Why Do We Cry? - Glad You Asked S1

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  • Glad You Asked host Joss Fong has been fascinated by crying her entire life. She’s even kept a spreadsheet of every time she cries to figure out what patterns lie in the triggers. This episode explores how crying evolved in humans and what it tells us about ourselves.
    Here are some of the videos Joss had the other hosts watch:
    • Unsung Hero | ไทยประกั...
    • "A minute of silence" ...
    • A homeless dog living ...
    • Johnnie Walker - Dear ...
    • Video
    • Ellen DeGeneres Receiv... + • Ellen DeGeneres tears ...
    • Acceptance Speech - Be...
    • Sam Tageson lives the ...
    • Extra Gum - Birds (Ori...
    Key Sources:
    Thai ad “Unsung Hero”: • Unsung Hero | ไทยประกั...
    Why Only Humans Weep by Ad Vingerhoets www.amazon.com/dp/B00B9WPN00/...
    Crying: A Natural and Cultural History of Tears byTom Lutz www.amazon.com/gp/product/039...
    “Culture and Crying: Prevalences and Gender Differences” journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/...
    “Social and psychological consequences of not crying: possible associations with psychopathology and therapeutic relevance.” www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2...
    “Moment-to-moment changes in feeling moved match changes in closeness, tears, goosebumps, and warmth: time series analyses” .www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2...
    “Empathy: Gender effects in brain and behavior” www.sciencedirect.com/science...
    “Male and Female Differences in Nonconscious Mimicry: A Systematic Review” jeps.efpsa.org/articles/10.53...
    0:00 Intro
    1:22 Why Do We Cry?
    4:37 The Evolution Of Tears
    6:57 Cathartic Crying
    10:13 Tears Of Empathy
    12:00 Moved To Tears
    16:47 International Stats
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  • @Vox
    @Vox  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3295

    Thanks for watching, everyone! I was a little embarrassed to admit all the cheesy things that made me cry, but after working on this episode, I've decided that crying is a really valuable reminder of the values you hold and the people (or animals) you care about. Those tears mean we aren't just saying that we care about things like kindness and justice, we actually do care on a fundamental level, maybe even more than we realize.
    Keep an eye out for new, free episodes of Glad You Asked every Tuesday. And don't forget to subscribe to our channel and turn on notifications (🔔) to get more Vox videos: bit.ly/voxyoutube
    -joss

    • @ferglesnerk
      @ferglesnerk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hhmmm, I'm 53 years old. My father passed away three days after my 21st birthday. I didn't cry at the news or the funeral. I haven't cried for him at all. Six months ago I nail gunned a nail through my forearm. It hurt so much I cried all the way to the hospital and beyond. Why the difference?

    • @mariocuric6690
      @mariocuric6690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@ferglesnerk Your "programmed" by society to not cry for emotional purposes, as a lot of men are. Or you just simply dont have that emotional connection between these muscle and your brain.

    • @niraea
      @niraea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@ferglesnerk my take away from the video was that some people just seem to not cry as much. maybe it's a personality thing, maybe psychological pain isn't so visceral for you, who knows? but a nail gun to the arm will definitely cause visceral pain that can't be ignored.

    • @SunflowerSpotlight
      @SunflowerSpotlight 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That would have been really hard for me to do; I think it was really creative to want to pursue this and go after it with regularity and honesty. It was also very brave.

    • @gierekrae
      @gierekrae 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best wishes, Joss!

  • @mariadias3210
    @mariadias3210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7068

    "How often do you cry"
    "Actually I cried on my way here"
    What a mood

  • @Cpt.PickHard
    @Cpt.PickHard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14724

    I cry everytime when i look at my bank account

    • @modsmum
      @modsmum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      I feel your pain.

    • @dibyajibansahoo2618
      @dibyajibansahoo2618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      And laugh every time when i read your comment 🤣
      Edit:thanks for 150 likes

    • @abelalexa9601
      @abelalexa9601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Abel Lewis lol.we have the same names

    • @maryamhamid4829
      @maryamhamid4829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤪🤪🤪

    • @barrelsandwine4188
      @barrelsandwine4188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

  • @lea-up1cw
    @lea-up1cw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1543

    I take a picture of myself whenever I cry and add it to my folder called “me crying”

    • @lea-up1cw
      @lea-up1cw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Adi I ask myself the same thing

    • @lea-up1cw
      @lea-up1cw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Adi I’m sorry you had to go through this ;( I hope things get better for you💗

    • @lea-up1cw
      @lea-up1cw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Adi Revenge might not be the best Idea tbh. Be smart and take good care of yourself, instead of making things worse by “attacking back”. Even if u felt hurt or violated it’s not the best way to solve things trust me.

    • @Abcdefghhhh292
      @Abcdefghhhh292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same but I keep them in hidden snaps so no one can see them

    • @Lil_tml_16
      @Lil_tml_16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's sad, why do you do that?

  • @valentinajimenezcardenas5962
    @valentinajimenezcardenas5962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1000

    Why sometimes we feel so bad, but we don't cry? Its like "I want to cry, but I can't". Why it happens?

    • @sabahateren51
      @sabahateren51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Bcause you cannot control your emotions and you probably have grown by repress

    • @obg_fresh
      @obg_fresh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Because Obi-Wan has the high ground

    • @rajanamorina7129
      @rajanamorina7129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sabahateren51 cima

    • @peachy-wd6ci
      @peachy-wd6ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg that happened to me today!!

