OkBaby Breaks Up | Kyra Lets It Slip That She Cheated | Oscar Better Lawyer up!
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Quick correction. They live in Utah and not California.
I thought they have a place in both states
They sold the house in california. A few months ago. Hannah is her best friend who helps her with her business and who she does the podcast with
They do have a cali house they rent out now. They lived there to give birth to their last child because Kyra was still on her dads health insurance.
I thought they moved to CA
They did have a house in California she threw a fit and said it was too much for her anxiety having a rental and pushed for it to be sold when the housing prices first started going through the roof like she said she’s known for years she was out she sold that house while the price was higher I think they said they got almost 300,000 over what they paid she didn’t let him in on the secret and she was gathering up all the cash she can get
Watching this one year after the breakup it’s crazy how much of your predictions ended up being true
That’s what I was thinking
But this situation was so eye opening, because I was not grown enough to understand how toxic and stupid a lot of family bloggers are…i used to be obsessed of everything they do and was really understanding with a lot of things, but this…omg! I would never think that she’s such a stupid, mean, narcissistic woman.
same
Yessss!! I'm almost 2 years behind and wow...on point. I'm glad I watched until the end lol
Yep! So Josh didn’t need to eat handcream 45:52
But also… how many against Oscar were so, so wrong
man if the roles were reversed and Oscar was treating Kyra the way she's treating him, the internet would immediately cancel him
Fax 💯💯
Based.
Facts
Have you seen the comments under their video??? The internet HAS cancelled her.
the internet already cancelled her, tons of comments on that vid is supporting oscar. don't understand the point you're trying to prove here?
She was gaslighting him so much in this. Shes all like "I'm doing this to make YOU happy. I can tell that YOU'D be happier with someone else" No honey, you're hiding guilt and want him to move on from you. So manipulative!!!!
Yes! And she is saying that on video, but probably telling him it’s all his fault when the camera is off.
How does someone in a relationship get to make the decision for the other person stating you’ll be happier without me. If he felt that way he wouldn’t be with you. I don’t understand why people don’t get this!
100% !!!
@@stephanieburgess8217 i really think that is coming from Kyras insecurity, in the past (if you have been watching them for a while) she didn’t feel enough in a lot of ways. So because of that i think she thought he’ll be happier because she doesn’t feel enough 🤷🏻♀️
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There's no such thing as "in the realm of cheating." She either cheated or she didn't (spoiler alert: she cheated)
Kyra is trying to make it seem selfless, like she is doing this for Oscar's best interest. It's flat out ridiculous
💯 agree
This!!
More selfish and nothing about her is selfless. Your 20s are your time to be selfish but when you start popping out kids at 17, maybe you should’ve stopped after the first one and not continued to have 4 kids and then want to leave your relationship to go out and “find yourself”. Those kids didn’t ask to be born and now have to suffer because she wants to go out and see the world.
@@SgtFuckOff maybe you misread my comment.... that's exactly what I said. She is TRYING TO MAKE IT SEEM SELFLESS. It's not. It's very selfish.
@@2089kholcomb i didn’t miss your comment. I was agreeing and adding on my comment. No. one was disagreeing with you 😂
The “best friends” part of a marriage is typically what gets you through the difficult things in life. She’s using that as an excuse because she’s not into it anymore.
That’s exactly what I though!!
FUUUCKING facts. she is getting played by this idea that marriage is supposed to be some romance and bc they are struggling she gets to go off and do whatever she wants even with 4 kids at home one being barely a toddler. she is seriously manipulating people and then getting pissed when people don't buy into it. it's so obvious she feels like she was "robbed" out of having some 20 something experience and wants out of her responsibilities and despite Oscars best efforts to make her happy. shes never been happy. this man deserves a real women who will treat him right.
@@smOVERCOMINGITALL I know! It makes me so sad tho because I do like them together they have beautiful children together, and I remember when they had the miscarriage and how hard that was for them and then when she got pregnant with Aura she was scared because they where in a good place and something like a pregnancy could harm that. It really breaks my heart. I hate seeing her get board with him. She had it all.
Let me break this down....She just doesn't want him ANYMORE...there is someone ELSE!!!!!! She is saying whatever she can to make him FEEL BETTER, to get rid of her guilt
Oh yes. 100%
Definitely! But I feel how she acts in the video is putting salt on the wound ! I feel bad for him !
Absolutely there is someone else. It wouldn't surprise me if in a couple weeks she is already bringing him around.
THANK U LADIES!!! She is not fooling 1 woman!!!
What normal individual sees their partner with someone else or even wants to The suspicion of that kills you inside bit by bit then you get blindsided when that suspicion becomes reality... She 💯 %set him up I think he agreed to this train wreck upload because he honestly still is in shock.. European and American law is probably different once ten years together and having a family it's considered a common law marriage and assuming he is listed on the children's birth certificates which is law here, he would have more rights.
It’s soooooo frustrating to see her constantly talk over him either she’s scared of the truth he is going to tell or she is just completely self absorbed and everything is always all about her. I think their fan base will side with him and she’s going to be in trouble social media wise. Sending you oodles of love
You can tell in their video comments already that most are siding with him
She literally shut him down when he wanted to talk about her cheating! She said, "oh no, let's not begin to list everything the other person did. That's immature." I mean I can't remember exactly, but something along those lines.
😬 it's just a sad situation....tho I do think she's hiding something, DEFINITELY
Or she is both
She is 100% seeing or talking to someone else, that’s why she is pushing him to move on so she can without looking bad to the public.
usually ....well in my experience as 50 something brit woman, it's british men who act like her......feel sorry for him poor guy and they have kids, hope they have talked to them before posting this....
I agree..
