Success Breeds Jealousy | Trent Shelton
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- Many people hate on you because they want what you have. Success breeds jealousy -- that's just facts. When you come from the same environment as someone else, your life reminds them of what they don't have. You keep doing the work and grinding. Shake off the haters because they have the same ability as you to get to where they want to be.
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Your biggest haters are your friends and family… your biggest fans are strangers
No, this is not always true. Strangers are nice to you because they don't know you that well. Give it time. As soon as they know you at a deeper level, they will start being jealous if you have what they don't have or if they think they are not doing better than you. Heck there are successful people who are jealous of people who are not as successful as them but are improving or having something good going on in their lives😅. These strangers, if they become close enough, will start comparing their lives to yours. Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain level. Jealousy is a human trait. However many are mature enough to be able to handle it in a healthy way and learn to be grateful for their own lives and be happy for others.
This is very true! It’s because you family and friends saw you through the growth from being the average guy like them to being great. They want to know why it didn’t happen to them as they grew up in the same environment, etc.
Strangers i know better hate me.
Family/Friends are always the biggest haters & non-supporters
Facts
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Thats because as “family” the social norm is to stick together when we come into earth as animals.. once a bird leaves the nest you never see it return.! Period!
Crazy
You ain’t never lied! It’s the strangers that will clap for you & NOT fam (in some cases). What a’shame Smh
When they are jealous,it only means you are doing something right.
It's going to be alright
That hits home
Yep
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You're absolutely right they can't hate you for nothing it gotta be something about you or something you have to make them hate it irritates their demons and it makes them realize their short comings on something they could have done great.
They dont like others succeeding or doing better than them..they worship the two horned ugly goat, these demons reside within them...hence they conspire manipulate and lose ......while we with pure intentions always win.
Hating on other people's sucess meaning you aren't working for your life.
Yes, because nobody in life has time to such behavoir and hate because of lazyness has no excuse? plus abuse can slow down life to a stall for some using their own issues not related to Jealousy on others adding more insult to injuries confusing it because of a fight triggered with no reason and allready fixed a jealousy trip last week. then the family doesn't have a clue what is going on and solving it is immediate and prompt but not taken care of kind of lost in the back unsolved.
. this is where the loss of Family Bonding is dismantling and needs to be cought solved wile its still fresh. with out notice simply meaning being care full and the L-O-V-E that use to be so helpful in solving issues faded in to the darkness eventually Gone with no more repare left over. Jealousy should be a top issue because it can destroy all.
It usually means you are trying.
Thosee people are clowns😂😂😂
They hate it because they still trying to figure out how you got out the same place they still stuck in
A lot of people get jealous when you are successful.
Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
You make a good point.
Your biggest haters are the people that tell you how happy they are for you
Really?!!? Perhaps some people genuinely are happy for others?
People just naturally jealous I ignore them ..keep focusing on me ...after awhile they will fade away
just keep walking.
People want to see you do well, they never want to see you do better than them.
I don’t care where I’ve ever been in life. I’ve never ever hated or been jealous of anyone. I’ve always felt what is for me is for me. I’m genuinely grateful for what I have and always wish the best for others. I don’t compete with anyone but myself
I'm the same.
Same
It’s the only way: celebrate others, celebrate y’self. We’re all in this together, be the party.
Amen!
If your unsuccessful; people hate
Of your successful; people hate
Conclusion; as long as you love yourself, your good. Keep going !! ❤
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Yes.
I have been hanging around the wrong people because even my own family is terribly jealous of me.
Same here!! It's no surprise! Keep winning!! Keep moving forward!!
What have you done to deserve it? lol not funny but.
my family think i deserve it because i have no reason to give them not too be jealous. i'm not a Genius at soving family problems but just because i can do one thing they expect me to do all of them. makes me want to vomit some times.
there a difference between and family and relatives. Family is your children husband/wife. relatives are sisters brothers mothers fathers uncles aunts. I'm here to provide for my family not relatives.
Friends are more likely to rise to envy. You started from the same place.
And family.
Speaking facts that’s why I stay to myself and move in silence 💯💯
This❤ I have been blessed so much in the past year it’s ridiculous! I have shared it with no one❤
All because you start loving yourself these decepticons hate that with a passion success breeds jealousy 😭😭🤣🤣😎😎
My biggest support is from strangers but you taught me that before I saw it. I don't even look to people I know for support, because I know that's not where I'll get it from. ❤
Yep
It’s easy for strangers to support because they don’t know you to hate. 😂 I get it.