    • @patokw5684
      @patokw5684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Because for most people actually crying is a some sort of stigmatized action

  • @safar5370
    @safar5370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6746

    In primary school i thought we cried becuase we drank too much water

    • @yumoew
      @yumoew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Unwanted Man same tho

    • @notqnp996
      @notqnp996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Unwanted Man what lol

    • @litibarra407
      @litibarra407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      🤣🤣🤣is that why your always wearing them glasses it holds the liquid like a cup🤭

    • @lazyjaney28
      @lazyjaney28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Unwanted Man lol

    • @lookatcurryman4811
      @lookatcurryman4811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Unwanted Man Only real men cry

  • @spoiltmilk6511
    @spoiltmilk6511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4766

    i cry out of anger and frustration a lot. when i have consistent mild pain I cry not because it's too painful but because I'm frustrated that I'm out of control of my pain and my body

    • @eggy1214
      @eggy1214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      spoilt milk same omg I’ll just hit my side and feel uncomfortable but I’d cry about it even though it doesn’t hurt

    • @aquaaria3489
      @aquaaria3489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Yes, I do too. I rarely cry, but there were days where my father didn't seem to understand me or take effort to do so, so it was really rough for me to take all of that in and I felt like crying was the best way to deal with it...

    • @loopy5635
      @loopy5635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yh but just ur profile picture of mob should cheer you up

    • @Nour-ey5le
      @Nour-ey5le 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aquaticjaney i feel the same and its feels unnatural...

    • @corona-cation3994
      @corona-cation3994 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      spoilt milk same

  • @mari.shinyyy8246
    @mari.shinyyy8246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +846

    The video title: "Why do we cry? "
    Me: *"BECAUSE IM SAD"*

    • @essieee1859
      @essieee1859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bobastar me all the time 😂

    • @amberdegenhardt6270
      @amberdegenhardt6270 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @LSV.B
      @LSV.B 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because I’m happy 😊

    • @candypsycho3498
      @candypsycho3498 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But why are we sad?

    • @LSV.B
      @LSV.B 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Night Tune because they have depression 😪

  • @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239
    @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    I lost my daughter to cancer when she was 6 ..
    I cry almost daily

    • @katherinemarie1327
      @katherinemarie1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      d stu I am so incredibly sorry for your loss 💕

    • @the-poopshitters
      @the-poopshitters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That's unfortunate ☹️

    • @opemilekanadesunloye351
      @opemilekanadesunloye351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'm sorry man. Time eases these things.

    • @pinktomatoes485
      @pinktomatoes485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Im so sorry fot your lost i hope you can give it a place some day❤

    • @dopes82k13
      @dopes82k13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      i sm so sorry for you loss. one day you will see your baby again.

  • @yumoew
    @yumoew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2741

    “Women cry 2-4 times a month”
    Ok whats wrong I’m crying everyday not even kidding..

    • @maddis6821
      @maddis6821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Meee

    • @roonilwazlib5402
      @roonilwazlib5402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Same...

    • @joyridesham
      @joyridesham 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hormones, Pmt

    • @liofotiafan9460
      @liofotiafan9460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      What do you usually cry about? You might need a therapist, that's a lot

    • @lovefoolish7886
      @lovefoolish7886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      I thought it was normal, then I got diagnosed with anxiety and depression

  • @mizzbelle97
    @mizzbelle97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1826

    “He’s sad.”
    “That made me sad.”
    Omg now I’m crying too kid...

    • @jeffadaze1316
      @jeffadaze1316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      FACTS

    • @cmh9932
      @cmh9932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same😥

    • @Ricky-we7um
      @Ricky-we7um 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Get your simpsons avatar outta here you Billie eilish fan

    • @cam0mng
      @cam0mng 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anna Banana When??

    • @jessi4773
      @jessi4773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cam0mng 10:13 :)

  • @nykal1510
    @nykal1510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    This really intrigued me. I cry each night before sleep, but it's from happiness, I finally have friends.

    • @Shivani-vo2jf
      @Shivani-vo2jf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this is wholesome x

    • @-_Somebody_
      @-_Somebody_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Great news! I hope they do not ever betray you!

    • @akashdeb5201
      @akashdeb5201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice

    • @nykal1510
      @nykal1510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@inaner3580 Weird stuff: online Instagram group from my country. Most people left and the remainder of us grew rather close and eventually we collectively met up - to put it short. One I went particularly well with and she became my *best* friend... and then my girlfriend!
      For nearly eight months now we were seeing each other approximately once a month, though with a huge gap during our lockdown.

    • @yeah2472
      @yeah2472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww that's amazing!

  • @AlreadyTaken999
    @AlreadyTaken999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    "That is TOO much water for that plant!"
    Amazing.

    • @musicguy20
      @musicguy20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      *cries *

    • @danthomas6587
      @danthomas6587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The plant was already dead. It was the thought that counted.

    • @PC-kd7dj
      @PC-kd7dj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Empathy extends to plants?

  • @joemamma6596
    @joemamma6596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4296

    Dude: i cry 1 time every 6 months
    Me: I cry 1 time every 6 minutes

    • @n0ra758
      @n0ra758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      joe mamma are u cancer?