@@artyv5450 In my experience as a 40 something brit women, I would say that's false. Everyone does it not just british men. 🤦 Guess what lady... British females do it too. So do Canadian women, clearly 👀. What a ridiculous thing to say.
She is 100% gross. I hope his Mom has a talk with him, and opens his eyes to what’s going on. He needs a lawyer asap. I have a family member who was manipulative like this, and cheating on her husband. She made plans with her new bf, and took EVERYTHING.from her husband. He was so devastated he could barely function as a Dad afterwards. This is something that shouldn’t be shared. I get they are only thinking about money, but their kids deserve better.
Agree 💯
Oh she cheated. She had an emotional affair that she wants to pretend isn’t cheating and when he had issue w it- she broke up with him so she could cheat. He needs to get out and get out now!
This. 1000000%. Narcissistic behavior, atrocious.
How do you know she cheated? Details details 👀 I just learned about all this tea.
@@brinegar52 Oscar said “you did things that annoyed me I wouldn’t consider it full blown cheating but-“ and than kyra cuts him off with “I’m gonna take this out” which is common for someone who just ended a 7 year relationship to refuse to believe their partner cheated
Watching this 2 years later is crazy. Now we know she cheated, and she’s the one who left holes in the walls and Oscar grew into a great father and handled it all with grace
So painful, this was like watching 15 yr olds try and talk about adult issues. Her giddy behavior is also super weird, again the emotional maturity of a young teen. So sad for the children.
Amen
Right! I thought why is she so giddy and happy? Eww! She’s definitely the one who did something outside the relationship. She is happy they are separating. Oscar you need run while you have the chance and don’t look back! Get a lawyer asap!!! It will get ugly quick! Don’t let her manipulate you!!
I thought the exact same!!!
@@annamorgan1772 she probably looks up to amber heard.
She is weirdly happy and flirty with him. I think she “broke up” with him to gain control and teach him a lesson. When he finds someone new she will have a breakdown and be full of regret.
Emotional cheating is sometimes way worst than physical cheating. Feelings are powerful. And self sabotaging is a real thing. 100% agree. It makes it easier to justify doing what you already want to do- which is leave.
Neither of them cheated in any way
@@saranicolestimmel7419 he literally said "i wouldn't consider it full blown cheating" which means she most likely emotionally cheated on him by talking or entertaining other men. are you really trying to justify this? lmfao. ohhh well if no holes were pernitrate it's fine. absolutely not.
@@smOVERCOMINGITALL seriously not the person to accuse of anything. I didn't justify shit so dont start
It’s true. That’s what destroyed my marriage.
@ashleygipson
@@saranicolestimmel7419 yes she had an ongoing affair with another guy who was also cheating on his fiancé with her.
It makes me so mad that she keeps saying he’s her best friend. The way she acted to him on video was so mean and manipulative all the time. She’s such a brat. I bet you she’s going to run away and have nothing to do with her kids
No she's not going to run away. Shes keeping the kids and Oscar has to work himself to death to pay support for kids. She will just throw the kids to Oscar when she needs to go for dates and parties.
She left the relationship and had the guts to say she’s keeping the ring and no one is getting it back. Technically, he could take her to small claims court and get it back. Engagement rings don’t fall under gifts, they come with a promise of marriage. If the person leaving the relationship (HER), wants to end it and not fulfill the process of marriage that comes along with the ring, he can legally get it back. She isn’t owed that if SHE is the one leaving. I wish he would be petty and take it back 😂
She is not going to abandon her kids because without them her social media "career" would tank. Her and Oscar's family channel is her most successful project...those kids are basically her (and Oscar's) meal tickets.
I feel like kyra forced Oscar into a life he didn’t want and now that she’s over it she’s just leaving him behind. He never wanted kids young and he didn’t want as many kids as they have. She probably got pregnant on purpose behind his back just to “start her family”. I’ve heard Oscar has anger issues which is horrible but I also feel like kyra is incredibly selfish and is the type of person to ignore his feelings until he explodes. She literally bought two cats even though he’s really allergic and said he didn’t want any pets.
My NUMBER ONE advise to married people is to never talk about your arguments with other people (besides a therapist) because at that point your friends and family are only hearing your side and it drives a wedge.
💯 %. Biggest regret of my marriage. I grew up and matured realising the damage I was doing by “gossiping” to my friends about marital issues. No more.
The sad thing is, Oscar is actually a good human being. He was so good to her and put up with emotional abuse from Kyra, who was just a miserable, mean person the entirety of their relationship. She is just not a good person. I feel sorry for him.
I didn't know you knew them personally
@@cherrymilk5590 now you do
@@cherrymilk5590 your comment is weird. You don't know ME personally, so how would you know whether or not I know someone personally? Kind of a dumb comment to make, dontcha think? 😂
@@cherrymilk5590 it's almost like people can't make an opinion of influencers off the countless hours of monetized footage they post to the public.
@@cherrymilk5590 it’s almost worse that you can tell how abusive she’s been when they have the power to edit and simply not press record I can’t imagine what she says/does during a fight
She is a damn looney toon. When someone is TRULY heart broken, they don’t want to go out and sleep with someone. Going out with your friends and to bars can be fun and take the edge off at first, but you really just need to be alone a take time to heal a broken heart. Sleeping around for rebounds can make you feel worse if you’re actually devastated. But she wouldn’t know about that..
I agree even as a man. Just broke up with with a young lady who didn’t treat me well. It’s been a month and my drive is gone. Taking the time to heal and reflect on the situation.
From the perspective of someone going through a divorce, I still can’t think about my ex with someone else without getting emotional. There’s nothing fun or funny about it. It’s depressing. I know they’re not married, so maybe it’s different.
None of us know what goes on behind closed doors with anyones relationship. I have stopped judging. I wish they wouldn’t have made a video like this, for the kids’ sake. It’s nobody’s business what happened but their own.
