I was told about this review and I want to thank you for the compassionate and understanding way in which you have approached it. I wrote the book at the behest of Dr Erika Freeman, the eminent psychoanalyst who was a great friend of my sister-in-law Jeannie (Lady Jean Campbell), so knew the inside track. Erika felt my (really our, the whole family's) story could be a possible help to others who were trapped in narcissistic relationships, if only because our survival showed that one doesn't need to be destroyed. Out of pain and turmoil can come strength as well as understanding, which will ultimately be life-enhancing. And your're so right about my beloved brother Mickey. He was such a wonderful person, as were my grandmother, aunt and grandfather. Thank you so much. It is much appreciated.
Shawna you did a beautiful, compassionate review, it is to your credit. Lady C, you are a wonderful, intellectual, witty, compassionate woman. I respect you, trust you and wish you only the best. Thank you for sharing your story.
Georgie and Shauna - you are both up in my top TH-camrs for your fun, intelligence and intelligent commentaries (note I don't always totally agree so this isn't a sycophantic love-in post 😍❤)! I would totally agree with the quote about courage vs cowardice...great viewpoint!! I look forward to both your posts...much love Jxo
I read LCC’s book a couple of years ago. It was heartbreaking to read how she and her siblings were terrorized by their narcissist mother. Through her strength of character and cleverness, Georgie managed to survive not only her mother’s NPD but the terrible, awful, no-good man that she married. Her sweet dog Mickey (Mickie ?) who appears at the start of almost every YT video was named in loving tribute to her brother.
I was fortunate enough to "win" an afternoon tea with Lady Colin. What was supposed to an hour Zoom chat went some overtime and was a wonderful, diverse, thoroughly enjoyable conversation. She is a strong character with a dry and wicked sense of humour. And she's extremely gracious. I know her story from what I've read and from our conversation. If you want to read and be inspired to live life to the fullest, her story is one to recommend.
Great review. Lady C is an amazingly talented person. She is honest, principled, intelligent and unafraid to speak the truth. Her books and podcasts are hugely informative. Long live Lady C!!
Being a child of a narcissistic mother, I was also horribly abused in almost every way a child can be abused. My heart goes out to Lady C and her siblings. May God bless her mind & heart so she doesn’t have to remember it all, or continue to be hurt by it. 💛🙏🏼💛
Lady C survived by her intelligence and knew her mom was crazy and that most people were not like her that. It had to help to have siblings to go through it with.
Now I want to read her book. I have heard her speak briefly of her younger years and her birth defect (I really hate that term), and I think now I want to hear her tell me the whole story. She is an amazing woman. I have a lot of respect for her.
@@thevintageread I wasn't being critical of you, Shauna, just of the term. I know it's referred to as such by everyone, including M.D.s, I just don't like it. No judgement from me toward you. You're good people.
@@SarahGreen523 : You won't regret reading Lady C's book. Perhaps it's because *my* mother was also an evil narcissist but I found it to be one of the best books I've ever read. It's a huge book but it's so riveting I didn't want it to end. Like Georgie, I didn't have relief until my mother died. Narcissists definitely DO NOT improve with age. They get meaner and nastier. I just wish she had died sooner. She was 92 & I was 66.
I wish you all the best reading the book of Lady C on her life trauma. It is not a story book that i would want to read in bed. It is her traumatic early and married life journey . I have a lot pain for that young child and young woman. All my respect to Lady C and you.
I admire Lady C., she’s an amazing person, not only beautiful but extremely intelligent, never mind being an historian too. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about her book.
Thomas Markle was into giving MEgain everything she wanted and not saying "No". His little princess. He created this monster, along with other forces. Doria taught her all about "the con" and Tinsel Town instilled her values. 🤮
Lords Campbell and Lucan, Baron Glenconner….these awful aristocrats were well-protected by society and legacy media. It’s great that the truth comes out in today’s more egalitarian media! Thank you!
I listened to her book on Audible & it gave me several moments of reflection on my past within our family… I often had to just turn it off as it both awoke & explained so many times remembered in tortuous confusion but, as I mulled over her take on what was happening to her, it created an understanding I was never able to experience before. Thank you for your review & especially: Thank You LCC for your sharing what has made you the person you are & bestowing us with your wisdom!
While she's not as bad as her mum she seems to have some of the same traits. Why else keep the title from a brief marriage in her youth. That title is now the foundation of her brand, Her youtube channel is pretty much just hours of her telling people she knows more than anyone else. She couldn't even wait for the official announcment of the quenn's passing, she had to tell people herself.
You can tell that Lady's C"s wisdom comes from, unfortunately,lived pain.She is a straight talking , honest and fearless woman.
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I grew up in a narcissistic family, albeit not this extreme. It is hard to overcome the physiological scars. On one hand I would love to read this book because it is good to be inspired by someone who has overcome such difficult circumstances. On the other hand it would be painful for someone like me who knows first hand experience of living with a narcissistic person.
In order to heal, as best you can from the narcissist/sociopath abuse, walk into the fire. Don't be afraid! You can survive ANYTHING after what you have endured. Painful, yes but so helpful for appreciating the blessings that come into your life! The book is a good read...and you can handle the memories that will surface.
*WonderWereld...etc:* It took me 2 years after buying the book to have the courage to start reading it. Yes, it does bring back some painful memories....many that I had blocked, but it is a riveting book as well. Knowing how this fine lady we know as Lady C had such a horrific home life (like ours) yet survived, was truly inspiring. I wish I'd had half the courage she has. I remained under my mother's thumb until she died. I'm 73 and she died 5 years ago. I only wish she had died sooner. But at last I'm free.
Yes, this too is a dilemma for me, as to whether to read it now or later. I have three years of intensive trauma therapy under my belt, that has helped me enormously in coming to terms with what I/we experienced in childhood, how that shaped my brain, how I experienced the world, into a very, very unhealthy, poorly functioning thing, despite my temperament, values, ethics, positive characteristics. I'm only writing this here, with the chance it may let you know, if you don't already, that great healing is possible from abuse/neglect in childhood, no matter what form or intensity that took. It really is.
@@thomasmcnerney9745 Thank you for that beautiful comment. It brought tears to my eyes. I think all of us suffer through childhood events, but some are just so severe that it will either make you a break you. Lady C has made it and her experiences will help millions of other people. I’m glad that you have faced your demons and I wish you health and happiness. I’m not quite there myself, but I hope to be someday. God bless. ♥️
@@ginawiggles918 it’s like walking on egg shells isn’t it . Learning about narcissistic behaviour taught me that it’s not your fault , your not to blame and trying your best is like pissing in the wind because it’s never good enough . I grew up with a lack of confidence , I was treated like I was stupid . I know now that I wasn’t and the anger inside me has made me determined to grow . I am 61 years old and determined to enjoy what’s left in my life . I find my balance in nature , art and books . I ignore those who don’t respect me , a good friend is someone who will let you grow not pull you down , so I don’t have many but those I do I cherish. I wish you the best and I hope you can find peace in your heart to enjoy the rest of your life
I loved this book. I have read a number of her books and I really enjoyed them all. It is amazing how how well Lady C has put her mothers life from her point of view in words while helping us to understanding the narcissist.
