Exactly Maria A. Taking care of yourself doesn't mean your appearance defines you. Just like taking care of your finances and investing doesn't mean that your money defines you. I love her message. I hope one day women stop listening the lies of having to be hot to be worth loving, but just enjoy what they have, cherish the most valuable things in them. And shamelessly bless the world with their God given talents and purpose. I'm in that place and I love it!
Shameless comment. Do you think beauty/immer beauty is something that is a "must-have" for girls only? Your daughter will be cleaning up and cooking for her man if you don't teach her other qualities beside blind self-love...
Thank you for watching, I've never been so nervous to put out a video as I've been with this one. I've felt every kind of emotion, from joy to complete fear! But like I said in my last video it's time for us to face our fears... This for me wasn't about getting a new hairstyle this for me was about peeling back a layer of myself that I've held hostage for so long and now I feel NAKED and VULNERABLE but it's the best place for a revolution, a change and it had to start with me. There's just so much to say but I'll let the video speak for itself, bless you guys ❤️
Breeny Lee I would love to like this video uncountable times. So authentic and real . I loved it. You unique darling and you are made out of God's Image. You your beauty is outstanding and unbeatable.❤️❤️👑👑👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾
I could have cried because I saw how vulnerable you were. Thank you for being transparent and authentic in a world, specifically social media world that is the complete opposite. You are Beautiful!
This is exactly what I need! I am at a stage in my life where I question everything. I wanna detox my life and just realize whats good for me and what not and cut out the bullshit. I just deleted the instagram and snapchat and facebook app on my phone. I really wanna set my priorities straight and see everything clearer. Focus on the important, not beeing constantly distracted by social media, tellin everybody how to look/think/live... I was always struggling to love myself but am working on it, I really want to accept myself and love myself. I know myself and my worth and am not going to settle for less. THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS! YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! ❤❤❤
curlytascha welcome to my side of the world I only use you tube and I have no friends. I'm extremely introverted and rarely speak even though I still live with my parents but I just have that inner peace I've never had for years.
forever young thats beautiful that you found that inner peace! So happy for you! I dont know how it is as an introvert, I am an extroverted and loud person and I chose my small circle of friends because trust me, u only need to have 1 really good friend that u can talk to about whatever bothers u! Did you try to meet people through a new hobby or maybe takin a course or something like that? Or do you like it how it is right now? I recently discovered that I like me some alone time too, not always but sometimes I really enjoy it. Positive vibes your way sweetheart 💖
Hey I did that too a few years back : just all of a sudden stop going on Facebook n ig. It was imperative for my self preservation n to focus on developing me. I stayed off for years n relied on TH-cam, Netflix n books. It wasn't until late last year I began peeping on ig n Twitter. I go on for information n with an unbiased eye now. Hell, I just downloaded WhatsApp last week because my boyfriend is in China for the next couple weeks. Anyways the point am making is you doing the right thing.
curlytascha I am at this point in my life now wang to deleted social media as it’s not adding to my life only taking time away an focus on me an turning my crafts into cash thanks for the upload
I'm crying. My mum cut off my hair when I was about 5 because she said it was damaged by perm. I didn't want to lose my hair as I couldn't wait to show my friends how long it had gotten. I refused but she physically forced me down and cut it all. I felt destroyed. I cried till a fell asleep. Woke up and cried some more. I couldn't do anything about it and just kept my hurt inside which was numbing. As an adult now I brought it up because my relationship with my mum has been difficult for so long (not just because of that) and she and my family just laughed at me. Further ridiculing me. What you've just done is opened a pathway for me to heal. Thank you so much. I'm so tuned in #soulsurgery ♥️
Living with Luyando I encourage you to work on this past hurt my sister. Otherwise it will grow into a monster in your later years (ie 30s upwards). Breeny can help, but don't just rely on her. Get some self help books on emotional healing, soul healing especially, as walking around with hurts is the biggest way to limit the potential you are born with.
Living with Luyando - I feel you girl, my mum said my hair was uneven and my aunty being a hairdresser said, just cut it off. I was too young to resist, I remember being in a fun house for my birthday and just sitting there sulking and my sister was laughing at me (who still had all her hair) it can be very traumatic and it almost feels like abuse. I hope this series will be a blessing to you xx
I feel your pain. My hair was collar bone length when I had to cut it all off to attend boarding school in Africa. Although I didn't care because I knew it was just hair and hair grows back, it sucks because at that young age all you want is long hair and you just think of how boyish you look. I don't think what you're mom did was right but if it really hurt you and your family is not very understanding, maybe you can talk about it with someone else like a friend. I'm glad that you're able to share your story and I hope you can move on from it love.
I think the self consciousness comes from social media and what we are influenced by or what we constantly see 24/7 on instagram etc its all about how you look so i can completely see why you would feel that way as an influencer. On the other hand your story i completely relate to you on EVERYTHING you said. I hope you continue to accept yourself and realise your true beauty. Thank you for this video Breeny.
I have shaved my hair multiple times and I'm here to tell you that feminity is energy my love , I dont know why we tend to externalize what it mean to be a female so much . I am honestly going through the same process right now so ill be watching faithfully
Marieta Uncut men are visual...I want to cut my hair but when I told him his response let me know he doesn’t want me to but my scalp has been feeling sensitive in certain areas because I wear wigs all the time
For the past 2 months I disliked wearing wigs. I have lots wigs thinking it will make me look and feel beautiful. I looked into the mirror about two months ago and told myself that's not the real me. I started wearing ponytails and taking care of my natural hair. Honestly I feel better with wearing ponytail and my natural hair. Accepting who you are will take you a long way. Well done Breeny. This video just gave me more confidence.
I was literally about to tear up because this reminds me of me. My childhood played such a huge part in my low self esteem until I was about 18. I was constantly told that I was ugly, that I was too dark and that I'd be a lot prettier if I had this or that. It really broke me. I don't remember a week in my childhood when I didn't go home and cry and try to change my skin and the way that I looked. I felt ugly for the most part of my life but I woke up a few years ago, stared at my body and really asked myself who defined beauty and who says that I am everything beauty is not. I'm 21 now. I've really tried to build myself up ever since and I've been successful for the most part. But to be honest, some days it feels like you're back there all over again and it takes a lot of courage to wake up each and every day and choose yourself. Everyday, you wake and you choose YOU! It's really not something that one can say they've attained forever. You continue building your self-esteem every single day. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable with us. i look forward to the new series! 💕 xo
I see so much truth and beauty in you just looking into your eyes when you speak. This really touch me in a world that is so ANTI-BLACK we must encourage our young black females to love themselves. Inside and Out.