Exactly! We don’t see both sides which is why a video like this is a bad idea! Someone’s going to be pinned as the bad guy and someone will be pinned as the victim. It’s just going to make this situation so much worse.
Yeah, I was not ok with thinking about my ex with someone else and we were not married either and lived together and dated 6 years. I also was checked out of the relationship for MONTHS before I left and I still could NOT think of him with someone else and it still broke me. No matter how "over" someone you are or ready to move on, you still have emotional attachements to them. They have KIDS together and I can not believe it's just OK, cool, were done this is funny!!! Lets be friends... Yeah, no...
I feel like everyone is taking sides in this break up but break ups are not black and white issues. I feel bad for both of them and more importantly the children. Kyra and Oscar are both immature and lack the tools to communicate effectively, we know this from all their past “we almost broke up” videos. I honestly think Kyra is suffering from postpartum depression and having a hard time letting her dream of having 6 children go. She says in the video it’s been little things over the past year adding up for her. She seems at peace during this video because she has already mourned their relationship, while Oscar was JUST dumped two weeks ago. It was too soon for them to put this video out, they should have tried therapy first.
Yep.. truth bomb right here.
@@karie3 because Oscar doesn't want anymore kids. He was pushed to have the 4 they have. Kyra is the one who wanted a "big" family.
@@karie3 they were both teens! Their first videos were all about the life of a teen parent. When they first started YouTubing they talked about aspirations they had and did online schooling but TH-cam became their career. They kept having kids so quickly because 💰💰💰
@@karie3 Doctors told her it is not safe for her to continue to get pregnant because she’s had 4 C sections in 5 years. Oscar also did not want 6 children. They compromised on 4 and he had a vasectomy because she did not want to get her tubes tied. She has even said in past videos that she wouldn’t get her tubes tied because what if Oscar and her broke up and she wanted to have kids with her new partner.
@Omnipotent Mama You hit the nail on the head. Even in this break up video you can see that they still haven’t discussed all the reason surrounding the breakup. They need individual and family therapy so that Kyra can work on her me mental health, Oscar can work on his heartbreak and they together can learn how to effectively co parent for their very young children. Their oldest is only 6 and their youngest just turned 1 year.
Oscar reminds me of myself when my ex husband left me. He needs to lawyer up. I was told to do the same thing and while it was expensive, it was the best thing I did. My ex was stunned that I became a stronger female, and started to thrive with him no longer around. I hope Oscar gets main custody of their kids. She is a piece of work.
I feel for Oscar, it’s evident he’s still hurting and Kyra’s completely checked out. You can tell Oscar was surprised when she expressed wanting him to be in love with someone else. That means she clearly has another man and most likely cheated. A woman who acts like this is a woman who does not care and is waiting for a few weeks/months to introduce her new man.
I was SHOCKED when she was encouraging him to sleep with other women + “teaching” him ‘how to’ alongside pushing him to get a lap dance at a strip club.
Not just that.. they’re still living together but in separate rooms?! How do you explain this to your children? Why stay in the same house and confuse them + make it worse for yourselves.
Their poor children have to see this in the future.
wait till his parents come out against not being able to see the grandkids whenever they want ,Oscar needs a lawyer
When Oscar asked how being with another woman would work, thought that's what he meant. And she was there giving him tips on what they might like.
i feel for Oscar! I feel like she's always mean to him too. Even though they had fun in today's vlog, you know he's still hurt. Ugh
Man? Don't be surprised if it's a female. She was on live and someone asked if she would be in a female relationship and she said "Yes!" without hesitation. I think Kyra would be happier in a relationship with another female. 🥰
Who cares what their sleeping arrangement is, my husband and I sleep in different rooms due to insomnia. It’s really not that big of a deal. Everything is else you said was valid.
Josh, I can’t explain how relieving it is to hear you say exactly what I’m thinking. And knowing there are more people who see things the way we do and agree with us and are not insane haha
I tell him this all the time! Lol I agree with you!
Same. So glad to see someone say the same exact same things I was thinking when I saw this. It’s weird and they’re not happy equally
he is SPOT ON with this. spot on
RIGHT???
Yeah Kyra was giving me bad vibes in their break up video. She is so checked out & trying to control the situation. I feel so bad for Oscar, but then again maybe it’s a blessing in disguise for him! She is obviously going through an early midlife crisis. I get it (to an extent) because they have been together since they were teens and had so many kids in that time that they haven’t experienced living like most younger people do. They didn’t date other people or anything, so now she is craving that & thinking the grass is greener on the other side. I definitely agree that Oscar is in for a ride & should definitely lawyer up. I hope they at least put the children first & don’t let it get ugly.
Yeah, they both truned 25. That's honestly a typical age to reevaluate things in your life. Be it your career or relationship.
Yep they believe the grass seems greener because it’s fertilised by BS! Kyra will come crashing down.
“Never leave the one you love for the one you like. The one you like will soon leave you for the one they love.”
I think you’re absolutely right about her feeling guilty. This other person probably planted a fake seed in her head of what it’ll be like if she left him and started a life with him. And it won’t last long and she’ll see how he’s moved on and is happy and she’ll regret all of this…
She was downright giddy the entire time. This is what happens when immature kids rush things for TH-cam coin
Yes… it’s so Weird how Giddy? & laughing she is..?? I almost thought she was drunk?
Yes!!!
@xxjennypaigexx like I hope they’re trolling us but it definitely isn’t April 1st 😭
She blames, and wears him down emotionally and mentally. Belittling him, projecting her flaws onto him. He doesn't let much out emotionally verbally. So it builds and he hits inanimate objects out of frustration and sadness. Then they both feel lonely and isolated in the marriage. It also interferes with parenting their children as a team. They have an odd definition of best friend. Professional counseling could have helped, but she doesn't want that.
