Gays Review HeartStopper | Episode 1 Live Reaction

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  • @AStoryWorthTelling
    @AStoryWorthTelling  2 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    ASWT here, reporting from Episode 8: our hearts melted 🥺❤️

    • @andre_p
      @andre_p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      We all love character growth. ❤ 👍🥰

    • @DannyRayqu
      @DannyRayqu ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Alex on episode 1: unrealistic this is way too cutesy
      Alex on episode 8: My baby Charlie don't hurt him!!!

  • @mariotorrealba4810
    @mariotorrealba4810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +806

    As an openly gay teacher in a Secondary school, I have to say this show hits a reality for younger generations. This is the way teenagers are today, you can't criticise a show based on your own experience 10, 15 or 20 years ago.

    • @masonasher9689
      @masonasher9689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I wish i could double like this comment...i graduated high school last year and this show is almost too relatable it will make anyone cry or smile

    • @dw7896
      @dw7896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Funny enough, I was Charlie's age and in secondary school nearly eight years ago now, and the group in the show is exactly what my friends were like, even if most of us were cisgender and straight. I think the show is just capturing the most wholesome, innocent, loving, often awkward, and imperfect teenage experience: the anti-Euphoria experience. It's beautiful.

    • @maisnamfinjita9304
      @maisnamfinjita9304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly. Times have changed.

    • @ceebee23
      @ceebee23 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I went through high school 50 years ago.... I was desperately lonely ... noone to confide in about sexuality ... queens, queers and poofs were dirty old men who hung around public toilets. Whenever gays were mentioned in the media it was in an intensely hostile way. Ironically a number other boys I knew also turned out to be gay but we could never have come out to each other. Fear kept us in our closets. If only we had a TV series like this in 1972!

    • @peterhandford5215
      @peterhandford5215 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@maisnamfinjita9304 some people tend to forget this is fictional drama, and not a documentary!!

  • @caarline654
    @caarline654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    There are definitely gay groups of friends in schools now! Sometimes they don't even start that way and we all just happen to realize we're not straight

    • @Nik-55
      @Nik-55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      exactly! like my middle school friend group is now filled with gay, bisexual, asexual, and straight people. We all told each other we were straight when we were younger until we came out in high school/college. Now that we're in college, we're befriending more queer people than straight people.

    • @benp3592
      @benp3592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      10 or so years ago when I was in high school I was not out. I knew one or two of my friends were queer, but most I had not idea either way. After years turns out more than half of them were LGBT in some way. We definitely find each other, but to be fair its probably the personality and openness draws us in.

    • @GreenRazzles
      @GreenRazzles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh my god same here!! In high school we all started out not knowing and then by the end of it we had someone to cover every letter in the acryonmn! 😍 And in primary school too! The friend group I had in my last few years, all of us have turned out queer - I'm not in contact with them any more but they'll pop up on social media occasionally and, im non-binary and asexual, one person's gay, one person's a lesbian, one person's bisexual and trans and idk it's just really nice to think that we found each other and we didn't even realise it 😍

    • @noordebr
      @noordebr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes exactly what happened to me & my friend group!

    • @a_lil_bit_shady
      @a_lil_bit_shady 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My friendship group is a perfect example of this, there's 8 of us and only 1 is straight but even her we have suspicions of being aro/ace so that means we'd have no one

  • @AmyAberrant
    @AmyAberrant ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Bear in mind that this is a show for youth that is meant to be wholesome, it’s not meant to be hyper realistic and grown up and depressing

  • @erinh9267
    @erinh9267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    they said 'hi' over several weeks, and the friendly rugby guy initiates a lot; it's weird for average tv to see, but it's a great way to show instantly a summary of several weeks of getting to be new friends with that guy who is assigned to sit next to you, AND it is perfect for a webcomic (think comic books) to tv show adaptation :)

    • @donabaypro6782
      @donabaypro6782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I did not realize that it was over weeks. Thanks

  • @averymedalia5932
    @averymedalia5932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Just to give you guys some context, the show is based off of a graphic novel series of the same name written by Alice Oseman (she/they). They were directly involved in the writing of the script and casting. A lot of the script was pulled directly from the books, which I highly recommend you read! The animation you see are references to those books. Overall a great show and I hope you enjoy it!

  • @gimmesumghosty5404
    @gimmesumghosty5404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    nick and charlie, highschool crush wise, are very accurate. idk about yall but id say hi to someone i like in the hallway everytime i see them too. it literally makes my whole day. also youd be surprised how accurate this show actually is. sure there are still homophobic people, but times are changing…
    not every lgbtq+ show has to be filled with sadness and drama. its quite refreshing finally getting a wholesome show that shows you loving can be easy. its also just refreshing gettjng a lgbtq+ show where the main “issue” isnt that the character is gay cuz other shows make it seem like a issue.
    we have this thing at my school called “gay-straight alliance” (very stupid name, but they mean well). anyway, its basically like a ally-lgbtq support group with teacher and students and its amazing. i feel like with my school, no one really cares whats going on with others everyones just friends with everyone and thats the amazing thing about that

    • @AStoryWorthTelling
      @AStoryWorthTelling  2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This support group you mention sounds amazing 🥰

    • @TheGav67
      @TheGav67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed. Sometimes when some golden blue-eyed god WAY out of our league unexpectedly befriends us (and it’s happened to me), sometimes it’s literally all the HI’s shared in passing that get the friendship started, build up the trust & familiarity, & open it up to more.

