The Real Life Invisible Man Case - What Happened To Cindy James? | Mystery & Makeup Bailey Sarian

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    Hope you are all staying safe and healthy out there. Today I wanted to talk about Cindy James and the very suspish story around her case.
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  • @corotoney17
    @corotoney17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9945

    This poor woman was gaslighted by almost everyone.

    • @moriebam
      @moriebam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      Just by the police, everyone else believed her

    • @_GGGOLD
      @_GGGOLD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      morior no be shae the private investigator and her parents accused her of not telling the entire truth.....

    • @_GGGOLD
      @_GGGOLD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      *because

    • @jadegrimm25
      @jadegrimm25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Elizabeth.G I think they ment like they believed her but they probably thought she was leaving something out like who she knew who her stalker was. I don’t think they ment that they didn’t believe her.

    • @boorice84
      @boorice84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Exactly! Just like the movie Gaslight & the Invisible Man it is textbook gaslighting by a narcissist who wants to completely control and/or destroy someone’s life. And in this case Dr Makepeace succeeded, poor Cindy.

  • @lauram3115
    @lauram3115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4626

    The police should be ashamed of themselves for the way they handled this case. Disgusting.

    • @turneyminyard4342
      @turneyminyard4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      If a person is restrained, drugged, and strangled to death, there is no way foul play is not involved. No matter what this is a case of negligence on the part of the police and if this happened today this would have resulted in a riot.

    • @EmEm78
      @EmEm78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Things haven't improved much tbh, especially when the victim is a woman.

    • @LUVBUG24K
      @LUVBUG24K 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truly

    • @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive
      @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I agree. The police killed her indirectly. They have blood on their hands

    • @karenmendoza9521
      @karenmendoza9521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Classic rcmp. Useless as always

  • @briannamcallister83
    @briannamcallister83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3734

    Imagine dying and still having EVERYONE call you a liar

    • @annacostello5181
      @annacostello5181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Not everyone. We know now 🥺

    • @hoperios2104
      @hoperios2104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      liteally in her cofin and they still where tryna say she was lying...

    • @heathers7265
      @heathers7265 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She accidentally killed herself though. 🤷‍♀️ If you research this story more, you will find out more context. I love Bailey, but she's only telling a fraction of the story. 🤷‍♀️

    • @melanie9860
      @melanie9860 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@heathers7265 How do you bind your hands and feet behind your back by yourself ??lol seems difficult

    • @Mariposa_Child
      @Mariposa_Child ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@heathers7265caca head

  • @honeymelon_b
    @honeymelon_b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1548

    she happened to be dating a cop on and off during this time but there’s not a lot of info about him. i would not be surprised if he had done it and the police department tried to cover it up to protect their own. it wouldn’t be the first time that has happened.

    • @corinnasingleman7262
      @corinnasingleman7262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      I was thinking that maybe a cop was involved with the amount of bs they were pulling. Her having a relationship with a cop would make sooo much sense. Thanks for putting this out there.

    • @ASMRKay_
      @ASMRKay_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @Pops evidence locker seems like it would be the place to get some morphine. Idk if that a common thing though, just a guess

    • @ASMRKay_
      @ASMRKay_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @Pops I’ve worked as a nurse for 8 years and those medications and heavily guarded and checking in and out (most places under video surveillance since the opioid epidemic)
      I agree I think it’s the ex husband and not a random cop but it’s just as easy for a cop to get it as a psychiatrist (which they don’t prescribe opioids as far as I’m aware)
      But I was just answering your questions of how a cop COULD get morphine.

    • @loralieisa
      @loralieisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@ASMRKay_ This case occurred in Canada in the 1980s before the opioid crisis. The fact that her ex-husband was found lurking in her back yard does seemingly make him appear guilty.

    • @MsSilverTulip
      @MsSilverTulip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      The cop's name was Pat McBride. He was the first officer called out to Cindy's house when the incidents first started. They developed a romantic relationship (inappropriate) and he even moved in with her! Even worse, Pat McBride has been convicted of sexually assaulting two women, but the police cleared him of involvement in Cindy's case. Very suspish.

  • @jennifertaylor-wright7694
    @jennifertaylor-wright7694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6103

    The fact that the police didn’t take this case more seriously makes me sick

    • @madelineharrop6263
      @madelineharrop6263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      They don’t care with my case. Still ongoing disturbing calls for, me but the police closed the case file for no reason.

    • @DaydreamAllday
      @DaydreamAllday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@madelineharrop6263 I'm so sorry. That is horrible

    • @Darwinsmom
      @Darwinsmom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@madelineharrop6263 One of the most upsetting thing a woman can experience is to be a victim of a crime and for law enforcement to decide she is "hysterical, unstable or unbalanced". In too many jurisdictions detectives given the responsibility of investigating crimes against women include an "old boys network" type of mentality. As long as a man - any man - offers up a suggestion that the complaining witness is unstable or should not be believed, that is just enough "evidence" for her to be totally disregarded. I am sorry that you feel unheard, Madeline, and that you are continuing to suffer the torment. As you can attest, and as Cindy James experienced, women are still too often dismissed as victims of crime. Maybe once we start to get more female detectives in a position of investigative power, then things can improve. Stay safe, Madeline!

    • @whh993
      @whh993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes! And this is how so many of us end up missing or trapped in abusive dangerous horrifying situations & relationships. Woman claiming abuse are ignored or taking lightly.

    • @mochasoqrimey
      @mochasoqrimey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It really goes to show that you have to take care of yourself because help will never happen

  • @mollydickens9393
    @mollydickens9393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7761

    This case infuriates me because she would 100000% have lived had the police actually done their job

    • @pokepew
      @pokepew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +341

      And the police say they deserve to be taken more seriously 🙄

    • @joannecraft9842
      @joannecraft9842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      That's Canadian police for you.

    • @joannecraft9842
      @joannecraft9842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      Definitely was the husband. She was gaslite to make her look crazy. A psychiatrist would know this, it's part of narcissistic abuse. Also split personality is very very rare usually from trauma at an early age.

    • @Prismet
      @Prismet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They did, they staked out her house and cameras never picked up this made up person.