*She just can't let him speak, and finish the majority of his sentences!
You hit the nail hard with this statement
she's ALWAYS finished his sentences and never lets him fully talk. its crazy.
She’s emotionally involved with someone else that’s why she wants him to find someone else to sleep with and move on so that she can move on with her new man and not look like the bad guy or that she was cheating
Cheaters are cowards. She wasn’t brave enough to end it before finding someone else. Then she tried to push him away to be able to blame him for the break up.
I know sometime who’s husband would say things like “you should sleep with the good looking neighbor guy” and stuff like that. Turns out he was having an affair with her best friend. Her encouragement towards Oscar sleeping with other women reminds me of this exact situation.
Well I tell my spouse jokingly to go to a strip club etc cause I’m not in the mood for sex. 1000 percent no cheating here. But yes how’s she’s doing it saying she would be ok with it as a sex addict makes no sense. If I wanted the sex i wouldn’t be saying to do it elsewhere.
@@SharpLife4 I think your situation is very different!
I’d love to see you react to this a year on. You’ve been so spot on with your predictions
If you see their channel there are several videos about break ups and every time one or two months later she is pregnant. In my opinion she is not a sex addict, she is a baby/pregnancy addict. And now that doctors told her that she shouldn't have more kids she had no way of "fixing the situation" and they break up for good.
If you observe the timeline, their last baby was born a year ago and he had the vasectomy in september. In the video she says that she is been thinking about the break up for a year (when doctors told them not to have more kids), but in november she knew it for sure (after she knew for sure she would never have more kids with him because of the vasectomy)
Also in the break up video she says (when they are talking about the ring): "I would break it in four pieces but what happens if I have a 5th kid?" and He says: "that is not my problem".
I know it is a lot but that is my theory.
I think that’s a part of it.
Also so many people online keep pointing out how bad a father and partner Oscar is and I wonder if it impacted her view of him and their life.
I exactly thought of this. I was like, great, you finally used Oscar to get all your babies and now you’re done with him. Not sitting well with me at all! I’m pissed at Kyra. If she has someone already, that’s shitty.
Yeah a woman being open about her sexuality. How dare she...what a slut...The hypocrisy is mind boggling. Meanwhile men can spread their sperm and and whore around and they're still great dads...I want to throw up watching this dude.
That’s 100% what she’s doing. Pushing him to do stuff so she doesn’t feel as guilty. You can tell he’s hurt and she’s like playing it super cool and just seems manipulative as hell.
My bet is: both will continue to go on with their lives, meeting people etc. BUT the moment Oscar tries to be serious with someone else, kyra will take the "I don't think she's the right fit for you and/or our kids" and no one will ever be, kind of "not with me or without me". Also, such a cringe video. Those passive-aggresive accusations that people don't need to know of, it felt like I was intruding. Really uncomfortable to watch. They're freaking bitter, they can't live in the same house together. Ah, so many things about this video. I can't.
I agree. She is not going to take him falling for a new woman well.
This whole "we're not interested in the same thing" is really telling on her mental state. I had that thought when I was an insecure 17year old starting my relationship.
Once I realized I don't have to like everything he liked, I started to realize everything that we did have together.
You should have the same values not the same hobbies🤷
The sad fact is their relationship has been toxic for years, they both knew this and talked about it over the years. Yet they kept intentionally bringing children into this world. Also, her mannerism strongly suggest she is talking to someone else. Funny he gets a vasectomy and now she breaks up with him? Weird idk.
Because Kyra wants to have more babies with someone else and she knew that. That’s why she refused to get her tubes tied when she had her c-section. Doctors told her not to have anymore kids after her 3rd one but she did it anyways and doctors told her she can potentially die if she has anymore kids and she doesn’t care so Oscar, thinking he was doing what’s best for his family that he thought would last got snipped. I’m sure had he knew she was going to leave him a few months later he would not have gotten it done
Kyra was 100% gaslighting Oscar the entire time. Also, I don't buy into the "we were so young" crap. My husband and I were young, we only knew each other 3 months when we got married. The difference is we WORKED for what we have now. And we're going on 26 years. You just need to decide where your priorities are.
Exactly! Me and my husband have been together since we were 16 and married at 19. The we were so young thing is just an excuse for not putting in the work
Same. My husband and I got engaged when I was 21. Married at 22. Been married almost 19 years now. He and our daughter are my world. Couldn’t imagine a moment without either of them.
39:50 I don’t think she realizes that he’s in the denial stage of grief right now and sooner or later he’s gonna hit the anger stage. Divorce (or in their case just break up) turns ugly real quick and real easy. They NEED to be worried about the kids.
@ HeatherBar3. Yes agree💯💯
Yes, the children are the point! Couples Therapy, counseling, get help!
She’s gonna instantly regret it when he’s officially moved on! And she’s made a “mistake”
Happening now …
A mother of 4 small children going on all of these unnecessary out of town girls trips, drinking, partying and doing who knows what can get a person wondering. Poor Oscar seems to try and live a healthy lifestyle and is always home taking care of the kids while wild mama is out tripping and traveling with her friends. Just my opinion, I think Kyra has met someone else after all of her out of town adventures.
look who's she influenced by... Jesssfam
From what I’ve seen they both have done friend trips alone leaving the other with the kids the last few years with not a lot together because they had more than 2 babies and different friend groups but he did more chill hang out at another friends house vs downright partying
This was my mother growing up! Too busy partying and drinking and not interested in taking care of her 3 small children at home. She would also come home at 2 am when the bars closed with different men every week, while her husband was asleep in their room! SICK! I hate woman like this. Don’t have children if you don’t want them. Those poor children are the ones who suffer and it’s not fair!
