@marleneperry6972 and that is on her? You know 20 years old who was approached by old guy? She is young she have time to grow up. Blaming her for being naive and childish only shows why this predator approached her.
Omg, this guy is ridiculous. He keeps defending his actions when everyone else is telling him he is AH. As someone who is pregnant now, yes, I expect my husband to come to all or most of my appointments.
"i married her when she got pregnant when other men would run away" is he expecting us to be proud of him for doing the right basic thing? This man thinks himself the pinnacle of masculinity for taking responsibility as if he didn't get her pregnant.
Okay. I one hundred percent believe that the guy in the first story forced that poor girl to delete her reddit. That final update was peak "Everyone said I was an asshole, but look at how good I am really." at best. AT BEST. First one skipped town for a gorram reason. That first post the wife made opened her eyes, and I bet the super manipulative one was what made her leave. That guy is something else. I've been on the receiving end of a narc doing damage control. *gestures to the other updates*. People in his real life saw those posts. That was the damage he was controlling. That performative decency is so fucking blatant. He deserves to be alone.
So many red flags.... Like is he cheap or poor? 8 years and he switches up soon at you get pregnant and married. I think she was groomed tbh because where is her voice anything he says goes...
@@valoriemurray2688 not every relationship with an age gap is grooming (the one in the video is) and statements like yours make it easier to actual groomers to get away with it. You can't just arbitrarily label things you personally find objectionable as being the same as a serious crime.
@MissBoxxx grooming can happen to same age relationships. Abusers groom people, pedophiles groom adults to allow them to get access to the children. It's not a mislabel if that's the actions the person is doing.
@@valoriemurray2688at 20 is where I draw the line since they’re not a teen but yes 20 years old she was definitely gullible and dumb with the attention he was giving her , why she (and a lot more women in her shoes) didn’t listen to the voice we all have that says “ewww old (wo)man get away” is crazy 🤣
Lol like girl get a clue. Anybody that angry over a dead flower isn’t even worth it. Women need to learn to leave at the first sign of aggression. It never gets better.
@@HeoBaby24👋I'll answer this one...because women rarely listen to advice and believe they can change him therefore they end up in the same situation as before.
S1: Someone like this shouldn't have a partner much less a child. He thought doing the bare minimum of marrying her was enough and she was some attention hungry, toxic partner for just wanting love, affection, and support. I really hope this guy actually bonded with Ella instead of acting like this with her too. Also the update is supposed to be so cute, but this is how narcissists/toxic people work. They'll be super supportive and love bomb to reel their victims back in, then stop the act after a while. I hope she doesn't move back in and maybe Ella can live with his ex again.
Story 1, I read the original reddit and everyone tired scolding the husband but he's so dense and adamant in his opinion. I wonder what happen in real life that manage to knock him sober or online strangers in reddit did manage to wake him up😮
Has no one noticed, he was 33 when he got with her, she was 20. I dated a 29 year old at 19 and got completely taken advantage of by that guy and the next who was younger by a year or two after I turned 20.. not a huge gap, he was graduated, and we went to school together. Not saying all age gaps are bad, but at the age of 19/20 you're still maturing and learning. I was warned not to date the 29 year old... Fun part, he's in his 40s now, almost 50, knocked up and 18 year old a few years back. (Like... Five at most. And I'm 37 now so he was in his late 40s then)
Throughout my whole pregnancy my now husband missed one appointment because he accidently missed planned (which was also my fault because I told he could go on his trip, forgetting the appointment lol). He never made that mistake again during the pregnancy and our daughter's appointments. This is literally just the bare minimum to be there (if able)
He is absolutely terrible. I hope she leaves him. Honestly- because i dont trust him or his intentions to "change" He spent so long insulting her and anyone who defended her, and NOW he wants to fix it? Nah. I dont buy it.