  • @jdd0815
    @jdd0815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    We definitely need more reactions! I’m not even ashamed to say in the 10 days it’s been out I’ve watched it 11 times and read the series 3 times. Properly obsessed.

    • @Tommy-dl6wj
      @Tommy-dl6wj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *Sigh of Relief* I thought it was just me.. lmao.

    • @mrinaldas2548
      @mrinaldas2548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel seen and represented. Thank you

    • @michaeladkins6
      @michaeladkins6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The two leads were on a morning show. The two week old video of the interview has almost 900k views.

  • @Leo-Galaxy
    @Leo-Galaxy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1029

    You guys are too hung up on the word "realistic", whatever that's supposed to mean. Everyone has different experiences. Just because it didn't happen to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen to anyone at all. This is supposed to be a hopeful, wholesome show that also deals with real issues, but apparently you just want every gay show to be sad, pessimistic and tragic. LGBTQ kids/teens NEED shows like this, and the fact that both of you don't realize it is astonishing to me.

    • @dielen2372
      @dielen2372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      There u go!!!

    • @dobdante
      @dobdante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      I couldn't agree more. Why do so many assume everyone's experience is just like theirs. I came out in the 1970's and my experience has been entirely positive. No bullies, no one i cared about; family, friends, colleagues had a problem with me.

    • @___DeVille___
      @___DeVille___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Thissss^^^

    • @Matt-zo9hi
      @Matt-zo9hi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      I don't think they realize how relatable this show is to kids TODAY. Especially kids this age. Granted it's only the first episode, but they had so many assumptions and gripes with the show even this early on. Baffles me honestly. Just goes to show that people are too "normalized" to shows that are WAY too dramatized and have adults playing teens.

    • @davidbodor1762
      @davidbodor1762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      This feels a tad bit too aggressive for no reason.

  • @hasturvoid
    @hasturvoid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    it's really sad how much you think that everything that is gay representation has to be sad and tragic

    • @thelastofthemachines
      @thelastofthemachines 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      That's actually the representation that's been given to us in the past. If you grew up in the 90's or early 00's, you'd know that what little representation we got was often dramatic, traumatic, and/or full of angst. Only recently have we just barely started getting some semblance of shows depicting LGBTQIA normalcy, grounded in happiness- not just pain. It's why shows like Heartstopper are vital to the community.

    • @boogerlui
      @boogerlui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      they grew up in a different time. I think once they open themselves up to the idea that times have changed, they might appreciate the series more.

    • @pearluniverse7878
      @pearluniverse7878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      right? it's really sad to see

    • @politicalblink
      @politicalblink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@thelastofthemachines ok and that was their and yOUR time....we are not in the 90's anymore are we.....

    • @thelastofthemachines
      @thelastofthemachines 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Just saying that's kind of why they're thinking sad and tragic. It's not as easy to get out of that mindset as you think. I understand why they feel the way they do.

  • @peerlesscucumber9522
    @peerlesscucumber9522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    i mean,, u gotta remember this is a completely different time and era, things have changed from your own time back when you guys were back in school. also looking from a perspective of "the hets already have many cute fluffy light hearted coming of age movies/any medias, that its so fresh to see the same thing for lgbtq+ community". and yes, definitely possible to have more group friends like that now. its pretty realistic from my perspective as someone who's a bisexual, i can relate to a lot of these characters (definitely not ben tho). i relate a lot to charlie personality wise.

    • @TiredHumanBeing
      @TiredHumanBeing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I relate to Tao and a little bit of Elle. Buts mostly Tao, and you didn't ask but just trying to relate Ig.

    • @peerlesscucumber9522
      @peerlesscucumber9522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TiredHumanBeing its okay, thats nice to know! i often feel so called out when i binge-watched this show the first time. like- charlie is sooo me, minus the part where he's apparently quite the jack of all trades part

    • @AStoryWorthTelling
      @AStoryWorthTelling  2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      So glad that things have changed in the last 10 years in schools, and it’s great to read about everyone’s positive experiences. Very true about having the same genre for the LGBTQ+ community

  • @Togiij
    @Togiij 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    as an outed pansexual- yes, yes I do have a group full of gays and 1 ally🥰

  • @richardperrett5380
    @richardperrett5380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It’s probably worth pointing out when you’re discussing the character Charlie that he’s only 14 at this point in the show.

  • @congaicuajaeian5890
    @congaicuajaeian5890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Gay stories don't always have to end sadly or tragically, happiness like this also exists in real life, it's just that maybe you don't experience it and different generations where it's about gen z ❤

  • @VIRamsey
    @VIRamsey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Heartstopper is not a sugar-coated serie: is a positive show. I read all the volumes of the graphic novel and in the end i wished i had the possibility to read it when i was younger, because it would have helped me figure out my sexuality in a more reliable and positive way. The author knows how to treat with care and respect the serious topics of a queer coming-of-age story, but she also offers a different view for all the teens and people who want to live their sexuality to their fullest in the most healthful way.
    For years i had the impression that the media mostly represented the queer people as some kind of exotic animal. The kind of animal we are interested in only when it acts "fabolous" or when we see how its life can be dramatic. Of course life can be dramatic. But there's a difference between showing a realistic but still hopeful and positive perspective and a miserable one. It's been done enough. Can we offer more positive and helpful models to the gay teens that nowadays only want to have a...normal life like everyone else? Because i think the majority want to aspire to a model that can improve the perspective of themselves. And if you're gonna read the novel (there's also online), i can assure you that Alice Oseman is going in a direction that is gonna help a lot of people.

