How to Build Success from Nothing | Bedros Keuilian on Impact Theory
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There you will get direct access to Tom and the team PLUS exclusive content, offers, and so much more. Jump on in and get started on becoming legendary! Bedros Keuilian’s rise as a successful entrepreneur and CEO of fitness franchise Fit Body Boot Camp is a product of his struggle growing up poor and being bullied as an overweight immigrant kid. Those circumstances filled him with a rage that he channeled and used to become a man with something to prove to himself and the world. Bedros shares how the experiences that pushed him to the edge helped push him further in life on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu.
SHOW NOTES:
Bedros and Tom discuss the process of using your dark times and anger to fuel your drive. [3:12]
Bedros describes how his mentor introduced the art of self-development into his life. [12:30]
Bedros details the patterns he had to break to change his loser mentality. [17:08]
Bedros shares key principles for immigrants or anyone starting from ground zero. [21:20]
Bedros explains the importance of a morning ritual in long-term success. [30:15]
Bedros shares the revelations that helped him become a better leader. [33:30]
Bedros reveals the impact he wants to have on the world. [44:17]
QUOTES:
“When the pain is great enough, you start taking action.” [14:58]
“Put yourself in a position where you’re gonna thrive, not where it’s gonna be comfortable.” [22:25]
“You have to go through the suffering. You have to be hungry enough to deal with the pain and come out the other side with some scars, 'cause scar tissue is infinitely more resilient than regular tissue.” [43:00]
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PEOPLE MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Tom Hopkins - bit.ly/2Ie2yK0 [13:17]
Brian Tracy - bit.ly/2KXe2iA [13:25]
Zig Ziglar - bit.ly/2IGvx8N [13:26]
Tony Robbins - bit.ly/2lzHbrc [13:27]
Dan Kennedy - bit.ly/2rH5ljt [13:28]
BOOKS MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:
Man Up - amzn.to/2Im6BQ8 [2:41]
Relentless - amzn.to/2q9PYSr [3:23]
COMPANIES AND ORGANIZATIONS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Fit Body Boot Camp - bit.ly/2BPt6cl [2:15]
Compassion International - bit.ly/2rJVqdk [10:30]
Marine Corps Toys for Tots - bit.ly/2iiC75Q [10:38]
Mastermind - bit.ly/2wEJE9x [25:05]
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Lord, I love Impact Theory!!! Every single time I watch an episode something shifts in me. I never know most of these people but damn it, this is an amazing show!!!
Love hearing that! So glad the guests are able to deliver something useful!
Tom Bilyeu - without you carefully selecting these guests, researching them/ their lives/ their works and asking them such incredibly profound questions, these shows could easily turn into (seemingly) narcissistic rants, with no aim or structure, that helps no one!
I hope you know the value you’re bringing to hundreds of thousands of people’s lives - even just going by the comments it’s clear your shows and messages have turned around trajectories of people’s lives, helped them find purpose, turbo charge them with hope from the motivation and inspiration that your shows/ AMAs/ messages bring! My sincerest gratitude to you for the work you do.
Impact Theory should be mandatory Middle/ High School viewing. We all need to hear that voice that Society long ago hushed to a whisper
rick poghll couldn't agree more
Neesh A good day ï
“When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen.”
- Harley Davidson
#FighterJet
Zo Ram fighter freaking Jet ! Yes
I absolutely love this guy....its not that he is saying anything particularly new, its just his delivery, his honesty and humility. He is hiding nothing. His bravery shows.
All nations are born stoic and die epicurean. Don't get too comfortable for too long - cultivate mental toughness every day
Absolutely, stoicism keeps your perspective in check.
ok Tai lol
HERE, IN MY GAARAAAAAAAGE, BEING BORN EPICUREAN AND DYING A STOIC
Dude, cultivate mental toughness everyday, huh? That's a dope ass quote if there ever was one !!
I agree.
17:40 Don't use a shovel, sell a shovel, love that quote!
