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  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +790

    Tony is turning into a comedian, I'm crying over here with laughter. 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

    • @Meishababe
      @Meishababe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He really is funny 😂

    • @MJWife07
      @MJWife07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Girl he been a comedian. You ain’t know? 😭😭😭

    • @NR-yt4ku
      @NR-yt4ku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He possesses a lot of qualities I would like to find in a man🙂

    • @tiffanyt718
      @tiffanyt718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      “Men don’t have Womenopause” lol

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@NR-yt4ku Don't worry. Yours is coming

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    “There are single men out here can't find a woman because the good women so caught up looking at men for the wrong reasons or putting up with a grown boy." TG

  • @Rachel-rt6yd
    @Rachel-rt6yd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    Moral of the story: know your worth and don't settle. Life is too short to settle for anything less than what God has for you and if you have something ignorant to say about his message make sure you make it good because you will get BLOCKED! 😂

    • @lialia8073
      @lialia8073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      BLOCKEDDDD!!! With the quickness honey! I love it

    • @Rachel-rt6yd
      @Rachel-rt6yd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lialia8073 yes ma'am! 😂😂

    • @mileyroe4877
      @mileyroe4877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes very true🤣

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So very true! Whoa, this was a deep video, but Tony is right, you won't hear this truth in the church so he has to teach it. I appreciate it!! I might be 99 and never married and on hospice waiting to meet the Lord and I still won't be desperate and sette. I just can't do it!

    • @rozadaw2178
      @rozadaw2178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perhaps you said it better Rachel, but he may have said it incorrectly ....saying women may not deserve what they are yearning for, yet explaining we were designed this way.

  • @queenq2qute
    @queenq2qute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    If you want to be desperate for a man, be desperate for the Love of Jesus Christ!! You spoke a word here nah Tony!!!

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A whole word. I needed to hear that.

    • @ToniToussaint
      @ToniToussaint 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      put that enery towards you sis!

    • @dianewilondja120
      @dianewilondja120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen amen

  • @TingleTherapyASMR1
    @TingleTherapyASMR1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I'm 26 and Tony is the wise male figure I've never had. I listen to the videos from start to finish. Thank you for your hard work Tony it's appreciated

    • @MsProdigy3
      @MsProdigy3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I"m 52 & learn something good ever time I hear Tony. He has lots of knowledge & he is blessed to be a blessing.

    • @BreeziDeezi
      @BreeziDeezi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen . Same age and i agree ❤️

  • @Eadrene
    @Eadrene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Coming from a toxic household as a child, I can fully attest to the fact that children DO in fact know when their mother should not be with their father. Growing up, I never wanted my father around us.

    • @ms.anonymousinformer242
      @ms.anonymousinformer242 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I used to pray to God to release me from living (kill me and let me go to heaven early) , because of the physical,verbal,mental,emotional abuse by my dad toward myself,and one of my two siblings (😱yes there was a sibling that was favored&recieved healthy parenting ,despite that same parent being a monster to the others). I used to fantasize & daydream of being rescued by my "real" parents. Which later in spuurred on a fictional storyline for a book. I wrote my first book for that series, in 7th grade (not published). How sad is that. Glad I have grown and gotten past that way of thinking. It was a coping mechanism.

  • @crystalglamorous
    @crystalglamorous 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    She NEXT level !!! I love that you honor your wife !!!

  • @workinperkins
    @workinperkins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    No one should force themselves to be with someone they are not attracted to. You can look good for your own self worth, not to attract someone.

    • @rose-annwoodsley1252
      @rose-annwoodsley1252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen.

    • @workinperkins
      @workinperkins 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Knowledgeseeker lishaQw358 It works both ways. I made the comment with both men and women in mind.

  • @tulip4169
    @tulip4169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Over the past few months I definitely have been renewing my mind about the way that I relate to men and see them. I’ve been changing my mind to not care about what they think or their opinion and not being desperate for their attention and validation and I feel more and more confident. I’m renewing my mind to only focus on what God says and God’s opinion of me. Genuinely not caring and not needing to have a man will prevent desperation.

  • @betterhealth1651
    @betterhealth1651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    When he paused to go on an ad, youtube actually put an ad😂😂

  • @mariahsmith9283
    @mariahsmith9283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    Dudes want to be treated like a female nowadays it doesn't resonate with my spirit.