I am a genuine cheerleader as I like see folk rise above their circumstances, better themselves & win. It’s insane to me to even comprehend that there are individuals who are extremely troubled when you have a level up mindset and are striving to get ahead. Huh??? And even more disturbing, it is often someone in your camp or individuals who have close ties to you. What’s alarming is finding out that they’re even harboring such feelings. However the weirdness will eventually surface. I guess it’s the crabs in a barrel mentality. SMH
You are so on point, I totally agree with everything you said. Making lemonade out of lemon is just amazing!
When they envy you they will point out every mistake you make because they are mad you didn't play it safe like they did.
But some people don't see jealousy When they actually have a vision
I've been flat broke and peep still severely jealous. Can Only imagine once my business starts to take off🎉❤😂
THIS ESPECIALLY TRUE IN BLACK AMERICAN CULTURE.....
*Jealously reminds them of what they don't have and what they wont do*
POWERFUL!
Whatever energy comes to you give back the energy of Kindness and empathy
Sometime people get so jealous over you as motivation to become a successful somebody if themselves in life.
Yop and you gotta be careful around these haters they will hurt you ..thanks for the video it's helping me
Success is very subjective. Everyone has their own definition of success bc what one person sees as success may not mean the same thing to another person. Always work on yourself and compete against your self to achieve better for yourself. Never compare yourself to others because everyone’s journey and purpose in life is different.
Man! U hit da nail on da head. As a successful black business owner I get hated on alot, especially by other black males but I do what u do. I try understanding, putting myself in their shoes. Then Ion blame em. I am amazingly blessed & thankful. Favor ain't fair! So if I was them lookin at my life...I'd be jealous too. Nap cap! Doesn't upset me at all. How u gon be mad at me for what God did🙄. People sum else!
Run that bag up 🤝
I am a black man business owner as well, I can relate to what you are saying. I love to see my brothers doing it right, don’t hate just learn and put forth an effort and you can achieve success like anyone else.
As a god , I enjoy haters hate and their disrespect but set strongest boundaries with them
Facts and most haters are from family
Yes, that’s so true. Also being beautiful and driving a vehicle that’s you making look good.
People underestimate this
I have never been jealous of anyone or anything.
Same, I’ve never ever had the thought to dislike someone I know or don’t know because they are happy and successful. It’s never crossed my mind. It’s wild
It’s because you admire them instead.
Same. I had a buddy that became a millionaire and I wouldn’t literally brag about him.
Neither have I. I think it's a waste of time. Your success is my success. I'm always really happy for someone else's happiness.
I bet you NEVER lied 😂
Your success reminds them of what they weren’t willing to do to be successful themselves. People are so worried about other people that they never put that energy into working on themselves. At the end of the day it’s there problem not yours. I had someone say to me “ all you do is work on your business and body. I was sitting there and like in my head I was like “💭 who is going to work on my goals YOU just keep hustling don’t worry about the haters they are just back round noises you hear when you are trying to get work finished 😅😅. Some people can’t even get up early to go for. A walk or do some exercise for get about being successful 🤷♀️🤷♀️
1) get up early go for a walk or jog
Make a Healthy meal
2) listen to a education podcast about money , exercise, goals , ex
3) read a financial book at least 2 chapters
4) spend time with my kids
5) spend time with my husband
6) work on my business
Work on my routine
Everyone body is different some people need more sleep some people need less.
Everybody does not have jealousy.
I don't feel like it's your success they hate they just hate you and they always hated you when you wasn't successful but now that you have become successful it just irritated them real bad and they can't stand it and I can guarantee you that if it was anybody else doing the same things they will be happy for them.
Success definitely does attract hate! If you are a God-fearing person you will not suffer from jealousy you will be full of faith everyone gets jealous but there’s some people gets jealous every single day! That’s their primary emotion!
Faith doesn't trump jealousy unfortunately. But yes with God on your side there's absolutely nothing your haters can do. Amen!!
Of course , and chasing success ,as the world defines it, breeds emptiness
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You knew what I was up against and you still destroyed me! Sham on all of you! God will avenge me!
Sham on you evil mf
“If I was in their shoes, I’d be a hater too.”🎤🎤🎤
This is true. I've had a friend even sabotage a deal out of jealousy.
Needed to hear this today! Just had a close friend call last night and unload on me that I was talking down to her and being really rude to her. I know that I know I have not been doing this. But her life is messed up. Makes sense. That’s why your title caught my attention to stop and listen. Thank you, Trent. You’re an encouragement as always. My husband said what you said, just listen to her and love her and find ways to affirm her.
