😭 I forgot to include that Grimes said this after the custody hearing: "Honestly I was the single most pro patriarchy sexist b*tch on planet earth, but I've truly learned my lesson the hard way that men are beasts of war and if you displease them that is precisely where you'll end up, in a war." (via X, 17 Aug 2024)
Imagine being married to a billionaire and still be forced to work. Imagine have a difficult pregnancy and then being called “lazy girl”. I could never.
That billionaire dude is lucky to have found & married Salma Hayek. Salma literally has united his fsmily, his babymammas & united the kids & half-kids. Salma is his ultimate wealth & greatest achievement.
@@BlueNorth313no he really hates his gut. He and his siblings all have stated publicly that their father is the worst human being imaginable and the the evil things he has done are too dark to be told. Read between these lines what you want.... Of course no matter how much he hates his father , he is also clearly influenced by him.
Lol the irony that Salma’s husband wants her to be a working woman and be in equal footing when he didn’t work for his fortune AT ALL, he didn’t accomplish anything
They all think they can “outsmart” & “outplay” men who are 500x more sociopathic, merciless & ruthless than themselves. They need to address their own narcissism.
@@Blissedx rich women are a blessing for all the men in their lives, and they provide well for their children, they hardly ever abandon their children plus spouses/partners and look after their elderly parents......alot of men ride on the backs of rich women.......rich men on the other hand,,, exploit as many women as they can and abandon their kids......there's literally no comparison between the two 🔥
Grimes decided to become a pick me fascist simp and found out the hard way. Her downfall was so sad. Watching her walk through the court halls with her big chunky boots and vampire coat while trying to get her kid back was crazy.
@@teleportmanteau The poor guys come with low self esteem and are ready to break a woman down so they can feel masculine. I have dated rich and poor but to me its the same shit. I am not intimidated by a rich guy because I value myself more. It is the poor guys who scare me because they start looking at my money and properties and ask for them in jokes. I guess it has more to do with your tax bracket because who is rich to you may be average to me. Wealth also has a limit because there is only so much you can buy or do.
@@teleportmanteauSay the quiet thing aloud. Most of them are Narcs. I'm glad Nick Cannon is accepting his diagnosis. Diddy is KANG MALIGNANT NARC. I feel so sorry for his daughter because they've been groomed and primed for the picking for men like him. I pray for their safety, I pray for the narc spell to fall off of them so they can have some sense and date people prospective that genuinely loves and cares about them. It's gonna be a hard road ahead.
I think I can see why he wanted her to go back. He knew she was a powerhouse because he wanted more exposure. He knew she was the right one to stand by his side because she was adored by millions.
Look at my case...I do pay for absolutely everything in this planet (Thank GOD!!!!), and as a consequence, there is a list of men after me....They do not want their women, and of course NOBODY can tell me what to do...They can invite me to their wedding with them at anytime...and stop going after me... I do NOT need them!!!.
Dusty is more of a mindset than a money amount. Selfish men creating broken homes and having multiple baby mama's is showing a broken busted mentality.
Securing the bag actually means getting a GENEROUS man, not just a man with money! There’s a lot of men who are as stingy as they are wealthy, such as Trump and Elon.
Trump isn't known to be stingy with his ex-wives or with his current wife, Melania. By all accounts, he's extremely generous and kind-hearted. Privately, he has carried out numerous acts of kindness for regular members of the public, whose downtrodden stories he had seen reported on TV, and for some celebrities too. For example, after Jennifer Hudson's family members were shot dead in 2008, he put Jennifer and other family members up in his Chicago hotel for free while they were attending the funerals and organised for them to have 24/7 private security... About 3 days after 9/11, Trump went down to Ground Zero with his own assembled team of helpers to provide assistance in the rescue and clean-up. Trump has a big heart. ❤ Don't believe the media's portrayal of him.
@@ciarakristos111 thank you for saying this, I'm so tired of the way people are sooo scared of him for basically no reason other than what CNN said. Let's learn to do our own independent research
women chasing billionaires is wild. You know how cold and clinical most rich folks are? I work in finance and they are some of the most narcissistic cold sociopaths you will ever meet
Grimes was such a burst of light and energy and I legit feel like Elon grabbed her and sucked that out of her for his own benefit. She very clearly wasn’t pursuing motherhood and yet here she is, going through a gruelling court process to get custody of three kids that will tie her to this man forever. Her prolific songwriting took a huge hit from it all and she lost so much credibility and respect amongst fans and people in the industry. If she had focused on herself, I think she would’ve achieved so much more. And maybe then if she grew to want kids, she could’ve had them when she was ready and with a guy who doesn’t have secret kids with his co-workers and constantly humiliating her.
Did Elon force Grimes to have kids? Elon had several kids with two different women by the time he got with Grimes. I think Grimes kind of knew what she was getting herself into. Not here to defend Elon because he's not a good person. But we need to accept that these women are willing to have children with these type of men.
@ there is an undeniable power imbalance between the two and Grimes has talked multiple times that she didn’t fully understand what she was getting into and that she didn’t understand how much motherhood was going to affect her. Being pregnant was a nightmare for her and she said that she didn’t identify with the word “mom” or “mother”. On top of her saying that having unprotected sex felt weird for her and it felt like she was giving away her power, it doesn’t seem like she had been having nice discussions with Elon about how she dreamed of having babies and that she fully wanted lots of children. Yes, she’s an adult and in my opinion made poor choices but I do think she was desperate to please this man and he used it as a form of currency.
@@ireriramirez9330 I agree. Women don't always need to be victims. They are making these decisions themselves, women aren't dumb for people to constantly act like they were "tricked" into these relationships and becoming mothers, they made the decision, it was just a bad decision.
I know how this feels. Recently dated a multimillionaire. He originally agreed to financially help me and then all of a sudden changed his mind. He didn’t want to give me anything. Not even a gift. Said he wanted someone who was an equal financially. I was so annoyed by this. He definitely was a stingy dusty. Also, his ex-wife, who was his financial equal, divorced him and left him with their 2 children because she was overworked being a millionaire career woman and a mom at the same time. She wanted a break and he didn’t let her lol. Now he’s a single alone with 2 kids.
@ I’m a several generation Tejana, I can speak all I want. Not everyone is a d rider for that Mad Tv looking character who treats people like objects. Ask him to take you to mars as well and never come back.
She knows what she is doing. She is a feminist. But she has a male following/audience. So she isn’t but repeats the definition of it to fool her male audience.
People don’t get to be billionaires by caring for others. Having that much wealth shows exploitation of others and the lack of depth to use your wealth to make this world a better place
People give 0 fucks about children. Idc about the morality of having children before marriage but when people are ok to have kids with another person BUT THEN GET COLD FEET MARRYING THEM, what is you doing???? People really out here playing fast and loose with another persons life, the child, but be REAL conservative about their own.
Exactly! It's baffling when people say marriage is so scary and they have commitment issues, but will attach themselves permanently with a child 🤦🏾♀️😭
Just like this Ballerina farm lady who was chased by the son of Jet Blue. He did not want to wait a year till marriage as she wanted. She married him on his terms. And their life is not something I would envy.
right? what is even the point of marrying a rich man if you cannot even enjoy your own wealth? hes so disrespectful to her and she works till exhaustion.