    • @vamanm
      @vamanm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😂 so true

    • @walatajoseph9331
      @walatajoseph9331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂

    • @ena__we4205
      @ena__we4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Big facts

    • @dimediamond
      @dimediamond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      These men want to wear a skirt and be treated like a princess.

    • @jennifersalinas716
      @jennifersalinas716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dimediamond 😂😂👍🏼

  • @kendiataylor
    @kendiataylor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    “If you got some ignorant to say you might as well make it good cause it’s gone be yo last message... BLOCK” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @gailitslive9954
      @gailitslive9954 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it wont because all people have to do is keep making different accounts😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bam89081
      @bam89081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

  • @mmommo2025
    @mmommo2025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    my mom died when I was 9, it was all downhill from there. My dad was heartbroken with 4 children. My mom's besties were convinced he needed to remarry and helped him find a mate. He remarried within a year. They had a new baby. Then my dad checked out of our lives (but stayed close to the new wife and daughter). I married a criminal basically and no one really tried to stop me. You make your bed.....we had 3 kids, he cheated from day one, we separated a few times. He was verbally abusive but made sure to keep himself out of the slammer. After 34 years, my boss helped me get away, slowly but surely. Saw thousands of dolphins on a hike yesterday==my 1-year anniversary of freedom. Too bad I didn't know about TG many years ago, but I tried everything, counseling, Dr. Laura, Dr. Dobson, christian counseling, church (which I still go) my children are raised and out of the house as of 1 year ago also, all doing well. Time for me now.;)

    • @MsProdigy3
      @MsProdigy3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🎯 1 year anniversary of freedom 👌

  • @msangieM16
    @msangieM16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    He Forgave Her Cellulite But she Didn't Forgive His Hairline 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MsProdigy3
      @MsProdigy3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣 so many won't forgive anything. That's why they don't get great love & relationship.

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Only a woman can be uniquely her own woman: “A Phenomenal Woman” by Maya Angelou. She wrote about it well. So many women don’t feel complete because they are alone. Aloneness is a good thing. I like what you said before Tony in another video that “Eagles fly alone”. That stuck with me so much. Life doesn’t stop because you are alone. Learn to live with yourself. Love yourself. Learn to love the system and the system will love you. Just be the best woman you can be married or single and God will take care of the rest.

    • @gwendolynbradford4922
      @gwendolynbradford4922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said Sis!😊

    • @sotoyiaayoung
      @sotoyiaayoung 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes and Amen!!

    • @denisedean8503
      @denisedean8503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen cinder gone girl you better preach Hallelujah thank you Jesus be blessed 🙏

    • @denisedean8503
      @denisedean8503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm sorry I missed spelled your name cindee gone girl preach it 🙏

    • @nikkinicole625
      @nikkinicole625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed 🙌🏾.. I always say to the "peanut gallery 😒" I'm alone but I'm not lonely, it's a big difference" 😊

  • @Ehib_realty
    @Ehib_realty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    You are the best Relationship Coach that has ever happened to me ...God bless you richly 🙌

  • @katrinawilliams5928
    @katrinawilliams5928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    All your classmates done got married. And you ain’t even “SNIFFED A RANG!”💀💀💀😂😂😂😂

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I want a provider man because my father was a bum, as well as every man in my family. Every man my mother ever dealt with was a loser. I refuse to entertain bums and be like my mom. I want better for myself, or I’d rather be by myself.

  • @pat4eva09
    @pat4eva09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Tonyyyyy! You ain't neva lied. My mom left my dad with 4 kids...let me repeat...FOUR kids! I was three years old! My youngest brother was 1 years old and the oldest was 5!
    She did NOT look back! So you're telling the truth when you say these women are DESPERATE if they stay for the wrong reasons!
    And less than a year after my mom left another man (step-dad) came into our lives and raised us like his own!
    Tony is telling no lies! Ladies, stop the desperation and pick yourself up, leave and move on with your life!

    • @pat4eva09
      @pat4eva09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@blueseptember2174 💪🏾 Strong and knew her worth. That showed me alot!

    • @mickeykflorida9929
      @mickeykflorida9929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love this comment. I left my kids dad and my youngest isn’t even 1 yet. But i knew i had to go. I am getting myself together because one day i want an amazing man to come into me and my kids life. My bd always try to tell me no one will want me because of my kids but i know i will one day. This gave me some hope.