    • @bluesoul1260
      @bluesoul1260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@n0ra758 pisces too are very emotional
      I'm not a pisces tho I'm a taurus

    • @noemiegiliberto8482
      @noemiegiliberto8482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      blue soul sooooo true I cry at least once a day and I am pisces 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @catlow4553
      @catlow4553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I cry yesterday :'D

    • @helli5057
      @helli5057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@n0ra758 are you a stereotypical brat?

  • @JeremyDuckMusic
    @JeremyDuckMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2205

    Video: How often do you cry?
    Me: *thinks about crying*
    Me: *starts crying*

  • @oldaccount5877
    @oldaccount5877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    Johnny Depp once said:
    "People don't cry becauss they are weak, they cry because they have stayed strong for too long.: you guys aren't weak. :)

  • @adrianavelyka2044
    @adrianavelyka2044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I cried throughout the whole thing. Apparently, single idea of crying makes me emotional :)

    • @KarolinePCosta
      @KarolinePCosta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too !

    • @t-rajedits4417
      @t-rajedits4417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wanna be your friend

    • @GULZAARB4U
      @GULZAARB4U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! I wonder if that's some sort of condition, I'm kinda bothered and embarrassed if it happens when I'm around people!! 😕

    • @ieatalgae
      @ieatalgae ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG SAME

    • @hackman6486
      @hackman6486 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah! I cried like 8-9 times while watching this video itself.

  • @karzimegmusic8437
    @karzimegmusic8437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1693

    "A tear is made of %1 water, and %99 of feelings..."

  • @lIIlllIIIl
    @lIIlllIIIl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2327

    Why do I get this recommended while I am crying? How does TH-cam know??

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      your phones cameras and microphones?duuuuuh

    • @shoshishoshi127
      @shoshishoshi127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Same. They're really spying on us. 😂

    • @juliettetiamoilmiouomoidea6661
      @juliettetiamoilmiouomoidea6661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought im the only one..

    • @xHR2K9
      @xHR2K9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Welcome to the wonderful world of GOOGLE LISTENS TO EVERYTHING

    • @lifewithdq1923
      @lifewithdq1923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was thinking the same 😂😂😂

  • @beeperu-san
    @beeperu-san 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Vox: "Humans are the only being that cry out of emotions..."
    Me: You madam and sir have yet to met Kermit.

    • @maxinea7782
      @maxinea7782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      There's a video where a dog and cow grew up together on youtube, when they took the cow away the dog cried tears.

    • @qtchyu3216
      @qtchyu3216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maxine Cullum IVE SEEN THAT VIDEO!! it’s so sad :(

    • @Cybernaut551
      @Cybernaut551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yoda has joined the chat.

    • @cathyvo4876
      @cathyvo4876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maxine Cullum WHY DID THE COW GET TAKEN AWAY?!🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @lancethrustworthy
      @lancethrustworthy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm thinking elephants have sorrow-linked tears.

  • @BenDiaz
    @BenDiaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Apparently there is some knowledge in my body that I’m not aware of.” I thought this was a profound statement, especially since for me, crying feels like being forced to admit a truth I didn’t want to admit.

  • @abaylisw
    @abaylisw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    Psychologist: “in moderation, yes, I think crying is healthy.”
    Me: cries/fights back tears through the entire video

    • @antheacurwood7705
      @antheacurwood7705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lemon avenue i cried just thinking of crying haha

  • @dlasky
    @dlasky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1665

    I mostly cry because of empathy, seeing someone else cry or witnessing an act of kindness. What baffles me is that I am not really a nice or kind person, I hate some people for absolutely no reason.

    • @schwimiiiehaiqi5325
      @schwimiiiehaiqi5325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @Lil Chicken it's not evil

    • @milesaph
      @milesaph 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      @Lil Chicken actions are evil, not feelings

    • @Mariana-mk2po
      @Mariana-mk2po 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      edgy

    • @innerufomaker
      @innerufomaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Don Lasky I think “absolutely no reason” isn’t true.

    • @dbarra-
      @dbarra- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too.

  • @frisco-2.0
    @frisco-2.0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Only humans do cry, because of emotions!?
    It is known for a fact, that ape's and elephant's do cry for emotional reasons, too!

    • @alexs.2731
      @alexs.2731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Frisco -2.0 so do dogs, it’s the most sad thing to see a dog cry with tears

    • @a_reelskitface
      @a_reelskitface 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@alexs.2731 my mum's friend's dog had a puppy but it was too small and passed away and my friend (who is also the sister of the dog owner) said that she (the dog) was crying silently with real tears :(

    • @alexs.2731
      @alexs.2731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Borkwoof 19 omg, that must have been so hard to watch. There was a husky who’s owner died and it was crying on the grave stone and you could see the tears. The only time I saw something like that in person was years ago. My dog was dying and she had to be put down. My mom didn’t want me to see it so she did it while I was in school. I cried The Who day, but I sometimes feel her presence in my home

    • @ImehSmith
      @ImehSmith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So Very True

    • @-_Somebody_
      @-_Somebody_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Interesting because i was literally just about to type “animals with emotions” for my next curiosity binge.

  • @Degelon
    @Degelon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    i like how i cried for 3 hours today and then youtube recommended this to me

    • @paris7904
      @paris7904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Google heared you crying

    • @glval
      @glval 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What made you to cry?

    • @Degelon
      @Degelon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@glval i dont remember

  • @superBrainwayne
    @superBrainwayne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1461

    I realized, that I started crying more, when I stopped getting angry.