@nanomia 8 kids and she has to play stepford wife. Can’t even do a trip to Greece that she wanted, but he makes her say thank you for an egg apron. Nightmare indeed.
@@irene4633 these women are not dumb they want the child support. His employee had his child. they were not even really dating they were just compatible I guess and she wanted to secure the bag. Having children with broke men is dumb tho.. Like why?
@@eyalreiss294100 they are not dumb and want the child support. There will always be women chasing rich unavailable men to get 💰 and it’s irresponsible to have kids with them cus if he’s not even a good partner to you, what kind of father would he be to the kid? They will learn the hard way
With the amount of money that Salma's husband has. I think being a stay at home wife is more than reasonable. There's men, breaking their backs at work, and doing the most so that their wives can be sahm, of course, there's exceptions, but the ones that I know would support their wives decision if they want to go back to the work force. Its all about balance and priorities especially if you truly love and respect and trust someone.
Idk, I think it’s even more crucial for women who marry into wealth to have financial independence and a career because these men can & have strip these women of their autonomy and make their lives a living hell.
@@Lilporkianais being a stay at home mother’s work lazy? No. Does it provide a woman financial protection when and if her husband divorces her or worse dies? No, it doesn’t.
For real. I don't want to have a child with a man who cannot financially support or morally agree with a mom being stay-at-home. It is a full time job and plus the mother gets to have all eyes on the child and their development. If I were to get a job, it would HAVE to be like a flexible small business where I can take care of both my child and business while at home.
@@Lilporkianaso much for lazy and yet a nanny is needed to take care of the kid full time, a cleaner is needed to maintain the house, a chef to take care of meals. Being a mom is several full time jobs at once. Men who don't understand this should not have children.
I heard about Salma's husband not wantjng her to stop working on Wendy's Hot Topics. But I had no idea how bad he did her. Salma has managed to spin every terrible thing he did and said into something positive or benign. I've done the same thing myself, so I do feel for her.
Right, she is spinning it so he "loves her independence and thinks it's sexy" but it sounds like he treats her like a lucky gold digger and nothing more.
@@nanomia That's because they only were able to get where they are by being p s y c o s. There's no other way. So marrying one is in itself a huge red flag about the person marrying.
@@alias4506 yh they don’t call them baby fathers when they yt. They don’t class it a broken home when that dad a billionaire but I’m sure his kids might disagree
Good thing rich people made up god so they could control the poor lol. Trust me I hope there’s a god but he certainly isn’t doing much about these losers in this life. 🙄
told my boyfriend all this that elon did to grimes, my bf doesnt know who grimes is, but his eyes filled with tears. Its true money doesnt buy class, it does breed evil tho
I don’t care if you don’t love the mother, once a baby is involved you should step up for your kid. Smdh. Anyway this video was so informative. Amazing 👍🏾
the thing about the moroccan football player signing his properties to his mom... that's not just done by rich men! my cousin's father signed away ALL of his property , including his car, to his disabled sister as SOON as he got divorced from my aunt! now he gets both tax credit AND doesn't pay half of the child support he should!!!! he's middle class. if men want to fck u & their children over *THEY WILL* . thank you for this video. i am so saddened by salma having to work so quickly after having a difficult pregnancy- shame on that man, also he DEFINETELY knew about that french law before doing the 'romantic' get away
Y'all please write down what you want to walk out of the marriage before you get married and also write down the names of your properties so if he decided to write down something for his mom he will go to the jail
Salma has always been a very ambitious woman but in Latin America she's known as a Gold digger, she's also known to be very arrogant in her beginnings. Linda knew exactly what she was doing, no one is a victim here. Just saying
Linda doesn’t fuck around. She threatened not to walk for luxury brands if they continued to be racist and alienate Naomi Campbell. This was in the 90s. She doesn’t tolerate nonsense. Linda is the only women covered in this entire breakdown who wasnt going. She’s also the only women who got what she wanted monetarily out of Francios, and wasn’t even married to him. Shes hardcore and doesn’t care about men. Women like her always win in the end. Being agreeable does not get you what you want. Take notes ladies.
I actually dated an older man last year, he was really rich. Although I'm pretty sure he choose me cause I was (still) very young and manageable. Rich men are hell. In my experience they always want some sort of control etc, no matter what. The stereotype their lives are fucked up exist for a reason. Not saying all rich men are bad or make you go through hell itself (I'm currently dating a wealthy boy who's the sweetest person around) but especially when there's a big socioeconomic difference it's hard. Their mothers were always thinking about me as some sort of gold digger ☠️ even if I never asked for absolutely anything.
A true hypergamous girl never settles for a cheap, withholding and abusive man. Be impressed by how well he treats you, for his success alone is absolutely worthless if he doesn't generously share it with you. Good character and money is the golden combo for us true hypergamous women💯💯💯
That soccer player’s case is a showcase of misogyny. Men have praised this man online without even looking up why his wife divorced him. Turns out this man r*p*d a woman in France, yet he is seen as a hero for keeping money from his wife. Why would it be admirable for a man to leave nothing to a woman that carried his child, and gave up her own career for him? Shameful!
I definitely agree that his ex-wife shouldn't have to walk away with nothing after having his children. It'd be very disappointing if his mother didn't give some of that money to her grandkids.
Such a great lesson, sis 💕 I learned a lot about Salma which I never knew. It seems like so many people, get into committed relationships before getting to even know their partner. These are the results, when one chooses money over morals.
@s.ivainesu Yes, in Salma’s case a little different. In general , especially with celebrities, they discover the lack of discipline and/or moral compass their partner never had- afterwards. Or the love of money/fame that overshadowed their vision.
Salma seems to be very humble with a very big heart. People make mistakes everyone. No room to judge. Be grateful all your mistakes aren’t blasted to the public. No woman is to blame for a man being wicked. Love can really blind you to someone’s flaws.
Honestly this scares me. My SO comes from a wealthy family, he never showed signs of stinginess and has a provider mindset but men as masters in terms of disguise so... I make sure to be independent myself because I value myself but being that type of situation really sucks...
They're not all bad, so I hope that works out for you, and he continues to be good. Sounds like you have a good plan to stay independent and keep an eye out! ❤️
@@valerie6709those names also say that the kids are an accessory to them. Why would name your kid something that can get them bullied or ostracized at school?
Elon wonders why very smart women tend to have no children or only one….. He really is not that smart to question why more educated and intelligent women tend to not prioritize family and marriage.
Intelligent Women DO prioritise Family and Marriage !!! Unintelligent women prioritise office jobs that get them no where but dy’ing alone with a bunch of cats. To be an intelligent Woman , doesn’t mean you must marry or have kids with the Biggest Loser around, just cause he has money! That’s NOT intelligence!!
22:53 the hypocrisy! I said before and I'll say it again men with daddies issues are THE WORST! they love to joke about women with daddy issues because it's a projection. My grandfather was a horrible father to my dad he describes him as cold and sadistic but guess what? my dad is so narcissistic and sociopathic he made us live through hell he's just like his father
Men with dominant mothers and/or fathers who were absent in some way are also very problematic and more likely to have a personality disorder, in my observation.
