How To Make a Man Want to Impress You.

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  • @growthrulove
    @growthrulove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +996

    Gold digger was a term coined by a man who couldn't afford it.

    • @kirsten1007
      @kirsten1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I really think so cause they don't want to be men and provide

    • @Hoboken90
      @Hoboken90 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      pfuaaa such a brilliant mind of yours. Galaxy brain there! pfuaaaaa
      bich

    • @maryfiero8122
      @maryfiero8122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Even steve harvey said that!

    • @AliSidTex
      @AliSidTex 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@maryfiero8122Steve harvey is a simp who caters to a female audience. He lost most of his money by being divorced by a series of women. Yet he still tells men to waste money on modern women.

  • @missesmelanie
    @missesmelanie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1014

    Well damn. She is so right! "You should never help a man, you are just helping him to get to the next woman!" .......For real!

    • @gaynell329
      @gaynell329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So true

    • @lionsimba723
      @lionsimba723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      That is so true. Been there done that. They just step on yo head and reach for the woman above

    • @user-fh7rq3sl6c
      @user-fh7rq3sl6c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I helped him with his skin care routine… he glowed into some Gloria😅

    • @no.6243
      @no.6243 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The divorce rate amongst lesbian couples is the same rate as straight couples, while gay dudes have a divorce rate of 10%. You are the problem.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then why should he help you as well?

  • @lisas9223
    @lisas9223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    I told this man once that he was my hero because he did something really nice for me when I needed it. He NEVER stopped trying to live up to that status.

    • @minzyxox7612
      @minzyxox7612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sooo true😭🤣

    • @smileforhiba
      @smileforhiba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      didnt work for me :'(

    • @xoxogemvenus
      @xoxogemvenus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      My ex was the same! I told him I appreciate him and he’s my strong man. After two years, he continues to make sure I am happy.

    • @andrebishop2645
      @andrebishop2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lisa S mmm even acting feminine just works

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Say it because you mean it, not out of expectation!

  • @byegirl3142
    @byegirl3142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +769

    You created a monster! Lol I'm about to have all the wealthy men paying bills.

    • @imaniscript6323
      @imaniscript6323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Duuude.

    • @nomhleluti984
      @nomhleluti984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😂 Tell us how is it going babes

    • @roseyroseyroseyrosey3695
      @roseyroseyroseyrosey3695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Add me girls

    • @leyland2725
      @leyland2725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You think it's easy. If it was easy your mama would have done it and you would be rich and not needing to be gold digging

    • @annakarina8417
      @annakarina8417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Girl, you are beautiful

  • @flor2dworld
    @flor2dworld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    Personal experience: Men don't like to pay for hair, gym, facial treatments etc. Never tell him that you need money for that. Say that you need money for: studying, fixing something at your house, a new phone because yours was stollen, medication, insurance, etc.

    • @peyotekaiyote4312
      @peyotekaiyote4312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      Just don't text a man your phone was stolen 😆

    • @pan-aggie3295
      @pan-aggie3295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      PeyoteKaiyote I’m deadddddd , or call him saying u lost it 🤣

    • @travelfoodielove
      @travelfoodielove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Not true. My man offers to do all that...

    • @annekamau2818
      @annekamau2818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I don’t know why they wouldn’t like to pay for it since they like to look at the beautiful effects of all that hair and nails and gym workouts. If they appreciate the result they should have no problem contributing to its cost. That is, if they’re not a dusty❤️💫🌍

  • @mileydean4072
    @mileydean4072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    A lot of this came naturally to me, when I was 27 I had a guy take me shopping for a Gucci bag on the second date after we had dinner at a five star restaurant. Third date he bought me 2 pairs of designers sunglasses. It was all on how I presented myself during our first lunch date and he wanted to do all these things for me. He was aggressive to do so!

    • @iamfuchsiaroses
      @iamfuchsiaroses 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@marcamico5254 ew shush

    • @finda9994
      @finda9994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      U had him buyin dumb ass shit think smarter pay yo rent getchu a new car or sum yo ass tweakin tom bout sum sunglasses wtf

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Bigger price items come later...bills and such is more like a month or more in. & watch your language...

    • @kirsten1007
      @kirsten1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay!

