How To Be SILENTLY Attractive - 12 Socially Attractive Habits | STOIC HABITS
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Welcome to a transformative journey into the essence of silent attraction, where your presence alone can captivate a room! In today's video, we explore 12 powerful Stoic habits that will help you become effortlessly magnetic without uttering a single word. Drawing from ancient wisdom, these habits will empower you to cultivate a presence that resonates deeply with those around you, making you the focal point of attention in the most subtle yet profound ways.
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1. The power of being you
2. Style speaks volumes
3. The art of body language
4. A scent worth remembering
5. Manners that mesmerize
6. Be here, now
7. A touch of mistery
8..Cultivate cultural wisdom
9. Compassion connects
10. Laughter lights up the room
11. Self care shows self value
12. The allure of independence
This is deep and speaks to me as I embrace Aristótle "Know thy self".
@@karendownes-ward4362 I love that for you. But maybe don't pump up a dude who said some smart stuff then promptly blamed women for all men's woes. lol ;)
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great comment
Thank you for summarising the list.
My dad sent me this so we could talk about it and the conversation started with “you’ll always be my little girl but as the oldest you must master certain skill” we talk for hours. I’m am so grateful I get to have him as my dad.
Not trying to be a downer, please note that everything i say is without any emotional pain these days:
Im thankful for your dead aswell. Mine took the rope before i even got to know him.
Please treasure your dead on my behalf aswell
"The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury." - Marcus Aurelius
One aspect I have learned is, stand tall, shoulders back, head level, & look alive. This hold very true for me as I am now 80, but I still have my 6ft height, plus I go to my gym 5 days a wk for a full 1 hr workout.
I USE TO USE MY STYLE TO IMPRESS OTHERS. NOW I USE MY STYLE TO IMPRESS UPON OTHERS!!
Whomever you are that created this video, thank you. Genuinely thank you.
I have no parents and over the past 40 years raised myself the best I knew how. The things you explain in this video I imagine are life lessons and pearls that parents teach their children. I truly appreciate the kindness and wisdom in you and feel grateful to have come across the video. Blessings back to you 💕
I was fortunate enough to grow up with a great mother and the most valuable lessons she taught me ALL my life are:
1) Honesty. I do lie occasionally, but only if it protects others. An example was when i almost snitched on someone by accident and was asked for a name, but said i didnt remember and just mentioned that we should do something that we then didnt. (Followed by "its my bad, i shouldve insisted we did it")
2) Kindness.
Treat EVERYBODY with kindness until they give you multiple reasons not to. Sometimes people give you reasons to be mean by accident. Remain calm and put yourself in their shoes.
But if people keep being rude, quit your kindness.
3) Respect.
Similar to kindness, everybody has a story to tell, a burden to share and achievements to be proud of.
Treat everyone with respect, untill they prove (again, multiple times) that they arent worth the respect.
One last thing: apply all of these to yourself aswell. Love yourself, try and respect yourself, be kind to yourself.
And if you cant do that wholeheartedly, find reasons to do so. Think hard about it or create a new reason.
Stoicism has made me more grateful and appreciative of the small things in life.
I just had my 40th bday and it was the most incredible one ever. Thank you for the wisdom and the role you have played in my survival and success.
About to hit 40 myself. I want to say the same thing then
For 66 years, I have felt vulnerable around people because I lack these 12 socially attractive habits and I'm not sure I want to develop these traits. People's unkind words, criticisms, judgements, gossip of others, sarcasms, etc., make me feel like retreating back to my natural introverted and reclusive life "style". Home is my refuge. It's where I can be alone and be my true self. It's where I don't have to feel unworthy or be tempted to compare myself with others.
Why should I be concerned about people's opinions of me when I don't intend to "fit in" or ask for their approval or experience their condescension, i.e., a former co-worker told me, out of the blue and in all earnestness, that the reason she thought I was unattractive is because of my soft facial features--I lacked a chiseled face or sharp cheek bones. I didn't respond to her and went back to focusing on work (so at least I succeeded at silence and stillness). What was I supposed to do about her comment? Should I get a facelift? Should I wear a paper bag over my head and be like the unknown comic? I was born this way.