  • @junocrespo1774
    @junocrespo1774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Lol them saying hi is like my favorite thing.

    • @jenniferbrinks6552
      @jenniferbrinks6552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The hi thing is actually an important plot point but you have to really know more before you understand that. I don’t want to give into detail because I don’t want to spoil the show for people who haven’t watched the whole thing but it sets Nick up as a counterpoint to Ben.

  • @Emma-vi1iw
    @Emma-vi1iw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    As a gay teenager, I can verify that both in private catholic school and public school I had a group of lgbtq people that I hung out with. The friend group in heartstoper it VERY accurate (personally).
    Also, in the catholic school two of the teachers (both female) were secretly dating and often let us gather in their classrooms! ☕️

  • @disnerdycanadianalex6379
    @disnerdycanadianalex6379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    You have only seen the tip of the iceberg. This show gave me all the feels and I wish we had a show like this when I was in high school. We have become sooo desensitized to see queer characters being side characters or that there always has to be drama and hate and a queer character getting killed/sexualized/beaten/outed/something bad is about to happen that it’s a shock when we get such a wholesome telling of how things could be. We need to change that status quo. I love this, I need more of this show and the graphic novels are incredible too

    • @Tommy-dl6wj
      @Tommy-dl6wj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I absolutely agree! I am ridiculously obsessed with the story and wish we had it when I was back in high school!

  • @fl0xtez
    @fl0xtez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    You guys are correct that most kids are not as mature as the characters in this show often act. I think more than trying to be realistic, it's trying to model healthy ways of communicating and resolving conflict. It's a theme through all the episodes where things that might blow up into massive drama on other shows are resolved relatively quickly through communication and maturity and supportive relationships.
    It's hella based and godtierpilled imo

  • @jaygatz4335
    @jaygatz4335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The best way to approach this series is to drop the cynicism and be open to a tale where the best of human nature is told through a relationship. There are plenty of other queer stories full of trauma and negativity - what a refreshing change to see good, decent characters cope with their identity and challenges in a positive and constructive way. Nick and Charlie are good and kind, and they support each other in their own ways. We rarely run into people like this in real life who are so consistent, but we are being shown what's possible, and that we can choose the high road. We are spared plot points like cyberbullying, or false, spite-fueled accusations being hurled at the characters - turn the channel if you're looking for that. (I understand that a season two would deal with Charlie's eating disorder - that would certainly add a more serious and relevant element to the story.) If you find it difficult to hear "Hi" so many times, dig deep and you may find its charm. Who knows, you may be won over by the end of the series.

  • @youtube_handles_are_annoying
    @youtube_handles_are_annoying 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    As someone of that age group/recently left that age group I would like to say that the kind of maturity shown in heartstopper is that far off from actual teenagers act. In fact this is far more accurate than other popular teen shows like Euphoria, Riverdale, and Outer Banks. Also, I think that showing teens acting mature like this sets a really good example for the teens watching the show.

  • @bettedavisweloveyou270
    @bettedavisweloveyou270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    13:29 who wants a heterosexual perspective in gay stories? Enough of that lol

  • @gimmesumghosty5404
    @gimmesumghosty5404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “at least hes fast he can get away” im dying, yall are so funny for no reason 😭😭

    • @hannamadhatter
      @hannamadhatter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pls i cackled at that part

  • @user-jt1fi1fg8c
    @user-jt1fi1fg8c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I agree with you that kids of that age aren’t always able to express things as maturely as the characters in this show do but I think for that reason it’s even more important that a show like this is on a platform like Netflix. It might be somewhat idealistic at parts but I think it acts as such a great role model for young people in how healthy relationships and friendships should work. I think if more young people grew up seeing show like this we’d have a lot less kids with the toxic homophobic mindsets we see in characters like Ben and Harry

  • @ernestomendoza8442
    @ernestomendoza8442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    You guys are over 30 years old so, there are 15 years of difference of your struggles of being gay and what happens today. We suffered a lot of bulling and we couldn't enjoy a teenager romance but, it's beautiful to watch that the time is changing and that the activism is working!!!

    • @AStoryWorthTelling
      @AStoryWorthTelling  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha not nearly 30 ;) But it’s lovely to read that people are having overwhelmingly positive experiences in schools now!

    • @ernestomendoza8442
      @ernestomendoza8442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@AStoryWorthTelling hahaha ok, then you need a spa day or something because you look older guys

    • @jackbirchall365
      @jackbirchall365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ernestomendoza8442 get those glasses checked because these boys are beautiful and don’t look a day over 25 x

    • @ernestomendoza8442
      @ernestomendoza8442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jackbirchall365 I didn't say uglies, I don't know why you are saying they're beautiful like pretending that I said something about it...

    • @garrettklein7720
      @garrettklein7720 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ernestomendoza8442 look in the mirror sweetie. Its not a pretty sight. Lol.