    • @hala3731
      @hala3731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesss u go girl

  • @HabitualLover
    @HabitualLover 5 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    33:36 A woman's sex IS so valuable. We have to stay polished, which isn't cheap nor easy (Shera pointed that out.) We risk all kinds of loss when we go there with a man who can walk away from us, even potentially leave us with his seed, his STDs from all the other women he's cheating with, and with a bunch of problems you'll have to straighten out on your own. We can't get back our dignity. Men can always make more money anytime.

    • @lae9703
      @lae9703 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You put it into words. I needed this. Be blessed

    • @808nuna_ishere
      @808nuna_ishere 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FACTS

    • @bubus682
      @bubus682 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesss

  • @SlimmDrea
    @SlimmDrea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    Well another thing that works is just being mean af. That works the best for me.
    Listen, I’m not the best at giving compliments but I’m great at speaking my mind and it goes over well lmao.
    For example, if they use that girls scammed him line. I’ll straight up tell them that it has absolutely nothing to do with me and if they want to date me then they’ll have to get over it.
    I’m not dealing with what someone else did to you cuz I ain’t them.
    Result- I get my way lmao.

    • @Aquariuswonder86
      @Aquariuswonder86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Andraya B Girl, you so right. It’s like it makes them more attracted to you being mean lol.

    • @SlimmDrea
      @SlimmDrea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      AquaApp App exactly lol

    • @stylebydng
      @stylebydng 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Right! Be mean and sarcastic as hell and look good at the same time

    • @nomhleluti984
      @nomhleluti984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Got it

    • @empressqi1722
      @empressqi1722 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marcamico5254 Darling grab a mirror pronto

  • @xScarlingx
    @xScarlingx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    To the goth girl question- Dita Von Teese. She’s extremely feminine. Study her

    • @SonicFrequency
      @SonicFrequency 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      xScarlingx Yes! That’s who I was thinking of. She was married to Marilyn Manson at on point. She’s got the classy goth look down!

    • @0112Jasmine
      @0112Jasmine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Also, the witches from American Horror Story: Coven had really nice gothic fashion. I looked up Dita Von Tesse and she's so pretty.

    • @cobra20500
      @cobra20500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ms Von Teese is a throw back, none women of todays time ware lace etc...

    • @shellylong2158
      @shellylong2158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excellent example. At first I didn't see her in pants but when she did she had on a very flattering top with boobs, hairdo and lipstick.

    • @l1meyman
      @l1meyman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Study elon musks' wife.

  • @amazingyummy2
    @amazingyummy2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I love when they try to impress you.

  • @moringga432
    @moringga432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    level up is the only answer

  • @amandacintron3276
    @amandacintron3276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    You need to write more books!!! You would probably be best seller. It's amazing how you are so accurate in detail about women's power in a relationship. You make me laugh too. Thx 😘 for your videos.

    • @marcamico5254
      @marcamico5254 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No pussy is worth a man's financial investment.

  • @DaniDosh
    @DaniDosh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    “Go on and get you a blind one... Idk” 🤣😂😂😂 I’m dead

  • @parismercury4464
    @parismercury4464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    You are such an intelligent lady. I think all women should honor you for trying to share with us. Trying to spare us pain and suffering. God will bless you for speaking the truth.

  • @jellygurl27
    @jellygurl27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Out of school for the summer. Time to level up and get this Shera advice lol

    • @AaliyahStrachan
      @AaliyahStrachan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ConcertJunkie27 me too girl!! All summer is progress! You go girl!!!

    • @LinLin-te5yc
      @LinLin-te5yc 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      MAJOR MOOD

  • @mahaalotaibi8352
    @mahaalotaibi8352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Women were CREATED for men. That is the main reason why he must take care of her and provide for all she and her children NEED. Therefore men have always "tried" to impress women with their 💰

    • @moontears3887
      @moontears3887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@marcamico5254 Um wtf?

    • @ree8521
      @ree8521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      bro what..

    • @user-qk2th5gr3d
      @user-qk2th5gr3d ปีที่แล้ว +9

      no

    • @DudelikeYEAH100
      @DudelikeYEAH100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naurrrr were partners bruv, just one of the partners has gotten real lazy over the past couple...of centuries

    • @yk-who-it-is
      @yk-who-it-is 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 word. Lilith.

