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Thank u for speaking on this weird normalized baby mama culture that happens to successful incredible women. Know your worth and don’t settle down for love settle down for long term commitment.

4:34 yikes 😬

You build together !!! I’m not sure why women are doing this maybe they seeing this at home but I was raised in a both parent home and my dad did everything!!!! Whatever my mother did was a plus and it’s the same in my house . Hopefully my children are watching cause this is ridiculous seeing women propose to men, take care of men and etc then boom he’s gone to give the other woman what he should’ve gave you and another thing stop letting these men keep yall cars while you at work and he at home playing the game , chatting with women ! Y’all making it so easy for them and it’s so sad . They’re grown men not children !!!!

One of the points mentioned in this video is rotational dating. What if the guy in question Alexis was doing the same thing at the time. Would you also call that cheating 🤔. Please make it make sense

I would like a more gounded example. Cheating with celebs if access to celebs just feels like the obvious risk. I was cheated on for a woman 6 years older, 5 kids, his best friends wife, mentally unstable, easy to anger and "playfully" hit, but accuse her husband as violent for slamming a counter angrily, and a bigot. She then bragged to his friends (our mutuals) how she hooked up with some guy in a car while they were together (losing him a ton of respect among that group). All I could fathom is her instability as a person made him see himself as needed (also impromptu calls to help her all the time before we broke up) and feeling in control. My main instability was dating him. My other being irresponsible family and toxic work environment. Life is really boring otherwise since.

Wow he did Sabriya so dirty 😮

Still hattttttte Chris Pratt and I will never sway on that for leaving Anna 😤😤

Goes both ways. Man ahpuld also look for women who are not financial burdens.

aww precious lil baby at the end, i subscribed just for that <3

I’m only 6 minutes into the video, but I think he has a thing for ethnic/dark skinned women for sure, but I also think he’s attracted to strong & domineering black women…a lot of white men in high positions of power are into domineering black women, & I think his ex didn't cut it in that department & was probably more supportive & docile, which is beautiful, but not Mr powerful Ceo’s cup of tea probably- Horrible & sad that he stringed her a long & cheated on her, I hope she has found peace & finds someone deserving of her & stays healthy, she’s a very beautiful, accomplished, & smart woman & a survivor above all 💪 * ahhh so she has found love & has become a mother- so proud of her for overcoming so much & persevering; so happy for her, too!

Shacking up cautionary tale fr! She diddnt deserve to get cheated on like that. Hopefully she’s in a happy place!

Numba 5 😂

What? Girl Serena Got Money. lol. There was a comment in here that literally says men target high value women as well. That man didnt fall in love. He latched on to her as the previous commenter stated. ❤ Anyways.

I’m a Sagitarius and I used to build my ex’s up

Love the video focus

Don't do it girl its not worth itt🤡

Serena was 35 and the man married her. Better than any black man would've done.

Bravo Bria❤❤❤❤❤❤❤You did well to live peacefully. You are blessed beyou d being in publuc life. He used your energy to get to another. You are the light that shines. A man does not define you. You are not a placeholder but a woman who trusted and your trust was abused. You see loving someone is a gift. Never let someone call you a placeholder. He is a cheater. And one time in the near future we will hear how he he has been cheating on Serena.If you did not know, she will not know. This time round she will be about big money. A

This happened to me when I was in college. My high school sweetheart, who didn’t go to college, got me pregnant the end of my junior year during one of my visits back home during a break. I was doing very well in school and just pledged AKA. I was planning on attending law school but left school when I found out I was pregnant. I ended up moving back home to be with my boyfriend and had my son. We did end up getting married but I never reached the career success I dreamed of due to family obligations. We divorced after 17 years of marriage and three kids later. My ex-husband actually admitted that he got me pregnant on purpose for he felt that he was going to lose me while I was in college. I did finish school back home and ended up getting my MBA.

Every single one of these women CHOSE to have unprotected sex. I can’t see how anyone could feel bad about this. They’re grown and they made grown choices.

My sister stole my idea for a TH-cam channel. I’ll never trust her again. 💔

Elon is like is father

ah serena's baby was unplanned? she was 35 and married so I thought initially that she does not belong in this list. But hearing her speak about tennis breaks my heart. Sounds like she still felt she had more years of tennis left. She could have waited for 1/2 years to have the baby. 35+ pregnancies are called geriartic but it is as per the standard of fifties and sixties when peopl's life quality and medical technology was far developed. Nowadays having your first baby in late thrities and even early fourties is not a big deal. So yeah her taking more time to plan the pregnancy after fulfilling career goals and making sure her body (and mind) is ready for it considering her health history makes more sense.

