are one of a kind, and there isn't enough people like you in this world. Keep on caring, and loving. Keep moving. We care.

    • @bellyfulochelly4222
      @bellyfulochelly4222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Just steer clear of the takers.
      We have no protection against that kind of selfishness.

    • @mariospeachey
      @mariospeachey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bellyfulochelly4222 this right here!!!

    • @nelnellynilth6891
      @nelnellynilth6891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If you listen to the maker of the song go through the process of making this song, they say “this song is a love note to a 2, from a 2” because this is us, but also what we want.

    • @crystaldelarosa9138
      @crystaldelarosa9138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg you describe why I’m bawling my eyes out rn

  • @stardustbits1148
    @stardustbits1148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I always saw the line “a mighty ocean or a gentle kiss” as “am I the ocean or a gentle kiss” and I feel both hit just as hard and really drive the point through. But gosh do I feel that at times where everything is crashing down or it feels like I can be tender with someone and make them feel better. When im an ocean, its time to help myself but only if others are ok too.

  • @hellopeople4549
    @hellopeople4549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    I just want to let you guys know I finally put myself first today. It hurt but it’s for the best.

    • @charleslebowski8878
      @charleslebowski8878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      GREAT!! YOURE DOING INCREDIBLE MATE!! keep it up :)

    • @violetjustine6018
      @violetjustine6018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      seeing this so late but man am i proud of you. all my love

    • @aghabykiwan2490
      @aghabykiwan2490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We are so proud of you, keep going you are doing great

    • @boooooooooooop
      @boooooooooooop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      proud of you, angel :)

    • @AlexFirebaugh
      @AlexFirebaugh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Proud of you. It’s hard so that’s pretty cool

  • @mcdreamysbabe1170
    @mcdreamysbabe1170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1472

    For all the 2’s out there, this isn’t love. Love shouldn’t feel like giving up so much to the point of exhaustion. Sometimes it’s better to look after yourself xx

    • @evan3687
      @evan3687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Hey, thank you for this. I wish people would remind me of this more. Love isn't about sacrificing everything you have without anything in return. I know that now. I only wish I could have known earlier on.

    • @maryfjackson7139
      @maryfjackson7139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@evan3687 I feel like that too I really like him alot . He only gave us a month

    • @lord_squiddie
      @lord_squiddie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @KailieCromwell
      @KailieCromwell 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the reminder. I had to learn this the hard way a few years back, but I think I've come a long way since. Always feels good to have the reminder though😊💙

    • @juancarlosmanrique115
      @juancarlosmanrique115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Love has no specific explanation. I mean it will be different for each one's perspective. If he/she thinks this is love, it's love. U can call it "not" if u hurt someone. But in this case, he/she expresses love by letting someone do that makes them happy.

  • @parast3828
    @parast3828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One of the hardest things is giving all of your love and even when they say they love you you still want more. You want more love more acceptance just more all because you feel empty because you don’t love yourself.

  • @amyu6082
    @amyu6082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I think this song on the album best represents God's love for us... unconditional and often unrequited

  • @snowa375
    @snowa375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +855

    I want to sing this as a lullaby so I'm gonna put the lyrics here as well:-
    Sweetheart, you look a little tired
    When did you last eat?
    Come in and make yourself right at home
    Stay as long as you need
    Tell me, is something wrong?
    If something's wrong, you can count on me
    You know I'll take my heart clean apart if it helps yours beat
    It's okay if you can't find the words
    Let me take your coat
    And this weight off of your shoulders
    Like a force to be reckoned with
    A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss
    I will love you with every single thing I have
    Like a tidal wave, I'll make a mess
    Or calm waters, if that serves you best
    I will love you without any strings attached
    It's okay if you can't catch your breath
    You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest
    I know exactly how the rule goes
    Put my mask on first
    No, I don't want to talk about myself
    Tell me where it hurts
    I just want to build you up, build you up
    'Til you're good as new
    And maybe one day I will get around to fixing myself too
    I don't even know where to start
    Already tired of trying to recall when it all fell apart
    I just want to love you, to love you, to love you well
    I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself
    Like a force to be reckoned with
    A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss
    I will love you without any strings attached
    And what a privilege it is to love
    A great honor to hold you up
    Like a force to be reckoned with
    A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss
    I will love you with every single thing I have
    Like a tidal wave, I'll make a mess
    Or calm waters if that serves you best
    I will love you without any strings attached
    I will love you without a single string attached

    • @maelle9099
      @maelle9099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Quelqu'un peut traduire ?