  • @oliviaallen4944
    @oliviaallen4944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    We go an extra mile for a guy we like but Its nothing for a guy to do the same! If he doesn't he doesn't want you. Period.

  • @shandragontear7120
    @shandragontear7120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Idea for a classy goth look, trade in the spiked choker for a string of black pearls.

    • @peridozq9390
      @peridozq9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shan Dragontear
      I would wear that

    • @shandragontear7120
      @shandragontear7120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Gail123 then you can tell your sugar daddy that you like them better then regular pearls because they're unique like you.
      That way he also knows to get you the more unique (aka more expensive) jewelry.

    • @stephaniestrange3326
      @stephaniestrange3326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Not black.... Smokey. Start wearing the high level clothes... Attend at least the high class events. Enrich yourself

    • @shandragontear7120
      @shandragontear7120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Stephanie Satterlee they look smoky but are called black. I actually have some black pearls, they're a beautiful smoky silvery color.

  • @gabriellerosewood7850
    @gabriellerosewood7850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    It’s cool listening to you talk about levelling up when you leveled up right before our eyes. Looking good. X. VALID.

  • @marthaayalew2505
    @marthaayalew2505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I think average looking guys or older men are the ones who can be provider or are better target. The good looking ones know they can get others and will not put in too much work.
    Also, attraction can weaken your strength. So I say get a guy who is not heavily attractive so you can have an upper hand or better control of the relationship.

  • @flowerjade5938
    @flowerjade5938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Those damn drinks every time😂😂. Hate it when they say that i am getting All glammed up and leaving my house. For drinks? Nahh

    • @IMarie-xs5dg
      @IMarie-xs5dg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Angie Baako pe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @shaystuh
    @shaystuh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    i love your channel Shera but I don’t want it to grow I don’t need all my secrets and tactics getting exposed! lol but my life has improved tremendously after discovering you. SD just paid for my trip out the country :)

    • @starblossom1370
      @starblossom1370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I think the same...it will be bitter sweet to see channel grow...but most women won't listen, absorbs the info, or do what it takes to level up! So we're still good! They'll hear but not listen! I've tried to share her with friends, they don't want to change! They think they're OK! I now say oh well! Better for me, I'm always the center of attention now! They'll catch on later...I'll be on another level by then!

    • @HabitualLover
      @HabitualLover 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Just be subtle. Be yourself and be natural, and do everything Shera suggests with your own flavor to it. She's so freaking right about most of what she's saying, you aren't actually gaming when you understand why she's right. 💯

    • @tinasnow2006
      @tinasnow2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Mz. Trish exactly. Many will watch and still won’t change. We good 😹

  • @yasmineg9243
    @yasmineg9243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Shera when all of my goals and plans are achieved after watching your videos, I will send you a gift girl!

  • @remmirobitaille1122
    @remmirobitaille1122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    For the goth lady that asked her question, try a style called “corporate goth” it incorporates a lot of classy feminine but expensive elements.
    It’s a wearable style that’s appropriate for grown woman everyday wear.

  • @GS__
    @GS__ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Oh, lawd. Ratchetta and Bonnetta were visiting last week, now Sharkeisha stoppin' by... Gettin' too crowded in here, lol. 😂

    • @lilahnola6717
      @lilahnola6717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @notsonice7633
    @notsonice7633 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I struggle a lot with not being triggered by “what do you do for a living” question. It puts me in a defensive mode. What I translate that question to in my mind is “prove to me that you are not an unintelligent, worthless, piece of garbage that deserves poor treatment” So, I recently caught myself while in conversation with a young male Uber driver trying to “establish my worth” in his eyes and I later slapped myself for doing that. My abusive father used to call me “worthless and incapable of anything” and it clearly created a trigger within me that I have to now figure out how to keep under control. But at least I now am conscious of it being my trigger, where as before, I didn’t even know any better.

    • @blackrose-hw2mp
      @blackrose-hw2mp ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Uber drivers also always ask me this! I just say “I don’t work”

    • @Cookiedesigns254
      @Cookiedesigns254 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Dusty men always want to know what you do for work! Just say “I don’t work” and if they keep asking just say “I don’t feel comfortable with that question”. Set boundaries babe! ❤ Remember that you don’t need to answer all questions like a child has to for a parent. You decide what you’ll respond to.