I have been thinking of reading this book since I started following Lady C’s channel. I didn’t realise the abuse was that bad. I will read it but have to be in the right frame of mind as it sounds difficult. Thank you so much for this review.
I read the book, and my one takeaway: I miss my mother! She's been gone 13 years now, and she was a kind, loving person who sacrificed for her husband and four children. She was a nurse, and she gave of her time and expertise to everyone in the neighborhood---from people needing B12 injections weekly to children who were injured when they fell off their bikes. She was there. Lady C's mother was nothing like my mother----and for that fact I am grateful every day. Narcissists are destructive in many ways, but the resiliency of children is often stressed to the max when they must deal with a narcissistic mother.
It's an excellent book, well written, & incredibly thought provoking. Not a sniff of victimhood just an honest, almost clinically raw presentation, of how Lady C managed to survive a narcissistic mother, an abusive husband, & retain sanity, integrity, & a resilient determination not to let 'life' define her with admirable class & grit. An extraordinary lady. Thankyou for the review 👏👏
I also think Lady C survived and thrived due to her high IQ, no amount of “strength of character” would have stopped that hours of beating from her husband. I believe that she survived the beating because she was smart to stage her own suicide, smart and creative. Except for the part where she married him! That was not smart.
Most definitely, higher IQ can be significantly advantageous in helping children whilst abuse/neglect etc is happening and how to find your way through thereafter. It's not essential, but from my own experience, looking back... I got myself through and out of some very dangerous situations, not knowing how at the time and don't think I would have survived had I not be able to think things through so quickly, make snap decisions and follow through. Maybe it was just survival instincts kicking in, IDK. It took me a long, long time to accept that the all of the results of my extensive IQ and personality structure testing came out with the results it do. I did not believe them, was convinced they had the wrong person - on the TWO occasions several years apart this was undertaken - because it was drilled so strongly into me as a child and throughout early adult years that I was stupid and responsible for my inability to function (when in reality it was because I was extremely traumatised). Now, I'm finally beginning to see it as a blessing, a tool that can help with my recovery, and still give me a chance to do some of the things I've dreamt of doing to reach at least some of my potential.
@@permissiontoshine Your story is amazing to me. I sometimes call it “childhood denied”. But as you’ve pointed out the intellectual agility that got you through was also denied to you. You weren’t encouraged to exercise/develop/use your brainpower, to the point you doubted it existed. It seems like the most outrageous gaslighting. I am thrilled to read that you’re becoming more whole, more you, that the mantle of your intelligence is finally going to be seen and heard. Is suspect reaching your potential will be thrilling to you, and potentially a lot of others. I learned, not that recently, that prolonged trauma in childhood can result in giftedness. This information was pushed in front of my nose as test results. Way before that, in grade two the teachers selected me to go to a school for the gifted. But I didn’t go. I asked my N mom why, and she told me I wasn’t smart enough. I applaud your recovery and the brilliant things you are going to finally unleash.
Thank you for reading this and warning us of the content. I don’t handle abuse of children very well at all or even abuse in adults. I can’t read stuff like that or it gives me bad dreams and weighs heavily on my mind. I had thought about buying it, but I don’t think I would be able to manage it. Although I know it would be wonderful for Lady C. to have a brother with her, it must be a relief for him to not have to live with those horrible memories; poor child. It reminds me of Mommy. Dearest and books like that. I’m sure Lady C has enormous empathy for others in that situation. I’m glad they got out from under their crazy mother and stood on their own and especially Mickey before he died. 😢
Same here, cannot read the book, l happen to love Lady C and respect her, and l appreciates your review of the book, l could hear you talk for ever, thankyou ❤❤❤
Her story gives her such a good understanding of the Harkles. My heart goes out to their poor children. If they both exist, I am sure little Archie will be the scape goat. In the picture with Doria and Nutmeg he looked so terrified. It felt so heart wrenching. Lilli will probably face problems if she overshadows her mother´s looks at a later stage. Nutmeg is really living through all the fairy tales - the Mermaid, Mother Hulda( her and Kate) , Rapunzel ( hiding the children-mine!) and later probably Snowwhite. Only, who is always the villain?
I read this book awhile back. She is an amazing writer and despite the difficult material, I couldn't put it down. Your review is spot on and I want you to know that I love your videos.
Thank you for your excellent review of this book. I have just finished Lady Colin Campbell’s book A Life Worth Living which I thoroughly enjoyed and Daughter of Narcissus is next on my must-read list! Her life story is a page-turner of survival and integrity! I enjoy all of your broadcasts! Thanks for your hard work in bringing us fascinating information! -A big fan in North Carolina!
@thevintageread North Carolina’s Fan Club of Australia’s Best is growing & proof of our fine taste! Greetings from SFC member in Knightdale (outside Raleigh). Oh?? Of course: Shauna’s Fan Club! Never thought myself a groupie at my old age!
@@ncree4526 Hi ncree! I’m in Winston-Salem so very close to you! Yes we definitely have refined taste, don’t we! I enjoy the Vintage Read and have only recently found it! I am a huge Anglophile so am having a great time watching these podcasts and Lady C’s as well. Thanks for reaching out, neighbor!
I agree that Lady C has survived what not most of us could! We all should applaud her achievements in showing the damage done to those prevented from being honest about their lives.
It seems like some of these so called aristocratic men are beasts. This reminded me of Lady Anne Glenconner's book 'Lady in Waiting: My Extraordinary Life in the Shadow of the Crown'. How she managed to stay married to her abusive husband is incredible. Great review of Lady C's book. She certainly understands narcissism.
Lady C's mother sounds like my mother, and thankfully, they both are departed. I am going to get the book but I just hope that my own memories don't overwhelm me. I read Mommy Dearest and that one did affect me. But knowing I'm not the only one isn't really a good thing, it's just knowing that I wasn't the only one with a monster for a mother, that I wasn't alone. There are people out in the world who would believe what I would tell them about my mom. Thank you for reviewing this book or I never would have heard of it. I love your channel.
*Patricia Keys:* It *IS* scary to face starting the book if you're a survivor of narcissistic abuse. It sat on my bookshelf for 2 years before I got the courage to start it. But Lady C is such a good writer that you soon get caught up in her remarkable story and how she not only survived, but thrived, is awe inspiring. Took awhile to get through it. It's very thick and the print is small....but still, I consider it one of the best books I've ever read.
I have read her story and think she is amazing to have come out of it all sane. She is a fascinating person and has had an incredible life and now seems to be in a happy place with her sons living at Castle Goring. Her knowledge of history is exceptional. I enjoyed your review and understanding
Although Lady C isn't everyone's cup of tea, l admire her resiliency, entrepreneurship, and especially her command of language both written and spoken.
I wish that I could listen to this, but it is too similar to my own upbringing, except I was the one being beat with the belt buckle end of my father's belt. I have PTSD and this has brought it all back and has left me in tears.
I am SO VERY Sorry that you had to go through such horrific abuse! I pray that God will Bless you with healing and everything that brings joy and beauty into your life! 🙏💜
Sending a prayer to you Madge, God is the healer. "If you look at the world, you'll be distressed. If you look within, you'll be depressed. But if you look at Christ, you'll be at rest."--Corrie ten Boom.
