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She can't handle her four kids by herself, she said it herself. I think that's the only reason why she would be pissed if Oscar moved lol.
Exactly
It's so sad that they have a Nanny and she only has the kids every other week. I understand that she works from home but, she doesn't spend enough quality time with her kids. My heart breaks for the poor kids. They're truly sweet adorable kids.
And she wanted another kid!?
that is why she only sees her kids every other week
This sounds like something she’d do… always a motive.
She really demolished her family to have a ho phase. Besides logistics, I'm sure the main reason she doesn't want Oscar to move is that it would be harder to control him from another state and she'd have to face the loneliness and reality of her decisions. Plus it would be his own adventure without her.
THISSSS!!! 100%!! And also, it would mean Kyra would have majority custody and she won’t be able to have all that free time.
Absolutely! I'm clearly seeing who wears the pants in this relationship. Ugh.
She never thought about what would happen if Oscar was the one to leave
my son is 2 and when he was 6 months old, his dad moved to a different state 2000 miles away. he’s only seen his dad 3 times and that’s because i went to the state he lives in. his dad makes no effort whatsoever to help or support our son but legally he is supposed to. no matter how i feel about him, i want him to be in his sons life. we talked about him getting an apartment (he could afford it cause he had a really good job) so that he could see his son but he decided to move 2000 miles away anyway. i’m not necessarily on kyras side about the situation but as a single mother who’s baby daddy left, i see where she is coming from for not wanting oscar to leave the state.
Yep~She wants ALL the CONTROL🙄:(
I feel like we weren’t supposed to hear any of this. You know when a parent scolds their child in front of you and you feel super uncomfortable about it? That’s how this video makes me feel, I’ve got the ick.
Ya me too. Oscar was uncomfort
100% trillion%!
Yes absolutely.. this is a great description!!
Really good point.
Yes exactly! 🙈
I am a nurse that works in a mental health facility for adults and adolescents. Divorce is so common that it is overlooked at a major cause of trauma. When we questions children and adults about a major trauma in their life I would say 99% of the time it’s divorce. Most of these kids with depression, suicide attempts and drug addiction stem from divorce and instability in the home.
Divorce is viewed as a “self care and discovering yourself” but we fail to realize that this will have ripple effects to our children for the rest of their lives.
The fact they are airing all of this out online will be very traumatic for a child watching this in the future.
Divorce can be bad, but isn't living with frustrated parents that don't get along worse?
I totally agree that divorce is sometimes necessary, but to go about it as though it won’t affect kids in a real traumatic way then we are not preparing ourselves for proper counseling and necessary stability. Airing it out on the internet in such a flippant way will likely cause many future issues.
In all areas of our life we have to make decisions that sometimes will cause harmful consequences in the future. We just need to understand the gravity of those decisions so we don’t leave our kids without the proper support. We can’t go about divorce as just a way out. It isn’t. It may be for the couple but no matter how toxic the relationship it will cause trauma.
Even a drug addicted parent having the children remove from the home, although necessary will cause trauma. We have to not sell those decisions short of the consequences. Because divorce is so commons we tend to lessen the effects it actually has.
@@victoriah9396 Excellent very well said 👏 100 % agree 👍
Right my husband is abusive. So the kids are better off with divorce. The kids seeing him disrespect me and abuse me in front of them not good.
@@sallyann985 it's how the divorce is handled that does most of the damage.
Oscar had a vasectomy because Kyras OB with Aura said because she had csections back to back to back it isn’t SAFE for Kyra to carry a pregnancy again. The OB wanted to tie her tubes right after taking Aura. Kyra refused. I 💯 feel that Oscar had a vasectomy to prevent another pregnancy and something bad happening to Kyra. She takes no blame for his vasectomy, but to be real he did it for Kyra.
THANK YOU.
This fact is so glossed over. She has been told so many times by doctors to stop having children. I hate that he never calls her out on that too.
Didn't know the backstory on it, wow that's crazy! Puts a whole new level onto this, poor guy.