    • @tequilachanel7312
      @tequilachanel7312 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chile you can say whatever you want you have nothing to prove to a man. If he like you he like you period. Or tell him your working towards your goals. Trust with the right man or wealthy man he’s not going to care.

    • @CrockyDile15
      @CrockyDile15 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I struggle with people asking this question too. Because they usually only ask as a means to determine how they will perceive you or what level of regard to hold you on or treat you. Some genuinely want to know, but they still judge based off of what you say, whether they realize it or not. We have to learning being confident in saying "I don't work" bc usually, as long as you say anything and carry yourself with confidence, you'd be surprised how much people let slide. Your worth as a woman is not in what you do for a living. I always have to remind myself of that.

    • @ultravioletpisces3666
      @ultravioletpisces3666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@blackrose-hw2mplol…
      They are just trying to make conversation. Not determine your value as a human. It’s considered a generic question.

  • @EM-ps4kr
    @EM-ps4kr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I’m not flying or driving to see a guy long distance. Ever...

  • @crystalrochelle611
    @crystalrochelle611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    You look awesome! Love the makeup, please do a tutorial! I started trying out makeup after watching your videos and wake up early to make sure I'm looking fabulous and I've already started getting attention EVERY SINGLE TIME I leave my house! Everything you say WORKS! I wish I saw your videos before getting with my ex.

    • @rhoeness
      @rhoeness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I would have saved 2+ years! 😐

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She looks like a vampire!

  • @girlnextdoor9940
    @girlnextdoor9940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Splenda daddy.......hangout in the hospital.....the glaucoma treatment center😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Lady I don't think you realize that you're funny AF.

  • @serrenacochete
    @serrenacochete 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    IMPORTANT TOPIC! I think when a man say: my ex was a gold diger a good answer would be- hum but do you have financial dificulties? And ofc he would say no but i dont like golddigers, you say: is that of a big deal for you that a woman likes to be spoiled and pampered a bit? Usualy for most men i know thats just courting, not such a big deal. What u think girls? Give me some ideas pls what you think is the best answer to say to a dude who already got to bring up this topic. LETS TALK ABT IT AND BRING IDEAS

    • @tere0942
      @tere0942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Girl! You don't need to answer all question every man ask. Just listen to them and smile. Listen more so you get the blue print of who he is.

    • @serrenacochete
      @serrenacochete 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Marriedto WealthyHusband ofc i dont need to answer all his question as a matter of fact this is not even a question he ask. Many wealthy guys bring this topic up just in passsing to see what u respond and I want to know what everyone has to say when confronted with this scenario.

    • @tere0942
      @tere0942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      As I have said we just listen and smile. Act like you don't hear it. Or if you are having dinner compliment the food. Just don't get into discussion about it. We let men talk. We just listen.

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      My answer would be(so she left you to be with a rich man , didn't she! ) or (she is just a woman with standards!) .
      My honest opinion is to run away from that guy bcs he is a dusty and trying to tell you that he is practicing the 50/50 relationship concept in his life!

    • @serrenacochete
      @serrenacochete 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriedto WealthyHusband good point

  • @daniellaskinz2812
    @daniellaskinz2812 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “dreaming about going ti hell” 💀😭😭 she’s so hilarious

  • @mammamiaaaaaa-t5i
    @mammamiaaaaaa-t5i 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    Next topic could be how to make a man adore you!

    • @JesusLovesEVERYTHING
      @JesusLovesEVERYTHING 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Reality Check facts.

    • @ellaluvs21suarez32
      @ellaluvs21suarez32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Chris Cranham Act like u dont care as much shaera has a video on this.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ChrisCranham I don't want a guy 15 years older then me. REALLY? EWWW. Also we will have no time together then as he will die far sooner. No good. Guys want too much free time. A little is fine. I won't allow the BS, I won't be a doormat. Then there is NO RELATIONSHIP! I was looking for a relationship! So he can be off but we can't? Sexist, double standard, hypocrite. Why don't guys help as well? It can't be all on us!!

    • @SuchANatural
      @SuchANatural 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The goal on this channel is to get/create a lavish or at least comfortable lifestyle. Wherein ypu don't have to work and can be taken care of by a provider, not a 50/50 mate.
      This is the background they were coming from, above.
      I'd rather date 15+ older and have a life insurance plan, name on deed, car paid for and family set for life. Than a man my age whos looks ill grow tired of and who'll never have enough money or maturity.....