This is the best review. I, like many others, love Lady C. Will be seeking out this book to read, because I really want to hear her story and how she overcame such adversity. What an amazing lady. ❤
Loved this - just wish it was longer 😕 But I understand a review should be something to entice or dissuade people to read the book, so you wouldn’t want to give too much away and you definitely did that. Very interested to read it - liked her Harry & Meghan book and have wondered about her own life, so thank you 💕
It is difficult to even grasp that she lived with a monster of a mother and then married someone who battered her even more. I don't know what kept her spirit after all that dysfunction that she lived with. I admire her courage and that she raised her two boys to become exceptional young men. Bravo!!!!
Jesus Shauna. I made my last comment before i got to the end of your vid. Had no idea her husband did all that. What a shit. That poor girl. How is she still sane after what she went through?
My long scapegoated husband suffered a premature death due to the decades of emotional/psychological/physical trauma he sustained by npd mother & brother….he had healed greatly but his body didn’t quite catch-up…..I adore and am so grateful to Lady Colin Campbell for her wonderful yt channel & the work she does to bring the truth out about these awful creatures 🐲….Love you Lady C🩷🌸🩷🌸🐦⬛🐦⬛….the world needs you ever so
.What struck me about Lady C's book was the fact she knew very well of her mother's cruelty but even well into adulthood, tried over and over with her. She learned to protect herself better but she still gave what she could to her sadistic and self centred mother.
I couldn't read what she and her brother went thru, I would carry it around with me and I know my heart would be so heavy. I love watching Lady C and have much respect for her.
A great Lady, I didn’t know about the book, I will certainly get it . Valuable insight into narcissistic behavior , rising above that level of abuse is no mean feat. Thank heavens there was a other relatives who showed her kindness and support, so very sad Lady C’s brother died before time, his cancer no doubt brought about by stress. The puzzle for me is why her father allowed himself to be emasculated, a handsome successful business man, bullied into a shell of a man.? Like many other viewers , I can relate to this scenario all too well. Thank you a balanced review of Lady CC book.
Please consider review of Lady C’s other memoirs noted by your fans’ comments below. A summer relief from Harry&wife. Our world news is so distressing that your channel is a safe haven. Your book reviews coalesce your MANY talents of intellect, insight, compassion, & humor, as if former singer now reigns as lovely Aussie Siren for aching hearts & thirsty minds. What a joy you are in every video, deserving of acclaim proven in hundreds of comments!!! ❣
@@thevintageread Compliments are solely writing obvious truth, echoed by your many fabulous fans/comments. Thank you for allowing a kind community to thrive under your banner!
Great book review! Fascinating life story of Lady Campbell whom I know very little about except for her YT videos. Definitely adding this read to my book list.📚
Wonderful review, I am definitely interested in reading this book. Snippets of her backstory have always been in the public forum, and I have read that Lady C is a wonderful writer, so it will be a delight to read. One wonders how someone could go through so much in life, and still be a well-rounded, caring, funny person. Lady C has been able to overcome so much, and her experience carries a lot of credible weight, particularly in these days of modern victimhood. Thanks.
I’m just over half way through Lady C’s book. You can almost hear her speaking . She is truly an inspirational woman. She uses her experiences to help others. I’ve learned so much by just reading this book and A life Worth Lving. My sister and I think she’s the greatest .
I read this very powerful book last year. How someone survives the multiple nasty treatments by several people and becomes a well adjusted productive person is remarkable. You really have to admire Lady Colin Campbell and what she has accomplished
I did read daughters of narcissus. I was able to learn more about narcissists from her book because of the descriptions of the behavior of her mother. This was very useful for me in identifying a family member with this disorder. However, I wasn't able to keep the book because of the intensity of her experience it made me feel sad and I didn't want to remember that. She is one of my favorites on TH-cam, not because of her strength, but because of her joy, lightness and sense of humor. It is evident to me that the Lord got her through this, and brought her to a whole new life through faith in him. She the true version of what he intended her to be ❤
As a 'survivor' of a narcissistic mother, this empathic review is touching and very interesting. Somehow, having been her mother's favourite to begin with strikes me as having been part of Lady Colin Campbell's resilient nature--a subjective view as I know all about the pervasive struggles of being the one less loved or the one not loved at all.
I find it very interesting Lady C was raised as boy, but was, in reality, a girl and chose to purchase a home like Goring Castle that has two distinctive facades. The front of Goring Castle is Gothic, while the back is Georgian.
I have been watching Lady C for a year and she has spoken of her past in bits her and there in her TH-cam channel. I never dreamed it could be this horrific. I will get this book and read more about her amazing survival. Thank you for highlighting this.
I send out my compassion to Lady C, for the life she had to cope, as a child! This experience has given her the chance to help other people. By giving them the knowledge, to listen, to handle the situation if they are suffering in any way!! God Bless Lady C! May she be kept safe trough her life after having this experience to cope with! Thank you Lady C!!
A true inspiration. Having experienced the traumatic side of childhood too, its always encouraging to see others who have gone on to achieve success in spite of these demonic parents. Self pity and negativity perpetuate the trauma, whereas success and happiness puts things in better perspective. I relate to how grandparents can be the pillars. Mine absolutely were the epitome of who I aspired to be. For them, I am eternally grateful. Faith is a cornerstone. This review was excellent and I definitely will read the book. Thank you!
I read this book last year & it absolutely blew me away. Everything about it; the times/places/behaviors of aristocracy let alone *Jamaican* were so fascinating on their own! But as Gloria became more central in the story I felt like I was reading a Hitchcock novel🫣 Over 900 pages (Ebook) & I read it in 1 sitting!…on my iPhone😵💫 Wish it was an audiobook bc I’d definitely listen to it again.
Thank you so much for reviewing this book. I was blown away by what you’ve shared so far. What a life. I guess I just don’t understand how she could still carry his name. I would have such PTSD and it would bother me to have to be linked to his name all the time.
I've wondered too why she doesn't get shed of that awful man's name. I wouldn't want it spoken in my presence ever again, much less be the way I was constantly addressed.
Thank you for being so constructive and this explains so much about Lady C. She is a well balanced empathetic Lady who sails through her life now, with dignity aplomb and humor. Thank you Shauna.
I haven't read the book, sorry, but I'm getting the feel of it. You do know how to entice to get people to read. I'm reminded of videos by TeraminTrees and Qualiasoup, where they explain exquisitely what life with a narcissist parent is like and all the psychology behind it. Combined with this book by Lady C I really worry for Archie and to a lesser extent Lili. Ever since the Netflix mockumentary I had a feeling Archie was "liked" by Meghan until he could walk and talk. That he became too much work at that point. Don't ask me why, it's just an intuition. Then I felt soon after Lili's birth that she was favoured by Meghan over Archie. But we didn't see or hear any news about her since her first birthday. I find it disturbing knowing what Meghan is. And yet I have to let it go, because society has no answer to narcissist parents.
Lady C's books are all excellent reads, hard to put down even when they're as stark as this one is. You did a great review, Shauna! Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY
She is SUCH a remarkable woman. It can't be said that she didn't have to struggle for her great success. I've heard her speak very fondly about her brother Mickey on her youtube talks. It's clear she misses him very much. He had to also have been very remarkable. I've enjoyed reading a couple of Lady C's superbly well written, enthralling books, but this one sounds really intense. Thanks for the review!