I've been in this kind of red flag situations MANYYYY times before I found my husband. First was a dude in college who didn't pay on first date. Second was a boyfriend who was way older than me and although he bought me nice gifts he wouldn't commit to a marriage. I also remember a guy who said he wanted 50/50 and his girl working even if they have kids (only 2 kids) and said BYE right then and there. The next was my LDR ex who asked me to wait for another more 2 years and we haven't even seen each other in person in already a year. I ended all those relationships. Yes it messy but its ALLL WORTH IT once you find the right man.
Lol why, just for some 🐱? Nah I think we're good here, i aint paying for shit. But you might get lucky with other guys that are mentally still caught up in the 1980s. Also @ OP thinking most men would fall head over heels over salma hayek: maybe 15 years ago. Time does us all in. The shit u like about us men isnt what we like about you women. And no one gets to stay around forever. Why should a wealthy man go after a late 30, mid 40 y o with baggage instead of a 21 y o that can still actually conceive his children naturally.
@@max0304All those women were able to conceive his kids. Most young women are having fertility issues too. There’s no point dating an older man especially when most of you have swimmer decline after 25.
@@max0304I mean young women still have baggage. It’s a hard world for everyone young or old. If you base your relationship on worldly desires like how “fertile.” A woman is. Or how much “baggage.” She has or how much she will benefit you as if you’re investing in the stock market, you will never find love. Maybe you don’t want love, and just a business partner in life, and that’s fine, but don’t project that onto other people who want the real thing. Having values is wonderful, but those values shouldn’t only be physical things. Because what will you do when you meet someone who has all the physical things you desire but emotionally you are unfulfilled? You aren’t happy? If you don’t care about happiness that’s fine, most people do. So careful in generalizing all men and all women, and what people desire out of them.
The handful of wealthy men I've interacted with have all asked if I owned my own business because, simply put, the women they actually date (not just sleep with) are career oriented. They don't want to be seen as dating down amongst their rich friends and also don't want to support anyone. I mean honestly do these guys seem "generous" or "kind" to you? lol
I always gave Salma’s husband the side eye for what he did to Linda Evangelista. I always thought he was 🚮 for what he did to her. 🤮 He was never a catch, so not sure how Salma viewed him as her soulmate. 🙄
@@311girl this. I am sorry, but I have difficulties believing her "I am a feminist Latina, a survivor in this jungle" narrative. Seriously? Have you checked most of her roles? I loved her in Frida, but... and another thing, she might be a good person towards her husband's other family, but would she even look at him if he was not François Henry Pinault? And by the way, every woman who dates/marries a millionaire or billionaire should be smart enough to work and pay her bills. You never know what lies ahead in the future (look at all the former trad wives).
Linda Evangelista played the child card after knowing him four months! I call that entrapment. She gambled and lost. It’s the oldest trick in the book and Pinault refused to be roped in.
Im so rich having jesus in my life. I dont crave or hunger for what others have. I want my blessings. Living in peace and privacy is the ultimate goal. Stress free, drama free, manipulation free
You are the big sister I never had. For me, it was the part where you said don't collect red flags and leave at the first sign. That hit me so hard. Thank you for being so kind and honest.
If I learn something from my dating and love experience, this is NEVER dye your hair for someone else. You should do this only if you really want your hair to be a certain color. Only for you. Be yourself. If someone is asking you to dye your hair certain color, run 🙏🏼
YES QUEEN. Finally a girl with a good mature head on her shoulders dropping some real woman wisdom on the young girls. I’m 33 and I’ve been saying this for years. 👏👏👏👏 applause for the entire thing- especially the final message: BEWARE AN EXTREME POWER IMBALANCE, look for a man of good character and be a woman of good character, and promiscuous sex with powerful men is NOT empowering.
I remember reading Justine’s article about their marriage and being shocked on how horrible he was to her ( I wasn’t familiar with him). Especially after her miscarriage he acted so abusive to her. I have so much sympathy for her.
A lot of women need to be held accountable for their actions, they definitely saw the signs but either they thought they were different or they could change these men.
Guys but women really go through A LOT to keep their relationship "stable". I just can't imagine or see myself being the one pushing the relationship like this. It needs to be mutual, if not than what's the point of us even having a romantic relationship?
This is one of the most well done videos I’ve come across in quite some time. Full of great story-telling, research, and wisdom at the end. Brava dahling 👏🏾
Forced to work, paying bills, married to a billionaire? I'd rather be with a man who earns less but is willing to pay for it all, and doesn't spread his seed across the globe. Smh🤡
I can’t believe these histories are peoples lives! What the heck were they thinking? This is a masterclass on how to ruin your life. Unbelievable. Thank you for the content. ❤
This is all excellent advice, but speaking from experience, you will never know who your man truly is until the chips are down. Or until the baby is born. Or until he has to step up under pressure. They can spend years maintaining a false image of themselves.
You get what you accept. In ALL your relationships. With your friends, family, colleagues, etc. Make a list of what you want out of your life, set goals, make your boundaries clear and pick YOU first consistently so no one questions IF you will because they already know the answer. Until you have a dependent (child) you do not have a dependent, you may have an adult you provide for and that's cool, but you have no obligation unless you created that person.
He got her pregnant while he also got another woman pregnant = how nasty and extremely disrespectful of that guy! Girls, Ladies, we need to learn how to really vet men so that we will never take on those "romanticizing/glorifying glasses". So many men are egoistic, psychologically/emotionally immature and can suck out your beautiful life force. Only healthy men (emotionally.. on all levels) deserve our soft, lovely feminine energy. ❤️🌹
I feel it's a shame that Salma fell for this guy. And her gut feeling was telling her! He doesn't deserve her and that's "lazy girl " that's crazy!!!! So many women are staying at home mamas especially in that age and no one shame them. And he dares to call HER lazy - that's abusive manipulation. I think she's too kind and too soft and cheerful optimistic generous with her love and doesn't see what he really is.
This video is spot on. And to add…. Speaking from first hand experience, and through many other acquaintances with the same experience, it’s the same if during the course of the relationship the man becomes rich and powerful. It will most likely have the same ending. Doesn’t matter what you sacrificed for him, your financial and emotional support for him to reach his dreams, he might turn into a brand new monster of a human. Absolute power corrupts absolutely 100% of the time, no matter if they were a decent person at some point.
Ma’am! This is such an excellent essay, so true and I’m shook to know how many kids are kept from their moms over this. A generous man and a God-fearing man is more important than a rich one, many high earning dusties in the world, speaking from experience
wait a sec, Grimes kept having children with him despite him having multiple children with different women, is she ok? on top of that moving into a new relationship while simutaneously fighting for her children"s custody? I'M SORRY WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!
These women should be given war medals after dating Musk, dude sounds like a nightmare. HelI, give the poor kids a medal as well for having the misfortune of him being their dad.
Thank you for this very sober and practical reminder! I’ve been so sick of an influx of content online that encourages women to go after rich (and older) men no matter what. Extremely dangerous advice especially to young women. I agree with you completely on what we can do to protect ourselves and look out for each other!