Same with Keren Swann. After she had her third, the doctor told her that her scar tissue was so messed up, she shouldn’t get pregnant again. What does she do?? Continues to get pregnant.
It’s going to take her almost dying to wake up
She literally admitted that she takes her kids to the nanny when the older one goes to school on her week with them… I don’t understand how not seeing your kids for a whole week and still not wanting to spend time with them….
Where did she said that??
That’s what happens when you keep popping out kids for clicks and views.
@@jenniferocampo8068 on a live it’s in her insta.she takes them to Oscars and the nanny stays with them all day.. because the bus Levi wants to take the bus. And kyra picks them all up after school
Especially when she has no regular job!!
Do you not realise that oscar has the nanny during his week too lol? Relax with the kyra hate - if you hate the nanny then why is it only directed towards kyra?
I give it 6 more months and they will be battling it out in court. Oscar is starting to despise her. You can tell in the videos that he is starting to get annoyed with her.
Can’t blame him. She’s still trying to control him
@@MrsMrMoney I agree she did trap him with the teen pregnancy
Imagine their children seeing all the videos of their relationship tanking in 10 years. I feel so sorry for the kids.
It reminds me of watching Jon and Kate plus 8 and gradually seeing their relationship unravel on TV. I hope for the children’s sake it isn’t as horrible as their divorce ended up but her comments makes me think she will alienate him from their children’s lives if she doesn’t agree with him.
The relationship between these 2 is like watching a very slow car crash!
Agree ,so toxic
So much for Co parenting... 🙄 🙈
More like a 20 car pileup…& to put these conversations online..the kids can see them..their son can possibly understand some aspects already & their classmates parents watching too…just the body language-she is kicked back legs relaxed & Oscar is upright & rigid/tense/stressed…I don’t like it..u don’t air ur dirty laundry 🧺
omg yes!
I truly feel like when Oscar fully gets over this and moves on and has a happy healthy relationship with someone else Kira is going to be soooooo butt hurt.
Yep~Cuz CONTROL will be OVER🙄!!
Kyra is saying he could move anywhere and kids will stay with her but if he ever did that she would HATE him. Her being a single mother to 4 kids? She would never get to party or “keep finding herself” and would make his life hell. She keeps poking at him thinking he’s not gonna follow through on anything he wants to do with his life. Eventually enough is enough. Those poor kids.
I think Oscar is traveling a lot because he doesn’t want to be alone in the house when the kids aren’t there and I totally get that. He seems to be having fun while knowing the kids are taken care of
So sad they’re both more worried about themselves than the FOUR children they brought into the world that are having to deal with their world being turned upside down. 😡☹️
Wow I was thinking the same 100%
Yeah it’s all coming across so selfish… all about them as individuals
Amen 👏‼️🎯
Damn 4???
Oscar, GET A LAWYER. thank you that is all.
She 100% runs his life, I agree. He looks so whipped and unhappy. I have a feeling this is going to get bad. When she said she will not ever be without her children when talking about Oscar moving closer to his support system... I give it a few months maybe a year and they'll be in court.
The main issue he said with getting a vasectomy is that Keira was told by doctors numerous times that she should not have any more kids since I believe her second she then went to have two more and those last two pregnancies were extremely high risk to where they both almost came early and caused major complications. He was worried that if she got pregnant again because she wanted to get pregnant again that she would die and that he would be without the kids mom and with four or five kids due to another pregnancy. If he knew he would not be with her anymore I don’t think he would’ve gone through with that
Nah he’s vehemently stated that he didn’t want anymore kids. He really only wanted 2 and Kyra wanted 6/7, so the settled for 4. He’s stated in several vlogs and Q&As before that even if they were to separate, he doesn’t want any kids. Coming from someone who used to watch every single video of theirs.
@@BrDyAn12 he actually said when she was pregnant that he didn’t want more with her cause the dr said she would die and should not have more and they already had 3 and 4 on the way. I guarantee if she broke up with him before it that he would not have gone through with it. Also she may not have helped out much so dynamics may have been hard. So he may not have wanted more with her. But again maybe with someone else.