I seem to remember her birth defect was simply an nodule of flesh close to her vagina, so medics classed her as a boy. Think it was removed, but when her husband saw her birth certificate shortly after marriage saying she was a boy, he divorced her. I may have got some details wrong Shauna but how tragic. She's had a horrible life in so many ways, but what a woman. ❤❤
Yes she mentioned this in one if her podcasts, but she had told him of her upbringing etc before they married and he tried to use this when they divorced , fortunately she had photos of her worst beatings. He has spread numerous rumours/slander about her and she has sued the publications and him and won, which is why megsy won't sue Lady C.
@@phoenixrises5169 Grifting??? Do you even know what that word means? And so what if she takes advantage of the only useful thing she got out of that disastrous marriage?
I cried just hearing to your review about Lady C's childhood memories, I could not imagine if I read it myself... Like HG Tudor, I was unable to listen to his voice at first, but the curiosity about "narcissist" especially after M's behaviors to both The Late Queen and PP, make myself trying to listen to both HG Tudor and Lady C..... Thanks again... Love 😘 listening 🎧 to your soothing voice 💕
For growing up and living with abuse, Lady C is strong and determined You got admire that she will be a victor, and not a victim No wonder she is so against Harry and Meghan
Really enjoyed this review. Wish you could continue. Absolutely fascinating life. I am a Lady C fan and viewer. We are fortunate indeed to have such people on earth who could actually battle their way out of hortor only to rebuild something even better. This woman certainly has no need to wallow in self-pity, no room for that. Only positive thinking and goodwill because she went ahead to adopt two boys and gave them a beautiful life. Both Lady C and her sons are truly blessed. Excellent choice for a review.
I just finished this incredible book. I commented on one of her U-tube videos that I couldn’t believe she could survive such a difficult and painful childhood. Her mother was so evil and cruel to her and her siblings. This amount of child abuse is actually criminal even back all those years ago. I am in awe of Lady C’s ability to overcome this evil and devious behavior. Her success today is indicative of her innate intelligence and common sense. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is experiencing a narcissistic parent or who is a fan of our lovely Lady C. It is over 600 pages but well worth reading.
There's a rumour that Haz wanted to make a podcast interviewing people like Putin and Trump about their childhood traumas. Of course it's not only unfeasible, but also Haz has not the skills to do any of that. But after your video I can't help laughing at the idea of him interviewing Lady C.
You impart stories so well, Shauna, that I want more. There's one point I want to understand, and that being why an intelligent, competant woman so abused by an ex- husband continues to use the name from her marriage to him.
She mentioned this in one of her videos. She said that at one point she tried to change her name, but due to the fact that her Lady C name was so established as an author, it was difficult to change it.
Thank you for reviewing this book and pointing it out to your viewers 15:30 absolutely fascinating must have a read , you tell it with Panache 👏love your Diction 🌷🤷♀️
Thank you so much for this review of Lady Colin Campbell’s Book. I have so much respect for the person she’s become after having such a challenging past life. Too bad her husband couldn’t see what a jewel he had in a women. What a story-What a woman!!!
Well, I haven't read the book. It sounds wonderful and a book that could be extremely helpful to women and men who are in similar circumstances as well as those who are lucky enough to feel the spidey-sense of "there's something off about this person" to encourage them to back away and get out of their situation. You've done a fantastic review. Thank you.
Great review! You do book reviews so well. I only have two of her books and I look forward to getting this book as well. I hope that you can read and review all her other books because Lady C and her take on everything is so fascinating! Thank you!
I read that book about 2 years ago. When she started her channel, shortly after I read it, I started watching her because of the book. I was inspired by her determination to not only survive but to make her life as fulfilling and successful as possible. If you want to understand narcissism in action this , other than Meghan, this is the book to read. I often think of that book and the way her Father behaved when I see and read about how Harry has completely changed since meeting Meghan and the destructive impact Meghan has on anything she touches. The similarities between Gloria and Meghan are eye opening and make me really fear for the Sussex children, if they are in her care.
I was told about this review and I want to thank you for the compassionate and understanding way in which you have approached it. I wrote the book at the behest of Dr Erika Freeman, the eminent psychoanalyst who was a great friend of my sister-in-law Jeannie (Lady Jean Campbell), so knew the inside track. Erika felt my (really our, the whole family's) story could be a possible help to others who were trapped in narcissistic relationships, if only because our survival showed that one doesn't need to be destroyed. Out of pain and turmoil can come strength as well as understanding, which will ultimately be life-enhancing. And your're so right about my beloved brother Mickey. He was such a wonderful person, as were my grandmother, aunt and grandfather. Thank you so much. It is much appreciated.
Hello , I have found you on You tube and find you fun,clever and incredibly honest emotionally. Thank you
Wow, Lady C doesn't usually watch other TH-cam channels but she's right, that this review has been beautifully done.
Shawna you did a beautiful, compassionate review, it is to your credit.
Lady C, you are a wonderful, intellectual, witty, compassionate woman. I respect you, trust you and wish you only the best. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you Lady C, that means a lot! I am so pleased you felt I did your powerful story justice.
Georgie and Shauna - you are both up in my top TH-camrs for your fun, intelligence and intelligent commentaries (note I don't always totally agree so this isn't a sycophantic love-in post 😍❤)!
I would totally agree with the quote about courage vs cowardice...great viewpoint!!
I look forward to both your posts...much love Jxo
This is why Lady C is so wise. Her experiences have enabled her to see a person’s character from a mile away.
I so appreciate Lady C’s wisdom and sense of humor. She is certainly her own person.
Lol.
That's one positive way to look at adversity.
Respect to Lady C. She really is an extraordinary woman.
I read LCC’s book a couple of years ago. It was heartbreaking to read how she and her siblings were terrorized by their narcissist mother. Through her strength of character and cleverness, Georgie managed to survive not only her mother’s NPD but the terrible, awful, no-good man that she married.
Her sweet dog Mickey (Mickie ?) who appears at the start of almost every YT video was named in loving tribute to her brother.
Oh of course! A lovely tribute.
It is a brilliant book. Had me in tears a couple of times. She’s a wonderful woman.
Yes! She always names her dogs after people she loves/ loved. She is an incredible woman! Extremely intelligent!
Oh, I did not know that is why her dog is called Mickey. How lovely.
@@permissiontoshine yes! After her brother!
I was fortunate enough to "win" an afternoon tea with Lady Colin. What was supposed to an hour Zoom chat went some overtime and was a wonderful, diverse, thoroughly enjoyable conversation. She is a strong character with a dry and wicked sense of humour. And she's extremely gracious. I know her story from what I've read and from our conversation. If you want to read and be inspired to live life to the fullest, her story is one to recommend.
Great review. Lady C is an amazingly talented person. She is honest, principled, intelligent and unafraid to speak the truth. Her books and podcasts are hugely informative. Long live Lady C!!