    • @Icetubexd
      @Icetubexd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      I'm often filled with rage after crying, maybe it's a defence mechanism. Definitely connected somehow.

    • @lukabell4607
      @lukabell4607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @wind spirit what?

    • @jahmulugu4425
      @jahmulugu4425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      You didn't stop getting angry, u we're consumed with so much anger that u couldn't quench, so u released it in a cry. A very healthy way to deal with it too!! This is not an instruction manual to all individuals. I just imagined.

    • @amalalshuwaikh8119
      @amalalshuwaikh8119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Timothy Novotny the causes of anger r being hurt or frustrated, so when ur angry cause ur hurt itll make sense to cry, which in turns releases endorphins which makes u calmer or relieved, someone who cried for too long might also say they feel numb, as in numb dont feel anything at all, any sort of emotions, it could feel like a restart button to not wanting to be angry

    • @miamaurovic1241
      @miamaurovic1241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I realised I started crying less when I started getting angry rather than not ever get angry when I should

  • @charlie-jr9pm
    @charlie-jr9pm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    she said “others in pain” and it’s like a big wave of sadness literally covered my body and i started crying.

  • @sadgay5817
    @sadgay5817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I cry when I get too overwhelmed and stressed, a good cry gives me the strength to pull myself together and go on with my work

  • @katiecarlson2329
    @katiecarlson2329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video made me think of crying from my recent loss with family members who have died. Crying from grief feels completely different than anything she hit on in this entire video. I felt like the tears were never going to stop for weeks after my cousin past unexpectedly.

    • @pec324399
      @pec324399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats me now
      a month after my mom's death

  • @oreokat6732
    @oreokat6732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3063

    Who else just sits there, emotionless after they finished crying?

    • @celinedifilippo802
      @celinedifilippo802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Oreo Kat OMG ME how do u know?😧

    • @dan-xl4mg
      @dan-xl4mg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep xD

    • @kat.thecoolest
      @kat.thecoolest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I'm like: 😭😭😭😢😢😐😐😶😶😶

    • @bensignmaster119
      @bensignmaster119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @AKS USA chair ofcourse u bogo

    • @ivanamiladinovic6258
      @ivanamiladinovic6258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@kat.thecoolest I'm like: *in front of my familly*😏😌☺️🙂..... *In my room* 😟😞😣😖😩😨😭🤧😫😨😔😒,..... *In front of my parrwnts after crying* 😁😀😃😄🤫🤭 *in my mind*🤥🤮🤒🤧😖

  • @ThwrldisMine
    @ThwrldisMine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +947

    Em I the only one that starts to cry when someone asks me “are u ok?”

    • @ajaxprice1876
      @ajaxprice1876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Nope I cry when people say that too I don't like talking about my feelings or problems it just makes me cry....

    • @hund-mejaveggo319
      @hund-mejaveggo319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ajaxprice1876 ok

    • @ninenine1709
      @ninenine1709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      are u ok?

    • @confetti4798
      @confetti4798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nine Nine I ate my dog’s socks.

    • @blue-chaos96striker72
      @blue-chaos96striker72 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ajaxprice1876 are you ok?

  • @rubykaur1459
    @rubykaur1459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I cry when someone behaves very rude with me😢😢😢

    • @galaxymoon8071
      @galaxymoon8071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ruby Kaur you’re either very young or English is not your native language

    • @essieee1859
      @essieee1859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Galaxy Moon so?

    • @mayacowey4336
      @mayacowey4336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That happened to me last Thursday... I cried.... at school

    • @essieee1859
      @essieee1859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maya Cowey doesn’t everyone? Not trying to be rude tho

    • @galaxymoon8071
      @galaxymoon8071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@essieee1859 Children should not be on TH-cam.

  • @andreajasyl477
    @andreajasyl477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Even though crying is supposed to be a sad time, but I honestly enjoy crying and even after I feel done crying I want to cry some more because I like it lol

    • @lepotato135
      @lepotato135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True. Sometimes I still think about wanting to cry just because of how relieving it's been.

  • @nittokki888
    @nittokki888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    I don’t like to cry when im around people, it makes me feel vulnerable, and I want to seem strong... but whenever i’m alone or in my bed I cry, when nobody’s there 😌😞✌🏼

    • @jennifer929
      @jennifer929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      채원로베리 same

    • @d4ddyb0t35
      @d4ddyb0t35 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      채원로베리 that is me all the time 😓

    • @Alethia_
      @Alethia_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah whenever I start to cry around other people (unless it's happy crying) I tend to try to hide it or go away

    • @imroatussholeha6343
      @imroatussholeha6343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too

    • @jonah9905
      @jonah9905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah me too and I hate it

  • @sole5292
    @sole5292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    "how often do you cry?"
    *people talk about how often they cry*
    me: starts to cry

  • @polaszelka9527
    @polaszelka9527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I'm a hsp (highly sensetive person) so I can explode when someone simply asks if I'm OK, that makes me wanna cry the most for some reason

    • @Saraahmed-rl8fg
      @Saraahmed-rl8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @fancyfeast5086
      @fancyfeast5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      R u ok?