@@BrDyAn12 both of you are correct but when they had that convo, he had no idea they'd split in the future. Of course he didn't have the idea he would regret it or want kids with someone else. I think he truly saw himself with kyra the rest of his life.
@@cc.7407 no she had issues with preterm brith. Low progesterone and would not buy the progesterone shots cause it “cost to much” placental issues and other issues she did not disclose but stated was why she was high risk and why the dr said no more. Plus the dr said it with Oscar present. He did not want her dying and respected the doctors medical advice.
BINGO
Watching them I find it scary that they are responsible to raise children. They are so clearly not even able to control their own life
It's all about them..I feel sorry for the kids It's like they are done with playing family
“I will…be with my kids all the time…”
Meanwhile: Admits on Instagram that her nanny takes the kids during the daytime at Oscar’s house bc the drive to drop Levi off for school from her townhome is “too far” 🧐
It's like she's gaslighting him into believing that it was all his idea to get a vasectomy and she had absolutely no say in it whatsoever. "You wanted the vasectomy and it was all your idea, right Oscar, right?!!"
@Briselda M that isn’t 100% true Kyra was told it would be extremely dangerous to have another baby Kyra won’t use birth control she already said she doesn’t like stuff in her body Oscar getting a vasectomy was for both of them
Oscar is so in denial of his real true feelings inside it’s almost painful to watch. You want to feel bad for the dude but at the same time he put himself in this situation and probably did other things that we don’t know about that partly led to this. I hope he gets away from Kyra and lives a more mentally healthy life. This isn’t good for him at all.
@@cc.7407 Yeah, but deep down inside you could tell part of him wishes this wasn’t happening and Kyra was the one that pushed for this to happen. The sad thing is that he blows it off as if everything is fine in the vlogs when you could tell inside he is hurting and his whole life is now being manufactured by Kyra.
Oscar is so nervous to be next to her. He doesn't want to upset her. He regrets getting a vasectomy. This is so heartbreaking to watch...
She is such a bully. I honestly feel so bad for Oscar. Holly hell she never shuts up and takes complete advantage of him. He’s going to regret ever letting her in his life eventually. She seems very revengeful and vindictive and I think she manipulates every decision that make. I think she is calculated and poor Oscar just sits there while she lays down the law. I can’t understand how anybody thinks it’s totally fine to share the things these 2 just shared in this video with a bunch of strangers, it’s fing weird! Oscar needs to grow a pair and put her in her place.
Kyra is still very much controlling everything - if Kyra wanted to move it would be a different story she would have all the reasons she should move.
“Imagine everyone on Earth knowing that you got a vasectomy. It’s like part of your personality.” 🤣
Everytime the vasectomy question comes up, kyra always answers first. Like the question is for Oscar. You can tell he 100% regrets doing it now
They should really get some legal advice. Something tells me things will get very nasty especially if either one starts dating. Can get very messy hopefully they do what's best for the kiddies 😳
What’s not being said is Kyra thinks she can prevent seeing and having the kids if he moves and that’s not how it works I hope he grows some balls and gets a lawyer
As if she could really take care of them day in and day out by herself. 🙄
Imagine her messaging Preston before this saying “oscar has my phone for a video, don’t message me until I send you the all clear” 😂 or had it on airplane mode
I’m 40 and I’m fighting cancer for the second time in less than two years. It’s hard to listen to these two from the perspective I’m in right now. They have no idea what life is all about. All I can say here is think of your kids. Put them first in all this. Your needs come second now. And I get the feeling Kyra needs to be reminded of this more than Oscar.
"They have no idea what life is all about" I think that's especially true for Kyra. Sending you strength 💖
Please look at Believe Big Inc. for grants and naturopathic doctors and resources to have Mistletoe Therapy 🙏💓💓
I don't blame him for wanting to flee to FL to get away from her. He is so scared of her, he literally doesn't stand up for himself for one second. I have to wonder if he grew up with narcissistic abuse, because that's what it appears he puts up with from her. Their poor kids.
I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. She’s probably Narcissistic herself.
Poor Oscar. She's crazy.
