Very brave lady I lost twins at 8 months I am now 62 have never been able to properly talk to people about it. I was 23 when I gave birth one day I will reunite with my girls
So sorry for your terrible loss Lesley💔I hope this can help you in some way I came here as my cousin and his girlfriend lost their little baby Mason at 38 weeks😭no real reason I just can't stop thinking of them it's so sadxxx💔Sending you love and healing hugs x xx🌄🌈
My grandmother lost a full term son to stillbirth. She was a tough lady and went through so many things without a tear. She died at 92 and still mourned that baby boy.
It is my stillborn daughter’s 25th birthday tomorrow, the 8th August. My darling Ashley Meredith shares her birthday with my beautiful nephew Christophor who took his own life at just 18, 15 months after she was born. So they both have their birthdays tomorrow and I know that they’re together, feeling the love that is here for them both. ❤️❤️
I just lost my baby boy Monday, they couldn’t find his heartbeat which was always strong and healthy but on that particular day it just wasn’t there, I was rushed to the ER that same day to induce my labor and on 08/30 I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy, he was 28 weeks and he looked just like me, only had his daddy’s mouth lol, I miss my baby so much and I know this feeling will always live with me but to everyone who is experiencing this just know that the first thing your baby heard while in womb was your heartbeat and the last thing they heard was your heartbeat, they know they was loved tremendously, my prayers to you and your family ❤️❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't understand these things, why they happen..I can't imagine your pain/loss. I know your baby knows how much they were/are loved. All the best to you and your family. xxx
❤❤❤❤ mama. I am so sorry. It isn't fair you and any other parents experience this. I can not imagine a loss greater. Only a parent, or a mom who feels that baby inside truly knows the depth of that pain. I am so sorry. I hope you have support and love!
I am such in awe of what you demanded instead of suing the Hosptal. I am in awe that Breklyn’s loss of life has saved other babies, thereby preventing that unspeakable grief you experienced. It gave me chills. I also got chills when other hospitals also changed that test. What a big spirit and purpose your baby has. Wow.
You were blessed to have been able to hold your baby. My first son was born at 22 weeks ( back in 1965 ). He lived only 2 and 1/2 hours. I did not get to see or hold him. My family had the funeral within 24 hours of his birth/death, and I was still in the hospital. To this day I feel like he was stolen from me .I only get to see his grave.
We are so sorry. You were robbed, and that must have been and is so hard. We hope that you are able to celebrate your baby boy so way all these years later.
I’m sooo sorry for your loss. Your story sounds similar to my grandma’s. She had twins. I’m not sure if they were stillborn or not but I do not believe she ever got to hold or see them. They were buried before she was also out of the hospital. 🥺
That is heartbreaking in so many different ways! I wish I could hug you. That is the most unfair, upsetting, horrible experience I have ever heard of. I’m so so sorry forever ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I thank you for that. My sister lost a baby at birth and that tiny, little casket was the saddest thing I ever had seen in my entire life. Why this happens I will truly never understand but I just have come to accept that God needed these beautiful angels for a greater purpose. God bless you and your family. ♥️
Breklyn was a beautiful little baby girl, and you are such a strong, brave momma for sharing your story so candidly. As a former NICU nurse, I applaud you for the action you and her dad took to ensure the safety of other babies in Utah. Both of my babies were preemies and in the NICU themselves and that was scary enough. I can’t even imagine what you and your husband went through. ❤️
What a big beautiful baby girl, I’m so sorry for you loss, I also lost a newborn baby girl 47 years ago a very tiny baby she weighed 15 0Z. Maybe 13 inches long, her name was Angel Dawn, I had 2 uterus’s and one of them carried a full term pregnancy and the other one only carried a six month pregnancy it was much smaller than the other uterus, at the time I had a three year old daughter, my second daughter I carried in the small uterus, my water broke at 22 weeks then I went into labor and she was born and a perfect little baby, her lungs collapsed and she died, she was born May 17th 1976 they just didn’t have the technology in those days to save a baby that small, I still carry her in my heart ♥️
I want to say first to nurses out there, those of you here, I want to thank you for your hands. Those hands that don’t even know our names. To those who have gripped our hands so tightly when we were in the trenches of fear, in pain, or just anxious. Your hands, some cool and soothing, others warm and reassuring, all of your hands given so willingly to us to get through the moment. I say thank you. Thank you from each of us. If I had names of all the nurses, the ones who gave me their hands, I would name you personally and hug your necks. You may have not even realized it. But those moments when you needed that woman to woman bond, as it were, meant everything. Life is so fleeting. Thank you so much for being the angels you are.
Thank you Alabama ! As an RN (now retired) I have felt the fear,anguish and confusion of many. It was my privilege to have been there to give any comfort possible. For me, being a nurse was a calling. Many battles to not just fall into being a robot due to economic rules etc. was more of a struggle than the work I knew was important and best for my patients. And thank you for your "hugs".
Three months ago my daughter-in-law gave birth after a lengthy labor. We are in Utah and my grandson is probably one of the babies that was saved by the actions you took following the loss of your sweet baby. Mom wanted a natural birth, but baby wasn't in the correct position so a C-section became necessary. Baby was also close to 10 pounds. There are so many parallels. Even though he was large, he ended up spending a week in the NICU but the difference is that they were able to bring him home. I hope it brings you comfort to know Breklyn's death has made a difference.
12 years ago my daughter passed away at 13 days old. I got severe pre e at 28 weeks, delivered her. She was 1 lb 11 oz, as she was growth restricted. Until that moment everything was fine. Then both of our lives were at risk. We delivered her, and she fought so hard for 13 days. But it was just too much for her tiny body. I hate that I am one of the many moms who have lost a baby. But I love talking about her.
I am so, so very sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter. I lost my nephew that was born at 21 weeks, his twin was able to stay in her mother's womb until 25 weeks and she just turned 5 years old. Every time I look at her, I wonder what her twin brother would be like. It's so heartbreaking to lose a baby, and although I haven't been a mother in this situation, the heartbreak my sister went through losing her only son was the hardest thing. The pain was palpable. Talk about your baby girl often. She is still with you, every single day. It's good for the heart and soul to tell her story. You're in a place of love and caring. I sincerely hope you are doing okay mentally and emotionally and I'm glad you can talk about your sweet daughter ❤️ 🕊 Hugs to you sweetie
I have never shared this with many people. I was 5 mos pregnant in 1977. Thanksgiving Day I went into labor. My mom contacted her OB/GYN with the situation as my Dr was in Massachusetts. I ended up delivering our baby on the toilet. My sister took me to my room to put clean dry clothes on. At that time my mom & husband removed the baby from the toilet & put it in a cup, paper bag & wrapped it in a blanket. Once I got to the hospital the baby & I were put into an ER room. I knew the baby was there. A nurse came in, asked how I was then stated oh they haven't prepared the baby, at that time she removed the baby and gave me the only memory I have of that baby was the sound as it thunk into the stainless steel bowl. (I never saw the baby I was only told what my husband & mom chose to tell me.) I told the Dr about it & I heard him send her to a conference room but the damage was done. The hospital took responsibility of disposal of the body-my husband never told me how that was handled. There was no funeral. The week after we returned to MA I went to my Dr, it was at that time that I found out the baby became a boy. My Dr didn't want to tell me the sex because she said I would want to name "it" etc. She left the room, leaving my file so I went through it, that is when I found "male child lost through spontaneous abortion". I did name him Michael. His dad & I never really discussed any of this. In June of 1978 I delivered a full term baby girl. (I lost her 6 yrs later due to a car accident) God has taken care of me through losing both of my children which I'm blessed. My advice to anyone who loses a child talk about them and don't let others not talk about them. They are children you lost and will always be your children.