    • @sarahctd4579
      @sarahctd4579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ma ëlle Chéri(e), tu semble un peu fatigué
      Quand as-tu mangé pour la dernière fois ?
      Viens et met toi à l'aise à la maison
      Reste aussi longtemps que tu le veux
      Dis moi, y a t'il quelque chose qui ne va pas ?
      Si quelque chose ne va pas tu peux compter sur moi
      Tu sais, je donnerai mon cœur si cela peut aider le tiens à battre
      Ce n'est pas grave si tu ne peux pas trouver les mots
      Laisse moi prendre ton manteau
      Et ce poids hors de tes épaules
      Comme une force qui est comptée avec
      Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant
      Je vais t'aimer avec chaques choses que j’ai
      Comme un raz de marée, je vais faire un bazarre
      Ou des eaux calmes, si cela te sers plus
      Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées
      Ce n'est pas grave si tu n'arrive pas à respirer
      Tu peux prendre l'oxygène tout droit sortie de ma poitrine
      Je sais exactement quelles sont les règles :
      Mettre mon masque en premier
      Non, je ne veux pas parler de moi, dis moi ou tu as mal
      Je veux juste te reconstruire, te reconstruire
      Jusqu'à ce que tu sois comme neuf
      Et peux être qu'un jour, je me reconstruirai aussi
      Je ne sais même pas par où commencer
      Déjà fatigué d'essayer de recoller quand tout s'est effondré
      Je veux juste t'aimer, t'aimer, t'aimer fort
      Je veux juste apprendre comment, quelque part, être aimer moi aussi
      Comme une force qui est comptée avec
      Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant
      Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées
      Et quel privilège c'est d'aimer
      Un grand honneur de te soutenir
      Comme une force qui est comptée avec
      Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant
      Je vais t'aimer avec chaques choses que j'ai
      Comme un raz de marée, je vais faire un bizarre
      Ou des eaux calmes, si cela te sers plus
      Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées

    • @maelle9099
      @maelle9099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sarahctd4579 Mercii beaucoup

  • @currentlydaydreaming3333
    @currentlydaydreaming3333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1208

    I know it’s supposed to be about people with the personality type 2, but this song feels comforting. It feels like someone actually cares about you. I keep coming back to this song and I cry every time. It’s sad because they (perspective of the singer) sound so selfless and I want to be there for them too.

    • @lavenderbrown3730
      @lavenderbrown3730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      That means everything to us twos because this is exactly what we want to do for other people so when a song we are supposed to relate to helps you be comforted it makes my day. I love you random internet stranger.

    • @kit5176
      @kit5176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I think it’s comforting for a reason, type 2’s lean to be like that supposedly- when I listened to the song (I’m a 2) I really felt like the words were something I’d say and I agree with the other comment that it makes us feel appreciated that you are comforted by something we relate so heavily to in the way we try to be :)) much love

    • @MaybeLily1234
      @MaybeLily1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Just speaking from my perspective as a Christian this is how I feel like Jesus is like

    • @OneBiasedOpinion
      @OneBiasedOpinion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think that’s part of the message. Because in the end it’s what Type 2s want for the people they love. They want nothing more than to see their loved ones happy, content, safe, and cared for. Even if the 2’s own life feels like its shearing apart, seeing their “people” happy and safe is a form of catharsis.

    • @katsan9155
      @katsan9155 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But the truth is type 2s only love and don’t accept love in return because we know that we’d only feel disappointed when the other person cant return the love equally so we are fine with just giving it when they need it. Even if we yearn for it, the least painful and disappointing route has always been to just give without expectations.

  • @kara_frost_
    @kara_frost_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My mom is a two. And there is nothing more encouraging than growing up with a TRULY selfless mom🤍 I can truly say without a doubt, I want to be like my momma when I grow up. She has been such a great example to me and I hope to even be half the mom she is when I’m a mom🥺

  • @ameliamanhique3063
    @ameliamanhique3063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "and what a privilege is to love, a great honor to hold you up" ♥️

  • @leavethecity8984
    @leavethecity8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1466

    Anyone else feel like this isnt a happy love song? The more times i listen to it the more it sounds like the singer is holding this person up and letting themselves fall down.

