The Corn Rake Mystery - A Farmer Attacks Or Wrongly Accused? | Mystery & Makeup - Bailey Sarian
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I hope you are having a good day so far, today I wanted to talk about a case thats been heavy on my noggin! I watched the whole court trial and was just left with more questions than answers. Would love to hear your thoughts/opinions down below!! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day ahead and I hope to be seeing you very soon. Love and appreciate you so much!!
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Honestly, him putting her in his truck & calling 911 en route is NOT that strange when you live in the middle of nowhere. Meeting an ambulance halfway is sometimes the ONLY way to save a life.
Edit: Holy Cats! Over 9,500 likes & over 150 comments!!! Wow! Thx everybody!
I was thinking the same thing. Like growing up in a small town, it could take an hour or more for an ambulance to even arrive, and that’s way to long to wait around while a loved one is hurt or dying. So him getting her in the truck and leaving before calling the ambulance as he’s leaving makes literally so much sense to me.
RIGHT!! like imagine how long it’s gonna take for them to dispatch and get there when you literally have no time to waste! plus it’s a truck? where else was he gonna put her?😭
I think so too!!! And you clearly don’t think straight in this kind of situation
100%! This was my thought exactly. If he's in the middle of nowhere on a farm and the hospital is far away they may not even have emergency medical services there, especially in a town of only 800 people.
I didn’t think there was anything wrong with that either I would have done the same.
Is crazy to me they were able to find him guilty yet someone like Casey Anthony roams the streets🙍♀️ Not saying he isn't guilty but to reach that verdict with no evidence seems like a stretch right?
Seriously! Our justice system is so skewed!
PREACH IT, YES. Those two cases compared, it’s just like... what... wha... WHAT!?
Yeah, GREAT point!
Totally agree!!! I was gonna mention her in my comment!
Exactly what I said
I immediately thought of the son, Tristan. Like he was the one who found the body, he was alone going to get water, which was a lot closer to the red shed than his father was...what if he did it? And of course, WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE INVESTIGATORS?! No one thought to, I dunno, INVESTIGATE?
American police seem to do this all the time it’s like they are fixated on somebody from the beginning and all they do is try to prove that guilt rather than remain open-minded. I’m 100% sure almost at least 90% that it was O.J. Simpson son that killed Nicole and not O.J. Simpson but O.J. Simpson went to the scene to drive his son away hence getting blood from the scene. The thing is the parent would probably rather go down than frame their own child but I guess would ideally like both to get off with it
I heard the last couple sentences in Bailey's voice 😂 It sounds so much like her
A lot of people think it was the son Tristan as well. They should have looked into that more. They still should. So silly.
Oh I 100% think it was the son it makes more sense 🤷🏼 he probably found out his mom cheated and was going to divorce his dad and take him away from his dad and the farm. Tristan didn't like that so he killed her. So that he wouldn't be taken away.
I’m also wondering if the dad knew it was the son because think about it…the dad stuck to his story about them not leaving each other’s sight the whole time yet the son claims to have went to get a drink of water. Doesn’t that mean the dad would have to confirm that did indeed happen? That little bit there probably would have had them questioning the son now right? Since it would look like dad was covering for him. Detectives were not detectiving 🤦🏻♀️
What if she honestly fell? Because she was having dizzy spells. There was no splatter at the scene, and the space was so tight according to 48 hours you couldn’t really move in there. Or the son found out his mom was cheating on his dad and raged out. I think Todd is innocent tbh
Yea I thought that he same that the son found out she was cheating
Yea if it was a small town maybe he was getting teased or confronted at school or something
I honestly feel like she was dizzy and fell backwards, trust me in summer I'm always dizzy and it happens
Wait... if she was cheating SOMETIMES ON THE FARM, could THAT be why the cameras stopped? Like, she didn't want to be seen with some other guy on farm cameras...
*BIG BRAIN TIME*
Huh.. thats interesting. So plausible
This is exactly why I read the comment section. Waiting for someone to think the same thing I was thinking. With that said does the camera have a digital record that it is being turned on and off. Also it sounds like the husband didn't leave the farm. If him finding out pig mean her life would she take the chance o f him or her children catching her. Our story teller really is correct. There is an enormous amount of unanswered questions and I believe she said if I'm not mistaken that she watched the whole trial. This channel sure gets you thinking
Yep i don't think Todd did it, just seems weird 🤔
HONESTLY
As someone who also acts impulsively in sudden, panicky situations- I saw myself doing the "drive to the hospital first, and call 911 on the way" decision as well if I were him. Especially if they lived so far away, I'd hope to bring her to the hospital as soon as possible and cut paramedic travelling time with however much closer I can get to the hospital using my car. I'm not saying Todd isn't guilty 100% but I definitely don't think there was enough, or even substantial evidence to convict him with that charge(yet). The dude deserves another trial. They judged him on textbook reactions and never considered how different individuals would react to situations.
I thought the same thing. Growing up in a rural area where the nearest decent hospital is like an hour away...ya, I could see hopping in the car first and then calling 911 on the way....
I used to live in the country and paramedics get lost out there all the time. When anything happened that needed us to get to the hospital, a lot of times we would just drive there.
I said the same thing. Especially if i lived in the country
Growing up we lived so far from the hospital my parents would just drive us. We were extremely poor. A bill from the hospital for an ambulance ride would have broke us.
100% - if you are 1 hour out from the hospital then: Explaining to the dispatchers, giving the address and waiting for the ambulance to find you = 1 hour. Get in the car and start driving and maybe meet the ambulance half way = 30 minutes. Not unreasonable in the heat of the moment to just go for it without really thinking.