"Put yourself in the condition where you're going to thrive, not where you're comfortable." Love this guy!
This has to be the best interview I have ever seen in my life. Bedros has this thing about him that makes you truly understand how to change yourself. I truly believe that his story inspires.
"I control my own economy" .... brilliant.
Right?! I loved that!
couldn't agree more!
@@TomBilyeu
Can you interview arnold schwarzenegger , that would be epic.
"Yo, we gotta talk." - Me to my snooze button after watching this.
haha!
“When the pain is great enough, you start taking action...” 🤔
Synergy Yoga Hallandale that's so true...I think ex-addicts will also agree.
Hari Jeevakumar 💯...this also reminds me of a quote Tom constantly uses from Ray Dalio “Pain + Reflection = Progress.” There has to be reflection in order to move forward!
Or some people are doing exactly reverse. they running away from situation
Siddharth Rege that's true too. Like suicide.
Yup it's so true
Learning to be abundant minded. Listening to someone who had a worse childhood than I did, added fuel to my inner fire. Damn excellent interview Tom! Thanks.
Every single Bedros Keuillian interview i've seen has been incredible. Such a well spoken man, he conveys his thoughts masterfuly,
Tom thank you for always taking the time to find amazing guests. This interview was amazing
So glad you liked it! And I'm just honored that the guests agree to come on! It's my pleasure to feature them.
Dudes got an iconic attitude and mindset we can all learn from. Another great interview RESPECT
This was simply amazing. Very empowering. I started pursing my passion in health coaching and posting Health and Fitness Videos every week on TH-cam since this February. I've been a registered nurse for 20 years (very established) and now I'm starting from the bottom in health coaching. People think I'm crazy but to actually be a part of someone else's transformation is so satisfying and fulfilling. I love these videos because it helps me keep the faith, even when I only have 10 views. If I reach only 1 person, I have made my mark. This show was one of the main reasons I got off my ass, opened my parachute, and jumped. :)
Damn it blows my mind how many people were molested or abused as children. I’ve always prayed for children, but never knew the enormity of this problem.
The official tag puts it at about 1 in 3 will be affected by *some sort* by the time they're adults. Still trying to wrap my mind around THAT statistic. Sure made me paranoid with my own children!
As an Armenian this video resonated deeply with me. The amount of overlapping aspects of his life and my life are mindboggling.
Vartan Manoukian me too🇦🇲💪🏻
Armenians gather!
Same
Tom you can only imagine how much good you are giving to world with your interviews , thank you man.
I love how straight forward and raw this guy is. It’s almost like I can feel his rage. Great interview, Tom! 👏🏽
Amazing
This has been the most impactful video for me as I have been through a lot of the things Bedros went through, realising the poor mindset I inherited from older generations, and I cannot thank you enough for having him on your show, sharing his story with us, inspiring me to strive to shed the wrong mindsets and be the fighter jet, that I have the potential to become. Thank you @TomBilyeu and Bedros.
OMG! What a great show!!! Thank you! I’m Armenian and I’m so proud of him! I will ask my son to watch this episode. His honesty touched my heart and soul.
THIS CHANNEL HAS CHANGED MY MENTALITY AND CHANGED MY LIFE. My husband and I watch atleast one video from this channel, a day. We’ve grown our minds and now don’t live as stressed and I don’t live in depression anymore 😭❤️ THANK YOU FOR EXISTING AND BECOMING WHO YOU ARE AND CREATING THIS CHANNEL ♥️
This is an uplifting episode with a lot of raw and authentic advice. Thank you for these encouraging words from the both of you. Hope to meet you both one day.
Man, I'm watching Impact theory every time I work out
( starting to run out of episodes :-b ). It gives me so much drive and hunger. As a French guy doing his best to make it in Australia where I currently live, these interviews give me strength to keep pushing no matter what.
This one was a must watch, definitely getting Bedros' book!
All the people you interview are somewhat related in the way they think, it is very interesting and inspiring: - don't bullshit yourself, no excuses, and you're not a victim
- keep pushing even if it hurts
- this hunger in you is here for a reason, don't fuc@!#g numb it with drugs or alcohol, explore it!