  • @RJTomer
    @RJTomer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Came back here after watching them watch the whole thing. It went from them yelling "who wrote the script?!?" to them weeping and speechless at the season finale lol

  • @vindifference
    @vindifference 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh my dear. We have been too traumatized by the real world of gay tragedies. We've conditioned ourselves to think we can't have nice things and shows have to represent that. Screw that, we deserved happiness and it's about damn time. We'll take it, even if a series has to show it to us before it's a common reality. And Alex, you need more hugs to warm your heart.

  • @ryannixon7174
    @ryannixon7174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How on earth can you not love how they say Hi to each other its adorable

  • @oswaldoocampo7655
    @oswaldoocampo7655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Not every gay story has to be sad and negative like every other form of media that portrays LGBT representation...

  • @captainKbobkeeshan
    @captainKbobkeeshan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There are already a plethora of shows, movies, etc. that has bulies and hetereosexuals and a hetero experience. If you want those, just turn the channel, you're bound to run into one. This is a nice, sweet, more positive LGBTQ+ experience being portrayed and is much needed.

  • @cdstar25
    @cdstar25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Wow. I managed to find a negative reaction for this show and it came from fellow gays of all people. How bitter do you have to be to dislike this show? Complaining that the show is not gritty enough? That there's not enough "straight" perspective? As if we haven't had enough of that already. 🙄

    • @bettedavisweloveyou270
      @bettedavisweloveyou270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Right? They definitely didn't understand anything the series wanted to express and explore.

    • @cirdanfromlorien
      @cirdanfromlorien 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These guys were so bored with the series they decided to record their reactions just because it's popular and it brings them views.. Lame..
      Sau cum am spune pe la noi... MIZERABILI!

    • @asjchy123
      @asjchy123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There is nothing negative about this reaction.

    • @ezequielmondada6427
      @ezequielmondada6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You are invalidating their experience, they didn't say they didn't like it, I love this series but you gotta keep in mind that majority of the queer community alive to this day have had bad experiences.

    • @kacey-leighgirling8743
      @kacey-leighgirling8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ezequielmondada6427 they're not invalidating anyone. Just because a lot of the community have had bad experiences doesn't mean everyone has. The show and webcomic/graphic novels are supposed to show the positive experiences of young queer kids. I get that most representation in TV and movies is in a negative light, but that doesn't make this show unrealistic like these guys think.

  • @The88royal88
    @The88royal88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I mean I get how y'all kinda want the story to be "realistic" but this series is fresh and steers clear from the stereotypical gay storylines where it always ends up either of the two main characters dying or breaking up...we need fresh lgbtq+ representations in books and films if we want people to see us in a different side.

  • @JonInCanada1
    @JonInCanada1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You were both cynical as fuck at the beginning, but I'm glad you realized it's not as "nice" as it first appears. It's worth a full watch.

  • @Amyduckie
    @Amyduckie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lol. if you don't like the "hi", you should give up now.

  • @jasonstamp10
    @jasonstamp10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    you definitely should watch the rest of the show. I've lost track of how many times I've watched the entire series and individual episodes. It's just as good and sweet and wholesome as the first episode. It makes you happy and joyful going through the journey with these characters. There are some incredibly sweet and romantic moments to come. The ending... oh my god the ending. I wouldn't worry too much about wondering if it's realistic or not and just go for the ride. It's such a contrast to the normal LGBTQ+ shows and movies where it's usually serious and dark and sad and traumatic. Heartstopper does have a little bit of that, and especially if there's a season 2 and they continue to follow the graphic novel, but it's done in such a loving way. Nick Nelson ends up being an amazing character.❤This show will help so many people and save lives. I wish I had something like this when I was growing up, as seems to be the sentiment of many older LGBTQ+ people reacting and commenting about the show.
    I was in high school in the mid-to-late 90s and had a tight core friend group of about 6 of us kind of like in this show. We had grown up together and went through all the years of school together. Turns out all of us were somewhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum in some way or another. We somehow just found each other and became each other's support way before any of us realized or came out.

  • @alayna.loves.yapping
    @alayna.loves.yapping 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As a teenager in school, Yes we do form small groups of queer people and it is very nice that we can all relate to each other (It the funniest thing we just search around and wait for our "gaydar" to go off)

  • @tegayle7961
    @tegayle7961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have to say I was surprised and a little disappointed in ur reaction to this series. I’ve watched many gay people/couples reactions and everyone of them could relate to what these characters went thru in high school and they were older and younger than both of u. They cried several times throughout the series and just loved everything including the animation which was included because it was based on a comic book series. Granted, not everyone has the same experiences but this series has already changed a lot of lives and is the perfect show for a young person to watch with their parents, friends, etc. So don’t judge it too soon and give it a chance.

  • @DavidEppersonMusic
    @DavidEppersonMusic ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wilhelm and Simon sure said "Hi" or "Hey" quite a lot in Young Royals...

  • @gloomysunday4230
    @gloomysunday4230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Your video is very interesting. IMO this show is important in that it's target adiunces are teenagers. By expressing the lgbtq+ community more lovingly and positively, it supports the teen queer who is currently wandering. It may seem a little unrealistic for those who have been in school a long time ago but I think there should be more optimistic and positive expressions about queers for the future gen. Wouldn't it be too unfortunate for teenagers to build a narrow view of gays by just watching Euphoria?