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    “It’s 2020. I don’t understand why women wouldn’t accept a man with 6 baby mommas and sleep with Menn” 😂😂😂 Nah imma head out ✌🏾

    • @sunflowersoul821
      @sunflowersoul821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      RIGHT!✌🏾

    • @maame6768
      @maame6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did he say that?

    • @fa5102
      @fa5102 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀

    • @joi5787
      @joi5787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      U gotta be insane to allow this!!!!

    • @michelleatchison8424
      @michelleatchison8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@joi5787 you got that right a person must be insane to put up with some BS like that that would tell me off that bat that he is no good and I wouldn't waste my time on somebody like that that's just nasty I have too many morals and value and standards and respect for myself a man like that couldn't even sniff my way

  • @charityshamese9967
    @charityshamese9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I want to be a wife really bad, but let me tell you I will leave a man in a heart beat if I'm not treated like the queen I am. I know my worth and I dont let no man play on that!!

    • @summerdior459
      @summerdior459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Okkkkkaaay

    • @allenmack5589
      @allenmack5589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's funny women want to be wives so bad, but the last thing dudes want to be is husbands.

    • @charityshamese9967
      @charityshamese9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@allenmack5589 Speak for yourself. There are some men who want it just as bad as women.

    • @allenmack5589
      @allenmack5589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@charityshamese9967 For your information I am a husband and a very happy one at that. But from my experience, most men don't want the responsibilities that come with being a husband. They prefer the freedom of playing the field until they reach a certain age.

    • @charityshamese9967
      @charityshamese9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Euphora eup I don't want to grow old by myself. I'm ready for companionship, I'm ready to make memories with my husband. I'm ready to submit, I'm ready to build. I'm ready to serve God with my husband. I'm ready for my forever etc....

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Tonyyyy I’m dyingggg. These undercover conversations are toooo muchhhhh 😂😂😂 i cant stop laughing. But it’s really true. They are nastyyyyyy

  • @MahoganyClark
    @MahoganyClark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Mr. Gaskins be giving away gems no lie..💎

  • @StephaniesWorld7
    @StephaniesWorld7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Men on pause lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Slumdog millionaire lol🤣🤣🤣 forreal
    “You gonna attract what you deserve” Amen 🙏🏽

    • @merlinsvdd
      @merlinsvdd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will remember that.

    • @elainepjones2478
      @elainepjones2478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I almost needed CPR after that statement. TG 🤣

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elainepjones2478 Gurl! Me too!

    • @livinginpeace0205
      @livinginpeace0205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rolling here!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ladyt_ismyname6643
    @ladyt_ismyname6643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    The desperation comes from emotionally unhealed attachments (detachments/open wounds) and sexual desire.

    • @marilynking527
      @marilynking527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true!

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So true for me. I have an anxious attachment style. I'm working on it.

    • @mikas2609
      @mikas2609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true! Key is to stay focused on God to decrease those fleshly desires. It’s hard work but worth it.

    • @_Dimez
      @_Dimez 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Th3lite same here

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    At 51yrs of age I'm learning more & more from you Tony every day. Because of your motivational video's, next week I will be training with a personal trainer 4x a week to get my body in shape & maintain good health. In a couple of months I will be taking your Life & Relationship Coaching classes and writing my first book. I plan to start my classes Dec 1st. (My X-Mas gift to myself😊) I have a AS degree (Legal Secretary) and will be continuing my education in Jan to receive my BS degree in Accounting so that I can become a financial advisor as well. Thank you Tony for your dedicated & motivational video's to Utube. God bless you.

    • @oliviam5890
      @oliviam5890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Go Sheree 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾!

    • @shereewhite4828
      @shereewhite4828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oliviam5890 Thank you so much.😊

  • @LeafsIn2024
    @LeafsIn2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    One of your best videos ever, Tony.
    You addressed so many delicate subject matters so well and with real courage, says this white woman who usually says nothing but clicks on "like". I am truly grateful for the lessons of honesty and integrity that you present that affect all human beings everywhere. Thank you, too, for the American cultural expression explanations. That helps to follow the examples.
    Resonated with be desperate for and trust in the Lord, read your Bible, and why.
    Thank you for caring about us and keeping it real. You're absolutely right - we would not hear about these matters at church or, I believe, anywhere else. It is a privilege to be here.
    Please stay safe and be blessed - you and your beautiful family. 🇨🇦

  • @SixFootofFitness
    @SixFootofFitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “Your two month old don’t know you!!! .”😩😩😂😂