    • @adiposeNarnian
      @adiposeNarnian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      agalloway.neptune the whole song cycle is based on the personality types of the enneagram, and God bless him, he is doing his homework on all of them. That is the basic definitiom of an enneagram 2: giving and loving, but pathologically unable to ask for help, and constantly trying to earn love instead of believing that it can be given.
      So yes, I agree with you, and thank you.

    • @leavethecity8984
      @leavethecity8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@adiposeNarnian That makes much more sense-thank you :)

    • @adiposeNarnian
      @adiposeNarnian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agalloway.neptune glad to help!

    • @JuanTorres-pd7pq
      @JuanTorres-pd7pq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      leavethecity8 type twos. Will apologize so much. Just to make the other person feel better even if they’re in the wrong.

    • @covadongacuervo5869
      @covadongacuervo5869 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adiposeNarnian ♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @giat1158
    @giat1158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    When I was younger I truly believed love and self destruction went hand in hand. I didn't understand why I would get so drained from helping and supporting others. My art consisted of dark themes, mostly of me drowning while others were being held above the water by me. Now I know how to love and be loved. Love isn't destruction, love is creation.

    • @ohome9893
      @ohome9893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I used to draw people laughing, and dancing... but I can't seem to bring myself to draw; at least not the way I used to. Everyone looks kinda dead now. :/

    • @Lanzeyyy
      @Lanzeyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      More power and love to you, sweet being. I hope you're in a much better place now.

  • @Khontis
    @Khontis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like how the song's real subject isn't evident. It sounds like it's about the person Two is trying to help but in reality it's about Two's innermonologue about how they want to help others but have to put their own agenda on the shelf first and put on the 'mask' that they don't need to be helped, that they're the ones who help others.
    My dearest Two's... You deserve to have someone help you too. A wall cannot protect others without being mended every so often.

  • @adleighstrickland2952
    @adleighstrickland2952 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is the perfect song.
    This is the song of my soul, I can't even explain how much this song puts my person into words.
    "I will love you with every single thing I have - I will love you without any strings attached"
    I wish my friends knew how much I loved them.

    • @lilredhaze555
      @lilredhaze555 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cassiesoiles8713
    @cassiesoiles8713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +896

    "When did you last eat?" my best friend, who is a two, asked me this... I hadn't eaten for a week until she said this.... without her I would have gone two and then three until I died.. twos remember you are loved, needed,
    and it's okay to ask for help (: Edit: oh my gosh. Guys thank you. I just hit 100 pounds and i am much healthier. I finally love myself, and my friends getting there! Love you guys~Cassandra 2020 Edit (again) I am feeling amazing! better than ever I struggled with these ED thoughts again... and you guys will not believe it... I pushed it away!!! I know this doesnt sound like much, but for me, its great! Thanks again! Lots of love and hope! ~Cassandra March 30 2021

    • @xxx-ie9ic
      @xxx-ie9ic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    • @cassiesoiles8713
      @cassiesoiles8713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Serpentine Sempervium thank you 😊

    • @worldpinkmusic
      @worldpinkmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are probably a good friend to your two friend. Thank you sweetie

    • @tiago-cg1175
      @tiago-cg1175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can someone explain to me what 'twos', 'threes' and 'ones' people are?

    • @hed-empti2336
      @hed-empti2336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tiago-cg1175 they're enneagram personality types

  • @ilovebosgc
    @ilovebosgc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4071

    The saddest thing for me about this song is that I know no one will ever love me this way.

    • @juliewakefield8746
      @juliewakefield8746 6 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      KayVlogs they will. It doesn’t have to be what you think it is. I love my best friend like this and sometimes I think I’m the only one who does. But it could be anybody for you.

    • @ilovebosgc
      @ilovebosgc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Julie Wakefield thank you ❤️

    • @kaitiharmless4322
      @kaitiharmless4322 6 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      God already does ❤

    • @nazirtumba9021
      @nazirtumba9021 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      KayVlogs , Jesus Christ already loves you that way, he died for you when u didn't exist anywhere but in his mind, when u didn't love him back and he still loves you that way and beyond❤❤

    • @wilddreamer9935
      @wilddreamer9935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Am sure someone will and even if no one loves u that way u should love urself and make them regret it by being successful

