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Scared or Insecure That Your Specific Person Might Want Someone Else?
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Thank you so much ❤️💖
Another great video! Thanks.
Would the same also apply to money matters?
when you know you can be chosen first, you don't have to settle for second!
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when are YOU gonna settle?
Except youre not chosen lol grow up the world doesnt revolve around u
I think one of the most helpful and comforting things I take away your videos is that we can change or fix anything we want. And we don’t have to physically do anything. All we have to do is go within and find the thought or feeling of what we want and focus on that. It’s so calming and comforting. 💞
YES YES YESS!!
Wish it was this simple
Life is not that simple. How about being homeless and telling urself you’re rich
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Thank you miss Shelly. I just have one request. Can you pls pls pls upload a video on Manifesting relationship/ marriage when parents and family are not approving. I know everything is possible but if you make a video, there would be confidence. In India there are lots of issues here. There is caste system and stuffs and what society things, too much of family interference. I request you pls upload a video on this topic.
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Than I also will stay in line😊
"He/she wants me all the time!"
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Never! That’s the one thing I do know to be true. It’s one of my affirmations, but I laugh at it. Not that I’m cocky. It’s just not possible. I can’t explain it, but I just know!!
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Leo Michael yeah me too. Myself
Leo Michael I have no clue who you mean?
I am loved
I am cherished
I am chosen
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I love the "running an old programme" idea. I'm going to click the big X in the top of the corner and close the old programme now. I'm going to do that with a lot of self-love and attention. Thanks Shelly.
You’re welcome 🙏
Wow, I really resonated with that "someone else chosen over me" part. When you said that I immediately realized I have the same issue, but I've never quite put my finger on it before. Thanks for the video!
I just saw your latest video (before I viewed this one) and this one was suggested by TH-cam. Now I don’t usually take TH-cam’s suggestions but this one was different. This was absolutely wonderful and it linked to today’s video where you spoke about the fear of abandonment. Again, gentle suggestion....I need to practice this more and shut out anyone who says it doesn’t work. There are inevitably those people and I need to pay them no mind. Thank you for what you do. I appreciate you more than you know.
Thank you so much for sharing your childhood story explaining your abandonment issues, it actually made me realise my own. I was actually crying when I realised what it was. I've been in therapy for a year now and this video was a real ah-ah moment for me. Thank you very, very much
Self love is the key!
Thank u shelly 💕
You’re welcome 💚
Sending love to all of you! Thank you so much Shelly for following ur heart & making these videos for us. You are blessing so many including myself🙏💕
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Thank you Shelly. This is exactly what I need. I am looking forward to listening to it.
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Thank you so much Shelley, at this time your videos really calm and empower me xx
Shelly, thank you so much for choosing my question to respond to!! The video felt reassuring and helped better point me in the direction of where to go on the subject. Funny how all things lead back to self-love, worth and acceptance. 😌 I really appreciate you opening up about your personal experiences, that’s very powerful as a listener. Thank you for your candor and continued top-level content!!🙏🏻❤️❤️
You’re welcome 💚🙏
Great video - love the inner child thoughts and love the idea that we don’t have to go back and recreate the past for years on end to get over this insecurity. I, too, have done my years on the couch and have moved to a different way of looking at it.
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Looking forward to this one! Right now i'm working on feeling worthy of the things that i want. I think it will be a game changer for me. Thank you Shelly! 🙂
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Always grateful for your calm, soothing voice & gentle delivery ❤️
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This has me worried that I spend too much time entertaining my fears and insecurities. Going to check out your inner child play list for sure!
This awesome Shelly ! I learned a lot from this.
Glad you liked it!
I love this !!! Another gem , this is a particular powerful topic.
Glad you liked it!