Has anyone heard, "Beware of the silent types because they tend to be passive aggressive"? I was labeled that because I didn't have anything to say or have the desire to add to the gossip going on around me. I feel happiest when I avoid involvement with people. I can observe them safely from a distance.
"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one."
After being discarded on Valentine's day by my Narc...being in pain feeling suicidal feeling like an empty shell...at the age of 61 I dont know who i am and what my purpose in life is....feeling lost
So sorry for your pain: please remember that this will pass. Maybe not today or tomorrow yet it’s a wonderful opportunity to discover you. Allow yourself some curiosity. Practice the lessons of stoicism. And know that lots of women have been in your same situation and came out the other side stronger and more confident. Please don’t jump into dating give yourself a year or more. I’ve been there you will be more than good. You be you
@@meilee4017 I know it will take time I was with him for 13 years....and I'm still broken hearted
It will pass I was dump on valentines and my birthday all in one still hurting I get stronger every day sometimes I hurt and cry sometimes I’m strong 💪🏾 I’m still on an emotional roller coaster 🎢 lol don’t give up love 💕 is coming ❤31/2 years he told me we done Jehovah got a better man coming to me just for me ❤
You have a purpose, just have to tap into it. Know your worth
I have also recently learned a couple of things one, if someone no longer wants to be in your life, let them go you will soon find out that they did you a very big favor. Focus on you you’re not lost you may have now just been found. Keep your head up start your day with a smile be thankful take care of you, none of us need the toxic venom that others inject in us age is just a number. In fact, you are well seasoned. You are important take care of yourself.
Good To Be A Quiete Man. The Stoic Way. Thank You Stoic Teacher.😊
lol, stop wanting to be silent if you don't want to be, don't listen to strangers. the internet isn't real life. making yourself small and quiet isn't natural unless that is your personality. the person running this channel is none of these things as that is an AI voice. ask to see a selfie and his real voice and pictures of his wife and family. or literally anything to prove he is LOVING LIFE
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@@sylaguirre2907 i lol'ed too at the blind worship. stoic means no fun. lol
@@Mx.KARLEYshut up!
Great content. The term 'interface' comes to mind when I ponder this Stoic teaching. We interface with other people in a reflective, assertive manner, all modulated by our inner virtual reality, so our existence is mostly an energy dance. Stoicism has provided me practical tools conducive to me dancing with purpose and even grace.
I love the way you describe life as an "energy dance," influenced by Stoic principles. It's fantastic to hear that Stoicism has equipped you with such meaningful tools for navigating life with purpose and grace. Keep dancing your unique dance!
are you having fun when you dance? are you having the time of your life or are you more concerned with appearing stoic? I couldn't care less how I come off when I dance. Just curios. Being stoic ain't all that if it doesn't bring you incredible joy. that's the point of dance
@@Mx.KARLEY Yes... and your question is interesting. Within this format, I desire to appear Stoic. Not to be ignorant but; you really could care less how you come off when you dance, really? I'm curious too. My joy is incredible to me, I guess...can you experience it? Perhaps, in a frequency, of sorts, when I dance.
@@GVM27 What the fuck was that? Are you happy 99% of your day like me?
@@GVM27 do you fuck around with your speech like this in real life? if so, you are annoying as fuck. I wouldn't go anywhere near you as you appear to have ulterior motives, dancing around like I'm meat. CREEEEEEEEEPY VIBES NOT DANCY VIBES
Thank you for sharing the self improvements inputs
I needed this not for just today but for life
Another exceptional video. Thank you for sharing.
Outstanding!
Thank you Marcus Areolas and Epictitties!
This video only had a few seconds to grab my attention..... but then I end up watching the whole thing
thanks for sharing
Good content thank you!
I needed to hear this...
u didn't. stop trying to please these limited men. you need to be the BEST version of you. not some unattainable ideal someone describes they like. i am the life of every party. the internet is NOT REAL LIFE in any way. big personalities need to be big!
Thank you for this video
did u want to be stoic before or did this video make you want to be. if so, please know none of this applies to me and I am hot as hell and the life of the party. my big personality is a boon. making yourself small is the goal of all men. they want you to be attractive and SILENT
These stoic habits i live by.. I am absolutely definitely stoic, proud and hugely attracted to myself! Beautiful principles, but it comes with a price: envious people around me!