  • @gabrielledanalei5557
    @gabrielledanalei5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm a mix of two and three. Someone who would give their life to help someone, when they're just as tired and burnt out as them. Two is how we try to help and love people, how we would give it our all just to even make they're day slightly better, whilst three is like the same burnt out person trying to find a reason to be loved themselves. I'm only 12, but I've been told so many great things about how I can draw, which is basically my talent. I've written a book, I've won several art competitions, I've done so many things, but I never felt it was good enough. I've done so many things that sometimes I think maybe I've done enough. Like a comment I saw in the three video: "This song is the definition of gifted kid burnout". I've been told so many good things about how much I've achieved, but sometimes I just really question if I'm worthy of that love anyway. Am I just seen for my talent? My 'gift'?, not for truly who I am as a person? But then, I'm also a two. Two's are caring. They're kind, sweet and nice as a person. I've been torn between being that kid good at art and that nice kid that helps everyone. It's like two sides of me, fighting. I found two first. It was in an animation video I was watching, and the lyrics really hit home. I listened to the song, and then three came up. And it broke me. 'You're golden child grew up' 'maybe I've done enough" "maybe this trophy isn't real love" "worthy of love anyway?" "Its so exhausting" Hit me hard. Basically the whole song did, both two and three. It's hard being almost two completely different people on the Enneagram. But two and three's are practically made for each other. Three questions if they're worthy of love, but two still gives it to them. Sorry for the long rant, just wanted to get it out.
    Three: Maybe I've done enough, is this trophy even real love, am I worthy of love anyway?
    Two: Tell me where it hurts. Let me take your coat and this weight off of your shoulders.
    I will love you without any strings attached.

  • @Lionessofmayhem
    @Lionessofmayhem ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A couple years ago I found I’m a two. I listened to the song and I cried,it hit deep and depressed me thinking that my love was too much to ever get returned back to me. Now a couple years later I’m engaged and my intense love is always being returned . I promise to any of you that may feel hopeless, it isn’t. You’re so full of love and you deserve to feel loved and taken care of too, never stop loving and make sure to always keep some love for yourself. You deserve it.Everything comes back around. 🖤

  • @aisyd9277
    @aisyd9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1458

    I am such a 2. I am exactly like this. I don’t know how to love myself, so I love someone else as much as I wish I was loved because I know how much it hurts to feel so unloved. Whoever wishes they could be like this are wrong. It’s terrible. It hurts so much to give someone else the love you can’t give yourself. I hate myself. Do you want to be like that? Didn’t think so. It’s horrible. It’s not fun. I love other people so much, but I can’t seem to love myself. And no one can help me. If you read, thank you. If you’re not a 2, then consider this: Us 2’s don’t know what it’s like to love ourselves. So if you know a 2.. show them some appreciation. We need it. If you’re a 2: If you can’t love yourself, love another 2. Maybe they’ll love you that way back. Everyone deserves to be loved. Everyone needs to be loved. Even yourself, you beautiful human being. So even if we don’t know each other, promise me you’ll find someone to love yourself for you. ❤️ I love all of you amazing people!! ^~^

    • @mariaeditspositivity5003
      @mariaeditspositivity5003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It's nice to know someone else feels like me💕 I understand you💗

    • @SionaHouses
      @SionaHouses 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dear Aesthedits_xo,
      I'm a 2 too. I know what that feels.
      We are helpers, we are needed, but more than that, we are loved for who we are, and not for what we give to others. You are an amazing person, and I sincerely hope someday you will see it. Trust me, you want to be a 2. Giving love is one of the most beautiful thing ever, but you have to start loving yourself, and I know how difficult this is. "I know exactly how the rule goes... Put my mask on first." If you want to be able to help people and to love them in a way they deserve to be helped and loved, you need to give that love to yourself.
      Whenever I feel down, unloved, lonely, whenever I hate myself, and cry so hard it hurts, I listen to Sleeping at Last's podcast "Two". This is the podcast where he explains how he wrote this song, and who are the Two's. Who we are. Listening to it, and to the beautiful message it delivers help me. I hope it helps you too.
      Remember you are strong, and amazing, and beautiful, and loved too.

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do i learn what number i am

    • @amandacook9186
      @amandacook9186 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      camren's child Google enneagram test and take the first one that comes up!

    • @seymourthellama7028
      @seymourthellama7028 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ Or even better, read through the types and see which one hurts most. I personally don't put too much stock in the tests, but they are a good starting place! Ryan has finished all of the songs now, so that might help as well!

  • @janellayumol5021
    @janellayumol5021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This had been my comfort song for a very long time now. Everytime i wonder how it feels to be okay. This song helps me.

