No, this is not always true. Strangers are nice to you because they don't know you that well. Give it time. As soon as they know you at a deeper level, they will start being jealous if you have what they don't have or if they think they are not doing better than you. Heck there are successful people who are jealous of people who are not as successful as them but are improving or having something good going on in their lives😅. These strangers, if they become close enough, will start comparing their lives to yours. Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain level. Jealousy is a human trait. However many are mature enough to be able to handle it in a healthy way and learn to be grateful for their own lives and be happy for others.
This is very true! It’s because you family and friends saw you through the growth from being the average guy like them to being great. They want to know why it didn’t happen to them as they grew up in the same environment, etc.
You're absolutely right they can't hate you for nothing it gotta be something about you or something you have to make them hate it irritates their demons and it makes them realize their short comings on something they could have done great.
They dont like others succeeding or doing better than them..they worship the two horned ugly goat, these demons reside within them...hence they conspire manipulate and lose ......while we with pure intentions always win.
Thats because as “family” the social norm is to stick together when we come into earth as animals.. once a bird leaves the nest you never see it return.! Period!
Yes, because nobody in life has time to such behavoir and hate because of lazyness has no excuse? plus abuse can slow down life to a stall for some using their own issues not related to Jealousy on others adding more insult to injuries confusing it because of a fight triggered with no reason and allready fixed a jealousy trip last week. then the family doesn't have a clue what is going on and solving it is immediate and prompt but not taken care of kind of lost in the back unsolved. . this is where the loss of Family Bonding is dismantling and needs to be cought solved wile its still fresh. with out notice simply meaning being care full and the L-O-V-E that use to be so helpful in solving issues faded in to the darkness eventually Gone with no more repare left over. Jealousy should be a top issue because it can destroy all.
I don’t care where I’ve ever been in life. I’ve never ever hated or been jealous of anyone. I’ve always felt what is for me is for me. I’m genuinely grateful for what I have and always wish the best for others. I don’t compete with anyone but myself
Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
Maybe they even subconsciously believe you can be the one to help them, cos its very tied into a reflector of whatever it is that they are stuck on. That's the essence of crying. It's a form of signalling. Splashing in the water for something to grab.
@@samotivationbysami i love myself. You are not doing well because of you, your doing it from other peoples expense... No i could never be jealous. Please.. You have been nothing but a joke as far as im concerned
my family think i deserve it because i have no reason to give them not too be jealous. i'm not a Genius at soving family problems but just because i can do one thing they expect me to do all of them. makes me want to vomit some times.
there a difference between and family and relatives. Family is your children husband/wife. relatives are sisters brothers mothers fathers uncles aunts. I'm here to provide for my family not relatives.
My parents did that to me, especially my dad. I left, went far away. No fancy degrees, but i used my hands and brain. Worked real hard, asked nothing from them when they helped my siblings into their 50’s. Now, I m the bad one because i made a nest for myself.
They hate me and I have nothing! At work, in the neighborhood, my hometown and every other town I move to, at the stores, appointments, Family, friends, Schools,church and Everywhere!! I’ve never been supported no matter what I do!! BUT GOD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY REFUGE!! THANK YOU JESUS THAT IM NOT ALONE!! GLORY TO HIS NAME IN THE HIGHEST PRAISE!!!!
Selfish people feel threatened when they see signs that you’re about to get ahead of them in life. Notice it’s usually the people who have less and are doing less who get jealous.
People can do nothing and expect everything. People have to sacrifice something to get ahead. If you are a lazy person, don’t expect to have anything and be content with that. People who are successful have sacrificed something to get there, time, money, sleep. It was not just handed over.
Another point I would like to make about jealous and envious people. They always think your life is so easy compared to theirs. They don’t think you have hurdles after hurdles to jump over. Only them have hurdles!
*Jealously reminds them of what they don't have and what they wont do* POWERFUL! Whatever energy comes to you give back the energy of Kindness and empathy
My biggest support is from strangers but you taught me that before I saw it. I don't even look to people I know for support, because I know that's not where I'll get it from. ❤
I am a genuine cheerleader as I like see folk rise above their circumstances, better themselves & win. It’s insane to me to even comprehend that there are individuals who are extremely troubled when you have a level up mindset and are striving to get ahead. Huh??? And even more disturbing, it is often someone in your camp or individuals who have close ties to you. What’s alarming is finding out that they’re even harboring such feelings. However the weirdness will eventually surface. I guess it’s the crabs in a barrel mentality. SMH
I don't feel like it's your success they hate they just hate you and they always hated you when you wasn't successful but now that you have become successful it just irritated them real bad and they can't stand it and I can guarantee you that if it was anybody else doing the same things they will be happy for them.