I love and admire your courage, determination and wisdom! Cutting your hair off is symbolic of change...Breeny you are transitioning into a butterfly...you are enough! 'Beauty' is subjective and as you rightly say by whose standards... is it the fake media and all the superficiality that is constantly fed to the public about what constitutes beauty..?? I love the fact that there is something radically and fundamentally shifting for women and I think for black women in particular who have always been 'downgraded" or "margenalised" as "inferior". I think they are getting tired of the fake. I think this time is a time of reflection in relation to self love, self perception and the rejection of society's idea of what constitutes the norm or beautiful....🙄. We know that most of what is considered beautiful is about external beauty, is an illusion and is time limited whereas inner beauty is timeless and will always transcend to the external. We need to start from the inside out and not the other way around...so I salute you on your journey of self love...it is a rocky and at times lonely and painful road.... but once you begin to know and like yourself that is the start to loving and valuing yourself no one will ever be able to knock your confidence again...they will try but you will know who you are. I transitioned several points in my life so see it as a forever journey of discovering and knowing thyself. Love you! 🤗💋💝
PROVERBS 31:30 "Charm is deceptive and beauty does not last, but a woman who fears the Lord shall be greatly praised" honestly you spoke to me through this Breeney. This has been an almost everyday battle for the longest with me and i pretty much did the same. Receive that you are free, youre an absolute gem, Princess. Lots of love to you xxx
I've been feeling like cutting it all off and starting again myself. I've been in a depressive state recently and I just feel like a need a new start. Major inspiration.
You look way better with your shaved head than with your lace front wig. Your facial bone structures are popping along with your beautiful face. Be yourself with all its glory. Good Luck!!
I'm literally here baffled about how you feel ugly... when you are one of the MOST gorgeous women I've ever seen!!! I'm so grateful for your journey and that you're documenting it. I hope you save these videos as a point of reference for yourself. #BraveAndBeautiful
Girl you look AMAZING bald!!! Like seriously, you look gorgeous and it shows off your amazing bone structure even more. I'm happy that you're doing this journey for yourself and those on youtube watching you. You're doing what makes you happy and not what others expect of you as a "beauty guru". #keepOnGoingStrong
I cried because I've been feeling a lot of the same things recently and have even been considering cutting all my hair off as a fresh start. Thank you that you spoke up and are going to speak about these issues. You are a star Xxx
This video is so so so inspiring, to completely shave off what most females use as a their security blanket and do it on camera to prove to not only yourself but the countless women out there that you are so much more than hair, makeup, accessories and clothes is a beautiful message. I went through a dark stage not too long ago when I came across your channel, all of the messages in your videos have really connected with me in ways others don't, your raw and authentic vibe is beautiful and I hope you keep doing what you're doing because I can guarantee it's not only me you have helped. Thank you xxxx
I shaved my head on February 19th 2017 because every time I looked at my hair I just wanted to cry at how damaged, uneven and ugly it was. When I was a child I got head lice and my hair was long and thick and because of that my mum had to chop it all off to about 2 inches from the scalp. Ever since then my hair never grew much and the growth stunted and it made me so insecure with myself. The day I shaved my head was probably one of the best things I could have ever did for myself and I don't regret it at all. New growth is literally shooting out of my scalp and I have such a healthy TWA and hasn't even been 2 months yet! I LOVE IT!
Wow Breeny, you would never belive that my story is so similar to yours. And I hate to tell it because it sounds petty but everybody's struggle no matter how trivial you may think it is significant to them. Growing up my dad would always cut my hair when I didn't do well in school, and it wouldn't help that I had such a sensitive scalp that would be ridden with sores. So as a kid, my hair was always cut. I can't tell you the number of times we bumped into dad's friends and they would innocently ask 'is this your son?'. As I grew older, everything I did was channeled towards being a beautiful attractive woman because in my mind, I looked like a man. And when you grow up like that, all the time you're seeking male approval. I looked for that approval in many wrong places. I just wanted to be told I was beautiful because in my mind, I was ugly. Anyway fast forward to almost three years ago, I told myself that I wanted to fight my insecurities beginning with the biggest one and I cut my hair bold. I can't say I don't still feel ugly with or without makeup (ps. my hair is still short) but I can tell you that I'm not seeking male approval anymore. I know that even if I am not 'beautiful' that's totally fine. I have learnt to love myself and I'm not afraid of taking off the layers that were my mask. A whole lot of rumbling and it may have not made sense but I just want you to know that someone understands you and you are beautiful in many ways. Like you, I'm a dark skin twenty five year old. With love from Lusaka, Zambia ❤
I really feel like this is something all of us as females are experiencing day to day, but don't want to talk about with others. You are such an inspiration for just putting it out there! One of the most beautiful people inside and outside ❤️
Wow see, I was so quick to comment without even watching the video first lol. But Woow breeny so powerful, u actually made me cry . This new direction to ur channel is GREAT, and SOUL SURGERY!!! I'm here for it because I'm in serious need for it . Thank YOU for ALWAYS being real with US. LOVE YOU GIRL 😘😘😘👌🏿👌🏿
This is so inspirational to me and many other women. No matter how many times people tell you you're beautiful, you're never going to believe it unless you know it for yourself. God bless you for being so open ❤️
I can't tell you how thankful and moved I am that you shared this with us. So much of your story is almost identical to mine. Its great to know that there is at least one other person out there that has felt the same as me. You ARE beautiful... I've always thought you were beautiful outside, but thanks for letting us all see how beautiful you are inside, too.
I truly understand and relate. I didn't feel beautiful from the inside until I buzz cut my hair in 2016. Other circumstances led me to it but the results changed my inner soul. Hallelujah & Amen!!! God bless you. You are a beautiful young woman.
This. Just this. This is what this generation needs 🙌🏾 true honesty, I'm so excited for this series as I know God's going to use you to minister to so many people ❤
thank you. suffering from alopecia and decided to shave my head off in january for a fresh new start. never felt so relived in my life. hair isn't everything. hair doesn't make you beautiful, its your soul. thank you for this. hope this helps many other girls realise its always whats inside that counts.
Oh my gosh! I totally am in tears from watching this beautiful video. It touched my spirit. You are beautiful! I felt every word. thank you for sharing.