Oscar - stop listening to Kyra. GET A LAWYER AND LISTEN TO THEM. You have the money to do what most people wish they could do under these circumstances. TALK TO A PROFESSIONAL.
Oscar should get the okbaby channel. He has done all of the editing since the beginning and a huge chunk of the filming. The channel wouldn't have gotten to where it is if it weren't for him
And he’s so much more interesting!
so true.
He did keep it since he’s the one who started the channel.
Don’t they usually talk on camera about things before actually talking about them in private lol. Sounds like nothing has changed with them.
I was the kid who wouldn’t see their mom or dad every other week. They divorced when I was in second grade and I’m 28 now. Still one of the most heartbreaking things I’ve ever gone through.
She’s so manipulative. I truly hope Oscar gets legal help because you can tell how upset this makes him. She’s very condescending towards him.
Also the way she talks drives me nuts. Open your mouth whenever you talkkkkk🙃🙃🙃
I am a child of divorce and sadly I spent one week off one week on between my mom’s house and my dad’s from the age of 8 to 18!!!💔😔it was the most heartbreaking thing I had to deal with (along my an older sister and younger brother) as a child even though I eventually “got used to it”, it sucked and I have almost zero memories of what our family was like for those first 7ish years. There was so much hostility between my mom and dad and the fighting and yelling I do remember vividly.💔Sending love to anyone who was in a similar situation!!
What the hell is wrong with cereal and yogurt? There are no rules that dinner has to be meat and potatoes. My child would ONLY eat honey nut cheerios. I complained to her Dr and she litterally said "so" .. let her eat her cheerios. It's not like she was eating red licorice for dinner.
As long as I get food in my child I am happy. I offer what I eat but they will eat whatever they want.
They’re both so freaking young and have no idea what they’re doing with their lives. I feel bad that four children are caught in the middle of the mess.
In past videos, Kyra shared her mental health issues including a very serious OCD-based fear of tsunamis, so moving to Florida where there is an entire hurricane season seems problematic, and yet that perspective isn't discussed at all. Why? Because it makes her look bad and she does not want that. This whole video seems like her way to try to get the internet to like her again. I give Oscar credit for not throwing her parenting in her face the way she does to him.
Wouldn’t her sharing her fear of tsunamis make viewers sympathetic to her not wanting to move to Florida?
@@aly38 Yea, maybe so. Even still, I wonder why it doesn't come up, even when they're talking about so many other really personal topics.
Those poor four children they brought into this mess.
These 2 parents (if you can call them that) are done playing house it's all about them finding themselves now..the kids are a after thought .
Children having children. This whole situation is so entirely irresponsible. Those poor children.
It’s like she’s trying to expose every little “bad thing” he does to make herself look better and get less hate. The whole situation is crazy and some things they discuss should be talked about in private between the two not between them and the whole internet
This Q&A was sooo uncomfortable. Oscar was so upset and trying to play it off cool. My heart broke for him.
CANNOT WAIT for this to premiere!! I have soo many opinions on this little video oooh
Same!!
Oh yes!!!
They need to grow up. A lot of what they are talking about needs to be discussed privately, not on a social media platform. She wants to keep tearing him down for everything, he fed the kids dinner, and she’s telling him it’s not good enough. I feel bad for him, she just strong arms him into everything, and he just goes with it. How can they say they are doing well when they are both going at each other whenever they get a chance. This situation is going to blow up into some crazy legal battle, and I really hope I’m wrong for the kid’s sake. One of these days she is going to say something and he’s finally going to speak up for himself, and she’s not going to like it. They need to just grow up and handle this stuff privately, the kids don’t need to see all this crap years from now online.