Success definitely does attract hate! If you are a God-fearing person you will not suffer from jealousy you will be full of faith everyone gets jealous but there’s some people gets jealous every single day! That’s their primary emotion!
Success is very subjective. Everyone has their own definition of success bc what one person sees as success may not mean the same thing to another person. Always work on yourself and compete against your self to achieve better for yourself. Never compare yourself to others because everyone’s journey and purpose in life is different.
Your success reminds them of what they weren’t willing to do to be successful themselves. People are so worried about other people that they never put that energy into working on themselves. At the end of the day it’s there problem not yours. If more people knew how money really worked they would have it . Just working at a job is not how you become wealthy . If you have haters you are on the right track … when you are the same level as them they don’t view you as competition but when you change the bench mark they start hating on you like crazy putting down your success … at that point it’s better not to over share with people like that find some new friends. And don’t give money away to family and friends. You are not there piggy bank . If you are going to give money just think of it like you are giving a gift chances are you will not see that money and. Most of the time seeing them will be acquired when you bring up they owe you .
Man! U hit da nail on da head. As a successful black business owner I get hated on alot, especially by other black males but I do what u do. I try understanding, putting myself in their shoes. Then Ion blame em. I am amazingly blessed & thankful. Favor ain't fair! So if I was them lookin at my life...I'd be jealous too. Nap cap! Doesn't upset me at all. How u gon be mad at me for what God did🙄. People sum else!
I am a black man business owner as well, I can relate to what you are saying. I love to see my brothers doing it right, don’t hate just learn and put forth an effort and you can achieve success like anyone else.
@rcoll60743 Respect bro!👍U mentioned effort & I've noticed people don't want to put effort forth. They rather ride life out on your efforts & make you fight their battles. As I business owner u kno like I do that "ish" don't fly! Even if we WAS willing to fight they're battles (which personally I'm not!) folks fail to understand that most of us who have made it don't have the energy to fight THEIR battles...were too exhausted from having to fight my OWN! I feel like I had my turn...went all 12 rounds & I won...so now I'm done!
Same, I’ve never ever had the thought to dislike someone I know or don’t know because they are happy and successful. It’s never crossed my mind. It’s wild
True that! I wrote a book about escaping human trafficking and the haters are vicious. They're always looking me up on social media,to find fault or dig up dirt.🤨🙄
Success doesn’t breed jealousy imo….some people are just jealous people and malevolent. It’s more about the person not feeling entitled and bitter. Admiration and feeling sad that you don’t have things others have usually pushes benevolent people to achieve their goals not destroy others and be haters.
On god once my life started to improve, my family started treating me like I turned my back on them somehow 🤦🏻♀️ I’m out here working 6 nights a week, taking care of both my babies daily, paying my bills on time and going on vacation a few times a year. I’m literally just working on building my future 😩
I'm homeless I sleep in a tent I don't have many friends but people around stare at me show jealousy of me talking behind my back but I work everyday I stay to myself I needed to hear this
Needed to hear this today! Just had a close friend call last night and unload on me that I was talking down to her and being really rude to her. I know that I know I have not been doing this. But her life is messed up. Makes sense. That’s why your title caught my attention to stop and listen. Thank you, Trent. You’re an encouragement as always. My husband said what you said, just listen to her and love her and find ways to affirm her.
First off women aren't really friends with each other. Misery likes company. That's why a lot of post wall females destined to die alone try and convince a young hot girl to dump her bf. Never listen to them.
I can relate too. This again shows that when you're a good person, hate is not personal. It means nothing negative about you, only about the other person.
I never understood jealousy I've never been jealous of somebody doing better than me I got friends who are richer than me but I learned that instead of focusing my energy on hating those friends or being jealous I learned to learn from them and because I hang arround them I've got to live a preety good life and am going up in life. Jealousy to me is just laziness from the human people focus on the wrong energy and they just don't get that, I have lost friends when I decided to do well for myself in life all cause they got jealous. It's truly sad to see that cause if people stop being jealous and focus on themselves everybody can find success jealousy is just human weekness and laziness.