    • @fumbly_figs2301
      @fumbly_figs2301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Seriously, the police really need better training especially when it comes to cases like this. Absolutely horrendous.

  • @jennywhite2462
    @jennywhite2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    And everyone wonders why women don't report stalkers and crimes against them.. The ex was clearly capable of making someone crazy. I hope her sister gets answers.

  • @kateymowat1211
    @kateymowat1211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    Cyndi was killed twice, in my eyes. Once by the perpetrator, and once by the police. They failed her time and time again- a woman who’s already struggling with the truth because of a psychological expert at the other end of her suffering. Poor girl.

  • @livingdeadstephz
    @livingdeadstephz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23314

    the police? not taking a woman serious? what a shocker... poor Cindy!

    • @ItsMikky
      @ItsMikky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

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    • @TheMouseAvenger
      @TheMouseAvenger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +390

      They take women seriously in the "Law & Order" shows... :-( We can be like the "Law & Order" shows!!! WHY ARE WE NOT LIKE THE "LAW & ORDER" SHOWS???!!! T_T

    • @Ohnoitsruthio
      @Ohnoitsruthio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Victoria xo again - she was an adult woman?

    • @gabbygelsinger4145
      @gabbygelsinger4145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@vic_cresss why do you keep saying she was a minor? She was a nurse and had been married

    • @animefreaklizzie
      @animefreaklizzie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +359

      The police failed her and she wouldn't have been killed if the police just listened to her but nope, it's not a shocker that the police didn't believe her. It's truly sad.

  • @nsjak4ever0413
    @nsjak4ever0413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2406

    Bailey: "Its like Im a cult leader." Puts on Jim Jones glasses " Do I get tax exemptions?"
    😂😂😂😂😂 and THAT humor is why we love you Bailey!!!!

    • @89lillyflower
      @89lillyflower 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I just had the exact same thought!
      (... maybe we are a cult???)
      😂😂😂

    • @beccadee1433
      @beccadee1433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I about spit my drink!!! Lol

    • @jenellenelson4447
      @jenellenelson4447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@beccadee1433 I did 🤣🤣

    • @wawtamalone
      @wawtamalone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      honestly 😂😂😂

    • @shannondolliver5233
      @shannondolliver5233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cracks me up!

  • @kimberleyhazlett2818
    @kimberleyhazlett2818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I think Her ex husband for sure was slowly mentally breaking her, to make her look like she was crazy and not credible. Then once everyone thought she was crazy and brushed her, off he went in to finish her.. such a sick person. You can’t convince me otherwise!

    • @jessicak.3959
      @jessicak.3959 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Totally agree!

  • @AmenoKoe
    @AmenoKoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I mean, she had been attacked multiple times, her dog had been attacked, she stayed with her friends and her attacker started a fire in her home, and the police refused to believe it was actually happening TO her.
    She knows her husband is extremely intelligent and manipulative.
    I would be terrified to tell anyone too.

  • @leahashleymoore8979
    @leahashleymoore8979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7493

    This is why women are too afraid to go to the police about their abusers, stalkers, etc. So so sad!

    • @karayanna8119
      @karayanna8119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Yes!! Louder for the people in the back!!

    • @britneekathryn
      @britneekathryn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ffssteponitlo5413
      @ffssteponitlo5413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      our stalker was the police at some point!!

    • @Ashley-lt2rc
      @Ashley-lt2rc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Exactly! Nothing has changed. So gross.

    • @chargedasy
      @chargedasy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      *Trigger warning* ive been talking to police for a r*pe incident when i was young that i recently came out about to my family and theyre acting like 13 year old me was seducing a grown man 🤦🏼‍♀️ Like.. it’s extremely frustrating.

  • @mbg140897
    @mbg140897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2796

    Whoever was doing this wasn’t smart. The police just weren’t taking a woman dealing with harassment seriously. This story made me so angry and sad for Cindy.

    • @awavphjj6777
      @awavphjj6777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      What if her ex husband was paying off the police. He was a doctor he had money to do so 🤔

    • @faithbrown4811
      @faithbrown4811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Awav Phjj I kept thinking her husband too

    • @mbg140897
      @mbg140897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Awav Phjj I wouldn’t be surprised either. I don’t put anything past anyone ugh!😭

    • @chunkyboi2139
      @chunkyboi2139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah rip Cindy

    • @nellojello
      @nellojello 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too! I'm so mad for her

  • @theadorabletav7766
    @theadorabletav7766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I think this is honestly the most frustrating case you've covered yet. The whole time my blood was boilling listening to her story.

    • @Camilaiturbides
      @Camilaiturbides 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Fr tho! It gave me goosebumps

  • @tabitha9323
    @tabitha9323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    If she had multiple personalities, other people would notice, especially since she was hospitalized multiple times. Also, people with DID, presuming that was what was intended, do so to protect themselves. It's a self-preservation thing, so she wouldn't be tormenting herself. That makes no sense.
    And yes, it is absolutely maddening to not be believed when you are being abused. That kind of psychological torture needs to be made illegal if it can be proven. Many can prove it, and the victim is told to make changes even when it's not possible.

  • @jordynkl
    @jordynkl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2592

    how the heck would someone be able to STRANGLE themselves while their hands are tied behind their back?????? how is that even considered a theory

    • @almadeluz501
      @almadeluz501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      Yeah, while shooting a deadly dose of morphine that would have you immobilized in minutes...

    • @douae5857
      @douae5857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Logic out of the window

    • @nolagirl7082
      @nolagirl7082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      AlmaDeLuz Morphine inserted Intravenously? It would have taken SECONDS to have her immobilized

    • @cindirokstr
      @cindirokstr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Exactly? Also while overdosed on morphine?? Gah! Drives me crazy!!

    • @jeannettewinters3171
      @jeannettewinters3171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right absolutely insane

  • @riley1004
    @riley1004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3226

    how would she strangle herself if she tied her hands behind her back...doesn’t make sense.

    • @elixir7996
      @elixir7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      i thought the same

    • @TheButterflyChaos
      @TheButterflyChaos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      How do you even tie your hands behind your back? Like, and get it realistically tight? And then strangle yourself?

