They hate themselves so they can't take accountability. No forgiveness for self means no forward progress. Fixing whatever happened with you is basically impossible.
Addicted to chaos causing and watching you have to deal with it is dark tetrad sadistic. The further you're in your zero contact the clearer the psychopathy becomes.
It was a weekly thing with my one, out of nowhere he argued and made a big deal about anything. Always making me feel bad, I now know that he loved it, he could never have any peace with me. I can't believe that this is what I suffered for 35yrs. Now divorcing and trying to understand what I went through. Thank God I am not with him. 🙏
Yuuuuup they argue to confuse. But if you are smart and quick you can nip everything in the bud. It leaves them in shock and unable to move. It takes effort though you have to do it with a lot of grace and simply be unattached to it emotionally. Is it worth it nope. It’s wasting your time for sure 😅 but they aren’t as smart as they think
My ex told me I like to argue . I said I’m not arguing I’m expressing a concern that I have and it happened to be about him and he would dismiss it and I will try to explain and he didn’t wanna hear it and he had blocked up and walls up and didn’t want to take an accountability
@@butterfliez2642 they never take accountability. I tossed my nephew out of my house when he wouldn’t take accountability for disrespecting me in front of other family members. When confronted, he attempted to shift the problem onto me, minimalizing what he had said, telling me to “stop.” I almost decked him, being so infuriated by his reaction
They argue even when you agree with them. They won’t let you escape the manufactured “argument”.
They hate themselves so they can't take accountability. No forgiveness for self means no forward progress. Fixing whatever happened with you is basically impossible.
Addicted to chaos causing and watching you have to deal with it is dark tetrad sadistic. The further you're in your zero contact the clearer the psychopathy becomes.
@@bradmcewen yep
It was a weekly thing with my one, out of nowhere he argued and made a big deal about anything. Always making me feel bad, I now know that he loved it, he could never have any peace with me. I can't believe that this is what I suffered for 35yrs. Now divorcing and trying to understand what I went through. Thank God I am not with him. 🙏
They use various techniques for evading accountability, including changing topic as soon as you provide an indisputable clinching proof.
Your mantra of "Taking your life back by making sense out of nonsense" has become our new family slogan.
Exactly!
Hours later and no resolution 😮
Low level psychosis -Richard Brannon
Grannon
@@mezlandia my bad. I knew that 😄
Yuuuuup they argue to confuse. But if you are smart and quick you can nip everything in the bud. It leaves them in shock and unable to move. It takes effort though you have to do it with a lot of grace and simply be unattached to it emotionally. Is it worth it nope. It’s wasting your time for sure 😅 but they aren’t as smart as they think
You shouldn't have to "win" conversations...
My ex told me I like to argue . I said I’m not arguing I’m expressing a concern that I have and it happened to be about him and he would dismiss it and I will try to explain and he didn’t wanna hear it and he had blocked up and walls up and didn’t want to take an accountability
@@butterfliez2642 they never take accountability. I tossed my nephew out of my house when he wouldn’t take accountability for disrespecting me in front of other family members. When confronted, he attempted to shift the problem onto me, minimalizing what he had said, telling me to “stop.”
I almost decked him, being so infuriated by his reaction
A total waste of time.