This was so beautifully explained Shelly, took my imagination actually to my childhood and recollect instances of abandonment. Though could not recall them properly but as you said it isnt required as such as well. Also as I always say your guided meditation for the inner child is amazing and it has personally helped me a lot overcoming many triggers. Whenever i visualise i see a happy child part in me. Thank you Shelly
You’re welcome 💚
We as women have insecurities. This video helps us overcome our fears. Thanks
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🤩 Awesome video, Shelly! Very insightful. ❤
Thank you Shelly for sharing your knowledge. you can feel the love coming from you in your messages . :)
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Wow, this was important for me !
Thank you❤️
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My wonderful Shelly, thank you, a joy to see you, like always, you are so right ☺️🤗🌹
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I needed this. I literally take notes everytime I watch Shelly's videos. Thank you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
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good student!
monday is final exam!!!
Thank you so much shelly. This was very useful ❤💫
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love you Shelly I felt so contacted to you 💕🌟
One of the random thoughts that always pop into my head when i'm affirming my SP who broke up with me d/t long distance. Thank you Shelly!!
You’re welcome!
I love the way you always gently remind us that "It's always coming back to the self"! Thank you!
Yes. I'm glad.
That will not solve all your problems
This gives me confidence 🧡
Waooo!!!! This is a major topic for those who are manifesring sp ! Going to love this !
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So I'm not alone.everyone feel jealous 🤔
wohooooooooo
“Every new moment isa moment to become a new person” that’s so true 🌟
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You being a psychotherapist- wow. Knowing your science yet trusting spirituality, that’s kinda rare. I’m glad you had an open mind and pursued teaching this stuff because you have a nice foundation.
Anyway, pinpointing the cause of our wounds to heal ourselves is good one. Thanks for another wonderful insight, Shelly.
I find it really helpful to know the root of my wounds, so I’d view it in an objective way and not become attached to it. I’ve realized that traumas usually came from another person, but you can’t really blame them because they also got it from others- and it has become this endless cycle of blaming. Knowing the cause why we’re acting like ourselves makes it easier for us to forgive ourselves.
We’re not our trauma. It’s something that happened to us, but it does not define us.
Knowing it helps us to forgive others easily as well. Instead of hating and putting the blame on them, we should just help and love each other because each of us has our own share of wounds. Healing would become a lot more fulfilling. Everything’s easier together.
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HOW is it fair that you are traumatised by disgusting fkrs and hoes
You are playing a huge role in changing my self concept n heal my childhood wounds Shelly... I'm extremely grateful to you and also to the Universe for bringing you into my life 😊😍💝🥰🙏🙏
So glad to hear this 💚💚
Shelly changed my life, too. Seriously wish I would've found her years ago!
@@holyhyenas1759 Very true... But let's be happy that atleast we found her now... 😊
@You can't leave this empty 😊👍
i’m so
I so needed this video rn!! ❤️
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Weird how this showed up after watching your latest video. I probably manifested this. Hahaha
I'm so glad for this video. Thanks Shelly. 😊
Love this! I realize that it was always me manifesting - and unmanifesting - the other women and that I should stop!! :D
lovely!
This is so true! We have to check our self concept first - people can pick up on our nervous energy!
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Nervous is not a crime grow up
@@Jewelsessences weird that you’re having a go at me about it then. Proper little paradox you created
@@francescagreetham1804 NERVOUS can’t be helped if your born with autism or adhd etc you can’t make it their fault for having “nervous energy” it’s so called god who created their different nervous system and them blaming them for not being perfect and nerves free like WTF
Another great lesson 🖤
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Whoaa... Much needed. You just transform my mood and beliefs very quickly. You have that power.😊😊
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she is the bestest!!!
@@jackassfat yes
@@deeptiraut4712 yessssssssssssssssss
So excited
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Hey Shelly. Appreciate you making videos covering all topics and doubts
Me personally
I know there's no one else
Like in the 3d world
I know there's no one else
And in my own reality
I'm the one
Yet I'll watch the video
Cuz I love increasing my knowledge and it's always amazing to hear from you
PS:some of you might think and even at one point I would think that watching such a topic might make your manifestation go away but that is not true .