    • @GemZbabe101
      @GemZbabe101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@nofybn7794 ??? If your goal is love, yea, this channel is not for you. If you're looking for a financially stable life...it is.... about your mindset!

  • @MissK233
    @MissK233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This woman is so good and so devious I love it 😂😂😂😂😂👑👑

  • @luvisblindmarie6310
    @luvisblindmarie6310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    She so funny... Love u and your encouragement to us women thank you for standing by us and not sugarcoating it

  • @goodfather2894
    @goodfather2894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    A person is more likely to repeat a behavior if the person is rewarded for the behavior... Men can do the same thing to gain advantage over women

    • @escyartemis6913
      @escyartemis6913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Men have been running game for eons..we are just learning.. Lol

    • @goodfather2894
      @goodfather2894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@escyartemis6913
      Why the marriage rates in the USA have hit an all-time low is because men are not being rewarded for marriage. Since marriage is dropping, the birth rate is dropping and now the birth rate in America is below replacement level. Women selfishness the really destroy a population

    • @escyartemis6913
      @escyartemis6913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      It all started when men disrespected marriage beyond repair...which deeply wounded women, who are directly in charge of nurturing kids.. So biased kids were raised..and so be it!! Dont worry about the universe..it will sort itself.

    • @goodfather2894
      @goodfather2894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@escyartemis6913
      No, it all started when women decided to disrupt traditional gender roles. Women were brainwashed into believing female traditional gender roles are inferior.
      Humans evolved as a two sex species with each gender having a specific role. When humans begin to behave like there is only one gender, it throws off the natural course in which causes a drastic population decline. This is why the countries that have decreasing populations all embrace gender equality instead of gender balance

    • @goodfather2894
      @goodfather2894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Femme Fatale
      Shera believes all the woman has to do is look pretty, get as much as possible from the man, and save for her own individual personal gain while giving absolutely nothing to the man..
      Getting a maid is not traditional gender roles... Shera seems to want women to receive as much as possible while giving as least as possible... Individualism and extreme selfishness is the name of shera's game.

  • @QueenJuliana89
    @QueenJuliana89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I’m a leveled up goth but my provider is also a goth. There was a dude in here trolling me about it and we were joking around. I could see why and I don’t stay mad at people, particularly strangers. As well, I’m too feminine to get into combats with men. Leveling up as a goth is one of those things needs to be very artful. I’m very fortunate and the man I found is a goth. In fact, I became more of a goth than ever before to better entice him. I’m responding to the fellow high value woman who asked the goth question and thank you for the Morticia reference, Ashera ❤️ SheRa would know! She was a mortician 💯

  • @johnnyblaze2257
    @johnnyblaze2257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    In all due respect, love these videos, I learn so much from not only the videos, but the comments as well, Thanks Sherah🙏🏽

  • @maritzag4502
    @maritzag4502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shera had me Laughing!!! When she said that girl got a "nail daddy money"😂💅 he aint no sugar daddy.

  • @alejandraparada3673
    @alejandraparada3673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Yes - don’t invest in military men

  • @MammaKush88
    @MammaKush88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    LOVING that eye shadow on u!

  • @dajiahwr8830
    @dajiahwr8830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Omg I really learn from the best. 💀🖤

  • @SJ-ml1ed
    @SJ-ml1ed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the technique you gave lol because they all been "used" don't even let them get a chance to mention it

  • @carinrobinson
    @carinrobinson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    you ought to run the country

  • @Zelicious11
    @Zelicious11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So right about women not leveling up these days. Jesus take the wheel!!!

  • @kimberley4035
    @kimberley4035 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i start to like being demanding. The other day a guy asked for a coffee date, i said that i had no time for this type of invitation, he told me that it was rude, well i just ask for a little of respect (also I am not 17 yo anymore)

  • @ringoisacandyapple
    @ringoisacandyapple ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She’s for real running the same game on them 😂 “ur so different “ lmaoooo

  • @diamondgoddess5857
    @diamondgoddess5857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shera, you look great and thanks for continuing to spit the Truth of the Feminine Game! Love you.

  • @myishaj7436
    @myishaj7436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    He not a Sugar Daddy.. He A Splenda Daddy..lmao..