@@christineroussin1177I’m so sorry that must have been horrible, I lost a baby at 5 and a half months pregnant it was a girl but I tried for two weeks to get doctors to do something because I wasn’t feeling her move anymore then I started spotting. Finally after two weeks I found another doctor and they immediately did another ultrasound and determined my baby had died and had been dead for two weeks 🤦🏼♀️💔💔💔 oh my heart was broken but the worst part was I had to have a D&C because they said my body wasn’t gonna get rid of the baby before I started a massive infection and they didn’t want to make me have it because it would fall apart because my body had already started breaking it down 😭😭😭 I have never cried so hard in my life so I feel your pain
What a Godly attitude this family is . Such a heart breaking story to know that she could have been here if not for a false test , but how wonderful to know that through their tragedy other babies are being saved .. God Bless them 🙏☝🏻
I truly got a "What would Jesus do" feeling about the outcome of Breklyn's story. Her life and loss has been used to save other babies, instead of monetary gain. No legal settlement could bring Breklyn back. She has a wonderful legacy thanks to the selflessness and godliness of this family. ✝️💜
They sent me home too🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. Always be your own advocate. Ladies, water breaking is not just a GUSH. It's also trickling like pea. When that fluid gets low and youre open to the world ,you and your baby are vulnerable to infection and distress.
What a beautiful baby girl & such a beautiful name. Very special. It was 24 years ago that I had a complete abruption where the placenta completely tears away from the uterus. I was 7 1/2 months . It took almost 2 hrs to get from where I lived to a hospital & an emergency c section. I wasn't supposed to survive the surgery.I lost 2/3 of my blood. My little girl Emily lived for 9 days before we had to let her go. I brought her into the world & I was privileged to hold her as she went to God. It was one of the most painful days of my life. I think of her multiple times a day when I see my palms that are permanently red from what happened to us. They may only be with us for a short time, but they always take a piece of us with them.
Breklyn’s beautiful sad story told by her mommy. She was so perfect. I’m so sorry for your loss. She is with Jesus and you will meet again❤️. Your story brought some long needed healing to me as my baby girl Tammy died in a crash I was also involved in and my injuries prevented me from being involved in her farewell in any way. No goodbye, no holding , nothing. I see how it could have been. Much of that happened but without me. Makes me have a deeper thankfulness to all those who took care of of Tammy’s Celebration of Life. God gave me a dream a few weeks later where I was able to hug her and say goodbye. And One night in my deepest pain God’s voice gently spoke through me and said simply, Sandra, Tammy is with me now. Comfort from heaven in our pain.❤️🙏
She was so chunky! So healthy. I don’t understand. My heart aches for every woman /momma who has experienced a loss. God bless each and every ONE OF YOU!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby she is so precious, she brought your family so much in her short little life. Amazing story of love and bravery.
In 1986 I lost my little girl, still born, they just took her away, I didn't get to hold her or see her face or have a picture. I still struggle with her memory, but so happy it's different now for parents.
I'm pretty sure Breklyn saved my baby boy. I had 2 small leaks at 35 weeks and went to L&D to get checked. There was barely any water coming out. I'm sure the old tests Utah hospitals used wouldn't have picked it up. They started me on pitocin that day because I had no contractions. He had pneumonia after he was born and spent 2 weeks in the NICU. If that test came out negative, I know he wouldn't be here. He's now a happy, healthy 3 year old. Thank you, Breklyn. ❤
I had some of the same experience with the water leaking, fever and BACK pain.. I was told I was dehydrated and my son was born with spinal meningitis. This was in 1992 and they didn’t think my son would make it and they had my call my pastor in and they blessed him,, and we waited for him to pass… but miraculously he pulled through …5 months before I brought him home
I really don't know what to say but I'm very sorry for the loss of your Daughter Breklyn. I can't imagine what your family is going through. My heart breaks for all of you. 😥❤️
Little Breklyn you taught the true meaning of Love, sometimes we miss it, we think we have it all, but you let us know how preciouse we all are. Fly high little Darling. xxxxx
I have to keep pausing this video, coming back to it in the matter of two days. My eldest daughter keeps asking why I'm crying so I watched in increments to not let it get that far. I'm 7 months with a baby boy and somehow I got recommended this video. Even tho I'm sad about it, I am glad I got to see her beautiful face, and also learn more about this stuff. I'm really glad her mother had a spiritual part of this and was able to keep going
Thank you sweet mama🌹for sharing your story about your beautiful precious baby girl 🙌💖. 🎀Breklyn🎀 is such a pretty unique name. She is absolutely adorable💕. I'm so sorry for your loss💔. The legacy that Breklyn left behind thanks to her parents wanting a change of protocol is awesome 👌 🌺. Like you said another baby survived because of better testing is heart warming 🙌💖. I wish you and Mark all the best💜💙. You will see beautiful angel Breklyn again one day🌈🕊😇🕊🌈 💖. Love & respect from 🇨🇦.
I want to say something heartfelt and loving but I am afraid I will sound silly. I’m so sorry Corchele and Mark. I just can’t imagine your pain. Your daughter is such a beautiful Angel. I am shocked and impressed by your family and the changes that you made in testing in Brecklyn’s honor. I nearly lost my first Granddaughter to the same infection. Because of a faulty test also. God bless you and your family. Rest in the arms of Jesus little Brecklyn🙏🏼🌸
Gosh it feels so amazing to see someone really embrace forgiveness and hold no grudges. Although the doctor whom did the C-section really needs to take a sensitivity course. I'm sorry for your loss, Breklyn deserved better from the hospital and that doctor but through your grief you changed procedure to save other lives. Clearly she was meant to do something very special with her life ♥️
Thank you. The way Corchele and Mark have handled themselves with such dignity is a wonderful example to everyone. No matter what happened, it wasn't going to bring Breklyn back. But they embraced forgiveness and became a force for good and allowed their daughter to bless and save many other lives.
My mother had 2 stillbirths. As children ourselves at the time we had been aware our pregnant mother had gone to the city , by ambulance (6hrs) and come home without bringing back a baby. We’ve never discussed it with Mum (92y) but probably should. There is now a memorial garden at the city’s largest cemetery to all the stillbirths that are buried in a mass grave. In those days, 1960s, most stillbirths weren’t treated as they are now. There was no photos, no funeral , no outward grieving. I’ve always felt the loss of not having the 2 could have been siblings. Mum did eventually have a pregnancy which culminated in the birth of my dear young brother.
I've never heard such a bittersweet story of a baby's birth ever. I litterly shed tears. Jesus allowed Breklyn to be with you, to talk to you, to leave with you the most special memories ever. God bless your precious child/angel , she watches over you. Your a very special woman and mother.
I love how you facilitate these families. I know you have suffered loss too. We need to remember all these beautiful babies and their families. Love from Ireland ☘️💚
@@pecan11 loss shakes even the most faithful. It is very very hard to believe God/Universe/Source/whatever word fits for you here would allow such a thing to happen. This loss shook my faith. And for years I wondered why it happened and what the purpose of this heartbreak was.
I know that horror of a delivery gone wrong. I crashed on the delivery table do to undiagnosed cardiomyopathy. My son was delivered by emergency c-section & was life flighted to Kansas city in critical condition. Thankfully he began to improve in 5 days and left the ICU a week after arriving. He's now 24 years old.
My daughter just had her 2nd full term stillbirth 4 days ago. They believe her water had been broken and he developed an infection. It's like a dream...never in a million years did I think it would happen again.
I lost my son at 12 days old. He was born November 29th, 2020. He passed away December 11th, 2020. His name was Oakley Jonah, and he was the sweetest little tiny 6lb 11oz baby, so quiet and so curious. He passed in his sleep one Tuesday night around 4am. His cause of death was SIDS unfortunately. We will always hold our short and sweet memories of him so close to our hearts. He is remembered by both mommy and daddy, both of his brothers Waylen and Leland, and his sister Adalie. Now he is about to have another brother hand picked by him, from God Baby Wylder Silas. God wanted him home up in Heaven with him bc he was too special and perfect for this world. Infant loss is so not talked about enough, and many people don't know what parents really go through, so this channel is great for people to listen to I really enjoyed it. It gives parents a place to come and tell their story. That is so great!