So don't worry
Enjoy this space
Be happy
And keep going
Don't ever give up
You never know
It could be happening right now 😎❤️🙏
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What do you mean theres nobody else?!!!!!! 8 billion ppl are choosing others and not yoy
@@Jewelsessencesthe subconscious links all we are all one. Therefore what you wish for others or do to others boomerangs back. Golden rule. Universal laws are perfect ❤
@@Lisa_M_V not true how many times you are nice to others but they are not
Wow mind blowing topic. I know the content is also worth of it. Lots of love from India....♥️♥️♥️
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Another excellent video xx
Thank you!
Thank you Shelly, I look forward to watching your Video 🦋🎃🧸🙋♀️❤
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Thank u so much for this video ❤
You’re welcome 💚
This thought usually pops up in my mind when I think of my SP...it is terrible but I am determined to work on it no matter what..
I love the new videos and content-BUT, I really miss the couch in Austin,TX 🥰🙏
Thank you! Appreciated!💖💖💖
Every word is true! Self love is answere for everything.
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Love that baby blue on you it Soo brings out your eyes 😍 my mom loves when I wear baby blue 2 us blue eyed babes ❤️great topic shelly wowww I've had Soo much sp/success stories ... I came for another sp but I met someone in between and decided to forget the other one bc I have Soo many blocks with him... Its just didn't make me feel good around that manifestation even tho I loved him Soo much I know he did me. But I decided to let it go ...and this new sp it's just too cool 🤩
So glad you liked it!
Shelley I so needed this today I have come such a far way in my self-love journey and there's just those little remnants of insecurities because my SP is showing up as a version that I have been manifesting and it's just those like you said there's still the old insecurities in the old story kind of trying to pop through but I know I am always chosen by him because I am adored I am cherished I am the only one like me and there is no one who can compare and it is done. but I do have a question so me and my SP have been seeing each other more yet I'm still feeling some insecurities about the fact that we've only seen each other intimately at night and there's some thing that I guess is in my self-concept regarding you know going on dates dinner, being in public around friends family etc, even though it's hard right now due to the pandemic or like little trips together, which week which has happened already within the past two months so I'm trying to combat those thoughts for my self concept. Any tips?
Thank you as always
You’re welcome 💚
Thank you Shelly.
You are so welcome! 💖💖💖
I also had the same wound from childhood. I am an eldest child and my brother was born when I was 3. I really felt my parents checked out on me emotionally. So now, I also have this fear of not being chosen. But I am already in the process of healing this old belief.
Hi Shelly. I came across one of your videos on SP a few days ago and I immediately subscribed and binge watched many SP videos. You have such a calming vibe that it makes me very hopeful and optimistic. You are increasing my confidence that my SP is seeking me just like I am seeking him. Thank you so much for everything 🙏🏻❤
Wonderful. I'm so happy to hear this. And so happy you're here!
@@ShellyBullard 🙂🙏🏻
As long as my new assumptions can stop my old wiring and thoughts from coming into the 3D I’m good.
Thank you Shelley 🌸
OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out
who needs any help??
Contact him on whtsap
Shelly Bullard thanks for this video. Two weeks ago my specific person was at a Karoke gathering and he sat behind me to make it obvious and he gave me lots of attention but I was getting carried away hogging all the songs.I kept hearing in my head "He has a girlfriend."The following week a lady showed up and just went after him and flirting with him and he ended up talking to her the entire time.She is completely innocent (didn't know I liked him)and a friendly person ...The hostess husband talked to him because he is an Empath and knew we liked each other.I believe my specific person told him he thought I wasn't interested because I wasn't giving him attention.The entire time I was smiling to keep positive..My sp looked at me when coming from restroom like he wanted to say something or a little uncomfortable, concerned, possibly unaware....So my questions are of course the lady wasn't his girlfriend because they never met but 1.Did my expectation manifest her ?2.Am I changing myself by affirming"My specific person chooses me only, brakes his neck to date me or him?If I wanted cellubusy till marriage with him what affirmations could I use without changing him?