Thank you so much Tom for what you do! Really appreciate it . Keep up the good work
buy it as an audio book and you've got a few workouts covered ;-)
bourkel jeremy me too! I started to listen to the same ones over again and each time I get something new.
Why did you relocate to Australia of all places?
@@davidx8152 the chics
@@TheBlueskyson hahaha
I have chills. Thank you for such an inspiring story im coming we all have a story, vallwys and mountains. I am in the process of climbing my mountain. I 've battled addiction and now i am battling the self no pharmaceutical meds my mission is to leave my ripple in time. Have a blessed day!
Frank V duuuudeee i did it too and on top of that i healed myself from a lot of diseases with a high raw vegan diet. look into that so you get off those nasty meds.
Gabriel Marques thank you brother i am happy to say that on the first ill be 17 months sober i am also diagnosed with PTSD and bipolar. I do not take pharmaceutical meds all natural. Much 💘
This has been by far one of my favorite interviews. Bedros really got to me. From weight lifting, to the same way we speak, and coming from immigrant families. I can really relate. I'll be reading all his books!
Be Hard to Yourself! I just told to my self last night that "Mia you are being hard to yourself, if not for your perfectionism and self doubt finishing MBA will not be as hard as you imagine" then I watched this video and say oh I did it right. May thoughts last year were getting the diploma is easy but getting the right skills and discipline that I can use to be the best version of me in the future will take time. I know that good things happen not by luck but a fruit of your hardwork. Right now, I'm back at school working on my thesis paper and I was blown away with the energy I'am bring to the class but I always remind my self my real battle is inside me and only me who can tell if I win or loose. Be responsible with your owm growth, happiness and success. Thank you for sharing this interview! 😇😇😇😇
Bedros, I admire your kindness, drive, intensity, intelligence and articulatedness. You are truly an inspiration!
Godddaaaammmnn this dude makes me want to run through a wall
lmao
Soo true.
I said the same thing to my coworker
with full pockets! LOL
Lmfao!
Lmaooo
Tom bilyue’s impact theory is the place I go to when I’m feeling down and lost. Sometimes I go through that state and still find ways to reach my goal. Thanks Tom you’re such an inspiration. To me you’re like the Modern Jim Rohn 🙏
Pain is a super charger ! Very powerful concept ! Love this interview and the raw and real conversation around the struggles of life !
Yeah, that is a very cool concept.
19:57 I will find a way, as Tony Robins says "I am built for winter, I just didn't know it" 💓
Mataio PoChing Tony Robins is the man!
I loooooove that quote as well!
So many gems 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Such an amazing interview. This guy has had one crazy ass life and was still able to grab the pen. Absolutely incredible!
Glad you liked it!
im so grateful for this man that i thought about leaving a comment just to help with the algorithm
So very kind! Glad he resonates!
Didn’t know Bedros has been around that long. I recently discovered his channel and love everything he has to say!!!
Love the domino effect explanation based off of your first decision you make in the morning, and it's so true with what you eat. Imagine all the other habits in life we could change based off this example and instead of just a day on some habits make it weeks into months like hours into days
Not even 3 min in, and it is intense!! Thank you Tom for another brilliant video.
So glad you like it!
It's so great that men can now talk openly about sexual trauma because there's not a drop of shame on the target---the guilt is one-hundred with the perpetrator. What a wonderful and motivational man.
I never heard of him but this was such a fantastic interview I was sucked right in.
By far one of the best episodes. The fact that he said he used his suffering and pain to be fueled, but not be fueled to step on people but to be of service, that’s the game changer right there. And his zone of genius segment and the delegation mentioning was just off the charts. Great episode and great questions!
Bedros K, Gary V, Jason Cap, David Goggins,,,,, listen to these four and ofcourse, Tom B. you will find the definition to your life.