    • @kiana_bon_vivant
      @kiana_bon_vivant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I can’t even clip a bracelet on my own wrist in the FRONT let alone that.... SUSPISH

    • @notbelle.e
      @notbelle.e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ANDDDD on top of that having a morphine overdose

    • @xydoit2024
      @xydoit2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe there was a rope between the tie in her hands and the tie around her neck. Or she usee the same things she tied over her neck and hands. I can't explain that in English.

  • @thescarecellar7223
    @thescarecellar7223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I love when I revisit older Bailey videos and she hit a milestone like 2mil subs in this one, and now she's at 7mil.... GO QUEEN!!

    • @daisykisses8803
      @daisykisses8803 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      IKR! So happy for her!!🎉

  • @aleksandrahajdukovic2620
    @aleksandrahajdukovic2620 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    Every single youtuber: "HIT THAT SUBSCRIBE BUTTEN!"
    Bailey: "You can leave anytime. You can leave."

  • @mermaidmomma
    @mermaidmomma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1303

    How the police treated her... just sickening. And even after her death they just spit on her. Horrible.

    • @mydestiny7989
      @mydestiny7989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Truly horrible

    • @paulahughes3108
      @paulahughes3108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Horrific way to be treated by those supposed to help and protect you.

    • @idk.4970
      @idk.4970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      and that is one of the reasons why ACAB is the thing✨

    • @StarrWmsy
      @StarrWmsy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Smh..this upsets me...

  • @fernandacamacho3227
    @fernandacamacho3227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4098

    She said "it's like I'm a cult leader" and I'm like "where do I sign?"

    • @kaytlynmariie
      @kaytlynmariie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Ill sign up too :) just give me the sign up sheet lol

    • @AndreaMartinez-zh3cw
      @AndreaMartinez-zh3cw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Im willing to sign a billion year contract

    • @marisolchanthavong831
      @marisolchanthavong831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol, same here. To her comment where she said now what do I do? How do I act? @BaileySarian just keep being your silly awesome self. Congrats to many million more girlfriend!! Love you tons!

    • @ivoryvaughn7466
      @ivoryvaughn7466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When you find out let me know💯😖😭

    • @jannasmith3275
      @jannasmith3275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When I saw this comment it had 666 likes... Uhm creepy. Maybe it is a cult 😂😂😂

  • @darolynbarber199
    @darolynbarber199 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I believe that this video should be used for educational purposes in the police department in order for them to DO BETTER

    • @Loralanthalas
      @Loralanthalas ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nope. Humans are supposed to act a certain way. The quickest way to get a man (or cop) to stop listening is to be hysterical. The more panic you're in when you call 911: the slower they are because they don't like being yelled at. -- they are the AUTHORITY. Ever pretending anything different will automatically put you in their suspect/non-help category. -- coming from a cops kid.

    • @Liliarthan
      @Liliarthan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Loralanthalasbut then if you’re too calm then they think you are making it up too, coz surely if you’re that distressed then you would be more upset? Seriously, we women can’t win in this. We don’t get taken seriously no matter what we do.
      The best way to get taken seriously is to get reincarnated as a white upper class man.

    • @lealeapants9011
      @lealeapants9011 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Loralanthalas so... Reacting to a distressing situation when asking for help means you shouldn't get help...
      Please do not follow in your parents footsteps

  • @kaeseymalone1650
    @kaeseymalone1650 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is why women don't come forward about their abusers/stalkers. This story infuriates me, and my heart breaks for Cindy. May she finally be at peace.

  • @hannahbradley7871
    @hannahbradley7871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1804

    If she was lying, why did her friends husband see a man standing outside staring at the house after the fire was set? I really doubt he just happened to be standing out there to conveniently run away when asked to call the police.

    • @pineapule
      @pineapule 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Correction sorry* it was Agnes husband who saw the mystery man, Cindy had not remarried

    • @alyssamedina9946
      @alyssamedina9946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@pineapule that's what Hannah said, "her friends husband". Not Cindy's husband. So she didn't use Agnes' name. So no need to correct.

    • @kaitlynt6829
      @kaitlynt6829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Diosa maybe that wasn’t his reaction because a house was on fire and that felt like a more dire issue at the moment

    • @nemo5288
      @nemo5288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@majmuneeeeee Yeah because you wouldn't have a house because you were too worried about catching an unknown person rather than calling the fire brigade.

    • @daniellafasano9007
      @daniellafasano9007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Most people who set fires sit and watch the fire if you've watched any type of forensic files People that's a fire always like sit in And watch that's why when they find a building attention he said They have somebody flying above with one of those warm cameras to see if there's anybody standing watching the fire

  • @ForeverSunny3
    @ForeverSunny3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5917

    My mother was a victim of stalking. She was not believed. It wasn’t until she ran into a childhood friend who was a cop and told him what was happening that she was finally believed and they arrested the man.
    My grandmother told her to “stop causing problems”. It’s horrible.

    • @shakira1682
      @shakira1682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      i'm so sorry

    • @K9Charlie
      @K9Charlie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@katkaos7896 vn no v. M

    • @spilledmilk842
      @spilledmilk842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@K9Charlie what?

    • @the_greatest_Lily-bella_alive
      @the_greatest_Lily-bella_alive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@katkaos7896 I know. That's BS!

    • @berenicemartinez9238
      @berenicemartinez9238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      My own mother has told me to stop causing problems when I wanted to confront family for being sexually abused.🙄🙄🤬

  • @bio.sophia
    @bio.sophia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This video came out exactly 1 year ago today and Bailey has now gone from 2 million subs to 5.3 million! Congrats Bailey

  • @kristacarter53
    @kristacarter53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Knowing that she was repeatedly injected with morphine each time she was assaulted tells me it was probably her ex husband. He was angry she divorced him but he probably still had a soft spot for her and couldn't bring himself to watch her suffer or would feel ashamed if she was awake enough to recognize his face. Plus the fact he was a Dr. and probably had access to morphine. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Liliarthan
      @Liliarthan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I don’t think he injected her with morphine out of compassion. I think he did it so he can gain compliance and she isn’t able to fight back while he strangled her. He’s a coward who wouldn’t have the courage to try and fight her in the daylight.