I am manifesting my SP & I admit that this very topic enters my mind at times 😩
Dear Shelly,
Thank you for the inspiration and love as always 🤗. Just wanted to know your thought on manifesting multiple desires at the same time. Like..can we manifest a specific relationship and a dream job at the same time? Would love to see a video on this..thank you 🤗
I guess your first video for weeks, I will watch afterwards. Because the answer: No, not at all and I couldn´t care less. In the words of Thanos from the Avenger-Movies: "I am inevitable" (Looks, like my new catchphrase 🤣)
Shelly, I just want to share with you that I was offered yet another job, with much better pay! I did manifest my previous job, as I claimed it mine, but as I started working there I said, "The only thing I dont like are the hours"--it was a 9-5 😑 So then a week later, I was offered a better paying job with more suitable hours that I wanted! I am so proud of myself and all my accomplishments 😊 I've manifested things all throughout my life (most bad because I wasnt aware of a lot of things that I am now),but now that I am fully aware of manifesting, I focus on good, rather than bad. If I start feeling bad, I go into some deep self love and of course do my inner child work. I am now in a better place to manifest outside of myself properly. I love these realizations 😁💕 There truly is no limit to what we can do.
Wonderful! I’m so happy to hear that!
Congrats!
@@nl4075 thank you!
Are you kidding me?! If theres no limit why are you not the richest prettiest person? Grow up
Thank you Shelly for this video💛 . It helped me a lot in many terms😌. I had started practicing self love but then I left it . I thought that now I had practiced self love completely but by seeing this video I got to know that I have to work more on my self. I know my SP is not seeing someone but I'm scared that there's many girls behind him and he may talk to them. Can this belief removed by practicing self love ?
Wow; just by this video I can recall times I felt like I wasn't chosen early that I never put together
awe...
This is what I need
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I love your style Shelly 💖 resonates so nicely to me. OTT have you tried meditations of transsurfing, pendulums etc.. What's your point of view? I feel driven to those stuff but than end up like it's too much at the moment. I just want to stick to Neville's teachings, apply amd live calm life. I guess we are exposed to all these teachings and sometimes one should just do one thing at a time..
I love self-love sooo much. I just do! The more I know myself the more I love and respect myself.
Long story short: my dad died as soon as my mom got pregnant. She spent most of the time working rather than being home with me. I couldn't stay alone so I spent most of my time with my grandma.
My grandma was too busy loving my cousin, he has been her favorite since ever - today still -, so I was left out most of the time.
EVERY relationship I had I was left out. EVERY ONE OF THEM.
It took me lots of meditation and self-talk to figure this out.
I use to have this fear but now I know he only wants me and reality is reflecting that back to me! Yay! ♥️
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I'm so happy for you! ❤️
I promise you reality will not give a shit even if you assume and affirm for years it’s about money and luck
My ongoing fear that my SP still wanted his Ex-girlfriend and that I wasn’t good enough for my SP is what ended our relationship last Spring. I couldn’t be the least upset with him when he told me he just wasn’t “feeling it” with me and when he told me he was/wanted to reconnect with his ex. I knew I completely manifested it.
Oy. Yes, I hear you. Thank goodness you know better now!! Phew... no more needing to revisit that reality!
I don’t fear the ex as much, but I still feel the fear of not being good enough. My SP and I are closer than we have ever been but I still feel fear of rejection. We have had an on-again-off- again (mostly toxic) relationship over the past 8.5 years. Something completely changed in both of us and our friendship has transcended over the past 6 months but I still have the old tape in my head and I find myself preparing to be rejected. I hate it.
This healed me
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I'm glad you liked it!