TRENT YOU ARE ON THE MONEY WITH THAT WHO CONCEPT BECAUSE I'M PROUD OF PEOPLE WHO WIN, AND I COME FROM NOTHING SO YES I'VE BEEN BLESSED WITH NOT HAVING THE FEELING OF JEALOUSY.. YEAH!!!
God is very much against any form of pride? so if you know blest then you might want to do what blessed comands you to prevent your believable lake of fire. Read Scriptures and PRIDE is number one sin God HATES AND JEALOUS OF THE MOST OF ALL OF SINS ITS THE GREATEST ONE. APOLOGIST WILL BE APOLOGISING NOT PREACHING.
A had a man on TH-cam curse me out because I made a comment on a woman's channel. I responded by saying "Be blessed Sir and have a beautiful day" and he never responded. When people show their angriness toward you, show them kindness.
People harm other people to make themselves feel better about themselves, people get jealous of other people’s Money other people’s marriages other people's education other people's beauty other people’s happiness etc. And I think alot of people ate cruel to them, God protect the People that are high achievers. I say to the high achievers that I am proud of them. Thank you for this wonderful video.
Trent there are people who can never comprehend that you wanna see people win. I know that is me who wants to see people win. They think you are up to something but they only say that because they know they would not help others. unless it was something in it for them.
Been a year working from home making a little bit more than in previous jobs and most importantly doing something I was trying for 4 years, finally I'm able to sustain this and I'm very proud and happy.... Funny things is that this has been the year that most of my "close" friends have told me to get back to a 9-5 because they think I spent too much time at home, even though I work less, better and with less stress 🤷🏾♂️
Amazing grace...I once was blind but now I see. When a person is about making the world a better place and has a generally positive outlook on life, they can miss noticing the hating jealous people in secret competition around them. Until the jealousy and hatred grow so intense they can no longer afford to be oblivious to it. Praise God for seeing what I could not see and protecting me through it all.
I struggle with depression and jealousy is a big part of that. However, I've been taking steady steps day after day to reframe my mindset to not feel as if life is a competition because I know deep down that were all human and were all a team.
It's pleasant to hear and read from people who truly understand the challenge of envious people too. Thanks for all the acknowledgment. Let's keep growing regardless of the haters. And let's be grateful that the envious people revealed themselves, so they could be cut out to make room for supportive people. Wishing you all the best.❤
It recently hit me that so many people including family have been jealous of me for years. I always use to be confused as to why someone did not like me for zero reason. Now I know. This is especially true for my siblings. I was very successful in my life and never once have they acknowledged it. Reminds me of Joseph in the bible whose brothers sold him into slavery because of jealousy. Jealousy is cruel as the grave!
This was good for the soul, what touched my soul was when the person asked how do you deal with people who hate your business and still have empathy. I am divorced and started my business and persons just hating on my business this was great to listen to
When you said the more you were growing you had less people around. This is me rightnow with my closests family who I thought were for me. They would talk all day like, I got nothing but support from them but I noticed recently in January me and my husband had our second child I been hearing less and less now nothing. I also been doing personal growth on myself
The thing I see is if you say something from a good place simple request and the person reacts with pent up anger rage and frustration you then gotta step back and say whoa that’s too much unnecessary unfounded anger in your response. In other words haters seethe within and see you as a perceived threat. They from time to time they blow up. Note also they certainly can have more than you. They just don’t want you to have any more than them not even a little bit. ❤
I agree with everything but that everyone has this emotion. There is not a single soul i am jealous of. I have so many people jealous of me at my job. I'm likeable, do my job and received a promotion, plus I am not too bad looking. Jealousy is a disease
I can relate I deal with the most out of jealousy at work and by family members. They're threatened by who you and the great qualities you have. Keep your head up!
Wonderfully said fam.. this changed the way I see things I definitely just got to the point today where I realized I can’t allow those who don’t like me or hate on me to steal my joy. Preciate you speaking on this. 💪🏾 keep being great!
