‘Respect starts with how you respect yourself’-that line gave me chills. It’s so easy to forget that people mirror the value we place on ourselves. Thanks for this wake-up call and the practical advice.
Ditch the “I’m Sorry” Habit (00:38-03:26).Unnecessary apologies weaken your authority and self-respect.Replace “I’m sorry” with confident alternatives like “Thank you for waiting.”Respect yourself first to earn respect from others. Thank you for sharing! I love your video so much!!!❤
The part about ditching unnecessary 'sorrys' really hit home. It’s amazing how much power we give away with those two little words. Time to start owning my presence instead of apologizing for it. Who else is with me on this?
This really hit home! Especially the part about ditching unnecessary apologies-it's so true that we often shrink ourselves without realizing it. Setting boundaries and embracing pauses are game-changers too. Can't wait to put these tips into practice. Thanks for such valuable insights!
The pause is pure magic. It’s something so simple, yet so impactful. I never realized how much silence could amplify the message until now. Anyone else ready to master this art?
Mmmh this content left me amazed , I'm a quet person I don't like talking you much and I hate gossiping bt when someone overpower me with talking over I feel a pain since I'm not a good speaker bt any way thanks a lot wise words I'm learning a lot thanks
Vry, effective Philosophical nd vry true lecture.I Would like to add sir if the whole world is our family them we r related to nd hv.relatioms with all the occupants of the universe.The purpose of existence will get defeated if we don't relate.we hv.to develop effective human relations.we need to develop relationships that r fulfilling, evolving nd that propel us to humanity.If we r able to satisfy the persons need we get positive response.In order to develop the effective human relations we have to to understand human behaviour which means we have to understand human needs.The person attitudes nd nd motivation to perform, including learning,interacting with others nd behaving in an appropriate way with others have now reached an outward looking concepts of life rather than egocentric, self centred attitude that restrains upward movement.Once this vry.important level is achieved the individuals r in effect at peace with themselves apart from the important content Sir u have mentioned in brief as a management professional in my opinion.Worthpraising lecture.Thanx for impressive tips.I think it is obviously important to keep these needd in mind when developing people skills nd using them in real life situations.Vry.Inspiring contents.Appreciated ur point of view.👍 I
These are lessons of great value. I wish I had known these lessons in my youth my life and carrier would certainly have been more meaningful but all the same I appreciate them
This video hits home with the point about ditching unnecessary apologies-it's a game-changer. I've caught myself saying "sorry" far too often, and shifting to more confident language like "Thank you for waiting" has transformed how others see me and how I see myself. Definitely a practical mindset shift I'll keep applying!
I would say it all the time at work for no reason and I had a woman a bit older that I worked with pull me aside and tell me to stop. I didn't get why she was bothered by me apologizing. She was so right.
Absolutely agree! Replacing unnecessary apologies with gratitude not only projects confidence but also fosters positive interactions. It's amazing how small changes in language can significantly impact our self-perception and how others respond to us. Keep up the great work-it’s an empowering shift!
This is me 😢 with unnecessary apologies just for peace sake!. Wow! I used to think my silence is weakness, wanted to speak fast and fill in the space, thanks for the insight ❤
10:15 "Your video on commanding respect when speaking is insightful and practical. Great job breaking down the secrets to speaking with confidence and clarity. A must-watch for anyone looking to elevate their communication skills. Keep up the excellent work!" 😊❤❤
True respect comes from a combination of wisdom, composure, and integrity-qualities the Stoics emphasized so deeply. Speaking with intention, listening more than we talk, and aligning our words with our actions can create an unshakable foundation for respect. Stoicism reminds us that respect isn't demanded; it's earned through character and consistency.
Your boss always calling you aside at the end of the meeting and you always appearing in all the examples keeps me wondering 😅😅.Neverless, I listened to the end and I added to others you already thought me in the past.Sending ❤ to you.
Good day Sir A very powerful video when you talk to much without meaning people run from you you are a Learned man all your words and Humour in this video is spot on keep up the good work and stay BLessed
To speak with respect, Stoicism teaches us to prioritize wisdom, clarity, and intention in our words. Speak less, but say more, choose your words carefully and ensure they align with truth and virtue. Listen actively before responding, and avoid letting emotions dictate your tone. When you communicate with calm confidence and purpose, respect will follow naturally. Remember: your voice is strongest when guided by integrity.