So brave of you to share this Breeny. A trauma at an early point in your life can shape who u become. I'm always saying this, child development is so important and people should take it more seriously. I hope you find the peace you're looking for xx
Breeny...your videos have been speaking to me lately and I love you for that. I did the big chop back in 2014 for the first time and then did it again in mid 2016...THIS time around it finally hit me that I must and I mean MUST...fall in love with my hair. The 4c squared, thick, high maintenance of a mane that is mine...but it is also ridiculously strong when going up against hair dye, bleaching and relaxers. I say this because I've always held long hair on such a high pedestal like the majority do. I'll feel comfortable and love my hair to the moon and back but I see a co-worker or someone walking down the street with thick/curly long hair and slowly justify why I need to stay with wigs...I am so happy to come across this video and looking forward to #soulsurgery. I'll most likely watch them during break time at my job. Best of wishes in EVERYthing you are doing and will do in the future 💗 Yours, Platinum Blonde 4C Naturalista
I want to say thank you for this video. I am struggling with myself and trying to keep an image that i am not comfortable in. Thank you so much for this journey. Sending you love the Bronx, New York
I went through the same thing. I hated myself, the way I looked and it came from no where. I eventually went counselling and it was the best thing I ever did. I feel like a changed woman. I learnt to love myself again and with the help of God. It wasn't easy and it still isn't. Self love is a journey and we will have moments where we fall out of love with ourselves but we have to remember it is only for as season and we will love ourselves again. x
This is such a powerful video and I think everyone could do with some Soul Surgery. I'm looking forward to joining you and following you on this journey and I think you're incredibly brave and BEAUTIFUL!! You go girl xxxx
Breeny Lee: I listen to your videos every single morning. Sometimes I need reassurance that I do not HAVE to deal with these sometimes guys and sometimes friendships. Then I came across this video at the right time today. I needed this b/c I have started my soul searching and changes July 2017. Today, Is the day I acknowledge my restarting is coming faster. It doesn't take me years or months anymore to understand my worth and I am not wrong about keeping my energy safe. It now takes me weeks to notice a get myself back together. THANK YOU BREENY!!!! To hear this from a female that looks like me from skin complexion to the soul is breath taken. To know I am not alone feels so good. Now I am crying.
Thank you so much Breeny .After so much googling these past 2 days to justify why I want to shave my head again, I stumbled on your video. I have been struggling with beauty these days. Somehow it is linked to being unemployed for 2 years, some go to the refrigerator and eat, I go to the mirror and beat myself up. I also know that it is because I am in my 50s, I run 8 kms every day and I still feel extremely ugly. I also know it is because I feel condemned yet I am a Christian who should not feel any condemnation. I shaved my hair last year for the whole year and I felt so free. Then I let my hair grow back and the more it grew the more I felt the need to wear a wig. The more I felt the need to wear a wig, the more I felt ugly and the more I see imperfections. I am shaving my head tomorrow. It is my head and it is my life.
I'm so happy that you share something like this a lot of young people need to hear this beauty it's not just on the outside it should be in the inside too.
I wanted to cry as I was watching the video. Everything you said reflected with me 1000%. My self-esteem is tarnish because I allow it to be. Thank you for being so brave, authentic and beautiful in and out.
im so happy you shared your story. I cut my hair today and i felt mixed emotions but i know that hair doesnt define me and im going to prove to myself that I am beautiful without meeting societies standards. you are gorgeous and I cant thank you enough for this video
I have spent the whole of 2019 with a shaved/bald head and I feel more beautiful than I did when I had long hair. Its truly freeing to find beauty in yourself aside from the hairstyle you're wearing. Just having a blank canvas and feeling confident. 😃 Thank you @Breenylee for sharing your story, I was so encouraged
I have always wanted to do this, but I have always been afraid to. I want to change, and start a new chapter in my life and I think 2018 is the year I AM going to do this. Thank you Breeny you are a inspiration to all Women!
I recently for the past three years had my hair bald.....and still do ...it keeps me humble and free from what the world think is beautiful.....you're beautiful you inspire me ....
This really made me emotional to the point where I felt tears welling up. I am assuming that this resonated with something I have been subconsciously feeling. I can't wait for this series to start so we can heal our souls together.
you literally kept showing up on my feed so i finally clicked on your page and this was the first one i saw. really coincidental because i just recently cut all of my own hair and i’ve been struggling with my femininity and and what i equate my beauty to. this made me cry. i needed this. you’re beautiful.. thank you for this video.
wow. that was so brave hun. like wow. I've never seen a youtuber do anything like this. Babes I applaud you, you are gorgeous. we are not our weaves, fake nails, figures. we are more then a beat face and cup size. although there's nothing wrong with nails, weaves or makeup we need to fix how we feel internally before we try to add any extras. You are stunning hun
you have no idea how proud I am, your trials will help someone, honestly Bree this is what it is all about. Use your platform to bless others. But never forget let God in and minister to yourself in the process. Love u
I am In tears watching this and listening to this message. For so long I have lived in fear of rejection. It has been in my inner being for several years to cut all my hair off but I fear I won't be pretty enough or accepted by others. I hope to have the courage to do it one day and soon. Thank you for your courage and message
breeny, perfect love casts out all fears. we are fearfully and wonderful made. God bless you for this authentic exposure.. you are stronger than you think!
this sent shivers down my body, personally i believe this is a very relatable topic for young females and i for one would like to praise you for putting out this video, your a great role model and deserve to genuinely believe you are beautiful!
I just shaved my head for the first time two days ago. I did it because I was not happy with my 10 year natural hair journey. My hair was uneven, breaking off, dry, I never learned to love my 4c hair texture. I was hoping it would be a 3. So in essence I couldn't accept that my hair was the way I was and I low key hated it. I recently just told my self, it is what it is, it's beautiful, get over it. I've had a low self image about my looks since middle school. I was bullied for 3 years for having a high forehead, among other things. So, I've always tried to cover that part of me. Shaving my head has satisfied my need to start over, but has also brought up these insecurities. I found your video because I'm trying to be confident with my bald head inside AND outside my house. Your video brought me to tears. I will be subscribing. Thank you for what you do!
kudos to you for being pro-active in healing yourself and confronting issues that are holding you back. Not gonna lie, I was a bit of a ghost subscriber up until now, but this video captivated me. I'm loving the energy and direction you seem to be heading in .Thank you so much, you're a breathe of fresh air.