    • @chareamalcolm1666
      @chareamalcolm1666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And so that she couldn't remember who it was injecting her. I think it was the cop she was dating.

  • @tiffanyvoerman
    @tiffanyvoerman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    Poor Cindy. There is no way she did this to herself. And to think her ex-husband got off scott-free. Shame on the police!

  • @cheerkira
    @cheerkira 4 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    This is some major BS. Poor woman was tortured and police wouldn’t believe her. Absolutely awful.

  • @toulousesho
    @toulousesho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i feel so bad for cindy she died and they still don’t believe her. may she rest in peace and those who didn’t believe her feel horrible grief and regret and shame until they die

  • @hannahkins8828
    @hannahkins8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The police literally could have gotten so many clues if only they tested for DNA on the knife and note. It's so obvious! I'm literally raging

    • @katie29baj
      @katie29baj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      DNA testing didn't exist at that time though

  • @saekemi2144
    @saekemi2144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2283

    she wouldn’t’ve died if the police did their jobs. it’s absolutely outrageous! may cindy rest in peace.

    • @robinpreston5358
      @robinpreston5358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Sadly they can’t because the law didn’t count stalking as a crime until very recently. Unless the man was showing up directly and she knew who it was, they couldn’t do anything about it. I was stalked from 16-19 and didn’t know who it was, luckily an officer went behind his job and got a private detective to find who my stalker was. Stalking laws are still not taken seriously, not because of police but because of the courts

    • @saekemi2144
      @saekemi2144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Robin Preston i’m sorry, i didn’t know that! thank you for sharing this information. it’s great that you found out who your stalker was and i hope you’re doing better now!

    • @robinpreston5358
      @robinpreston5358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      saekemi you are more than fine! 👏🏾 There are definitely some cops who don’t take it seriously, but there are also many who do. Sadly our politicians and law makers treat it like a joke though.

    • @DevonaRavenhold
      @DevonaRavenhold 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The RCMP is NOTORIOUS for this!

    • @ernestscribbler2294
      @ernestscribbler2294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Robin Preston That is horrible! I am glad that officer helped you. 💕

  • @KSweets95
    @KSweets95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3348

    When she says “you can leave at anytime”, like no girl, we’re fully invested now babe! We love you!!

    • @RockStar_Love
      @RockStar_Love 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right!! 🤔 Is that your passive aggressive way of telling me you don't want me here or that I over stayed my welcome?? 🤣🤣😯. J/I. I too love her!! 😘😘💜💜

    • @MMWEST01
      @MMWEST01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha I know right. 😂

    • @PamelaTidwell347
      @PamelaTidwell347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True that ❤️💯

    • @rashione982
      @rashione982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She's like so just.. not stressed.. like rested idk😂
      But naturally beautiful ❤️

    • @kimberlyrose9473
      @kimberlyrose9473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know right like LeEaAaVEe wym leave?

  • @haileybetancourt2645
    @haileybetancourt2645 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watching this 2 years later and seeing that there is now SIX million subscribers!! So happy for you Bailey, you deserve all the recognition. Your videos get me through my work day 💕

  • @phoenixzafeiriou716
    @phoenixzafeiriou716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think it’s also a huge thing to note that she had gotten in a relationship with Officer Pat McBride. He moved in with her temporarily in November 1982 after more and more threatening notes and images appeared outside her home and officer mcbride did state he saw her ex husband in an alley way behind her house with two guns
    Her ex tried to play it off that he was patrolling to protect her

  • @annelizedewet8871
    @annelizedewet8871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +867

    can we just talk about how sad this is... she tried to get help, but almost nobody listend to her...

    • @tammyallen3813
      @tammyallen3813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The truly sad part is that this is a common occurance

    • @jarid114
      @jarid114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's sad, but not surprising to me at all.

  • @kidddcupid
    @kidddcupid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12346

    Police: "you're faking the harrassment, we don't believe you"
    Police after lie detector test: "you're too affected by the harrassment, we don't believe you"

    • @JoJo-ew9dz
      @JoJo-ew9dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +543

      But they would have had no problem believing it if it showed she was lying 😆

    • @jerriscott7129
      @jerriscott7129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +377

      A-holes. They are to blame for her death

    • @raanasyed8249
      @raanasyed8249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +270

      ACAB

    • @angeliplier9303
      @angeliplier9303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      It was sad time for us women in that time

    • @bambixdeltor7060
      @bambixdeltor7060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      It was easier to believe she strangled herself while her handa and feet were tied.😂

  • @graceabdalla469
    @graceabdalla469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Don’t you guys think a psychiatrist would know how to manipulate somebody mentally into thinking they’re crazy?

  • @TheBizzle1984
    @TheBizzle1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Honestly, with that level of denial and victim blaming/gaslighting I wouldn't be surprised if one or more of the cops were actually involved. That's just beyond negligent and incompetent. There's no reason for cops to act that useless, unless they're protecting one of their own.

  • @LittlePunchy
    @LittlePunchy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1419

    The worst Monday’s are the ones where Bailey doesn’t post

    • @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz
      @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes!!! And Saturday lol

    • @celinamanuelita4687
      @celinamanuelita4687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For real 🤣

    • @catoxford7603
      @catoxford7603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But it makes it even more special when she does post 🥰

    • @tashabrinkworth3995
      @tashabrinkworth3995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Last Monday I was so lost 😫 this is by far the best series ever ❤

    • @LexxRay
      @LexxRay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was the 1,000 like on here and it was VERY satisfying watching it change to 1k 🙌🏻

  • @Infearandfaith22
    @Infearandfaith22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    HOW DO YOU STRANGLE YOURSELF WHEN YOUR HANDS ARE TIED BEHIND YOUR BACK? How can they even BELIEVE that?? I’m angry.

    • @lisam.6152
      @lisam.6152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too 😣

    • @jamsla2635
      @jamsla2635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right?! My exact thought. Like tf?!