We are so sorry for the loss of Oakley. We pray for the healthy arrival of Wylder. It's true that infant loss is a taboo topic and we hope that we are able to have good dialog which leads to healing.
I bought an owlet that saved my baby's life at 14 days old. The alarm went off at 6 am and I did CPR and called 911. She had gotten sepsis from a handrail and her organs were failing. We had no idea.
I'm so sorry for your loss,Ashly...God bless you precious Oakley💜.I know it's not the same,but my mother also passed on December 11th,2020.I feel your pain💔
What a beautiful baby girl. Sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. My son and his wife lost a baby boy at 24 weeks 7 years ago. It was really hard to see him in so much pain. He now has a baby boy 6 months old. 😢❤❤❤
I believe my mom had this type of infection with my sister. My mom had a fever and wasn’t in labor but her dr admitted her. She said she had antibiotic shots every 2 hrs through the night. When my mom’s water broke she heard the Ns tell dr that it was “like split pea soup. My sister was born and she did well. It was a miracle.
I felt a slight pop and only a little bit of water. Then the water stopped when I went to the hospital. They almost sent me home. But a very diligent nurse tested me again and wouldn’t send me home. She was right.
@@StillAPartofUs watching this with my 4 month old in my lap and a 3 yr old and 20 month old in the other room. They all spent about a week in the NICU. Thank God they're ok
I’m So sorry that you, your husband, daughter and the rest of your family and friends had to endure such heartache. She was lucky to have such great parents, a wonderful earth sister and you all to have such a beautiful angel to hug before she started her journey to be all of your guardian angel. 👼🏽 So much love to you and your family and friends. 🙏🏼❤️
So sad! My heart breaks for you all. I lost my first baby, Jacob, when he was 5 1/2 months old to SIDS. It was the first funeral I went to. Sending healing vibes and much peace.
I’m so sorry for this family. Having lost more than one child, I understand the grief that goes with this. It is hard to pick up and move on. If it were not for our faith in GOD I can’t even imagine how we’d have gotten through it all. And even though it’s been a few years since my last loss, the loss is still there.
Bless this mama. She is so sweet for saying she doesn’t blame anyone & things happen the way they are suppose to. BUT the hospital should’ve checked to see if her water broke. It was negligent, especially with a fever. I’m glad she has made peace with it but it’s wrong.
I never got to hold my infant, as it was so early. After I miscarried at age 28, I was certain I'd have future chances at motherhood. However, that never worked out, putting me into the ranks of childless mothers. I miss you, Neil Joseph. I know we'll meet in heaven someday, and I can't wait.
I'm so very sorry for your loss!!! ❤ I had chorioamnionitis and endometritis in 1990 with my 3rd baby, caused by group b strep/gbs. I had apparently been been screened in late pregnancy for gbs and was positive for it but never got IV antibiotics for it in labor. (It was a fairly new thing to test for at the time.) I developed a fever right after the birth (labor was 3hrs) but it wasn't until the next day that I was actually diagnosed. I was in the hospital for 1 week on 2 IV antibiotics and she was in the hospital for 2wks on 2 IV antibiotics. I've never felt so sick in my life!
Wow! That was heart moving to say the least. I’ve always believed we are all sent to earth to serve a purpose, especially when , like in your case, it’s little babies. I used to ask god how he could be so cruel, taking babies away from their families, leaving parents heartbroken, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings. but now I know those babies ALWAYS have a purpose. In my heart, I think little ( or not so 😁) Breklyn was given to you so she could go on to save many many babies lives. What a wonderful job she did too! 💕. I also believe god chose you as her mommy and daddy because he knew that once he called her back home, you knew exactly what needed to be done to help these other babies live.. words cannot describe the admiration I have for you both for the way you decided to take her off life- support so she didn’t feel any more pain. That’s why she was sent to you, because god knew you would send her back pain free. I have one Angel baby myself, and three angel Grandbabies, none of them made it to a gestational age of any intervention being offered, so we sadly lost them. I know they had a purpose, but I think I’m looking too hard to see it. ☹ But one day? X God bless you and your family, you’re in my prayers xox
I lost my twins...baby Aliyah on 8th March 2023 and our baby boy Amaris 6 days later...born at 26weeks .it's been a painful experience......trying to heal each day at a time...this has been our fourth loss...I pray I get to hold a healthy baby some day...
You are very brave. I know it helps you to talk about your experience and to make known and dignify this most precious baby girls life. I’m sure this helps immensely for ones who have lost a baby in death. So thankful you have your new addition. May Jehovah God bless your family always.💐
Thankyou Corchele for sharing beautiful Breklyn May with us, and for all the babies alive today that Breklyn May lives on through the changes implemented in her honour you truly are a wonderful person🙏 I too have experienced ketamine when needing intubation in ICU and l can relate that it is exactly as you described and l never ever want to experience that again, it is frightening as it's all going on around you, working on your body but you cannot speak, move or respond, l am so sorry they used this and robbed you of precious moments with your baby Girl. 💞
Thank you. The work that they have done in changing the intake process at the hospitals is a wonderful legacy they have done for their little Breklyn. In regard to ketamine, that does sound so horrifying. When she and you speak of knowing what is happening around you, but not being able to do anything about it sounds like true terror.
My daughter is becoming a Doula she’s a nurse as well. Your daughter was beautiful and still is beautiful angel I had eight pregnancies and I have four children and my oldest son was killed tragically in a hunting accident. There’s no time limit on grief my son left me 16 years ago, but it feels like yesterday.
My daughter had a similar situation with her first baby. She had been experiencing labor pains for about a week and had been to the hospital twice and they sent her home both times. The morning she woke up with water trickling down her leg she called the hospital and they told her about filling a pad within an hour and that if she didn’t not to come in. She called me and told me the situation and I insisted that she go in and be checked! Fortunately the test did show that she was in labor and martie was born healthy. If she had not went in I’m afraid of what could have been. Her second child she waited to go in almost to the point that she was giving birth because they had sent her home telling her she wasn’t having contractions together close enough. By the time she went in it was almost too late for an epidural. These intake ppl need to listen to the patient. No one knows your body better than you!!! Her dr was angry when she heard they had sent her home! She told her she should have been admitted hours ago and she had a talk with some ppl at the hospital that day. She also told my daughter to go by her pain level and NOT by timing the contractions!!! My grandson was born with a heart defect and has had two open heart surgeries in his first year of life. We are very fortunate and blessed to have not suffered losses during these times. I admire breklyns parents for not suing or bringing legal charges against the hospital. I couldn’t have been as merciful. Peace and blessings to your family always.
So sorry for your loss, Breklyn was such a beautiful little girl with the face of an angel. 🤩💖 Those cheep strip tests are no good. I don't live in USA but I think the same or same kind of tests are used in our hospitals too, because I have bad experience with them too.13th of September this year I had a gush of waters and since I was exactly 41 weeks pregnant that day, I went to hospital and told them my waters had broke. The midwife checked me with a test strip that looked a lot like cheep ovulation test strips and she told me the test was negative and I must go home since I don't have any contractions. She told me that I'm not in labour. So we went home. My husband was a little grumpy because he excused himself from his work only for us to get sent home by a midwife because apparently I wasn't in labour. I was sure though that my waters had gone because that gush of waters was maybe like about 500 ml of waters and I was sure it wasn't pee because being 41 weeks pregnant every time I went number 1 there was just a little tiny bit of pee... so I was just really confused why it didn't show on the test strip. Luckily for us I went in labour the next day and had a speedy 3 hours 16 minutes delivery. Thank God for that, because if it would have gone on for longer I don't know if our baby would be born healthy. I guess it's needless to say I didn't have any waters leeking or gushing after that initial gush on 13th. And of course the hospital staff didn't acknowledge I went in labour the previous day or that my waters broke that same day I came to hospital the first time, it was all like - congratulations, you had a speedy 3 h delivery! 🤔
I'm very sorry for your loss. I know how bad it hurts. I'm always deeply depressed this time of year. My baby would've been turning 9 next month. I don't think people that have never dealt with a loss like we have, just don't understand and think we should be "over it" when they think it's time to be.