What a lovely video. I hope you find this next chapter in your life as rewarding as I have/am doing. I shaved all my hair off a few years ago for pretty much the same reasons as you have listed in this video and it has really helped me to really love myself, rather than put on a persona that other people will like about me. I have never been so confident in how I think about myself. There will be some days when you feel very insecure about having no hair and there will be some rude people who just feel the need to put their insecurities onto you, but please do not give in and hide YOUR beauty - its these days when you grow. Much love and respect to you xx
Shed a tear seeing your natural hair revealed, it was beautiful! Short hair like that looks bomb on you, aswell as the shaved look. Thank you for keeping it real, always appreciated.
Wow .. What a beautiful video with such a beautiful, heartfelt and honest message. Really excited for this Soul Surgery series ... I know it will bless a lot of us ❤️ God bless Breeny xx
This video is beautiful, thank you for sharing Breeny. I love the way you think and I for one feel the same as you. The struggle to live up to society's beauty stands is so harmful and toxic to the mind. If only we were all taught to practice self love and acceptance at a young age, then maybe we wouldn't be feeling like this. I can't wait for your new series, it's just what a lot of us need. It's going to be awesome! xXx
The journey to self love is a rollercoaster but it is worth the ride. I've been insecure my entire childhood and I always felt as if I wasn't good enough. Just like you I searched for love in all the wrong places to fill that void in my heart/life. it made me depressed and at one point drove me crazy. In 2017 I made the decision to cut my hair and start over and as my hair grew I grew with it spiritually and mentally. Speaking your truth can be risky but if you do speak you can be the voice for the voiceless. Breeny lee your videos are amazing and you gave me the courage to speak out on things I was afraid to speak on. Because of your bravery and courage I'll be able to help girls that are afraid to come out and speak their truth. We need more Real life influencers and less on being fake and living up to social media standards. This is real RAW, REAL AND TRUE.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us B. I for one am so touched and feel you summed up how a lot of women feel. This series will make so much of a difference!! love x
Honestly I relate to you so much on this !! I am so proud of you for always using your channel as a source of inspiration for so many of us who feel like we're alone in our insecurities! You are definitely beautiful inside and out, I know you NEED to hear this but I just want to let you know anyways. Always remember that you are precious in God's sight and you have been fearfully and wonderfully made 💕 Sending you all my love and best wishes
Love this! Shaved my head too at one point and i loved it! The beauty is from the inside you have that, and I believe that's whats makes your physical beauty shine more! The Lord will continue to give you strength
Honestly, you go girl. You're such an incredible spirit. This video was much needed for you and your subscribers. I know I needed to hear this. You're amazing. Much Love ❤️
This video made you so much more relatable to me. I struggle with depression/anxiety/self image issues constantly. Breeny you are seriously one of the most breathtakingly beautiful women I've ever seen..I feel like youve got a kind soul just by watching your videos too. And to know that you struggle with similar issues like me is sad (because I hate that we feel this way) but also inspired (because I know that I'm not the only person that's struggling..even someone who I thought would never know what it feels like to not feel confident all the time is brave enough to be open about it.) Thank you for sharing & allowing us to be a part of your journey. I hope one day I'll have the courage to take the steps to being the best person I can for myself. ❤️
Great video, This reminds me when i grew up in Africa bold head was my signature hairstyle. I only started wearing weaves here in UK and i realized it does make me feel self conscious, i'm more confident when i wear my own hair. Every time i see a black girl wearing their own hair. I compliment them they look so beautiful!
Omg I couldn't watch this without crying💔, I never thought in a million years that such a gorgeous person inside and out could be overcoming such heartache. You are so beautiful and strong not just for this beautiful, but because YOU ARE PERIOD! Keep up your strong journey honey, continue to inspire and smile. You are worth all the admiration❤!
I don’t know what to say. You stole my heart. I wish I could hug that little girl inside you. Tell her how that one experience that broke her would rebuild so many women in the future. You are fabulous!! I look forward to your new series #SoulSurgery.
Big up yourself Breeny, trust me felt that way when I shaved my full beard (it was long) off the other day, didn't want to rely on an image to define me so I get you 💯
"I don't exist to be beautiful." Wowwwwww that was soooooo good!
You look sooo good! You are beautiful!!
I don't exist to be beautiful...said the women that's spends thousands to keep her face, she the most superficial black women on the tube.
Exactly Maria A. Taking care of yourself doesn't mean your appearance defines you. Just like taking care of your finances and investing doesn't mean that your money defines you. I love her message. I hope one day women stop listening the lies of having to be hot to be worth loving, but just enjoy what they have, cherish the most valuable things in them. And shamelessly bless the world with their God given talents and purpose. I'm in that place and I love it!
As mothers, we have to teach each other and our daughters to see beauty within themselves, without a compliment or a mirror.
You need to teach your kids other things about life that nothing to do with beauty. There are so many other things to focus on.
Shameless comment. Do you think beauty/immer beauty is something that is a "must-have" for girls only? Your daughter will be cleaning up and cooking for her man if you don't teach her other qualities beside blind self-love...
Michelle a young girl learning those kinds of things will benefit them in the future, so the subject should be focused on.
@@sarahjones7876 if she is taught real self-love, she will not be cooking and cleaning for her husband. The shame is on you, not the original comment.
Thank you for watching, I've never been so nervous to put out a video as I've been with this one. I've felt every kind of emotion, from joy to complete fear! But like I said in my last video it's time for us to face our fears... This for me wasn't about getting a new hairstyle this for me was about peeling back a layer of myself that I've held hostage for so long and now I feel NAKED and VULNERABLE but it's the best place for a revolution, a change and it had to start with me. There's just so much to say but I'll let the video speak for itself, bless you guys ❤️
Breeny Lee I would love to like this video uncountable times. So authentic and real . I loved it. You unique darling and you are made out of God's Image. You your beauty is outstanding and unbeatable.❤️❤️👑👑👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾
There's a quote that says a woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life. :)
Gosh I was so moved by this!! New Subbie :)
I could have cried because I saw how vulnerable you were. Thank you for being transparent and authentic in a world, specifically social media world that is the complete opposite. You are Beautiful!
Breeny Lee thank you for sharing ❤️❤️ I had a similar experience , but with body image and depression and anxiety.