Story 2: This BF will end up abusing OP, leave him and don't look back. If the guy is destroying OP's property while saying it's because she disrespected him, he will abuse her for trivial reasons. Do not trust him, he's shown that he is incapable of controlling his temper. He says he's afraid of losing OP, he might go as far as killing OP rather than letting her go. She gave him a second chance and he pulled this bull again with the beach incident, he wasted no time. That type of person will kill OP if she takes him back. Dude doesn't see women as people he see them as property. A guy who gets violent and lashes out because he felt disrespected is a dangerous person.
OP , plzzzz stay with your parents. That man wanted help with HIS kid . He doesn't love or like you , he treated you like a balloon head , with no air . The way he treated her , i think he hates her & resented the fact that he HAD to marry her , to make a home for HIS kid . # Ma'am run 🏃♀️ . Any man who said those hateful words is plain evil 😈 & a major manipulator . # run , run , run . Let him hire a nanny . 😢 She's naive to think he will keep helping her with a new apartment 🙄 😒. Once he gets mad , she will be homeless. Ladies, PLZZZZZ learn , leave , never return 😢.
Story 2: LEAVE!!!! 1) He HIT you. 2) He called you a ATTENTION WHORE. 3) He broke your phone. His being aggressive with you for wearing a bikini is a RED FLAG. He is a SOON TO BE ABUSER. There is no excuse . His crying in your arms means he is gaslighting you. If someone did this to friend of yours , would you tell her to stay? Stop trying to talk to him . Why are you surprised he broke your computer when he punched a wall ? He is dangerous. Leave.
Op1 is the a hole just for marrying him when he showed up like that and sprung on you that his daughter was moving in. I would have gone right back to the courthouse and annulled that marriage. But seriously he is an ass and she needs to leave him bc he sounds down right abusive!
How else is she going to show how evil he is, and how how much of a victim she is, right from the beginning? Oh, then she wrote from his point of view, making him look even worse?
He married her , b/c he needed a free nanny for HIS kid . He didn't ask her , b/c he knew she was waiting for her OWN child & wouldn't want added responsibility. He took her choice away & told her to " be quite & deal with it ." Wow , most of us would've 🏃♂️ back upstairs to tell them to hit # CANCEL marriage certificate . 😢
Mine worked FT and OT and still made every single appt. If one overlapped a meeting he would ask if I could reschedule the appt so he could be there. WOMEN, choose your husband wisely!
Did anyone get an answer as to why the Husband from Story 1 decided to get married in dirty clothes? That's honestly the first thing that should have rung out.
hey so if you find yourself trying to justify why your partner "shouldn't" need any help or "should" just suck it up, you're TA. That's your person, you owe them compassion and to meet them where they are. What a garbage dude.
"I married her! Most men walk away!" And? Look, its good that you didn't abandon your kids, and you do deserve to be commended for that... Its also the bare minimum you can do for your wife. Its step one, you need to do a LOT more to be a good husband
ALSO, spouses should put the other person first. That way, everyone is treated well and loved. Children see that parents are a tight, unshakable unit and feel security and ultimately peace from that and know that their family is a safe place with solid ground. Then they emulate this loving, supportive behavior in their own marriages.
Story one's final update sounds so fake, like something out of a Hallmark movie. She definitely didn't take him back, and he spinning this perfect picture of forgiveness and repentance to cover up the fact that Reddit was right.