Wow this seriously was good to hear😢😮❤ needed to hear this but if they are jealous/competitive etc towards me then that means I’m doing the right thing for myself too grow and prosper in life-Amen
Literally watching this rn bc I was getting frustrated and upset why my friends hesitated to help me and disappeared as soon as they noticed I was some steps ahead of them. I felt hurt and Idk how to explain that feeling. The ones who keep supporting me are strangers from online.:'))
I’m so glad I came across your video a person like me that lives day per day. I have like jealous friends on social media like I think the guy I’m talking about. He never liked me since day. One he married he got kids and he still happy he look at me and he hates on me because I got more than what he got. I’m in the spotlight he’s not, always been a hater that’s why I don’t have no friends might have some but that’s why I don’t have too many friends because the other ones they they haters they want what I have and they don’t have it. It’s all good in the hood accomplished family loves me. It’s all good like I said like I was saying, your video gave me positive thoughts
People hate cause I'm non American doing great on the job, and look different from them. I've been told "you ain't even from here go back to your country".
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Your biggest haters are your friends and family… your biggest fans are strangers
No, this is not always true. Strangers are nice to you because they don't know you that well. Give it time. As soon as they know you at a deeper level, they will start being jealous if you have what they don't have or if they think they are not doing better than you. Heck there are successful people who are jealous of people who are not as successful as them but are improving or having something good going on in their lives😅. These strangers, if they become close enough, will start comparing their lives to yours. Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain level. Jealousy is a human trait. However many are mature enough to be able to handle it in a healthy way and learn to be grateful for their own lives and be happy for others.
This is very true! It’s because you family and friends saw you through the growth from being the average guy like them to being great. They want to know why it didn’t happen to them as they grew up in the same environment, etc.
Strangers i know better hate me.
@@GadisBaliLivesAbroad in the meantime try to destroy other peoples lives.. Im sure that sounds familiar.
Painfully real.
When they are jealous,it only means you are doing something right.
It's going to be alright
That hits home
Yep
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You're absolutely right they can't hate you for nothing it gotta be something about you or something you have to make them hate it irritates their demons and it makes them realize their short comings on something they could have done great.
They dont like others succeeding or doing better than them..they worship the two horned ugly goat, these demons reside within them...hence they conspire manipulate and lose ......while we with pure intentions always win.
Family/Friends are always the biggest haters & non-supporters
Facts
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Thats because as “family” the social norm is to stick together when we come into earth as animals.. once a bird leaves the nest you never see it return.! Period!
Crazy
You ain’t never lied! It’s the strangers that will clap for you & NOT fam (in some cases). What a’shame Smh
Hating on other people's sucess meaning you aren't working for your life.
Yes, because nobody in life has time to such behavoir and hate because of lazyness has no excuse? plus abuse can slow down life to a stall for some using their own issues not related to Jealousy on others adding more insult to injuries confusing it because of a fight triggered with no reason and allready fixed a jealousy trip last week. then the family doesn't have a clue what is going on and solving it is immediate and prompt but not taken care of kind of lost in the back unsolved.
. this is where the loss of Family Bonding is dismantling and needs to be cought solved wile its still fresh. with out notice simply meaning being care full and the L-O-V-E that use to be so helpful in solving issues faded in to the darkness eventually Gone with no more repare left over. Jealousy should be a top issue because it can destroy all.
It usually means you are trying.
Thosee people are clowns😂😂😂
@@alfa1210productions the biggest and I despise. It's way better to be inspired than hate smh🙄
They hate it because they still trying to figure out how you got out the same place they still stuck in
🎯 💯 TRUTH!
People want to see you do well, they never want to see you do better than them.
Your biggest haters are the people that tell you how happy they are for you
I don’t care where I’ve ever been in life. I’ve never ever hated or been jealous of anyone. I’ve always felt what is for me is for me. I’m genuinely grateful for what I have and always wish the best for others. I don’t compete with anyone but myself
I'm the same.
Same
It’s the only way: celebrate others, celebrate y’self. We’re all in this together, be the party.
Amen!
Your psychological frame is not common
A lot of people get jealous when you are successful.
Obviously
Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
You make a good point.
Maybe they even subconsciously believe you can be the one to help them, cos its very tied into a reflector of whatever it is that they are stuck on.
That's the essence of crying. It's a form of signalling. Splashing in the water for something to grab.