    • @archiecook55
      @archiecook55 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That happens to me too. There have been times when I wasn't in a great mood but was getting by ok until someone asks if I'm ok and that triggers my crying

    • @itzexzohz8644
      @itzexzohz8644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i have a really bad temper but my psychiatrist told me to ask my self this question when I'm about to blow up. do i control my emotions or do my emotions control me? idk why but this gets my mind in a better state. just thought that this could be of help :)

  • @andreiutzlmao
    @andreiutzlmao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    "Gland you asked"

  • @freijaharvey3549
    @freijaharvey3549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +942

    “I cry once every 6 months if it’s a bad 6 months”
    Man I wish that was me.

    • @happle155
      @happle155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Me:Cries literally almost every day

    • @cloudygreyskies
      @cloudygreyskies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me: doesn’t cry, but wishes I could

    • @afproductions2416
      @afproductions2416 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never cry im a lil bit depressed but crying doesnt help

    • @dan-xl4mg
      @dan-xl4mg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah xD

    • @bitchplease7
      @bitchplease7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I cry at least twice a day.

  • @yocebaby1
    @yocebaby1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +628

    "that is too much water for that plant"

  • @a_reelskitface
    @a_reelskitface 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I cry more often than I probably should
    For example:
    - when I am the last one awake and didn't say goodnight to my parents
    - when I have to go to school and don't want to
    - when I get yelled at
    And other reasons too

    • @amdl270
      @amdl270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sending a hug your way! Stay hopeful 🧡

    • @chillfactory9000
      @chillfactory9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've cried from not saying "I love you" to my mother before sleeping before, I have no idea why I found it so gut-wrenching.

    • @a_reelskitface
      @a_reelskitface 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chillfactory9000 I have to say I love you to my parents at least once before bed or I _will_ cry

  • @graciedrawz3195
    @graciedrawz3195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have a pretty logical reason to why people feel relaxed when they cry but im not a scientist, so it doesn't really matter
    But i think the reason is that some nerves cool down when you cry, causing you to relax, mentally, your brain realizes you let the pain out, causing you into a relaxing, or going to sleep, stage, that's why many people cry their selves to sleep

  • @im.m
    @im.m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    How often do you cry?
    Me: everyday

  • @luck5380
    @luck5380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +578

    *"You cry only for help, if you believe there is help to cry for."*

    • @kawaiikitten5572
      @kawaiikitten5572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That hit right in the heart

    • @elsiethepotato8813
      @elsiethepotato8813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Then I guess there is no help to cry for... That's dark... Idc if there's no help tho.

    • @Blu_Not_Found
      @Blu_Not_Found 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pff, ever heard depression?

    • @sublimebouquetblaze9198
      @sublimebouquetblaze9198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's pretty dark m8

    • @mariacaicedo3627
      @mariacaicedo3627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can cry out of hopelessness, thinking there is no help to be had

  • @sempaigvd
    @sempaigvd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    “Real men never cry”
    *finally beats sans*
    *CRIES*

  • @MAAYYY
    @MAAYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When I cry I feel werry tired after I cried alot and I almost want tho sleep

    • @nia.r5988
      @nia.r5988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same. After I cry I always grab a blanket and hug it really hard and fall asleep. Preferably with reverbed Joji dancing in the dark

    • @laurenjaureguiisperfect
      @laurenjaureguiisperfect 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      werry

    • @laurenjaureguiisperfect
      @laurenjaureguiisperfect 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tom and werry

    • @sowasvonlustig2977
      @sowasvonlustig2977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cry not often, but if I cry it's like a tsunami the most of the times. Everytime I cried really hard in this way I got hungry, thursty and tired.

    • @yeah2472
      @yeah2472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sowasvonlustig2977 yeah same- idle why I bottle up my emotions and then when I cry it's just this explosion of emotions:(

  • @cidila
    @cidila 4 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    "she's not there anymore" that phrase made me cry

    • @seasgarage
      @seasgarage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I didnt cry, because it wasnt played long enough, but i shivered!

    • @someonesays52
      @someonesays52 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where's this from??

    • @gingeeta_creecha3401
      @gingeeta_creecha3401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Almost cried.. I felt how much it hurts him.

  • @mattstout5804
    @mattstout5804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    Should’ve been called “Gland you asked”. Vox, you endlessly disappoint.

  • @tifana_._2744
    @tifana_._2744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You know that moment when you cried to much and your tears taste like salt 😂😂

    • @manelrahmouni1216
      @manelrahmouni1216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      wait I thought they always tasted like salt?

  • @stephanielouise2442
    @stephanielouise2442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For the first time in my life..at 60, I cried tears of happiness, so unprovoked by anything external. I was meditating in a Temple..and the tears were SWEET!

  • @shrey768
    @shrey768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    World's leading expert in crying! Sounds like a super villain title.

  • @the_big_unknown3131
    @the_big_unknown3131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    When that guy talked about him last seeing his mom on Mother’s Day before she died that hit me and then just after they started talking about tears of empathy

    • @ellagraham560
      @ellagraham560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I started crying and i can't actually stop, it was the sweetest thing ever.

    • @kaybartley2721
      @kaybartley2721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom died when i was at a very young age

  • @forshin5365
    @forshin5365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I cry every 4-10 hours
    Answer: depression

  • @Leanneinvan
    @Leanneinvan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used this video in an ESL class and it has created so much conversation. Thank you such a well-made video.

