How To Be SILENTLY Attractive - 12 Socially Attractive Habits | STOIC HABITS

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    Welcome to a transformative journey into the essence of silent attraction, where your presence alone can captivate a room! In today's video, we explore 12 powerful Stoic habits that will help you become effortlessly magnetic without uttering a single word. Drawing from ancient wisdom, these habits will empower you to cultivate a presence that resonates deeply with those around you, making you the focal point of attention in the most subtle yet profound ways.
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  • @stillme7535
    @stillme7535 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    1. The power of being you
    2. Style speaks volumes
    3. The art of body language
    4. A scent worth remembering
    5. Manners that mesmerize
    6. Be here, now
    7. A touch of mistery
    8..Cultivate cultural wisdom
    9. Compassion connects
    10. Laughter lights up the room
    11. Self care shows self value
    12. The allure of independence

    • @karendownes-ward4362
      @karendownes-ward4362 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is deep and speaks to me as I embrace Aristótle "Know thy self".

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@karendownes-ward4362 I love that for you. But maybe don't pump up a dude who said some smart stuff then promptly blamed women for all men's woes. lol ;)

    • @Steven-dy8fo
      @Steven-dy8fo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@karendownes-ward4362 absolutely ❤

    • @stoicdeed
      @stoicdeed 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      great comment

    • @juusgee6658
      @juusgee6658 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for summarising the list.

  • @CardiacRn333
    @CardiacRn333 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Whomever you are that created this video, thank you. Genuinely thank you.
    I have no parents and over the past 40 years raised myself the best I knew how. The things you explain in this video I imagine are life lessons and pearls that parents teach their children. I truly appreciate the kindness and wisdom in you and feel grateful to have come across the video. Blessings back to you 💕

  • @StoicWisdom135
    @StoicWisdom135 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    "The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @johnkaufman9075
    @johnkaufman9075 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    One aspect I have learned is, stand tall, shoulders back, head level, & look alive. This hold very true for me as I am now 80, but I still have my 6ft height, plus I go to my gym 5 days a wk for a full 1 hr workout.

  • @stoiczoneusa
    @stoiczoneusa 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Stoicism has made me more grateful and appreciative of the small things in life.

  • @interdimensionalinsightsfo420
    @interdimensionalinsightsfo420 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I just had my 40th bday and it was the most incredible one ever. Thank you for the wisdom and the role you have played in my survival and success.

  • @germainesanders768
    @germainesanders768 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I USE TO USE MY STYLE TO IMPRESS OTHERS. NOW I USE MY STYLE TO IMPRESS UPON OTHERS!!

  • @nebra77t92
    @nebra77t92 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I needed this not for just today but for life

  • @YOURRACHINAPRIL
    @YOURRACHINAPRIL 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's about finding comfort in your own skin.

  • @B.B-Ghost
    @B.B-Ghost 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    These stoic habits i live by.. I am absolutely definitely stoic, proud and hugely attracted to myself! Beautiful principles, but it comes with a price: envious people around me!

  • @debbiecarmona1930
    @debbiecarmona1930 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    After being discarded on Valentine's day by my Narc...being in pain feeling suicidal feeling like an empty shell...at the age of 61 I dont know who i am and what my purpose in life is....feeling lost

    • @jillshaw4392
      @jillshaw4392 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      So sorry for your pain: please remember that this will pass. Maybe not today or tomorrow yet it’s a wonderful opportunity to discover you. Allow yourself some curiosity. Practice the lessons of stoicism. And know that lots of women have been in your same situation and came out the other side stronger and more confident. Please don’t jump into dating give yourself a year or more. I’ve been there you will be more than good. You be you

    • @debbiecarmona1930
      @debbiecarmona1930 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@meilee4017 I know it will take time I was with him for 13 years....and I'm still broken hearted

    • @candiscole3183
      @candiscole3183 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It will pass I was dump on valentines and my birthday all in one still hurting I get stronger every day sometimes I hurt and cry sometimes I’m strong 💪🏾 I’m still on an emotional roller coaster 🎢 lol don’t give up love 💕 is coming ❤31/2 years he told me we done Jehovah got a better man coming to me just for me ❤

    • @carolowens1910
      @carolowens1910 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      You have a purpose, just have to tap into it. Know your worth

    • @user-xf4eu3ji2o
      @user-xf4eu3ji2o หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I have also recently learned a couple of things one, if someone no longer wants to be in your life, let them go you will soon find out that they did you a very big favor. Focus on you you’re not lost you may have now just been found. Keep your head up start your day with a smile be thankful take care of you, none of us need the toxic venom that others inject in us age is just a number. In fact, you are well seasoned. You are important take care of yourself.