Also Tod’s reaction to the questioning is actually pretty accurate. Especially in small towns with how little males are allowed to show emotions. We don’t have big break downs. No man cries at a death and women focus on caring for everyone before processing emotions.
And small town rumors are very accurate where everyone knows everything. But affairs can be more easily hidden than you think. Lots of back roads that everyone knows like the back of their hand and just going for a drive is what you do. There aren’t places to hangout at. There is no park, mall, places people go. You steal the farm hand truck, you pick up your friends and go “cruising” down back roads.
“You can watch the interrogation if you want to but I’m a great actress”
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I think your idea about Amy accidentally falling on the rake twice from dizziness is a real possibility. Todd definitely deserves a new trial with a decent defense team.
How can a corn rake go into her back take itself out and then go back into her back, while she's on her hands and knees?
My first thought was it sounded like she may have fallen from dizziness. Especially after just having had surgery, and not feeling well, and add in if was hot out, and she could’ve been dehydrated. It honestly makes the most sense. It didn’t say if all the wounds were the same depth.
@@joeymiller5331 she was probably standing and and the corn rake was probably standing by the wall and she accidentally walked into it, but the holes weren’t deep so she took it out, felt dizzy or misstepped and fell on the rake much harder and then fell down.
@@joeymiller5331 or the second time she leaned on the rake she could’ve walked then felt dizzy and fall on her back which would explain if some of the holes were deeper than the others
Maybe she fell on it, was alert enough to remove it but then got dizzy and fell on it again, and then tried to crawl while it was still in her back
I absolutely think that when they hear "cheating wh*re" he's saying "one two three four" as in counting while he is trying to revive her. I'm shocked this wasn't brought up at all.
Exactly!
Oh wow, great thought!
Right me too...... I dont get it
I don't think he was doing CPR at that time.
I immediately thought that!
April 6th, 2023 Todd has appealed for a new trial. Please let us get him help. We need to do something and save this man who is clearly innocent. His case was entirely mishandled. He deserves a second chance.
I don't know about "clearly innocent" but I definitely agree his case was mishandled. How was he found guilty beyond a reasonable doubt when there is obviously doubt. I'm not gonna start blaming the son like everyone else (cos thats just gross) but I do like Bailey's take on it, she slipped and did actually fall on it twice. I would like to see the area where she was found too.
How can we help?
I’m so glad I’m not the only one suspicious of Tristan, the son. He was alone a few times but nobody is questioning him
Or the Jerry guy or his wife.
This is driving me nuts because the entire time I'm listening to the story I'm like why is no one questioning the son???????
He went out and found mom. Could have hurt her then and then called for Dad? Because his story changed suddenly. This is going to keep me up.
Me too! I mean, he was the only inconsistent one throughout the story! And something tells me that he was the one responsible for the searches, not every one can accept their parent/s cheating especially in that age.
how come jerry's wife was never suspected either! she was my first guess when Bailey was talking about the phone call.
One thing I keep wondering is what if Amy was worried that she would be killed for cheating, and she made the searches to see how common it was?
I kept thinking it was going to be revealed as the son. He found out his mum was cheating on his dad, maybe gave her something hence the dizziness, 'went to get water' and committed the crime! Maybe that's why he was so shaken up and traumatised in the car.. he could have also made the Google searches on his dads ipad
Bailey: my google searches are yikes
Bailey's actual google searches: "how to pronounce rural"
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I think it is just one of those words that are weird to say. I can't say it either. Lol
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@@KwinkyDink1 I can’t say rural, brewery, or Aurora! 😆
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*Edit: I looked this up and another appeal for Todd was denied 2/2022 😢*
I'm new to Bailey and just watched this video and I'm... Appalled. To come to a guilty verdict, the jurors needed to believe BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT that the husband did it. There is so much reasonable doubt here. I'm even surprised this case wasn't dismissed before it even got to trial due to lack of evidence. The defense was grossly negligent and I sincerely hope the husband continues to try appealing, taking it up the system and gets a new day in court.
*I also don't think it's strange at all for him to drive before calling - when you live in the middle of nowhere, you're used to handling things differently.
*I also don't think it's strange that the son changed his story. I think it's reasonable that the son didn't recall getting the drink in the first place, and then began to second guess himself while being pressured by prosecution.
*The audio tape thing is bad practice all around. As Bailey said, you can hear many things in audio when you're prompted. At least the defense had a decent alternative for that. But, I'm disappointed that the defense didn't object when the prosecutor "interpreted" (really, a viewer at home) the audio... The prosecutor was testifying in that moment and prejudiced the jury with what they "heard" and that is absolutely not allowed. They needed to put someone on the stand who would testify to what was being said on the tape - an expert. Which wouldn't have happened at that point in the trial, since an expert wouldn't have been on the witness list since the prosecution got the idea from a random person!
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*What was the timeline of the searches? Meaning, I think most people would agree that Todd was not the only person using the iPad. How much time passed between a search for a dress and the suspicious search? So. Many. Questions. Google searches can suggest what a person is thinking about, but in no way do internet searches determine actions. Correlation does not equal causation! People are curious, and if Todd did make those searches, it means he was having bad thoughts about his wife - it doesn't mean he acted on it. It is weak circumstantial evidence. Reasonable doubt.
I don't understand how they can deny him an appeal when people who are CLEAR murderers can get one without a second thought. Like for real what is the harm in letting him go to court again??