The content is really helpful! Check: 1. Avoid Over-Apologizing 2. Set and Enforce Boundaries 3.Master the Art of Pausing 4. Use Humor Wisely 5. Stop Gossiping and Know When to Be Silent
I missed your video, lol. Stoic different people have different cultures.Also different environment has different norms. You just have to match and mix sometimes to go with the flow.
The way we speak reflects our inner character. Speaking with clarity, calmness, and purpose-hallmarks of Stoic philosophy-naturally earns respect and fosters meaningful connections.
Learning to speak with wisdom and calmness, as the Stoics teach, is a powerful way to earn respect. True strength lies in measured words and thoughtful silence.
Are used to be silent to people that disrespected me. And ignore them. Now I give them a taste of their own medicine and disrespect them right back. You get the picture silence is not golden. Silence is being a victim of these animals that constantly abuse you. And that’s a fact that I have learned in my life. You got expose the dirtbags that disrespect you. And that’s the only way people are going to know that their creeps and the phonies and then back stabbers and a lot of them commit fraud, and get away with it.
I listen better when I'm not looking at the other person talking to me is that ok... Cause when I look in the eyes of the other person I miss concentration why?
Love in action means never having to say you are sorry.Love of self ,self respect and self forgetfullness has one response...You are welcome.Take Care😊
Yes have your moment isn't it not good not to respect that's what l feel we had that problem you do not respect me you talked badly about me if you want me to respect you don't mistreating your soulmate if l. am matters to you.
MY DARLING FRIEND EVERYONE of US SHOULD LEARN TO DEVELOP HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS with HEALTHY BOUNDARIES with RESPECT RESPONSIBILITY RESILIENCE RIGHTEOUSNESS RELIENCE DISCIPLINE and ORDER DISCERNMENT DIGNITY WITH INTEGRITY TO ONESELF PRIMARILY in Parenting Caring Sharing with one's own life and brought up from the beginning of the day 1 of every child needs to be CREATIVE and PRODUCTIVE to glorify the HOLY of HOLIES LORD OF LORDS KING OF KINGS JESUS CHRIST SAVIOR Of the WORLD OBEYING THE COMMAND LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS THYSELF " 'DISCERN'"
This is not close to home. This is already home. All of the points - needless sorry, when to be humorous, all hit me, but the art of pausing hit me like tons of brick.
‘Respect starts with how you respect yourself’-that line gave me chills. It’s so easy to forget that people mirror the value we place on ourselves. Thanks for this wake-up call and the practical advice.
Ditch the “I’m Sorry” Habit (00:38-03:26).Unnecessary apologies weaken your authority and self-respect.Replace “I’m sorry” with confident alternatives like “Thank you for waiting.”Respect yourself first to earn respect from others. Thank you for sharing! I love your video so much!!!❤
The part about ditching unnecessary 'sorrys' really hit home. It’s amazing how much power we give away with those two little words. Time to start owning my presence instead of apologizing for it. Who else is with me on this?
"Great advice! Speaking with clarity and purpose truly earns respect. 🙏"
This really hit home! Especially the part about ditching unnecessary apologies-it's so true that we often shrink ourselves without realizing it. Setting boundaries and embracing pauses are game-changers too. Can't wait to put these tips into practice. Thanks for such valuable insights!
Thank you for sharing this video, greatly appreciated !
1:20 I love how clearly you break things down. Makes it so easy to understand
To the one reading this, may you find clarity, peace, and unending success
Totally love it. Thank you
I'll drink to that.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us
Excellent presentation thank you 😊 I've learned something about myself.
This video is very productive. Thank you! May the Lord continue giving you additional enormous ideas.
The pause is pure magic. It’s something so simple, yet so impactful. I never realized how much silence could amplify the message until now. Anyone else ready to master this art?
Mmmh this content left me amazed , I'm a quet person I don't like talking you much and I hate gossiping bt when someone overpower me with talking over I feel a pain since I'm not a good speaker bt any way thanks a lot wise words I'm learning a lot thanks
Absolutely priceless ! Thank you so much !