  • @s.m2133
    @s.m2133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    When she started talking about feeling empathy for others I was literally crying for the baby crying over a movie

  • @Chipiliro613
    @Chipiliro613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2135

    *phew*
    It looks so comfy here in the Premium comment lounge...

    • @MisterK-YT
      @MisterK-YT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Hey @Steven Killeen, who are those commoners gathering outside the palace gates? ***looks in spyglass*** oh lolz it’s just the non-premium people... the free-folk, if you will.

    • @jimbeaux89
      @jimbeaux89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ben Kai hahaha made me laugh so hard

    • @apalm_
      @apalm_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Haha look at those ads watching peasant's

    • @kazilife8059
      @kazilife8059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Indeed quite comforting to be in the midst of you elegant folks! XD

    • @king_david_._26
      @king_david_._26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      So this is what a fancy school feels like

  • @imeldaanderson5051
    @imeldaanderson5051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “That last day that I was my mother alive was Mother’s Day.” Oof, That’s tough man.

  • @divyamehta8161
    @divyamehta8161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've seen a cow crying when her newly born calf was taken away

  • @SurabiJoshi
    @SurabiJoshi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    I would have a binder, if I noted everytime I cried.

    • @juliandb4699
      @juliandb4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prob a biggg binder

    • @Isi-vo6zx
      @Isi-vo6zx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would have ten

    • @celisev6635
      @celisev6635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would be a millionaire if you get 1 dollar for every tear you've ever cried

    • @moonlightbaeav
      @moonlightbaeav 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameee

  • @tay012
    @tay012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +902

    Cried when watching this.

  • @Simplentertainments
    @Simplentertainments 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I teared up a little while watching this video! What a beautiful approach to normalize crying and attempt to understand the sciences of it. ❤️

  • @czennie3083
    @czennie3083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As soon as they started talking about babies crying, motherly instincts and attracting predators, I immediately thought of Tarzan. Anyone else?

  • @giulia1738
    @giulia1738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    I cry when other people cry I’m basically crying rn

    • @operacionufo6953
      @operacionufo6953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      giulia I cry if someone I love crys :c

    • @minnicute2497
      @minnicute2497 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@operacionufo6953 me too

    • @arianna843
      @arianna843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought i was the only one that did that lol

    • @DCBfanboy
      @DCBfanboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did that when I was younger, wich is weird because she said that children felt less empathy at a young age.

    • @yuno9121
      @yuno9121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Does anyone else cry when they see someone else crying but don't know the reason why they're crying? They could be crying because they dropped their taco, and I would cry, and my friends would cry..and then the taco will be given a proper funeral

  • @zeuromaker9068
    @zeuromaker9068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    *Wife leaves, takes kids and all the savings*
    TH-cam : "Why do we cry?"

    • @vladimirl7413
      @vladimirl7413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U r a lucky man 👍

    • @loganjohnson8010
      @loganjohnson8010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And the xbox

    • @bezik572
      @bezik572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and playstation

    • @SlurySparx
      @SlurySparx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You okay bro?

    • @raik1766
      @raik1766 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loganjohnson8010 for me it would be a switch

  • @lucasl8790
    @lucasl8790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Anyone else not able to cry? I haven’t cried in over 5 years and I have really tried and I don’t know if it’s normal

  • @kat.thecoolest
    @kat.thecoolest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't ever really cry, but when I'm getting yelled at I'll start crying out the whole Niagara Falls 😐

  • @Pseudynom
    @Pseudynom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Video: "Men cry about once every ..."
    Me: "Week?"
    Video: "... couple of months."
    Me: :-(

    • @farajsungkar9771
      @farajsungkar9771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Not everymen, I cry 2-5 times a week. It s maybe the only way to release my pain.

    • @jackcoltrane5532
      @jackcoltrane5532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm a man and I cry almost every day!! :) Sometimes even more than one time!! Empath!! :)

    • @angonkatwang5697
      @angonkatwang5697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Men tends to be suppressive thats why everyone expects them to continue being that way. I think it is not okay to do so, the more we suppress our feelings, with time, it'll grow and eat us up.
      It is okay to cry, men are humans like women

    • @Pseudynom
      @Pseudynom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @renderinggg
      Could also be social stigma.

    • @angonkatwang5697
      @angonkatwang5697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @renderinggg maybe you are like that but not all are same.

  • @nyles7470
    @nyles7470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Who else is crying right now while watching this

  • @giuliavita3311
    @giuliavita3311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can only say thank you... this video was just what I needed

  • @jackrussell1932
    @jackrussell1932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an excellent job with this Joss! SEVERAL times during this I welled up,...(here it goes again) and then you were explaining WHY it was happening, lol. I never thought too much about the psychology of crying, I just thought that it was a natural phenomena of emotions.

  • @RemRemm
    @RemRemm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I cry almost every time something reminds me of my mom. When that guy started crying because of the same reason, I also started crying. I was 19 when she passed.
    It'll be 9 years ago in January, but it still feels like it was yesterday.

    • @m5676
      @m5676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My mum is still with me, but I cried with the guy and because of ur comment :,|

    • @tamara-ln7pv
      @tamara-ln7pv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here my mom died wheb i was 15 almost 12 years ago now is still cry so much

    • @ares99_
      @ares99_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Things could always be worse, remember that.
      E.g., my dad turned into our worst enemy out of nowhere, when 19.