    • @michalanewman4131
      @michalanewman4131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That would be my question nm the morphine in her

    • @mollysministuff
      @mollysministuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I can't believe they didn't even believe her when she was found with a knife in her hand!!! They even up and told her to stop faking as she was recovering. How is this even possible???

  • @kittythomas1
    @kittythomas1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i have just listened to the rather lengthy audiobook on this case called "Death by unknown event" i was so gripped by the tale that i came looking for more ty Bailey for including this in your portfolio. i do understand that you have limited time to cover it but the book gives so many more details such as the fact that one of the cops actually became besotted with her too and moved in for a month

  • @sarakelly3214
    @sarakelly3214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "You win Universe. You win"
    I feel this one in my bones

  • @oldflowers1342
    @oldflowers1342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1884

    The LENGTHS these people went to to convince themselves that Cindy was lying.

    • @cherih5035
      @cherih5035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Exactly!! The ex had connections in the police department. I’d bet on it!

    • @michelerichter4
      @michelerichter4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I wouldn't doubt that he "set the stage" with the police to begin with, by telling his buddies on the police force about his so-called "crazy ex-wife'.... he would know how to make it sound convincing for sure, but he won't get caught until the next woman gets involved and she leaves him too.

    • @shannonfairywalker2466
      @shannonfairywalker2466 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      FR I WAS IN DISBELIEF

    • @daniaxavier7146
      @daniaxavier7146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ikr? It’s like They don’t even think! I mean why would someone fake all this? What would they lose if they actually investigated what was going on, you know DOING THEIR JOB! but noooo she had to die, and they still tried to blame her to hide their incompetence... protect and serve right😒

  • @moparsrule862
    @moparsrule862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3769

    Police-" no fingerprints, she done it herself", the rest of us with a brain say" they wore gloves", Police say" what are those"

    • @jessymoore8868
      @jessymoore8868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I read your name as Marsupials for some reason lol. I was going to say the police were dumber then marsupials, but thats sounds like more of an insult to the kangaroos.

    • @moparsrule862
      @moparsrule862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@jessymoore8868 The only marsupial we have here is the possum from Australia, no kangaroos just kiwis

    • @lisasmiles3318
      @lisasmiles3318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds about right for the RCMP.

    • @garzafam8065
      @garzafam8065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!!!

    • @shaz8486
      @shaz8486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Typical dumb cop !

  • @Wayathin
    @Wayathin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tbh I LOVE Bailey's look in this video, she looks incredible!

  • @rachelcushing7448
    @rachelcushing7448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m rewatching this, and you were so thankful for reaching 2 mill followers, and now you have almost 6 million!! So happy for you sis!

  • @cheyenneperkins8918
    @cheyenneperkins8918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4741

    Can we just thank Ozzie for automatically believing her and trying to help her when no one else was

    • @nathfairy
      @nathfairy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Well i mean... he was being paid. It's the least he could do

    • @natalikronwald6177
      @natalikronwald6177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nathfairy he doesn’t care if it’s true, he’s not a judge. He cares only if she continues to pay or nah

    • @carterpitbull7366
      @carterpitbull7366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      nathfairy it wasn’t even just about being paid though, he begged the cops to help and believe her too. He really did care.

    • @killercharm2742
      @killercharm2742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@carterpitbull7366 You're right. The cops are paid to help her, too.

    • @mostchicgirl
      @mostchicgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      righttt

  • @RadEdits
    @RadEdits 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3416

    At this point, the ex husband could have fully confessed to stalking her and the police would still be like “nahh it’s definitely not you” -__-
    Another man got away with abusing and tormenting a woman.. sick and disturbing. I pray he gets his karma.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      he will there must always be balance in the universe..

    • @faiza515
      @faiza515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Her ex husband is now dead

    • @smrtfasizmu6161
      @smrtfasizmu6161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It was a woman's voice in the telephone calls. She was stalked by a woman (maybe by a group of people but if so, at least 1 woman is in that group of people because a female voice can be heard in the voice mail and telephone).

    • @jacksonjo5045
      @jacksonjo5045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@smrtfasizmu6161 weird

    • @FMAiscool
      @FMAiscool 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "He was just having a bad day"

  • @MadTeaMarie
    @MadTeaMarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I only recently discovered your videos (and have been just devouring them going back), but THIS ONE was like hearing a puzzle from someone giving an art lesson while performing a magic illusion at the same time. The way you made shapes change on your face while relating something RIVETING? You are seriously, truly amazing.

  • @latoyamayo3720
    @latoyamayo3720 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It jus lets u know how much ppl LUV UR CONTENT. An u jus keep doin what u luv 2 do an do best.

  • @GhoulChristina
    @GhoulChristina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7893

    No one takes a woman serious, police, doctors, politicians.

    • @tammyallen3813
      @tammyallen3813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      YEP>>>could not have said it better!!!

    • @GenevieveClough
      @GenevieveClough 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      So many of these cases could be avoided! 😡

    • @RielleAdaig
      @RielleAdaig 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @tanneradams686
      @tanneradams686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you know why that is?

    • @saraee1234567
      @saraee1234567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      TRUE!!!

  • @ninalauradionne2833
    @ninalauradionne2833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1522

    I cannot believe that the police were like “yeah she injected herself, tied herself up (hands and feet), and strangled herself!!! That’s impossible!!

    • @juliebasaraba4614
      @juliebasaraba4614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Nina Laura Dionne while on a lethal amount of morphine. There’s absolutely no way!

    • @patsulek1570
      @patsulek1570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Cops asked me if I'd taken my meds .
      Before I called them
      I'm not on any meds. Only Insulin.

    • @renavanlandingham141
      @renavanlandingham141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was the ex

    • @trixiemendoza521
      @trixiemendoza521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He must be someone in the higher ups, been hearing stories of priest pedophiles who were in cults with people who are police officers, government workers and so forth. Why would she be scared to tell her family, she must’ve know how much power this guy had. Could be why the police claimed her as lier.

    • @HeatherE303
      @HeatherE303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She didn't die of strangulation though. She died from a morphine overdose. So actually it's possible.

