Power of Breakup | Onkar Kishan Khullar | TEDxRamanujanCollege
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ม.ค. 2017
- Talking about the emotional energy of heartbreaks which creates an Artist or his masterpiece.
Popularly known as "Gareebo Ka Steve Jobs" or "Digital Gandhi" started his first company,
I Impact India Partners at the age of 21, creating a niche for himself as the youngest
Consultant in the Cause Branding & Marketing Industry Internationally. After 3 years
he founded a presentation solutions firm called Presentation Ink. He is on the board
advisors for various non-profits in India and is the Consulting Director of the UK Based
Innovation Firm -Chakraviyuh. He received Pride of India Award 2015 for developing a
process called Impact Thinking to help out non-profits around the world. He is well
renowned for introducing 5 year Old Philosophy through his book 5 year old Billionaire. He
is spearheading India's Social Entrepreneurship Movement amongst the youth called
'Gandhi with a laptop' through his workshops across the nation.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
Don't get attached to someone unless they feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.
Hello I know of someone who can help you just as he did mine too, he can as well help you too
Contact him on whtsapp
i feeled it now😿😢🥺
@@maxscot4236 I'll contact him
Easier said than done
If someone leaves you but you find yourselves YOU WON
Powerful 👏👏👏
Yes i find ourselves u r write....
yesss
Absolutely bro😉✌🏻
Ya l find myself ....really yaar ...its awesome ..me and myself ....its my best version...now m more powerful...and nobody can hurt me anymore ...i was used to be very shy..now i can face people..l can concentrate more on my future ...and i have interesting plans ...i used to study...for 8 to 10 hours per day ...and finally thnku god
I had my first heartbreak at the age of 17. 6 months later i cleared neet with 57 AIR
Vai plz can i talk to you personally... My gf left me... There is a big story & this year i aslo want to rock in neet
@@chirantandas1659 dont make it an issue dost. Make it a reason to succeed.
@@dr.nikhilvasudeva231 thanks brother... I've not even seen you but you became my inspiration 😊❤️
Wow, bro you did really well...😊
@@dr.nikhilvasudeva231 what do you mean again ?
To everyone experiencing heartbreak right now, I'm sorry you're in pain. I know it may seem like the world is ending and you'll never come out of the dark, but you will. It's okay to be sad. Feel what you need to feel. Eventually you will come out stronger and more beautiful. Just keep going and this will all pass and soon it will just be a memory. xoxo
Thank you for your words. I just want you to know you’ve helped someone.
Thank you, I felt your words !
yes i will be stronger and beautiful.....i am in the track
Thanks a lots
And today was the day I came across your comment, the day I decided to let go after waiting and waiting. It's so painful that I don't know how to handle myself. I don't know how to eat or how to get myself out of bed !
You know a sudden break up with no clear explanation from you ex is the most heartbreaking.
I know
Going through it ryt nw 🙋♂️
And our reply should be🖕🏿🖕🏿🖕🏿🖕🏿
Me to though we were happy came home he had gone abroad so many years together broken still 3 years after😪😪
Yes..I am experienced...
Break up was never easy for me because there were sleepless nights where I was just crying in bed thinking where did I go wrong. I thought I couldn't recover but it's really true that time is an ultimate healer.
I'm having same problem, what should I do?? Plz suggest me something.
Raj Kar best advice is to talk to someone so you can address your feelings.
I've had 3 breakups and each of them motivated me to do something for myself and when you do something for yourself and get a positive result then everyone around u starts liking you
I joined the gym today to show that girl and to gain back respect in my eyes so I don't lose it ever again in front of others
going with very tough time of my life .... every whole day just motivating myself but end of the day just destroyed everything ..... even cried whole night and still not able to figure out where i did a mistake ..........
@@SateeshMishra ....same sitution
Loved him. For me, the most meaningful relationship i wanted to treasure. He called me to say it was all casual from his side. Begged him to rethink. I realised, even at your best, you'll never be right for the wrong person. After two weeks of excruciating numbness, i feel unstoppable. I am gonna do what i never thought i could. This time, FOR ME.