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    No way! No money or status in the world can influence me to deal with a man who has baby mamas and deals with men. I don’t know how women can even kiss a man who just got off the microphone 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @alinabuzulanofficial2915
    @alinabuzulanofficial2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I’m white and I love the funny comments regardless of who it’s applied to, and even if it is about white girls, it’s true so why get offended hahaha

  • @th3nigmatic
    @th3nigmatic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    “Did I wipe good ... cus I had chilli... “
    Sir... I am speechless .... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @michelleatchison8424
      @michelleatchison8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆😆😝😂😂

    • @Notinuse2435
      @Notinuse2435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @loonietunes22
      @loonietunes22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I almost choked. Whew, that man is hilarious!!!!!

    • @nicolataylor536
      @nicolataylor536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mymakersdaughter6041 I was eating breakfast and I laughed out so loud I spit out my food..lol.😄😄😄

  • @kayladurden7478
    @kayladurden7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    “He den forgave her cellulite, but she won’t forgive his hairline!” That just sent me! 🤣🤣🤣❤️

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    "Listen! A sin is a sin!...Stop bein' Desperate for Love!" ~TG
    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @summerdior459
      @summerdior459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts 💯

    • @sotoyiaayoung
      @sotoyiaayoung 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly therr is no SIN greater ... Sin is Sin.... ie , stealing, lying, etc... all the same...

  • @shadaehodge2858
    @shadaehodge2858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This had to be the funniest one thus far. My laughter was so loud the whole video. I can’t with him🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️ This is why I love him. Funny and informative at the same dang time💪🏾😊

  • @lesliehernandez8076
    @lesliehernandez8076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Can I hit that like button more than once or nah? 😂😩😂
    Wisdom and laughter every time

  • @salomeyul
    @salomeyul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Both hilarious and enlightening! I cannot express with words how much my life has changed since I found your videos. Every day, one or 2 videos. Sometimes I watch the same video several days in a row when I feel like I need more time to get the message,
    I keep learning from you, and your words mean the world to me ♥ Thank you for everything you do

  • @tonnielittle398
    @tonnielittle398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I value me too much, I thank God I'm healthy, in my right mind and I have a heart that desires to love God. After marriage to the same man (twice) together over 25yrs, I can not give a man an opportunity to waist my time again. I would love to be with a wonderful grown man who loves me and can shows it, but if I never meet him I'm good in this world by myself. It want be the first time and I know I will never lie, cheat, belittle or stab my own self in the back or heart for that matter!!! God is Love!

    • @mac3643
      @mac3643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's crazy. 25 years it's so much. Do you think it was real or completely wasted time? It must be much pain.

    • @tonnielittle398
      @tonnielittle398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Malgorzata C the pain is gone!!! But it was truly like morning a death. I now know it was never real, 2 sons and a daughter (20,23&28). He manipulated and used our relationship until i wised up. We where together but i was the mom and dad for our kids, even now. But i thank God my heart now knows the truth!!!! I’m above him and the pain and I’m going even higher each day!!!

    • @kendragrant7139
      @kendragrant7139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was married to my ex husband for 18 yrs but together 27 yrs I had to get out he took me for granted I could never go back I was hurt betrayed etc I gave my all to the marriage but I thank God for deliverance it's been 3 yrs since the divorce and I'm doing great I don regret a thang

    • @tonnielittle398
      @tonnielittle398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kendragrant7139 We gone be just fine without them! We just have to keep moving forward!!!💕✌🏾

    • @kendragrant7139
      @kendragrant7139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely!!

  • @kay7216
    @kay7216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "She wants Ddris Selba" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @susiebrown4988
    @susiebrown4988 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Pause, TH-cam run an ad. Ad over Tony started again. 😂😂 I’m over here three years later rolling! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @afrozeahmed6515
    @afrozeahmed6515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Just had a breakup 1month ago,Im 32 years old,I wonder if they disrespect you on purpose because they think you are older and you gona tolerate bs-I told myself I was NOT going to become desperate-I was not going to tolerate disrespect and controlling behaviour even if I love the guy.I also thought about the fear of being alone-I had to overcome my fear and this ladies is courage.Dont listen to that clock in case you are worried-God Loves you and He wants the best for us!Remember that

    • @vickyy.9880
      @vickyy.9880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im also 32. I have to fight against those thoughts of being older now with no kids. But I want what God approves for me NOT what my flesh says.