  • @ninjarobot145
    @ninjarobot145 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This reminds me of a situation I was in. I am currently writing a book about what I went thru. I'm happy to be alive

  • @lorihart9231
    @lorihart9231 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Don't care about makeup but you make it fun😂 I love how you tell your crime stories 😊 thanks for hours of interesting knowledge.

  • @cupcakecarl
    @cupcakecarl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2163

    And people WONDER why others hate cops. She didn't get justice. She was disregarded and not taken seriously by police. Its ridiculous.

    • @v.anessa1451
      @v.anessa1451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      they not only didn't intervene, they gaslit her so much and made the situation even that much worse

    • @patriciab.913
      @patriciab.913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      v.anessa fr even when their theories of what happened were proved incorrect they still blamed Cindy🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kendramorningstar9942
      @kendramorningstar9942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      exactly.!!! F these cops.! i swear. *smfh*

    • @daniellekikermancilla5322
      @daniellekikermancilla5322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      acab

    • @user-bj5qj7kk3l
      @user-bj5qj7kk3l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      LuStar acab

  • @Rikke.V
    @Rikke.V 4 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    The way the police handled it almost makes me think it could have been someone within the department, or maybe her ex husband was very close with someone in the police. We all know the lengths they go through to "protect" their own...

    • @JaimeeSander
      @JaimeeSander 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I had the same thought!!!

    • @samantharhoades8326
      @samantharhoades8326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I’ve been in law enforcement for over 10 years and half way through the video I had the same thought. I haven’t done any research on this but going just off of her story, this doesn’t sound like basic police incompetence but more like purposeful negligence.

    • @aundreadillinger3530
      @aundreadillinger3530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is what I was thinking!

    • @Lindy_Thacker
      @Lindy_Thacker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Cindy actually had a lover, Pat McBride who was part of the police department. My money is on him as well! He wouold've easily been able to avoid police detection since he would've been watching her the same time as the police, knew when the police were monitoring her phone, etc. and made sure some "evidence" was never followed up on!

    • @krisdepp890
      @krisdepp890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      reminds me of "unbelievable" on Netflix, SO frustrating

  • @beausinclair8053
    @beausinclair8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    it really does drive you crazy when no one believes you. it's so infuriating, and you can't do anything to change their minds.

  • @Everyday_Stylist
    @Everyday_Stylist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching this a year later and seeing her now at 6 million something just makes me so happy that soo many others are enjoying her as much as I have since Pretty much day one!! She’s just soo amazing! Congrats girl!!!! Soo happy for you!!!

  • @qwertyuiop3849
    @qwertyuiop3849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3756

    Bailey is like a glamorous version of a gossip lady that makes you feel special when included in her scandalous speculations.

  • @yes5961
    @yes5961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2093

    excuse me but the fact that the cops didn't belive her EVEN AFTER SHE DIED WITH HER HANDS TIED BEHIND HER STRANGLED-

    • @August-30047
      @August-30047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      I feel like they believed then but didn't want to admit they were wrong

    • @TheCC1968
      @TheCC1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah that........ unbelievable...........,

    • @TheCC1968
      @TheCC1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Avalon 2 as we should..... Who's watching the watchers?

    • @maddisonblackwood6411
      @maddisonblackwood6411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Then they'd have to admit accountability tho. We know how often that happens.

    • @MsSilverTulip
      @MsSilverTulip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The police claimed she staged all of the attacks for attention. To prove their claims, the police had someone at the coronal inquest placing a nylon around his neck and hog tying himself to demonstrate how Cindy may have done it in three minutes. They claimed she took oral narcotics (pills), which would have had a delayed effect and she would have had time to tie herself up before passing out. That doesn't explain the injection mark on her arm (although she could have injected herself with saline to fake it). The police account sounds very far fetched to me, which is probably why the result of the coronal inquest was that the manner of death was still unknown.

  • @hillaryhollenbeck370
    @hillaryhollenbeck370 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That “Invisible Man movie” is insane!!

  • @briannamunoz5812
    @briannamunoz5812 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The more of these stories i listen too, the most common thing i learn is the police are next to useless. Absolutely insane they kept saying she was lying. They literally do nothing to help until someone is dead and even then, just useless. 🙄

  • @hayleephillips7409
    @hayleephillips7409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    In my opinion, it makes a lot of sense that her psychiatrist ex-husband would know all of the perfect ways to drive somebody insane based on his field of study. Then he turned everyone against her, making it seem like she had problems which he fabricated and people believed, to explain away all the weirdness that was happening to this poor woman.

    • @kristinbagani2811
      @kristinbagani2811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      That makes sense, especially since Cindy didn’t start getting the death threats until after the divorce and when she moved out of her husband’s house.

    • @sharolynm6397
      @sharolynm6397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like gas-lighting.

    • @loststarsydney3435
      @loststarsydney3435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Also do we know if they knew each other before she was 18? He could’ve easily groomed her and got into her head before and during their marriage. If she was groomed he would’ve definitely hated the idea of her not being under his control.

    • @aprilmackow7683
      @aprilmackow7683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn’t agree more

  • @Mynamestartswithk
    @Mynamestartswithk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3195

    When you realize Bailey’s bad makeup day is better than anytime you’ve ever done your makeup. 😕

    • @shundakm
      @shundakm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I was thinking the same thing about Baileys makeup, it’s a very very pretty look on her. I can’t stop looking at her eyes and her eyelashes on this look. Very pretty look Bailey

    • @trustnotne1
      @trustnotne1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      My exact thought 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @sashabraddock7009
      @sashabraddock7009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      For real I was sitting here like uh what bad make up day.. I loved the look❤😍❤

    • @FireLlama550
      @FireLlama550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I felt this 😂😭

    • @nmac6533
      @nmac6533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Legit

  • @vanessapyo7331
    @vanessapyo7331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Her ex husband sounds exactly like my ex fiancé. My ex always threatened that if I ever left him, he would make others believe that I’m the crazy one. He always said, “I’d never physically hurt you… that’s way too easy to heal from. I’d get into your mind & destroy you emotionally. It’s almost impossible to heal from those wounds. I’d turn everyone against you and let your mind die first”. Creep.
    I’m so glad I got away with my life.