I am gonna come back to this comment in 4 months.
Same
More power to you @aditi kar ✨
4 months... Go on spill the beans 🙏
I hope you are feeling better now dear. Same boat as you, suffering. Time will heal for sure.
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After my break up, I realised that I had a poet living inside me. Like they say " Tragedy gives birth to Literature."
Khusi lagyo sunera, best wishes to you
✌️✌️✌️
@@chuwangtamang499 Thank you so much!
@@taragurung933 how are you doing these days
As an artist myself, i love this. so much this inspired me. im tearing up.
I think breakup means wake up in life. After breakup we concentrate on our future and carrier. And do lot of things independently .😃
Very well said ....breakup = wakeup
do send me more ideas if you have
Righttt
Yes u r exactly ri8
Nice
Satya vachan......
This was the energy behind Will Smith's success. He said in an interview that what motivated him into becoming a successful actor was his ex-girlfriend had cheated on him: _“When I was 15, my girlfriend cheated on me. And from that moment, in this bizarre psychological twist, I wanted to be the most famous entertainer on Earth.”_
7 years after the breakup, NBC wrote a sitcom around his rap persona Fresh Prince and the rest is history.
Breakups can break some, or make some. Which ever you end up as is dependent on the path you choose after the fall. You can get back up, set your determination to turn the pain and experience into something positive, or as the motivation to become someone great/better.
Or you can stay stuck, feel miserable, be unproductive, live in the past, wasting the present and future on regrets, longing and hopelessness. That's no way to live.
So give yourself the chance to love again. Your future spouse is out there waiting. Don't waste your precious years, being stuck on memories of a person who doesn't value you.
Cameron Lorna thank you for this wonderful thought!
thnx
Thks
thank you
Cameron Lorna I needed this right now!
THIS WILL HELP ME SLEEP NOW..!!! Mark my words, i am going to be one of the biggest Artist ever.
All the best... Work hard nd never give up..
Yes am waiting ur success story 🤩
All the best ♥️
best of luck....you will definately be successful
😀100
worst heart break, is a one sided love.
Shiela M yes:(((((((
Totally agreed that
Shiela M "Yes"
Sheila M.... Yup I'm going through the same!!!
Yes right..after being with someone for 4years she told me it was attraction from her side..🤓
'Do not drop out from college, do not leave your jobs, just try to find out what you really like'
Damn that's the best advice I've ever heard nowadays ♥️
I really like to drop out of college and leave my job.
Emie that is not in his hand
Funny thing, that was the first thing I did :D I quit my job
its funny how people are alike, so close to dropping out and quitting my job and joining the military. i remember my first heart break i went skydiving, closest thing to jumping off a cliff and i gave zero fucks if i died. but the whole experience opened my eyes and made me realize how beautiful life can be; things got better from there.
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"No fear, No Insecurity , No Jealousy + Lots of Energy + Free Mind" and "Nothing to Loose" 👌💯
"And Time for Self improvisation."
True well said ....🌞
yes. A lot of insecurities in people.
So true!
Well said 💯
Oh that's so true. Best just to love yourself and hope someone really nice chases after you and are committed and don't change later on
*God has always 3 Replys to your pray* :
☆Yes
☆Yes,but not now
☆My plans are better than yours
I like this
Christian?
Good one bro
Head this in my school like 1000 times and this is true
Truth!!
"The biggest masterpieces are made by heartbreaks." That resonates!
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So basically it's a win-win situation. If it's true, you'll be happy; if it's not, you'll be successful!
I love you positivity and enthusiasm amongst the plethora of comments here.
@@shubhrapaul2192 lol I just got through a breakup😅
the most positive comment
Nice observation 😊
Well said dear
Finally someone who speaks about break up so positively. Amazing
thank you Nor....there are more talks on digital gandhi channel
Nor Aisyah Mohamed Mydin true✌
Osho listen to osho
I had my final breakup after 5 years of relationship and permanent heartache after my result of 10th standard I got very bad graids I was the nill student of my class i was very disappointed, after that I started my college and now I'm the topper of my section doing medical, C.R of my section also a writer and hosted many events of Superior group of colleges.