I was born premature and was a twin, my twin brother passed away, I was one pound and wasn’t held for a very long time.. I was in the hospital for 5 months! I come from a divorced home as well .. I look back now and was abandoned, pregnant and alone!! I’ve lost this oldest child he was 6 so I’m working on a lot of issue!!
Feeling these tender spaces... inner child work will be wonderful for you. 🙏🏼❤️❤️
Thankfully I don't have any insecurities about my sp, I always knew I am amazing and he is too and so we get along very well! We're so damn perfect!❤️
Being from a psychology background as well, I understand how certain wounds can play on us and define how we expect things/situations to turn up. I am an only child, but both my parents were working and so I 'matured' way before my biological age. I chose not to share my insecurities/fears/doubts with them as i didn't want them to be burdened more (they had a hell lotta workload + financial crisis )and them getting to know that they are absent when I need them the most - would make them feel guilty. And all of this ( and some more incidents which I don't remember) created a trauma around "being left" , "being hurt". But this is old story now.
Every now moment is an opportunity to become a new person - 💖thank you Shelly. I am building my self love and self concept and everytime I do that, I feel more confident and absolutely amazing!❤️❤️
Beautiful ✨✨💚
It doesnt change a thing ppl choose what they want and its not always you
I know exactly where this started for me. I had a recurring dream as a young child of my mum and my sister walking away from me, I call out to them but they can't hear me and they just leave without me 😢 painful stuff. I've let that go but the pain is still very much present in my relationship with my bf of over 2 years, despite him being quite loving and doting. The fear remains.
Psycho therapy is the art of unconsciously conscious beings to welcome self love and inner child work to have a heart strengthened that believes in manifestation and then can dive deeper into the process ❤
We're all co-creating, we rise by lifting each other, in another parallel reality perhaps, you are younger, maybe someone who just turned 19,she has that dream to have the love and career which is her life purpose but has wounds and maybe fell in love with psychology, and are pursuing psycho therapy and will eventually realise and strengthen in heart to manifest the best life. We're all one, co creating in the new earth ❤
Love your works ❤
Thank you 💚💚
@@ShellyBullard ❤❤❤❤Welcome 🤗
Hope everyone is doing well! I dont usually write comments on TH-cam but I just had to for this one.
Firstly, thank you so much Shelly for all your videos. I love how in depth you go with each video. I have been following you for the past 3 weeks and I really enjoy each and every video. So I watched this video at around 5:30pm today and the craziest thing happened. After watching the video I went downstairs to the living room because my laptop battery died. I went downstairs for dinner and since it wasnt ready I just sat on the sofa and watched this dance show which I really enjoy. I was completely into that show and they have great anchors which makes the show super funny and witty. I had my phone with me the whole time. So I came back upstairs to my room and messaged my specific person, and this was around 9pm ish I would say. He replied immediatelyy! and i mean within a minute!! I was so surprised because he hasnt been doing that lately. Also, I think it was a blessing that I came across this video today because I was feeling very insecure and hurt today. I also watched the "make someone stop ignoring you" video after I watched this one.
Thanks a lot Shelly!
Beautiful. Happy you're here.
happy you are here as well..let us know if you need anything else..
It wont work
I am always chosen. I am the top priority 💞
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Love that! Congratulations!
This was quite a big trigger for me because my sp is in a new relationship. But since I started doing more self love and took a step back on “trying” to manifest him I actually feel better and can now, for my inner sight, see him turning towards me with a smile and I don’t feel any threat from or have thoughts about them/her. I have made the choice to focus more on other things in my life, feeling gratitude for what I have that is good, doing things that make me feel joy AND to trust the universe to bring me what I desire ❤️
Beautiful 💚
It wont work otherwise all prayers would be answered
No more insecurity ❤
He only wants me ! 💚
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OMG, I actually felt I was not good enough and I was not chosen when my younger sister was born and I was 3). My family still chose her over me, I never loved my sister and I dont love her.