Agreed
YES JASON CAPITAL
1,000%!!!!! 🙌🏼
Geezy Nyambe david Higgins is a beast
OMG goggins . He's my hero.
This guy has a such a powerful Story and approach to life!!
Tom your questions are incredible
Bedros's story is an amazing example of perseverance, drive and self actualization.
Keep them coming, Tom. Your videos are a huge part of my learning curve.
I'm only halfway through. No idea who this dude is.
Loving the interview! Thanks to both of you.
So glad you're liking it!
This guy’s is so honest, raw and inspiring!
Thank you, Tom, this guest was special. Especially his early thinking of blue collar being the safety net to hang your life upon. But I really feel your pain because I struggle with being good friend because I know that any progress in any situation means you have to lead people towards a lot of pain. Changing is painful and when people see your results they are inspired but than you have to tell them how painful it is to change, they back away. But I just want you to know that all of your advice I take with gratitude and appreciation, and even though some of it lead to tears of anger, frustration, disappointment, I see the results getting better and it is worth it. Thank you through the tears, I needed somebody to push me and make me understand that my situation is beneath my abilities and I have to start learning and pushing myself.🙏🙏🙏
Absolutely amazing interview! Probably the best I have ever heard. True motivation and determination.
I love that - I'm built for Winter, I just didn't know it.
This channel is gold. I'm a gold miner that be diggin' these gold minds. Amazing content Tom !
Tom, I just cannot say THANK YOU enough for bringing ALL of your content to us. Many of these help me overcome what I am facing in my personal journey through struggle and trying to climb my way to success. You certainly did not have to do this amazing service. You could have retired extremely wealthy and forgot about all of us, but you selflessly are bringing this content to us. It is for those of us who are still trying to pull out of the scarcity mentality. It is for people who are already successful but want to go to the next level. It is for everyone who wants to be better. What an incredible gift. It brings tears to my eyes as I write this.
Thanks Bedros for your honesty, transparency and for sharing with the world. Love your interviews Tom!
“I’m built for winter. I just didn’t know it.” 🔥
One of the best episodes I’ve seen so far! Amazing show, so glad I found this channel.
I just started watching your VIDEOS to help prep my mind set!! Now I watch them every day. Love it! You're such a fantastic listener aswell , able to unreservedly connect to your speaker at their level with insight and understanding. That's a powerful gift in itself. Thanks so much. Greetings from New Zealand!:)
Thank you Tom for your videos! Bedros story was very inspiring. I hope everyone can find their purpose and push through! !! !
So much depth, love and passion in this man. One of my favourite interviews for sure! ❤️
Thank you god for Tom Bilyeu and his guest . Changing lives daily 🙏🏾
I always find so much value with your channel, Tom, and I thank you for sharing Bedros with us! I have recently started learning from him and he is slowly becoming a daily habit ! So many key points that Bedros mentioned like determining your purpose through your pain and suffering! True! I love when he states to grab the pen back from whoever is trying to write your life story! Awesome!❤
Keep up the good work Tom :) your last two guests have been phenomenal. I can say as an aspiring entrepreneur it’s great hearing stories from experienced entrepreneurs, listening to their struggles and learnings. Thank you
Something to add to his comment on being hard on yourself... You want to be hard on yourself the right way. The right way is raising your standards-saying I deserve & am capable of better & damnit I'm gonna do that for myself because it's the RIGHT thing to do. And then giving yourself a pat on the back EVERY time you do whatever beneficial action/ritual. And to keep UP that appreciation as a core part of the ritual itself. It's blowing positive wind into your own sails to keep it going!
And when you mess up what you wanted to do--making sure you don't attach that error to yourself through shame! Guilt? Fine. That just encourages you to do better because you deserve better and want to contribute/connect. Saying that's not me-that's now how I do things anymore because I can do better. Choosing a better destiny line.
Being hard on yourself the wrong way will only drain you. I've tried that. Being one of my own best friends works infinitely better. (& I have to watch when that asshole friend sneaks back in to give me destructive-type feedback & lies) And when you look at older people who were mean to themselves and never learned to pat themselves on the back, they are in so much pain it's painful for others to be around. And no one but them can give themselves permission to love themselves and give up that bitter self-judging pain.