The night before yesterday he called me I attended his call and asked" who's there?" He told his name and I replied "sorry I don't know' who are you, who is Ali"(his name)?
I cut the call, took a deep breath and said to myself "you're strong, you're enough for yourself! You're no more that girl who've begged him to stay with you (:
last line touched me
*grades😏
@@meethleshmishra5195 bhai tumhe 300 words mese 1 word galat nikla to yha aake hg diye...
That show's you're akhand chutiya
Bro ❤️
After how many months he contacted u??
I broke up myself from loving someone who cant love me back.. from days of heartbreak i start to play a song wid my guitar crying alot by his memories while fixing myself, i nver thought i could complete d song but i did.. and the day he heard d song, he realized my value but its already too late.. i already loved someone.. MYSELF.
You go girl!
Every breakup is Wakeup call...
If someone leaves from you that only for someone better to come ..
Wakeup call...👌
Not just if someone’s leave you. I left my bf bcs he was psychopath so I believe good time will come to me.. since I am heartbroken of hearing his last words after couple years of dating “I stopped loving you long time ago” and 2 weeks ago he was swearing how I am the woman of his life.
@@anakruhoberec3389 🤗🤗🤗🤗
God bless uh sister❣
Damn good dude...
Really
I lost my own happiness at a such young age by loving someone more than myself ! 💔
Same happen with me dear
Same here
Same here.
Same bro
And same happen with me why love is crime or what why it give punishment? But we'll find happiness we are too young too broke!
A sudden breakup is the most heartbreaking...
But now after watching this, I m feeling very positive..🖤
🙂
i feel u, good job! you can do it!
Muskan sanjeev sani I'm currently facing this 😔 she suddenly changed and stopped talking to me ..
I wrote this comment five months ago that I am going through a breakup, but I never thought that I will not be able to come out of that sadness till now... 🖤😶
@@muskansanjeev2407 that means you are still missing him ??
My four years of a serious relationship (both of our first love also) has ended up 4 days ago. She agreed with her family and is marrying someone else. I also convinced my family but she declared she can't be able to go against her family. In the end, she told me that she doesn't want me anymore. So I have nothing to fight for anything as she herself is not on my side. I am upset, very upset. She did many things for me in the last four years. She sacrificed many for me. But in the end, she left me behind. Maybe my fault, but I tried from my side also. She is very special to me. I tried, but can't bring hatred for her. I feel so lonely thinking that my love will be someone else's for the rest of the life, in the same home sharing the same bed. And here, I am sitting alone, listening to these speeches to gain some confidence to overcome the unbearable pain of loss. Maybe I'll overcome, maybe I'll not, but I always pray for her. She is already happy, I hope she will be happier.....
Sorry ...m also in break up 2weeks since..painful..I know..v r all in same boat buddy
U have such a nice heart❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@mariyaadhikari3752 she can help you my dear just message her
How do you feel now bro ?
Same thing going tohappen wid me..he is marrying with another girl..i m just thinking to quit my life..bcz i cant suffer from this pain..i cant..i even faught with his family to accpet our love but then i heard that he is dating that girl from last year..and my 7 years love is nothing for him.o m broken..i even faught with that girl also..we married in temple but now his family dont accept this marriage..and he also dont need me anymore..guys..what can i do now..if i leave him then waht about that marriage he did with me in temple..i have proof also..but he told his parents that i was not that much serious at that time..and she forced me..he played wid me..my mom knows that and she just want that i keep quite and accpet all this..he did wrong to me..and i even cant stand for me..bcz of this society and bloody minded people..guys i just want to die...anybody can give me some suggestion for this situation..otherwise i will die..i cant handle this anymore..
it only works if the relationship is keeping you from your true potential.The right people multiply your potential.