  • @4thsho
    @4thsho 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video only had a few seconds to grab my attention..... but then I end up watching the whole thing

  • @johnfriel-uj2zs
    @johnfriel-uj2zs หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Good To Be A Quiete Man. The Stoic Way. Thank You Stoic Teacher.😊

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol, stop wanting to be silent if you don't want to be, don't listen to strangers. the internet isn't real life. making yourself small and quiet isn't natural unless that is your personality. the person running this channel is none of these things as that is an AI voice. ask to see a selfie and his real voice and pictures of his wife and family. or literally anything to prove he is LOVING LIFE

    • @sylaguirre2907
      @sylaguirre2907 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sylaguirre2907 i lol'ed too at the blind worship. stoic means no fun. lol

    • @Tad-xr5io
      @Tad-xr5io หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Mx.KARLEYshut up!

  • @vadenhealthcare9859
    @vadenhealthcare9859 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Style speaks volumes.

  • @sylaguirre2907
    @sylaguirre2907 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i do dress for myself i feel happy with the clothes i wear.

    • @wendylee7242
      @wendylee7242 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I like to feel comfortable,and smell good,when I take myself on a date.... finally I dress for me....

  • @doloresdelacruz1131
    @doloresdelacruz1131 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing the self improvements inputs

  • @GVM27
    @GVM27 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Great content. The term 'interface' comes to mind when I ponder this Stoic teaching. We interface with other people in a reflective, assertive manner, all modulated by our inner virtual reality, so our existence is mostly an energy dance. Stoicism has provided me practical tools conducive to me dancing with purpose and even grace.

    • @RealStoicJournal
      @RealStoicJournal  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I love the way you describe life as an "energy dance," influenced by Stoic principles. It's fantastic to hear that Stoicism has equipped you with such meaningful tools for navigating life with purpose and grace. Keep dancing your unique dance!

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      are you having fun when you dance? are you having the time of your life or are you more concerned with appearing stoic? I couldn't care less how I come off when I dance. Just curios. Being stoic ain't all that if it doesn't bring you incredible joy. that's the point of dance

    • @GVM27
      @GVM27 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mx.KARLEY Yes... and your question is interesting. Within this format, I desire to appear Stoic. Not to be ignorant but; you really could care less how you come off when you dance, really? I'm curious too. My joy is incredible to me, I guess...can you experience it? Perhaps, in a frequency, of sorts, when I dance.

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@GVM27 What the fuck was that? Are you happy 99% of your day like me?

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GVM27 do you fuck around with your speech like this in real life? if so, you are annoying as fuck. I wouldn't go anywhere near you as you appear to have ulterior motives, dancing around like I'm meat. CREEEEEEEEEPY VIBES NOT DANCY VIBES

  • @Elliott_R
    @Elliott_R 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    9:11 A genuine smile can disarm the most guarded heart, while sincere eye contact can forge a connection that feels as deep as any conversation.🤗

  • @gordonbombay676
    @gordonbombay676 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Marcus Areolas and Epictitties!

  • @lassoingdraco
    @lassoingdraco หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    For 66 years, I have felt vulnerable around people because I lack these 12 socially attractive habits and I'm not sure I want to develop these traits. People's unkind words, criticisms, judgements, gossip of others, sarcasms, etc., make me feel like retreating back to my natural introverted and reclusive life "style". Home is my refuge. It's where I can be alone and be my true self. It's where I don't have to feel unworthy or be tempted to compare myself with others.
    Why should I be concerned about people's opinions of me when I don't intend to "fit in" or ask for their approval or experience their condescension, i.e., a former co-worker told me, out of the blue and in all earnestness, that the reason she thought I was unattractive is because of my soft facial features--I lacked a chiseled face or sharp cheek bones. I didn't respond to her and went back to focusing on work (so at least I succeeded at silence and stillness). What was I supposed to do about her comment? Should I get a facelift? Should I wear a paper bag over my head and be like the unknown comic? I was born this way.
    Has anyone heard, "Beware of the silent types because they tend to be passive aggressive"? I was labeled that because I didn't have anything to say or have the desire to add to the gossip going on around me. I feel happiest when I avoid involvement with people. I can observe them safely from a distance.