@@samotivationbysami i love myself. You are not doing well because of you, your doing it from other peoples expense... No i could never be jealous. Please.. You have been nothing but a joke as far as im concerned
@@Kelli-e3i “At other people’s expense”?? What’s wrong with receiving help??
…Just asking and trying to understand your view.
Yes.
I have been hanging around the wrong people because even my own family is terribly jealous of me.
Same here!! It's no surprise! Keep winning!! Keep moving forward!!
What have you done to deserve it? lol not funny but.
my family think i deserve it because i have no reason to give them not too be jealous. i'm not a Genius at soving family problems but just because i can do one thing they expect me to do all of them. makes me want to vomit some times.
there a difference between and family and relatives. Family is your children husband/wife. relatives are sisters brothers mothers fathers uncles aunts. I'm here to provide for my family not relatives.
My parents did that to me, especially my dad.
I left, went far away. No fancy degrees, but i used my hands and brain.
Worked real hard, asked nothing from them when they helped my siblings into their 50’s.
Now, I m the bad one because i made a nest for myself.
They hate me and I have nothing! At work, in the neighborhood, my hometown and every other town I move to, at the stores, appointments, Family, friends, Schools,church and Everywhere!! I’ve never been supported no matter what I do!! BUT GOD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY REFUGE!! THANK YOU JESUS THAT IM NOT ALONE!! GLORY TO HIS NAME IN THE HIGHEST PRAISE!!!!
Bet cos you beautiful
This happened to me. I moved away and started again. It's worth doing for your own peace and sanity
People just naturally jealous I ignore them ..keep focusing on me ...after awhile they will fade away
just keep walking.
This is me the more I started focusing on me everyone faded
If your unsuccessful; people hate
Of your successful; people hate
Conclusion; as long as you love yourself, your good. Keep going !! ❤
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Friends are more likely to rise to envy. You started from the same place.
And family.
Selfish people feel threatened when they see signs that you’re about to get ahead of them in life. Notice it’s usually the people who have less and are doing less who get jealous.
There are people who have more than others that can still be jealous of someone's strength and resilience to the storms of life!
People can do nothing and expect everything. People have to sacrifice something to get ahead. If you are a lazy person, don’t expect to have anything and be content with that. People who are successful have sacrificed something to get there, time, money, sleep. It was not just handed over.
Too funny, “If I were in their shoes, I would hate too.”😂
Love, use my time to work on me rather than hating on someone else’s success ❤
When haters are irked by you for no reason, it's because they are convicted by their inactions and your success.
All because you start loving yourself these decepticons hate that with a passion success breeds jealousy 😭😭🤣🤣😎😎
Another point I would like to make about jealous and envious people.
They always think your life is so easy compared to theirs.
They don’t think you have hurdles after hurdles to jump over.
Only them have hurdles!
But some people don't see jealousy When they actually have a vision
I've been flat broke and peep still severely jealous. Can Only imagine once my business starts to take off🎉❤😂
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Stay away from friends who are always looking for you to give them a 'Hookup' but will never try to put in the work themselves
*Jealously reminds them of what they don't have and what they wont do*
POWERFUL!
Whatever energy comes to you give back the energy of Kindness and empathy
My biggest support is from strangers but you taught me that before I saw it. I don't even look to people I know for support, because I know that's not where I'll get it from. ❤
Yep
It’s easy for strangers to support because they don’t know you to hate. 😂 I get it.
Speaking facts that’s why I stay to myself and move in silence 💯💯
This❤ I have been blessed so much in the past year it’s ridiculous! I have shared it with no one❤
I am a genuine cheerleader as I like see folk rise above their circumstances, better themselves & win. It’s insane to me to even comprehend that there are individuals who are extremely troubled when you have a level up mindset and are striving to get ahead. Huh??? And even more disturbing, it is often someone in your camp or individuals who have close ties to you. What’s alarming is finding out that they’re even harboring such feelings. However the weirdness will eventually surface. I guess it’s the crabs in a barrel mentality. SMH
You are so on point, I totally agree with everything you said. Making lemonade out of lemon is just amazing!
Facts and most haters are from family
I don't feel like it's your success they hate they just hate you and they always hated you when you wasn't successful but now that you have become successful it just irritated them real bad and they can't stand it and I can guarantee you that if it was anybody else doing the same things they will be happy for them.
If you hate, you are not working on yourself.