😭 I forgot to include that Grimes said this after the custody hearing:
"Honestly I was the single most pro patriarchy sexist b*tch on planet earth, but I've truly learned my lesson the hard way that men are beasts of war and if you displease them that is precisely where you'll end up, in a war."
(via X, 17 Aug 2024)
@@ChokoladkaLLC ooh dang that came from her soul
It sure did 😢@@christinebelzie194
Let that pisces speak to your very soul 😅 facts 💯
But she recently went househunting with him in Bel-air. To create a commune for with his other baby mommas.
@@charmaine8261 thats her way of declaring peace hun. she's like a concubine in mad max, she can't leave his orbit no matter how she tries
Imagine being married to a billionaire and still be forced to work.
Imagine have a difficult pregnancy and then being called “lazy girl”. I could never.
I know right but I’m glad he did that because if they break up she has her own although I think they said they didn’t have a prenup
that's why you should never be a pickmeisha. she is not a feminist? lmao yeah she got exactly what she was asking for.
It’s important to me to not work for the first 3 years of my child life. She had her own money.
Right! He was ok with paying a Nanny to care for their baby, but Salma was "lazy" for wanting to do it herself?? None of it makes sense 😭
Sad, but true 😭
That billionaire dude is lucky to have found & married Salma Hayek. Salma literally has united his fsmily, his babymammas & united the kids & half-kids. Salma is his ultimate wealth & greatest achievement.
Right! She is the glue that holds it all together. She's kinder to the kids and their mothers than he is 😭
I hope they are all plotting for his downfall 💅💅
Power of a woman.
Right! She is a goddess
She really is a treasure. I hate that he makes her split rent kinda crazy.
Ironic that Elon hates his dad. He acts like him.
Yes! He's very hypocritical for that.
Tale as old as time
That's ow the cycle goes. Most people that hate their parents become their parents
I don't even believe he actually does. I think it's a schtick to get more sympathy.
@@BlueNorth313no he really hates his gut. He and his siblings all have stated publicly that their father is the worst human being imaginable and the the evil things he has done are too dark to be told. Read between these lines what you want....
Of course no matter how much he hates his father , he is also clearly influenced by him.
Lol the irony that Salma’s husband wants her to be a working woman and be in equal footing when he didn’t work for his fortune AT ALL, he didn’t accomplish anything
Those dusties stay with audacity!
Maybe he secretly resents her for the fact that she's self-made 🤔
@@ChokoladkaLLCJamie Dlux's channel can illuminate how self made she is. 😄
@@Stormywaters13it's inspiring really 💀😭
@@ChokoladkaLLCSalma is from a very prominent Mexican family.
They all think they can “outsmart” & “outplay” men who are 500x more sociopathic, merciless & ruthless than themselves. They need to address their own narcissism.
Well said
This 💯💯💯
Ever met a rich woman? They’re scarier. Never underestimate a woman 😊
@@Blissedx rich women are a blessing for all the men in their lives, and they provide well for their children, they hardly ever abandon their children plus spouses/partners and look after their elderly parents......alot of men ride on the backs of rich women.......rich men on the other hand,,, exploit as many women as they can and abandon their kids......there's literally no comparison between the two 🔥
@s.ivainesu so? It's the exception, not the rule and it mostly involves substance abuse
Grimes decided to become a pick me fascist simp and found out the hard way. Her downfall was so sad. Watching her walk through the court halls with her big chunky boots and vampire coat while trying to get her kid back was crazy.
It was so sad!😭 She messed around and found out 🤦🏾♀️
Yep she was definitely pick me💀
They always think they’re the exception and not the rule😂
@@Judi590she knew he was a nazi and went with him.
LMAO😂😂😂
Rich men should scare you.
Quality of character is everything.
The amount of money is not scary. You should say men without good manners are scary. Rich or not.
Rich guys come with a certain type of personality. Seeking power and dominance.
@@teleportmanteau The poor guys come with low self esteem and are ready to break a woman down so they can feel masculine. I have dated rich and poor but to me its the same shit. I am not intimidated by a rich guy because I value myself more. It is the poor guys who scare me because they start looking at my money and properties and ask for them in jokes. I guess it has more to do with your tax bracket because who is rich to you may be average to me. Wealth also has a limit because there is only so much you can buy or do.
Under this type of capitalism. Have an ton of money already calls into question your character
@@teleportmanteauSay the quiet thing aloud.
Most of them are Narcs. I'm glad Nick Cannon is accepting his diagnosis.
Diddy is KANG MALIGNANT NARC. I feel so sorry for his daughter because they've been groomed and primed for the picking for men like him. I pray for their safety, I pray for the narc spell to fall off of them so they can have some sense and date people prospective that genuinely loves and cares about them. It's gonna be a hard road ahead.
I’d rather have no billionaire man than a billionaire man like that. Materialistic things can’t control me
Absolutely! It's pointless if he's gonna be stingy and/or make your life miserable.
even if you marry rich you still EARN every dollar
💀 I'm not paying bills with a billionaire husband
Right!😭
I think I can see why he wanted her to go back. He knew she was a powerhouse because he wanted more exposure. He knew she was the right one to stand by his side because she was adored by millions.
He wants more exposure for his brand
Look at my case...I do pay for absolutely everything in this planet (Thank GOD!!!!), and as a consequence, there is a list of men after me....They do not want their women, and of course NOBODY can tell me what to do...They can invite me to their wedding with them at anytime...and stop going after me...
I do NOT need them!!!.
Is she fking crazy😂💀☠️🤡💩
Dusty is more of a mindset than a money amount.
Selfish men creating broken homes and having multiple baby mama's is showing a broken busted mentality.
True
Absolutely!
What do we call the women who date them? Dustpans?
@@ShockgueyYes.
Being a respectable man is something that money can’t buy
I didn’t realize that Helena was pregnant the same time as Salma. It’s a mess. Salma is definitely the glue in that family.
She really is! I hope at least the kids appreciate her 😟
I have dated so many men.. and the richer they are, the meaner and least respectful of women. Think about that.
Dang, that does seem to be the pattern. A sweet rich man would be ideal haha, but a sweet normal guy is better than a mean rich one!
I’ve had the same experience.
Securing the bag actually means getting a GENEROUS man, not just a man with money! There’s a lot of men who are as stingy as they are wealthy, such as Trump and Elon.
Yep! They're a perfect pair haha
You should do a background story on Trumps exes. Ive read that hes not just a womanizer but physically abusive as well.@chokoladkallc
Trump isn't known to be stingy with his ex-wives or with his current wife, Melania. By all accounts, he's extremely generous and kind-hearted. Privately, he has carried out numerous acts of kindness for regular members of the public, whose downtrodden stories he had seen reported on TV, and for some celebrities too. For example, after Jennifer Hudson's family members were shot dead in 2008, he put Jennifer and other family members up in his Chicago hotel for free while they were attending the funerals and organised for them to have 24/7 private security... About 3 days after 9/11, Trump went down to Ground Zero with his own assembled team of helpers to provide assistance in the rescue and clean-up. Trump has a big heart. ❤ Don't believe the media's portrayal of him.