Pats on your own back can feel self-indulgent at first but it's just the same as really letting a genuine compliment IN when someone else says it. It's not self-indulgent when you're patting yourself for doing the right things~it's simply life & love affirming! Regenerating energy for you to be ready to do it next time🙌❤️
One of my favorites Tom. I love Bedros and his energy. It reminds me a lot of myself. What a great story of using the rage for good. Keep them coming Tom. Love you brother !
Awesome interview! I absolutely love him saying to embrace the rage. The suffering we sometimes hold on to but not for the best, use it and transform.
What a great life story this guy has. And it’s awesome to see somebody to overcome life like he has done it. Great interview
You guys are phenomenal! How you take the time to write all the links, phrases, books, etc for us! Tom, you’re inspiring & love ❤️ love what you’re doing on this channel! Thank you & one day I will be your guest!
I absolutely love this interview! Bedros Keuilian really spoke to exactly where I am right now in my life.
Impact Theory... amazing. Every show, amazing.
He's right. We get told over and over that we should be careful and ignore that hunger inside. That fire to DO something that makes a difference. I wish someone had taught me to be a "fighter jet" in high school to prepare me for what it takes to really succeed and grow and overcome adversity. Love this channel! Great guest and it's nice to hear this directly from someone who actually lived and grew through adversity and struggle on his own.
My biggest struggle, not having the PHYSICAL ability to work, to create, to have a steady pattern. I'm trying to pitch my mind, ideas, and mental compassity to make it. It's so hard when you are disabled and have an unpredictable life. TH-cam had been my key to opening the door of giving, helping and educating. I need to reopen that opportunity.
Love this channel. Thanks for all this wonderful content. And by far, this is the interview that resonated the most with me. So inspirational. Loved it! Thank you for the push to greatness :)
Love that! Glad it resonated! Bedros is amazing!
i am applauding this man from home ! Powerful Interview , who agrees?
I resonate with this so Much. Rage from childhood of Abuse kept me alive And after years of healing it is the rage That drives my Passion to do the work that I do. I never put it in that context before. Super helpful content.
So liberating to hear someone say being angry is good............. in fact compulsory!!!
Powerful episode. It's astonishing how you find such amazing people. I guess most of us are just as amazing, as long as we can tap into our potential like Bedros said.
I’m literally sharing this with everybody. Thank you Tom 😍
Tom you have no idea what a relentless human being you are. Such a blessing to the entire human race, and the planet Earth. So is your guest tonight. Manned up!
His level of Honesty was tremendous, this Conversation was very Helpful.
Be a fighter jet!!
Agreed!
Love that!! Amazing way to tackle life. 🛩
That was my best Quote from him.
Tom, thank for this channel. I'm at a loss of words to describe what I've taken away from listening to this interview. My words couldn't do it justice. So many emotions I'm feeling. Wow, so many ideas and action plans.
A LOT of value in this episode!!! Thank you both!
Tom dear Tom, I have been watching your show impact theory for a couple of month now. Every day I watch 2 to 3 videos. My mindset is changing to the better and I really don't know any the people you interview and I don't know how you know them. Know that I am grateful for this channel and I love your modesty and the modesty of all amazing people you bring to your show and a big thank you for you and all your effort to make the world a better place by positively impacting us.
An episode with Elliott Hulse would be a dream come true.
Edit: also just watched this and absolutely LOVED it. Wow.
Glad you liked it!
Tom Bilyeu You’re the best!!!!
Evan Green He’s been into religious/spiritual stuff all along. He gets it’s not for everybody and it’s not what his content is about. He’s still good and still teaches the same great fundamental things in my opinion.