@@thedcp that’s her only popular follower now
@@patienceane9477 Oscar has gone on maybe a handful of trips the entire time they’ve been together.
I hope Oscar sees this! As a child myself growing up, my mother was married to my father and constantly brought man after man home in the same house we all lived in. I resent my mother so much to this day from the toxic environment this brought. Oscar don’t do it! Lawyer up and give your children a healthy life.
Yep!!!
Trust me - as a kid of divorced parents, getting divorced is sometimes the best thing you can do for your kids. I was SO happy when my parents finally separated so I didn’t have to listen to them scream at each other all the time.
But also, why do people keep publicizing their divorced on the internet? I’d me mortified if my parents recorded the intimate details of why their marriage fell apart on the internet for the whole world, including me, to see.
They weren’t married, but they gave it some time and people continued to question so because their relationship was so public they felt they owed a public explanation.
@@lifewithaaliyahaspen1587 I think the question he presented regarding publicizing the separation is more in regards to this video, not theirs. At least, for me, that's the question.
I agree. I'm also a child of divorce. However my parents did the "we will stay together until the youngest graduates" and I wish I had the courage then, to tell them how much more damaging that would be, to us(the kids). Was it sad when they divorced, sure, but we were way happier. I also think, the fact that they stayed together(my parents) MUCH longer than they should have, plays a HUGE part in their dislike for each other now.
I agree, I don't think you should always stay together for the kids, every situation and circumstance is different
Her statement on “ you weren’t there for me when I had mental issues “ was a gaslight towards him to swerve the attention from what Oscar said about not full blown cheating … she’s literally 5 like “ ya i did this but you did that “ …
Don’t watch them, but clearly Kyra is manipulative. My guess is that she knows exactly what buttons to push to trigger Oscar’s anger and then once he snaps she backs up to play victim.
That’s exactly it I’ve been watching them since they were pregnant with their oldest & that’s exactly what she does
She’s projecting. Everything she “wants” for Oscar, she wants that for herself. She was planning on leaving him for possibly more than a year. She developed resentment towards him because Oscar was holding her back from her happiness. So she self sabotaged and wants Oscar to take the blame.
She seems like a narcissist who will never be happy with anything. This poor dude is better off without her. And I get the feeling she thinks he belongs to her. Like even if she doesn’t want him, he still belongs to her and other girl that comes around after her is gonna be a problem. Like “no one loves him like her… but she doesn’t want him.. but also no one can have him”… toxic.
"Comforting another guy cause he was sad" while laughing her way thru breaking his heart says alot about her. He mentioned he went to the club w/friends...I really hope he's got a few close trusted friends that see thru her manipulation & can be there to support him. Being blind sided w/heartache can put some1 in a very vulnerable nieve state....he's going to wake up, gain his strength & live a happy life .
They made it very clear why they were laughing and so casual about it.
@@Titsoak And you were naive enough to believe them 🙃
There were many contradictions in their video. The way Kyra was giddy and encouraging Oscar to meet a woman, fresh out of a 7 year relationship. Forced him to get a vasectomy while having thoughts of leaving him. Poor bloke. He never left her through her bat shit crazy days, supported her personal/mental health journey just to be heartbroken and blindsided.
oh shit i forgot about the vasectomy. damn
I agree completely and the comment she made about having another baby with someone else was just ugly!
Did you also notice that she said “in case I want to have a fifth child” in the video as well? That absolutely broke my heart. I know that vasectomies can be reversed, but still, that has to hurt so badly to hear that she literally is even speaking of that right now. This video could have been done so much better. I have watched them on and off since Levi was born.
Where is this video posted?? I follow them and never saw anything about this .
Saying Oscar supported her through her mental health journey is a stretch. I definitely feel for Oscar during this break up but if you watch their videos he’s not some devoted father/boyfriend. He almost dumped her like two years ago because she didn’t want him to go skydiving. They are both just very immature
Wait.. she encouraged him to get a vasectomy knowing she wanted to end their relationship?! That’s low. Luckily you can get them reversed.
This girl is toxic. She has a hard road ahead of her as a single mom with 4 kids. And a lot of growing up to do. She is living in a dream world thinking she can still control him after all this.
I hope they are able to figure out coparenting respectfully and privately. I can’t imagine my parents sharing all of this for the whole world to see.
I believe he chose to get one and she didn’t want him to get one from what I saw in past videos around when Aura was born.
This isn’t true. She is very manipulative but she didn’t want him to get a vasectomy he wanted one because he was done having kids. She still wanted more kids because it was an easy distraction for her to take away from giving her husband the time he deserved. A year ago
Was when they had their last baby and that’s when she started to know she wanted to be done because he wasn’t going to keep having kids and that was her only reason for staying with him. She didn’t like having sex with him anymore, it’s clear by what she says in her podcast and what’s an easy way to get money and get away from sex, being pregnant and taking care of a bunch of babies
@@stephanysorenson4051 she can’t have anymore kids tho… like physically can’t.
@@meganbrown8695 well she can physically lol many doctors advise women to stop after 4 c sections just bc the more c sections you have the more your potential risks go up, and she also happened to have them all back to back. She’s only 25 so if she gave her body a couple years to actually fully recover it probably wouldn’t even be a problem, many women have had more than 4 c sections against doctors advice and been perfectly fine. As a doctor they have to tell you that so you are aware of your potential risks moving forward.
I was married 14 years then divorced. It was devastating to both of us. It was the most difficult time of our lives, and at the time 100% of our focus was on the needs of our children, and learning how to raise them as a family together even though we were no longer all in the same home. I just can't imagine ever making this struggle public like this. Their kids will see this some day and realize that they cared more about their fame and their channel then they did their kids. So sad.