    • @luxbrumalis823
      @luxbrumalis823 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ..he literally said that to you?? Who actually admits that?

  • @firablackmoore4345
    @firablackmoore4345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Little did she know that she was going to get up to 7.14 million subscribers. 😊
    Bailey totally deserves all the support on her channel and i hope that she will one day hit the 10 million milestone ❤ 💙

    • @M_B_24
      @M_B_24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And I’m here for it too! I’m one from the very beginning! 10 mil the next milestone!! Keep talking Bailey!!! ❤

  • @colleenmahony8803
    @colleenmahony8803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +679

    When you hear people use the term "gaslighting," THIS is exactly the kind of thing they're referring to, making someone feel their experiences and gut feelings are not true, that they are crazy. And a psychiatrist would know exactly what it is and how to do it.

    • @nzarzecki
      @nzarzecki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Colleen Mahony This story literally made me think of the Ingrid Bergman movie ‘Gaslight’. The husband tries to convince the wife she is losing it even though she isn’t, and eventually, she can’t take it anymore.

    • @sibellawoodruff1865
      @sibellawoodruff1865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nzarzecki yes I remember that movie!
      FYI I'm a teen that likes classic movies😁

    • @sydneepasala1810
      @sydneepasala1810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NRZ Yesss! What a great film!!

    • @vikigee2790
      @vikigee2790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my gosh, yes, totally!

  • @ploveness0312
    @ploveness0312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    I would never mentally survive being attacked that many times. Poor Cindy.

  • @stephaniej8785
    @stephaniej8785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lol that’s me all day “you win universe, you win “ 😂

  • @private24865
    @private24865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don’t think I’ve ever been so frustrated at a story as this. It’s sickening that Cindy went through everything that she did, and was completely disregarded

  • @HighTides443
    @HighTides443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    It was the ex-husband. She said she received a note saying that if she said who it was she would die. Lo and behold she said it was the husband and she was killed.

  • @embooth7106
    @embooth7106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1862

    They had no concrete evidence because they didn't do their jobs.

    • @tlambssss
      @tlambssss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      UGH I was thinking this the entire time! What pigs

    • @urworstnightmarefr
      @urworstnightmarefr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      preach

    • @neonjanice8701
      @neonjanice8701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      They had no concrete evidence to turn her away either. They just said “we don’t believe you.” like a bunch of useless five year olds. They didn’t even bother to investigate to see if her claims are true, useless sacks of... manure

  • @shawnam8106
    @shawnam8106 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And now you're at 7.3 million girl❤

  • @McMegahan
    @McMegahan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I literally clicked on this because I loved your make up. It's hard to believe that it was a bad make-up-day. Amazing!

  • @brittanyheatherly5578
    @brittanyheatherly5578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    What makes me so mad is that why would she do all that she did such as moving, polygraphs, changing her last name, all of that just for it to be herself doing it. Ugh.

    • @zoedoss6639
      @zoedoss6639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Stringing up dead cats on her own porch? Making threatening letters to herself? Putting herself in a ditch? No way.
      My only thing is like...if this was happening daily, how did a neighbor never see who was doing it

    • @cappy4753
      @cappy4753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@brijefferson1498 this actually was a reddit post and he didn't have multiple personality disorder.
      The guy was suffering from carbon monoxide poisoning. Someone on the reddit thread suggested that the guy tested his house and sure enough that was the reason. You can find this easily.

    • @dragonquestV
      @dragonquestV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Also the correct term for "multiple personality disorder" is DID (dissociative identity disorder) and is most often formed through childhood trauma that manifests as seperate "identities" that basically work to protect the individual, so it's highly unlikely that someone with DID would be secretly tormenting themselves... it really just sounds like ableism + victim blaming

  • @maddyz.5843
    @maddyz.5843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +625

    These cops should be held accountable for all the horrible things that happened to Cindy.

    • @ImBlueDaBaDeeDaBaDaa
      @ImBlueDaBaDeeDaBaDaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree. But of course they got away with such incompetence. It also wouldn't have surprised me if they were bought off by the ex.

    • @britneymccoy6691
      @britneymccoy6691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe the person that did it had alis with the popo

  • @alisonauton4064
    @alisonauton4064 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE this look! Glad you started over :)

  • @denisevillegas6551
    @denisevillegas6551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have been binge watching your channel this whole week . And one thing I can for sure say is that the police department is completely inadequate and useless . So many crimes are unsolved because of their incompetence to secure evidence or to pay attention to the victims story prior to their death. Shake my head . Love your channel 😄

  • @laurramore
    @laurramore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2804

    Of course another woman dies because the police write her off as "a hysterical woman" SMH

    • @123451234596
      @123451234596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      THIS! It's so sad

    • @thenamesallex
      @thenamesallex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Right. They gave her no justice.

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Back then, that was what happened most of the time. Women were considered "crazy".

    • @caryulmer5578
      @caryulmer5578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@melindaroop1346 It's still happening unfortunately.

    • @EmEm78
      @EmEm78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@melindaroop1346 that's how it is now too. Nothing's changed.

  • @sleevesgaragemoments2931
    @sleevesgaragemoments2931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2647

    How could the police think she passed the lie detector test because she was so traumatized?? If they think she was faking it all, what traumatized her???? Hmmmmm

    • @haileyseltenreich788
      @haileyseltenreich788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Absolutely correct!

    • @josephahner3031
      @josephahner3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Wouldn't that have caused her to fail the polygraph? Polygraph machines work by monitoring your pulse. Reliving trauma would send your heart rate upward significantly.

    • @malloryg4251
      @malloryg4251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@josephahner3031 EXACTLY. It's unfortunate when police officers are lazier and dumber than the general public.....

    • @aftonthompson1968
      @aftonthompson1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@malloryg4251 this seems like a problem. These officers have the resources but choose not to utilize them and take the easy way out rather than actually solving cases. I feel bad for a lot of these victim's families who have no closure because the police won't do their job. I mean, why take the easy way out? Is it because they're not properly trained to do so, or because they don't want to? It's sad when police resort to using the public to help solve cases because they can't. What does that say about their credibility and knowledge?