Well said
I agree, this is a naive talk, I’ve broken up with partners who brought the best out of me but we weren’t meant to be, weren’t the best for. Everyone gets a Ted talk these days.
Breakup is a wakeup call. Atleast it is a breakup not a breakdown
It's true
After my marriage it was a breakdown lol
Breakup was not easy for me. I remember numbers of sleepless night and crying while night. It took 5 years to heal and accept everything.
You are a hero then..
Sad to hear how long was your relationship?
5 years😲 you strong
5 years for mine also
And I took 7 a MBBS degree can complete in this years ! But healing is such beautiful process I enjoyed lot if loving someone is injury then we are healing !
Someone should make platform for singles who have been through breakup’s as they can understand each other better ...
Good online business idea
That was a nice initiative mental health ka aadha solution Nikl skta
Truuuuuuuueee
now that's an starup idea. will see if I can build a website
@@sameeruprety8306 Did you try on building the idea?
For artistic people, sad emotions usually creates masterpieces out of them. The same thing doesn't happen for all, some people just grow fat & have low self esteem after a heart break
lack of willpower and misdirection of this force into food :/
If you feel that there was your fault then it will lead to self destruction of yours.
And no one can help you out even you cannot!
True. So if your with an artist they do extremely well after and people like me become the latter. 🙏😞
That’s true
True
Without heartbreak U wont find your Soulmate!
REALLY ,TODAY I HAVE BROKEN , SHE LEFT ME FOR SOMEBODY ELSE . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
favourite k how u feeling now aftr 6 days
@@rajeshrajput7813 . Better than 6 days back I was
And that soulmate is you, yourself.
Really true bro...😄😄
My first major heart break happened this year and it already led to so many positive inner transformations I guess when you hit rock bottom you can only go up
How is it going for you so far ? Did you get over it?
Honestly, getting over the person you love is hard and will forever be carve into your heart but you just kind of learn to live without them.
wow randomly saw the comments to this but proud to say after two years from the original comment, i am not only over him but he actually wanted to get back together but i have already moved on and am in a much better place emotionally, financially, spiritually... trust yourself that you deserve better and if he/she is the right person, it will be very natural. in my case, i dont think that person was the right one for me.
and never rely on any one person or external things for your happiness :)
My Mom just died suddenly at the age of 63. When my fiancé and myself got back from her funeral. He told me he had been cheating. It feels worse than a broken heart. My whole being feels shattered.
Feeling sorry for you.....but relax..... going through the same situation....
That’s so sad
That's definitely worse. You were in the worst emotional place already
You will get through this, Chin up queen
Jessica Palmer my god sending love your way
Actually, the emotional energy from heartbreaks is true. The first time i was heart broken, i started my own company and prove to that person that i was successful. Than second time, heart broken i manage to wake up at 4 am do some exercise, prepare breakfast with lunch, clean my house, wash my car and still came into the office early.
Jesus, I need to break up so I can get all those things done !
@@yryalam7874 😂
oh my freaking god, same! previously i sleep at 2am, now after heartbreak i sleep 10am, wakeup 6 for exercise, run, shower, and go to work. and i feel more energized throughout the day than when i sleep 9 hours back when i sleep at 2am.
Believe or not, i had a downfall back in college and that energy really let me to prepare, turned out i cleared every single national level test for PhD, led me to join IIT and also to be on the path of a successful scientist. Somehow i thank that i had that breakup. I was not accepting that it really made a change in life, but this was a major factor which turned my life to awesomeness. yes digital gandhi you are right.
proud of you sir
No i am not a sir :) just a person like u. I remembered a lot when i watched this video, the way you explained, i remembered my college days. same query i had some day in the past "is it just me?" .. and yesterday while watching the video i got one more person :)
welcome to the club
MrSachinvyas great ya! I just keep feeling worse with everyday passing. that worthless kinda feeling? I can't concentrate and sleep even :/
feral one Don't try to fight it. Don't try to forget. Just think about your future, make a goal, build a routine and keep reminding yourself to stick with it to achieve your goal.