@@ciarakristos111 thank you for saying this, I'm so tired of the way people are sooo scared of him for basically no reason other than what CNN said. Let's learn to do our own independent research
Hearing about Elon and his hundreds of billions moving the trial to Texas so he could cap his child support at $2K a month made me sick.
women chasing billionaires is wild. You know how cold and clinical most rich folks are? I work in finance and they are some of the most narcissistic cold sociopaths you will ever meet
Yeah, billionaires are scary lol. It seems that at worst they're heartless, and at best they're just too busy to have real relationships.
Exactly….. idk what’s so desirable….
It’s wild but some women really want the super yacht lifestyle, Miranda Kerr is an example
I have a soft life making my own money and no man disturbing my peace 🥰
Yasss that's awesome! 🥰❤️
This the one right here!!! ❤
Don’t say it loud. They be coming for you
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Perfect life!!
Grimes was such a burst of light and energy and I legit feel like Elon grabbed her and sucked that out of her for his own benefit. She very clearly wasn’t pursuing motherhood and yet here she is, going through a gruelling court process to get custody of three kids that will tie her to this man forever. Her prolific songwriting took a huge hit from it all and she lost so much credibility and respect amongst fans and people in the industry. If she had focused on herself, I think she would’ve achieved so much more. And maybe then if she grew to want kids, she could’ve had them when she was ready and with a guy who doesn’t have secret kids with his co-workers and constantly humiliating her.
Did Elon force Grimes to have kids? Elon had several kids with two different women by the time he got with Grimes. I think Grimes kind of knew what she was getting herself into. Not here to defend Elon because he's not a good person. But we need to accept that these women are willing to have children with these type of men.
@@ireriramirez9330I agree with both opinions
He's a narcissistic energy vampire.
@ there is an undeniable power imbalance between the two and Grimes has talked multiple times that she didn’t fully understand what she was getting into and that she didn’t understand how much motherhood was going to affect her. Being pregnant was a nightmare for her and she said that she didn’t identify with the word “mom” or “mother”. On top of her saying that having unprotected sex felt weird for her and it felt like she was giving away her power, it doesn’t seem like she had been having nice discussions with Elon about how she dreamed of having babies and that she fully wanted lots of children. Yes, she’s an adult and in my opinion made poor choices but I do think she was desperate to please this man and he used it as a form of currency.
@@ireriramirez9330 I agree. Women don't always need to be victims. They are making these decisions themselves, women aren't dumb for people to constantly act like they were "tricked" into these relationships and becoming mothers, they made the decision, it was just a bad decision.
I know how this feels. Recently dated a multimillionaire. He originally agreed to financially help me and then all of a sudden changed his mind. He didn’t want to give me anything. Not even a gift. Said he wanted someone who was an equal financially. I was so annoyed by this. He definitely was a stingy dusty.
Also, his ex-wife, who was his financial equal, divorced him and left him with their 2 children because she was overworked being a millionaire career woman and a mom at the same time. She wanted a break and he didn’t let her lol. Now he’s a single alone with 2 kids.
Oh wow! His loss ✌🏽✨️
he was just ur boyfriend ... not ur dad. why would he need to financially help u
@ I met him on a sugar dating website.
@ I met him on a sugar dating website
First mistake. Make your own money. Why would you want to have that held over you and taken away at any time.
Dusties in all income brackets 😢
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That's why character is so important! But some of these dudes do a bait and switch fr
True that!
As a south african even the whole country don't claim elon
Another South African here I can attest to that.
Just take him back, we don’t want him here in Texas. Besides his minions.
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We don't know that man
@ I’m a several generation Tejana, I can speak all I want. Not everyone is a d rider for that Mad Tv looking character who treats people like objects. Ask him to take you to mars as well and never come back.
8:25 Salma: I'm not a feminist
Also Salma: I'm (proceeds to give an example of feminism)
Oh, Salma 😭
She knows what she is doing. She is a feminist. But she has a male following/audience. So she isn’t but repeats the definition of it to fool her male audience.
People don’t get to be billionaires by caring for others. Having that much wealth shows exploitation of others and the lack of depth to use your wealth to make this world a better place
People give 0 fucks about children. Idc about the morality of having children before marriage but when people are ok to have kids with another person BUT THEN GET COLD FEET MARRYING THEM, what is you doing????
People really out here playing fast and loose with another persons life, the child, but be REAL conservative about their own.
Exactly! It's baffling when people say marriage is so scary and they have commitment issues, but will attach themselves permanently with a child 🤦🏾♀️😭
@chokoladkallc, seriously crazy backward thinking!
This!! 😢
If children could immediately hold their parents accountable trust me people would be more conservative with having them
Please take the time to master written literacy.
Just like this Ballerina farm lady who was chased by the son of Jet Blue. He did not want to wait a year till marriage as she wanted. She married him on his terms. And their life is not something I would envy.
That's right! I forgot that he comes from a wealthy family, too. Narc + money is a dangerous combo 😳
like what’s even the point of having a wealthy man if you have to work like a ragged servant
right? what is even the point of marrying a rich man if you cannot even enjoy your own wealth? hes so disrespectful to her and she works till exhaustion.
her life is my nightmare lol
@nanomia 8 kids and she has to play stepford wife. Can’t even do a trip to Greece that she wanted, but he makes her say thank you for an egg apron. Nightmare indeed.
Elon, like most men, sees women as breeders and appliances. Will women ever understand this 🤦? It's only been centuries of global proof 😩.
Literally! He uses them for their wombs and eggs 😫
And it’s like for whyyyy? Men don’t even want to be fathers so why are they so pressed to make women mothers
Let them learn the hard way
@@irene4633 these women are not dumb they want the child support. His employee had his child. they were not even really dating they were just compatible I guess and she wanted to secure the bag.
Having children with broke men is dumb tho.. Like why?
@@eyalreiss294100 they are not dumb and want the child support. There will always be women chasing rich unavailable men to get 💰 and it’s irresponsible to have kids with them cus if he’s not even a good partner to you, what kind of father would he be to the kid? They will learn the hard way
With the amount of money that Salma's husband has. I think being a stay at home wife is more than reasonable. There's men, breaking their backs at work, and doing the most so that their wives can be sahm, of course, there's exceptions, but the ones that I know would support their wives decision if they want to go back to the work force. Its all about balance and priorities especially if you truly love and respect and trust someone.
and calling a mother's work LAZY? lmao byee
Idk, I think it’s even more crucial for women who marry into wealth to have financial independence and a career because these men can & have strip these women of their autonomy and make their lives a living hell.
@@Lilporkianais being a stay at home mother’s work lazy? No. Does it provide a woman financial protection when and if her husband divorces her or worse dies? No, it doesn’t.
For real. I don't want to have a child with a man who cannot financially support or morally agree with a mom being stay-at-home. It is a full time job and plus the mother gets to have all eyes on the child and their development. If I were to get a job, it would HAVE to be like a flexible small business where I can take care of both my child and business while at home.
@@Lilporkianaso much for lazy and yet a nanny is needed to take care of the kid full time, a cleaner is needed to maintain the house, a chef to take care of meals. Being a mom is several full time jobs at once. Men who don't understand this should not have children.