I agree with you. There was no legal support for a conviction on this one, so I'm guessing the prosecution manipulated the jury into their interpretation of events and his defense didn't do much to counter it. This is so far from being beyond a reasonable doubt 🤦♀️
As of April 2023 he has requested another appeal. Not sure of the outcome of that appeal yet
Thank you for defending the son. Too many people just blamed a 13 year old child who just held his mom as she died for “changing his story” even tho he was asked the DAY OF THE DEATH where he was. Him getting a drink of water would have been so insignificant.
I am actually from a town 10 minutes from Earlville and naturally this was very talked about, like you said everyone talks in small towns. A lot of people also were shocked they didn’t investigate the son as a suspect.
I feel like Todd driving Amy to the hospital isn’t too suspicious or anything. They live in a rural area. I’m sure he knows the way to the hospital better than the ambulance would know the way to their farm.
I live in the midwest & it's super common for a farm accident. It's faster to get them to the hospital or at least the nearest town & meet the ambulance. I agree@
Yeah, that's what I was thinking too, like it would take too long to wait for them to get to their house.
Same. This seems absolutely normal for a farmer in a rural area.
We've had to call the ambulance for my grandma a few times for difficulties with her diabetes and other medical reasons and they can almost never find our house and when they do it's already been about 45 minutes. We could've gotten her there quicker but we weren't able to move her at the time. So to me, driving that person yourself isn't strange at all. More heat of the moment, get them the help they need as soon as possible. (At least with me) when something happens you don't automatically think things through before hand and then later you go back and sort of rethink everything and how it could've gone a different way
Honestly, I wouldn't even find it unusual in a city. If you know how to get to the hospital, it may be the fastest option to get them to help. There would be plenty of situations where I might say, "Let's get rolling" rather than stop and make a call. Everyone has a cell phone, make the call en route!
i don’t understand why they think it’s so weird he started driving her to the hospital. being out in the middle of nowhere, cops take forever. he could’ve easily believed he would’ve got her help faster, but to call them during so they are aware she is injured and she needs help.
Exactly! You drive in the direction of the hospital and the ambulance comes towards you! She gets medical attention in a lot less time!
I know aye. Takes 2hrs to drive to place, maybe meet in the middle and make it 1hr. Every minute counts!
Exactly! I had to do the same living 45 minutes from the nearest hospital when my nephew got hurt. Everyone knows that’s what you do when you live out in the middle of no where.
That's what I was thinking! I'm from Iowa, specifically I was in Rural Iowa, and the nearest emergency hospital was 40 minutes away from where I lived for YEARS until they FINALLY built a hospital 30 minutes away. As if that's much better though
YES! I cannot save your life at home but I can by driving to a hospital and saving time. BUT my fiancé who is a nurse also said actually, you could save their life by staying at the place and doing CPR so WHO KNOWS
24:50 this "pig tanning" section... so hilarious. Bailey is always quirky and full of understated humor, but this bit really had me laughing
In 10th grade, over a weekend, a school mate and friend who lived on a farm died in a piece of farming equipment while doing his farm chores. His clothing had gotten caught and he couldn't free himself. No one was near enough to turn the equipment off and it was a horrible death. It was a large farm and everyone knew the family. Because of the way our names fell he had always sat in front of me. Staring at his empty chair the rest of the year was quite horrible. RIP Leslie
I live in Devon, England; farming accidents are rare but always bizarre and awful. One farmer was mauled by his cows. Someone else drowned in a vat of slurry and someone else in a vat of wheat. When I was a kid straw catching fire and silage exploding was commonplace due to very hot summers.
As a 911 dispatcher of 13 years, I can tell you LOTS of people act and THEN call 911. The fact that he got her in the truck and started driving and then called is actually pretty normal. Also, if you ever get impaled on an object, don't remove it. It might just save your life. Love your videos Bailey!
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I feel like it makes more sense to do that if you live in the middle of nowhere saves time waiting on ambulance to arrive and then take someone back to the hospital
I would also have jumped in the truck first, then called 911 as I was driving in order to lessen the time waiting. Precious seconds can be wasted trying to save a life by stalling.
I lived in secluded country for many years, and my plan of action in case of emergency never included calling and waiting for an ambulance. Action first, call for help second.
Personally, I think that Todd was trying to cover for his son. Tristan’s story was the only one that changed AND he was the one who “found” his mom. Perhaps he saw an opportunity to overpower his mom in her weak state because he knew she was having affairs and thought his dad was being too lenient. And *IF* Tristan did it, he would have likely had blood on him, and that’s why Todd laid her body across him and Tristan in the car. So that the blood could be dismissed by doing this.
Also, I have a difficult time believing a grown adult would search about ancient cultures doing away with adulterers. I don’t know, just seems kind of childish to me. On top of jewelry searches and Pinterest, other people besides Todd used the iPad. 🤷🏻♀️
Edit: I’m watching some of the court trial right now because at this point I’m invested, lol. And the son DID know about the affair! He said that his dad brought it up to him a few times.... motive? I think yes.
My thought exactly!
Same!! I think the son did it!
I wasn't thinking this. Now I am....!
@@MeganVlogz literally same
i thought it was tristan too!
Right when the son changed his story and said he was gone for a couple minutes and then changed it again saying he doesn’t know how long he was gone was a huge red flag!
A sign that he'd been groomed by lawyers probably.
As someone who worked on a farm and has used rakes most of my time on the farm I can confirm that it’s very unlikely that you could fall on a rake and end up with injuries like hers.
