I'll Give You Something To Cry About - Lindsay C. Gibson Q&A

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[@starlingswallow]

I love this woman and her book! And paired with IFS (Internal Family Systems), the healing I've experienced is out of this WORLD! 🚀 🌔 🤯

[@TheOriginalXultar]

I think though especially in my case we feel we have to say we love them to be believed when discussing issues. I used to sit back and watch when I was a kid, and I realize that if I had a choice that I would not want to be friends with or associated with my parents. I had a breakthrough and my therapy in 2023 when I admitted that I don’t really like them. But when I’m going through things in my head, I always say I love them but and then I realize I’m not sure if I do I care for them. I want them. I want them to be safe. I want them to be healthy and happy, they don’t know me. They’ve never taken the time to get to know me. They treat me like I am an extension of them. My dad treats me like I am his executive assistant. I don’t like that. I see our relationship is more transactional actually it’s sad.

[@jackilynpyzocha662]

I have learning disabilities, I see Dad's side, but he won't acknowledge or apologize. He is narcissistic and sadistic. He thinks to abuse me makes me "tough", he was that bad!

[@jackilynpyzocha662]

I have little to nothing to do with him now. He did "tough love", which was unwarranted: he's been cruel. He's still controlling. I am 60, he thinks he's perfect and nitpicks at me. He is never held responsible and is not apologetic, he blamed me for abusing me; I "didn't need be taught" this way. He would blow up small issues and ignore large issues, like white elephants. Everything was everyone else's fault, never his. I was more mature at 5 than he was at 21. He is in his 80s/I am in my 60s. I don't live with him. He has no business criticizing me. It is cruel of him, he "doesn't give a shit"(his words). He's narcissistic, sadistic and misogynistic. I am tired of being punished for being female. His attitue: his problem. Never my fault! He told me he abused me because "you are nice and polite". ow. He sees it as an excuse to abuse me. He's a tryrant. He doesn't give a damn!

[@Theacademyofselfhelp]

@@jackilynpyzocha662 you deserved better my friend. ♥️ You might resonate with the interview I did with Dr. Sherrie Campbell, it’s all about narcissistic and sadistic parents. You can find it on my page if you like. 💛

[@Discovery_and_Change]

10:00 Dilemma of loving a person but being furious and can't stand being around them
10:17 Allow yourself to work through mourning and grieving
10:38 If you deny or suppress your feelings of love, you never find your true self or get free from their influence

[@Theacademyofselfhelp]

Were these your favorite parts?

[@omavicmcmurray2893]

Great interview, awesome responses from Lindsay! Hope to see more❤

[@Theacademyofselfhelp]

Thanks so much! ♥️