Loved her with all the depth, Got cheated, difficult but moving on, just hoping for a better future.
You will have a great future!!
@@livingthatcalilife3716 Hope so
yee bro in lockdown it is not looking possible to get over it
May you heal yourself!
how are you now brother?
I m in a relationship from past 8 years and believe me this all will be possible with love too... The love which forces u to be best out of u...Now i m preparing for IAS and my love supporting me like my soul. Guys...Every impossible is possible with love...Like the video said with love or heartbreak.
Happy for You! All the best.
You are so lucky man.. but see nit every partners are same.... thats the ptoblem.. thats y brkups... ✨️💓.. all the beat for u r love and carrier ✨️💓
I supported my partner love of my life .. she cracked neetpg medical n got top rank n seat and then left me the very month she joined the college for another guy...love for her and heartbreak for me
@@missmedico572 Thanks dear ❤️
@@bookofspirit thankyou ❤️
I had my breakup 5 months ago and truly there were sleepless nights for months,got depressed,I lost her,I lost my friends,I lost my phone,I lost my hope but now I have decided to get up and use this whole energy for my future
Always remember never cry for what's gone be thankful to God for what u have it may be parents,job anything and never give up it's life's way to test us and
"Kabhi kabhi question paper hard hota hai"😂😂
How months it took to completely forget..
after I was dumped by my gf I went to a depression for about a year , dis year turned to a dark side though but taught me tough lessons and after that I recovered and became successful in my life.
I have gone through the same fate.
Edge Vijith yes from soul she is mine
How do u guys bcm successful....plz tel??
On August 13 my love was broken,the then next moment I was depressed n thinking about her each n every single second,now I started thinking for my self n I am doing 5km run everyday and I am going to be a cop very soon....
It’s good to see that I’m not the only one going through this. Literally my ex left a week ago after 4 years of being together and it sucks. I understand that things happen for a reason but man it hurts. I’m barely 21 and this was my first real relationship so I didn’t know how to handle the situation and just feel like I dug a hole and can’t get out of it.
Be strong, cry through it do not suppress this emotion time heals everything people loose their parents who have a blood relation i know a heart relation is too pure but have trust in yourself try pretending to be happy till you are, you have to figure this out, the choice is yours weather to make the best of this like this guy did or sulk and cry, more power bro❤️💪
Do you feel better now?
How are you now? Did you recover. I genuinely wish you healed.
How u doing now
My gf, my best friend, for basically 14 years, we were together for 12, just broke it off with me. I was surprised, I thought we had a different understanding. I'm absolutely devastated. The pain is immense and overwhelming. I have a fear of death. Been dealing with it all of my life. So naturally, that gets exponentially worse because of losing my best friend, and all of the sudden she's here for a significant amount of my life, then gone the next, it's just a symbolic death to me. It feels weird. It feels shattering. And I just turned 42 today. It doesn't matter what age you are, what you feel is to be honored, and taken care of, no rules, no timeline, no expectations. Feel and process it. I am a deep empath. I feel things deeply. So it takes me a long time to get over things. I don't think I'll ever truly get over this. I hope you're feeling better my brother.
I have experience this things
before break up I was a kind of dumb person who doesn't kno how to live and for what to live,
after break up when I got my mental space I wrote some poems, made sketchings, paintings, learning guitar, making ship in a bottle and more over I improved my self as a person.
I have experienced this Energy.
WHAT SHOULD I DO ? I M NOT ARTIST ?
@@luvk1770 you don't have to be an artist! Just do what makes you feel happy and lively! Maybe take classes for something that you wanted to learn since a long time! Just do anything that makes you happy, because nobody else in this world is going to take that responsibility but you!
Have a good day 😊😊
@@ankitasuman7 thanks
After break up, I realized that I'm a new person.