This is exactly what I need! I am at a stage in my life where I question everything. I wanna detox my life and just realize whats good for me and what not and cut out the bullshit. I just deleted the instagram and snapchat and facebook app on my phone. I really wanna set my priorities straight and see everything clearer. Focus on the important, not beeing constantly distracted by social media, tellin everybody how to look/think/live... I was always struggling to love myself but am working on it, I really want to accept myself and love myself. I know myself and my worth and am not going to settle for less. THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS! YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! ❤❤❤
curlytascha welcome to my side of the world I only use you tube and I have no friends. I'm extremely introverted and rarely speak even though I still live with my parents but I just have that inner peace I've never had for years.
forever young thats beautiful that you found that inner peace! So happy for you! I dont know how it is as an introvert, I am an extroverted and loud person and I chose my small circle of friends because trust me, u only need to have 1 really good friend that u can talk to about whatever bothers u! Did you try to meet people through a new hobby or maybe takin a course or something like that? Or do you like it how it is right now? I recently discovered that I like me some alone time too, not always but sometimes I really enjoy it. Positive vibes your way sweetheart 💖
Hey I did that too a few years back : just all of a sudden stop going on Facebook n ig. It was imperative for my self preservation n to focus on developing me. I stayed off for years n relied on TH-cam, Netflix n books. It wasn't until late last year I began peeping on ig n Twitter. I go on for information n with an unbiased eye now. Hell, I just downloaded WhatsApp last week because my boyfriend is in China for the next couple weeks. Anyways the point am making is you doing the right thing.
curlytascha I am at this point in my life now wang to deleted social media as it’s not adding to my life only taking time away an focus on me an turning my crafts into cash thanks for the upload
curlytascha I LITERALLY just took FB, Instagram and twitter OFF! WOW!
I'm crying. My mum cut off my hair when I was about 5 because she said it was damaged by perm. I didn't want to lose my hair as I couldn't wait to show my friends how long it had gotten. I refused but she physically forced me down and cut it all. I felt destroyed. I cried till a fell asleep. Woke up and cried some more. I couldn't do anything about it and just kept my hurt inside which was numbing. As an adult now I brought it up because my relationship with my mum has been difficult for so long (not just because of that) and she and my family just laughed at me. Further ridiculing me. What you've just done is opened a pathway for me to heal. Thank you so much. I'm so tuned in #soulsurgery ♥️
Living with Luyando I encourage you to work on this past hurt my sister. Otherwise it will grow into a monster in your later years (ie 30s upwards). Breeny can help, but don't just rely on her. Get some self help books on emotional healing, soul healing especially, as walking around with hurts is the biggest way to limit the potential you are born with.
Living with Luyando - I feel you girl, my mum said my hair was uneven and my aunty being a hairdresser said, just cut it off. I was too young to resist, I remember being in a fun house for my birthday and just sitting there sulking and my sister was laughing at me (who still had all her hair) it can be very traumatic and it almost feels like abuse. I hope this series will be a blessing to you xx
I feel your pain. My hair was collar bone length when I had to cut it all off to attend boarding school in Africa. Although I didn't care because I knew it was just hair and hair grows back, it sucks because at that young age all you want is long hair and you just think of how boyish you look. I don't think what you're mom did was right but if it really hurt you and your family is not very understanding, maybe you can talk about it with someone else like a friend. I'm glad that you're able to share your story and I hope you can move on from it love.
I felt this way too. The same happened to me.
Living with Luyando the same happened to me. You can talk to me if you want. I can give you my email and I understand.
I think the self consciousness comes from social media and what we are influenced by or what we constantly see 24/7 on instagram etc its all about how you look so i can completely see why you would feel that way as an influencer. On the other hand your story i completely relate to you on EVERYTHING you said. I hope you continue to accept yourself and realise your true beauty. Thank you for this video Breeny.
I just shaved my head because if chemo, I'm very happy to see this video makes me feel so much better
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I have shaved my hair multiple times and I'm here to tell you that feminity is energy my love , I dont know why we tend to externalize what it mean to be a female so much . I am honestly going through the same process right now so ill be watching faithfully
@Rena Abraham, what hit me is when you said femininity is energy. I love that but help me understand, what do you mean ?
oOOH I like that. Feminity is energy.
That’s what I’m trying to explain to my husband, but no luck yet...
Marieta Uncut men are visual...I want to cut my hair but when I told him his response let me know he doesn’t want me to but my scalp has been feeling sensitive in certain areas because I wear wigs all the time
@@AlwaysLearning2024 Peace. Well I hope you did what was best for you. Peace 💛
This video made me think of the song Pretty Hurts by Beyoncé
"it's my soul that needs the surgery"
Océane Mc - this is where I got #soulsurgery from ❤️
Breeny Lee I love u so much u make me happy everyday you are helping us dark skin girls thank you
Its actually ,"The soul that needs surgery",Beyoncé didn't say her soul need it.
For the past 2 months I disliked wearing wigs. I have lots wigs thinking it will make me look and feel beautiful. I looked into the mirror about two months ago and told myself that's not the real me. I started wearing ponytails and taking care of my natural hair. Honestly I feel better with wearing ponytail and my natural hair. Accepting who you are will take you a long way. Well done Breeny. This video just gave me more confidence.
I was literally about to tear up because this reminds me of me. My childhood played such a huge part in my low self esteem until I was about 18. I was constantly told that I was ugly, that I was too dark and that I'd be a lot prettier if I had this or that. It really broke me. I don't remember a week in my childhood when I didn't go home and cry and try to change my skin and the way that I looked. I felt ugly for the most part of my life but I woke up a few years ago, stared at my body and really asked myself who defined beauty and who says that I am everything beauty is not. I'm 21 now. I've really tried to build myself up ever since and I've been successful for the most part. But to be honest, some days it feels like you're back there all over again and it takes a lot of courage to wake up each and every day and choose yourself. Everyday, you wake and you choose YOU! It's really not something that one can say they've attained forever. You continue building your self-esteem every single day. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable with us. i look forward to the new series! 💕 xo
I see so much truth and beauty in you just looking into your eyes when you speak. This really touch me in a world that is so ANTI-BLACK we must encourage our young black females to love themselves. Inside and Out.
I love and admire your courage, determination and wisdom! Cutting your hair off is symbolic of change...Breeny you are transitioning into a butterfly...you are enough! 'Beauty' is subjective and as you rightly say by whose standards... is it the fake media and all the superficiality that is constantly fed to the public about what constitutes beauty..?? I love the fact that there is something radically and fundamentally shifting for women and I think for black women in particular who have always been 'downgraded" or "margenalised" as "inferior". I think they are getting tired of the fake. I think this time is a time of reflection in relation to self love, self perception and the rejection of society's idea of what constitutes the norm or beautiful....🙄. We know that most of what is considered beautiful is about external beauty, is an illusion and is time limited whereas inner beauty is timeless and will always transcend to the external. We need to start from the inside out and not the other way around...so I salute you on your journey of self love...it is a rocky and at times lonely and painful road.... but once you begin to know and like yourself that is the start to loving and valuing yourself no one will ever be able to knock your confidence again...they will try but you will know who you are. I transitioned several points in my life so see it as a forever journey of discovering and knowing thyself. Love you! 🤗💋💝
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Amen sister, amen
PROVERBS 31:30 "Charm is deceptive and beauty does not last, but a woman who fears the Lord shall be greatly praised"
honestly you spoke to me through this Breeney. This has been an almost everyday battle for the longest with me and i pretty much did the same. Receive that you are free, youre an absolute gem, Princess. Lots of love to you xxx
I've been feeling like cutting it all off and starting again myself. I've been in a depressive state recently and I just feel like a need a new start. Major inspiration.