Thank you, and we're sorry for your loss. It's not like getting over losing you favorite pair of sunglasses. A loss child is a child that we truly love and care for and had dreams for. Their place in our hearts will forever be there, and that pain will be there, too.
My younger daughter lost her first born son 14 years ago. The doctor's miss diagnosed him and he passed away at 13 days due to Sepsis. They are suing the hospital and doctors. RIP Breklyn May ❤️.
I know this was two years ago, but I just came across it. God bless you, that beautiful baby, and your whole family 🙏🏻 You are the only other one that I ever heard say that you loved being pregnant! I mean, besides me…😊Unfortunately, due to life circumstances, I only had one of my own who is now 19 lol but being pregnant was probably the best time of my entire life 👶🏻 I loved every second of it, much for the same reasons that you mentioned. Most people thought I was either exaggerating, or just nuts lol, but it truly was the longest but shortest 9 months of my life. I hope you are all doing well, and thank you for sharing your story ❤️
Dear God i hear your sad story from another part of the world and feel your pain. True you said that you dont blame nobody for her condition but deep in my heart wish they did more care before more but she left to be with God perfect like she is🌹💖💕🌈
My husband and I lost our daughter in pregnancy 9 years ago now. I actually have fertility problems from childhood cancer and we where overwhelmed when we got pregnant as I’d had lots of unsuccessful fertility treatments and then there she was. I found out I was pregnant due to a clot they found when I was 4 weeks pregnant. They said I’d miscarry at any point and I didn’t. She grew as did my tummy then unfortunately I had pains which turned into labour and she didn’t survive. She was just a couple of weeks off viability and was just too small. We called her Daisy and still we have not had another baby. I’m now 41, yesterday so no chance of another baby now. Sadly!
I’ve not lost a child, but I feel heartbroken for you and the women in the comments also. You’re very brave dear. That pain is unimaginable for a lot of us but our hearts send love and strength- I believe she was talking to you at those 2 hours at the end. Like she was saying “it’s ok mommy, I know how much you guys wanted me and I’ll carry your voices with me. We’re not totally gone because a piece of us stays in your heart always.” You’re daughter is a beautiful big sister Sending loads of love and heartfelt condolences PS) this isn’t close to a child you carried, but the deep pain I felt losing my little dog after 18 - 1/2 years of best ever friends. This was hard. But a child 💔😪 it’s just unfathomable to ever say hey, I know how you feel cause nobody does unless you’ve gone through it.
The pictures of your sweet daughter looking at her sisters pictures had my heart breaking. I have 5 kids I can't imagine any of then losing a sibling :(
Omg I can’t believe a full term Mum having a fever and they didn’t induce and sent you home 😢😢😢 wth is wrong with the medical system. It’s crazy that if you get a certain nurse or doctor it can change the course of your life….. they should have known how bad a fever is during pregnancy. but she is right, God had a plan and for whatever reason He needs her home with him ❤ I am so sorry
Thank you for sharing your journey with the world. I'm so sorry for your loss, but am so happy that this lead to Utah changing the law. May she rest in eternal peace.
She was so beautiful perfect and so big twice as big as my twin grandchildren and they came home at a week old was 4& 1/2 pounds each but this was exactly how and what happened to my sisters newborn son. A few years before.God bless you and your family.
My heart goes out to this beautiful family and may I say little Breklyn looked so absolutely gorgeous I'm not criticising them but I'd want pics of my sleeping babe but before signs of her gaining her angel wings were visible I wouldn't be able to look at pics of my baby if she didn't look like she was sleeping well that's how I think I would want them too look but then again I not been in that position so maybe I'd want every possible pic to be taken and I want to say your one very amazing true mother and I'm super sorry for your loss there's no words that can ease the pain of your babe getting her wings or words of comfort that you haven't heard already million times already that u wished you hadn't heard I experienced loss many times it never gets easier we just learn to live life differently to how we had hoped planned maybe even prayed for you may not know me but I promise I feel your pain and I will be thinking of you and your family if you don't mind I will say a prayer for you again so sorry my love x
Thank you for those kind words. Some parents have those feeling where they would want to remember their child a certain way, and some parents want all the photos they can have because this will be the only time they will have with the child.
Very brave lady I lost twins at 8 months I am now 62 have never been able to properly talk to people about it. I was 23 when I gave birth one day I will reunite with my girls
We are so sorry for your loss. Though the years pass, we will always love our children.
So sorry for your terrible loss Lesley💔I hope this can help you in some way I came here as my cousin and his girlfriend lost their little baby Mason at 38 weeks😭no real reason I just can't stop thinking of them it's so sadxxx💔Sending you love and healing hugs x xx🌄🌈
My grandmother lost a full term son to stillbirth. She was a tough lady and went through so many things without a tear. She died at 92 and still mourned that baby boy.
I miscarried at 7 months and I feel that these things are private and not really able to talk about it or share it either..still at 72 it hurts.
That must have been so very difficult. I’m so sorry.❤️
It is my stillborn daughter’s 25th birthday tomorrow, the 8th August. My darling Ashley Meredith shares her birthday with my beautiful nephew Christophor who took his own life at just 18, 15 months after she was born. So they both have their birthdays tomorrow and I know that they’re together, feeling the love that is here for them both. ❤️❤️
I don’t know you, but I hug you! Sending my prayers. I honestly cannot imagine the pain you and your family are going through xox
That’s horrific I’m so sorry for your losses 😢
I cried when I heard a nurse called and said Breklyn saved another life today. Truly selfless and just a beautiful legacy she has left.
Even in their loss, the impact that Breklyn is having on the world is tremendous.
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Yes me too, an£ still crying , jeez what’s wrong with me today, think it’s just brought back memories for myself. Stay safe xox
I just lost my baby boy Monday, they couldn’t find his heartbeat which was always strong and healthy but on that particular day it just wasn’t there, I was rushed to the ER that same day to induce my labor and on 08/30 I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy, he was 28 weeks and he looked just like me, only had his daddy’s mouth lol, I miss my baby so much and I know this feeling will always live with me but to everyone who is experiencing this just know that the first thing your baby heard while in womb was your heartbeat and the last thing they heard was your heartbeat, they know they was loved tremendously, my prayers to you and your family ❤️❤️
I am so sorry - hugs to you and to your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't understand these things, why they happen..I can't imagine your pain/loss. I know your baby knows how much they were/are loved. All the best to you and your family. xxx
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❤❤❤❤ mama. I am so sorry. It isn't fair you and any other parents experience this. I can not imagine a loss greater. Only a parent, or a mom who feels that baby inside truly knows the depth of that pain. I am so sorry. I hope you have support and love!
I'm so sorry you lost your sweet baby. You have my deepest sympathy. 🕊️
I am such in awe of what you demanded instead of suing the Hosptal. I am in awe that Breklyn’s loss of life has saved other babies, thereby preventing that unspeakable grief you experienced. It gave me chills. I also got chills when other hospitals also changed that test. What a big spirit and purpose your baby has. Wow.
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Breklyn’s legacy. I’m speechless. 😇💕💕
You were blessed to have been able to hold your baby. My first son was born at 22 weeks ( back in 1965 ). He lived only 2 and 1/2 hours. I did not get to see or hold him. My family had the funeral within 24 hours of his birth/death, and I was still in the hospital. To this day I feel like he was stolen from me .I only get to see his grave.