5:19 And you don’t act like You aren’t leaving your wife Your daughter didn’t need to go with you and you didn’t need to leave Your litteraly Leaving your wife who’s pregnant with your Kid
5:19 You act like you aren’t leaving your wife You don’t have to take your daughter on that trip you aren’t leaving her your leaving your wife Who is pregnant with your Kid don’t be a dead beat dad
Honestly hate a lot of the comments on Reddit, Most people seems like all of them are doomed and lost hope on humanity, probablt Why they have the time to stay on Reddit and only spread negative shit, in the first story we can tell the husband as been an asshole but the things people were saying about him were incredibly dark. Hope that all of them are the Perfect people they try to teach others to be and that they Never have been assholes in their life. Dude was realising his mistakes and how much of an asshole he has been and was taking the steps to better himself, yes people hope e the worst for him. Even of it’s a Fake story of of the updates aren’t real what do you get from putting down people. I get going against people that continue with toxic trait and at the first answers to comments I almost agreed with people, but when they started barating him even in the other updates or telling him he deserves to die, to have a miscarriege and that he could Never change I Honestly got infuriate. That’s why a lot of people keep staying being asshole, the whole world keeps on telling them this type of shit. Some people can’t change, some people can. Don’t use your life examples as a rule siete to Judge everyone in the world, because once someone does the same thing and their sets of rules are different you can’t say that it was unwarranted and that they shouldn’t do that
@DylanBotta his last update sounds love bombing. With his lying, belittling behavior doesn't just go away. When he decides to do right by her. Because she actually stood up for herself.
@@avaphynx could be but we don’t have the whole context since we aren’t present, what I saw from what he was saying is that he was starting taking the steps by starting therapy, listening to what she wanted and trying to enact change and give her space. Sometime we think that directly love bombing is a tactic to manipulate but sometimes I think it’s just trying to overcompensate from the past.
@@avaphynx also sorry don’t wanna spam you but most of what got me upset is how for people on Reddit it seems that everything is just black and white and there’s no room for gray and change. I get that sometimes people are shitty but demonizing people even after they admit their fault and try to change. Plus how do they know the person that week to say all those terrible things from some posts and comments. As i said in my first comment he was being an asshole and was agreeing with the people at the beginning, is just the continous putting down of people. Plus sometimes people need rude awakenings to actually start change, like someone wouldnt enact drastic change in order to try to mend things with someone they love or just to right the wrongs that they did even if it doesn’t get the relationship back
YOU HAVE ONE CHANCE TO PROVE EVERY ONE AND THE ONE ABOVE US ALL THAT YOU CAN FIX THIS .CHANGE IS HARD ESPECIALY WHEN YOUV NOT SEEN YOUR PROBLEM TILL.NOW ..😳OTHERS ARE RT ABOUT YOU WONT CHANGE ITS THE SAME STORY BEEN GOING ON FOR CENTURES ..GOOD LUCK😉👎
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How the fuck did that dude type all the bs and thought he was right??? How is he so obnoxious
Because a lot of these stories are made up.
Dude tried to weaponize his daughter saying his daughter missed her. And him lying lol i hope she stays away from him.
OP."husband"
"She behave like child I want her to behave like adult" this is why he went in to "relationship" with a 20 year old as 33 old man
Hm, tho' she 20, she does sound childish. He, is not a good fit for her.... and now there is a baby between them now...🤦
@@marleneperry6972 There is nothing childish about her from her OR his description. HE, on the other hand...
@@shells500tutubo sorry but she does write childish. Her actions also seem rather... young, not having experience in life.
@marleneperry6972 and that is on her? You know 20 years old who was approached by old guy? She is young she have time to grow up. Blaming her for being naive and childish only shows why this predator approached her.
Omg, this guy is ridiculous. He keeps defending his actions when everyone else is telling him he is AH. As someone who is pregnant now, yes, I expect my husband to come to all or most of my appointments.
And even if they can’t to that many just come to the important ones, discuss the visits they can’t make etc. he seems to not have cared at all
"i married her when she got pregnant when other men would run away" is he expecting us to be proud of him for doing the right basic thing? This man thinks himself the pinnacle of masculinity for taking responsibility as if he didn't get her pregnant.
Okay. I one hundred percent believe that the guy in the first story forced that poor girl to delete her reddit. That final update was peak "Everyone said I was an asshole, but look at how good I am really." at best. AT BEST. First one skipped town for a gorram reason. That first post the wife made opened her eyes, and I bet the super manipulative one was what made her leave. That guy is something else. I've been on the receiving end of a narc doing damage control. *gestures to the other updates*. People in his real life saw those posts. That was the damage he was controlling. That performative decency is so fucking blatant. He deserves to be alone.