Same. When my ex & I went for the FINAL divorce hearing before the judge… We held hands & BOTH cried as the Judge granted the divorce. We knew our marriage could not be saved, and in that moment we accepted that.😢😢🥰🥰
Okay we need a updated take on this video!! 🫣
She’s talking about having a fifth kid and on the other hand Oscar had a vasectomy for her....that's crazy...not really nice....she is the girl of his dreams and she says that he is just her best friend. She figured this out after 4 kids??? She talks about this break up like it is nothing and Oscar next to her is not his self, he is in defence.
Oscar did NOT want anymore kids. He got the vasectomy for himself. I’m sure she did a lot but everyone needs to stop saying she forced him to get a vasectomy. She was always open about wanting more babies, she’s just technically not medically supposed to.
Timeline wise she would be thinking of getting pregnant again… she wants more kids but around a year ago the doc told her to stop for her safety and Oscar said he wants no more. Maybe she is craving expanding their family but he isn’t interested so now she’s checking out of the relationship.
When he first got the vasectomy she said she was committed to their future and this was for them. But shortly after she check out of the marriage.
@@Hopeyunit he got it be Susie the dryer said Kyra would DIE if she got pregnant again. He did not want that for her so they agreed to get fixed. Even if she didn’t want it that was the right choice if they were to stay together. Which she knew she didn’t want to. So then she should have got it done when she had her last by C-section and he could do what he wanted with knowing what she knew.
@@Hopeyunit he flat out said in their new video he did it under the assumption he was going to spend his life with her. Quit defending her like she’s your family. She should’ve told him, at that point, that was checked out so the decision would be made WITHOUT her in mind.
She said that she had been thinking this for a year now, but 4 months ago she let him get a vasectomy. Evil B... right here, just plain evil.
Wait WHATTTTT?! Oh wow… that is plain evil.
I thought exactly this. Sickening.
Oscar got it because he didn’t want anymore kids she has said multiple of times that she wanted more kids even tho a doctor had advised her that her body wouldn’t be able too that’s why Oscar during the last pregnancy of the c section had told her to get her tubes tied because it’ll be just all in one there without having to undergo anymore surgeries later on.
@@Itttyxxx she still should have told him how she was feeling before he had it done. She is still an evil child. Yes, child.
@@jilliant.4550 child? Ok. If you didn’t know a vasectomy is reversible if he in the future decides that he wants to have kids with someone else he go and undo his vasectomy. It was his decision as a man to get it. Evil would be if she forced him to get it and then left but that’s not what happened.
Everything you said was spot on! Great video. 100% they should have had this conversation in therapy instead of venting to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Did she just joke about having a fifth kid and also had Oscar get a vasectomy recently?? She also admitted she's been thinking of breaking up for a YEAR. So.... she had him fixed so he doesn't get a future partner pregnant??
Oscar chose the vasectomy, he doesn't want anymore kids.
Maybe he chose that for himself
Oh she definitely brought up him going to the strip club to make her look better/feel less guilty. She looks ridiculous.
I think it shows a real lack of character and compassion on Kyra’s part that she pushed Oscar to get a vasectomy knowing she had already checked out of the relationship. It’s disgusting honestly…
Actually Kyra didn’t want him to get a vasectomy she actually wanted to have more kids Oscar decided for himself that he did not want more kids and decided that himself just so you know…..
@@Pinkfriday2nm either way, she knew she had one foot out the door and she should have been a big enough person to put it all out there right then. “Hey, look…maybe hold off on that because I’m really having second thoughts about this relationship and if it doesn’t end up working out I don’t want you making such a big change for my sake.” He was doing it for her safety…she knew that.
@@Pinkfriday2nm he literally said in their new video that he got it because he thought he’d be with her … he got it with her in mind. The doctor told her it would be dangerous to keep having babies since they’re all c sections. Oscar did it for her. She could’ve said she was checked out and suggest he wait.
@@foxgirl8387 no she didn’t she said that they were having some problems for a year but she didn’t know she wanted to break up until a month before they did
He also got it because Kyra medically cannot have anymore children. She’s had four dangerous pregnancies and four csections so her body won’t be able to carry and deliver another baby so they both agreed that it was the safest rout on top of other things to prevent a child loss.
I wouldn’t trust her to always be in the right state of mind when caring for children alone.
True
A seperation of parents is one of the most psychologically damaging things to ever happen in a child's life because of all of the custody agreements that come with that, having to go to court, travel different places now to see mom or dad, it's awful and they start off the video laughing as if it's all a joke when it is absolutely not at all. So gross. 🤦♀️
True in most situations. My husband and his ex broke up when my step daughter was barely 3 and it’s been a lot of issues since then so I agree it’s damaging but my parents divorced when I was 7 and they were always civil and didn’t deal the the courts more than twice because they agreed on things together without lawyers. It’s better for the kids to not have their parents living in the same house if they’re toxic. The kids will be happier with the parents happy and separated than hearing fighting daily. That’s more damaging
@@brroookkeee Absolutely true. My son's father and I are separated. We get along much better as friends than a couple. We settled everything out of court and our son is happy and thriving. We still regularly have family dinners but we make it clear to him that mommy and daddy have two different houses, but we both love him and any time he wants to see one parent or the other all he has to do is say so. It's absolutely not a black and white issue. He seems to understand it and now says he has two houses with more places for his toys and isn't damaged by it at all that we can tell so far.
Agree with your analysis Josh.. you said what I was thinking the entire time.
How come no one is talking about how Oscar got a VASECTOMY when he really didn’t want to.....to meet her in the middle a couple months ago when she knew she was gonna dump him. Pretty evil to me and then joking about having a 5th kid in the break up video 🤯
no. oscar wanted the vasectomy and kyra was the one who did not want him to get it. she wants more kids but i think that’s why she’s done with him is because once he got the vasectomy and she knows there won’t be anymore babies for a while, she’s done with him. the whole “i need to find myself” charade is mind blowing. she begged him for a ring and the last 2 babies they had.