6:36 He looked SO SAD when she brought up navigating single parent life. I don't think this man is hurting over KYRA, I think this man is hurting over the fact that he never wanted a broken family and wanted better for his kids. I think that he is grieving the life he thought they were going to have and is hurting for his kids more than for himself. I'm sure he is hurting over the lonliness and change and the person he thought he loved, but I don't think he loves Kyra for the person he is finally realising she is here. Obviously this was 7months ago (I'm catching up on the last 9months because I saw the title from the most recent video!! 😬😬😬) But just from watching this and seeing his reaction from what she said at that timestamp, that is what I believe he is feeling during this time 7 months ago. God, there couldn't be more signs for him to get an attorney! My prediction is though that he hasn't/never did since then and what a huge mistake. He NEEDS to man up, let his anger guide him slightly (because he is such a pushover with her and easily manipulated because he was clearly raised to be a good guy) but he needs to man up and be stricter with his boundaries on what he wants and what he wants for the kids. She is never going to change and if he realised that, maybe then he would take the kids and move since they don't have a custody set in place. I know the laws change state by state but man this guy truly needs to take Josh's advice and I doubt he's even watched a single video because he always relied on HER to the him what was up with anything. This sweet man _needs to get his sweet, innocent, nice-guy head OUT OF THE CLOUDS!_ I hope he does in the coming months. He is just so down to earth and doesn't get angry ever. But he NEEDS that balance. He needs to speak up, he needs to THINK AHEAD, He needs to stand on his own two feet and stop living for the day like Kyra does. He needs to take some notes from Kyra and start creating the life HE WANTS because he is the one with their children's best interests at heart. I just don't think he even knows what he wants and assumes she is what's best for them, but he makes excuses on her behalf still and if he stopped, he would wake tf up. He needs unbiased outsiders opinions. (Like mine..I don't know them, but I sure can tell who they each are from everything they've shown us!)
Kyra talked Oscar into getting the vascetomy because she said her doctor told her another pregnancy would be dangerous...now it's not?
She runs everything about his life absolutely and when she finds a man who wants to live in say Texas I bet she flies to live there in a heartbeat and he has no say cause she is living her life!
She’s got beef with the couple that he is good friends with in Florida. She doesn’t want him going…. Nor does she want to go there with him/the kids because of that.
And the fact that now he’s become really good friends with Corrina Kopf and AirCool so she knows that he will end up getting involved with David Dobrik and the Vlog Squad and she’s jealous of the fact he will get more famous then her
She used to be besties with Karen too. I often wonder what happened there
Yeah that’s why she said the “I’m the bitch”
@@FunnyFille that’s what I’m talking about. She has beef with Karen. They unfollowed each other on IG a while back and Kyra wouldn’t let Oscar go see them in FL (which is why he’s going to see them so much now). Karen probably realized how crazy Kyra is or called her out on some BS. I’m sure there’s a video somewhere about what happened. All I know is that anyone Kyra is ever friends with, ends up “disowning” her after a while. Kinda telling.
@@FunnyFille same!
Josh, I love your snark! You are always spot on.👏 These people need to grow the f up and start being a parent.
I find it funny that Kyra says "she would never be without her children " she hasn't had any problem turning their lives upside down destroying their family. She is without them every other week? Guess what Kyra, Oscar once you have kids..IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE YOU STOP PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU'RE SINGLE AND YOUNG. THERE'S A REASON TEENAGERS SHOULDN'T BE HAVING BABIES PRETENDING TO PLAY HOUSE. GROW UP AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE MESS YOU BOTH HAVE MADE .TAKE SOME PARENTING CLASSES PUT YOU'RE 4 CHILDREN AHEAD OF WHAT YOU WANT. STOP MAKING THIS ALL ABOUT YOU YOU YOU!!! THE LEVEL OF INTITLEMENT IS OFF THE CHARTS AND DON'T BE GIVING PARENTING ADVICE TO ANYONE KEEP YOUR DYSFUNCTION TO YOURSELF. HAVE YOU GIVEN ANY THOUGHT TO HOW THIS IS EFFECTING YOU'RE CHILDREN BECAUSE IT CERTAINLY DOESN'T LOOK THAT WAY.
She’s crazy saying if he wants to move “you” move that doesn’t mean you take everybody else! Meaning the kids! 🤯 clearly stating that she will not be without her kids so if he moves the kids will stay with her 24/7 and he can fly in to see them
Idk I think that’s fair. If one parent wants to move that’s their choice. They have to make the effort to see their kids. Every one else’s lives should be disrupted because on person wants to move.