And I always attract guys that even thought they want me as a girlfriend ... They keep flirting with others and feel attracted to other girls ( basically they want me to be their main girl, but not the only one) , so I break up with them.
It really sucks, I am going to be using your inner child meditation daily.
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No one else going to be chosen except me
Yes!
I am always chosen , I am the only one 😌
Yesss
yup
i appreciate you :)
Thank you so much!
This is so weird, this video came at a time when I just realized my SP and this other girl that I'm acquainted with (bad experience with lol) followed each other on ig even though they have no links. Plus, it's such a specific video. I feel like it was meant for me 😳 This SP suddenly started texting me since yesterday and wanted to apologize to me by cooking me dinner next week and he's texting me so much more often than before! Even complained that I'm a "slow texter" and replies me within 15 min when he used to reply me every few hours in the past! I must be doing something right hopefully
I am the only one he is committed to ❤️
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I thought maybe I didn’t need this video. Of course I did. The universe makes no mistakes. Why did I need this? It made me realize how my daughter felt when her older sister had spinal surgery and was on bed rest a year. I noticed such a depression in her that year. Now I understand it. I’m so grateful for these messages. ❤️
I always think that we do need these videos! There's always something to learn.
decemberclouds I love Shelly! Her messages come right on time and are intuitively tapped into our energies. She’s never said that before, but I feel it. I feel such a connection with her.
Scared or insecure that your sp might want someone else .?
What if you have inner experience or feeling that your sp wants someone else .?
It can be fear that’s happening or that might be actually happening.
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* Even if you have build your self love and self concept and your no longer living in state of lack , it’s not uncommon for us to have spikes of feeling jealous, or triggered .
* The first thing is
+ You are probably running some old programs from past .
* These come from past childhood .
* there is Particular relating dynamic going on family .
* how your parents are has impact on you greatly , and if you have wounds and trauma you can play certain dynamics in your reality too.
* we manifest from what we are and from beliefs .
* if we have any trauma of not being chosen it can be repeating in your current reality .
* This is common .
* it’s actually not necessary to go back and dig up the past to know why your current situations occur .
* We changed based what and who we are in this moment .
* every now moment is the opportunity to become a new person.
* if those old memories come up you can do inner child work .
* show up in the here and now to your inner child .
* and when you show up every time the fear dissolves.
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* The thing to recognise when you feel scared if you won’t be chosen .
* your own self concept is not stabilised in
+ I am chosen
+ I am amazing
+ I am always chosen .
+ I am cherished
* this is self love practice .
* This is feeling the love for yourself , feeling what you wanna feel.
* If your experiencing with your sp , the thing to do is if you are in fear then you need to change .
* so you know you won’t be left, you will chosen land in this feeling .
* through self you will know , that you will be chosen by your man.
* and you will get reflection in your outer reality .
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* be careful it’s not about changing everything about your sp.
* if you have sp who is not choosing you , you can think you need to recreate the situation.
* it’s not that way , you must look into your self concept .
* do you feel worthy
Do you have confidence within you .
* it all comes back to your own self concept , so work and practice self love and your outer reality will shift accordingly.
Thank You Shelly❤️
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Shelly Bullard ❤️
Hi Shelly, do we have to do the course work daily?
I discovered you 48 hours ago and your videos have helped me start emerging from a very deep depressive state. By fiercely using your self love techniques I am feeling a shift. I have two questions....I have a an SP that I dated briefly but it went wrong because I let my inner child get insecure and needy and I did not receive I was the one doing the texting/ organising ....I’m using the manifesting techniques as I know he is coming back to me, along with inner child work and self love. If I continue using dating apps does this dilute the manifestation? Or is it part of letting go? Second question is with increased self love, will the type of men I get liked by on dating apps change? Should I even be using dating apps if I’m just wanting my SP?