    • @ezequielmondada6427
      @ezequielmondada6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just a note: They won't because is not the main propose of the series the main propose of the story on euphoria is drug addiction and mental health, the second theme are abusive relationship, sexuality is not boarded as a main thing in euphoria.

  • @AttackOfTheBees
    @AttackOfTheBees 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "It's just like very ... 'THIS IS GAY'" said with a flourish in front of a giant pride flag😛

  • @BestowTheCider
    @BestowTheCider 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hearing you talk about your teachers and them talking about identifying as LGBTQ+ and not talking about it - now, I would hate to assume your ages, but up until 2003, Section 28 was in legislation, meaning schools could not promote or discuss homosexuality. I came out in 2000 and nothing was there for me to learn about sexual or gender diversities. Another reason why shows like this are so important to queer youth now, a further middle finger to Thatcher and her homophobia.

  • @theanyktos
    @theanyktos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude. It's a montage. It's showing that time passed. They're not saying hi to each other 7 times in a day and nothing else. Just, anytime they come across each other during school over the course of, idk, a few days/weeks? You know, they greet each other like you do with people you know. And if Charlie's a bit breathless, well, he very obviously has a crush.

  • @wereshem-ankh9063
    @wereshem-ankh9063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Teachers also STILL get discrimination for being gay (particularly).

  • @ksmurthy1148
    @ksmurthy1148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    granted I'm American, but as someone who's currently in high school i can 100% confirm that friends groups like Charlie's are pretty commonplace, and people generally are much more accepting (depending on where you go, of course). Great video!!!! constantly made me literally laugh out loud

  • @katiew1490
    @katiew1490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excited to see your guys’ reaction!! I loved the show and I feel like it’s going to grow on you as it goes on. The live reactions are fun. Hope you enjoy!

  • @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy
    @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Fascinating how this show literally melted your cynical hearts in the span of 30 minutes. ❤️

  • @YoungIskander
    @YoungIskander ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love to see your scepticism melt away as the season progresses, and your investment in the characters and their stories grow. The live reactions are priceless: seeing your faces as the stories unfold and as the show plucks at your heartstrings is a joy.

  • @joelm5845
    @joelm5845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    You guys are the reason why shows like Euphoria exist, where being gay is just dramatic and depressing.

    • @ezequielmondada6427
      @ezequielmondada6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hearthstopper is extremely necessary yes, and I love it.
      But¿?Why this fixation to compare with euphoria, they don't even relate at all.
      Euphoria main theme is not lgbt; is about drug abuse and mental health, there is a greedy way to see the life that people have had to live, yea there are queer characters, like being trans, and how that affect you or how repress your sexuality like Nate's dad, but the main theme is how drugs can get you to be the worst person even for your family and friends.
      (I said this because this kind of comparison have been becoming a thing in the heartsopper community and they didn't even saw euphoria, both shows are necessary for different people that exist in this world)

    • @Ri57490
      @Ri57490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can't blame gays for the mess that is Euphoria- most of the characters are straight. None of the queer characters are gay - Cal is bi. Rue is probably pan.

    • @mattservais4795
      @mattservais4795 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Way harsh Tai.

  • @peterwall9999
    @peterwall9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    ... im sorry but what lol ''this never haqppens'' ''no'' ''were not hearing from straight people'' ......my god , we want representation and we finally get it in a healthy non life ending way and yall complain about it , their playing 14 and like 16 year olds and u make fun of them saying hi on different days, did u go up to friends in school and just not speak till someone said something random to u lol no u say hi, its showing days passing . like do u watch harry potter and go '' nah that wouldnt happen'' ''' wheres the non magic people'' . like what

  • @mayareads708
    @mayareads708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm 29 and we were a group of 9 friends in highschool. Turns out 4 were gay. It's not like we knew that when we started being friends, they all came out 4 years later so the last 2 years of Highschool we were all aware of it. I find that happens a lot in highschool.

  • @August_On1y
    @August_On1y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I've noticed that a lot of people aren't taking your experiences into context. I understand the generation gap and I know representation was harder to find and when there was representation it always ended in sadness or tragedy. That's something older generations are used to. Even a few years ago it would've been crazy to think the words "innocent" and "gay" could work in a show/movie. But times have changed a LOT. Not everyone is accepting of course but people are a lot more open and accepting if lgbtq+ people. It's crucial especially for kids/teenagers to see a show like Heartstopper. It's important that they know you can be who you are and not have it end in tragedy. Heartstopper, while corny and cliché at times is a very important step in lgbt+ media. It's a genuinely wholesome show that anyone can watch. I really hope you guys continue this series! I also hope you guys can open up to the idea that especially present day you are way more loved, and way more appreciated! I hope you guys have a great day :)

  • @BunnyNorris
    @BunnyNorris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed y’all’s reaction. Hope you both do this for the rest of the epiaodes