He wanted the vasectomy
I hope he gets custody of the kids and gets as far away from her as possible. Kyra is bad news, and I've seen it since her pregnancy with her eldest. There is something off about her.
Oscar and his mom will absolutely be raising these babies. Her mind is already elsewhere ☁️
@Nana Pour it was said a few times that he has invested money and started businesses but kept them private. Hopefully it was the truth.
@@soniacapobianco2598 They have said before he does have his own account because Kyra isn't good with money. So they split the okbaby money. She also has bad credit so all of the big purchases are in his name. When she wanted the van she paid for it with one sponsorship and I believe it was the first thing in her name.
Thanks for coverings this. What makes me mad is they had 4 kids for clout. She, at least, is discarding their father without trying to work on it, like she is the only one that matters. Kyra isn’t smart enough to protect her children from random men either.
She talks bad about her mother and childhood trauma. Its repeating itself.
She’s not a great person but she didn’t have kids for clout. She’s been very open about wanting a large family her whole life… she would’ve taken that road with or without TH-cam. She also, was the one constantly pushing him for more kids because her idea of a family was always a ton of kids. I imagine it has a lot to go with inadequacies in her own childhood.
Exactly!
Just a friendly reminder that Oscar didn’t even want to have kids:
- that young
- and that many
He wanted to join the navy or the army or the Air Force (don’t remember it) and THEN start a family, find someone, settle down and so on.
Kyra - on the other hand - has said she wanted to have a “big family” like Jesssfam (or however you write her name) because… well, because she wanted to.
Kyra definitely pressured Oscar to have more kids. He said multiple times that he's done having kids.
He wanted 2 and she wanted 6 they compromised with 4. She wants more but her body can't handle it, Oscar doesn't want more and that's why he got a vasectomy
Ha he flip flopped on that pretty quickly and chose to do both.
SHE RUINED DISNEYLAND FOR HIM 😩
And the holidays essentially 🥴
Josh is the perfect husband and here’s why: if his wife needs to vent about her friend drama he is gonna listen and analyze it. He’ll be invested in it. A gem.
Yes!!!
And he seems to have emotional intelligence!! Rare
They are both way too immature (especially kyra) and had no business having 4 kids together. She’s crazy making that comment about having a fifth kid! 4 is enough, she doesn’t need any more. She needs to just focus on the children that she has now and make them priority over everything else.
“COMFORTING ANOTHER GUY WHEN HE WAS SAD” OMG 😱 I didn’t catch that the first time omg 😳
The countdown began until she starts an onlyfans and/or comes out as bi as all the other youtube moms who have had a break up in recent years.
People on Instagram have been asking her to start an OF and she put up a poll asking if she should…soooo you’re probably not wrong lol
@@taylorervin1 gosh I hope I'm not right, for their kids' sake 💔
Are you insinuating there is something wrong with being bi?
@@nikki5195 calm down lmfao
@@nikki5195 nope
Honestly Oscar is the good parent. He tries so hard to take care of the kids while she is always just “working” or doing whatever she wants and he’s always taking care of the kids. I don’t think it’s fair to call Oscar a bad parent he’s trying.
She thinks some man is going to take on 4 toddlers under 5 and all that baggage 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😭😭she straight up crazy
Chris Skube 2.0 (Jesssfam hubby)
Something about Kyra has always annoyed me. I feel so sorry for Oscar. My husband is my absolute Best Friend. We have been together for 21 years, married 17. I can not imagine my life without my husband and my daughter. I call my husband for everything, he is my everything.
Kyra is just rotten. She is already posting “ sexy” pictures on Instagram. Unreal!
Them pictures are gross lol not classy at all
The statement that got me was when Kyra said, "you need to tell them that I did not cheat cause they might think about it". Then later in the video they talked about Kyra comforting some "guy".
I really hope Oscar finds someone cause he really is a good/genuine person.
What video of them was this? The last I watched they were good.. I hate this for them…
@@ernurse3699 they just posted it yesterday
Oscar needs a lawyer ASAP.
Yup, that quote strikes a chord with being a narcissist, gaslighter & just plain ol’ immature. Yikes!
@@ernurse3699 that’s why social media hides everything
As someone who used to be easily manipulated, I can honestly say that getting educated did help me get to where I can't be as easily manipulated anymore. I don't know what Oscar's financial situation is, but he should consider going back to school or getting a job. Or just get involved in something that Kyra has nothing to do with.
Edit: obviously, Oscar should also get a lawyer. A good one. We all know that Kyra will, at some point, decide that Oscar needs to move out for some reason. And that Kyra is planning on screwing Oscar over in other ways.
The silver lining in this is that Kyra MIGHT lose her power over Oscar. She will have to work hard to regain it, if she can at all.
I feel bad for Oskar. You can feel his sadness
friend-zoned by her freaky self
They have another thing coming if they think this will end amicably. Hold on because it's gonna get messy. She is so manipulative and definitely has or had someone on the side. They are immature and have a lot to learn. There's also so so much passive aggressive energy between them. Things are gonna blow!
In her head she wants everything to be normal, in his head he's agreeing but in a few months they won't be living together. I can read it all over his face. Because the guy she "cheated" on is someone they know. Generally emotional cheating happens when they go to someone they know and are already comfortable with. That is going to eat at him inside.
“Are we just best friends?” She friend zoned her fiancé because she found someone else to give her the attention she wants and when that newness wears off she’ll regret her decision and try to come back.
He's very immature however she's clearly cheating, wanting to party and do her own thing. He needs to move out maybe with family at first and start raising they're children alone until she gets her shit together. Please Oscar, get a lawyer and make those children your full priority and protect yourself and them from her toxicity please.