I'd like to see that interview as well. hope it happens
It's good to note that he says after being told to set a date for his goal, "but what if I fail? I went straight to me failing" this destroys people's dreams so quickly. Glad he was told to try Not to fail just try. We gotta TRY
Thank you Tom for such great content and for your diligence & hard work in bringing such inspiring interviews. Your channel has become my favorite to watch on TH-cam. Thank you my dude! Blessings.
ABSOLUTELY one of my most favorite interviews - Tom I cannot thank you enough for having amazing guests such as Bedros Keuilian on Impact Theory. This is changing my life! Thank you!
I'm glad I came across you Tom and all other personal development teachers! Great Interview!
I have listened to a lot of episodes on this channel, but I have to say this episode is the one I have listened to countless times. This man speaks the truth.. "I control my own economy", "don't buy the shovel, sell the shovel" just some of the brilliant quotes mentioned. Love it!
So simple yet so profound. Definitely one of the best episodes of Impact Theory. I love this idea of Servant Leader, as developed by Robert Greenleaf. I’d like to live my life applying this principle. Thank you for such a great reminder. He had some really snappy and powerful formulas. Thanks for sharing the greatness and how to transform our lives so we can also IMPACT others 👍🏼🤝
Tom, your interviews have helped me a lot. Knowledge is there but what you have done is to funnel all that in consumable format. Thanks!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love this interview. I can listen to it x 100. Thank you Tom for this content being out here and accessible to us. Grateful. Big ❤ to you.
Thank you Tom & Team. This episode came at an opportune time!!! Bedros is a truly inspiring. Great gem @21:40, put yourself in a position that you thrive not you're going to be comfortable! I am an immigrant from Vietnam many many years ago by airplane. I think it depends on the age and mindset of each individual. I still need to uncover and get rid of my limiting beliefs.
Suffering is truly the brightest light within the darkness, once you learn to see it as a resource. After my dad suffered a brain stroke, my mom with tuberculosis, bad nutrition all three, living in a 2room house, no running water, bathroom, kitchen and 300€ total monthly income, i (20ythen) went through an alcoholic episode for 3y, followed by 2ys heavy drug abuse and ran away 1500km 3 countries apart . Finally last year realizing my escapism and what it ment, i awoke. Now with the help of your videos, i am slowly writing my own story, regardless of the circumstances i am presented and making most out of everything i am given. I am drug free, alcohol free, tobacco free, i am healthy, exercise, meditate and working hard in a factory job, followed by finances, economics, investing, psychology and third language studies. I am honored and grateful to say that you, your intentions, invitees and videos make 40% of my 180degree life shift. I am deeply thankful.
Ps: i am 120% sure that i will get to the point i intend to be, and maybe i‘ll have the honor of sitting in that chair beside you and tell my story so that people can see that from dirt man can turn gold...with the right guidance and inner tools, one just have to truly see it and crush it’s illusory chains. Thank you dude, keep doing your work passionately! namaste
awesome episode again! Bedros resonates with me so well, great questions Tom, really showed the inner workings of his thoughts
Incredible story! Using your rage for good. I'm loving all of these useful conversations - they open our eyes to other people's struggles.
This man's honesty is refreshing. He doesn't just have theories telling people what to do and spouting motivational crap set to music. He was broken, lived through physical and mental hardships and didn't sit back and say no one understands him and became depressed. He's a true inspiration, not a fake wannabe TH-cam hero.
9 minutes in and I’m blown away - he’s an amazing person. Thank you
i came to know about bedros few month ago and i was thinking it wud be great if Tom invites him on his show!! booom here he is.thamk you so much for bringing bedros on your show.thank you Tom !! keep it up.!!!if i have to subscribe one channel on youtube it wud be yours!! much love.
Much respect for sharing about the abuse you survived as a child. Very hard for men to share that, and it's important for people to know that happens in order to prevent it. I love your content even though I"m not in fitness, I now follow your podcast too.
For me it was the best interview on impact theory till now.
He gave some GOLDEN ADVICE!!! Thank you!!! Truly inspiring!
I admire this guy and his honesty about his past. It's beautiful and he's a beautiful person.