    • @shootinfazeblanks2995
      @shootinfazeblanks2995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@malloryg4251 either the police are actually dumb asf or they were in on it

  • @arenburns9032
    @arenburns9032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I cannot imagine being gas lit by en entire police department and then being blamed for her own illogical, suspicious death

  • @honestydavis2289
    @honestydavis2289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was stalked like her and the cops also accused me of doing it myself. I had to run out of town and change everything and I still fear being found

  • @Marianita195
    @Marianita195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3861

    So let me get this... she tied her hands BEHIND her back, and THEN strangled herself? suuuuuuuure....

    • @GrandmaCathy
      @GrandmaCathy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Or, she strangled herself, then tied her hanfs behind her back. Either way. Just no.

    • @OneEnigma
      @OneEnigma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Maybe, she strangled herself, then tied her feet and hands, then injected morphine ????

    • @blueskybeauty8045
      @blueskybeauty8045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@OneEnigma if that happened then where’s the needle? It doesn’t add up

    • @nikkiandkevin
      @nikkiandkevin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

      Clearly her other personality had its own arms also. But we would need to be smart like those police to figure that out 🙄

    • @roseJ96
      @roseJ96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Right? Did they think this woman was a contortionist or something?

  • @Anonymous-eo2er
    @Anonymous-eo2er 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    She did everything right and still ended up dead. The police in this case are atrocious

  • @alzoubihealthywater5789
    @alzoubihealthywater5789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A year ago Bailey was surprised when she reached 2 millions subscribers, a year later Feb/2022 she has over 6 millions. We love you Bailey 😍💗

  • @victoriapittman9224
    @victoriapittman9224 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Literally just found your channel today already I am in love 💕

  • @kathernandez5165
    @kathernandez5165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2759

    The police were so adamant about not helping her it’s almost like they were involved 🙄 I mean just do your job...

    • @your_dad_on_vacation
      @your_dad_on_vacation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Those doughnuts and caffeine really slow ya down

    • @notbelle.e
      @notbelle.e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      right??? maybe they were payed not to investigate it properly idk

    • @itachi7285
      @itachi7285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@notbelle.e psychiatrists earn a lot of money...and would now how to psychologically torment someone...just saying...

    • @herlynhernandez8841
      @herlynhernandez8841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I’m reading this as the case of Sarah Everard just took place and honestly, I wouldn’t doubt it that they had something to do with it

    • @noemisohrmann
      @noemisohrmann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Actually one of the suspects was an ex boyfriend of hers and guess what... he's a policeman!

  • @catxyaa
    @catxyaa ปีที่แล้ว +5

    there’s just no way there’s even a debate about whether she’s lying or not. rest in peace cindy, i hope people can learn from this story and BELIEVE VICTIMS.

  • @ashleyyang321
    @ashleyyang321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One year later and you have 5 MILLION subscribers! So proud of you. Listening to old episodes 😌

  • @werethemoyesblog181
    @werethemoyesblog181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +777

    The ex-husband totally did it. Also, the cops should have been sued for their WILD incompetence throughout this entire case.

    • @meredithdavis6663
      @meredithdavis6663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i’m honestly surprised no one sued them. i would’ve

    • @isao6711
      @isao6711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s case after case like this. Old and new cases. Police most often than not don’t help until you’re dead

    • @nessacampbell142
      @nessacampbell142 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would've sued them! Seriously! Policemen on this case were LAZY and IMCOMPENTANT!

  • @sylviagarza3827
    @sylviagarza3827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +754

    He never remarried and when she divorced him he told her, "the world is a scary place when you live alone." Um, I think he did it. Because why would she wait 4 months after her divorce to start pretending to get death threats?

    • @americandee7721
      @americandee7721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He said that! Gosh that man was a freaky person.

    • @desiraewilkins9192
      @desiraewilkins9192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Plus it was said that Cindy was happy to be divorced so maybe he was an abusive or bad man obviously

    • @KiaraH
      @KiaraH 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And she wanted to get out of the relationship bad.. you wonder why?! He was abusive so I bet it was him

  • @claudiamireuta627
    @claudiamireuta627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi, Bailey! I'm watching you from Romania! Big hugs! Love your style and stories 🤗❤️

  • @ashleyanderson78
    @ashleyanderson78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    From 2 mil to almost 6 mil subscribers in a year?!?! You go gurl!! Love ya!

  • @sh33n.1
    @sh33n.1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +755

    I can't believe anyone could think she was lying after she was found drugged, strangled and bound. I think the police just wanted to protect themselves as they new they had not done their jobs, seems like the husband would be the perfect fit, slowly mentally torturing her, making her and everyone doubt her sanity.

    • @criminalkey2259
      @criminalkey2259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      right?? its the ultimate insult, they disbelieved her even in death. :(

    • @rowanmammenga7331
      @rowanmammenga7331 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      plus he was a doctor so he knew how to torcher someone through their mind.

  • @GG-uj9bh
    @GG-uj9bh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1800

    Either the cops didnt want to admit they were wrong or they were covering for someone.

    • @YuuriDFox
      @YuuriDFox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      how bout both

    • @maureentrentadue288
      @maureentrentadue288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I did think maybe a policeman was doing it if not hubby and they covering.

    • @breannamoon3340
      @breannamoon3340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@maureentrentadue288 right! I think so too. That or someone else close to the police force. Since they stopped stalking her when the police were around and then started again when they left.

    • @akwolfsong
      @akwolfsong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@YuuriDFox Both. Maybe the ex had a cop friend OR he had therapy blackmail on one.

    • @reingoddess
      @reingoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@akwolfsong or if he was a psychiatrist, has a lot of money, maybe was bribing?

  • @user-pk8to7hy3e
    @user-pk8to7hy3e 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bailey you are such a joy.
    Love the makeup.
    Beautiful person. So glad I found these videos.

  • @anitahanchey7714
    @anitahanchey7714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was one of the scariest and sad story yet. I can't even imagine what she went.