I heard about Salma's husband not wantjng her to stop working on Wendy's Hot Topics. But I had no idea how bad he did her. Salma has managed to spin every terrible thing he did and said into something positive or benign. I've done the same thing myself, so I do feel for her.
Yeah, a lot of us have been in her shoes 😢. It's sad to see someone else go through it. It's like she's gaslighting herself.
Right, she is spinning it so he "loves her independence and thinks it's sexy" but it sounds like he treats her like a lucky gold digger and nothing more.
@@311girlhe seems to treat her like second class, why is she still with him?
@@cateyu5547 she's probably insecure and thinks this is her last chance at love.
A man may have money but his character is still more important
Absolutely! Good character is priceless.
Bearing a billionaire baby, and still paying bills? Effff that!
Yep! I love your Frida profile pic btw!
I heard billionaires are stingy like that
That’s idiotic work 😠
@@nanomia That's because they only were able to get where they are by being p s y c o s. There's no other way. So marrying one is in itself a huge red flag about the person marrying.
Elon is giving Nick Cannon energy
They have the same amount of kids.
Yep! Insecure men. A harem of baby mamas. 12 kids. Giving the kids unusual names. They have so much in common 😪
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Funny how no one talks about it tho. I’m sure it’s not common knowledge like with nick - all garbage men should be exposed
@@alias4506 yh they don’t call them baby fathers when they yt. They don’t class it a broken home when that dad a billionaire but I’m sure his kids might disagree
"It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the Kingdom of God.”
That's powerful!
Good thing rich people made up god so they could control the poor lol. Trust me I hope there’s a god but he certainly isn’t doing much about these losers in this life. 🙄
Elon is funny af, why not date your exact type, blonde snd submissive, why bother all these women that are not his type
That's a great point! I think he just likes to conquer them 😭😭😭
@@ChokoladkaLLC the caged Bird theory. It's a pattern that keeps occurring
Lots of men (even rich/wealthy ones) can’t get the girl off their dreams so they go this route
Because he wants the satisfaction of controlling, changing, and caging a free bird!!
I thank you on behalf of all blonde women. With women like yourself we sure don't need to fear prejudice from men. 🙄
told my boyfriend all this that elon did to grimes, my bf doesnt know who grimes is, but his eyes filled with tears. Its true money doesnt buy class, it does breed evil tho
Aw, he sounds empathetic 🥹
I don’t care if you don’t love the mother, once a baby is involved you should step up for your kid. Smdh. Anyway this video was so informative. Amazing 👍🏾
I totally agree! And thank you 🥰❤️!
They both don't consider themselves feminists, congrats girls, u won big time
They really played themselves 😭😭😭
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Herein lies their problem...decenter men.
Salma saying she’s not a feminist, then going on to define feminism 🙃She would not be even able to have a bank account without feminism.
the thing about the moroccan football player signing his properties to his mom... that's not just done by rich men! my cousin's father signed away ALL of his property , including his car, to his disabled sister as SOON as he got divorced from my aunt! now he gets both tax credit AND doesn't pay half of the child support he should!!!! he's middle class. if men want to fck u & their children over *THEY WILL* .
thank you for this video. i am so saddened by salma having to work so quickly after having a difficult pregnancy- shame on that man, also he DEFINETELY knew about that french law before doing the 'romantic' get away
Y'all please write down what you want to walk out of the marriage before you get married and also write down the names of your properties so if he decided to write down something for his mom he will go to the jail
Omg that's so sad! It's amazing, the lengths they will go to 😭😭😭
Yes! All of these things need to be established before marriage (and babies 😫)!
Salma has always been a very ambitious woman but in Latin America she's known as a Gold digger, she's also known to be very arrogant in her beginnings. Linda knew exactly what she was doing, no one is a victim here. Just saying
lol sprinkle sprinkle really is coming to an end if Salma Hayek has to work
Ikr 😭😭
Shera said a rich man doesn't equal a generous man
@@flourishejimole8354truee that’s why she insists on marrying/ dating a provider.
Linda doesn’t fuck around.
She threatened not to walk for luxury brands if they continued to be racist and alienate Naomi Campbell. This was in the 90s.
She doesn’t tolerate nonsense.
Linda is the only women covered in this entire breakdown who wasnt going. She’s also the only women who got what she wanted monetarily out of Francios, and wasn’t even married to him. Shes hardcore and doesn’t care about men. Women like her always win in the end. Being agreeable does not get you what you want. Take notes ladies.
I actually dated an older man last year, he was really rich. Although I'm pretty sure he choose me cause I was (still) very young and manageable. Rich men are hell. In my experience they always want some sort of control etc, no matter what. The stereotype their lives are fucked up exist for a reason. Not saying all rich men are bad or make you go through hell itself (I'm currently dating a wealthy boy who's the sweetest person around) but especially when there's a big socioeconomic difference it's hard. Their mothers were always thinking about me as some sort of gold digger ☠️ even if I never asked for absolutely anything.
Honestly, this was so good. Great and clear advice. (Coming from a woman who married a very kind and generous man 16+ years ago)
Thank you so much!! 🥰❤️ I love to hear that you have a kind and generous man, too! ✨️
Imagine being a billionaire and not wanting to support your offspring. What a sick individual.
Yep, it's truly baffling.
A true hypergamous girl never settles for a cheap, withholding and abusive man. Be impressed by how well he treats you, for his success alone is absolutely worthless if he doesn't generously share it with you. Good character and money is the golden combo for us true hypergamous women💯💯💯
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Agreed!!
Us sis us❤
That soccer player’s case is a showcase of misogyny. Men have praised this man online without even looking up why his wife divorced him. Turns out this man r*p*d a woman in France, yet he is seen as a hero for keeping money from his wife. Why would it be admirable for a man to leave nothing to a woman that carried his child, and gave up her own career for him? Shameful!
I definitely agree that his ex-wife shouldn't have to walk away with nothing after having his children. It'd be very disappointing if his mother didn't give some of that money to her grandkids.
Such a great lesson, sis 💕 I learned a lot about Salma which I never knew.
It seems like so many people, get into committed relationships before getting to even know their partner.
These are the results, when one chooses money over morals.
@s.ivainesu Yes, in Salma’s case a little different.
In general , especially with celebrities, they discover the lack of discipline and/or moral compass their partner never had- afterwards. Or the love of money/fame that overshadowed their vision.
Thank you, girlie!!! 🥰❤️
That is such a great way to put it! Good morals can't be substituted for any amount of money.
@@ChokoladkaLLC 🥰 Indeed sis, you’re absolutely correct 🤗
He’s terrible but he seems honest and transparent about how terrible he is. 😅
Tbh, it is hard to feel bad for anyone who gets played by him at this point. There's so much public evidence of him being a bad person. 😭😭😭
Salma seems to be very humble with a very big heart. People make mistakes everyone. No room to judge. Be grateful all your mistakes aren’t blasted to the public. No woman is to blame for a man being wicked. Love can really blind you to someone’s flaws.