We are so sorry. You were robbed, and that must have been and is so hard. We hope that you are able to celebrate your baby boy so way all these years later.
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I’m sooo sorry for your loss. Your story sounds similar to my grandma’s. She had twins. I’m not sure if they were stillborn or not but I do not believe she ever got to hold or see them. They were buried before she was also out of the hospital. 🥺
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That is heartbreaking in so many different ways! I wish I could hug you. That is the most unfair, upsetting, horrible experience I have ever heard of. I’m so so sorry forever ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I thank you for that. My sister lost a baby at birth and that tiny, little casket was the saddest thing I ever had seen in my entire life. Why this happens I will truly never understand but I just have come to accept that God needed these beautiful angels for a greater purpose. God bless you and your family. ♥️
What an amazingly strong Mom. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Your daughter will forever be making a difference.
Thank you so much.
Breklyn was a beautiful little baby girl, and you are such a strong, brave momma for sharing your story so candidly. As a former NICU nurse, I applaud you for the action you and her dad took to ensure the safety of other babies in Utah. Both of my babies were preemies and in the NICU themselves and that was scary enough. I can’t even imagine what you and your husband went through. ❤️
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What a big beautiful baby girl, I’m so sorry for you loss, I also lost a newborn baby girl 47 years ago a very tiny baby she weighed 15 0Z. Maybe 13 inches long, her name was Angel Dawn, I had 2 uterus’s and one of them carried a full term pregnancy and the other one only carried a six month pregnancy it was much smaller than the other uterus, at the time I had a three year old daughter, my second daughter I carried in the small uterus, my water broke at 22 weeks then I went into labor and she was born and a perfect little baby, her lungs collapsed and she died, she was born May 17th 1976 they just didn’t have the technology in those days to save a baby that small, I still carry her in my heart ♥️
I want to say first to nurses out there, those of you here, I want to thank you for your hands. Those hands that don’t even know our names. To those who have gripped our hands so tightly when we were in the trenches of fear, in pain, or just anxious. Your hands, some cool and soothing, others warm and reassuring, all of your hands given so willingly to us to get through the moment. I say thank you.
Thank you from each of us. If I had names of all the nurses, the ones who gave me their hands, I would name you personally and hug your necks. You may have not even realized it. But those moments when you needed that woman to woman bond, as it were, meant everything.
Life is so fleeting. Thank you so much for being the angels you are.
Thank you Alabama ! As an RN (now retired) I have felt the fear,anguish and confusion of many. It was my privilege to have been there to give any comfort possible. For me, being a nurse was a calling. Many battles to not just fall into being a robot due to economic rules etc. was more of a struggle than the work I knew was important and best for my patients. And thank you for your "hugs".
Three months ago my daughter-in-law gave birth after a lengthy labor. We are in Utah and my grandson is probably one of the babies that was saved by the actions you took following the loss of your sweet baby. Mom wanted a natural birth, but baby wasn't in the correct position so a C-section became necessary. Baby was also close to 10 pounds. There are so many parallels. Even though he was large, he ended up spending a week in the NICU but the difference is that they were able to bring him home. I hope it brings you comfort to know Breklyn's death has made a difference.
12 years ago my daughter passed away at 13 days old. I got severe pre e at 28 weeks, delivered her. She was 1 lb 11 oz, as she was growth restricted. Until that moment everything was fine. Then both of our lives were at risk. We delivered her, and she fought so hard for 13 days. But it was just too much for her tiny body. I hate that I am one of the many moms who have lost a baby. But I love talking about her.
I am so, so very sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter. I lost my nephew that was born at 21 weeks, his twin was able to stay in her mother's womb until 25 weeks and she just turned 5 years old. Every time I look at her, I wonder what her twin brother would be like. It's so heartbreaking to lose a baby, and although I haven't been a mother in this situation, the heartbreak my sister went through losing her only son was the hardest thing. The pain was palpable.
Talk about your baby girl often. She is still with you, every single day.
It's good for the heart and soul to tell her story. You're in a place of love and caring. I sincerely hope you are doing okay mentally and emotionally and I'm glad you can talk about your sweet daughter ❤️ 🕊
Hugs to you sweetie
I have never shared this with many people. I was 5 mos pregnant in 1977. Thanksgiving Day I went into labor. My mom contacted her OB/GYN with the situation as my Dr was in Massachusetts. I ended up delivering our baby on the toilet. My sister took me to my room to put clean dry clothes on. At that time my mom & husband removed the baby from the toilet & put it in a cup, paper bag & wrapped it in a blanket. Once I got to the hospital the baby & I were put into an ER room. I knew the baby was there. A nurse came in, asked how I was then stated oh they haven't prepared the baby, at that time she removed the baby and gave me the only memory I have of that baby was the sound as it thunk into the stainless steel bowl. (I never saw the baby I was only told what my husband & mom chose to tell me.) I told the Dr about it & I heard him send her to a conference room but the damage was done. The hospital took responsibility of disposal of the body-my husband never told me how that was handled. There was no funeral. The week after we returned to MA I went to my Dr, it was at that time that I found out the baby became a boy. My Dr didn't want to tell me the sex because she said I would want to name "it" etc. She left the room, leaving my file so I went through it, that is when I found "male child lost through spontaneous abortion". I did name him Michael. His dad & I never really discussed any of this. In June of 1978 I delivered a full term baby girl. (I lost her 6 yrs later due to a car accident) God has taken care of me through losing both of my children which I'm blessed. My advice to anyone who loses a child talk about them and don't let others not talk about them. They are children you lost and will always be your children.
I'm sorry I couldn't edit so that year Michael was born was 1976.
@@christineroussin1177 I’m sorry so many details were kept from you. I would need the closure.
My condolences to you and your family ❤
@@christineroussin1177I’m so sorry that must have been horrible, I lost a baby at 5 and a half months pregnant it was a girl but I tried for two weeks to get doctors to do something because I wasn’t feeling her move anymore then I started spotting. Finally after two weeks I found another doctor and they immediately did another ultrasound and determined my baby had died and had been dead for two weeks 🤦🏼♀️💔💔💔 oh my heart was broken but the worst part was I had to have a D&C because they said my body wasn’t gonna get rid of the baby before I started a massive infection and they didn’t want to make me have it because it would fall apart because my body had already started breaking it down 😭😭😭 I have never cried so hard in my life so I feel your pain
What a Godly attitude this family is . Such a heart breaking story to know that she could have been here if not for a false test , but how wonderful to know that through their tragedy other babies are being saved .. God Bless them 🙏☝🏻
Thank you so very much.
I truly got a "What would Jesus do" feeling about the outcome of Breklyn's story. Her life and loss has been used to save other babies, instead of monetary gain. No legal settlement could bring Breklyn back. She has a wonderful legacy thanks to the selflessness and godliness of this family. ✝️💜
They sent me home too🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. Always be your own advocate. Ladies, water breaking is not just a GUSH. It's also trickling like pea. When that fluid gets low and youre open to the world ,you and your baby are vulnerable to infection and distress.
I felt like my heart just dropped like I was the mother who lost this baby when I heard what happened...I'm so so sorry honey...you are an angel
What a beautiful baby girl & such a beautiful name. Very special. It was 24 years ago that I had a complete abruption where the placenta completely tears away from the uterus. I was 7 1/2 months . It took almost 2 hrs to get from where I lived to a hospital & an emergency c section. I wasn't supposed to survive the surgery.I lost 2/3 of my blood. My little girl Emily lived for 9 days before we had to let her go. I brought her into the world & I was privileged to hold her as she went to God. It was one of the most painful days of my life. I think of her multiple times a day when I see my palms that are permanently red from what happened to us. They may only be with us for a short time, but they always take a piece of us with them.