If everyone took an extra minute to think before speaking, the world would be such a better place.
Vry, effective Philosophical nd vry true lecture.I Would like to add sir if the whole world is our family them we r related to nd hv.relatioms with all the occupants of the universe.The purpose of existence will get defeated if we don't relate.we hv.to develop effective human relations.we need to develop relationships that r fulfilling, evolving nd that propel us to humanity.If we r able to satisfy the persons need we get positive response.In order to develop the effective human relations we have to to understand human behaviour which means we have to understand human needs.The person attitudes nd nd motivation to perform, including learning,interacting with others nd behaving in an appropriate way with others have now reached an outward looking concepts of life rather than egocentric, self centred attitude that restrains upward movement.Once this vry.important level is achieved the individuals r in effect at peace with themselves apart from the important content Sir u have mentioned in brief as a management professional in my opinion.Worthpraising lecture.Thanx for impressive tips.I think it is obviously important to keep these needd in mind when developing people skills nd using them in real life situations.Vry.Inspiring contents.Appreciated ur point of view.👍
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I'm so proud that I took time to listen to these teachings. Yes I learned a lot and not only that , I'm go to practice. Thank you.
These are lessons of great value. I wish I had known these lessons in my youth my life and carrier would certainly have been more meaningful but all the same I appreciate them
Magnificent piece!
This video hits home with the point about ditching unnecessary apologies-it's a game-changer. I've caught myself saying "sorry" far too often, and shifting to more confident language like "Thank you for waiting" has transformed how others see me and how I see myself. Definitely a practical mindset shift I'll keep applying!
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I would say it all the time at work for no reason and I had a woman a bit older that I worked with pull me aside and tell me to stop. I didn't get why she was bothered by me apologizing. She was so right.
for me too!
Absolutely agree! Replacing unnecessary apologies with gratitude not only projects confidence but also fosters positive interactions. It's amazing how small changes in language can significantly impact our self-perception and how others respond to us. Keep up the great work-it’s an empowering shift!
Love this motivation vedio
Thanks a lot for Wallace 🔥👌❤️
This is me 😢 with unnecessary apologies just for peace sake!. Wow! I used to think my silence is weakness, wanted to speak fast and fill in the space, thanks for the insight ❤
Loved it all the way! Thank you James!
Fantastic, thank you I was everything you said in this video,I will definitely be changing gears, God bless, I love you and what you do
I gossip toooo much🥴 and I know it, admit it and HATE it.
It can turn into a "habit".
I really needsd to hear this....Thanks!
Wow I'm not alone
😂Thanks!🤭
Great stoicism 😊
10:15 "Your video on commanding respect when speaking is insightful and practical. Great job breaking down the secrets to speaking with confidence and clarity. A must-watch for anyone looking to elevate their communication skills. Keep up the excellent work!" 😊❤❤
Many thanks.
True respect comes from a combination of wisdom, composure, and integrity-qualities the Stoics emphasized so deeply. Speaking with intention, listening more than we talk, and aligning our words with our actions can create an unshakable foundation for respect. Stoicism reminds us that respect isn't demanded; it's earned through character and consistency.
Insecurity in oneself.
Thank you because is true.
This is great! I will begin with stopping to say sorry unnecessarily
I learn a lot from your channel keep it up. from Kigali Rwanda
Love this video.
Setting boundaries for oneself. Pausing.
These content are really transforming my mindset and refreshing
Thank you
Thank you thank you thank you so much for sharing ❤️ 💕 💗 💖 💛 🙏 ❤️ 💕 💗 💖
Absolutely great lesson! that I want use in life.
Good and really helpful
Your boss always calling you aside at the end of the meeting and you always appearing in all the examples keeps me wondering 😅😅.Neverless, I listened to the end and I added to others you already thought me in the past.Sending ❤ to you.
Great philosophy❤
Good day Sir A very powerful video when you talk to much without meaning people run from you you are a Learned man all your words and Humour in this video is spot on keep up the good work and stay BLessed
thank you very much
Thank you kindly for this talk ❤
To speak with respect, Stoicism teaches us to prioritize wisdom, clarity, and intention in our words. Speak less, but say more, choose your words carefully and ensure they align with truth and virtue. Listen actively before responding, and avoid letting emotions dictate your tone. When you communicate with calm confidence and purpose, respect will follow naturally. Remember: your voice is strongest when guided by integrity.