  • @huskysc7415
    @huskysc7415 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Outstanding!

  • @yolanda95
    @yolanda95 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good content thank you!

  • @tunglam5113
    @tunglam5113 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    thanks for sharing

  • @leopemberton5439
    @leopemberton5439 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you💚✌️🙏🏼🧘‍♂️🌱

  • @GagaCRoy00
    @GagaCRoy00 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this video

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      did u want to be stoic before or did this video make you want to be. if so, please know none of this applies to me and I am hot as hell and the life of the party. my big personality is a boon. making yourself small is the goal of all men. they want you to be attractive and SILENT

  • @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776
    @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you!

  • @debbiecarmona1930
    @debbiecarmona1930 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I needed to hear this...

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      u didn't. stop trying to please these limited men. you need to be the BEST version of you. not some unattainable ideal someone describes they like. i am the life of every party. the internet is NOT REAL LIFE in any way. big personalities need to be big!

  • @sandycecilio5534
    @sandycecilio5534 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you...

  • @stevetaylor6488
    @stevetaylor6488 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic video - thank you for sharing as ever.

  • @rsvitangcol
    @rsvitangcol หลายเดือนก่อน

    stoic charms really works..♥️

  • @jamarlblackett7663
    @jamarlblackett7663 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful

  • @StoicWisdomChannel01
    @StoicWisdomChannel01 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤Through this we can see the importance of body language as a form of non-verbal communication, it can convey genuine emotions and intentions.

  • @carolowens1910
    @carolowens1910 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awesome

  • @villabuck6391
    @villabuck6391 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Prayers ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @andrewwong803
    @andrewwong803 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your philosophy provides the blueprint for your thoughts and experiences.

  • @PinkPooch
    @PinkPooch 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve always been stoic and have a lot of real qualities that make people think

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We special ❤🎉

  • @Listen_To_Think
    @Listen_To_Think 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great!

  • @dariadaria1183
    @dariadaria1183 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing Stoic wisdom I AM GREATFULL FOR YOU❤

  • @ImagineThat-zu2sg
    @ImagineThat-zu2sg หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Number 1 is how I am. If I disagree I disagree. People do not like that at all. I've even got my own words turned on me with ridicule. SMH. I don't talk to any of them anymore.

  • @alexrichards110
    @alexrichards110 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great

  • @StoicPower101
    @StoicPower101 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Epictetus - "If you wish to be good, first believe that you are bad."

  • @marknewman1537
    @marknewman1537 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All of the questions are doing human s. Good.

  • @EveryoneLovesPi
    @EveryoneLovesPi 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is to act as you choose to, not react to external influences. Knowing you will make the right choice when the time comes.

  • @user-kl1sp9yw6r
    @user-kl1sp9yw6r หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All your talks are beyond faces and time. Touching the Soul. Your pictures are only men. Could you add the beautiful women from antique Grèce. Thank you.

  • @user-tc8fw1sm5z
    @user-tc8fw1sm5z หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    But if you don't believe in being the focal point everywhere you go then how can you affect everyone if you don't have enough confidence in yourself, confidence is everything and realizing it puts you in front of everyone who sees you everywhere all the time

    • @stevetaylor6488
      @stevetaylor6488 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is a small element of 'fake it until you make it' I guess but ultimately its for you to take confidence firstly for making it through life thus far and to take small wins along the way. Also taking a step back during mindfulness and being in the moment where you realise "I'm grateful for the things i have rather than angry or disappointed with the things I don't have..at this moment"

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      correct. the person running this account wants this in others but is a fraud. that is an AI voice. lol

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stevetaylor6488 good luck doing this all the time it's exhausting. don't listen to accounts that use AI voices. look to follow those who practice what they preach

  • @raffaelesuppa4255
    @raffaelesuppa4255 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My Friends.....who are you? Where can I Venerate you? You're Sooo AMAZING and ATTRACTIVE!

  • @ofpau-pau8608
    @ofpau-pau8608 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #12 ❤

  • @latrainehollins6763
    @latrainehollins6763 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes!.