Breklyn’s beautiful sad story told by her mommy. She was so perfect. I’m so sorry for your loss. She is with Jesus and you will meet again❤️. Your story brought some long needed healing to me as my baby girl Tammy died in a crash I was also involved in and my injuries prevented me from being involved in her farewell in any way. No goodbye, no holding , nothing. I see how it could have been.
Much of that happened but without me. Makes me have a deeper thankfulness to all those who took care of of Tammy’s Celebration of Life.
God gave me a dream a few weeks later where I was able to hug her and say goodbye.
And One night in my deepest pain God’s voice gently spoke through me and said simply, Sandra, Tammy is with me now. Comfort from heaven in our pain.❤️🙏
Thank you so much for sharing you sad, but beautiful story. We hope that you are able to share your love for Tammy with the world around you.
I got chills when you said you had a dream where you able to say goodbye. Such a beautiful gift from God.
She was so chunky! So healthy. I don’t understand. My heart aches for every woman /momma who has experienced a loss. God bless each and every ONE OF YOU!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby she is so precious, she brought your family so much in her short little life. Amazing story of love and bravery.
In 1986 I lost my little girl, still born, they just took her away, I didn't get to hold her or see her face or have a picture. I still struggle with her memory, but so happy it's different now for parents.
You are a warm and kind person to think of others....you are a wonderful mother to treat your daughters memory with such love.....
That was so heartbreaking, what a strong mama. So glad that no other baby has to die, now that they have changed the test. Rest In Peace Angel 👼 xxx
I'm pretty sure Breklyn saved my baby boy. I had 2 small leaks at 35 weeks and went to L&D to get checked. There was barely any water coming out. I'm sure the old tests Utah hospitals used wouldn't have picked it up. They started me on pitocin that day because I had no contractions. He had pneumonia after he was born and spent 2 weeks in the NICU. If that test came out negative, I know he wouldn't be here. He's now a happy, healthy 3 year old. Thank you, Breklyn. ❤
I had some of the same experience with the water leaking, fever and BACK pain.. I was told I was dehydrated and my son was born with spinal meningitis. This was in 1992 and they didn’t think my son would make it and they had my call my pastor in and they blessed him,, and we waited for him to pass… but miraculously he pulled through …5 months before I brought him home
I really don't know what to say but I'm very sorry for the loss of your Daughter Breklyn. I can't imagine what your family is going through. My heart breaks for all of you. 😥❤️
Breklyn is one of the cutest babies Ive ever seen...So beautiful...So sorry you guys went through that...Praying for comfort for you guys💜
Thank you so much! I think she's pretty cute too ;)
Thank you so much!
Little Breklyn you taught the true meaning of Love, sometimes we miss it, we think we have it all, but you let us know how preciouse we all are. Fly high little Darling. xxxxx
It sometimes is so hard to remember to love all.
I have to keep pausing this video, coming back to it in the matter of two days. My eldest daughter keeps asking why I'm crying so I watched in increments to not let it get that far. I'm 7 months with a baby boy and somehow I got recommended this video. Even tho I'm sad about it, I am glad I got to see her beautiful face, and also learn more about this stuff. I'm really glad her mother had a spiritual part of this and was able to keep going
My gosh. Your baby is beautiful. I cried seeing her beautiful face. She looked so healthy
Thank you sweet mama🌹for sharing your story about your beautiful precious baby girl 🙌💖.
🎀Breklyn🎀 is such a pretty unique name. She is absolutely adorable💕. I'm so sorry for your loss💔. The legacy that Breklyn left behind thanks to her parents wanting a change of protocol is awesome 👌 🌺. Like you said another baby survived because of better testing is heart warming 🙌💖. I wish you and Mark all the best💜💙. You will see beautiful angel Breklyn again one day🌈🕊😇🕊🌈 💖. Love & respect from 🇨🇦.
I want to say something heartfelt and loving but I am afraid I will sound silly. I’m so sorry Corchele and Mark. I just can’t imagine your pain. Your daughter is such a beautiful Angel. I am shocked and impressed by your family and the changes that you made in testing in Brecklyn’s honor. I nearly lost my first Granddaughter to the same infection. Because of a faulty test also. God bless you and your family. Rest in the arms of Jesus little Brecklyn🙏🏼🌸
Thank you. That was beautiful, and loving and we are so glad that you told us of your own granddaughter.
Thank you for such heartfelt words. They are appreciated.
Gosh it feels so amazing to see someone really embrace forgiveness and hold no grudges. Although the doctor whom did the C-section really needs to take a sensitivity course. I'm sorry for your loss, Breklyn deserved better from the hospital and that doctor but through your grief you changed procedure to save other lives. Clearly she was meant to do something very special with her life ♥️
Thank you. The way Corchele and Mark have handled themselves with such dignity is a wonderful example to everyone. No matter what happened, it wasn't going to bring Breklyn back. But they embraced forgiveness and became a force for good and allowed their daughter to bless and save many other lives.
Thank you for sharing your story of your beautiful baby daughter, God bless you all.🙏🏻
My mother had 2 stillbirths. As children ourselves at the time we had been aware our pregnant mother had gone to the city , by ambulance (6hrs) and come home without bringing back a baby. We’ve never discussed it with Mum (92y) but probably should.
There is now a memorial garden at the city’s largest cemetery to all the stillbirths that are buried in a mass grave. In those days, 1960s, most stillbirths weren’t treated as they are now. There was no photos, no funeral , no outward grieving. I’ve always felt the loss of not having the 2 could have been siblings. Mum did eventually have a pregnancy which culminated in the birth of my dear young brother.
I've never heard such a bittersweet story of a baby's birth ever. I litterly shed tears. Jesus allowed Breklyn to be with you, to talk to you, to leave with you the most special memories ever. God bless your precious child/angel , she watches over you. Your a very special woman and mother.
Thank you so much!
I love how you facilitate these families. I know you have suffered loss too. We need to remember all these beautiful babies and their families. Love from Ireland ☘️💚
Thank you so much. Those are such nice words.
I love when she said,”we don’t blame anyone at all. What’s mean to be will always be.” That’s such a wonderful perspective.
It is such a lovely way to look at such a terrible situation.
Actually I have wondered why so many religious ppl don’t say the same thing
I think all humanity needs to have this perspective in more situations.
@@pecan11 loss shakes even the most faithful. It is very very hard to believe God/Universe/Source/whatever word fits for you here would allow such a thing to happen. This loss shook my faith. And for years I wondered why it happened and what the purpose of this heartbreak was.
I know that horror of a delivery gone wrong. I crashed on the delivery table do to undiagnosed cardiomyopathy. My son was delivered by emergency c-section & was life flighted to Kansas city in critical condition. Thankfully he began to improve in 5 days and left the ICU a week after arriving. He's now 24 years old.
My daughter just had her 2nd full term stillbirth 4 days ago. They believe her water had been broken and he developed an infection. It's like a dream...never in a million years did I think it would happen again.
We are so sorry for you and your family. You suffer too, as a grandparent and as you watch your own child suffer. We pray for you and your family.
@@StillAPartofUs I’m so sorry for your great loss.🙏🏽
I'm so so sorry Beth I just can't comprehend what you all must be going through you are all in my thoughts xxx Sending lovexxxx❤️🌈
I am so sorry. So heartbreaking.
My heart breaks for you your sweet daughter and family.
Peace be with you all. ♥️
I lost my son at 12 days old. He was born November 29th, 2020. He passed away December 11th, 2020. His name was Oakley Jonah, and he was the sweetest little tiny 6lb 11oz baby, so quiet and so curious. He passed in his sleep one Tuesday night around 4am. His cause of death was SIDS unfortunately. We will always hold our short and sweet memories of him so close to our hearts. He is remembered by both mommy and daddy, both of his brothers Waylen and Leland, and his sister Adalie. Now he is about to have another brother hand picked by him, from God Baby Wylder Silas. God wanted him home up in Heaven with him bc he was too special and perfect for this world. Infant loss is so not talked about enough, and many people don't know what parents really go through, so this channel is great for people to listen to I really enjoyed it. It gives parents a place to come and tell their story. That is so great!