  • @MzSam2U
    @MzSam2U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    God has not blessed me with children yet at 30+ years old but I find myself very nurturing and motherly like. I also know I need to put my fears in check.

    • @sandraperry8287
      @sandraperry8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ladies, it will happen. Be patient and focus on loving yourself. I had my son at 36. I dont regret that age at all. I was mature and settled.

    • @stephaniemensah1858
      @stephaniemensah1858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sandraperry8287 Thank you for your encouragement darling. God bless you!

    • @vangeogilvie7543
      @vangeogilvie7543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pray All things with Gd is possible

    • @thatgirlcocoa
      @thatgirlcocoa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Believe that it will happen. 🙏🏾✨

    • @MzSam2U
      @MzSam2U 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Euphora eup Thank you so much, Many Blessings to You!

  • @delanagivens5188
    @delanagivens5188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    PLEASE PLEASE NEVER STOP BEING REAL & MAKING THESE VIDEOS!!! Bless you sir!!

  • @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation
    @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Cheating isn’t limited to sex, at all.

  • @ena__we4205
    @ena__we4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Always look forward to the message from Uncle Tony.❤

  • @tooswavykidds6458
    @tooswavykidds6458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    You really need the holy Spirit in these days it's so much deception and when you are drawn away by your own LUST ..

  • @jojo-coach6927
    @jojo-coach6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Yes!! Tell your wife I need her as a coach 😂😂

  • @deeenthusiast3743
    @deeenthusiast3743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This man talking too much sense!! Love it!!

  • @crzytinabubu
    @crzytinabubu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    He just wants us to do better. .
    Self love... we can do it . . A little boss up .. glow up... i am not going to lie . I want to be right with or without a man lol.. but he's going to be mine hes going to have good character.. treat me right ..team work .ambition too .. .no more revolving door. Time to do right by me.

  • @Uniqu3neverway
    @Uniqu3neverway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I literally spit out my tea when he said Osama bin Laden nephew😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m weakkkkk

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nyeesha Thomas 😩😩😩😩😩😭😭😭😭😭

  • @candycane5088
    @candycane5088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You can always upgrade your TH-cam account to avoid all advertising ads. It’s well worth it !!!

    • @thatgirlcocoa
      @thatgirlcocoa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got it and I love it... one of the best uses of my money 💰

  • @melodichomage1832
    @melodichomage1832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    “You thought I was sleep...nope, I was up...BLLLLOOOCCCKKK!😈😂😂😂😂

    • @thelightoftheworld9346
      @thelightoftheworld9346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha that's funny blocked blocked you better say queen right Lol just saying cuz Tony will get mad 😂🤣👍👌😎😊🤩😋😛😁😀🌟🙏🤤🌞

    • @thelightoftheworld9346
      @thelightoftheworld9346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You thought l wasn't paying attention huh Tony 🤣😂😀😁👍👌😊🤩

  • @margaritalozano6523
    @margaritalozano6523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Favorite phrase, “Got to go!” 😂🤣

  • @fancydani
    @fancydani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    No one ... absolutely no one .... Tony Gaskins : Dookie Shoot 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @michelleatchison8424
      @michelleatchison8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆😆😁😁😂😂😂

    • @carmenparish
      @carmenparish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @thelightoftheworld9346
      @thelightoftheworld9346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been watching you all day u talk alot like me when I'm not shy what do I got to do to be like you a mentor right

    • @thelightoftheworld9346
      @thelightoftheworld9346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tony how come I always get the bad guys I'm a good woman I'm faithful and loving and loyal and more I was with a narcissist for like 12 years and ever since then I've been getting bad men dating Bad Man how come????

  • @sylviasalcedo8569
    @sylviasalcedo8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Even though Tony's words raw words made me cringe a bit, he is so right on!! The church does not speak on truth like this. We need this Tony.. thank you!!

  • @yanicketienne1464
    @yanicketienne1464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    “Adultnap”. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tooswavykidds6458
    @tooswavykidds6458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Lord thank you for raising him up.... protect him Jesus

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Tony....This has Many funny, hilarious parts, but ALL of it is 💯% TRUTH...😔👍🏽🔥

  • @jerejennings7404
    @jerejennings7404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Tony your videos have brought me out of a dark place. You have spoken so much life into me. Coming out of a 9 year toxic relationship I needed major HEALING. I was desperate for love for so long. Thank you helping to know and understand my worth. I knew it but my desperation clouded my judgement. After watching “ be ok being single” “ your healing” and numerous others. I feel so much stronger in my womanhood. To be able to WAIT FOR MR TIME. Your videos are amazing, your words resonate in my soul and I have been able to apply it to my everyday life. You don’t know how much you’ve built me up.