He’s using his child as a shield. No, he wants a maid and dad being at appointments is showing he cares for little moments.
Story 02: lmao she went back to him. And HE LEFT HER. Oh wow
So many red flags.... Like is he cheap or poor? 8 years and he switches up soon at you get pregnant and married. I think she was groomed tbh because where is her voice anything he says goes...
They started dating when she was 20 and he was 33 definitely grooming
@@valoriemurray2688 not every relationship with an age gap is grooming (the one in the video is) and statements like yours make it easier to actual groomers to get away with it. You can't just arbitrarily label things you personally find objectionable as being the same as a serious crime.
@MissBoxxx grooming can happen to same age relationships. Abusers groom people, pedophiles groom adults to allow them to get access to the children. It's not a mislabel if that's the actions the person is doing.
@@valoriemurray2688at 20 is where I draw the line since they’re not a teen but yes 20 years old she was definitely gullible and dumb with the attention he was giving her , why she (and a lot more women in her shoes) didn’t listen to the voice we all have that says “ewww old (wo)man get away” is crazy 🤣
@@avaphynx im relieved other people get this becuase i was hesitant to call it grooming even tho it is
Husband's update sounds more like damage control, optics and narrative control.
Not her boyfriend being the one to end it LOL
Lol like girl get a clue. Anybody that angry over a dead flower isn’t even worth it. Women need to learn to leave at the first sign of aggression. It never gets better.
Soon as he done with the new chick he'll hit her up and she'll be back with him.
@@dianaclark3916 why you think that?
@@HeoBaby24👋I'll answer this one...because women rarely listen to advice and believe they can change him therefore they end up in the same situation as before.
@@barbarapearson5896 okay fair but why would she go back with him?
S1: Someone like this shouldn't have a partner much less a child. He thought doing the bare minimum of marrying her was enough and she was some attention hungry, toxic partner for just wanting love, affection, and support. I really hope this guy actually bonded with Ella instead of acting like this with her too.
Also the update is supposed to be so cute, but this is how narcissists/toxic people work. They'll be super supportive and love bomb to reel their victims back in, then stop the act after a while. I hope she doesn't move back in and maybe Ella can live with his ex again.
Story 1, I read the original reddit and everyone tired scolding the husband but he's so dense and adamant in his opinion. I wonder what happen in real life that manage to knock him sober or online strangers in reddit did manage to wake him up😮
Has no one noticed, he was 33 when he got with her, she was 20. I dated a 29 year old at 19 and got completely taken advantage of by that guy and the next who was younger by a year or two after I turned 20.. not a huge gap, he was graduated, and we went to school together. Not saying all age gaps are bad, but at the age of 19/20 you're still maturing and learning. I was warned not to date the 29 year old... Fun part, he's in his 40s now, almost 50, knocked up and 18 year old a few years back. (Like... Five at most. And I'm 37 now so he was in his late 40s then)
You know these types of dude will go younger teens if there was no legal age limit😂😂
@@happilyevernever4289 I worry for his daughter. I've serious trauma from that ass
Man... these stories are so frustrating .
You can see the train wrecks about to occur, but none of them are listening
Throughout my whole pregnancy my now husband missed one appointment because he accidently missed planned (which was also my fault because I told he could go on his trip, forgetting the appointment lol). He never made that mistake again during the pregnancy and our daughter's appointments. This is literally just the bare minimum to be there (if able)
He is absolutely terrible. I hope she leaves him. Honestly- because i dont trust him or his intentions to "change"
He spent so long insulting her and anyone who defended her, and NOW he wants to fix it? Nah. I dont buy it.