If dating apps increase your self worth/contribute to you feeling wanted, keep using them. You always have to evaluate how something makes you feel/what state it puts you in. Happy you’re here. 🙏🏼
Shelly Bullard thank you. They don’t actually. I’m realising they do the exact opposite. Thank you for getting me to realise this 🙏
Im trying to manifest a person but sometimes I lose my hopes. I am trying to meditate about SP, subliminals, even doing a manifesting journal. Of course I try to believe it, but it's hard. I'm even starting to see him less and less, we haven't even met. It may be funny, but my thoughts tried to meet him in the shop, but it didn't happen. I don't know if it's worth trying for me. Once I tried with another person and I saw him more often, I even caught his attention (even now sometimes), but I was scared that it was not normal and he already had someone, I just took it too late, so I decided to let go and move on. Now I would like to meet a man, but I don't seem to have much opportunity for it, I know little about him, but I just feel attracted to him, that I want to try. I was also thinking whether it is better to focus on soulmate or work on myself first. I'm sorry for my lamentations, I just want to taste something new in my life, but still something deepens me telling me that I have a lot on my head, so love will wait. On the other hand, I feel that I have the right to be loved and that I deserve it, and I am able to give my heart to someone. It’s just a mess😕
move on man...take it easy..whatever happens happens..
If a circumstance manifested in your 3D that you had created from this insecurity should you use it to set a boundary with your sp?
Shelly I loved this video, your thoughts on not being necessary understand your past to manifest & the concept of ourselves
I’ve accomplished so much in manifestion since I found you, improved self love SO MUCH i can feel mysef being so much secure, reconcíliate myself with my SP and we’re now hanging out once a week, it so cool! I still want him to contact me in between more, and listening to you made me wonder if I have this concept he won’t and I’m making it
So glad you’re here 🙏✨💚🥰
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Shelly Bullard WOAH seriously??? You rock Shelly!! thank you SO much!
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It wont work
Yes it is from old fears trueeee.bcz I had someone who dumped me & secretly married someone else but I have cope up with that after 2yrs..I'm seeing someone who is very good let's see how it goes.but I get jealous when he follows unknown girls on Instagram
Something strange I still don't understand about my SP: she was always flirting with me at work, and joking, like whenever I'd come in from a day off and buy, say flowers for my mum, she'd say something like: "Oh, John, you really shouldn't have. " Or she was always adjusting my collar or asking me if I wanted to feel her hair (what's THAT about?)
Well, when she left my workplace 2 years ago, she left her husband and moved in with another man 'not long after' to use her phrase.
Thing is, on her last day, she insisted, in front of everyone, that I hug her, and when the hug ended she had tears in her eyes.
In the summer this year, i told her my feelings about her, and she said that we could catch up but 'sadly it would just be as friends', and that she had 'always [been] very fond of' me.
I am uncertain as to whether I should, after working on myself, manifest her back into my life, as there may still be something in her heart for me that would grow, or if I should let her go.
You choose want YOU want ! Your beliefs and assumptions is what manifests ! If you said she will come back you with strong belief it must happen .work on yourself first and the other things can wait . You are the creator
Never, he only loves me and wants me for the rest of our lives.👫👨❤️💋👨
I have an exam tomorrow, so I may miss the premiere, will catch up on this soon!
You have passed the exam so easy 🙌 🙏 😌
Good luck with your exam!
Good luck!💚🙏
@@ruthcarlisle2663 I m affriming that as well💕thank you Ruth!
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My parents chose drugs over me. Even with therapy this has been hard to forgive and to get past. 😩😩😩
They just chose drugs, not over you! They chose drugs so they didn't even have the choice of choosing you or not.
My mother became Addicted to heroin when I was 5. I felt unloved like you for many years. Now Ive accepted that she does love me, regardless what she chose in her life. Her addiction has nothing to do with the love she feels for me. She has loved me and wanted me her entire life. The addiction is about escaping her own wounds. She does not know how to love herself or me differently. Teach yourself to love yourself how she wasnt able to. You can do it. Much love