  • @marilynking527
    @marilynking527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Most of us women are scared to be alone I had to get out of that mindset. Thank God for healing!!

  • @linglingtriniting
    @linglingtriniting 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lol when he talks about blocking I’m always on the floooooor.

  • @jimmyharrison290
    @jimmyharrison290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you Mr Gaskin.
    You say you're not a comedian..
    But this upload was hilarious.
    Continue speaking the truth in love.
    😂😂😂

  • @wisdom6041
    @wisdom6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Not “ satan’s nephew!” 😂😂😂😂

  • @tachanyevans8329
    @tachanyevans8329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I ain't never laughed so hard in my life.....but he speaks truth, thank you Tony Gaskins

  • @YourtrustedREAgent
    @YourtrustedREAgent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The examples he's giving us is true reality, and very scary at the same time this was a wake-up call. Thanks Tony Gaskins

  • @mrs.masterpeace1115
    @mrs.masterpeace1115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You are the ABSOLUTE BEST!!!!!!! We ALL NEED TO HAVE OUT TOES STEPPED ON every now and then.
    Thank you my Brother in CHRIST! You are DEFINITELY LIVING in your PURPOSE. Truly GRATEFUL TO GOD FOR YOU.

  • @lindarobinson1980
    @lindarobinson1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Tony you are right on point....some women are so desperate to be married or in a relationship. I sale furniture and some of my customers confide in me since I'm an older woman. This woman is dating a man in prison who will be released in January 2022. They are engaged to be married and he wants her to move with him to the country, away from her family and 3 teen children! I informed her that this is a red flag!! He wants to isolate her so he can have total control over her life. She is in her 40's and never been married. I told her not to act like a wife until she becomes one. Take it slow he need to get a job, a place of his own, a car, and savings for their future. Also they need to go to the doctor to get tested for STD's...she can't wait to have sex with him! I told her to keep her legs closed, but she said" I'll try." So sad she really need God in her life!!

    • @MsProdigy3
      @MsProdigy3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great advise to her. Don't give up.

    • @tietearoddy
      @tietearoddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was great advice but sadly she won't listen.

  • @kadinethompson9442
    @kadinethompson9442 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sir I’m here to watch ALL of your videos. Point blank periodt!!

  • @a.t5705
    @a.t5705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are literally an Earth angel. You saved my life; I am so grateful to have bumped into your videos. I’m 18 y/o and I am now closer to God growing into the woman I desire to be. May God bless you and your family thank you so much.

  • @Intuitivelyspeaking13
    @Intuitivelyspeaking13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Tony: Alright TH-cam run an ad!
    TH-cam: Ok got you.

    • @NaturalSuee
      @NaturalSuee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Basicallyyyyy😂😂😂🤝

    • @JoyBunni
      @JoyBunni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😄I pay for Premium, did the ad play when he said?

    • @uzougwu1511
      @uzougwu1511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That part is killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Intuitivelyspeaking13
      @Intuitivelyspeaking13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joy yes it did, right on cue. 😂😂😂

    • @JoyBunni
      @JoyBunni 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Intuitivelyspeaking13 That Tony is the master of this here TH-cam.

  • @tatums.7472
    @tatums.7472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Omg! You crack me up I'm listening to you on my ear piece at work bout to get caught laughing out loud like I'm crazy😂😂😂. As funny as it may be it is so real thank you for delivering a message so powerful with humor.

  • @LadiiBlues14
    @LadiiBlues14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "You might favor Gladys Knight" 😂😂

  • @MzSam2U
    @MzSam2U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "OH you do both" pops lips.. I see a vision in him though🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂😂

  • @middleofnowhere6322
    @middleofnowhere6322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tony: "Marry this stapler?!" Hahahaa. This was ace 😁 👍 😂

  • @SixFootofFitness
    @SixFootofFitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “Block!!!!!!!” Omg... I love it Tony!!❤️😂😂😂😂😂

  • @joanna6570
    @joanna6570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Such a blessing to have free 1 hour videos that are life changing! Never clicked so fast 🙏🏾

  • @LD-mv3bk
    @LD-mv3bk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She takes pride in being your wife because you appreciate her, your honor her, you respect her!