You look way better with your shaved head than with your lace front wig. Your facial bone structures are popping along with your beautiful face. Be yourself with all its glory. Good Luck!!
"I don't exist to be beautiful" I love that Breeny. You're beautiful. Your heart, mind and spirit. Much love sis x
It's so amazing how black women looks more beautiful without hair
Yea, she pretty, in a superficial way.
So continue to be envious!
@@LeeC375 what is your problem your your a jerk . Your from the same race and can't be supportive then why watch
Umm, no...all women of all races are beautiful without hair (natural).
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Always do this when black women are complimented. Smh.
And with our natural hair. She looks gorgeous...like Cleopatra.
I'm literally here baffled about how you feel ugly... when you are one of the MOST gorgeous women I've ever seen!!! I'm so grateful for your journey and that you're documenting it. I hope you save these videos as a point of reference for yourself. #BraveAndBeautiful
Isn't she though! Gorgeous women are almost always never aware of how beautiful they are!
Girl you look AMAZING bald!!! Like seriously, you look gorgeous and it shows off your amazing bone structure even more. I'm happy that you're doing this journey for yourself and those on youtube watching you. You're doing what makes you happy and not what others expect of you as a "beauty guru". #keepOnGoingStrong
I cried because I've been feeling a lot of the same things recently and have even been considering cutting all my hair off as a fresh start. Thank you that you spoke up and are going to speak about these issues. You are a star Xxx
This video is so so so inspiring, to completely shave off what most females use as a their security blanket and do it on camera to prove to not only yourself but the countless women out there that you are so much more than hair, makeup, accessories and clothes is a beautiful message. I went through a dark stage not too long ago when I came across your channel, all of the messages in your videos have really connected with me in ways others don't, your raw and authentic vibe is beautiful and I hope you keep doing what you're doing because I can guarantee it's not only me you have helped. Thank you xxxx
A woman Who shaves|cuts her hair has a very high self Esteem and Knows she is beautiful without hair 😍😘
Is that the name for a low haircut. Must be a better terminology than that. Remember words have power as the tongue does.
I shaved my head on February 19th 2017 because every time I looked at my hair I just wanted to cry at how damaged, uneven and ugly it was. When I was a child I got head lice and my hair was long and thick and because of that my mum had to chop it all off to about 2 inches from the scalp. Ever since then my hair never grew much and the growth stunted and it made me so insecure with myself. The day I shaved my head was probably one of the best things I could have ever did for myself and I don't regret it at all. New growth is literally shooting out of my scalp and I have such a healthy TWA and hasn't even been 2 months yet! I LOVE IT!
Wow Breeny, you would never belive that my story is so similar to yours. And I hate to tell it because it sounds petty but everybody's struggle no matter how trivial you may think it is significant to them.
Growing up my dad would always cut my hair when I didn't do well in school, and it wouldn't help that I had such a sensitive scalp that would be ridden with sores. So as a kid, my hair was always cut. I can't tell you the number of times we bumped into dad's friends and they would innocently ask 'is this your son?'. As I grew older, everything I did was channeled towards being a beautiful attractive woman because in my mind, I looked like a man. And when you grow up like that, all the time you're seeking male approval. I looked for that approval in many wrong places. I just wanted to be told I was beautiful because in my mind, I was ugly. Anyway fast forward to almost three years ago, I told myself that I wanted to fight my insecurities beginning with the biggest one and I cut my hair bold. I can't say I don't still feel ugly with or without makeup (ps. my hair is still short) but I can tell you that I'm not seeking male approval anymore. I know that even if I am not 'beautiful' that's totally fine. I have learnt to love myself and I'm not afraid of taking off the layers that were my mask.
A whole lot of rumbling and it may have not made sense but I just want you to know that someone understands you and you are beautiful in many ways.
Like you, I'm a dark skin twenty five year old.
With love from Lusaka, Zambia ❤
I really feel like this is something all of us as females are experiencing day to day, but don't want to talk about with others. You are such an inspiration for just putting it out there! One of the most beautiful people inside and outside ❤️
Wow see, I was so quick to comment without even watching the video first lol. But Woow breeny so powerful, u actually made me cry . This new direction to ur channel is GREAT, and SOUL SURGERY!!! I'm here for it because I'm in serious need for it . Thank YOU for ALWAYS being real with US. LOVE YOU GIRL 😘😘😘👌🏿👌🏿
yes guuurlll haha x
yaaaaaaasss!
This is so inspirational to me and many other women. No matter how many times people tell you you're beautiful, you're never going to believe it unless you know it for yourself. God bless you for being so open ❤️
I can't tell you how thankful and moved I am that you shared this with us. So much of your story is almost identical to mine. Its great to know that there is at least one other person out there that has felt the same as me. You ARE beautiful... I've always thought you were beautiful outside, but thanks for letting us all see how beautiful you are inside, too.
I truly understand and relate. I didn't feel beautiful from the inside until I buzz cut my hair in 2016. Other circumstances led me to it but the results changed my inner soul. Hallelujah & Amen!!! God bless you. You are a beautiful young woman.
This. Just this. This is what this generation needs 🙌🏾 true honesty, I'm so excited for this series as I know God's going to use you to minister to so many people ❤
You don’t know how much you and your transparency through these videos had changed my like! I thank God for you! EVERY! SINGLE! DAY! 🙏🏾
I can't deal on how beautiful you look with the hair cut omg 😍 you go girl god bless you love ❤️
thank you. suffering from alopecia and decided to shave my head off in january for a fresh new start. never felt so relived in my life. hair isn't everything. hair doesn't make you beautiful, its your soul. thank you for this. hope this helps many other girls realise its always whats inside that counts.
Oh my gosh! I totally am in tears from watching this beautiful video. It touched my spirit. You are beautiful! I felt every word. thank you for sharing.