I can relate
First off women aren't really friends with each other. Misery likes company. That's why a lot of post wall females destined to die alone try and convince a young hot girl to dump her bf. Never listen to them.
I can relate too. This again shows that when you're a good person, hate is not personal. It means nothing negative about you, only about the other person.
I'm homeless I sleep in a tent I don't have many friends but people around stare at me show jealousy of me talking behind my back but I work everyday I stay to myself I needed to hear this
I don't have time for jealous people... I'm not jealous... i clap for people and i do it genuinely because i like to see other's win too. 🏆 ❤
TRENT YOU ARE ON THE MONEY WITH THAT WHO CONCEPT BECAUSE I'M PROUD OF PEOPLE WHO WIN, AND I COME FROM NOTHING SO YES I'VE BEEN BLESSED WITH NOT HAVING THE FEELING OF JEALOUSY.. YEAH!!!
God is very much against any form of pride? so if you know blest then you might want to do what blessed comands you to prevent your believable lake of fire. Read Scriptures and PRIDE is number one sin God HATES AND JEALOUS OF THE MOST OF ALL OF SINS ITS THE GREATEST ONE. APOLOGIST WILL BE APOLOGISING NOT PREACHING.
Going through that right now 💯
Bro I only noticed my potential then they started hating. I havent even made my first move yet 😂
Facts 💯
couldnt have said it better. theres no friends out here
Like crabs in a bucket. Clowns😂😂😂
My childhood friend...this mofo hated me because he saw everything good that I didn't notice about me. All my qualities that I was blind to...
I never understood jealousy I've never been jealous of somebody doing better than me I got friends who are richer than me but I learned that instead of focusing my energy on hating those friends or being jealous I learned to learn from them and because I hang arround them I've got to live a preety good life and am going up in life. Jealousy to me is just laziness from the human people focus on the wrong energy and they just don't get that, I have lost friends when I decided to do well for myself in life all cause they got jealous. It's truly sad to see that cause if people stop being jealous and focus on themselves everybody can find success jealousy is just human weekness and laziness.
They hate me and I have nothing! At work, in the neighborhood, my hometown and every other town I move to, at the stores, appointments, Family, friends, Schools,church and Everywhere!! I’ve never been supported no matter what I do!! BUT GOD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY REFUGE!! THANK YOU JESUS THAT IM NOT ALONE!! GLORY TO HIS NAME IN THE HIGHEST PRAISE!!!!
Its so true your biggest fan is strangers💯.
Trent there are people who can never comprehend that you wanna see people win. I know that is me who wants to see people win. They think you are up to something but they only say that because they know they would not help others. unless it was something in it for them.
I agree with everything but that everyone has this emotion. There is not a single soul i am jealous of. I have so many people jealous of me at my job. I'm likeable, do my job and received a promotion, plus I am not too bad looking. Jealousy is a disease
I don't know the feeling of hating someone who has everything in life, I'm actually proud of them
@@normasaldana1546 right! I'm proud of people. If they have something more than me I will ask them how they did that. I promote and pump people up.
I can relate I deal with the most out of jealousy at work and by family members. They're threatened by who you and the great qualities you have. Keep your head up!
Jealousy overcomes my enemies on Social Media on my creation of characters.
My entire family and friends and all I did was become a nurse I’m like we that broke
Amazing grace...I once was blind but now I see. When a person is about making the world a better place and has a generally positive outlook on life, they can miss noticing the hating jealous people in secret competition around them. Until the jealousy and hatred grow so intense they can no longer afford to be oblivious to it. Praise God for seeing what I could not see and protecting me through it all.
It’s definitely happening to me. Thank You! 💪🏾
As usual, you nailed it! Thanks for another awesome video my man!
My family is extremely jealous in general..They can't do what ive done..They know im mentally stronger
Are they mad because you haven’t fold or because you aren’t DEAD?…
Jealous people killed me off.
The thing I see is if you say something from a good place simple request and the person reacts with pent up anger rage and frustration you then gotta step back and say whoa that’s too much unnecessary unfounded anger in your response. In other words haters seethe within and see you as a perceived threat. They from time to time they blow up. Note also they certainly can have more than you. They just don’t want you to have any more than them not even a little bit. ❤
True that! I wrote a book about escaping human trafficking and the haters are vicious. They're always looking me up on social media,to find fault or dig up dirt.🤨🙄
Yes all facts I had to drop a so call friend because of jealousy, and envy.