  • @t.l1357
    @t.l1357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When she said Pennywise the dancing clown hahaha. Throw him back in the gutter. Yaaaas!

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love ur perspective on relationships ur always on point and see through the bullshit they try to project on us

  • @karenhuang8354
    @karenhuang8354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Teaching good mindset with your answers. I think I need to reconsider this relationship sigh

  • @XYZ-ln2qk
    @XYZ-ln2qk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    There is a saying in Europe:"Naked truth was never fashionable."

  • @hopeful9160
    @hopeful9160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I got you so my next husband will ne dust proof

  • @keyzkeyz4026
    @keyzkeyz4026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My Sister from another Mother🥂💎!!! Appreciate your confirmation, on all I already know. Great to be reminded...

  • @afshanchaudhary3180
    @afshanchaudhary3180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your red looks are getting iconic ! 💜💄 #classy #chic

  • @fanyatandu2255
    @fanyatandu2255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Back for my weekly dosage❤️

  • @charismadutterson5379
    @charismadutterson5379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If YOU CANT MAKE it ON YOUR OWN, YOU CANT possibly ADD VALUE to ANYONE ELSE.

  • @TheBlackICEQueen
    @TheBlackICEQueen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OMGGGGGGG THE GOTH QUESTION AAAAA
    I finally felt represented! Haha!

  • @MsVakong
    @MsVakong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Pennywise, throw him back in the gutter. 🤣🤣

    • @spottable
      @spottable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅😂

  • @baybiibotta1574
    @baybiibotta1574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love your lips!😍 Would love to see different looks with them!💗. Also, your advice works for me at my job, too. All the guys chase me and even do my work for me even when the girls want to bully me. I even stole this one girl's crush🤣 im not dating him but she was so mad had me on my neck

  • @andreahunte3602
    @andreahunte3602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Your nails need to breath from time to time. So constantly wearing polish , acrylics etc isn't idea.. acrylics damages your nail beds , thins them out etc...so letting your nails breath for a month between new sets is what is needed. ..same for gel polish etc

    • @tinasnow2006
      @tinasnow2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Andrea Hunte I do my own mani and pedi at home. I bought the foot machine when I realised it was £40 😹😹these spas scamming us bad 😂

    • @Tabaitha_Elle
      @Tabaitha_Elle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep! Some coconut oil on them in between sets helps too. I’m going to get some custom press ons. They look exactly like acrylics.

  • @Cute_Stuffs
    @Cute_Stuffs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Am going haaaaaard for the biggest bag ever !!!!

  • @taraedward7094
    @taraedward7094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi SheRa , I just wanted to take the time to say that YOU are AMAZING 😉,
    Keep doing what you’re doing ❤️❤️
    I am sure you hear that a lot but I think you deserve all the good words.

  • @daniellamoreno3616
    @daniellamoreno3616 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Changing lives.
    Nice to hear your changing lives !!

  • @XYZ-ln2qk
    @XYZ-ln2qk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1st question men ask me: Occupation. Men plant seed into money.

  • @b.l.a.c.k-shiva
    @b.l.a.c.k-shiva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    High ranking officers in the military and construction workers who operate heavy machinery make 6 figures. Peace and Health

    • @crownjewel832
      @crownjewel832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Naive Cynic for some ladies, depending on where they live a man making a 6 figure salary isn’t enough/isn’t impressive (NYC, LA, DC, Chicago) unless it’s high 6 figures or more

    • @teiatalks1879
      @teiatalks1879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s not a lot

    • @October3074
      @October3074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@crownjewel832 right, unless it's the upper 6 figures like 600+

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      More than enough for the cost of living in my area. lol

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men who pick up trash make 6 figures too. Make sure he's the lead worker. Plus they work most holidays so expect a sympathy gift lol

  • @maritzag4502
    @maritzag4502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ashera funny as hell!!😂

  • @kjax08
    @kjax08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yessss Shera... stroke that ego

  • @lyfesaquarium
    @lyfesaquarium 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    some of these men are crazy you say you gonna give them some and renege they may hurt you.

  • @lyfesaquarium
    @lyfesaquarium 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chile you preaching a word sis!!!!!

  • @monisejayy
    @monisejayy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Ugh this video is a gem!

  • @Royalandwavey
    @Royalandwavey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you just have ALL the answers!