I also ....🌝
Me also..😶
Me too..I am cigarette and alcohol free for 1 month (broke up 1mnth ago)..after 2 years of smoking and drinking because I found my value and I don’t need these things anymore
@@michalremis so great! God bless you 😇
Thunder 440v Thank you so much..2 months..still haven’t smoked one cigarette or drop of alcohol..started painting also and became good at it really fast..still miss my x because I tought that never in my life I would be without her but it’s okay...God bless you too❤️
i am broken i am sleepless all night still missing her so much now exactly 5:30 am, i am watching this video.😢😢
Did you already break up?
How r u now then??
Bro be a hero tomorow
Don't worry guys time isthe real healer
I think, "Heart Break" is a key of become an artist or strong person or successful person.
After heartbreak I have become an actor 😁😂
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now, thank you! Namaste!
i am broken today .... after listening this .... i am full of energy sir ... thanks to you
Damn, i just had a heartbreak. With someone i still love so much and he loves me still so deeply. At this point it didnt work. We want it to work our souls are connected, but now its time to rise for ourselfs and then maybe later for each other if its meant to be. Only time will tell❤️❤️
What sapp him
+2349066185737.
I'm in the exact same situation. Only time will tell...
same:((
Same it hurts so bad :( idk fk me
I fell in love with my friend since we met.
Maybe the greatest break-up is you can never be with that person, you will just see yourself holding on for something that can never be yours. As they lay their head against your shoulders, that's you'll ever be, a comfort of pain not a haven of intertwined soul.
90% of comments "I'm masterpiece just because of my 💔" ....
👏👏👏
this screams just one thing: ALWAYS follow your passion
thank you tim
Heartbroken...but this has lifted me more than anything. Time does heal...and this video is amazing to put into perspective.
After breakup u will get the experience how to live life freely... In luv sometimes u get frustrated but in an independent life u can make ur own decisions and the decisions are always right..... So my suggestion is live life freely and be independent alyzz it will make u happy 🙂
I am going through breakup right now. I loved him for 2 years. Breaking up on our 2nd anniversary. Its been 8 months. I am much better (than how drowning i was for first 6 months). Yet seeing that guy flirting with other girls make me angry. Because he is happy roaming with his new friends and crushes and here i am stuck on the same ground. I am improving i can feel it but i will never forgive him for what he put me through for 3 years(loved for 2 years and wasted 8 months on breakup) But i think i learnt many many many lessons in life. However i could trust anyone boy/girl . Because i only relied on him for past 3 years leaving my friends and family. I was a sociable person long back but right now couldn't speak to anybody. Its new to me, i feel uncomfortable. Yet i hope i will win. That i will break my chain. That i am much more than my scars.
first off, congragulations, that person was not the right person, when the right person comes he stays with u no matter what, second point time heals all wounds if you have a purpose, if no goal then you will be stuck in it for a long time, don't give up life is beautiful
The same story here...💔😥
you are more than your scars.
You would definitely win, believe in yourself!
Same situation i had suffered
This amazing guy came to my school and he rocked that session with us.....
It was just total party and it was so dope .....
I loved it .....
So much of positivity in you!
Even the poxy thing can be converted into a bloom.. Thank you for this amazing one❤️
After the breakup i had last year 2019 i finally went back to school this year 2020 after dropping out in 2014. My heart aches and i still have hard time believing its over but everyday i wake up stronger and i finally found myself. I must admit its hard but the pain really pushes me to work harder. I love when he said the feeling of nothing to lose on his talk because thats literally what ive been feeling. I was always scared of doing something and i stuck in my comfort zone now i dont care about anything (good or bad) the bad thing is my depression really kicks in that makes me not afraid to die but this heart break also teaches me something ill never forget and that is "forgiving myself". Its like a blessing in disguise.
Wow, what a masterpiece presentation of truth. I have been through all of it and realized after watching & listening your side of story that you have confirmed the reality of my story of life, of my heartbreak emotional energy. And, just one thing I learned by being on clif is that this energy also recycle back to love emotional energy. This is awesome. Thank you for sharing!