So brave of you to share this Breeny. A trauma at an early point in your life can shape who u become. I'm always saying this, child development is so important and people should take it more seriously. I hope you find the peace you're looking for xx
Breeny...your videos have been speaking to me lately and I love you for that. I did the big chop back in 2014 for the first time and then did it again in mid 2016...THIS time around it finally hit me that I must and I mean MUST...fall in love with my hair. The 4c squared, thick, high maintenance of a mane that is mine...but it is also ridiculously strong when going up against hair dye, bleaching and relaxers. I say this because I've always held long hair on such a high pedestal like the majority do. I'll feel comfortable and love my hair to the moon and back but I see a co-worker or someone walking down the street with thick/curly long hair and slowly justify why I need to stay with wigs...I am so happy to come across this video and looking forward to #soulsurgery. I'll most likely watch them during break time at my job. Best of wishes in EVERYthing you are doing and will do in the future 💗
Yours,
Platinum Blonde 4C Naturalista
Black women need this
sovereign blackwoman all women need this, no hate. have a nice day!❤️all love
Sovereign blackwoman so true preach
I want to say thank you for this video. I am struggling with myself and trying to keep an image that i am not comfortable in. Thank you so much for this journey. Sending you love the Bronx, New York
Nikki Nik ❤️
I went through the same thing. I hated myself, the way I looked and it came from no where. I eventually went counselling and it was the best thing I ever did. I feel like a changed woman. I learnt to love myself again and with the help of God. It wasn't easy and it still isn't. Self love is a journey and we will have moments where we fall out of love with ourselves but we have to remember it is only for as season and we will love ourselves again. x
"We can be flawed and flawless" 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤ thank you for this 😊😊😍
This is such a powerful video and I think everyone could do with some Soul Surgery. I'm looking forward to joining you and following you on this journey and I think you're incredibly brave and BEAUTIFUL!! You go girl xxxx
Breeny Lee: I listen to your videos every single morning. Sometimes I need reassurance that I do not HAVE to deal with these sometimes guys and sometimes friendships. Then I came across this video at the right time today. I needed this b/c I have started my soul searching and changes July 2017. Today, Is the day I acknowledge my restarting is coming faster. It doesn't take me years or months anymore to understand my worth and I am not wrong about keeping my energy safe. It now takes me weeks to notice a get myself back together. THANK YOU BREENY!!!! To hear this from a female that looks like me from skin complexion to the soul is breath taken. To know I am not alone feels so good. Now I am crying.
Women with bald heads always look extremely confident to me without saying a word
Thank you so much Breeny .After so much googling these past 2 days to justify why I want to shave my head again, I stumbled on your video. I have been struggling with beauty these days. Somehow it is linked to being unemployed for 2 years, some go to the refrigerator and eat, I go to the mirror and beat myself up. I also know that it is because I am in my 50s, I run 8 kms every day and I still feel extremely ugly. I also know it is because I feel condemned yet I am a Christian who should not feel any condemnation. I shaved my hair last year for the whole year and I felt so free. Then I let my hair grow back and the more it grew the more I felt the need to wear a wig. The more I felt the need to wear a wig, the more I felt ugly and the more I see imperfections. I am shaving my head tomorrow. It is my head and it is my life.
I'm so happy that you share something like this a lot of young people need to hear this beauty it's not just on the outside it should be in the inside too.
I wanted to cry as I was watching the video. Everything you said reflected with me 1000%. My self-esteem is tarnish because I allow it to be. Thank you for being so brave, authentic and beautiful in and out.
U are so pretty and real❤️😘am literally in tears😭
Who shed tears watching this video...and thinking she is awesome. I did...
Thank you sis'.
im so happy you shared your story. I cut my hair today and i felt mixed emotions but i know that hair doesnt define me and im going to prove to myself that I am beautiful without meeting societies standards. you are gorgeous and I cant thank you enough for this video
I have spent the whole of 2019 with a shaved/bald head and I feel more beautiful than I did when I had long hair.
Its truly freeing to find beauty in yourself aside from the hairstyle you're wearing. Just having a blank canvas and feeling confident. 😃
Thank you @Breenylee for sharing your story, I was so encouraged
Was trying to hold back tears from falling while watching this video!! Great job!
I have always wanted to do this, but I have always been afraid to. I want to change, and start a new chapter in my life and I think 2018 is the year I AM going to do this. Thank you Breeny you are a inspiration to all Women!
GIRLLLLL, YOU MIGHT HAVE STARTED SOMETHING HERE! LOVEEEE THIS!!!
I recently for the past three years had my hair bald.....and still do ...it keeps me humble and free from what the world think is beautiful.....you're beautiful you inspire me ....
This was the realist. So beautiful God bless you x
You are beautiful!
This really made me emotional to the point where I felt tears welling up. I am assuming that this resonated with something I have been subconsciously feeling. I can't wait for this series to start so we can heal our souls together.
Giiiirrrrrrllll !! You are slaying that shaved head
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you literally kept showing up on my feed so i finally clicked on your page and this was the first one i saw. really coincidental because i just recently cut all of my own hair and i’ve been struggling with my femininity and and what i equate my beauty to. this made me cry. i needed this. you’re beautiful.. thank you for this video.
wow. that was so brave hun. like wow. I've never seen a youtuber do anything like this. Babes I applaud you, you are gorgeous. we are not our weaves, fake nails, figures. we are more then a beat face and cup size. although there's nothing wrong with nails, weaves or makeup we need to fix how we feel internally before we try to add any extras. You are stunning hun
you have no idea how proud I am, your trials will help someone, honestly Bree this is what it is all about. Use your platform to bless others. But never forget let God in and minister to yourself in the process. Love u
see beauty!!!!!!
Isatou bah honestly!
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lol we do! Same name different spellings/version
love how vulnerable you've been in this video. simply incredible.
This video/series is EVERYTHING!!! Thank you for your courage and bravery
I am In tears watching this and listening to this message. For so long I have lived in fear of rejection. It has been in my inner being for several years to cut all my hair off but I fear I won't be pretty enough or accepted by others. I hope to have the courage to do it one day and soon. Thank you for your courage and message
breeny, perfect love casts out all fears. we are fearfully and wonderful made. God bless you for this authentic exposure.. you are stronger than you think!
this sent shivers down my body, personally i believe this is a very relatable topic for young females and i for one would like to praise you for putting out this video, your a great role model and deserve to genuinely believe you are beautiful!
I can't wait for this series!!!