Being a child of a narcissistic mother, I was also horribly abused in almost every way a child can be abused. My heart goes out to Lady C and her siblings. May God bless her mind & heart so she doesn’t have to remember it all, or continue to be hurt by it. 💛🙏🏼💛
Sending love for the dark times
@@clevelandplonsey7480 …Thank you very much! Merry Christmas and God bless you!
Lady C survived by her intelligence and knew her mom was crazy and that most people were not like her that. It had to help to have siblings to go through it with.
Now I want to read her book. I have heard her speak briefly of her younger years and her birth defect (I really hate that term), and I think now I want to hear her tell me the whole story. She is an amazing woman. I have a lot of respect for her.
Yes I used that term because it is how Lady C referred to it in her book.
@@thevintageread I wasn't being critical of you, Shauna, just of the term. I know it's referred to as such by everyone, including M.D.s, I just don't like it. No judgement from me toward you. You're good people.
@@SarahGreen523 : You won't regret reading Lady C's book. Perhaps it's because *my* mother was also an evil narcissist but I found it to be one of the best books I've ever read. It's a huge book but it's so riveting I didn't want it to end. Like Georgie, I didn't have relief until my mother died. Narcissists definitely DO NOT improve with age. They get meaner and nastier. I just wish she had died sooner. She was 92 & I was 66.
@@SarahGreen523 Birth difference is more acceptable.
I wish you all the best reading the book of Lady C on her life trauma. It is not a story book that i would want to read in bed. It is her traumatic early and married life journey . I have a lot pain for that young child and young woman. All my respect to Lady C and you.
I admire Lady C., she’s an amazing person, not only beautiful but extremely intelligent, never mind being an historian too. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about her book.
Thomas Markle was into giving MEgain everything she wanted and not saying "No". His little princess. He created this monster, along with other forces. Doria taught her all about "the con" and Tinsel Town instilled her values. 🤮
Lords Campbell and Lucan, Baron Glenconner….these awful aristocrats were well-protected by society and legacy media. It’s great that the truth comes out in today’s more egalitarian media! Thank you!
You can add Princess Diana's father, Johnny Spencer, to that list as well.
I listened to her book on Audible & it gave me several moments of reflection on my past within our family… I often had to just turn it off as it both awoke & explained so many times remembered in tortuous confusion but, as I mulled over her take on what was happening to her, it created an understanding I was never able to experience before. Thank you for your review & especially: Thank You LCC for your sharing what has made you the person you are & bestowing us with your wisdom!
@@ginawiggles918 Absolutely! Good point.
I'm greatful that Lady C did not inherit her mother's illness but she gained inner strength. Well done to you Lady C
So much of it is genetic. Georgie is fortunate she did not inherited the gene.
While she's not as bad as her mum she seems to have some of the same traits. Why else keep the title from a brief marriage in her youth. That title is now the foundation of her brand, Her youtube channel is pretty much just hours of her telling people she knows more than anyone else. She couldn't even wait for the official announcment of the quenn's passing, she had to tell people herself.
Yes, Lady Colin has earned the right to tell her story and what a story it is. It’s definitely worth the read.
You can tell that Lady's C"s wisdom comes from, unfortunately,lived pain.She is a straight talking , honest and fearless woman.
I grew up in a narcissistic family, albeit not this extreme. It is hard to overcome the physiological scars. On one hand I would love to read this book because it is good to be inspired by someone who has overcome such difficult circumstances. On the other hand it would be painful for someone like me who knows first hand experience of living with a narcissistic person.
In order to heal, as best you can from the narcissist/sociopath abuse, walk into the fire. Don't be afraid! You can survive ANYTHING after what you have endured. Painful, yes but so helpful for appreciating the blessings that come into your life!
The book is a good read...and you can handle the memories that will surface.
*WonderWereld...etc:* It took me 2 years after buying the book to have the courage to start reading it. Yes, it does bring back some painful memories....many that I had blocked, but it is a riveting book as well. Knowing how this fine lady we know as Lady C had such a horrific home life (like ours) yet survived, was truly inspiring. I wish I'd had half the courage she has. I remained under my mother's thumb until she died. I'm 73 and she died 5 years ago. I only wish she had died sooner. But at last I'm free.
Yes, this too is a dilemma for me, as to whether to read it now or later. I have three years of intensive trauma therapy under my belt, that has helped me enormously in coming to terms with what I/we experienced in childhood, how that shaped my brain, how I experienced the world, into a very, very unhealthy, poorly functioning thing, despite my temperament, values, ethics, positive characteristics. I'm only writing this here, with the chance it may let you know, if you don't already, that great healing is possible from abuse/neglect in childhood, no matter what form or intensity that took. It really is.
@@thomasmcnerney9745 Thank you for that beautiful comment. It brought tears to my eyes. I think all of us suffer through childhood events, but some are just so severe that it will either make you a break you. Lady C has made it and her experiences will help millions of other people. I’m glad that you have faced your demons and I wish you health and happiness. I’m not quite there myself, but I hope to be someday. God bless. ♥️
@@ginawiggles918 it’s like walking on egg shells isn’t it . Learning about narcissistic behaviour taught me that it’s not your fault , your not to blame and trying your best is like pissing in the wind because it’s never good enough . I grew up with a lack of confidence , I was treated like I was stupid . I know now that I wasn’t and the anger inside me has made me determined to grow . I am 61 years old and determined to enjoy what’s left in my life . I find my balance in nature , art and books . I ignore those who don’t respect me , a good friend is someone who will let you grow not pull you down , so I don’t have many but those I do I cherish. I wish you the best and I hope you can find peace in your heart to enjoy the rest of your life
I loved this book. I have read a number of her books and I really enjoyed them all. It is amazing how how well Lady C has put her mothers life from her point of view in words while helping us to understanding the narcissist.
I have been thinking of reading this book since I started following Lady C’s channel. I didn’t realise the abuse was that bad. I will read it but have to be in the right frame of mind as it sounds difficult. Thank you so much for this review.
Yes. I downloaded this book a while ago, but unlike Lady C's biographies on the monarchy, haven't brought myself to read it yet...
Definitely only read it when you feel able to, particularly if you are still healing from what you might have experienced.
I read the book, and my one takeaway: I miss my mother! She's been gone 13 years now, and she was a kind, loving person who sacrificed for her husband and four children. She was a nurse, and she gave of her time and expertise to everyone in the neighborhood---from people needing B12 injections weekly to children who were injured when they fell off their bikes. She was there. Lady C's mother was nothing like my mother----and for that fact I am grateful every day. Narcissists are destructive in many ways, but the resiliency of children is often stressed to the max when they must deal with a narcissistic mother.
It's an excellent book, well written, & incredibly thought provoking. Not a sniff of victimhood just an honest, almost clinically raw presentation, of how Lady C managed to survive a narcissistic mother, an abusive husband, & retain sanity, integrity, & a resilient determination not to let 'life' define her with admirable class & grit.
An extraordinary lady. Thankyou for the review 👏👏
Excellent review. Incredibly tantalizing and enough so as buy it.
Living in the Thai countryside good books are difficult to find.
Thank you.
Many thanks!
I also think Lady C survived and thrived due to her high IQ, no amount of “strength of character” would have stopped that hours of beating from her husband. I believe that she survived the beating because she was smart to stage her own suicide, smart and creative. Except for the part where she married him! That was not smart.
