Modern Relationships are Failing: Self-Preservation, Cheating & Submission vs. Oppression
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2024
- Are modern-day relationships destined to end up in destruction? Why are the dating streets in the pits? Can we ever get to a place of mutual companionship and fulfillment with our partners? Find out our thoughts in today’s episode!
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Whew! The conviction was toooo realllllll! Being in a relationship will show your WORST flaws too (if you decide to be accountable) and yes we don’t fear God bc we treat peopl who we claim we want to be with forever as trash!
35:00 Thanks for speaking on the Moroccan footballer news and how the majority of the articles failed to mention his sexual assault charges.
Y'all did that! This convo was a friendly reminder that I'm NOT ready to be married because I'm about ME right now. Learning more about my purposes, gifts and talents. I deserve to enjoy the fruits of my labor since finishing university--even if it has been 5 years since graduating! Keep these convos coming, Ladies! This transparency is necessary for the sake of my future relationship/marriage--when the time comes!
Moment of silence for how pretty they both look - the hair looks amazingggg Miss Renee! :)
Thank you so much! 🥹♥️
Whew. This episode was so Biblically and intellectually sound. My goodness!! You two ladies are amazing 👏🏾. First just want to thank you for addressing one of my pet peeves. As a licensed therapist the talk around narcissism aggravates my nerves. What people are describing is just selfishness and arrogance. Not actually the personality disorder!! But in regards to relationships as you ladies so elegantly put it. It comes down to a heart issue. I love that you all reflect Christ. He is the first one who loved us. He is the author of what love is. Without Him as your foundation "love" will continue to be fickle and surface.
Another, wonderful episode! I am from the US, so please tell me what “knacking?” means? Lol I am only 27, twice married and now on my second divorce process with a 7 and 4 year old, abandoned and traumatized in CA away from all friends and family on the East Coast now for a year and a half (being unable to leave due to legal proceedings, being originally brought here on military orders in 2020 but ex service member spouse left us here 2021). You all are SPOT ON without having to go through these horrible experiences about how men will marry for pure benefit and how many of us as a “Christian feminine fool” will EAT up the facade of “but I’ve got a ring, I’m being “provided for”, and I’m not shaking up!”…I’ve never seen a healthy relationship, never had a father figure, or any positive male figures all my life due to the system. All I had was the church saying what was “right and wrong” to God once you become sexually metamorphic (13,14). Having to go through another marital undoing with another spiteful, controlling and evil hearted misogynist is unfortunate for myself and my children, but your mentioning hope just gave me the strength to go though these unrepresented court proceedings, while the other side continues to hire counsel but leaves us financially despaired. I am also disabled, which as you all stated, will mean nothing at the end of the day when the heart posture of your foreseen “partner” was being cannabalized by all the hidden skeletons in the closet that should have been surrendered to the Most High prior to a DIVINE union. I so deeply wish I would have had you all as a resource long, long ago, especially due to every woman in my life not being able to advise me of any better, as they too had no better and ofc didn’t want anyone to “upstage” their lapsed potential. I pray you all reach MASSES of young women of color such as myself, because these topics are SO SO needed in order to not only continue to survive these spiritually war-fared times but to continue with courage to keep growing and glowing. Love you both so much, I wish you nothing but the BEST. 💌
Just sending you soo much love and light hun. It is well and you got this 💛💛
Knacking means s£x lol. Sending you love and light sis. You can and will get through this and GOD will see you through it all sis
Woow sending you soo much love! Just know that you are wiser now because you are at a point of acknowledgement with all experiences that will secure you to a beautiful future that is destined for YOU ❤
@@b4dbiitches thank you so much. 🤍
@@IAm_Significant I receive that sis. Thank you so much. Love always. 💌
Love this. Well, let's invite Adella Afadi as she has been married for some years. That would be an epic episode. ;)
Great suggestion! 📌📌
Yall were preaching today! i unsubscribed to aa lot of relationship accounts on social media because they were being so negative. this video has made me look at things in a different perspective and i have hope that i will find my person and now i have to think about the way i will show up in relationships. i've been single for three years and im scared to date lol
So much love from South Africa
This was so good! It definitely left me with some things to think about regarding myself and how I view relationships. This sisterhood is helping me in so many ways ❤
We love to see it! Thank you for stopping by ♥️
Happy birthday, Courtney, and congratulations to you both on the book!
Yall betta PREACH!!! 👏🏾 So many great gems in this episode that I strongly agree with. The other relationship advice online is maddening 🤯 I've been married to my husband for 7 years and we've been together over 15 years (since high school). I love that man through & through ❤ I think in a relationship communication is key, but for the world, silence is golden 🤫
Wow, you ladies are full of wisdom😭❤ This episode really spoke to me, made me evaluate my heart and soul as I'm engaged to be married this year. This has really made me reflect on how I view relationships and how influenced I am by society's definition of what marriage should be...
Speaking from a place of purpose and not pain!!!!🤯
Soooo good! I had to keep pausing the podcast because I was being shook every 15 seconds. Wonderful conversation and biblical interpretation!
such words of wisdom ! God bless you two sisters ❤
We appreciate it! Thank you and amen 🙏🏽 ♥️
Love your hair sisters 🥰 Welcome to 26! We are happy to have you in the mix 😁
Ladies we want to know what you think! Why are the dating streets in the pits? Why are we so hopeless in love? Are the genders at war?
