You see this wood and iron analogy is the perfect description of the past one year of my life. Nothing can more frustrating than marrying someone who you’re dragging to come up in their spiritual journey! I didn’t realize how much my spiritual stagnancy/laziness was slowly draining the life out of my husband’s spiritual vibrancy. Now that I’m picking up steam and also generating heat… it’s been refreshing!!!!
Thank you so much @erinma for sharing this very important information. And for all "Small", growing TH-camrs desiring to share like this to a large number of subscribers like @Erinma so long as we have started already, we will get there. A journey of 1k miles & Subscricers begins with the steps we've taken already. Thank you and please like this video is worth it. God bless us all
This is one crucial thing about choosing a partner, you both must be at the same frequency, you are either both iron, or both wood, otherwise you are signing up for frustration indefinitely
I appreciate your submission on this. Pray, and if there is no instruction to move forward with it, don’t force it. These things sometimes aren’t clear cut. I know it’s probably easier for a guy who maybe has more understanding to be more willing to be with a woman who may not understand as much, provided she’s teachable. The other way round could be trickier…what God is saying (asides feelings and any other green flags one may have seen) and the person’s teachability and genuine pursuit of God independently are worth considering I think.
Well said honestly. I was almost caught up in a similar situation. When I saw the reality I ran for my life. Ladies!!! Please don’t excuse anything during talking stage, shine your eyes well and pray for guidance before settling. There’s the woman ego and pride that thinks we can change a man or he will change when we marry; news flash! E no dey work like that ooo. You continue with whatever you started with during the courtship period. You can’t change someone if the person has no personal inclination to change. Know this and know peace. At the end of the day it depends on what we all want out of our life’s; our limited view or scope of things right now or God’s beautiful plan for us which requires us to WAIT and be PATIENT.
Nma I’m sure you’re well conversant with my pulling journey. I can tell you that scripture is so true. If you don’t have a partner that sharpens you spiritually, pulling that person will burn you out!!! There is a reason pulling people is the ministry of the Holy Spirit. It is not meant to be our jobs. So better find somebody moving in the same direction as you so in case on an evil day, they cannot only bank on their physical support but their prayers get help you get back on track. Not only that, what we receive is very important, the bible says faith comes by hearing and hearing of the world of God. We need people that will speak Gods word in our lives.
You see this wood and iron analogy is the perfect description of the past one year of my life.
Nothing can more frustrating than marrying someone who you’re dragging to come up in their spiritual journey!
I didn’t realize how much my spiritual stagnancy/laziness was slowly draining the life out of my husband’s spiritual vibrancy.
Now that I’m picking up steam and also generating heat… it’s been refreshing!!!!
Thank you for sharing
Marry someone you're on the same wavelength is my stand please to avoid stress and frustration.
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Great 👍 video. There's so much to learn here,iron and wood example . Well-done Erinma ❤️🤗.
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Wow. I've had this thoughts for a while now. Thank you so much for this. So timely❤
Godbless you 😊
Thank you so much @erinma for sharing this very important information.
And for all "Small", growing TH-camrs desiring to share like this to a large number of subscribers like @Erinma so long as we have started already, we will get there. A journey of 1k miles & Subscricers begins with the steps we've taken already. Thank you and please like this video is worth it. God bless us all
Found this on my friend's status and I am super grateful to be here.
It's timely for me.❤️
beautiful and sound!
Everything you said in the first 10mins is very accurate 🎉..
Emphasis on worldly people always wanting Christian partners.
Everything you said is what I've been trying to explain to people,
God bless you ma❤
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This is one crucial thing about choosing a partner, you both must be at the same frequency, you are either both iron, or both wood, otherwise you are signing up for frustration indefinitely
You see that iron and wood theory. That's all that explains it. Thank you for teaching us, Erinma. God bless you❤
Good teaching.you have spoken the truth. God bless you 🎉
I appreciate your submission on this.
Pray, and if there is no instruction to move forward with it, don’t force it. These things sometimes aren’t clear cut. I know it’s probably easier for a guy who maybe has more understanding to be more willing to be with a woman who may not understand as much, provided she’s teachable. The other way round could be trickier…what God is saying (asides feelings and any other green flags one may have seen) and the person’s teachability and genuine pursuit of God independently are worth considering I think.
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So much wisdom in here....
Well said honestly. I was almost caught up in a similar situation. When I saw the reality I ran for my life. Ladies!!! Please don’t excuse anything during talking stage, shine your eyes well and pray for guidance before settling. There’s the woman ego and pride that thinks we can change a man or he will change when we marry; news flash! E no dey work like that ooo. You continue with whatever you started with during the courtship period. You can’t change someone if the person has no personal inclination to change. Know this and know peace.
At the end of the day it depends on what we all want out of our life’s; our limited view or scope of things right now or God’s beautiful plan for us which requires us to WAIT and be PATIENT.
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Thank you so much for this. God bless you.
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Nma I’m sure you’re well conversant with my pulling journey. I can tell you that scripture is so true. If you don’t have a partner that sharpens you spiritually, pulling that person will burn you out!!! There is a reason pulling people is the ministry of the Holy Spirit. It is not meant to be our jobs. So better find somebody moving in the same direction as you so in case on an evil day, they cannot only bank on their physical support but their prayers get help you get back on track.
Not only that, what we receive is very important, the bible says faith comes by hearing and hearing of the world of God. We need people that will speak Gods word in our lives.
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This conversation … are they ready for the truths
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Thank you for this message.