  • @BothHands1
    @BothHands1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    i cry almost every day 😬
    half the time it's good crying though, like watching an animal being saved on the dodo or something.

    • @nsul2958
      @nsul2958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same

    • @Cynthiaa315
      @Cynthiaa315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Me too. I feel like that statistic is wrong. We cry more than we'd be willing to admit

    • @BothHands1
      @BothHands1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cynthia Alvarez
      yeah, i think maybe people weren't entirely honest, or maybe we just cry more than normal lol
      idk

    • @kylemartinich9983
      @kylemartinich9983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cynthia Alvarez not really some people don’t cry very often...

    • @mosspaca4728
      @mosspaca4728 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jayden your tear machine broke

  • @thebareessentials
    @thebareessentials 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW, this blew me away. Thanks so much for putting this together. REally well crafted.
    I appreciate the info about it not being necessary for a persons well being. I find it very difficult to cry. Some old blocks I think. But I give care to myself in other ways.

  • @rainbowwarr
    @rainbowwarr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Extremely well done! I actually held a presentation obout the topic once. One thing/occasion which also is peculiar for crying is witnessing a special moment (like first day of school) the theory there was that we moan the passing of time or that nothing can last forever..
    In general realized that I really cry seldomly max. twice a year. For years I just couldn't, in spite of being heavily depressed. At the funeral of a loved one I tried to make me do it, but it didn't work. Now I'm more in touch with my emotions so occasionally I do cry, and it really is soothing 😌

  • @NoName-qp3vw
    @NoName-qp3vw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    Me: *was crying*
    *The video is recomended*
    Me: good

  • @alvasoderberg4937
    @alvasoderberg4937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    “And would that be why we have tears when we yawn as well?”
    *yawns*
    - Well, hello tears....

    • @moplayz7346
      @moplayz7346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yeah like why tf do i yawn when i yawn

    • @MinenArbeiterLP
      @MinenArbeiterLP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I read that and i yawn instantly with tears

    • @Dragonite_Tom
      @Dragonite_Tom 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think because you don't wash your face properly in the morning and it make you cry when you yawn

    • @2sh0t61
      @2sh0t61 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dragon_ Nite I just took a good shower and yawned still tears

    • @glitchyme3707
      @glitchyme3707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I get waterfall tears from hiccups. It's awkward.

  • @user-sv5wx8cw5x
    @user-sv5wx8cw5x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "When you put your hand on your chest"
    Me 1 second before she said that:* puts hand on my chest* O.O

  • @DrMuzis
    @DrMuzis ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried while watching this.. Great job guys!

  • @opp4405
    @opp4405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Who else just cried and then got this recommended, I feel watched

    • @SaroShow
      @SaroShow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are

    • @truelegend816
      @truelegend816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you are. Instagram Facebook TH-cam google they all watch you.

    • @XxXx-xb9fl
      @XxXx-xb9fl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Caleb Stephens what do you mean they watch you

  • @ZeroBeta-bm6me
    @ZeroBeta-bm6me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    “Why’d you make the spread sheet?” In my head: “glad you asked...”😂

    • @farh6655
      @farh6655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's smart 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @siopao8137
    @siopao8137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    10:13 btw, the kid was watching ‘The Good Dinosaur’. Great Film

  • @lp74
    @lp74 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. I cry alot but it just leads me back to telling my self "Trust God you have no other choice" the next my day I feel healed.

  • @deadslicer6627
    @deadslicer6627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    Am I the only one who cries when I start laughing a lot 😂

    • @silly1689
      @silly1689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My friend had the same case, and he was very stressed.
      I think it means, you have some feelings that are hidden, some feelings that you need to release. Dont hold the pain back, just go with it till the end, even if it feels your heart is gona blow, its sooo worthwhile!!!

    • @gamingclash3291
      @gamingclash3291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No

    • @nittokki888
      @nittokki888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Revenge_ Slicer
      Yes! But they’re because of laughing a lot! Happy tears actually!! 😂

    • @niyaduhan9906
      @niyaduhan9906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I m the same avenger dude😄

    • @kat.thecoolest
      @kat.thecoolest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Uhh no

  • @JayDieTye
    @JayDieTye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    "world's leading expert in crying"..
    Wow... I'd love to be praised like that, I sleep like 16 hours a day.

    • @litibarra407
      @litibarra407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you know you can cry in your sleep to I cry in my dreams to alot when I wake up with out you I cry my life is a year drop😥

    • @sea3530
      @sea3530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      my life in one comment.

    • @roonilwazlib5402
      @roonilwazlib5402 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great relatable comment, but he’s not a world leading expert because he cries so much but because he studied it. So sadly sleeping more than being awake isn’t automatically qualifying :D

  • @crzytink
    @crzytink 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m an emotional wreck! I literally cry about everything!!! Either sad or not I will cry! I over think things and something triggers me to cry about it! Certain songs and movies always make me cry. The songs have a huge emotional meaning to me and I cry 😢

  • @torresRoni
    @torresRoni 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. Everytime i remember my mothet and how life would be with her by my side, makes me really cry, and a Song makes it more strong.