I don’t think there was anything weird about him driving her to the hospital. They live in the middle of no where. It’s going to take much longer for the ambulance to get to them so he did what he thought was best. I think he’s innocent and it very likely could have been a freak accident. He deserves to have another trial. Another person in prison for no reason
I too think it may have been a freak accident or Julie found out about the affair
I totally agree!! I didn’t think anything weird about what he did, then everyone was like “strange behavior.” And I’m like oh…
Exactly!! I live way out in the middle of nowhere, had to drive an uncle til I met the ambulance just because it was faster. When they said it was strange behavior I was like 🙃 how 🙃
Exactly
I agree 100%. much faster to hop in the truck then calling and waiting.
The son is the ONLY one who changed his story... suspish
Exactly, and the was one who found her.
@@carmenrodrigues727 and he was covered in blood
@@troudulapin7061 he sure was, why didn't they check for finger prints. And take the boys shirt as evidence as well.
And he was the one who got to house which was closer to that barn
Yes! Why wasn't he questioned? Or are we not going to talk about him?
He found her right? He left his dad for water.... did he actually get water?
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THE ENTIRE TIME I was like “what if she was feeling guilty and searched those thing?” And when you said that I said “what not to do” with you! I feel like this was a terrible thing that happened but there was not sufficient evidence to prove the husband did it, and by our laws we are innocent until PROVEN guilty. I feel like the doubt should’ve been placed in jurors minds for sure and our justice system failed this poor woman, her children, and her husband.
Sorry Netflix, I have something else to watch during lunch today...
Great minds think alike!!!! Makes my Monday better !!!🥰🤣
me every monday
Same.. Netflix can wait.
Yes! 🙌
this is much more interesting
As someone who used to live in the middle of nowhere, I would 100% start driving to a hospital before making a 911 call. Sometimes addresses way out there are hard to find and to wait all that time for emergency services to get to you then go all the way to the hospital from that point would take so much time. A few minutes could mean life or death.
That was exactly what I said when I heard this part. I grew up in the country, and it would take a long while for EMS to get to us, we would have Totally started driving. I feel this case is a Huge injustice.
When I lived in rual wyoming the nearest hospital was 45 min to call an ambulance and have them drive you back would take to long. 100% driving straight to the er.
AGREED!
I grew up on a farm in middle of nowhere Iowa. When I was a kid we didn't even have street names and house numbers. My address was Rural Route 1 Box 292. You have an emergency? You drive to the hospital and maybe the ambulance can meet you on the way. Cell service is spotty in areas, so it's normal to call on the way. His logic makes perfect sense.
Exactly! I live like 20 minutes away from the hospital in the mountains. When we've had to call 911 for my mother, it would take them 30-40 minutes to get to/find us. So it just ends up being quicker if we took her ourselves.
But also the accident theory at the end actually seems feasible or am I the only person that injures myself reacting to injuring myself 😂
From Rural Montana here 🙋🏻♀️….. 1.) it was the son….. 2.) it is NORMAL here for people to load up their loved ones and start in towards town and call on their way. Emergency Services sometimes take HOURS to get out to you, when you can get your person to the hospital in 30/45 min.
As a 911 operator for almost 10 years, it’s not uncommon for people in rural areas to take it upon themselves to drive people to the hospital, sometimes it can take up to a half an hour for an ambulance just to get to the scene of the accident. I’ve taken a lot of calls from people who call 911 while they’re en route to the hospital with the person because they feel like they can get them to the hospital sooner than waiting for the ambulance to get to them and then transport back to the hospital which in a lot of cases is true.
911 dispatcher here too, and yes! We have many calls like this. I work in a rural county and in certain parts of the county it can take up to 45 minutes for ems to arrive. Def not uncommon for this to happen.
Very true! I grew up in a very small town like this. There were less than 500 people in my town, and we were almost an hour from the next town over where the closest hospital was located. 911 wasn't even used much because of that. If someone had an emergency, you hopped in a car and had someone take you.
ER nurse here. This absolutely happens. I used to worked in a town where the next nearest hospital was 20 miles away. At least once a week someone would do something like this. Also, people do this all the time with their children. It’s rare (I don’t work in a children’s hospital but the city I live in now has one) for a child to come to my hospital by EMS. I’ve taken care of very sick/injured kids whose parents just tossed them in the car and drove them. This is not uncommon.
We are not even that far out of town and when I was having a miscarriage my husband drove me to the hospital. Its double time if you wait for an ambulance. There's only so much EMT's can do, they are there to try and get you stable enough to get to a hospital where they have more resources. If you are needing surgery to stop internal bleeding, that's not happening in an ambulance.
Absolutely in a farm area you drive yourself to the hospital for sure on marked roads tractors that you can't pass on the road....
Ok, but did anyone question the relationship between Tristen and his mother? Because he was 14 and grew up on a farm, he would certainly be strong enough, could have the same motive as his father, knowledge of the cameras, and access to the iPad. He also left his father to “go get water” he doesn't know how long he was gone, and he was the one to discover his mother. Did anyone say how long he was out there getting the pet carrier? 🤷♀️
🤯🤯🤯 maybe the dad knew!! He went to prison for his son. 🤔
thank you, this is what i was thinking all the way through
As much as I wouldn't want to believe it was Tristan, it would have been worth looking into. He knows his way around a farm and it's equipment, had heard about the previous affair plus maybe the new one (kids the same age, maybe wifey didn't realize parents were sneaking off but kids did?), and a lot of farm kids are dedicated to that lifestyle
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING! No one questioned him at all! Like, he could have known about his mum cheating, that is extremely upsetting to a child! I think they definitely should have looked into the son.
This.... I was wondering the same thing!!!
This case has reasonable doubt, circumstantial evidence and incompetent counsel written all over it. If I was on the jury, no way I would’ve voted guilty.