We are so sorry for the loss of Oakley. We pray for the healthy arrival of Wylder. It's true that infant loss is a taboo topic and we hope that we are able to have good dialog which leads to healing.
I bought an owlet that saved my baby's life at 14 days old. The alarm went off at 6 am and I did CPR and called 911. She had gotten sepsis from a handrail and her organs were failing. We had no idea.
Was ist SDS?
@@marlenmuller Sudden Infant Death Syndrome.
I'm so sorry for your loss,Ashly...God bless you precious Oakley💜.I know it's not the same,but my mother also passed on December 11th,2020.I feel your pain💔
What a beautiful baby girl. Sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. My son and his wife lost a baby boy at 24 weeks 7 years ago. It was really hard to see him in so much pain. He now has a baby boy 6 months old. 😢❤❤❤
I believe my mom had this type of infection with my sister. My mom had a fever and wasn’t in labor but her dr admitted her. She said she had antibiotic shots every 2 hrs through the night. When my mom’s water broke she heard the Ns tell dr that it was “like split pea soup. My sister was born and she did well. It was a miracle.
Thank you for sharing.
I felt a slight pop and only a little bit of water. Then the water stopped when I went to the hospital. They almost sent me home. But a very diligent nurse tested me again and wouldn’t send me home. She was right.
I have an 8yr old daughter, Brecklyn Grace. I just started watching, I just rarely hear of other Breklyns/Brecklyns ❤ so I love her name.
It is a beautiful name. Thank you for sharing.
AHHH! I LOVE this! I love hearing of other little girls with the same name. It's such a unique name!
I just had my little one a week ago and I cant even imagine the pain you are going through, you guys are so strong
Thank you so much. We hope you hold your little one a little closer.
@@StillAPartofUs watching this with my 4 month old in my lap and a 3 yr old and 20 month old in the other room. They all spent about a week in the NICU. Thank God they're ok
I’m So sorry that you, your husband, daughter and the rest of your family and friends had to endure such heartache. She was lucky to have such great parents, a wonderful earth sister and you all to have such a beautiful angel to hug before she started her journey to be all of your guardian angel. 👼🏽 So much love to you and your family and friends. 🙏🏼❤️
This made me so sad!! My heart is so broken for her! I couldn’t imagine this type of pain, such a beautiful baby omg 😭😭
So sad! My heart breaks for you all. I lost my first baby, Jacob, when he was 5 1/2 months old to SIDS. It was the first funeral I went to. Sending healing vibes and much peace.
So heartbreaking. Thank you for bravely sharing your story of Breklyn with us.
I'm so sorry for yours and your family's loss. This made me cry so much because I knew I would've lost it the moment I woke up.
I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost twins twenty years ago.
That little girl is better than an angel. She is with the Lord. Will always be with you.
I’m so sorry for this family. Having lost more than one child, I understand the grief that goes with this. It is hard to pick up and move on. If it were not for our faith in GOD I can’t even imagine how we’d have gotten through it all. And even though it’s been a few years since my last loss, the loss is still there.
So sorry for your loss hugs to you from one angel mom to another! She gave you those hours letting you know that she was going to be alright
Thank you so much for those sweet words.
Bless this mama. She is so sweet for saying she doesn’t blame anyone & things happen the way they are suppose to. BUT the hospital should’ve checked to see if her water broke. It was negligent, especially with a fever. I’m glad she has made peace with it but it’s wrong.
I'm crying my eyes out hearing this story. I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine having to go thru that. 🌈🕊❤🙏
I never got to hold my infant, as it was so early. After I miscarried at age 28, I was certain I'd have future chances at motherhood. However, that never worked out, putting me into the ranks of childless mothers. I miss you, Neil Joseph. I know we'll meet in heaven someday, and I can't wait.
Thank you for sharing your story. Also making changes for the better.Im glad she is saving babies..
I'm so very sorry for your loss!!! ❤
I had chorioamnionitis and endometritis in 1990 with my 3rd baby, caused by group b strep/gbs. I had apparently been been screened in late pregnancy for gbs and was positive for it but never got IV antibiotics for it in labor. (It was a fairly new thing to test for at the time.) I developed a fever right after the birth (labor was 3hrs) but it wasn't until the next day that I was actually diagnosed. I was in the hospital for 1 week on 2 IV antibiotics and she was in the hospital for 2wks on 2 IV antibiotics. I've never felt so sick in my life!
That sounds so horrible.
I lost a boy at 22 weeks 18 years ago to a GB strep infection. So heartbreaking when I hear of others who have endured the same.
Wow! That was heart moving to say the least. I’ve always believed we are all sent to earth to serve a purpose, especially when , like in your case, it’s little babies. I used to ask god how he could be so cruel, taking babies away from their families, leaving parents heartbroken, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings. but now I know those babies ALWAYS have a purpose. In my heart, I think little ( or not so 😁) Breklyn was given to you so she could go on to save many many babies lives. What a wonderful job she did too! 💕. I also believe god chose you as her mommy and daddy because he knew that once he called her back home, you knew exactly what needed to be done to help these other babies live.. words cannot describe the admiration I have for you both for the way you decided to take her off life- support so she didn’t feel any more pain. That’s why she was sent to you, because god knew you would send her back pain free. I have one Angel baby myself, and three angel Grandbabies, none of them made it to a gestational age of any intervention being offered, so we sadly lost them. I know they had a purpose, but I think I’m looking too hard to see it. ☹ But one day? X God bless you and your family, you’re in my prayers xox
Such a brave decision... you did everything right... to help your daughter... god bless you...
I lost my twins...baby Aliyah on 8th March 2023 and our baby boy Amaris 6 days later...born at 26weeks
.it's been a painful experience......trying to heal each day at a time...this has been our fourth loss...I pray I get to hold a healthy baby some day...
You will be in my prayers. I'm so sorry your going through this.❤😢
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl she is gorgeous 🙏🏼💖🌸
Thank you so much
What an adorable little baby. I'm very sorry! 🥺
You are very brave. I know it helps you to talk about your experience and to make known and dignify this most precious baby girls life. I’m sure this helps immensely for ones who have lost a baby in death. So thankful you have your new addition. May Jehovah God bless your family always.💐
Thankyou Corchele for sharing beautiful Breklyn May with us, and for all the babies alive today that Breklyn May lives on through the changes implemented in her honour you truly are a wonderful person🙏
I too have experienced ketamine when needing intubation in ICU and l can relate that it is exactly as you described and l never ever want to experience that again, it is frightening as it's all going on around you, working on your body but you cannot speak, move or respond, l am so sorry they used this and robbed you of precious moments with your baby Girl. 💞
Thank you. The work that they have done in changing the intake process at the hospitals is a wonderful legacy they have done for their little Breklyn. In regard to ketamine, that does sound so horrifying. When she and you speak of knowing what is happening around you, but not being able to do anything about it sounds like true terror.
Goodness you had to experience ketamine too? I would not want anyone else to experience it.
My daughter is becoming a Doula she’s a nurse as well. Your daughter was beautiful and still is beautiful angel I had eight pregnancies and I have four children and my oldest son was killed tragically in a hunting accident. There’s no time limit on grief my son left me 16 years ago, but it feels like yesterday.