Exactly . Both love and breakup have intense power with them. Nice video
I m heartbroken very badly , and his words literally connected me so well ! ❤️ Love to this sweet human being !
A free mind is what I do not have. When I go through a breakup my mind is completely filled with the person, memories, sadness. I don’t have the mental space to pursue anything..
I love you after this onkar! Thank you so much. I was about to cry like i do everynight because of the depression of my break up and was searching videos to avoid that crying of mine and after watching your video believe me.. Never felt this good.. Thanks alot!
Omkar sir,
You just made me introspect what I have done after my breakup. I have also dropped out my college.
thank you for your wonderful speech as well as you are a very good person from your heart and you have a creative mind. You will fly!
i broke up n now i became IAS aspirant
Just work hard to remove word aspirant
@@yeshwantkendre9259
Thank you
All the best . U will clear it 🤜🤛
Thukra ke Mera Pyaar Mera intkaam dekhegi 😂😂. Too good bro
Time is coming soon when you say that I broke up & now I am an IAS
Be confident
How can someone break your heart onkar.. someone's loss is someone's gain.. inspiring speech..
i am feeling sooooo good after listening you .. thankyou so much thankyou ...i really need this :)
I loved this video ! I’m going through a break up and I’ve been feeling anxious like I want to do something, go outside and run and do something with my life, like you said it’s so much energy inside!
Thank you !!!
Merari Bonilla so how u feeling aftr 2 weeks
Just how the everything came together and I connected to him is amazing.
He is so right ....no fear , free mind , realising what you want ....
I have been into very serious relationships in my life but I have always had a very bad end to it. I use to cry all day and the nights were sleepless.. It was difficult for me to move on and think beyond that but then i managed and survived because I have the habbit of not giving up in life.. No matter how much pain you are in you should always stand up straight and think that you are above all of this . You can and you will.. ♥️🌸
Neomika Ganguly thank you! 🙏🏼💛
U were in many relationship...lol...u don't know about true love
You don’t know me personally @himadri sonai
this man actually has the power to think out of the box. ....thank you so much sir. ..for giving me a new vision of life
thank you dhruv ....there are more videos on digital gandhi channel
Exactly!!!!!
I agreee
After my first heart break I took intrest in poetry
After my second heartbreak
And now I write urdu poetries and everyone is amazed and says how can u write this much good in this small age
Even my teachers stands and clapps for me❤️
Could uh share some with mee???
Break up is like peace after storm.
Break up is chance to restore your potential. Those people are lucky who face break up and overcome it
At times, you know what you are in, yet hearing it from someone else wipes out the dust resting over your mind.
Exactly what I needed. Thanks bud !
thank you anshu ....there are more videos on digital gandhi channel
Thank you anshu
Anshu garg true..
So relatable! I have been doing the same. Metamorphosis of pain is what I believe in too. Glad you covered the topic. Much needed.
Fall in love with ourselves is the one that have no fear of heartbreak.
This vedio helped me alot..i loved a person too much. Thoght he would be with me till my last breath..bt unfortunately got cheated by him..alot of thinking came to mind about suicide and alll..at that time i saw this vedio and it just changed my life. Now im focusing on building my life..i scored 9.5 cgpa after this..thank you so much for this🙏🏻🙏🏻
Truly you have a point. I am a changed person now after break up. I am shaping myself in the best way i can now. Life is awesome now. I am fully Enlightened after break up
This reminds me of my heartbreak and what it made me today....thx for connecting my dots😄
Breakups make u a good artist but love makes u a great artist..love is the inspiration for the artists it makes life worth living.
It's not the goodbye that hurts, but the flashbacks that follows.
To me, love was my fuel. Heartbreak killed all reasons for self some how. Everyone keeps talking about how people finally have time for themselves after breakup. I don't relate to it. For me being in love made it all the more easier to even want to live for myself. Period.
i feel the same way. being in love made life more meaningful. that alarms me though. because at the end of the day we have only ourselves. so to live for another human being does not makes sense
How are you doing now? Dp you still think heartbreak has no positive effect in your life?