Exactly
I agree, why didn't they look at the son. Bailey you should be a investigator...
Bailey, your eyebrows are badass. They fit your personality so well.
You pointed them out and now I can't stop looking at them...help
Little devil horns 😈
Ikr...she's so talented with makeup. And it always looks so easy when she does it bit when I try the same it's going to look completely different 😅
I know right? They’re very raised which some just can’t pull off but they fit her face and sassy self perfectly. I have to buy that dollar store soap she raves about to make my eyebrows stay put the way hers do. I asked my injector to raise my eyebrows like hers at my appt last Friday but he didn’t raise them enough so I’m getting more Botox at my follow up appt. I want Bailey brows, raised to the Gods!
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Okay…. But if the son left his dad “to get a drink” why aren’t they questioning the son more?
EXACTLY!!!!!!
EXACTLY
That's what I thought too!
MY EXACT THOUGHTS!!!!! The son found out and was "protecting" his dad!!
Because unfortunately investigators tend to be very narrow sighted. Once they believe they have the person or persons responsible they “stop investigating.”
Yes, i heard "so cold" at first anyway. And it fits with that he was saying over the phone about her already being cold
Okay so the son being the only one whose story changes is suspish, but also... did they question Jerry's wife at all? That was bugging me so bad!
When I was younger I fell off a horse. Instead of my parents calling 911 they loaded me up into the truck and drove me to the hospital instead of waiting for an ambulance. I can totally see his point of view. FYI - My parents also never called 911 at all.
Right? That’s just old school country style.
Yeah it makes sense to me, having grown up in a rual area. Ambulances take at least 30 minutes when we could just speed for 20 or less. And we dont have that kind of money
Yes! My extended family grew up on farms-- it's just what you do.
I am from a rural community and people do this all the time! Why wait for an ambulance to come, then transport the person back to the hospital, when you can have the person at the hospital before the ambulance even arrives?
For sure, especially if they live far away!
At this point Bailey should be Todd’s defense attorney. She makes a hella of a better case for an accident.
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She does bring up some very key points I mean you can't really argue with her
@@jennifercameron7143 right like how did the lawyers miss that haha
It's not like she was strangled and he didn't have any defense wounds
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I think todd called 911 after taking her in the car because he knew that it was ganna take longer for the ambulance to come since they live so far away from hospitals
I live in the "middle of nowhere" and this is exactly what we would do....although with that type of injury, we would just call life flight ourselves.
Came here to say this, 99% what happened imo. Especially since SHE WORKED THERE BEFORE so he probably knew how to get there quickly if needed.
Exactly what I was thinking.
Yeah I live in the boonies and would do the exact same thing Todd did because I rather speed to get the hospital then wait an hour for an ambulance to get there and then have to drive back to get her to the hospital
Literally I live in Iowa not too far from Anamosa and I'm certain that's what happened. With a lot of these small towns they don't have their own fire department/ambulance/police/emergency services. You have to go to the nearest city for that. So when something happens in a small town, ambulances take F O R E V E R to get there and THEN they take F O R E V E R to get back to the hospital. It's honesetly just faster to go to the hospital yourselves, and alert 911 while you're already on your way. IDK why the cops thought that was so suspicious, that's literally what everyone in small towns out here does when something happens.
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Oh yes, same here!
I came here for this comment! SOOO THE SON! The search history was so blatant like a setup
@@KATHERlNE yes!
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There's no way he did that. I hope The Innocence Project helps him
Hope so.
Funny how Baily and the comment section are making a better case for him than the people who were actually supposed to defend him in court.
I know! Right!
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What If the son did it but the dad knew the son did it. That's why he changed his story mid trial. Maybe the dad was covering for his son.
@@LisaMarie-fk5wb Maybe but i feel like the son had no motive to do so, and the cop mentioned that the son seemed traumatized holding his dead mom with her blood on him
@@Idk-lf7fe he could have been upset that his mom was having an affair on his dad, and he was "technically " the only person out of sight to grab a drink of water, he could have snuck into the barn
I do not understand why Tristan was not questioned more thoroughly.
1) He was the first person to find his mom. What if he found her in a compromised position and took advantage of the opportunity? She would not have suspected him to hurt her, so she wouldn’t have struggled with him too much.
2) He left his dad and went to get water changing the time he was gone throughout the course of the investigation. Suspish
3) Tristan most likely would have been able to turn off of the cameras just as easily as his dad.
4) He also would have been able to use his dads iPad to make google searches.
5) He played sports with the Jerry’s kids, is it possible the kids found out about the affair and Tristan decided to take matters into his own hands?
6) Also, do you think Tristan was planning on eventually taking over the farm? Perhaps the idea of divorce and having the farm broken up would have spoiled his future plans? I lived in rural PA most of life and though farming is hard work, it’s also a fairly lucrative business that perhaps Tristan was willing to give up?
I’ve got so many questions here.
I didn't even think about Tristan and Jerry's kids. That could be an angle.
It's entirely possible either Tristan or Todd found the search history for the wedding dresses and jewelry.
I would be more interested in WHEN these searches took place.
I was thinking the same thing. I kind of suspect the son, too. Everybody was just focused on the husband and forgot about the son.
I am not saying that the son is guilty, it is just suspicious.
Jerry's children could also be under suspicion depending on their ages etc. They could easily have blamed the victim.
YES! This is exactly what I was thinking!
ya , he could have been p*ssed at his Mom but still that she was dizzy and stuff still leads me to believe she fell BUT hey, again, seriously faulty defense, WHY didnt the defense try to pin it on Tristan as a way to get his DAD off or create reasonable doubt?