Story 2: This BF will end up abusing OP, leave him and don't look back. If the guy is destroying OP's property while saying it's because she disrespected him, he will abuse her for trivial reasons. Do not trust him, he's shown that he is incapable of controlling his temper. He says he's afraid of losing OP, he might go as far as killing OP rather than letting her go. She gave him a second chance and he pulled this bull again with the beach incident, he wasted no time. That type of person will kill OP if she takes him back. Dude doesn't see women as people he see them as property. A guy who gets violent and lashes out because he felt disrespected is a dangerous person.
Story 1. His wife is a good woman. He better listen to her and go to a therapist like she suggested.
OP , plzzzz stay with your parents. That man wanted help with HIS kid . He doesn't love or like you , he treated you like a balloon head , with no air . The way he treated her , i think he hates her & resented the fact that he HAD to marry her , to make a home for HIS kid . # Ma'am run 🏃♀️ . Any man who said those hateful words is plain evil 😈 & a major manipulator . # run , run , run . Let him hire a nanny . 😢 She's naive to think he will keep helping her with a new apartment 🙄 😒. Once he gets mad , she will be homeless. Ladies, PLZZZZZ learn , leave , never return 😢.
Story 2: the OP got a great birthday present from her boyfriend because he let her know that he's not worth keeping.
Story 2: LEAVE!!!! 1) He HIT you. 2) He called you a ATTENTION WHORE. 3) He broke your phone. His being aggressive with you for wearing a bikini is a RED FLAG. He is a SOON TO BE ABUSER. There is no excuse . His crying in your arms means he is gaslighting you. If someone did this to friend of yours , would you tell her to stay? Stop trying to talk to him . Why are you surprised he broke your computer when he punched a wall ? He is dangerous. Leave.
Op1 is the a hole just for marrying him when he showed up like that and sprung on you that his daughter was moving in. I would have gone right back to the courthouse and annulled that marriage. But seriously he is an ass and she needs to leave him bc he sounds down right abusive!
So I’d love to know his excuse for the dirty shirt for the courthouse marriage.
Same. He had an excuse for all of it, but not that one.
How else is she going to show how evil he is, and how how much of a victim she is, right from the beginning?
Oh, then she wrote from his point of view, making him look even worse?
@@pippiecarr9378 Haha. You the guy or what?
@@pippiecarr9378stop projecting your own life
He married her , b/c he needed a free nanny for HIS kid . He didn't ask her , b/c he knew she was waiting for her OWN child & wouldn't want added responsibility. He took her choice away & told her to " be quite & deal with it ." Wow , most of us would've 🏃♂️ back upstairs to tell them to hit # CANCEL marriage certificate . 😢
Bro isn’t ready to be a husband
Mine worked FT and OT and still made every single appt. If one overlapped a meeting he would ask if I could reschedule the appt so he could be there. WOMEN, choose your husband wisely!
Lmfao at 28 getting married 41M
Now surprised why he is wearing old shirt for the wedding !!
Did anyone get an answer as to why the Husband from Story 1 decided to get married in dirty clothes? That's honestly the first thing that should have rung out.
This continues to be THE BEST of these channels...since day one!!!!!🎉👏👏👏👏👏❤
He is lying. That wife is filing for divorce😅😅😅
This finally isnt an AI story.
I hope the wife os in a better place now
hey so if you find yourself trying to justify why your partner "shouldn't" need any help or "should" just suck it up, you're TA. That's your person, you owe them compassion and to meet them where they are. What a garbage dude.
the record scratch my brain did at the age gap
1:19, Yes you can, hire a babysitter
Good morning everyone.☀️
BAD morning😠
Wonder how the TH-cam incels and pickmes will try to twist this one in the guy's favour
Gee i wonder why the first baby mama left such a worthy man 🙄🙄🙄
"I married her! Most men walk away!"
And? Look, its good that you didn't abandon your kids, and you do deserve to be commended for that... Its also the bare minimum you can do for your wife. Its step one, you need to do a LOT more to be a good husband
2nd story: I think I know this person. I hope she's ok.