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Honestly this scares me. My SO comes from a wealthy family, he never showed signs of stinginess and has a provider mindset but men as masters in terms of disguise so... I make sure to be independent myself because I value myself but being that type of situation really sucks...
They're not all bad, so I hope that works out for you, and he continues to be good. Sounds like you have a good plan to stay independent and keep an eye out! ❤️
Hstve your own bank account
@ Of course I do. Two even. And a business with my own name.
@@ChokoladkaLLC Sure will and most importantly. Put God first. 🙏🏾
Can you imagine going 50/50 with a BILLIONAIRE? SELMA, SELMA, SELMA...WHAT ARE YOU DOING SIS? 😬
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Sorry but why did Grimes have to go and make two more kids with this man... Why....
Great question 😭
Yep . I though she only had one until recently and they gave them those ridiculous names.
@@valerie6709those names also say that the kids are an accessory to them. Why would name your kid something that can get them bullied or ostracized at school?
Elon wonders why very smart women tend to have no children or only one….. He really is not that smart to question why more educated and intelligent women tend to not prioritize family and marriage.
Absolutely he's aware
Indeed. He is a very very dumb man.
Exactly! He only sees what he wants to see 🤦🏾♀️.
Intelligent Women DO prioritise Family and Marriage !!!
Unintelligent women prioritise office jobs that get them no where but dy’ing alone with a bunch of cats.
To be an intelligent Woman , doesn’t mean you must marry or have kids with the Biggest Loser around, just cause he has money! That’s NOT intelligence!!
22:53 the hypocrisy! I said before and I'll say it again men with daddies issues are THE WORST! they love to joke about women with daddy issues because it's a projection. My grandfather was a horrible father to my dad he describes him as cold and sadistic but guess what? my dad is so narcissistic and sociopathic he made us live through hell he's just like his father
Oh absolutely! Generational trauma is so devastating 😢
Yes they are!!!
Soo true, very sadistic men who love seeing women suffer 😢no matter how rich they are.
Men with dominant mothers and/or fathers who were absent in some way are also very problematic and more likely to have a personality disorder, in my observation.
I've been in this kind of red flag situations MANYYYY times before I found my husband. First was a dude in college who didn't pay on first date. Second was a boyfriend who was way older than me and although he bought me nice gifts he wouldn't commit to a marriage. I also remember a guy who said he wanted 50/50 and his girl working even if they have kids (only 2 kids) and said BYE right then and there. The next was my LDR ex who asked me to wait for another more 2 years and we haven't even seen each other in person in already a year. I ended all those relationships. Yes it messy but its ALLL WORTH IT once you find the right man.
Could u explain how u met ur husband x
I'm sorry you had to deal with those dusties, but I'm so glad to hear that you found the right man in the end! 🥰❤️ It really is worth the wait.
Wow I was told single motherhood was a black thing… tsk tsk 😂
Yup, ppl like to say that, but it's an everyone thing! 😭
Historically/ culturally Yt men are the original dead beat dads
Other races hide it because they are ashamed
Too many men like this.
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Why doesn't he just date a blonde instead of forcing brunette women to dye their hair??? He's a literal billionaire!
It is not about who you are, it is about how he can control you and push your boundaries.
@@AdaBlack-w7l I don’t know, sorry for your trouble. I barely comment though normally.
If a man isn’t going to pay all my bills and the household bills plus give me money monthly to do as I please…it’s a no for me. Idc how rich he is
Exactly! It's pointless to be with a rich guy if he's not sharing any of those riches 🙅🏽♀️
Lol why, just for some 🐱? Nah I think we're good here, i aint paying for shit. But you might get lucky with other guys that are mentally still caught up in the 1980s.
Also @ OP thinking most men would fall head over heels over salma hayek: maybe 15 years ago. Time does us all in. The shit u like about us men isnt what we like about you women. And no one gets to stay around forever. Why should a wealthy man go after a late 30, mid 40 y o with baggage instead of a 21 y o that can still actually conceive his children naturally.
@@max0304All those women were able to conceive his kids. Most young women are having fertility issues too. There’s no point dating an older man especially when most of you have swimmer decline after 25.
@@max0304 old men thinking they have still got it is the reason we have so many autistic and special needs kids being born
@@max0304I mean young women still have baggage. It’s a hard world for everyone young or old. If you base your relationship on worldly desires like how “fertile.” A woman is. Or how much “baggage.” She has or how much she will benefit you as if you’re investing in the stock market, you will never find love. Maybe you don’t want love, and just a business partner in life, and that’s fine, but don’t project that onto other people who want the real thing. Having values is wonderful, but those values shouldn’t only be physical things. Because what will you do when you meet someone who has all the physical things you desire but emotionally you are unfulfilled? You aren’t happy? If you don’t care about happiness that’s fine, most people do. So careful in generalizing all men and all women, and what people desire out of them.
Calling your own child your emotional support human is crazy 💀
He doesn't even hide it 😭
Insane, he needs a therapist, and all his kids gonna need one too
The handful of wealthy men I've interacted with have all asked if I owned my own business because, simply put, the women they actually date (not just sleep with) are career oriented. They don't want to be seen as dating down amongst their rich friends and also don't want to support anyone. I mean honestly do these guys seem "generous" or "kind" to you? lol
@ I’m not sure what about my post required such a snarky reply…I was simply stating my experience. ✌🏻
Every single woman shoukd be subscribed to this wonderful channel. I wish i had this information when i was young!
Aww, thank you so much! That means a lot to me 🥰❤️
Facts!!! 💯
Wait, Salma said her expenses before the wedding are HER expenses??? And he said I know that’s why I want to marry you!?!? Jeepers creepers😳😬
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I’m beginning to think Salma only gives off a strong independent woman image but that she puts up with this suggests behind that image she’s maybe not
The solution is women need to stop valuing rich men.
Yep, the real value lies in character. He needs to be able to provide too, but it doesn't take 7 or 8 figures to do that.
I didn't know ANY of this about Salma, this woman is an angel on earth and I feel strangely upset on her behalf over her husband being so horrible.
Can we talk about how Elon basically used love bombing on the women we has been with
He sure did!
That is a common strategy for a narcissist (all sociopaths and psychopaths are automatically narcissists).
50\50 with a billionaire!? Brah….. that’s straight up cheap
Elon and Grimes had a name planned for their daughter, but somehow Shavon’s daughter ended up with that name. Wonder how…
Shavon sounds petty af
Reminds me of Sumner Stroh. Major ick.
My ex did that to me too.
Yes! I wonder if Shivon knew, or if Elon orchestrated it to pit them against each other.
Omg I forgot about her 😭
Lets not forget that horrible campaign Balenciaga had, where they implied a lot of child 4bus3, that man is sketchy
That campaign was so gross 😫
Crazy how they called it art
It was sickening and deplorable
I always gave Salma’s husband the side eye for what he did to Linda Evangelista. I always thought he was 🚮 for what he did to her. 🤮 He was never a catch, so not sure how Salma viewed him as her soulmate. 🙄
She spells it like this: $oulmate lmao
@@311girl this. I am sorry, but I have difficulties believing her "I am a feminist Latina, a survivor in this jungle" narrative. Seriously? Have you checked most of her roles? I loved her in Frida, but... and another thing, she might be a good person towards her husband's other family, but would she even look at him if he was not François Henry Pinault? And by the way, every woman who dates/marries a millionaire or billionaire should be smart enough to work and pay her bills. You never know what lies ahead in the future (look at all the former trad wives).