  • @Blackhawk211
    @Blackhawk211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Listening to this whilst reading Two on Ice chapter 26 is a magical experience

  • @eckamirceb7729
    @eckamirceb7729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +758

    The sound you hear in the beginning is someone making a bed, and that ties into the hospitable and caring nature of Twos while nodding to the tidy, orderly nature of Ones, which was the song that came before. The ending sound is a dancer practicing, which bridges into the performance theme in the Threes personality. They're fingerprint sounds that the artist hid into these songs, which were sounds that he asked his friends and family to send him in order to incorporate them into songs of their respective types. As if we needed another reason to absolutely love Ryan O'Neal XD the work that went into these songs is crazy!!!

    • @TeenyTonnie
      @TeenyTonnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I always thought the end was someone collapsing, like they cared so much about others that they forgot to care for themselves.

    • @kaydiallen7052
      @kaydiallen7052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Dang, I thought it was taking off someone’s coat and taking it for them. Holding on the that burden. Taking the weight off their shoulders but that makes sense.

    • @emmvids6920
      @emmvids6920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg that so crazy cool!

    • @dinangerisceballos572
      @dinangerisceballos572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No waaaaaay!!!! 😭🌿

    • @xombiesque
      @xombiesque 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please write a book!

  • @james8228
    @james8228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    “I just want to learn how to be loved myself.”

  • @creativename1590
    @creativename1590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    the first two lines are so comforting, it's like i could feel someone cupping the side of my face with their hand and i'm just warming up to them
    yes i am touch starved someone pls hug me

    • @Lucky_AMV
      @Lucky_AMV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish I could give you a hug but sadly I can't due to the distance of the internet between us but for what it's worth I send you a virtual hug 🤗

    • @creativename1590
      @creativename1590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Lucky_AMV *hugs u back*

    • @3starsburningbright
      @3starsburningbright 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      take this virtual hug ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ

    • @samuelransom4494
      @samuelransom4494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have another virtual Hug! 🤗Remember to take care of yourself, not just of others.

    • @Violet_Jedi_Sylveon
      @Violet_Jedi_Sylveon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have a ghost hug and virtual hug.

  • @miaquiray9126
    @miaquiray9126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song tells it all of how could we lift others while we can't even lift ourselves. This is such a selfless song of a selfless person. This randomly appeared and I accidentally played it. I'm glad I did.

  • @tylerc.arnoux7160
    @tylerc.arnoux7160 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1585

    *Can't stop thinking about how much this is what my mom wish she could say to me but can't because she doesn't know how to love me and show me notable affection*

    • @marirzacervantes6216
      @marirzacervantes6216 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Tyler Malfoy - Standall thank you for giving this a new meaning :')

    • @elenaarnold3730
      @elenaarnold3730 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      VIEWING THIS IN A MOTHER'S PERSPECTIVE MAKES IT SO BEATUIFUL THANK YOU SO MUCH

    • @swatinambudiri2073
      @swatinambudiri2073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tyler Malfoy - Standall you read my mind. :')

    • @kivizade
      @kivizade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tyler Malfoy - Standall well this view is perfect to make me cry

    • @krussyarts
      @krussyarts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm sorry for you, but I hope you don't take this as a normal "Oh I'm sorry" because I mean it really, because I don't know how to show love to others...

  • @trinidaduribe6923
    @trinidaduribe6923 6 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    Am I the only one who thinks about a parent-kid relationship with this amazing song?

    • @sajaninihara2975
      @sajaninihara2975 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Trinidad Uribe I know ❤ Unconditional love

    • @divyasuresh9119
      @divyasuresh9119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Trinidad Uribe From the moment this beautiful song began, till the end, I could only think this is how my mom loves me and how fortunate I am to have her! It's a miracle I witness everyday- her love that is just happy to sacrifice, so that her daughters can thrive. I do believe its something that comes naturally to mothers... 'you can take the oxygen straight out of my chest'

    • @dianahoran6010
      @dianahoran6010 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      When you can't relate bc of your abusive parents😂😂

    • @lexeeylore191
      @lexeeylore191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes this song reminds me of my mom

    • @locomocochocotaco
      @locomocochocotaco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking of it too

  • @br-ken_rec-rd
    @br-ken_rec-rd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song ripped my heart out and stomped on it. It hits so deep. Always as a kid and even still, I just want to be loved unconditionally.