ALSO, spouses should put the other person first. That way, everyone is treated well and loved. Children see that parents are a tight, unshakable unit and feel security and ultimately peace from that and know that their family is a safe place with solid ground. Then they emulate this loving, supportive behavior in their own marriages.
Story one's final update sounds so fake, like something out of a Hallmark movie. She definitely didn't take him back, and he spinning this perfect picture of forgiveness and repentance to cover up the fact that Reddit was right.
5:19 And you don’t act like You aren’t leaving your wife Your daughter didn’t need to go with you and you didn’t need to leave Your litteraly Leaving your wife who’s pregnant with your Kid
5:19 You act like you aren’t leaving your wife You don’t have to take your daughter on that trip you aren’t leaving her your leaving your wife Who is pregnant with your Kid don’t be a dead beat dad
oof I heard the first story earlier, still makes me sad/mad
Either the last update was AI. Or OP told a fake last update story.
Story 2: Please tell me it is fake, because OP pissed me off.
Literally, same thought. Fake.
all sides were just garbage to me, the wife, the husband, the comments, eww.
Just give it up dude. You are not getting any brownie points here.
Everyone sucks except the children.
Nah. Only the husband
@TalenkauenTV I disagree but you are entitled to your opinion
Honestly hate a lot of the comments on Reddit, Most people seems like all of them are doomed and lost hope on humanity, probablt Why they have the time to stay on Reddit and only spread negative shit, in the first story we can tell the husband as been an asshole but the things people were saying about him were incredibly dark. Hope that all of them are the Perfect people they try to teach others to be and that they Never have been assholes in their life. Dude was realising his mistakes and how much of an asshole he has been and was taking the steps to better himself, yes people hope e the worst for him. Even of it’s a Fake story of of the updates aren’t real what do you get from putting down people. I get going against people that continue with toxic trait and at the first answers to comments I almost agreed with people, but when they started barating him even in the other updates or telling him he deserves to die, to have a miscarriege and that he could Never change I Honestly got infuriate. That’s why a lot of people keep staying being asshole, the whole world keeps on telling them this type of shit. Some people can’t change, some people can. Don’t use your life examples as a rule siete to Judge everyone in the world, because once someone does the same thing and their sets of rules are different you can’t say that it was unwarranted and that they shouldn’t do that
I don't think she should stay with him, but people saying he should die is incredibly weird.
@@avaphynx yeah that’s completely fair, the man was being an asshole after all
@DylanBotta his last update sounds love bombing. With his lying, belittling behavior doesn't just go away. When he decides to do right by her. Because she actually stood up for herself.
@@avaphynx could be but we don’t have the whole context since we aren’t present, what I saw from what he was saying is that he was starting taking the steps by starting therapy, listening to what she wanted and trying to enact change and give her space. Sometime we think that directly love bombing is a tactic to manipulate but sometimes I think it’s just trying to overcompensate from the past.
@@avaphynx also sorry don’t wanna spam you but most of what got me upset is how for people on Reddit it seems that everything is just black and white and there’s no room for gray and change. I get that sometimes people are shitty but demonizing people even after they admit their fault and try to change. Plus how do they know the person that week to say all those terrible things from some posts and comments. As i said in my first comment he was being an asshole and was agreeing with the people at the beginning, is just the continous putting down of people. Plus sometimes people need rude awakenings to actually start change, like someone wouldnt enact drastic change in order to try to mend things with someone they love or just to right the wrongs that they did even if it doesn’t get the relationship back
YOU HAVE ONE CHANCE TO PROVE EVERY ONE AND THE ONE ABOVE US ALL THAT YOU CAN FIX THIS .CHANGE IS HARD ESPECIALY WHEN YOUV NOT SEEN YOUR PROBLEM TILL.NOW ..😳OTHERS ARE RT ABOUT YOU WONT CHANGE ITS THE SAME STORY BEEN GOING ON FOR CENTURES ..GOOD LUCK😉👎
i don’t know if the wife is a saint or an idiot but i do know the husband is lucky ash