Yet she has admitted to taking her kids to the nanny on her week with them
She can’t handle them full time. She’s never had to do it.
He would be better if he moved out to California with his family. If he is emotionally supported he will be a better dad for his kids. God this was Cringy!!!! Great video DCP.
The issue I have the vasectomy is, they made it very clear to us that Ks life would be at risk if she got pregnant again. So O took the responsibility to ensure he could not get the woman he loved pregnant. He thought they where going to be together forever... but K when O got the vasectomy was already thinking of leaving him. You could say K coerceed him into it because he was not aware that his life would be dramatically changing only a few months later where as she was.
And now K is going on about having more children in the future, so did she over dramatise the danger of more pregnancys to O and everyone and got away with it as during Covid partners could not go to post natal of check ups.
this is soo truee!! so sad for Oscar :(
Good job for this video. I wanted you to make it!!! This Kyra is still manipulating Oscar not to leave cause she wants him to stay as a babysitter... Oscar looks disgusted by her and tired of her. He realised what a shit of a person she is...
Oscar had the vasectomy b/c the Dr said it wasn’t safe for her to have another pregnancy and he didn’t agree with continuing to have kids…. He deeply regrets it you can tell in his response…. Then she says u can do ivf the look on his face was like yea thanks to you
I saw the video about her getting a boob job and she talks about if she had another baby she can breast feed smh
Dude is 25 with 4 kids and keeps them by himself every other week. No way my husband could handle it for just ONE entire week alone🤣
Why not?
He’s always been an amazing dad. Also I say the same thing about my husband 🤣 but when it comes down to it I know my husband would do great lol they just rely on us moms too much haha
@@xAdorkable15 yes I think that‘s what it is!
Kira: I never handcuffed him to the bed and made the doctor cut him open
Me: What an oddly specific example🤔
Just say it, he’s basically a damn child. I didn’t know shit at 25!! 30’s have been the best decade thus far! I feel so much more confident in the person I am. I know what I want in life, and I’m on the path to get it. They’re both going to fall in love again, and make new families. It’s inevitable. They have their whole lives ahead of them.
This guy is so whipped it’s CRAZY!!
Hell yeah breakfast for dinner! I love taking the time to make pancakes hash brown casserole eggs sausages grits cut up fruit and fresh juice but not early in the morning so doing it at dinner time is perfect! We probably do breakfast for dinner every two months or so, love it!
My son is also picky when it comes to veggies now so I give him smoothies that have veggies in them. Lol I feel like Kyra gonna use the kids as a clutch to keep him around and control him while she gets to do whatever she wants.
I think his hesitation about the vasectomy is that he’s now realizing that it will be much more difficult for him to find a life partner that doesn’t want to have kids than it will be for her if she had had her tubes tied. Even if he doesn’t want more children, he might would be more open to it for his future wife.
There are plenty of women out there that don’t want kids or at least don’t want biological kids
@@spiralrose not plenty. There’s some.
If I was Oscar I would tell her….. you parent the way you want and i will parent the way I want. On the big stuff we will discuss it but you gave up the right to be my partner.
Kids don't need a bath everyday unless they obviously are dirty or playing outside or sweating. At the very least if they don't have a bath change them into new clothes and have them wash their face/hands. I hope Oscar learns to cook well balanced meals and that Kyra actually takes the time to cook as well. It's fine to have breakfast for dinner once in awhile
How about, trying for the children. I’m sick and tired of these adults changing their whole status, involving the children.
Work it out! Strive for character building within yourself.
Staying with someone you don’t love is much worse for the kids
I hate to say this, but not every relationship, not every marriage can just "work it out." It's just as damaging to see your parents fight constantly, miserable, angry, frustrated, ect when they're together. Nothing good can come out of just "trying for the children."
They are the perfect example of having kids just for the views! How did she know they weren’t right for each other but then had all those kids? If she wasn’t making so much money off her kids would she have had all those kids with him? Probably not. Trash ! 🚮 They (specially kyra) will never understand their privilege and I hope people stop watching her. She needs a reality check!