Yes! I hope his mom convinces him to get a lawyer sooner rather than later …she’s been through cheating and a divorce w her last husband
YALL at the end where she said "Oscar was talking to Hannah so was that weird" she literally gave her OWN self up!!!!!!!!!!
He got the snip for her and now she is talking about a 5th child. This whole video was her talking and laughing and poor Oscar looking so defeated and depressed.
He didn't want anymore kids period. That's why he got one. Kyra wanted more and he said no.
That definitely made me cringe.
If Kyra gets pregnant again she has been warned she will likely die
@@Gohappygirl wasn’t she told that before their fourth?
@@ahnnnos7017 no, after the 4th
She didn't get the six kids she wanted. Let him get a vasectomy. Dumped him. I wouldn't be surprised if she announced within a year's time that she's expecting. She's had 4 C-sections in 7 years and has been advised by doctors not to pursue having more children. I knew as soon as he said no after Aura that she would find a new baby daddy to get the two more kids she thinks she wants.
How do they think they can go on living together, “being best friends”!! He need to get out of there before she hurts him more..
Yea these situations usually turn very ugly …he needs to get out
I could not imagine wanting my husband to be with someone else. Even if we were to ever split, no way in hell would I ever give him advice about sleeping with other women. Simply the most outrageous thought. And when kids are involved, I would do everything in my power to make it work and to heal our marriage if we were heading down that path because he is my partner for life. We chose each other, he is my best friend and we are complete opposites, but it works. We enjoys different things but we still
Come together and appreciate our differences it keeps it lively. And to me, you have to chose to love someone everyday. It isn’t as simple as just a feeling, it doesn’t just float away, you either work to keep it or you let it go. When you are committed to someone like that you are supposed to work to keep the love, it is hard, but that’s what makes it so beautiful.
This video was probably the weirdest “breakup” video i’ve seen on youtube. The way they were encouraging each other to go hook up with other people is very weird to me and it was very passive aggressive lol.
And how they’re planning on living together still and sharing finances.. just odd
she was encouraging HIM... to appease her guilt
@@thedcp exactly!!!
He never encouraged her to hook up?
@Lauren Alexandra right I know that
"you guys are too stupid to make a decision like that" LOL Josh you are such a genius. What you described, being there for your kids, eating together, living together, enjoying life together, that - in my opinion - is what it's all about. I wish more people would take starting a family, and being a family, more seriously.
Cheating is a 100% involved here. I think they both have done things. They’re too young and immature on how to handle it and it sounds to me like they are both hurting. They need help. What’s the worst part about all of this is their marriage can be saved if they had the right tools and willingness. Their kids are going to suffer not like they haven’t already. I pray for anyone going through this. As I know first hand this isn’t easy. They’re just trying to one up another. They are only making it worse. They need to get off the internet and focus on what’s important their family/(kids.)
They are not married!! Got engaged 3 years ago..
I think Kyra is being immature and naive and acting odd in this video but she’s not wrong when she says they have nothing in common. Oscar is not their for her emotionally and she isn’t interested in any of his interests. These two got together at 17 and have had babies for 7 years straight. They don’t have the communication skills to make it work
@@RAE.ofSunshine I had the same feeling about the engagement and when they talked about getting married.. There was never any date or year set down or any video about them planning anything! It was always maybe we get married in 5 years or whatever when the kids get older.
@@fridab1952 yes you are right. I guess I mean their relationship to commitment with children involved.
@@HeatheBar3 I agree with this.
As a kid coming from a family who's parents did the whole "stay together for the kids" thing-don't you dare use us as an excuse. Please for the love of God just break up. It's worse watching them hate each other in the same house.
She has always seemed unstable to me. I quit watching years ago. I hope she receives some type of counseling.
As someone who has been in a very similar position as this guy I can say if your partner is almost glowing as they are breaking up with you they very likely have started at least an emotional relationship with someone else. Usually people are sad and disappointed at the breakup even if they want it and know it's what's best even if it is just for the other person knowing they are hurt. What they aren't like is a giddy school girl.
As you would say “well this aged like milk.” 🥛 😂😂
I can’t believe they posted this!
She has no clue what to do with money. She spent all their money. She’s admitted she can’t do money. Which is why she wants to stay together. You got her spot on
How she’s acting is exactly how my birth mom acted when divorcing my dad, only cared about herself and laughing and joking while my father was severely depressed. She was the one cheating too. She then went on to tell the judge that my dad can just have me and my sister and she doesn’t need custody. She doesn’t contact us and we only saw her once a year before covid. Now not at all. It’s been like this since 2009. She’s extremely narcissistic, and honestly had no business having children. I’m lucky to have my dad though, he’s my bestest friend.
I think the most bizarre part of this all, is just hours after posting this video Kyra was calling Oscar "sexy" in her instagram story.....wtf?? She needs help and he needs a lawyer. ASAP.
That's so manipulative of her- she's playing with his feelings and stringing him along. She still needs to feel wanted from him. She'll probably still try to sleep with him too. I hope someone close to him saw this video and was able to knock some sense into him.
She is exactly like my ex sis in law.
Kyra was 100% trying to get Oscar a girl so whatever she did was justified. Gross 🤢
He's so in love with her & she's totally using that to get her way. You can tell by how shocked he is when she keeps saying things. I will give him props for not just sitting back & taking it.. He's calling her on her B.S. & I hope he keeps doing it so she doesn't keep trying to throw him under the bus!
He definitely needs to get a lawyer. And if he does start his own channel, hopefully sans kids, he needs to fight to make sure that she can't continue to use them on hers channel.
Idk I think he loves her, just not in love with her. He’s been so emotionally disconnected for years.
I could never think of my spouse with someone else even when I’m pissed as heck at him