Yes high IQ and strength…I don’t think I could be that brave!
I'm sure Lord Colin Campbell could be charming when it suited him. The devil doesn't present as a demon on first meeting.
Most definitely, higher IQ can be significantly advantageous in helping children whilst abuse/neglect etc is happening and how to find your way through thereafter. It's not essential, but from my own experience, looking back... I got myself through and out of some very dangerous situations, not knowing how at the time and don't think I would have survived had I not be able to think things through so quickly, make snap decisions and follow through. Maybe it was just survival instincts kicking in, IDK. It took me a long, long time to accept that the all of the results of my extensive IQ and personality structure testing came out with the results it do. I did not believe them, was convinced they had the wrong person - on the TWO occasions several years apart this was undertaken - because it was drilled so strongly into me as a child and throughout early adult years that I was stupid and responsible for my inability to function (when in reality it was because I was extremely traumatised). Now, I'm finally beginning to see it as a blessing, a tool that can help with my recovery, and still give me a chance to do some of the things I've dreamt of doing to reach at least some of my potential.
She wanted that title, come heck or high water.
@@permissiontoshine Your story is amazing to me. I sometimes call it “childhood denied”. But as you’ve pointed out the intellectual agility that got you through was also denied to you. You weren’t encouraged to exercise/develop/use your brainpower, to the point you doubted it existed. It seems like the most outrageous gaslighting. I am thrilled to read that you’re becoming more whole, more you, that the mantle of your intelligence is finally going to be seen and heard. Is suspect reaching your potential will be thrilling to you, and potentially a lot of others. I learned, not that recently, that prolonged trauma in childhood can result in giftedness. This information was pushed in front of my nose as test results. Way before that, in grade two the teachers selected me to go to a school for the gifted. But I didn’t go. I asked my N mom why, and she told me I wasn’t smart enough. I applaud your recovery and the brilliant things you are going to finally unleash.
Thank you for your review of the book. Lady C has lived through such awful things but has survived. She's an amazing woman!
Yes it is an amazing story!
What I thought most upsetting was they forced her to be pumped full of male hormones .. amazing lady
Thank you for reading this and warning us of the content. I don’t handle abuse of children very well at all or even abuse in adults. I can’t read stuff like that or it gives me bad dreams and weighs heavily on my mind. I had thought about buying it, but I don’t think I would be able to manage it. Although I know it would be wonderful for Lady C. to have a brother with her, it must be a relief for him to not have to live with those horrible memories; poor child. It reminds me of Mommy. Dearest and books like that. I’m sure Lady C has enormous empathy for others in that situation. I’m glad they got out from under their crazy mother and stood on their own and especially Mickey before he died. 😢
Same here, cannot read the book, l happen to love Lady C and respect her, and l appreciates your review of the book, l could hear you talk for ever, thankyou ❤❤❤
Same for me. Living with depression I had to stop watch movies or reed books with content like this. As much as I would like reed it, I just can´t.
Her story gives her such a good understanding of the Harkles. My heart goes out to their poor children. If they both exist, I am sure little Archie will be the scape goat. In the picture with Doria and Nutmeg he looked so terrified. It felt so heart wrenching. Lilli will probably face problems if she overshadows her mother´s looks at a later stage. Nutmeg is really living through all the fairy tales - the Mermaid, Mother Hulda( her and Kate) , Rapunzel ( hiding the children-mine!) and later probably Snowwhite. Only, who is always the villain?
I read this book awhile back. She is an amazing writer and despite the difficult material, I couldn't put it down. Your review is spot on and I want you to know that I love your videos.
Thanks that means a lot 😊💕
I agree totally.
I’m so glad you are reading this! It’s amazing!
Heartbreaking but powerful… 🤗
Thank you for your excellent review of this book. I have just finished Lady Colin Campbell’s book A Life Worth Living which I thoroughly enjoyed and Daughter of Narcissus is next on my must-read list! Her life story is a page-turner of survival and integrity! I enjoy all of your broadcasts! Thanks for your hard work in bringing us fascinating information! -A big fan in North Carolina!
@thevintageread North Carolina’s Fan Club of Australia’s Best is growing & proof of our fine taste! Greetings from SFC member in Knightdale (outside Raleigh). Oh?? Of course: Shauna’s Fan Club! Never thought myself a groupie at my old age!
@@ncree4526 Hi ncree! I’m in Winston-Salem so very close to you! Yes we definitely have refined taste, don’t we! I enjoy the Vintage Read and have only recently found it! I am a huge Anglophile so am having a great time watching these podcasts and Lady C’s as well. Thanks for reaching out, neighbor!
I agree that Lady C has survived what not most of us could! We all should applaud her achievements in showing the damage done to those prevented from being honest about their lives.
It seems like some of these so called aristocratic men are beasts. This reminded me of Lady Anne Glenconner's book 'Lady in Waiting: My Extraordinary Life in the Shadow of the Crown'. How she managed to stay married to her abusive husband is incredible. Great review of Lady C's book. She certainly understands narcissism.
Lady C's mother sounds like my mother, and thankfully, they both are departed. I am going to get the book but I just hope that my own memories don't overwhelm me. I read Mommy Dearest and that one did affect me. But knowing I'm not the only one isn't really a good thing, it's just knowing that I wasn't the only one with a monster for a mother, that I wasn't alone. There are people out in the world who would believe what I would tell them about my mom. Thank you for reviewing this book or I never would have heard of it. I love your channel.
*Patricia Keys:* It *IS* scary to face starting the book if you're a survivor of narcissistic abuse. It sat on my bookshelf for 2 years before I got the courage to start it. But Lady C is such a good writer that you soon get caught up in her remarkable story and how she not only survived, but thrived, is awe inspiring. Took awhile to get through it. It's very thick and the print is small....but still, I consider it one of the best books I've ever read.
I have read her story and think she is amazing to have come out of it all sane. She is a fascinating person and has had an incredible life and now seems to be in a happy place with her sons living at Castle Goring. Her knowledge of history is exceptional. I enjoyed your review and understanding
My mother was a horrific narcissist. She passed away in September of 2022. Lady C gives hope for us that lost so much by the hand of our own parent.
Although Lady C isn't everyone's cup of tea, l admire her resiliency, entrepreneurship, and especially her command of language both written and spoken.
Fabulous review. Love her. Brilliant
I wish that I could listen to this, but it is too similar to my own upbringing, except I was the one being beat with the belt buckle end of my father's belt. I have PTSD and this has brought it all back and has left me in tears.
I am SO VERY Sorry that you had to go through such horrific abuse! I pray that God will Bless you with healing and everything that brings joy and beauty into your life! 🙏💜
Sending a prayer to you Madge, God is the healer.
"If you look at the world, you'll be distressed. If you look within, you'll be depressed. But if you look at Christ, you'll be at rest."--Corrie ten Boom.
This is the best review. I, like many others, love Lady C. Will be seeking out this book to read, because I really want to hear her story and how she overcame such adversity. What an amazing lady. ❤
Hope you enjoy it!