I think in the Middle East showing the soles of your shoes to someone is an insult. Personally I don’t wanna look at the dog shit on your shoe during the whole video. I think she was making an exaggerated point about not influencing Oscar’s replies…which she still did😂
I think sitting like that while talking about important stuff is disrespectful anywhere in the world. Body language does speak a lot about the person.
She still looks like the person in control, not in a good way
Oscar got a vasectomy thinking he was going to be with kyra basically for the rest of his life, and that’s why he was okay with it. But then kyra threw a curveball at him and broke up with him. They should’ve talked about the hypothetical of them ever not being together before getting the vasectomy IMO
Oh god can’t wait for this!!!!!!!!! Was hoping you’d come this!!
As a woman who has 6 children and has had 4 c-sections.. My husband had a vasectomy. I didn’t want to go through a major surgery, again. A vasectomy is a much simpler procedure. We made the decision together.
That being said, I do believe Kyra is controlling. But I don’t think she forced him into it, and him doing it makes more sense.
I am married to a man like that suppressing his feelings and you have to read his body language in order to kinda guess what he is thinking and we are separated now. I can’t read your mind and when I ask you what you want, need, or feel you won’t ever tell me. It was so frustrating and heart breaking at the same time. Avoidant can’t live with them and can’t live without them.
I surprise but it’s also hard for me to know what I’m feeling and it’s something that happens automatically
Couldn't imagine seeing videos of my parents when they were younger, answering such personal question about something that traumatized me. Yikes. (Thankfully my parents are still together, and internet was not a thing back then 😆)
I think the dealbreaker was Oscar said no more kids. He didn’t want 4. Kyra wanted 6. But I think he knew if he didn’t get a vasectomy, she would end up pregnant… again.
Your commentary has me dying! 😂 we love your honesty.
From the little I know Oscar’s mom and entire family and Kyra’s family lives in California. It seems odd that she literally refuses to move there when they would both have more support if they did? Probably just a control thing.
My ex was like Oscar. He would act all fine to get along with me, until he realized it was for sure over. Then he told everyone how I had hurt him, so I was the only one out of the loop. He did this even in marriage that he would bring up issues or view points in front of people that we had never spoken about. It would catch me off guard, so asking him if what I said was right became a habit. I could not trust a conversation with him. He can’t be authentic in any given moment, because his feelings my change about something he said five minutes ago or five months ago, then I was the one that looked like I was lying. So I think the girl here looks controlling, but I think she’s really trying not to hurt his reputation and is putting the blame on herself (and yes, getting him excited to see other people). I think she doesn’t want to hurt him or the kids, but she is suffering maybe by neglect from him. She has said that lightly before. Anyway, my point is that it’s not always what it seams. Professor Snape (Harry Potter) looks like the bad guy until you understand the whole story….
Oscar is spending much time with Khoa and Keren in Fl. Also with Corinna.....they seem to "really get along" ...lol
I just want to tell her to get her shoes off the freaking table
Think Kyra regrets what she's done as Oscar now goes travelling. She doesn't do anything still goes to Oscars when he has the kids she has no friends so she's lonely .
It's like they're treating the camera as their marriage counselor/mediator to keep things civil. Because they are both absolutely holding back but save these convos for the camera so they dont lose their shit with each other
Oscar started his own youtube channel which is what I think they’re referring to with his own personal income
I think Kyra is still controlling him. That's why he wants to move away. She used to handle everything. He has to to learn parent on his own. Not every one parents the same. As long as they communicate the big things that's what matters.
I don't think Kyra has to read his mind. I think that he's so use to her making all the decisions. It takes awhile for something to get out of that habit of depend on that person. I feel that he's really trying. But she enjoys that fact that he still needs her around for some things.
I Would LOVE if you did a timeline on the Johnny Depp stuff like you did with the Gabby case!
I could not imagine not seeing my children for a whole week. Let alone only getting them half the year. That’s insane.
Edit to add that I’m a mom of 3 boys. My son made this screen name. 😂
Don’t air your dirty laundry in public, sorry but she seems to enjoy being mean and spiteful, he still loves her and it shows !!