Yop and you gotta be careful around these haters they will hurt you ..thanks for the video it's helping me
THIS ESPECIALLY TRUE IN BLACK AMERICAN CULTURE.....
Nah....Hispanics, Natives, and White people got it bad too. I see it every day.
Absolutely right Liiinda4
Success definitely does attract hate! If you are a God-fearing person you will not suffer from jealousy you will be full of faith everyone gets jealous but there’s some people gets jealous every single day! That’s their primary emotion!
Faith doesn't trump jealousy unfortunately. But yes with God on your side there's absolutely nothing your haters can do. Amen!!
As a god , I enjoy haters hate and their disrespect but set strongest boundaries with them
Sometime people get so jealous over you as motivation to become a successful somebody if themselves in life.
Success is very subjective. Everyone has their own definition of success bc what one person sees as success may not mean the same thing to another person. Always work on yourself and compete against your self to achieve better for yourself. Never compare yourself to others because everyone’s journey and purpose in life is different.
Y own brothers and sisters are extremely jealous of me for buying my first home, it's unreal how people hate on family
Everybody does not have jealousy.
Your success reminds them of what they weren’t willing to do to be successful themselves. People are so worried about other people that they never put that energy into working on themselves. At the end of the day it’s there problem not yours. If more people knew how money really worked they would have it . Just working at a job is not how you become wealthy . If you have haters you are on the right track … when you are the same level as them they don’t view you as competition but when you change the bench mark they start hating on you like crazy putting down your success … at that point it’s better not to over share with people like that find some new friends. And don’t give money away to family and friends. You are not there piggy bank . If you are going to give money just think of it like you are giving a gift chances are you will not see that money and. Most of the time seeing them will be acquired when you bring up they owe you .
Man! U hit da nail on da head. As a successful black business owner I get hated on alot, especially by other black males but I do what u do. I try understanding, putting myself in their shoes. Then Ion blame em. I am amazingly blessed & thankful. Favor ain't fair! So if I was them lookin at my life...I'd be jealous too. Nap cap! Doesn't upset me at all. How u gon be mad at me for what God did🙄. People sum else!
Run that bag up 🤝
I am a black man business owner as well, I can relate to what you are saying. I love to see my brothers doing it right, don’t hate just learn and put forth an effort and you can achieve success like anyone else.
@rcoll60743 Respect bro!👍U mentioned effort & I've noticed people don't want to put effort forth. They rather ride life out on your efforts & make you fight their battles. As I business owner u kno like I do that "ish" don't fly! Even if we WAS willing to fight they're battles (which personally I'm not!) folks fail to understand that most of us who have made it don't have the energy to fight THEIR battles...were too exhausted from having to fight my OWN! I feel like I had my turn...went all 12 rounds & I won...so now I'm done!
I have never been jealous of anyone or anything.
Same, I’ve never ever had the thought to dislike someone I know or don’t know because they are happy and successful. It’s never crossed my mind. It’s wild
It’s because you admire them instead.
Same. I had a buddy that became a millionaire and I wouldn’t literally brag about him.
Neither have I. I think it's a waste of time. Your success is my success. I'm always really happy for someone else's happiness.
I bet you NEVER lied 😂
I don't have time for jealous people... I'm not jealous... i clap for people and i do it genuinely because i like to see other's win too. 🏆 ❤
True that! I wrote a book about escaping human trafficking and the haters are vicious. They're always looking me up on social media,to find fault or dig up dirt.🤨🙄
Success doesn’t breed jealousy imo….some people are just jealous people and malevolent. It’s more about the person not feeling entitled and bitter. Admiration and feeling sad that you don’t have things others have usually pushes benevolent people to achieve their goals not destroy others and be haters.
On god once my life started to improve, my family started treating me like I turned my back on them somehow 🤦🏻♀️ I’m out here working 6 nights a week, taking care of both my babies daily, paying my bills on time and going on vacation a few times a year. I’m literally just working on building my future 😩
Of course , and chasing success ,as the world defines it, breeds emptiness
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I'm homeless I sleep in a tent I don't have many friends but people around stare at me show jealousy of me talking behind my back but I work everyday I stay to myself I needed to hear this
@@LeoDarden-dc1ph i love when people talk about me. Its nice to be the center of attention
@@LeoDarden-dc1ph You should be mad at your man even if he is talking bad about me... That means he is thinking about me. Such losers
Needed to hear this today! Just had a close friend call last night and unload on me that I was talking down to her and being really rude to her. I know that I know I have not been doing this. But her life is messed up. Makes sense. That’s why your title caught my attention to stop and listen. Thank you, Trent. You’re an encouragement as always. My husband said what you said, just listen to her and love her and find ways to affirm her.