Linda Evangelista played the child card after knowing him four months! I call that entrapment. She gambled and lost. It’s the oldest trick in the book and Pinault refused to be roped in.
@ellenmorse8559 I wonder what would have happened if he had worn a condom. Granted, pregnancy can still happen, but he isn't innocent by any means.
The short answer is money unfortunately.
Im so rich having jesus in my life. I dont crave or hunger for what others have. I want my blessings. Living in peace and privacy is the ultimate goal. Stress free, drama free, manipulation free
That's a beautiful way to live! ❤️🌟
I know that's right!!! 😊
Main reason they go to young ones is because they don’t know yet.
Yep!
You are the big sister I never had.
For me, it was the part where you said don't collect red flags and leave at the first sign. That hit me so hard.
Thank you for being so kind and honest.
Aww that means so much to me 🥹❤️ Thank you for your kind words and support!
I’m convinced he wants to get back at the girls that rejected him through these women. A loser
That could be it. It definitely seems like he gets enjoyment out of hurting them.
Exactly, he’s such a weirdo and a damn loser
If I learn something from my dating and love experience, this is NEVER dye your hair for someone else.
You should do this only if you really want your hair to be a certain color. Only for you. Be yourself. If someone is asking you to dye your hair certain color, run 🙏🏼
Im dating a man that owns gas stations and a car dealership and he is soooo cheap! And idk .... they really are super cheap
Why date him?
But you’re giving him your most expensive good? ( in his eyes)? Think about it
Many other women are grateful you're keeping that dusty entertained so his time for badgering them is limited
YES QUEEN. Finally a girl with a good mature head on her shoulders dropping some real woman wisdom on the young girls. I’m 33 and I’ve been saying this for years. 👏👏👏👏 applause for the entire thing- especially the final message: BEWARE AN EXTREME POWER IMBALANCE, look for a man of good character and be a woman of good character, and promiscuous sex with powerful men is NOT empowering.
Thank you, Queen 🥰❤️!!
I remember reading Justine’s article about their marriage and being shocked on how horrible he was to her ( I wasn’t familiar with him). Especially after her miscarriage he acted so abusive to her. I have so much sympathy for her.
She went through a lot, being with him 😢
A lot of women need to be held accountable for their actions, they definitely saw the signs but either they thought they were different or they could change these men.
Absolutely. The way they treated their exes was a huge 🚩
Guys but women really go through A LOT to keep their relationship "stable". I just can't imagine or see myself being the one pushing the relationship like this. It needs to be mutual, if not than what's the point of us even having a romantic relationship?
Exactly!
This is one of the most well done videos I’ve come across in quite some time. Full of great story-telling, research, and wisdom at the end. Brava dahling 👏🏾
Aww thank you so much! I really appreciate that! 🥰 ❤️
Salma had her own money. Out of all the men she could have chosen, why him?
Love is a powerful drug 😭
Forced to work, paying bills, married to a billionaire? I'd rather be with a man who earns less but is willing to pay for it all, and doesn't spread his seed across the globe. Smh🤡
I can’t believe these histories are peoples lives! What the heck were they thinking? This is a masterclass on how to ruin your life. Unbelievable. Thank you for the content. ❤
Thank you for your support!❤️ And ikr! Who needs soap operas when real life is like that 😭😭
@@ChokoladkaLLCtotally
This is all excellent advice, but speaking from experience, you will never know who your man truly is until the chips are down. Or until the baby is born. Or until he has to step up under pressure. They can spend years maintaining a false image of themselves.
You get what you accept. In ALL your relationships. With your friends, family, colleagues, etc. Make a list of what you want out of your life, set goals, make your boundaries clear and pick YOU first consistently so no one questions IF you will because they already know the answer. Until you have a dependent (child) you do not have a dependent, you may have an adult you provide for and that's cool, but you have no obligation unless you created that person.
He got her pregnant while he also got another woman pregnant = how nasty and extremely disrespectful of that guy! Girls, Ladies, we need to learn how to really vet men so that we will never take on those "romanticizing/glorifying glasses". So many men are egoistic, psychologically/emotionally immature and can suck out your beautiful life force. Only healthy men (emotionally.. on all levels) deserve our soft, lovely feminine energy. ❤️🌹
I ain't working while married to a billionaire hubby😂
He knows damn well Salma could have any man she wants. That’s why it works
Great video, thank you. My natural reaction to all these men is "ew", I hope men start to evolve soon.
Thank you!❤️ I hope so, too.
Wow! Even billionaires be dusty! 😮
Yep! Dust doesn't discriminate 😭
I feel it's a shame that Salma fell for this guy. And her gut feeling was telling her! He doesn't deserve her and that's "lazy girl " that's crazy!!!! So many women are staying at home mamas especially in that age and no one shame them. And he dares to call HER lazy - that's abusive manipulation. I think she's too kind and too soft and cheerful optimistic generous with her love and doesn't see what he really is.
This video is spot on. And to add…. Speaking from first hand experience, and through many other acquaintances with the same experience, it’s the same if during the course of the relationship the man becomes rich and powerful. It will most likely have the same ending. Doesn’t matter what you sacrificed for him, your financial and emotional support for him to reach his dreams, he might turn into a brand new monster of a human. Absolute power corrupts absolutely 100% of the time, no matter if they were a decent person at some point.
Nice video! Very well analyzed! "Know your worth"
Thank you so much! ❤️
Salma sounds like such a sweetheart ❤
Ask her how her husband makes his money😮
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She seems to have a really big heart!❤️
This oddly brought to light that everybody has problems.Literally, money doesn't make anything better.Some situations it makes things worse.
feminism is about equality btw
Yep
Ma’am! This is such an excellent essay, so true and I’m shook to know how many kids are kept from their moms over this.
A generous man and a God-fearing man is more important than a rich one, many high earning dusties in the world, speaking from experience
Yes, his heart is most important! Let's hope she gets what she deserves ❤️
Why did she have a baby via surrogate if they had broken up?
Yeah, that wasn't a wise decision. 😭 Maybe she thought another baby would change things. It never does.
You're right about not ignoring the 1st red flag and not marrying someone with no moral compass‼️
wait a sec, Grimes kept having children with him despite him having multiple children with different women, is she ok? on top of that moving into a new relationship while simutaneously fighting for her children"s custody? I'M SORRY WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!
Right 😭 She has some interesting priorities.
These women should be given war medals after dating Musk, dude sounds like a nightmare. HelI, give the poor kids a medal as well for having the misfortune of him being their dad.
Thank you for this very sober and practical reminder! I’ve been so sick of an influx of content online that encourages women to go after rich (and older) men no matter what. Extremely dangerous advice especially to young women.
I agree with you completely on what we can do to protect ourselves and look out for each other!
Thank you! I'm glad you liked it, and I appreciate your support! 🥰 We definitely have to protect ourselves out here. ❤️