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As a person who lives on a farm, I would like to know WHERE Tristan went to get water. Did he just go to the nearest sink? Drink it out of the hose? Go to the office? Walk all the way back to the house? If someone had only asked him that we would have a lot more information about how long he was gone. Personally, I think it was either an accident or it was Tristan.
I thought this as well. He said it was only a minute or two and then changed his mind to say he wasn’t sure, but if they asked him where the water was they could much more easily come up with a timeline. I think the kid did it honestly.
I think it was accidental death possibly. Like legit they were hog farmers a hog will eat a whole human body
@@ashleyzurn1407 they will also clean up a crime scene.
@@julieholmes9704 😅
EXACTLY LIKE EVEN IF TODD SND HIM WERENT TOGETHER THE WHOKE TIME THATS TWO SUSPECTS NOT J ONE TWO
The fact that this guy was found guilty and Casey Anthony roams free, blows my freakin mind. She had suspicions google searches and a dead body smell in her trunk. Smdh
Preach 🙌🏻
Casey Anthony had a better lawyer. 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😤
Eh, I think Casey is an example of our justice system actually working, I know that’s controversial but... they couldn’t prove guilt without a doubt and focused on wild theories instead of facts. I think she 100% did it but Nancy Grace did a better job proving it than the prosecutors did.
for reallllll
8 agree totally. How is Casey Anthony not in prison but this guy is? Where's the proof?
Honestly I would have reacted just like Todd I would have thrown my spouse into the back of the car and started driving as close to the hospital as I can while calling 911. Therefore they don't have to go as far. When your loved one is dying in front of you you never know how you're going to react
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Growing up on a beef ranch, I know first hand, you are taught from a very young age that bad things can happen if you're not careful around farm equipment. If something does happen, you start driving to the hospital, then call for help because help simply can't get to you fast enough and it could be the difference between life and death. You also take on farm responsibilities from a young age. You learn about life's beginnings and ends very early. It does not surprise me at all that he started driving, then called 911. The ambulance can get to them faster if he can meet them half way. It also doesn't surprise me that the mother was laid on the son's lap. The father was the only one who could drive, so that left the oldest child to jump in and help stabilize. This is incredibly sad and I feel so badly for this family. Truly misrepresented and not given a fair trial.
Couldn't agree more. And if he wanted her to die he would have just stayed on the farm! She was pretty much gone at that stage anyway, and he knew it.
Totally agree
I too, living in Alaska, know to drive and the ambulance will meet you. I mean it’s a small town. Not like there’s a million routes to the hospital. However keeping the heart pumping oxygen to her brain is also important so CPR needed to get started. Hence him stopping to preform CPR once it was brought to his attention.
My husband and I were screaming all of these things at the TV!! I completely agree and think a lot of his actions are understandable when you are familiar with extremely rural living and the silent reserved farmer type. He reacted in a way that would have given his wife the best chance, not like a man that wanted her dead. So sad...
My boyfriend farms and his address always sends anyone to the wrong location.. so living out in the middle of nowhere it seems like common sense to drive anyone closer to town.. especially if there is someone to stabilize the injured person or do CPR on the way. Or if the locations aren’t 100% accurate like they are when you live in town, that could cost a life too.
Bailey you should become a defense attorney. You bring up questions that paid attorneys don't ask or think of.
Why would she do that? She already has a profession..she is a professional make-up artist..
Hi hello, as someone who grew up with a farmer as a dad I want to say that all of his actions made complete sense to me and that the investigators clearly didn’t understand how farmer men are. Most of them aren’t very emotional and can appear really cold when they do in fact care deeply about things, and everything that was listed about Tod being the paranoid one and wanting to make the marriage work only proves that exact instance to me. They act on instinct. As a farmer you have to be on your toes *especially* in an emergency and you end up acting on impulse and try and figure things out as you go along, his first instinct to put her in the truck makes sense because it was the first thing he thought of to do and in a rural area it would’ve been a quicker way to get to the hospital then to sit there and wait 45 minutes or longer for an ambulance. He acted on impulse, as farmers do.
I believe that Tod is innocent and I’m with everyone here that the one that needs to be questioned is Tristan- he’s the only one that left his dad for any amount of time, changed his story, and of course is the one everyone would least expect. His motive could’ve been he found out about his mom’s divorce plan and didn’t want to leave? maybe he somehow figured out of caught on that she was cheating on Tod *again*? I feel like he really needed to be looked into more, there’s so many things that make no sense…
This case really seems like a classic case of the court working backwards in that he was seen as “guilty until proven innocent”. And while it’s not necessarily impossible for him to have committed the crime, there was still room for doubt and therefore he shouldn’t have been convicted
It was the son. Why? he was the only one who left the barn, he changed his story twice, was the one who found her and covered in blood. The google searches: So, the husband was cheated 3 times and only in the 3rd time searched for signs of a cheating wife? No, the son found out, did the searches (aztecs was probably a school subject and he searched it for curiosity), saw how bad this was being to his dad and killed her.
yessss, my thoughts exactly
Yes thank you. My thoughts exactly
The MOMENT I heard that the son changed his story I was like.... okay, why is he not the prime suspect?
It makes sense. I also thought it could be the wife leveing breadcrumbs because she was scared of disappearing.
Yes! I come here to write the same thing!
Glad to see so many people also think the son is SUSPISH! Kids are often extremely angry when they find out a parent is cheating. He changed his story, left the barn, was gone for an unknown amount of time, more than likely had access to the iPad, and he's the one who found her!! Also, for the mayan part, what if he was learning about them in school and that's why he searched it?