I literally started crying when i saw you without hair, it‘s so sad that so many people feel ugly while they‘re so beautiful with and without hair
I just keep loving you more and more! This video was powerful, powwwwwwerful!!!!!! I am so excited for this series! Your beautiful girl so beautiful!
I just shaved my head for the first time two days ago. I did it because I was not happy with my 10 year natural hair journey. My hair was uneven, breaking off, dry, I never learned to love my 4c hair texture. I was hoping it would be a 3. So in essence I couldn't accept that my hair was the way I was and I low key hated it. I recently just told my self, it is what it is, it's beautiful, get over it. I've had a low self image about my looks since middle school. I was bullied for 3 years for having a high forehead, among other things. So, I've always tried to cover that part of me. Shaving my head has satisfied my need to start over, but has also brought up these insecurities. I found your video because I'm trying to be confident with my bald head inside AND outside my house. Your video brought me to tears. I will be subscribing. Thank you for what you do!
BREENY LEE IS A GODDESS
kudos to you for being pro-active in healing yourself and confronting issues that are holding you back. Not gonna lie, I was a bit of a ghost subscriber up until now, but this video captivated me. I'm loving the energy and direction you seem to be heading in .Thank you so much, you're a breathe of fresh air.
Really suits you Breeny, so brave to do but I really think it paid off. It shows off your stunning bone structure even more you look great 💕
What a lovely video. I hope you find this next chapter in your life as rewarding as I have/am doing. I shaved all my hair off a few years ago for pretty much the same reasons as you have listed in this video and it has really helped me to really love myself, rather than put on a persona that other people will like about me. I have never been so confident in how I think about myself.
There will be some days when you feel very insecure about having no hair and there will be some rude people who just feel the need to put their insecurities onto you, but please do not give in and hide YOUR beauty - its these days when you grow.
Much love and respect to you xx
Girls, your worth is found in Christ 💕
AMEN Sis
Shed a tear seeing your natural hair revealed, it was beautiful! Short hair like that looks bomb on you, aswell as the shaved look. Thank you for keeping it real, always appreciated.
You're Beautiful!!!!! I absolutely love the entire meaning of this video. I really hope it help those who don't believe they are beautiful xoxo
You're so beautiful, Breeny. I hope you can see what others see when they look at you! God made you beautiful inside and out.
Wow .. What a beautiful video with such a beautiful, heartfelt and honest message. Really excited for this Soul Surgery series ... I know it will bless a lot of us ❤️ God bless Breeny xx
This video is beautiful, thank you for sharing Breeny. I love the way you think and I for one feel the same as you. The struggle to live up to society's beauty stands is so harmful and toxic to the mind. If only we were all taught to practice self love and acceptance at a young age, then maybe we wouldn't be feeling like this. I can't wait for your new series, it's just what a lot of us need. It's going to be awesome! xXx
Can I just say you always look gorgeous but you look amazing with a shaved head. It really suits you. Rock it! :)
The journey to self love is a rollercoaster but it is worth the ride. I've been insecure my entire childhood and I always felt as if I wasn't good enough. Just like you I searched for love in all the wrong places to fill that void in my heart/life. it made me depressed and at one point drove me crazy. In 2017 I made the decision to cut my hair and start over and as my hair grew I grew with it spiritually and mentally.
Speaking your truth can be risky but if you do speak you can be the voice for the voiceless. Breeny lee your videos are amazing and you gave me the courage to speak out on things I was afraid to speak on. Because of your bravery and courage I'll be able to help girls that are afraid to come out and speak their truth. We need more Real life influencers and less on being fake and living up to social media standards. This is real RAW, REAL AND TRUE.
you are beautiful..period..😢😢😢I love you 😍😍😘😘
Thank you so much for sharing this with us B. I for one am so touched and feel you summed up how a lot of women feel. This series will make so much of a difference!! love x
Honestly I relate to you so much on this !! I am so proud of you for always using your channel as a source of inspiration for so many of us who feel like we're alone in our insecurities! You are definitely beautiful inside and out, I know you NEED to hear this but I just want to let you know anyways. Always remember that you are precious in God's sight and you have been fearfully and wonderfully made 💕
Sending you all my love and best wishes
Love this! Shaved my head too at one point and i loved it! The beauty is from the inside you have that, and I believe that's whats makes your physical beauty shine more! The Lord will continue to give you strength
Honestly, you go girl. You're such an incredible spirit. This video was much needed for you and your subscribers. I know I needed to hear this. You're amazing. Much Love ❤️
This video made you so much more relatable to me. I struggle with depression/anxiety/self image issues constantly. Breeny you are seriously one of the most breathtakingly beautiful women I've ever seen..I feel like youve got a kind soul just by watching your videos too. And to know that you struggle with similar issues like me is sad (because I hate that we feel this way) but also inspired (because I know that I'm not the only person that's struggling..even someone who I thought would never know what it feels like to not feel confident all the time is brave enough to be open about it.) Thank you for sharing & allowing us to be a part of your journey. I hope one day I'll have the courage to take the steps to being the best person I can for myself. ❤️
This is amazing!! You look so beautiful 😭 really making me consider doing the same! I feel like you were literally speaking for me x
Great video, This reminds me when i grew up in Africa bold head was my signature hairstyle. I only started wearing weaves here in UK and i realized it does make me feel self conscious, i'm more confident when i wear my own hair. Every time i see a black girl wearing their own hair. I compliment them they look so beautiful!
Thank you so much for sharing, this resonates a lot 🙏😢 can't wait for #soulsurgery x
Girl you're one of the most beautiful girls I've seen. Never ever feel that you aren't good enough or ugly. You're stunning
This is a beautiful video ❤️
This is the definition of being set apart! This is what's it's about. The Lord is your strength through all of this. ❤ to you Breeny!
Breeny. ... BEAUTIFUL!!!!! YOUR GORGEOUS!!!....ABSOLUTELY FLAWLESS😘😘😘😘
Omg I couldn't watch this without crying💔, I never thought in a million years that such a gorgeous person inside and out could be overcoming such heartache. You are so beautiful and strong not just for this beautiful, but because YOU ARE PERIOD! Keep up your strong journey honey, continue to inspire and smile. You are worth all the admiration❤!
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Wow let's go for that soul surgery!
I don’t know what to say. You stole my heart. I wish I could hug that little girl inside you. Tell her how that one experience that broke her would rebuild so many women in the future. You are fabulous!! I look forward to your new series #SoulSurgery.
Big up yourself Breeny, trust me felt that way when I shaved my full beard (it was long) off the other day, didn't want to rely on an image to define me so I get you 💯