I can relate
First off women aren't really friends with each other. Misery likes company. That's why a lot of post wall females destined to die alone try and convince a young hot girl to dump her bf. Never listen to them.
I can relate too. This again shows that when you're a good person, hate is not personal. It means nothing negative about you, only about the other person.
Jealousy is the fuel that lights your fire 🔥🔥🔥 to go extra harder!!!!
This is true. I've had a friend even sabotage a deal out of jealousy.
I never understood jealousy I've never been jealous of somebody doing better than me I got friends who are richer than me but I learned that instead of focusing my energy on hating those friends or being jealous I learned to learn from them and because I hang arround them I've got to live a preety good life and am going up in life. Jealousy to me is just laziness from the human people focus on the wrong energy and they just don't get that, I have lost friends when I decided to do well for myself in life all cause they got jealous. It's truly sad to see that cause if people stop being jealous and focus on themselves everybody can find success jealousy is just human weekness and laziness.
My family is extremely jealous in general..They can't do what ive done..They know im mentally stronger
TRENT YOU ARE ON THE MONEY WITH THAT WHO CONCEPT BECAUSE I'M PROUD OF PEOPLE WHO WIN, AND I COME FROM NOTHING SO YES I'VE BEEN BLESSED WITH NOT HAVING THE FEELING OF JEALOUSY.. YEAH!!!
God is very much against any form of pride? so if you know blest then you might want to do what blessed comands you to prevent your believable lake of fire. Read Scriptures and PRIDE is number one sin God HATES AND JEALOUS OF THE MOST OF ALL OF SINS ITS THE GREATEST ONE. APOLOGIST WILL BE APOLOGISING NOT PREACHING.
A had a man on TH-cam curse me out because I made a comment on a woman's channel. I responded by saying "Be blessed Sir and have a beautiful day" and he never responded. When people show their angriness toward you, show them kindness.
“If I was in their shoes, I’d be a hater too.”🎤🎤🎤
People harm other people to make themselves feel better about themselves, people get jealous of other people’s Money other people’s marriages other people's education other people's beauty other people’s happiness etc. And I think alot of people ate cruel to them, God protect the People that are high achievers. I say to the high achievers that I am proud of them. Thank you for this wonderful video.
Trent there are people who can never comprehend that you wanna see people win. I know that is me who wants to see people win. They think you are up to something but they only say that because they know they would not help others. unless it was something in it for them.
It’s definitely happening to me. Thank You! 💪🏾
Going through that right now 💯
Dealing with jealousy at work at the moment bc of my success. I think this video opened my eyes. Haters gonna hate.
Been a year working from home making a little bit more than in previous jobs and most importantly doing something I was trying for 4 years, finally I'm able to sustain this and I'm very proud and happy.... Funny things is that this has been the year that most of my "close" friends have told me to get back to a 9-5 because they think I spent too much time at home, even though I work less, better and with less stress 🤷🏾♂️
Keep doing your home job as long as you are happy.
@ I will, and thank you very much for your words in your videos and for replying.
Jealousy overcomes my enemies on Social Media on my creation of characters.
When they envy you they will point out every mistake you make because they are mad you didn't play it safe like they did.
Amazing grace...I once was blind but now I see. When a person is about making the world a better place and has a generally positive outlook on life, they can miss noticing the hating jealous people in secret competition around them. Until the jealousy and hatred grow so intense they can no longer afford to be oblivious to it. Praise God for seeing what I could not see and protecting me through it all.
I struggle with depression and jealousy is a big part of that. However, I've been taking steady steps day after day to reframe my mindset to not feel as if life is a competition because I know deep down that were all human and were all a team.
As usual, you nailed it! Thanks for another awesome video my man!
I get a lot from certain people you're jealous of me by the mannerisms and by the way they talk you can tell they think I'm better than they are
It's pleasant to hear and read from people who truly understand the challenge of envious people too. Thanks for all the acknowledgment.