When I separated I used to feel the same way, I didn't felt belonged, but as the time passed it got easier and now I think that my break up happened for a good reason, now I feel free more than ever. The feelings are inexplicit, now I'm exploring more ppl more options, learning new experiences. It's kinda good.
destiny.
How long did it take you to finally get over it? As in for you to start thinking that it happened for a good reason?
I am not the only one to get rejected by somebody there are still lots of people out there who has gone through this amazing experience. In time they not only overcome their emotions but also have become successful in their respective fields.
I think this is the most powerful speech to overcome the breakup depression
The best speech to know importance of creativity esp. when one is in the most depressed cycles of his/her life. Doing the same now.
I have never been in break-up but i think a guy dumped me because i was fat.I was over weight.Today i lost some extra weight & i am happy alone.I feel thankful to be dumped because love doesn't mean that somebody dumps you for physical looks or any thing which isn't reasonable.
Mua Shal
don't get me wrong but I'm glad that he dumped you
because you seem strong & intelligent girl for him .believe me it's better for you that you didn't end up in toxic relationship with him .
:)
ultimate dear
same thing even m to facing in my life
that guy was big chutiya...how anybody can dump u just bcz of your looks...he crossed the level of immaturity....
keep on loosing weight n have six pack abs...post it on insta...
When i went through a breakup, i went from being a honors student, to a barely making it student. When i went through a breakup I missed so much work and school purely because of how I felt. When i went through a breakup I stayed up until the sun rised. When i went through a breakup i lost me. When i went through I breakup i lost everyone.
how are you now?
@@szai6068 i am doing much better now !! have went thru more breakups lol but it’s life and everything happens for a reason! i needed those bad times to appreciate the good times :) it really does get better and i’ve learned to not let one person affect my every move and emotions
So sorry ☹️
@@frontlineshopping3802 it’s okay i am doing so much better now :) i found happiness in being alone with myself
I love your authenticity! Thank you for sharing!!
Yessss!! This is so true! I’m just connecting the dots … realizing that my biggest heartbreaks been the catalysts for the most dramatic accomplishments and changes in my life! WOW! Almost makes feel grateful and welcome more heartbreak 💔 just to see what great things I might accomplish!! 😬🥰❤️
Lovely.. And so true.. I always wanted to write poems.. Wrote my first piece after the 1st breakup..
If you are breakup with someone mean s you are getting ready to achieve fruit full life.
This video definitely helped me get through my breakup. It's very deep, simple, & philosophical
This is so true! went through the hardest heart break in my life which was 4 years ago. I've accomplished a lot of things. Learned how to trade, code, and create interactive dashboards for an established defence company.
Great
That inspired me . I have a major heartbreak too n still healing. And yes I have a master piece too. Thank you for helping to expressed it in a better way .
Would love to see it and share it with the world
He spoke nonsense. This what inspires you? Lol
"Toote hue dil se hi sangeet nikalta hai"
or ghalib bhi
I think the universe understands and it wanted me to find this. Thank you. This eases the pain a bit.
After my first breakup i have always tried to play it safe for anything in life....because i didnot want to feel the pain again... Now after watching this video i feel like I have to be vunerable enough to live my life to my full potentital... Thank you bro ...
Everyone wants love ,care ,affection in their life definitely once all these make you that much strong that you can win any battle .....
And a moment comes when all these things are snatched from you , anything will be the reason ...felt like a heavy piece of stone is kept on your heart , very hard to recover but once you recover that power give you the energy to handle everything .
was planning to watch the video long back but never saw, now I've seen it. I do believe that your words mean something to my soul.
Raunak Khanna
you are one busy person here!
One of the most powerful break up speech I ever heard ❤️💫
You are so on point. After losing someone who was my world I published two books and sold off twenty paintings. Yes, I invested my time in things that have become my passion. His memories don’t bother me now. ❤️😊