What's with this crazy obsession with shaming *RICH* single mothers?!! All these women have resources at their disposal. They're fine. Besides: being married does not mean anything anymore!! Even married mothers *STILL* experience having to do it all on their own: hence the *_married single mom_* paradigm.

Elon should not be allowed to be around kids.

I don’t understand this. Serena can afford 10,000 surrogates.

People might hate sheraseven but she’s given some solid advice with these kinds of things. Have a degree (even if you don’t use it), get your license and have a car in your name, and have a seperate account that your husband gives you an allowance but has no access to take from. Men got mad about it but if you sign a “just in case” prenup, you’re also going to need to have a “just in case” security plan.

I think it's not about not building a man up, but growing with him, don't let yourself go, if he's growing, you should too. Don't be a cheerleader, or a housewife, be a partner, be by his side and at the same time work on yourself, and if after that, he still leaves, well... That's his loss not yours because you didn't get stuck in the past, you grew and you are your own person. The men in this video took advantage of their more successful partners, but I think it would be unfair to judge all men as the same because I KNOW there are men out there who truly cherish their partners and the help they gave them to be where they are now. And not only that, but they give back and support them back. So no, I have to disagree with not helping him grow because that can also lead to a toxic relationship of codependency or full dependency on his side. Just, don't give everything, find balance and hold hands while growing together.

I'm only less than 6 mins in, and the lesson I'm learning is not to date for 5 years.

Not just protecting yourselves, but choosing wisely ladies!!!

5555th likeeeee

Both Naomi and Halle were such a disappointment to me. Naomi had so much potential now she can't play like she used to.

Seems like all these women decided not to take control of their reproductive health. BC until you want to have a baby should be the rule for all women, not just famous women.

Why do you mention about zodiac sign?

Serena is a married woman. Please Take Her off the pic

Many woman "secure the bag" or ensure WAG status by getting pregnant- I hate it when kids are forced to be involved in their 💩 💩 💩 esp mothers who have them just to score $$$. Child support laws need to change, this sort of thing is enabled and when you let ppl know what they could get away w and they do it, that tells you who they are.

HOLY SH*TE that was her on WWYD? I always wondered who that was. It's great to hear her story and all that she's achieved. Heartbreak toughens you up.

He did it for the come up fame he’s not on her level so he is the MRS.

copycat / shapeshifter behavior is on point

When Vanessa said she is a go getter I instantly knew that was her problem. It’s fine to be that way in other aspects of life but not with a man. If he likes you he will approach you first. And if he loves you he will propose. Taking care of a man financially is a big no, (if he’s broke let’s be broke together 😂) as woman we can take care of a man in many other ways and financially ain’t one of them. If he’s a real man he won’t let you.

While I agree with the lesson I think the only reason Serena’s now husband moved the way in which he did with her is because she is “Serena.” I don’t think any woman could’ve gotten him to move like that. In my opinion her husband is giving groupie. IMO.

Whether you are a man or woman you shouldn’t hang on to someone who clearly doesn’t want to be with you. If you want to get married and your partner doesn’t seem to be moving towards that then just leave. It really isn’t about building a man up it’s about respect and boundaries/knowing what you want in life. And in a relationship/ marriage we need to build each other up. It’s not all take or give.

Great video 💯

I love the lessons you have presented in your video. Thank you! Well done. I had no idea how Serena and Alexis got together. No wonder Meghan Markle is best friends with Serena hahah

Men truly are the real gold diggers nowadays

Drake really went off the deep end haha. Aaliyah was the queen :( RIP beauty and Selena :( too many talents lost

I was wrapping up my thesis at University of Oxford when I was raped by a sperm donor in South Korea. The pregnancy threw my life into utter chaos. My PhD plans were suspended indefinitely. While I hate that I didn’t see his intentions from the beginning (I declined after meeting him) I am particularly perturbed by the fact that Korean laws facilitate rape: There, they do not legally recognize a woman’s right to say “no”. They want you to lose a few teeth and jump through a window in self-defense before listening. They only prioritize dead female bodies.

I’d rather marry a millionaire than a billionaire, they’re all crazy

I remember her from WWYD she is a special young woman

Wasnt Dwayne's the rock Johansson wife build him up just to end up as his manager today?