Loved this - just wish it was longer 😕 But I understand a review should be something to entice or dissuade people to read the book, so you wouldn’t want to give too much away and you definitely did that. Very interested to read it - liked her Harry & Meghan book and have wondered about her own life, so thank you 💕
Yes it ruins it for people if you give away the whole story! Glad you enjoyed it.
Now I understand why Lady C named her beautiful dog Mickey. ❤️🇨🇦
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It is difficult to even grasp that she lived with a monster of a mother and then married someone who battered her even more. I don't know what kept her spirit after all that dysfunction that she lived with. I admire her courage and that she raised her two boys to become exceptional young men. Bravo!!!!
Jesus Shauna. I made my last comment before i got to the end of your vid. Had no idea her husband did all that. What a shit. That poor girl. How is she still sane after what she went through?
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My long scapegoated husband suffered a premature death due to the decades of emotional/psychological/physical trauma he sustained by npd mother & brother….he had healed greatly but his body didn’t quite catch-up…..I adore and am so grateful to Lady Colin Campbell for her wonderful yt channel & the work she does to bring the truth out about these awful creatures 🐲….Love you Lady C🩷🌸🩷🌸🐦⬛🐦⬛….the world needs you ever so
.What struck me about Lady C's book was the fact she knew very well of her mother's cruelty but even well into adulthood, tried over and over with her. She learned to protect herself better but she still gave what she could to her sadistic and self centred mother.
I couldn't read what she and her brother went thru, I would carry it around with me and I know my heart would be so heavy. I love watching Lady C and have much respect for her.
I read this book and lady Campbell's writing is genuine and truly inspiring! Its amazing she turned out normal!
Thanks for reading this. I saw her interviewed about this one time it was very sad but she still has thrived. She is an inspiration.
A great Lady, I didn’t know about the book, I will certainly get it . Valuable insight into narcissistic behavior , rising above that level of abuse is no mean feat.
Thank heavens there was a other relatives who showed her kindness and support, so very sad Lady C’s brother died before time, his cancer no doubt brought about by stress.
The puzzle for me is why her father allowed himself to be emasculated, a handsome successful business man, bullied into a shell of a man.? Like many other viewers , I can relate to this scenario all too well.
Thank you a balanced review of Lady CC book.
Please consider review of Lady C’s other memoirs noted by your fans’ comments below. A summer relief from Harry&wife. Our world news is so distressing that your channel is a safe haven. Your book reviews coalesce your MANY talents of intellect, insight, compassion, & humor, as if former singer now reigns as lovely Aussie Siren for aching hearts & thirsty minds. What a joy you are in every video, deserving of acclaim proven in hundreds of comments!!! ❣
You are very kind! Made my day, thank you x
@@thevintageread Compliments are solely writing obvious truth, echoed by your many fabulous fans/comments. Thank you for allowing a kind community to thrive under your banner!
Great book review! Fascinating life story of Lady Campbell whom I know very little about except for her YT videos. Definitely adding this read to my book list.📚
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wonderful review, I am definitely interested in reading this book. Snippets of her backstory have always been in the public forum, and I have read that Lady C is a wonderful writer, so it will be a delight to read. One wonders how someone could go through so much in life, and still be a well-rounded, caring, funny person. Lady C has been able to overcome so much, and her experience carries a lot of credible weight, particularly in these days of modern victimhood. Thanks.
I love Lady C, her book sounds like a great read.
Thank you for the review ❤
You are so welcome!
Thank you for your book reviews. You are an excellent narrator 😊
I’m just over half way through Lady C’s book. You can almost hear her speaking . She is truly an inspirational woman. She uses her experiences to help others. I’ve learned so much by just reading this book and A life Worth Lving. My sister and I think she’s the greatest .
I read this very powerful book last year. How someone survives the multiple nasty treatments by several people and becomes a well adjusted productive person is remarkable. You really have to admire Lady Colin Campbell and what she has accomplished
Not read this book yet, but found her biography fascinating. What a brave, intelligent woman. ❤
I agree!
I did read daughters of narcissus. I was able to learn more about narcissists from her book because of the descriptions of the behavior of her mother. This was very useful for me in identifying a family member with this disorder. However, I wasn't able to keep the book because of the intensity of her experience it made me feel sad and I didn't want to remember that. She is one of my favorites on TH-cam, not because of her strength, but because of her joy, lightness and sense of humor. It is evident to me that the Lord got her through this, and brought her to a whole new life through faith in him. She the true version of what he intended her to be ❤
Wow - I had no idea what her background was. Now I admire her a great deal more. Thank you for sharing this book!
You are so welcome!
As a 'survivor' of a narcissistic mother, this empathic review is touching and very interesting. Somehow, having been her mother's favourite to begin with strikes me as having been part of Lady Colin Campbell's resilient nature--a subjective view as I know all about the pervasive struggles of being the one less loved or the one not loved at all.
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Thank you Shauna my heart was truly breaking 😢 Lady C you are incredible 🤗🇦🇺
I find it very interesting Lady C was raised as boy, but was, in reality, a girl and chose to purchase a home like Goring Castle that has two distinctive facades. The front of Goring Castle is Gothic, while the back is Georgian.
I have been watching Lady C for a year and she has spoken of her past in bits her and there in her TH-cam channel. I never dreamed it could be this horrific. I will get this book and read more about her amazing survival. Thank you for highlighting this.
I send out my compassion to Lady C, for the life she had to cope, as a child! This experience has given her the chance to help other people. By giving them the knowledge, to listen, to handle the situation if they are suffering in any way!! God Bless Lady C! May she be kept safe trough her life after having this experience to cope with! Thank you Lady C!!
Wow, you make me want to read this book now! Lady C has you to thank for that!
Well said.! I’ve yet to finish the book myself but am enthralled and filled with respect for Georgie or as we know her today - Lady Colin Campbell.
This is going to be veeeery gooood...! Love Lady C
Shauna … some would be interested in a chapter by chapter review of this book.
Thank you, Shauna! An inspiring review for an inspiring life!❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Really enjoy her but after reading book have tremendous respect for her..loved your take on it...excellent
A true inspiration. Having experienced the traumatic side of childhood too, its always encouraging to see others who have gone on to achieve success in spite of these demonic parents. Self pity and negativity perpetuate the trauma, whereas success and happiness puts things in better perspective. I relate to how grandparents can be the pillars. Mine absolutely were the epitome of who I aspired to be. For them, I am eternally grateful. Faith is a cornerstone.
This review was excellent and I definitely will read the book. Thank you!
I read this book last year & it absolutely blew me away. Everything about it; the times/places/behaviors of aristocracy let alone *Jamaican* were so fascinating on their own! But as Gloria became more central in the story I felt like I was reading a Hitchcock novel🫣 Over 900 pages (Ebook) & I read it in 1 sitting!…on my iPhone😵💫 Wish it was an audiobook bc I’d definitely listen to it again.
Thank you so much for reviewing this book. I was blown away by what you’ve shared so far. What a life. I guess I just don’t understand how she could still carry his name. I would have such PTSD and it would bother me to have to be linked to his name all the time.
I've wondered too why she doesn't get shed of that awful man's name. I wouldn't want it spoken in my presence ever again, much less be the way I was constantly addressed.
Thank you for being so constructive and this explains so much about Lady C. She is a well balanced empathetic Lady who sails through her life now, with dignity aplomb and humor. Thank you Shauna.