That was my first thought! Kids learn about different cultures in schools, so he could have made that search.
Yes! And maybe the dad was so off cause he had his own suspicions and didn’t want his son to get in trouble
And 13 is about the age of 8th and 9th grade, when you WOULD typically learn about the Mayans in school.
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I'm from Iowa so this caught my attention. I wonder if the son was involved
I grew up REALLY rural and we were always taught get in the car and then call 911. We lived down a mile long dirt road that I don’t even think an ambulance could make it down
When the ambulance has to come from another county most of the time they can't find you. Country life like that is different. You kind of have to live it to understand it.
yep! I don’t live super rural but small lanes mean ambulances can’t even fit through ... seriously , someone fell and hit there head (they were fine luckily) and the paramedics had to leave the ambulance to walk down.
Bingo..that is exactly what i was thinking. In my are our 911 address is almost a half a mile from our house so if someone needed direction it would be very difficult. I think it very plausible that he just started driving maybe to a main road or somewhere he knew they could find. It was probably an unconscious decision.
Right! I also thought why not meeting them halfway? They can be faster at the hospital then
Yes, my parents first thought would be get the mf in the car and then call 911 while you’re driving. Or just pull up to the hospital
I think the cameras were disconnected because Amy didn't want to be caught on camera having an affair. If this guy is innocent and was actually cheated on three times and arrested, I feel so bad for him.
I thought she only cheated on him twice.
She wouldnt disconnect the cameras. Most women wont even think to do that let alone i doubt she would bring someone else around thier kids and thier farm knowing the dads there or could pop up. She would have went to him
@@brittnicole2438 lol I am not a cheater but I think you're right, as a woman, most of us would plan better than that
@@brittnicole2438 i doubt she would've brought anyone home, but who's to say she didn't try to sneak away and meet them somewhere that's close by or smth? idk, this whole case is obviously a set-up and the potholes make my head spiral.
@@blackiggy I wish if he did it he would admit it or the truth came out. They should have investigated more but i feel they didnt do what they should have.
I love how Bailey always describes small towns, bc I grew up in one and it’s honestly so true 😭 everyone loves to gossip, especially the Mississippi ladies I grew up with-
It is normal for people in rural areas to act first and call 911 after or not at all. When you live in the middle of nowhere, you react to emergencies differently because help will take longer than driving to the hospital yourself.
The Aztec search really makes me suspect the teenage son even more because he would likely be learning about them in school. If I were an investigator, I'd find out his curiculum. He probably knew about his Mom's affairs, and I can't imagine he'd be very happy with her. The fact that he changed his story and was the only one alone with her... Very suspicious.
also its a small town and I doubt that kids didn't tease him about his mother having an affair, I'm glad that we can all notice this :)
I was thinking that too !! And like he’s the one that went to grab a glass of water which probably brought him closer to his mother more than Todd having to run through the field ... it’s just a bit too weird for me
And the son would gain access to the farm and the income while his dad is in the slammer. And the son was the one that kept changing his story. Very interesting!
That was my thought. I honestly think it could have been the son
I was thinking 🤔 about the son the whole time too
the son was super traumatized, covered in blood, and unaccounted for.
he could have got mad at his mom and just boom, crime of passion.
and the dad willingly took the fall, which would also explain his demeanor in court since he knew that if someone was going down for it it was gonna be him because he was making sure it wasn’t the son.
Yeah if u watch the court videos he was so calm...but not weirdly calm (to me) at least, like he knows what's about to happen...to him.
That is exactly what I was thinking as soon as she said the son changed his story three times. Todd also chose to lay his wife across his son, so if there was any blood spatter on him previously it would have been covered up. I came to the comments to see if more people felt this way, but apparently not. I hope it was just an accident, we may never get the truth though.
@@25Rainbowgrapes this is so important!!!!
I was thinking the same thing even left a comment about it 🙌
@@25Rainbowgrapes I just commented something to the same effect. Looking to see who else thought that now lol
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Tristan, the son, went for "a drink of water" and he "doesn't know how long it took him".
And the Google searches were very childish.
And a father would never accuse their own son as a possibility.
This is truly disappointing.
I agree. How old was this son? Why did the court never question could their son be a suspect!
@@gurlkat24 He was 13. And not to mention he was the one who also found the body.
I also think the son did it.
Exactly, I had the same thoughts about the son and the searches. And if he was at the house, he could have confronted his mother, cleaned up, and gone back. If she was already cold by the time they pulled the car over, she was likely dead the entire time.
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I tried that with my dad and he got bored as soon as he saw the video length...😒
The attention span is nonexistent on some people I swear.
Rural farms are known to have very delayed emergency services since they’re so far out. It makes sense that Todd would start the drive and call for assistance on the way, it would get her to the ambulance faster if they met midway.
I couldn’t agree more with you!
Why did no one look into the son? He had timing and opportunity and could have resented his mother for breaking up the family by her affairs just as much as the father would have.
Yeah and a 13 year old boy could make that distance in no time. Plus those searches seem more like something a dumb kid would search
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I thought this too. Especially if she was already planning to get a divorce and end up possibly getting half the farm if not more.
This is what I was thinking!!
That what I was saying too!
I hate how most of the wife’s friends thought that the husband was mean and horrible like, the wife could’ve been lying to her friends. People do that.