With these two 👊👊
The content is really helpful! Check:
1. Avoid Over-Apologizing
2. Set and Enforce Boundaries
3.Master the Art of Pausing
4. Use Humor Wisely
5. Stop Gossiping and Know When to Be Silent
Thanks
Thanks i really need it
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Very useful. I find lunch with colleagues and bosses very difficult.
Stop that! (Gossip)
Yes the Bible teaches us in a multitude of words Sin is not Absent they say think before you speak it makes sense God BLess Amen
Made sence to me.
Excellent advice 👌
ALL HIT HOME.❤
Thank you ❤
Very helpful lecture. Thank you sir.
Thanks, much food for thought.
Focusing on calmness, honesty, and confidence in communication is something everyone can learn from.
I love your channel . Thank u
Iove the video ❤
Great words
Thankyou for helping me
Amazing video 🙏🏽
Don't worry about that focus on self-improvement. Other people's opinions aren't your concern
I missed your video, lol. Stoic different people have different cultures.Also different environment has different norms. You just have to match and mix sometimes to go with the flow.
Thanks Eunice ❤️🔥👌 love you
Am going to try the silence and stop gossip
It's all that I needed in 2025
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The way we speak reflects our inner character. Speaking with clarity, calmness, and purpose-hallmarks of Stoic philosophy-naturally earns respect and fosters meaningful connections.
Thank you so much 💓
Thank you. I will stop using "Sorry." I thought it was polite.
Learning to speak with wisdom and calmness, as the Stoics teach, is a powerful way to earn respect. True strength lies in measured words and thoughtful silence.
I thank God I'm not a victim of any of these points
Are used to be silent to people that disrespected me. And ignore them. Now I give them a taste of their own medicine and disrespect them right back. You get the picture silence is not golden. Silence is being a victim of these animals that constantly abuse you. And that’s a fact that I have learned in my life. You got expose the dirtbags that disrespect you. And that’s the only way people are going to know that their creeps and the phonies and then back stabbers and a lot of them commit fraud, and get away with it.
Thank you
Over-explaining can dilute your message and make you appear less confident. Trust in the power of your words and embrace silence.
0:44 first of all, master it carfully. Ditch " Im sorry" Habit
People respect action more than word play
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"I need to get to my work" is what I'm going to tell the office gossiper.
Ur voice &English is clear I would like to know about ur education thank you
Really???do you know and respect boundaries?
I listen better when I'm not looking at the other person talking to me is that ok... Cause when I look in the eyes of the other person I miss concentration why?
Actually if everyone said sorry, there would be no wars❤✌️☮️😅😊
Love in action means never having to say you are sorry.Love of self ,self respect and self forgetfullness has one response...You are welcome.Take Care😊
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Yes have your moment isn't it not good not to respect that's what l feel we had that problem you do not respect me you talked badly about me if you want me to respect you don't mistreating your soulmate if l. am matters to you.
Proof alot he no good man.goodmsn sure keep face all his bad actions he done not my words
MY DARLING FRIEND
EVERYONE of US SHOULD LEARN TO DEVELOP HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS with HEALTHY BOUNDARIES with RESPECT RESPONSIBILITY RESILIENCE RIGHTEOUSNESS RELIENCE DISCIPLINE and ORDER DISCERNMENT DIGNITY WITH INTEGRITY TO ONESELF PRIMARILY in Parenting Caring Sharing with one's own life and brought up from the beginning of the day 1 of every child needs to be CREATIVE and PRODUCTIVE to glorify the HOLY of HOLIES LORD OF LORDS KING OF KINGS JESUS CHRIST SAVIOR Of the WORLD OBEYING THE COMMAND
LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS THYSELF "
'DISCERN'"
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This is not close to home. This is already home. All of the points - needless sorry, when to be humorous, all hit me, but the art of pausing hit me like tons of brick.
I will pause for now and stop talking
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Apologize to God alone
Man, seems like you did everything wrong
Thank you