Highly appreciate this discussion of the book of Lady C,more more more please
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I haven't read the book, sorry, but I'm getting the feel of it. You do know how to entice to get people to read.
I'm reminded of videos by TeraminTrees and Qualiasoup, where they explain exquisitely what life with a narcissist parent is like and all the psychology behind it. Combined with this book by Lady C I really worry for Archie and to a lesser extent Lili.
Ever since the Netflix mockumentary I had a feeling Archie was "liked" by Meghan until he could walk and talk. That he became too much work at that point. Don't ask me why, it's just an intuition.
Then I felt soon after Lili's birth that she was favoured by Meghan over Archie. But we didn't see or hear any news about her since her first birthday. I find it disturbing knowing what Meghan is. And yet I have to let it go, because society has no answer to narcissist parents.
Lady C's books are all excellent reads, hard to put down even when they're as stark as this one is. You did a great review, Shauna! Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY
She is SUCH a remarkable woman. It can't be said that she didn't have to struggle for her great success. I've heard her speak very fondly about her brother Mickey on her youtube talks. It's clear she misses him very much. He had to also have been very remarkable. I've enjoyed reading a couple of Lady C's superbly well written, enthralling books, but this one sounds really intense. Thanks for the review!
Thank you for this review. It's not a book I would think to read. But is definitely now in my to read list.
I seem to remember her birth defect was simply an nodule of flesh close to her vagina, so medics classed her as a boy. Think it was removed, but when her husband saw her birth certificate shortly after marriage saying she was a boy, he divorced her. I may have got some details wrong Shauna but how tragic. She's had a horrible life in so many ways, but what a woman. ❤❤
Yes she mentioned this in one if her podcasts, but she had told him of her upbringing etc before they married and he tried to use this when they divorced , fortunately she had photos of her worst beatings. He has spread numerous rumours/slander about her and she has sued the publications and him and won, which is why megsy won't sue Lady C.
@@ceejayretired But still grifting off the title that "she" gained from the ex.
@@phoenixrises5169 Grifting??? Do you even know what that word means? And so what if she takes advantage of the only useful thing she got out of that disastrous marriage?
@@phoenixrises5169😂 tell me you aren’t motivated by envy.
@@clevelandplonsey7480 Lol... envy? What the fuck is there to be envious about?
I cried just hearing to your review about Lady C's childhood memories, I could not imagine if I read it myself...
Like HG Tudor, I was unable to listen to his voice at first, but the curiosity about "narcissist" especially after M's behaviors to both The Late Queen and PP, make myself trying to listen to both HG Tudor and Lady C.....
Thanks again... Love 😘 listening 🎧 to your soothing voice 💕
For growing up and living with abuse, Lady C is strong and determined You got admire that she will be a victor, and not a victim No wonder she is so against Harry and Meghan
Excellent review. For all she has been through, Lady C continues her life for the good.
You're the best. More viewers to you. Love from Melbourne
Thank you I really appreciate that! 😊💗
Can't wait to buy her new book!! I admire Lady C ENORMOUSLY!! Thanks you for this very interesting post !!!
Wonderful!
Really enjoyed this review. Wish you could continue. Absolutely fascinating life. I am a Lady C fan and viewer. We are fortunate indeed to have such people on earth who could actually battle their way out of hortor only to rebuild something even better. This woman certainly has no need to wallow in self-pity, no room for that. Only positive thinking and goodwill because she went ahead to adopt two boys and gave them a beautiful life. Both Lady C and her sons are truly blessed. Excellent choice for a review.
Such a sad story. I most definitely will read this book!
Ok, so I've clicked 'notify me' and am definitely subscribed.... lets see if TH-cam send me a notification... lol fingers crossed.
Fingers crossed!
They didn’t notify me 😢
@@valt1941 they did notify me on my ipad, but not on my desktop... but was in bed so didnt watch it till morning
I just finished this incredible book. I commented on one of her U-tube videos that I couldn’t believe she could survive such a difficult and painful childhood. Her mother was so evil and cruel to her and her siblings. This amount of child abuse is actually criminal even back all those years ago. I am in awe of Lady C’s ability to overcome this evil and devious behavior. Her success today is indicative of her innate intelligence and common sense. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is experiencing a narcissistic parent or who is a fan of our lovely Lady C. It is over 600 pages but well worth reading.
I Love Lady Colin Campbell She is so WISE & informative. I never miss her Podcasts
There's a rumour that Haz wanted to make a podcast interviewing people like Putin and Trump about their childhood traumas. Of course it's not only unfeasible, but also Haz has not the skills to do any of that. But after your video I can't help laughing at the idea of him interviewing Lady C.
Yes I can’t imagine that either!
You impart stories so well, Shauna, that I want more. There's one point I want to understand, and that being why an intelligent, competant woman so abused by an ex- husband continues to use the name from her marriage to him.
I think it's the one thing she got from him that she could use - otherwise she wouldn'tbe a lady. Maybe. Fair play to her!
Yes I was wondering the same.
She mentioned this in one of her videos. She said that at one point she tried to change her name, but due to the fact that her Lady C name was so established as an author, it was difficult to change it.
Thank you for reviewing her book 📖 You did an excellent job ❤ How tragic her darling brother died before his abusive mother.
Bless you for the kindness and care you took with this review. She is indeed an amazing lady. You are so kind & sweet ❤
Thank you for reviewing this book and pointing it out to your viewers 15:30 absolutely fascinating must have a read , you tell it with Panache 👏love your Diction 🌷🤷♀️
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yayyyyyyy!💃🏻 I’ve always wanted that book and now that you are going to read and analyze it for us it is wonderful.
It's so good!
Excellent review. Incredibly tantalizing and enough so as buy it.
Living in the Thai countryside good books are difficult to find.
Thank you.
Thank you so much for this review of Lady Colin Campbell’s Book. I have so much respect for the person she’s become after having such a challenging past life. Too bad her husband couldn’t see what a jewel he had in a women. What a story-What a woman!!!
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Well, I haven't read the book. It sounds wonderful and a book that could be extremely helpful to women and men who are in similar circumstances as well as those who are lucky enough to feel the spidey-sense of "there's something off about this person" to encourage them to back away and get out of their situation. You've done a fantastic review. Thank you.
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I can’t read this but I will definitely recommend it to others, perhaps my daughter. Thank you. I have no doubt it’s a riveting story.😻😽
I am currently reading this and am totally astounded that she not only survived, but has done so well. She is an admirable woman.
Great review! You do book reviews so well. I only have two of her books and I look forward to getting this book as well. I hope that you can read and review all her other books because Lady C and her take on everything is so fascinating! Thank you!
Thank you so much!
I read that book about 2 years ago. When she started her channel, shortly after I read it, I started watching her because of the book. I was inspired by her determination to not only survive but to make her life as fulfilling and successful as possible. If you want to understand narcissism in action this , other than Meghan, this is the book to read. I often think of that book and the way her Father behaved when I see and read about how Harry has completely changed since meeting Meghan and the destructive impact Meghan has on anything she touches. The similarities between Gloria and Meghan are eye opening and make me really fear for the Sussex children, if they are in her care.