  • @MzSam2U
    @MzSam2U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Well Tony ain't popping in today for 20 minutes! We getting the full lesson for a 59 minutes! Premium youtube dont have ads either!

  • @jojo-coach6927
    @jojo-coach6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    His commentary and stories make me laugh so hard because I'm visual and I just can't 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂 sometimes I have to pause and breathe 😂😂😂😂
    The Woman Coalition Rescue Squad!!!!!😭😭😭😭😂😂😂 Designated to Rescue You...Wake You Up and then Send You On Your Way 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cadejawilson925
    @cadejawilson925 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He litterally could be a preacher and a comedian at the same time 😂 I go from Amen to WEAK with a quickness 😂❤

  • @diannejenkins9966
    @diannejenkins9966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ok Tony. I am enjoying this video because you always keep it 100. I was not fortunate to bear children. I have my nieces and nephews and I treat them as my own. Since my divorce they keep me busy.

  • @valdraemiddleton853
    @valdraemiddleton853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The way you said bisexual sent me🤣🤣🤣..Man this was the realist, most funniest video ever. I love how you can joke about different matters, but yet be very informative at the same time. Watching your videos has definitely changed my mindset and way I date. If someone watches your videos and still does the same stupid things in their dating life, they just can't be helped. You are so blunt, yet so gentle.

  • @AngelTheLeopardDiva
    @AngelTheLeopardDiva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tony you continue to make me sigh AND CRY!! You are always 100 percent on point. Your delivery truly drives home what’s real..!!

  • @ashleyhenderson3856
    @ashleyhenderson3856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    😂😂😂😂😂 Tony cracks me up every time he does a video lol!!!!!

  • @scranton9191
    @scranton9191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have to watch this two times!! The first time is to get alllllll my laughs out, the second time is to try and focus on all this wisdom 😂😂😂

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tony that's the greatest complement I've ever heard a man give to his wife. That was amazing.

  • @sharonlee7296
    @sharonlee7296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow, I always knew my purpose was to be a mother & nurturer & I was always excited to get there. I am for independent women but I don't get wanting to be like a man.

  • @kennedi3611
    @kennedi3611 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️…. All I can say is Brother Tony is so truthful.😂😂 Continue to let the Lord lead you…. I thank God for every message Brother Tony.

  • @ZawadiBirya
    @ZawadiBirya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was hilarious - I laughed from beginning to end.

  • @tooswavykidds6458
    @tooswavykidds6458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've never been stupid especially as being a mother when I see the train not moving or getting ready to derail I be gone

  • @PrettyDreadie
    @PrettyDreadie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every time i hear “Hey Hey Tony Gaskins here” i know it’s gonna be a lit video 🔥🙏🏽

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Stop makin' Excuses for yo' Desperation!"
    ~TG
    😣💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @gemmerouge8828
    @gemmerouge8828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Tell me what it looked like on the other side of being BLOCKED” 🤣🤣🤣 this video was GOLD. Called me all the way out but maaaan I LAUGHED 😂🙏🏾 Thank you again Tony!
    Ladies, we are BLESSED to be getting these lessons, I’m telling y’all 😁

  • @jsue6994
    @jsue6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why I’m itching 😂😂😂! I can’t stop laughing.

  • @trudycrawford5052
    @trudycrawford5052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love how real you are. It’s not easy to hear sometimes but so true!

  • @belizeanbaby
    @belizeanbaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've never had that "ticking to be a mother" or been scared to be alone but I respect & have learned alot as usual from TG.🤣

  • @maryihezie1190
    @maryihezie1190 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this! "Everything that you deserve comes to you. You will attract what you deserve."~Tony Gaskins

  • @brittbrat3232
    @brittbrat3232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Blessed Tribe check in!

  • @laphawnewatt4830
    @laphawnewatt4830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Education to get my healthy lifestyle, and healthy relationships. You give it to me straight

  • @Sarafara7
    @Sarafara7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can't thank you enough for these videos. I have a best friend who recently got married to a man who's no good. The desperation was/is so clear. Meanwhile, I left a guy I really liked cause I realized he's a grown boy and that kind of relationship isn't going to add anything to my life. I'm hoping she realizes soon he's not good for her.

  • @terricacole78
    @terricacole78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You keep me laughing 😂 but you are always tell us the truth! Thank you and God blessed you !!

    • @micheleprice9771
      @micheleprice9771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMen!SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! MAY2021