Love that I tell people that all the time
Wonderfully said fam.. this changed the way I see things I definitely just got to the point today where I realized I can’t allow those who don’t like me or hate on me to steal my joy. Preciate you speaking on this. 💪🏾 keep being great!
A had a man on TH-cam curse me out because I made a comment on a woman's channel. I responded by saying "Be blessed Sir and have a beautiful day" and he never responded. When people show their angriness toward you, show them kindness.
I love your messages!!! Keep inspiring
Jealousy is the fuel that lights your fire 🔥🔥🔥 to go extra harder!!!!
You Rock. May God bless you even more!
Been a year working from home making a little bit more than in previous jobs and most importantly doing something I was trying for 4 years, finally I'm able to sustain this and I'm very proud and happy.... Funny things is that this has been the year that most of my "close" friends have told me to get back to a 9-5 because they think I spent too much time at home, even though I work less, better and with less stress 🤷🏾♂️
That was powerful
Personally I needed to hear this. I really love my friends and I waited a long time for people to win first. I realized I secretly hadn’t chosen friends for success but only for season of complacency. If I want a better support system I have to seek it
Thank you so much for this video.
Right now, I’m like “Let it be the final blow” sigh
Thank you.
I appreciate you, thank you
I can tell there is Bible in this heart. My safe place. This advice helps one to grow in all areas...in Jesus name.
I love this I love that you got over that anger when ppl hate I was like that too but you helped me calm down ALOT and I appreciate you Trent. I cannot tell you how you changed my life in a positive way...yes I still have hiccups but I'm still going strong 💪 💯 thank you brouhaha mad love ❤️ always
Love you Trent💗
Bruh, I’m so glad I saw your video because everywhere I go. I had jealous people hating on me 24 hours a day seven days a week but what I do I just ignored him friends jealous family members yeah we go through the drama.
Thank you for this message. I really appreciate it.
Wow thank you so much! I really need this one.
Oh so true!
People harm other people to make themselves feel better about themselves, people get jealous of other people’s Money other people’s marriages other people's education other people's beauty other people’s happiness etc. And I think alot of people ate cruel to them, God protect the People that are high achievers. I say to the high achievers that I am proud of them. Thank you for this wonderful video.
Facts Bro!!
Thank you for your video.
It was as if you were narrating the events that happened to me today and providing the missing gaps
Just like the Jealous person who disliked your post SMH‼️‼️ Life 🗣🗣🗣
Sometimes with friends like this who needs enemies lol😂
For real bro
Amazing message, really needed to hear that right now! Sending lots of love and blessings your way❤️
I’m so glad I came across your video a person like me that lives day per day. I have like jealous friends on social media like I think the guy I’m talking about. He never liked me since day. One he married he got kids and he still happy he look at me and he hates on me because I got more than what he got. I’m in the spotlight he’s not, always been a hater that’s why I don’t have no friends might have some but that’s why I don’t have too many friends because the other ones they they haters they want what I have and they don’t have it. It’s all good in the hood accomplished family loves me. It’s all good like I said like I was saying, your video gave me positive thoughts
Thanks for the class!
You are spot on Bro!
Man there are so many great things I could say about this video and I’m definitely a new subscriber! I needed it tonight. I’ve been a live entertainer and DJ at this bar in my town for about the last three years and I’ve slowly moved into better higher paying gigs and found success. I still play there a few times a month and it’s nice to go back but earlier tonight there was one off duty bar staff member that was rattling off a bunch of drunk rude comments about me to somebody else and it was exactly like you said, it made me question if I had done something wrong. This video was exactly what I needed to see and man I feel like it hits so many points perfectly on the head! Thanks for sharing this and cheers to success!
This is so true I go through this all the time
This was good for the soul, what touched my soul was when the person asked how do you deal with people who hate your business and still have empathy. I am divorced and started my business and persons just hating on my business this was great to listen to
Its always family MEMBER .LIKE THIS I GRAB THEM AND GIVE THEM BIG HUG THEY TRY KEEP MOVING . YOU FEEL NUMBness no feeling they have for you
AM WITH YOU BRO THAT'S FACTS 🙏🏿❤️
Love this video.
i need to hear this i also wanted to make a youtube like this love this i love the positive keep up the good work
Factssss 💯💯💯💯
But we work hard that's so unfair.!!!
Nothing is fair in life
Wow this seriously was good to hear😢😮❤ needed to hear this but if they are jealous/competitive etc towards me then that means I’m doing the right thing for myself too grow and prosper in life-Amen