  • @marilynvillanueva7333
    @marilynvillanueva7333 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This topic resonate in my personal character or personal Life . I really appreciate It

  • @JimmiHidalgo-Lopez
    @JimmiHidalgo-Lopez หลายเดือนก่อน

    The inner strength of stoick charm ❤. My God does it work? Hell yes. Yes it focking works. Introspections. Authenticity . Style for stylers.

    • @eileenstasczak6606
      @eileenstasczak6606 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stoic. Not stoick.

    • @JimmiHidalgo-Lopez
      @JimmiHidalgo-Lopez หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cheers

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      are you having fun? did u know this is an AI voice?

    • @JimmiHidalgo-Lopez
      @JimmiHidalgo-Lopez หลายเดือนก่อน

      Of course. It is still very impactable

  • @user-sg7eq2iz6y
    @user-sg7eq2iz6y หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonder full video think you ❤🙏

  • @theconvos
    @theconvos หลายเดือนก่อน

    Name of the background music @ 7:50?

  • @JohnthonyAcosta-fq2bt
    @JohnthonyAcosta-fq2bt หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am that person I known my self

  • @Bartekziomal546
    @Bartekziomal546 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @Chamseibnmasood
    @Chamseibnmasood 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice video but music in the background is distracting

  • @charmaineandrews5435
    @charmaineandrews5435 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @YOURRACHINAPRIL
    @YOURRACHINAPRIL 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️‍🔥

  • @debbiecarmona1930
    @debbiecarmona1930 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    0:20

  • @rosanajackson4668
    @rosanajackson4668 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    To the suthor: It is I, not this is me.

    • @iloveyouself2263
      @iloveyouself2263 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is from Eckhart Tolle teaching

  • @LitiyuedemyuChisaudembyutoe
    @LitiyuedemyuChisaudembyutoe วันที่ผ่านมา

    I dont know who i am and what my purpose in life is....feeling lost

  • @THT01
    @THT01 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am not a sheep 🐑.

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      good. this account uses AI, that ain't his voice

  • @paulmarshall-hq6tg
    @paulmarshall-hq6tg 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ''Its an old factory fingerprint ''' ..... Know what I mean...
    /
    /

  • @JasonWong-ph9ig
    @JasonWong-ph9ig หลายเดือนก่อน

    😶‍🌫️

  • @wildbirdbuffetfrenzy4161
    @wildbirdbuffetfrenzy4161 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Music maybe sir but never a smell for me... Sorry

  • @c.j.valentine3027
    @c.j.valentine3027 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Horrible, horrible ads mixed in with this extraordinary video! So sexually explicit. What is wrong with us????

  • @joanerhabor3233
    @joanerhabor3233 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m not sure what it is you’re teaching that your video has to be 40 minutes. The lengths are a big turn off

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      so is the AI voice

  • @SJGBII55
    @SJGBII55 4 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    This says the same things over and over

  • @jwilliams1642
    @jwilliams1642 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If I wasn’t me I’d off myself. Thank God.

  • @CaraVinh
    @CaraVinh หลายเดือนก่อน

    The into is too long

  • @ronaldscherer2815
    @ronaldscherer2815 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤wise

  • @JanAnsari-nw3df
    @JanAnsari-nw3df หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alt of compassion, happiness, peacefulness and love 🤍❤️💚🪷

  • @ottoludwiglv702
    @ottoludwiglv702 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The day I wear perfume to impress people is the day give up.
    My wife always loved my god given pheromones, which incidentally
    are supposed attract the opposite sex, before big cosmetic company's
    brainwashed people into thinking the're embarrassing. I hate perfume and it makes me sneeze on either sex. As long as I am clean I'll take my own scent thank you.
    This advice just doesn't seem to adhere to the topic.

    • @Mx.KARLEY
      @Mx.KARLEY หลายเดือนก่อน

      this person is a fraud. AI voice. they are trying to control others with their opinions.

  • @tapkuol2009
    @tapkuol2009 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bestminds

  • @frontlinecars20yroldfinds78
    @frontlinecars20yroldfinds78 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Of course be you* 💯 TH-cam Frontlinecars

  • @namutebifatuma6357
    @namutebifatuma6357 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @daphneskipper8627
    @daphneskipper8627 หลายเดือนก่อน