  • @tacarragalaxy2483
    @tacarragalaxy2483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    tony gaskin say the same thing don't over impress him cause he can turn in to a dusty ….

  • @aquariusmoon417
    @aquariusmoon417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Who lives in Chicago!? Let's link ladies... summertime chi

  • @margaretmiller4718
    @margaretmiller4718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl you are quick, I love it!

  • @TheAshMcG
    @TheAshMcG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Excellent advice....but what is that lipstick color??? Stunning.

  • @classicCyber
    @classicCyber 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I was listening and quite impressed of how good you are at manipulating men. Than you said 43 is too young for you. At that moment i understood that you actually only manipulate needy old and desperate men. That's fair ! If these grandpas want young girls it's ok for them to pay. LMAO

  • @treasureharvey8346
    @treasureharvey8346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    girl u changed my life!!!!!

  • @Powerdriver777
    @Powerdriver777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Wow it would be amazing to see women act this feminine or act like they are the damsel in distress. 😂😂

  • @hannahjohnson9380
    @hannahjohnson9380 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In Shera we trust

  • @earthsky2336
    @earthsky2336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You really are helping so many of us hahaha I love you

  • @leeslyrose
    @leeslyrose 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    3:01 when I I think of gothic and classy, I think of dita von teese

  • @sassyfrasseats
    @sassyfrasseats 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Those lips scared me at first, but now I think you look younger. I overdone mine when I did them 😑

  • @petya143
    @petya143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love your entire look! - makeup, hair and outfit 😍

  • @andreahunte3602
    @andreahunte3602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sounds like a fantasy in the mind...awesome storyteller lol

  • @missandrea8564
    @missandrea8564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You're a genius ❤😁

  • @Evilkitty64
    @Evilkitty64 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Good message! 🤗Shera

  • @benjerry8987
    @benjerry8987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The one about him buying me a car reminds me of the Gastineau Girls. They said "when a man asks me my age I tell him I just celebrated my 16th birthday"
    Why do I now think that means someone just bought her a new car for her 16th birthday? 😂

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This makeup looks beautiful 😻

  • @eveallusion
    @eveallusion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Shera what lipstick is that? It looks beautiful on your skin tone.

    • @PacificNWGrl
      @PacificNWGrl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MakeupLover agree! 💕

    • @eveallusion
      @eveallusion 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @foxylady246 ok, Thank you!! It looks like the name of the Fenty lipstick is “Unlocked” 😊

  • @janesmith7346
    @janesmith7346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    All females/ladies over age 16, please STOP popping and smacking your lips. I believe you have something to say; it's just difficult to hear over all that.

    • @stanfatou2002
      @stanfatou2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im 17.... Guess I gotta stop now lol

  • @eveallusion
    @eveallusion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Actually can you please do a tutorial on this while look. The eyeshadow is beautiful too. What is that?

    • @starblossom1370
      @starblossom1370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is nice...it looks a lot like a Tarte palate I have...the tardiest

  • @dnakiso
    @dnakiso 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really like ur advice n i am making the effect to level up.

  • @danilove8127
    @danilove8127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    LOOL!!! I love SheRaSeven1!! I am laughing at your advice: You should have taken money first and blocked him after! ahahahahaha Women can be pimps too without having sex Yes We can and better smarter pimps! lol

  • @victoriaerekosima5612
    @victoriaerekosima5612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What if you don’t want to be seen with them

  • @OO_sunflower_OO
    @OO_sunflower_OO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE STAR TATOO THOUGH. Busy bee? more like blessed be. lol

  • @fiona6689
    @fiona6689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    64k since April ..2019 car .. car payments ..car insurance paid,paid off 4 cc, botox .. 2600 Louie bag LV wallet ,Tiffany bracelet,
    Clothes,vacations, paid for granddaughters BD party,pays my personal trainer,cash allowance.
    Oh let’s not forget the GPS tracker the private investigator he hired to put under my new car

    • @sosounheard
      @sosounheard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fiona oh-

    • @SahnieBaDd
      @SahnieBaDd ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes they often get possessive smh

  • @karenkay1702
    @karenkay1702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're an inspiration

  • @lionsimba723
    @lionsimba723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shera should have her own channel TV channel

  • @10isha44
    @10isha44 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🤣🤣🤣 the Uber kidnapping ☠️