  • @demaphaged
    @demaphaged 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    When I saw you guys did a reaction to this I was excited, I hit play, went to full screen and settled in.
    Sigh, Then I was dissapointed to see the reaction. Now, it's not the end of the world lol, I know that, I still love you both but hear me out.
    Representation is not just about what we as individuals relate to. It's about seeing different types of people, situations and senarios.
    Saying "That doesn't happen" Is very dismissive and not in line with what I feel is how you portray yourself usually.
    That senario absolutely happens, It happened to me, granted the guy turned out to actaully be straight, but we still best friends 16 years later.
    But even if it didn't happen to me, I would still love the heck out of this show becsaue I understand that this could be the experience of some people. Even if it only happned to two boys in the entire history of the world, they would have had representation and felt seen.
    The problem with representation in gay mainstream movies is we get the same things over and over. This show while there are predictable themes, gets it right.
    I'm 7 minutes and 47 seconds in and i'm actually sad at the reaction. Again, I know it's not that deep but I really like watching you guys and I do get invested in what you have to say.
    This one (reaction) just hits different. I really find this show to be a gem and so I shall stop watching this one reaction video here. I will be back lol.
    I hope you both are having a great day or night. Stay the wonderful human beings that I see you to be. 😊😊

  • @wordstowordlessthings
    @wordstowordlessthings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Handsome Devil is a good example where the mentor teacher (Andrew Scott) is known (at least to the student) to also be gay!

  • @alanh9639
    @alanh9639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was a bit surprised by your reactions at the beginning, but I'm glad that you started to get into the flow of the show after the first 10 minutes. I'd like to see your reactions to the individual episodes, especially episode three, which has one of the best "seeing the light" moments (literally and figuratively) ever filmed (I've watched at least a half dozen reaction series [I have no one to watch this with], and everyone gushes over it!). The series just gets better and better! I read the four books during the week leading up to the show, and while doing so gave me a better understanding of the characters, I really wish that I hadn't done that. I think coming at the characters totally fresh and getting caught up in their lives would have been more fun. But I still have watched it about six times through, and will keep watching it over and over until we get Season 2!
    As for Olivia Colman, you need to watch the BBC series "Beautiful People" in which she plays mum to a gay boy who dreams of running away from what he sees as his dull life to live among the beautiful people of his imagination. That show (12 eps over 2 seasons) is so fanciful (characters break into song in every episode) and bizarre, but just as loving and wholesome as this. Olivia, and all the cast, are fantastic. Created by the man who wrote "Beautiful Thing," Jonathan Harvey!

  • @MmDisney200
    @MmDisney200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I gotta say it’s really fun to watch you guys react and your expectations of all the stereotypical tropes we are used to seeing with gay characters being changed right in front of your eyes. It happened to me too, so many typical stuff i expected, didn’t happen and it was refreshing 😀 Love this show, hope you guys finish it, it’s beautiful and wholesome ❤️

  • @samanthapaines2938
    @samanthapaines2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love the reactions to them saying hi all time 😂😂
    Hope you understand now that it’s Nick and Charlie’s “thing”

  • @boomjacks5703
    @boomjacks5703 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG. Why am I just discovering your channel now. Watched so many commentators/first reactions to Heartstopper and you guys are simply the best (rip Tina). I'm gonna have to watch all your videos now 💚

  • @leisa5985
    @leisa5985 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so excited you guys are watching this show! I hope you enjoy it! I also like this format for your reaction too:) I hope you both have been well!

  • @airheado6204
    @airheado6204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    pls watch more episodes!! it literally just gets better and better each episode and i'm sure you'll find even more relatable moments further into the show skdhfhkfwebgj i definitely did at least

  • @hayhay1999
    @hayhay1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "At least he's fast, He can get away!!" OMG I just lost is out of no where from that ahahaha

  • @DoubleBlack2.0
    @DoubleBlack2.0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Charlie is FOURTEEN, and Nick is only a year older! Give them a break!! lol
    No, but seriously, this show is INCREDIBLE. Just stick with it.

  • @Fuzzycheetah
    @Fuzzycheetah ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favourite thing to do is watch you guys react to Heartstopper episode 1 followed by you guys reacting to Heartstopper episode 8 😂❤

  • @jonas39328
    @jonas39328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The series is based on a graphic novel. I wonder if the hole "hey" thing is kind of a tribute to the adaption.

  • @renzopinedacabrera2903
    @renzopinedacabrera2903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have to keep watching and reacting to it, I had a very good laugh with the two of you. Love this show and this post was brilliant.

  • @lucybw
    @lucybw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was about halfway through the reaction and came to check the comments because I knew they were gonna be harsh and at first I agreed with them, but I finished the video before deciding how I felt about it. I actually really liked that you were skeptical and cringing at first and by the end you were more open-minded. So glad you gave this show a chance!! And that you are giving a different perspective from a lot of the reactions I've watched.

  • @somanygoodfandoms
    @somanygoodfandoms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I actually relate to this show a lot lmao- the first episode, even.