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Sooo true! Just like when ppl cheat, they will tell the person they are cheating with that their partner is a horrible person etc but lying the whole time
@@dejavu7492 facts and if you're unhappy in the relationship you should talk about it or leave
Also what friends support someone cheating on their husband?! Because Bailey mentioned that Amy was having an affair with Jerry and she told her friend about it so like what type of person is that friend? I'm so mad at how they are blaming her husband but it's so unfair to him to find out that she was cheating even after he asked Jerry's wife.
@@MarauderetteForever that’s what I was thinking. Like if I was your friend and you were cheating in your husband. I would not support you and try to talk you out of doing it or tell the husband. So wrong. Very strange case
I completely agree. Too many unanswered questions.
Hopefully the poor dad gets justice. Prayers for him and his kids.
People seriously need to memorize “am i under arrest? Am I being detained? Am I free to leave?” Along with “LAWYER”. Period.
As a retired rural police officer, it’s very very very common to intercept patients on the way to the hospital or transported by helicopter it’s rare that an ambulance actually makes it too the location of the accident but the kid did it for sure.
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I thought that to, the son did it!!
Agreed. It didn’t seem odd at all that he would immediately start towards the hospital then call 911. Waiting around to call doesn’t help, while getting on the move does.
He needed a better defense team. They literally did nothing for him.
Prolly was paid off
Well they got him arrested...
Bailey, I was wondering and raising all the same questions myself and scenarios too. I don’t think there was enough to convict him beyond a reasonable doubt!
I googled "corn rake" to make sure I was picturing the right thing (english isn't my first language lol) and all the pictures are of this case, that's insane ! Also I agree with a lot of the comments on the son being suspish. Todd should get a new trial.
I was an attorney for many years, and you are SO right. The evidence is clearly insufficient to find this guy guilty. Feeling bad for the children :(
I’m a lawyer and I agree.
Do you think it could possibly be the son?
So much so. Even the search history wasn't confirmed to be his.
@@Toby-is-here When his story changed to get the water, yes. But even that is doubtful. It honestly just seems like a freak accident.
@@TiTi-pm4my They didn’t go further interviewing him and he changed his story.
Bailey is about to be hired as this guys defense attorney, pointing out all the holes in this plot.
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Lol I said the same thing!
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I’m honestly shocked they didn’t look into the son or the other guy’s wife. Also as someone who has lived on a farm in the middle of no where, I had a horrible allergic reaction to medication and my brother threw me into the car and started driving to the nearest hospital and called 911 on the way because sometimes that distance you make there can save lives.
I think it’s either an accident or the other wife. He called her and she talked him down so they wouldn’t suspect foul play.
I thought that was sensible, with and ambulance there is a two way journey where in the car its one way, any time you save in a life or death situation can be the difference. I dont live too far from the nearest hospital but when I stopped breathing during a seizure my husband called the ambulance and once they got to me my husband got our son out of bed, dropped him at his mothers house 2 minutes from our house and still made it to meet the ambulance when it pulled up. Sometimes the car is faster so I'm not taking that as conclusive
I agree. The other guys wife!
True, cause sometimes ambulance takes too long. I was having my daughter and her dad drove me to the hospital. The Dr told me of we would have waited 10/15mins our baby would have died cause the cord was around her neck. She was a premie too
@@SupportMensMentalHealth so true
I think the fact that his story never changed leans towards innocence. Guilty people stumble over their stories and change as things go on.
Like the son.
I agree with you. Not to mention, some of the things he said were so elaborate (like why the cameras were offline), yet he didn't say much in his own defense (like how he could make it to the red barn and back without his son noticing). Guilty people will grasp at straws and say any and every thing to make themselves seem innocent.
Some guilty people, usually only those that actually feel guilty. It's easier to lie when you aren't feeling anxious about the situation, though. Many killers have never changed their story and are only in prison due to evidence found.
FACTS: Even the best liars have trouble keeping their story straight.
I kept waiting to find out it was the son who did it. Didn't he have access to both the Google search and the cameras?
I agree even if he is guilty, there was not enough evidence for a guilty verdict in my opinion.
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If you live in the middle of nowhere, you start driving to the nearest hospital so you can meet the ambulance halfway...
I was thinking this too!
Yup
Yup. My husband's mom had to drive him to another town so that the ambulance could get him twice. I drove our son to the hospital because I knew itd be faster then to wait for an ambulance.
I live in a rural area and tgat what we have to do.
Or just try to make it all the way, if possible.
The searches don't sound like they were made by an adult. My theory is that the son found out about the affair and killed his mother while he was "getting water"
I was looking in the comments for this!!
this i just commented the same thing before i looked at the comments
Reminiscent of the OJ Simpson case. Many believe the son possibly did it.
Yesss !! That’s what I was thinking
exactly what I thought!!!!
Am i crazy to think that it’s a normal reaction to grab the person that’s injured and rush to the hospital? ESPECIALLY if they live in the middle of no where? I feel like I would have done the same…
Me too fr
The idea of guilty beyond a reasonable doubt was completely ignored by the judge and jury here - there is SO MUCH extremely credible and reasonable doubt, this should have been a layup for his defense and they completely dropped the ball.
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Literally me too!
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Me too
yesss same !!
I hate people judging another’s guilt on their emotional reaction to something. Not everyone wears their emotions on their sleeves.
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@@uncomfortablyniche Preach!
And he had been dealing with it for so long. He sat in jail for seven months before he even got the trial. Weird that people expect him to act like it just happened when he'd had half a year+ to think about it daily.
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Exactly. I was the only one of my family not crying at my grandfather's funeral. I just don't cry in public. I literally can't do it
Nothing makes me more mad than the prosecution and jury focusing on one person, one detail, and not exhuming all possibilities.