My daughter had a similar situation with her first baby. She had been experiencing labor pains for about a week and had been to the hospital twice and they sent her home both times. The morning she woke up with water trickling down her leg she called the hospital and they told her about filling a pad within an hour and that if she didn’t not to come in. She called me and told me the situation and I insisted that she go in and be checked! Fortunately the test did show that she was in labor and martie was born healthy. If she had not went in I’m afraid of what could have been. Her second child she waited to go in almost to the point that she was giving birth because they had sent her home telling her she wasn’t having contractions together close enough. By the time she went in it was almost too late for an epidural. These intake ppl need to listen to the patient. No one knows your body better than you!!! Her dr was angry when she heard they had sent her home! She told her she should have been admitted hours ago and she had a talk with some ppl at the hospital that day. She also told my daughter to go by her pain level and NOT by timing the contractions!!! My grandson was born with a heart defect and has had two open heart surgeries in his first year of life. We are very fortunate and blessed to have not suffered losses during these times. I admire breklyns parents for not suing or bringing legal charges against the hospital. I couldn’t have been as merciful. Peace and blessings to your family always.
You did a beautiful job, "daddy". I hope your family continues to find peace, and God bless you all!
So sorry for your loss, Breklyn was such a beautiful little girl with the face of an angel. 🤩💖
Those cheep strip tests are no good. I don't live in USA but I think the same or same kind of tests are used in our hospitals too, because I have bad experience with them too.13th of September this year I had a gush of waters and since I was exactly 41 weeks pregnant that day, I went to hospital and told them my waters had broke. The midwife checked me with a test strip that looked a lot like cheep ovulation test strips and she told me the test was negative and I must go home since I don't have any contractions. She told me that I'm not in labour. So we went home. My husband was a little grumpy because he excused himself from his work only for us to get sent home by a midwife because apparently I wasn't in labour. I was sure though that my waters had gone because that gush of waters was maybe like about 500 ml of waters and I was sure it wasn't pee because being 41 weeks pregnant every time I went number 1 there was just a little tiny bit of pee... so I was just really confused why it didn't show on the test strip. Luckily for us I went in labour the next day and had a speedy 3 hours 16 minutes delivery. Thank God for that, because if it would have gone on for longer I don't know if our baby would be born healthy. I guess it's needless to say I didn't have any waters leeking or gushing after that initial gush on 13th. And of course the hospital staff didn't acknowledge I went in labour the previous day or that my waters broke that same day I came to hospital the first time, it was all like - congratulations, you had a speedy 3 h delivery! 🤔
I'm very sorry for your loss. I know how bad it hurts. I'm always deeply depressed this time of year. My baby would've been turning 9 next month. I don't think people that have never dealt with a loss like we have, just don't understand and think we should be "over it" when they think it's time to be.
Thank you, and we're sorry for your loss. It's not like getting over losing you favorite pair of sunglasses. A loss child is a child that we truly love and care for and had dreams for. Their place in our hearts will forever be there, and that pain will be there, too.
Such a strong mom! You are a strong and brave mommy🙏
Thankyou for sharing your Beauitful precious baby girl may she rest in God's arms surrounding by beautiful God's angles 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much.
My younger daughter lost her first born son 14 years ago. The doctor's miss diagnosed him and he passed away at 13 days due to Sepsis. They are suing the hospital and doctors. RIP Breklyn May ❤️.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your little one. But I am happy that other babies are being saved because of her
You are such a courageous couple. My heart goes out to you.🙏🏽
Thank you so much.
I know this was two years ago, but I just came across it. God bless you, that beautiful baby, and your whole family 🙏🏻 You are the only other one that I ever heard say that you loved being pregnant! I mean, besides me…😊Unfortunately, due to life circumstances, I only had one of my own who is now 19 lol but being pregnant was probably the best time of my entire life 👶🏻 I loved every second of it, much for the same reasons that you mentioned. Most people thought I was either exaggerating, or just nuts lol, but it truly was the longest but shortest 9 months of my life. I hope you are all doing well, and thank you for sharing your story ❤️
She is absolutely beautiful. So very sorry 😢
What a brave lady and beautiful baby.
That’s a great way to remember her and making a difference
I’m sorry for your loss She’s beautiful God Bless y’all.
I’ll pray to Breky, so she drops her Blessings onto all of us!
This couple have such great hearts!
Dear God i hear your sad story from another part of the world and feel your pain. True you said that you dont blame nobody for her condition but deep in my heart wish they did more care before more but she left to be with God perfect like she is🌹💖💕🌈
So sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs for all the family.
My husband and I lost our daughter in pregnancy 9 years ago now. I actually have fertility problems from childhood cancer and we where overwhelmed when we got pregnant as I’d had lots of unsuccessful fertility treatments and then there she was. I found out I was pregnant due to a clot they found when I was 4 weeks pregnant. They said I’d miscarry at any point and I didn’t. She grew as did my tummy then unfortunately I had pains which turned into labour and she didn’t survive. She was just a couple of weeks off viability and was just too small. We called her Daisy and still we have not had another baby. I’m now 41, yesterday so no chance of another baby now. Sadly!
I'm sorry for your loss. I couldn't even imagine losing a child
Thank you so much.
I’ve not lost a child, but I feel heartbroken for you and the women in the comments also.
You’re very brave dear. That pain is unimaginable for a lot of us but our hearts send love and strength- I believe she was talking to you at those 2 hours at the end. Like she was saying “it’s ok mommy, I know how much you guys wanted me and I’ll carry your voices with me. We’re not totally gone because a piece of us stays in your heart always.”
You’re daughter is a beautiful big sister
Sending loads of love and heartfelt condolences
PS) this isn’t close to a child you carried, but the deep pain I felt losing my little dog after 18 - 1/2 years of best ever friends. This was hard. But a child 💔😪 it’s just unfathomable to ever say hey, I know how you feel cause nobody does unless you’ve gone through it.
So much respect for her parents ❤
It was such a beautiful tribute to their daughter and the legacy that they are building in her name is so amazing.
So sorry for the family's loss. Breklyn was a beautiful baby girl and has her Angel wings now. God bless 😇😇🙏🏻❤
Thank you so much.
I’m so, so very sorry for the loss of your little angel, I can’t imagine how hard it must have been
The pictures of your sweet daughter looking at her sisters pictures had my heart breaking. I have 5 kids I can't imagine any of then losing a sibling :(
Omg I can’t believe a full term Mum having a fever and they didn’t induce and sent you home 😢😢😢 wth is wrong with the medical system. It’s crazy that if you get a certain nurse or doctor it can change the course of your life….. they should have known how bad a fever is during pregnancy. but she is right, God had a plan and for whatever reason He needs her home with him ❤ I am so sorry
Thank you for sharing your journey with the world. I'm so sorry for your loss, but am so happy that this lead to Utah changing the law. May she rest in eternal peace.
She was so beautiful perfect and so big twice as big as my twin grandchildren and they came home at a week old was 4& 1/2 pounds each but this was exactly how and what happened to my sisters newborn son. A few years before.God bless you and your family.
What a beautiful little girl. Ty for sharing I will make sure about testing with daughter
My heart goes out to this beautiful family and may I say little Breklyn looked so absolutely gorgeous I'm not criticising them but I'd want pics of my sleeping babe but before signs of her gaining her angel wings were visible I wouldn't be able to look at pics of my baby if she didn't look like she was sleeping well that's how I think I would want them too look but then again I not been in that position so maybe I'd want every possible pic to be taken and I want to say your one very amazing true mother and I'm super sorry for your loss there's no words that can ease the pain of your babe getting her wings or words of comfort that you haven't heard already million times already that u wished you hadn't heard I experienced loss many times it never gets easier we just learn to live life differently to how we had hoped planned maybe even prayed for you may not know me but I promise I feel your pain and I will be thinking of you and your family if you don't mind I will say a prayer for you again so sorry my love x
Thank you for those kind words. Some parents have those feeling where they would want to remember their child a certain way, and some parents want all the photos they can have because this will be the only time they will have with the child.
I wanted any and all pictures I could get. And I'm so thankful for each of them.
So sorry that this happened to your family,she was a beautiful baby.
Thank you.
What a terrible loss. My water broke 18 years ago on Feb 13 and I was induced Feb 14. I had a fever during laybour and Clara was in distress.