I'm so glad to see that recognition of how the body is impacted by trauma is coming up more and more in mental health conversations! I love this lesson to advocate for yourself with a consciousness for your entire being.
Ingrid this post is so helpful and everything I’ve been devouring that you have kindly shared of your self and your journey. I took a day off to read your book and found myself there. So good. Decades of figuring stuff out all becomes much clearer. I wish you were my therapist to take me through the scary next steps. Thank you so so much for what your doing.
I’ve done this for decades….my body only felt comfortable with people who had been thru some type of trauma, funky childhoods…..thanks to covid I extricated myself out of several narcissistic relationships…. I can’t believe what I put up with….knowing when people were lying to me…disrespect, invasive communication, bossy treatment…so many red flags 🚩….slowly my body is defrosting & tiptoeing into healthy relationships ,,
Tysm for this, this is the second video of yours I have watched since I found you on Instagram and it's such a blessing. I feel like I have my therapist here with me reminding of the grounding information I need to keep healing and growing and loving myself. 💚🐇🙏
Thank you for this video. I really appreciate how you approached and framed the topic. Very very helpful. Thank you for speaking directly to the stuff I have been struggling with.
I love this for you. And I'm happy to know there is a big difference. My mother-in-law will probably never learn that being ride and die to a man that would 100% leave her for another woman when given a chance. He's mean to her and she says it's OK. She thinks she deserves it. And honestly I wish her the best but she definitely has no boundaries or self-esteem. She is a very resourceful caring and respectable woman. But she will abandon everything to live on a compound until a family member tells her this is not you. She is a grown woman she should know living in complete neglect just bc he tells her too is unacceptable.
I'm just curious and a bit shocked and confused and questioning and thinking about my own marriage for sure ;) So really no unintentional heated words, not even while during an argument? I mean: Nothing you or your husband would have to say "I'm sorry I hurt you." for? Is it already 'too' bad/late if someone has to say "I'm sorry I hurt you"? Because sometimes during arguments I'll or my husband will say something we regret later (we're both not perfect) but I always thought we're always respectful to one another as a person in general even during arguments (no name calling, god forbid physical violence). That sometimes something slips because of the anger but we both are able to apologize truthfully if it was unintentional (No narc fake excuses, I see the differences between it and what my parents had always put on me as an excuse). Or does this count in your description of a healthy relationship/compromise, too? If someone's really sorry and able to form a honest apology? One or two times I felt hurt in our nearly 12yo marriage or said something I regretted. We apologized and it was/felt okay again after some time and didn't happen again in that form (we had hard times with not only me struggling with mental health but my husband having times of hardship with traumatic experiences, like the death of his mother, too.)
this Dr. is quite a gift to YT.
I'm so glad to see that recognition of how the body is impacted by trauma is coming up more and more in mental health conversations! I love this lesson to advocate for yourself with a consciousness for your entire being.
I am grateful for Dr Romani's podcast for getting to hear your story. I resonate with it. I just ordered your book. Thank you for telling your story!
Ingrid this post is so helpful and everything I’ve been devouring that you have kindly shared of your self and your journey. I took a day off to read your book and found myself there. So good. Decades of figuring stuff out all becomes much clearer. I wish you were my therapist to take me through the scary next steps. Thank you so so much for what your doing.
Yep, it feels like "home" or "normal" for us.
I’ve done this for decades….my body only felt comfortable with people who had been thru some type of trauma, funky childhoods…..thanks to covid I extricated myself out of several narcissistic relationships…. I can’t believe what I put up with….knowing when people were lying to me…disrespect, invasive communication, bossy treatment…so many red flags 🚩….slowly my body is defrosting & tiptoeing into healthy relationships ,,
So glad you have a healthy relationship. Maybe there is hope!
Tysm for this, this is the second video of yours I have watched since I found you on Instagram and it's such a blessing. I feel like I have my therapist here with me reminding of the grounding information I need to keep healing and growing and loving myself. 💚🐇🙏
So helpful..thanks for your excellent videos..and video shorts!💜
Found your channel right when I needed it. Thank you!
Thank you for this video. I really appreciate how you approached and framed the topic. Very very helpful. Thank you for speaking directly to the stuff I have been struggling with.
Awww... Your explanations + my brainspotting therapist= life changing hope☺
Brainspotting?
@@elizarandall yes! It's a type of therapy that is geared toward complex trauma, emotional abuse.
I love this for you. And I'm happy to know there is a big difference. My mother-in-law will probably never learn that being ride and die to a man that would 100% leave her for another woman when given a chance. He's mean to her and she says it's OK. She thinks she deserves it. And honestly I wish her the best but she definitely has no boundaries or self-esteem. She is a very resourceful caring and respectable woman. But she will abandon everything to live on a compound until a family member tells her this is not you. She is a grown woman she should know living in complete neglect just bc he tells her too is unacceptable.
Thank you.
Wow. Thanks. ❤️✌️
Gold!
I'm just curious and a bit shocked and confused and questioning and thinking about my own marriage for sure ;)
So really no unintentional heated words, not even while during an argument? I mean: Nothing you or your husband would have to say "I'm sorry I hurt you." for?
Is it already 'too' bad/late if someone has to say "I'm sorry I hurt you"?
Because sometimes during arguments I'll or my husband will say something we regret later (we're both not perfect) but I always thought we're always respectful to one another as a person in general even during arguments (no name calling, god forbid physical violence).
That sometimes something slips because of the anger but we both are able to apologize truthfully if it was unintentional (No narc fake excuses, I see the differences between it and what my parents had always put on me as an excuse).
Or does this count in your description of a healthy relationship/compromise, too?
If someone's really sorry and able to form a honest apology?
One or two times I felt hurt in our nearly 12yo marriage or said something I regretted. We apologized and it was/felt okay again after some time and didn't happen again in that form (we had hard times with not only me struggling with mental health but my husband having times of hardship with traumatic experiences, like the death of his mother, too.)
💗💗🙏🙏🙏
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yes!
Thank you.