Maybe because you’re giving out self righteous attitude, vs simple confidence… 🤦♀️
@@annoverloon9140 NO.. that’s your opinion and your own projections! If you can’t be this way like me, it’s absolutely ok. We all can’t be the best, there is always a loser somewhere. Accept your position or be stoic. No one can do it for you. 🙌
i do dress for myself i feel happy with the clothes i wear.
I like to feel comfortable,and smell good,when I take myself on a date.... finally I dress for me....
❤Through this we can see the importance of body language as a form of non-verbal communication, it can convey genuine emotions and intentions.
stoic charms really works..♥️
Number 1 is how I am. If I disagree I disagree. People do not like that at all. I've even got my own words turned on me with ridicule. SMH. I don't talk to any of them anymore.
It's about finding comfort in your own skin.
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Fantastic video - thank you for sharing as ever.
Awesome
Your philosophy provides the blueprint for your thoughts and experiences.
Thank you for your support!
Wonderful
Style speaks volumes.
Thank you...
Excellent
9:11 A genuine smile can disarm the most guarded heart, while sincere eye contact can forge a connection that feels as deep as any conversation.🤗
I’ve always been stoic and have a lot of real qualities that make people think
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Thank you for sharing Stoic wisdom I AM GREATFULL FOR YOU❤
All of the questions are doing human s. Good.
It is to act as you choose to, not react to external influences. Knowing you will make the right choice when the time comes.
The inner strength of stoick charm ❤. My God does it work? Hell yes. Yes it focking works. Introspections. Authenticity . Style for stylers.
Stoic. Not stoick.
Cheers
are you having fun? did u know this is an AI voice?
Of course. It is still very impactable
Epictetus - "If you wish to be good, first believe that you are bad."
My Friends.....who are you? Where can I Venerate you? You're Sooo AMAZING and ATTRACTIVE!
All your talks are beyond faces and time. Touching the Soul. Your pictures are only men. Could you add the beautiful women from antique Grèce. Thank you.
But if you don't believe in being the focal point everywhere you go then how can you affect everyone if you don't have enough confidence in yourself, confidence is everything and realizing it puts you in front of everyone who sees you everywhere all the time
There is a small element of 'fake it until you make it' I guess but ultimately its for you to take confidence firstly for making it through life thus far and to take small wins along the way. Also taking a step back during mindfulness and being in the moment where you realise "I'm grateful for the things i have rather than angry or disappointed with the things I don't have..at this moment"
correct. the person running this account wants this in others but is a fraud. that is an AI voice. lol
@@stevetaylor6488 good luck doing this all the time it's exhausting. don't listen to accounts that use AI voices. look to follow those who practice what they preach
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Name of the background music @ 7:50?
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To the suthor: It is I, not this is me.
This is from Eckhart Tolle teaching
Nice video but music in the background is distracting
I dont know who i am and what my purpose in life is....feeling lost
This topic resonate in my personal character or personal Life . I really appreciate It
I am not a sheep 🐑.
good. this account uses AI, that ain't his voice
''Its an old factory fingerprint ''' ..... Know what I mean...
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Music maybe sir but never a smell for me... Sorry
Horrible, horrible ads mixed in with this extraordinary video! So sexually explicit. What is wrong with us????
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Why is away in a manger playing subliminally in the background. Can u be original with this information? Non bias?
If I wasn’t me I’d off myself. Thank God.
I’m not sure what it is you’re teaching that your video has to be 40 minutes. The lengths are a big turn off
so is the AI voice
The into is too long
This says the same things over and over
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Alt of compassion, happiness, peacefulness and love 🤍❤️💚🪷
The day I wear perfume to impress people is the day give up.
My wife always loved my god given pheromones, which incidentally
are supposed attract the opposite sex, before big cosmetic company's
brainwashed people into thinking the're embarrassing. I hate perfume and it makes me sneeze on either sex. As long as I am clean I'll take my own scent thank you.
This advice just doesn't seem to adhere to the topic.
this person is a fraud. AI voice. they are trying to control others with their opinions.
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You don’t care what anyone thinks because you’re so tough. But this will make you attractive. Bullshit
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