Also, please see further context for our discussion today below ♥👇
1. Achraf Hakimi's divorce: www.theafricareport.com/301896/ashraf-hakimis-divorce-the-swift-misogynist-journey-of-fake-news/
2. Viral clip on 'rebellious' modern day women - th-cam.com/video/ll3ut-io64g/w-d-xo.html
I think everyone is operating out of fear honestly
@@jadaw7819 So profound, cos i never thought of it like this. You absolutely have a point
@@jadaw7819 and ego!!
Nobody wants to take accountability & want to point a finger at the other. But don't worry the clock will just reset & everyone will get into arranger relationships/ marriages
I'm here to say that I listen to you guys while jotting notes down. Yes the conversations are that good! God bless you!!
You ladies are very educated and informative. One love 💙
This was the best thought provoking and heart changing episode!!❤ From Kenya
Enjoyed this episode so much! Self preservation is definitely killing the girlies and the men!
This was so so good sisters
One of my favourite episodes ❤
Yeeeaaassss!!!! Go off on em.
Stay Strong Sisters. Keep spreading the good news! Buying the book soon.
Thank you for your wisdommmm💞
Once again an amazing podcast discussion that hit the nail on the head. ❤❤❤
My favourite episode this year😭🥹 so many beautiful gems spilled here! Thank you! (All the way from the land of amapiano 🤣)
South African sister marking attendance. Have a blast!! Make sure you make it to Cape Town xx
Listened to this episode over on Apple Podcast but just ran back here to watch the Ads because this episode is EVERYTHING! The last 20 minutes>>>>
Wow. This episode.
Whole conversation? ATE 🤌🏽
SPEAK ON IT!!!!
Purposeful conversations that need to be all over my feeds right now! ❤
40:18 onwards was fire! Wow! Spot on...
Marriage is such a beautiful union, especially when both parties are God fearing.
Love how you expanded on Ephesians 5. Submission is never mentioned when referring to all men and women. But clearly when talking about relationships between father and daughter and husband and wife. Wives submit to your HUSBANDS as unto the Lord~ Eph 5:22
This episode has blessed me
Happy belated birthday Renee!! 🎉❤🎉 you look so beautiful!!
Happy birthday Courtney❤❤❤❤ May God continue to bless you darling
So timely! Thank you so much for your wisdom 🤍 God bless! 🙏🏻
You ladies are both so beautiful 😍 Courtney I always loveee your natural makeup look 💛
All I have to say is I love you both so much ❤️
you guys do so much thanks for always doing the work and pushing people to grow.. love from Uganda
Nah, because you better preach, my kind sisters. This podcast is sizzling.
We love you, Courtney!!!💖
This episode 😭🤝
Thank you sisters💜💜
Commotion Commotion for a new video!!happy new week sisters❤
This was so amazing to watch! You both are so insightful!
So proud of you guys 🎉
Love the book advert. It looks great!
SOO GOOD!!
Ladies, your skins are popping Jeeeee!! 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
In terms of relationships, ego, gender wars and those dating apps make for a hot hot mess currently...not positive!
Also emotional intelligence is sooo paramount in relationships of all sorts...
You ladies were dropping jams (as always) *snap snap snap*
Happy birthday!!!
This episode.... whew chile!😅
Courtneyyyy this button down corduroy shirt!! 😍
When are you guys coming to Dallas? So excited to have you in the states
Hope you guys don't experience load shedding when you get here in South Africa😅. But it's definitely gonna be fun, fun, fun.❤
Wait did you say you are coming to South Africa?????? I'm ready 💃💃💃💃
Nobody brings up the conversation of men and money than men with no money. Why?!
Yes why.
And men who didn’t use to have money but now do and their stinking attitude amplified
"Glory be..." i burst out laughing 😭😭😭😭😭
Looooved this episode, might even watch it again soon 🫶🏾
not quite the balanced take you parade it to be, but i understand why this pod is so popular among women.
Amazing episode!! But who is Melanie King? Im a bit lost at the end you guys😭
Haha, we’ve shared some context links our comment above sis 😂♥️
@@tomysisters okay thank youuu 😭😂😂❤️ ill check it out
Amazing amazing as always ❤ thank you sisters ! Just a quick question, to the other sisters around the globe ! I am looking for start something creative (not sure what yet). Is there/are there any sisters who would be interested to collaborate with me ? Thank you ❤
Just comment here ❤
The transfer to his mothers account was a fake news apparently
Can someone tag the tiktok video or who the person it 😢😢😢
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Courtney anaongeasana. Couldn't help forwarding Na kila place anaongea shiish😕😞 let Reneaa (so) sijui spelling, but let her 🗣️ speak 👻🥹
Online Sisters, wow this podcast was a wonderful one! Honestly one of my favorite ones, thank you for this real conversation 🤍
I have to be there when you guys come to SA! 🥹😍
Hope to see you there! 🤍
SISTERSSSSS!!!! this episode was so good!!! & so freaking timely. there’s so much i could comment on but i’ll just say this… MY HOPE HAS BEEN RESTORED! thank you for this work 🫶🏿 also lmk if you’re looking for a couple in dallas to interview, my brother and his wife would be perfect! lol they married young and are still going strong. they’re the first example i’ve been able to see up close of an authentic, healthy relationship. 🫶🏿
come to Dallas for Chief’s Allure Vol. III! it’s a fashion show experience that i’m helping produce. july 8 🫶🏿
I'm here to say that I listen to you guys while jotting notes down. Yes the conversations are that good! God bless you!!