  • @brianmatthews1736
    @brianmatthews1736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    (Just FYI I am adult gay male that has watched entire series) Not enjoying this reaction at all ...you were missing the point...it is based on a y/a comic...it is meant to be a positive presentation of LGBT people with representation of some of the negativity they deal with, but they don't focus the whole show on it...this is NOT like an American drama on gays (that is all dark, and angst ridden)...you missed that Isaac and Tao were straight outside at table...you missed it because you weren't really paying attention, and is why you had to eat your words twice in 10 min....quit talking so much and listen a bit before you insist on critic thing...you both saying to send the "i hate you" shows a bit of negativity on your parts...i unfortunately detect a wee bit of toxicity, and possibly what may give our community a bit of a bad rep as well...jaded at 20ish is a sad thing...you all are projecting adult reactions/expectations ONTO a show about teens...come on now/you are adults, not saying adults can't watch and enjoy it...I did..but you cannot expect this show to have the same vibe as a gay show aimed at an older audience...like Young Royals is actually aimed at a slightly older audience, and so on for each show...the writer, and producer wanted this to be family friendly, and acceptable for like 11 or 12 year olds..this isn't meant to have that already jaded/angst ridden 20ish and up vibe to it....subscribed only to follow to see just what your overall points are...very curious is all....your beginning attitudes are part of the problem really...you were kinda like being the flip side of homophobic straight people almost...cause we are gay we can't be positive about ourselves or others..we can't be happy either cause the world treats us so bad...very pessimistic....not cool.

    • @1980daminick
      @1980daminick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      100000% agree.

    • @Noah-vu1li
      @Noah-vu1li 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS!

    • @ornachia2489
      @ornachia2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True 100 percent, they just deleted my comments for saying the exact same thing lol.

    • @derrickcooper3838
      @derrickcooper3838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Insert Tao. THANK YOU

    • @youtube_handles_are_annoying
      @youtube_handles_are_annoying 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Isaac is actually possibly aroace. The scriptwriter and creator of the comic has talked about this on social media and it will probably be included if they get a season 2.

  • @montimunchi7469
    @montimunchi7469 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your reaction. It’s so honest and the best part is that this show surprised you. You were so bad at predicting the story lol (like I was). Because we are all used to see queer awakening with drama.
    I want a rewatch please!! No that you know the whole story, would be awesome to see you watching episode 1 again. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @whattypeofx7750
    @whattypeofx7750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i hope when eventually the regular ole internet people watch this remind themselves that these are TEEN characters, charlie is literally like 15, yall when we 15 we were just tryna do fun shit after school like, let them have fun and smile, not every series need to be Euphoria high

  • @gabybelen4488
    @gabybelen4488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I just wanna say: please react to the entire season pleasssse... I think you are gonna get a surprise

  • @zandercrowley798
    @zandercrowley798 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m new to your channel but I love how unaware of queer media you all seem to be for a channel who talks about queer media! I love watching you learn and figure out what’s going on without the context

  • @damianh3797
    @damianh3797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's funny how you keep saying how things are "no realistic" just cuz that didn't happend to you. I think that show just how out of toch you are with the actual state of the LGBTQ youth and the effort we all are making to better the World.
    Very sad actually.

  • @wordstowordlessthings
    @wordstowordlessthings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And please please do more, the pacing gets a little better as it goes, and there are definitely more layers to the characters :)

  • @cekhippi69
    @cekhippi69 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was rewatching your reactions with my dad. And we started debating because he thought you guys were Kit Connor and Joe Locke reacting to your own show. 😂 He loves your reaction to the series and it's something we can bond over. I can't wait to show him your reaction to Red, White, and Royal Blue. ❤

  • @JustWandering
    @JustWandering 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm enjoying coming back to this video after your enthusiastic and frankly loving reaction to episode five, lmao. Oh how the turn tables....

  • @thelastofthemachines
    @thelastofthemachines 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love Heartstopper. It's meant for a YA audience but I think adults can learn from it too. And if you're older, you can kind of appreciate the world we should have had from the get go.

  • @1rkhachatryan
    @1rkhachatryan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The reason for the comic book moment type things is cuz it's based on a graphic novel.

  • @EL-xx8yz
    @EL-xx8yz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    8:48 Yes, these groups are actually really common nowadays! In fact, I'm in a group of 20-30 people and there's only a few people who aren't part of the lgbtq+ community. Loved your reaction and I can't wait to see the rest of the series! Also, you guys should watch Julie and the Phantoms - you'll love the relationships in it! 😄

  • @onesantalks8105
    @onesantalks8105 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    just really wanna go back and watch everything again, cause you guys went from doubtful to invested 😅

  • @drishtisuresh6880
    @drishtisuresh6880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You know, even if I come from a still super homophobic surrounding, it makes me happy to see much a representation and more accepting people through the internet.
    There r soo many accepting people and communities now.
    Hopefully one day I can just get out of here and go somewhere I actually can breath happily. 😊✌

  • @boogerlui
    @boogerlui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    as the other commenters have said, things may have been different when you guys were young and growing up dealing with being gay. Things may not be completely where they should be right now, but I definitely think society has come a long way

  • @chuckmeisterakakitfrost
    @chuckmeisterakakitfrost 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why so, I dunno, negative? That's just sad.
    I'm probably about your age as well, but I can relate to the show. And even if I don't, I wouldn't base my comments solely on my own experience, that's just so self absorbed. Sorry not sorry.

  • @garyyeomans2369
    @garyyeomans2369 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, wasn’t sure about your reaction at first but in the end loved it.