  • @misterbuklau4053
    @misterbuklau4053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    "I know now why you cry, but it is something i can never do".
    -arnold schwarzenegger Terminator 2: judgement day

  • @uhoh6092
    @uhoh6092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    *when you cry nearly daily when you’re expected to cry only a couple times a month*

  • @batchest3245
    @batchest3245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "Step on Lego brick"
    I'm crying

  • @nodraw_
    @nodraw_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Woman: *People usually start crying on the 2nd minu...*
    Me: *Crying* *
    W: *I haven't even started a video...*
    Me: *Having hysteria* *

    • @katiefernandez2254
      @katiefernandez2254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 😭 They said the plot point of why ppl cried at the two minute break, then showed that little clip and I started to tear up INSTANTLY.

  • @aslan1306
    @aslan1306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    Its not exactly right that humans are the only animals that cry of emotion. Cows cry when they realizite that someone of their family died, they cry because they think of them , so they miss them. To miss someone is an emotion of sadness, so cows cry of emotion too!

    • @rachaelslayton1736
      @rachaelslayton1736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Do they produce tears? I know that they make a noise.. So does a dog. I have heard a dog make a sad sound when their master died.( but no tears) a cry doesn't have to be tears

    • @nathana1423
      @nathana1423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I mean some humans are cows

    • @bamberghh1691
      @bamberghh1691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Elephants can cry

    • @ryanwilson1654
      @ryanwilson1654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bamberghh1691 yes exactly I believe that is true

    • @splayer5999
      @splayer5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dogs can cry

  • @hal4473
    @hal4473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Me:
    -cried because of depression.
    -cried due to severe homesickness.
    -cried because of stress that has been building up and no close friend to express it.
    -cried because of being teased with ridiculous names until university😑.
    -cried because of sympathy for animals.
    NEVER had I cried because of joy and happiness....

    • @voidzones
      @voidzones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      *you forgot about the grades*

    • @hal4473
      @hal4473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@voidzones ooh, yeah. The most important one

    • @voidzones
      @voidzones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hal4473 yes :')

    • @sarahwellman75
      @sarahwellman75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Are you okay?😳

    • @biohazard9003
      @biohazard9003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      shut up

  • @moniiverse
    @moniiverse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why did this come up after I cried for 1hour after hearing about Kobe Bryant, his daughter, and the rest of the families that passed away😖😢

    • @fancyfeast5086
      @fancyfeast5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why? Did u know him? Why r u not crying for literally everyone else and all the children who have died since and before then? I really don't get why people cry over people they don't know

    • @chillfactory9000
      @chillfactory9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fancyfeast5086 Some people simply feel bad for them. You don't have to personally know someone or something to cry for it.

  • @icanbeneedy
    @icanbeneedy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is so much effort in these videos it's amazing!

  • @ryangobel5464
    @ryangobel5464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Series like this are the reason I still keep my TH-cam Premium. Keep it up.

    • @terenarosa4790
      @terenarosa4790 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And WAYNE

    • @MinttMeringue
      @MinttMeringue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same. I think the only things I've really watched are Mindfield, and that documentary on the boy band director dude. Glad we're getting this content

    • @NLDarkCloud
      @NLDarkCloud 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I just watched it for free even better 😇

    • @native2704
      @native2704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@NLDarkCloud lol same

    • @Diana-yy8kp
      @Diana-yy8kp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@NLDarkCloud me too:))

  • @BingusFodder
    @BingusFodder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    Ogres make me cry.
    Ogres are like onions.

    • @net_lag
      @net_lag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      *Layers*

    • @matthewswitzner1046
      @matthewswitzner1046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Why do orgys make you cry? Is it cause you feel left out?

    • @net_lag
      @net_lag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@matthewswitzner1046 Shrek

    • @m0e.e0m
      @m0e.e0m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @FEZ Originals OGRES HAVE LAYERS!

    • @era1473
      @era1473 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matthewswitzner1046 ...

  • @ffrreeddyy123456
    @ffrreeddyy123456 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love is kind. Love is community💛
    I am curious to learn more about both love and community. I’m thankful for the work others do to make our world a better place for all living things.

  • @CynthiaSchoenbauer
    @CynthiaSchoenbauer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good one. This video about crying helps me connect to myself.

  • @Rhoxe
    @Rhoxe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "When i picked up the phone and she's not there anymore.."
    Me to... When i got home from school and my dad isn't there anymore..... I miss you dad

    • @yusfa5600
      @yusfa5600 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too 😥

    • @bbcmane
      @bbcmane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Man he must want some special milk right???
      Me trying to make you feel better

    • @kingcooper2757
      @kingcooper2757 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m sorry for your loss man. I can’t imagine losing someone so close to me. I guess he got the almond milk.

  • @niciluuu-3111
    @niciluuu-3111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    idk why but i'm a person who loves crying idk why but everything is better after i cried

    • @enuu41r48
      @enuu41r48 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      rightt its almost refreshing

    • @bloedjohan7602
      @bloedjohan7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.
      It's my coping mechanism.

  • @random_girl6123
    @random_girl6123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I remember crying occasionally when I was in high school....sometimes it's a mild reason that just builds up to huge amount of tears I do not know why...sometimes I'll just lay in bed empty thoughts and just cry a bit and then go normally back to my routine as if that didn't happen at all...I used to think it was normal because I told my best friend about it and she said she did that too lol

    • @cozywalrus7175
      @cozywalrus7175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i guess teenagers cry a lot more than adults because me and most of my friend cry at least everyday

    • @chillfactory9000
      @chillfactory9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I bottle up my emotion and I tend to have a "phantom cry" where tears aren't flowing but I feel like I am.