Let's keep growing regardless of the haters.
And let's be grateful that the envious people revealed themselves, so they could be cut out to make room for supportive people.
Wishing you all the best.❤
It recently hit me that so many people including family have been jealous of me for years. I always use to be confused as to why someone did not like me for zero reason. Now I know. This is especially true for my siblings. I was very successful in my life and never once have they acknowledged it. Reminds me of Joseph in the bible whose brothers sold him into slavery because of jealousy. Jealousy is cruel as the grave!
This was good for the soul, what touched my soul was when the person asked how do you deal with people who hate your business and still have empathy. I am divorced and started my business and persons just hating on my business this was great to listen to
When you said the more you were growing you had less people around. This is me rightnow with my closests family who I thought were for me. They would talk all day like, I got nothing but support from them but I noticed recently in January me and my husband had our second child I been hearing less and less now nothing. I also been doing personal growth on myself
The thing I see is if you say something from a good place simple request and the person reacts with pent up anger rage and frustration you then gotta step back and say whoa that’s too much unnecessary unfounded anger in your response. In other words haters seethe within and see you as a perceived threat. They from time to time they blow up. Note also they certainly can have more than you. They just don’t want you to have any more than them not even a little bit. ❤
Its so true your biggest fan is strangers💯.
A lot of people hate on social media!!
I agree with everything but that everyone has this emotion. There is not a single soul i am jealous of. I have so many people jealous of me at my job. I'm likeable, do my job and received a promotion, plus I am not too bad looking. Jealousy is a disease
I don't know the feeling of hating someone who has everything in life, I'm actually proud of them
@@normasaldana1546 right! I'm proud of people. If they have something more than me I will ask them how they did that. I promote and pump people up.
I can relate I deal with the most out of jealousy at work and by family members. They're threatened by who you and the great qualities you have. Keep your head up!
i need to hear this i also wanted to make a youtube like this love this i love the positive keep up the good work
Its always family MEMBER .LIKE THIS I GRAB THEM AND GIVE THEM BIG HUG THEY TRY KEEP MOVING . YOU FEEL NUMBness no feeling they have for you
That was powerful
Bruh I feel everything you're saying. As a business owner I see the BS people come with. Stay successful man and continue to grow. I just subscribed.
One day I literally seen how real jealousy is. We know jealousy is out here. To know that it’s real means so much more.
THANK YOU FOR THIS WORD ABBA🔥🩸🎚🙏🏾
Oh so true!
It really gets tiresome trying to help people that don't appreciate it
Wonderfully said fam.. this changed the way I see things I definitely just got to the point today where I realized I can’t allow those who don’t like me or hate on me to steal my joy. Preciate you speaking on this. 💪🏾 keep being great!
I appreciate you, thank you
Work on yourself no need of jelousey😊
I love your messages!!! Keep inspiring
Yes all facts I had to drop a so call friend because of jealousy, and envy.
Love that I tell people that all the time
This is so true I go through this all the time
Thank you.
Factssss 💯💯💯💯
Wow this seriously was good to hear😢😮❤ needed to hear this but if they are jealous/competitive etc towards me then that means I’m doing the right thing for myself too grow and prosper in life-Amen
I feel the same way Trent even though I went through a lot with people I want them to win also yes you're right 100%
Literally watching this rn bc I was getting frustrated and upset why my friends hesitated to help me and disappeared as soon as they noticed I was some steps ahead of them. I felt hurt and Idk how to explain that feeling. The ones who keep supporting me are strangers from online.:'))
LOVE AND COOPERATION OVER COMPETION
I’m so glad I came across your video a person like me that lives day per day. I have like jealous friends on social media like I think the guy I’m talking about. He never liked me since day. One he married he got kids and he still happy he look at me and he hates on me because I got more than what he got. I’m in the spotlight he’s not, always been a hater that’s why I don’t have no friends might have some but that’s why I don’t have too many friends because the other ones they they haters they want what I have and they don’t have it. It’s all good in the hood accomplished family loves me. It’s all good like I said like I was saying, your video gave me positive thoughts
You Rock. May God bless you even more!
People hate cause I'm non American doing great on the job, and look different from them. I've been told "you ain't even from here go back to your country".
You just got a new sub I always come back to this video when I feel the crab energy