  • @hele_manzo
    @hele_manzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As someone who is bisexual and just graduated last year, I can tell you that my experience with the friend group and with being out at school was super chill. Yes, I had a group of friends and some of us were queer but we were not specifically friends for that. We didn't even give it that much importance. It was just something else about some of us. I was the first one to come out with a specific orientation but we all knew most of us were not totally straight. And I did have the opportunity to meet someone as wholesome as Nick Nelson and we said "Hi" a lot. Still embarrassed at how flustered I got every time I said hi to her. The "jocks" never gave me much trouble even though I'm a nerd and was openly out since year 9, and overall, my real negative experience with being out has come on the family front. School was rather my safe heaven. And I know it's not at all like that for everybody, but it can happen. Just because your experience was different doesn't mean this is unrealistic. And I don't mean to sound prickly or anything, I just think you should know things *are* changing for the better. It's not as harsh as it used to be all the time. It can still be. But it can be fluffy like that too.

  • @stephenreeves-brown7219
    @stephenreeves-brown7219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved coming back to this from atching the episode 8 reaction.
    Episode 1: Gay cynical hearts, not sure what it was, whether they would like it, getting irked by "hi" and "I don't like this".
    To
    Episode 8: Completely gone and fully invested in the charachters.

  • @rayleaf8114
    @rayleaf8114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think this series will inspire kids and teens to have more adult and thoughtful reactions to situations like this.

  • @mariteep
    @mariteep 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i really love your opinions, because you really reflect and makes me laugh at the same tiem 😊

  • @nenegrey2282
    @nenegrey2282 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Them saying "hi" to each other so much is important because it leads up to Ben throwing a tantrum when Charlie dares say "hey" to him in public. It goes to show that Nick is the very opposite of Ben from the very beginning
    Nick already likes Charlie (albeit platonically) and doesn't mind people seeing them interact, despite Charlie being openly gay. On the contrary, he goes out of his way to start interactions with Charlie, even if it's just a simple "hi". That is a big deal, especially coming from the most popular boy in school
    In my school, if someone dared interact with a gay person, they would automatically be branded as gay as well (and you'll see that later on in the season, when Harry calls Charlie and Tao boyfriends)
    The only thing that spares Nick this treatment is that he's far too popular and well-liked. People wouldn't dare call him gay, as they see it as an insult. Rugby King Nick Nelson CANNOT possibly be queer, how dare you even insinuate that?!
    This heteronormative, queerphobic behavior will go to such extreme lenghts in season 2 that it becomes almost ridiculous: Nick makes heart eyes at Charlie the whole time, sticks close to him, flirts with him, and people? just? ignore it? Except for a few of the rugby lads that have always been closer to Nick
    I really like this show because it portrays aspects of homophobia that are often overlooked: heteronormativity and compulsory heterosexuality, and the effect they have on queer people who just want to be themselves

  • @ronaldjohnpanganiban7587
    @ronaldjohnpanganiban7587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope you guys watch the entire series! Pleaaaaase. I enjoyed your reactions and opinions. 😘

  • @allymarie4711
    @allymarie4711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know I’m late but listening to your conversation about teacher representation made me realize I had 4 teachers in high school who were openly gay. And this was 2011-14. Nobody made a big deal about it either, which is nice.

  • @AnonymousCaveman
    @AnonymousCaveman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You need to stick with the series as it explains more of what's happening. Honestly would have come out as bisexual years ago if this was about when I was at school. I also cant recommend the book enough ☺️

  • @mauritious1
    @mauritious1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always crack up over your reactions!😂 You guys are hilarious! 😂😂

  • @ryanwalter9109
    @ryanwalter9109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'Hi'
    I need to see what you think of the next 7 episodes. I've already watched them all 7 or so times and I've never been this obsessed with a show.

  • @ImBarelyMe
    @ImBarelyMe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I come back to this a lot, honestly because you guys reactions to this show (the show that helped me realise I’m bi and come out) I don’t have lgbtqia friends, just straight friends and I don’t know how to be with people who get me honestly

  • @brondo93
    @brondo93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been binge-watching a whole heap of Heartstopper reactions (by a diverse range of people) and came across this channel. The early… cynicism, for lack of a better word, is certainly interesting and I think some of the other comments are right to pull you up on some points. The first 10 minutes or so felt like a slog to get through due to the bagging out and reluctance to suspend your disbelief.
    As a gay man, in what I’m assuming is the same age bracket as the both of you, yes this show might feel a little more ‘cringe’ to us in some parts than others; especially when we try to make comparisons to our own experiences. However I think that for what the show has to offer, in the grand scheme of things, a couple of silly elements help to achieve the intended lightheartedness and act as a foil to the ‘darker’ elements you seem to be anticipating.
    Heartstopper is well worth sticking with and I think that perhaps, with more time and more episodes, you might be able to come around and understand just how fully life-changing this show will be for young queer audiences - even if it makes older queer views a bit more bittersweet on some level.

  • @kittylynch
    @kittylynch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your reactions were so funny and entertaining! Hope y’all do this reaction format for the rest of the episodes.

  • @raczhuichi
    @raczhuichi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I stopped being in school long ago, but what I do remember is that I was friends with different people during different stages in my life, then life continued and years later found out all that people were lgbt. Like, we called it.

  • @mugenzai
    @mugenzai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are both so good. One of you has the same watch strap as myself AND is the better looking. I'm 75 now and wish so much that my schooldays were so pleasant that the closet door was not so firmly closed. So, despite Thatcher, I"m still gay and loving it!

  • @-licorice-1229
    @-licorice-1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The little animations and as you two said "anime like" scenes are portrayed like this because the series is based on the webtoon and these little e. G. Flowers and seagulls are from the webtoon