You think? To me it looks like he’s so fed up with her lol
Yeah no. He’s done with her lol
Josh if you started putting out 2 videos a day I'd still watch them all 👀 🤣😅
They knew Kyra was gonna get hate, they stopped the comments...she's an awful person.
newest rumor is Kyra had a falling out w her friend Hannah hence no beneath the sheets podcast recently and that kyra potentially is seeing hannah’s ex preston!!
Ohh we love tea!!
Is that the one who they did the podcast episode with??? I could sense they were secretly into each other.
I don't think she is seeing Preston because Preston always looked annoyed by her presence in vlogs. But, yes she is definitely seeing someone else.
@@sidhasilanayak6994 people said it was on her story then she deleted it
@@deonih14 I believe she is dating the tattoo guy in her story of today. A few days ago he was there in the background in one of her" ask a question "on ig
He got the vasectomy because he didn’t want her to get knocked up again and end up having 5 or more kids and then have her leave
I feel bad for Oscar. This was inevitable. One day Kyra will mature to the point she can understand her mental health issues. I feel bad for their innocent children; what a way to start their young lives.
The thing that’s weird about the vasectomy is that Oscar knew that Kyra and their future baby could die if he got her pregnant again. Kyra was told by her doctor that another pregnancy would be extremely high risk and could result in death or an emergency hysterectomy. Kyra said she wouldn’t have more kids but didn’t want her tubes tied because she’s “weird about body stuff”
So I do think a part of the reason why he got a vasectomy is that he knew she might not survive another pregnancy. Kyra has made many “jokes” about maybe getting pregnant with someone else when she and Oscar were still together. Kyra can’t help but joke about things she actually wants to do or is planning to do. She and Oscar separated right around their youngest’s first birthday. That seems to be when Kyra starts getting baby fever again if you look at the age gaps of her kids. (They were open about trying for baby 2 when baby 1 was 8 months old) She loves being pregnant and having a newborn. My theory is that she’ll be pregnant as soon as she can find someone who’s willing. I hope I’m wrong though since she really could kill herself and her unborn child doing that
He totally got the vasectomy after the fourth child and the Dr telling her NOT to have anymore! It was dangerous for her to have more.
I’m not sure why nobody has said this before but there is a video where they discuss that the doctor told her that she should not have any more children because her body will not be able to take it, let alone deliver a healthy baby. I’m not sure exactly what she said in the video but you can obviously see she does not want to listen to the doctors. Oscar got put in a corner because she did not want to get “fixed”. In a way she did kind of force Oscar to get a vasectomy.
As soon as I saw they had uploaded that video, I looked at your channel bc I needed this !
Wow, what a mess of the end of a relationship. Neither are innocent, but she just makes herself look so bad no matter what she says.
You really are on point with all your remarks! I can't say this enough but it is much appreciated to see a YTchannel treating these issues in a fun yet still serious manner. I have noticed that there are many jealous haters trying to be you by tearing you down. I hope you won't let them. You are special in that you seem like normal good people. The one who's channel starts with an A and ends with a C looks to me like someone out of horror movie, cringy and very very creepy. Oh, and Kyra, as usual, throwing shade at her ex by questioning everything he does. I think they will end up lawyering up as so many of you advised them to do from the very beginning.
I'm not a Krya fan at ALL, but I will side with her on the food issue. There is a reason that from GenY & down, almost everyone has severe anxiety/depression. It's the crap the food industry gets away with putting in our food. Most ingredients in packaged & processed foods in the US are illegal in other countries. Hormone imbalances in the younger generations are catastrophic. They're basically filling us with poison. Even our fruits & veggies are covered with toxic pesticides. I don't have kids yet, but when I do, I'm gonna be super diligent with what they eat.
Love your channel, Josh! A new subscriber & I love your perspective! 💞
“Like did she leave him because he had a vasectomy”
“Who says that”
I’m sCREAMINF HAHAAH
The question was “ how is co-parenting going” not how is someone parenting better? Come on Kyra god I can’t stand her