ENFJ in 5 Minutes

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  • @raissacaba9826
    @raissacaba9826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1608

    That feeling when you are an ENFJ and even when you procrastinate, you are organized.
    "So I should finish this in 2 hours, but it only takes about 1 hour and a half, so I can procrastinate for exactly 30 minutes."

  • @mv3734
    @mv3734 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4343

    we prefer to lead by inspiration rather than authority. spot on.

    • @88yaz88
      @88yaz88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Love it!

    • @jarischol331
      @jarischol331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes! That one REALLY stood out to me! It’s a BIG fucking deal

    • @shaneyjulian1234
      @shaneyjulian1234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t most people?

    • @joshioaz85
      @joshioaz85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's a round about way of saying "full of yourself". Lol

    • @samantha6773
      @samantha6773 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes that’s my leadership philosophy

  • @breaisalive3424
    @breaisalive3424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3230

    Wow facts! Where's my fellow Protagonists at?!

  • @minamoon01
    @minamoon01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2449

    I met an enfj .. she read a comment of mine saying something negative about myself and she couldn’t let it go she DMed me about it and we had a lovely chat.. that was possibly the nicest thing anyone had done for me in a long time..

    • @JosephBlack
      @JosephBlack 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Yeah we do stuff like that :) always cherish the moment. She will thank you for it, trust me!

    • @noprogressionisregression6854
      @noprogressionisregression6854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Yes, we will go out of our way to help others. It feels like our mission in life.

    • @BringVeggies
      @BringVeggies 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That is lovely!

    • @DayZJ
      @DayZJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How did you know she was an enfj?

    • @alexussy69
      @alexussy69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      whats your personality type?

  • @GLamoRousCooKie
    @GLamoRousCooKie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    So basically I'm just the dopest human being ever. 🤷‍♀️

    • @owo3051
      @owo3051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Basically we are😎

    • @tatyanad1348
      @tatyanad1348 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      that’s what i’m hearing

    • @Shreyapreaches
      @Shreyapreaches 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes You Are! 😍❤️

  • @kevin-en4zr
    @kevin-en4zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1661

    infp polutation statics in real life: 2%
    infp viewers statics on youtube: 90%

    • @Romy_880
      @Romy_880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Haha so true.

    • @d.6832
      @d.6832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Ahahah so true... INFP here

    • @obesemousemanhd
      @obesemousemanhd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Intp here. Infp is the most likely personality to be obsessed with Mbti so I’m not surprised. As an estj is least likely to be obsessed. If I go to a comment section on an estj video I don’t see comments about anyone being an estj. But there is still More infps in those comment sections. Intp are the second most likely to be obsessed with mbti

    • @kevinrznd995
      @kevinrznd995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@obesemousemanhd maybe because they're busy running their business 100 hours a day

    • @morgan7041
      @morgan7041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes INFP here

  • @healingv1sion
    @healingv1sion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +946

    As an enfj, this personality helps you out so much in this society; it's hard to be optimistic and driven in this world today and it breaks my heart seeing so many awesome people suffering :( people in my state would have probably given up by now but I don't know the definition of the word quit lol

    • @liamyounger2743
      @liamyounger2743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You and me both!

    • @redhead_in_florida
      @redhead_in_florida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @JV-jf8ck
      @JV-jf8ck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      quit? what does that word mean smh

    • @m0o0mm
      @m0o0mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      the part being optimistic actually makes me feel lonely because i cant find anyone who is as excited as me about anything

    • @FirstWifeStarterPack
      @FirstWifeStarterPack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ENFJ have the personality of a cartoon dog

  • @re431
    @re431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    I don't know why but deep inside my heart I want to help everyone :)

  • @doggydeeds
    @doggydeeds 6 ปีที่แล้ว +883

    I'm an INFP and I would love to find myself an ENFJ girlfriend.
    ENFJ's are amazing people

    • @luvvtv270
      @luvvtv270 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Otis Tyson Boris same!

    • @symersion
      @symersion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I had an ENFJ girlfriend, and it was my best relationship ever, but I found that my Introvertes side restrained her Extroverted side. Maybe I was more dominant in the realtionship, and suppressed her in that way, without wanting it of course, but I think it was a crucial thing in our separation.
      Anyone had similar experiemces?

    • @saramursal
      @saramursal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I am an ENFJ female!

    • @19ashe86
      @19ashe86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'll just be over here being an enfj

    • @najlafnh
      @najlafnh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Csanad Bordi I'm in a 2 years (and still going) relationship with an INFP guy and I pretty much can relate to your situation! I feel like INFPs can dominate over their ENFJs partner, but I think it is only because of ENFJs understand and respect their partner's needs and willing to relent. We just want yall to be happy, yknow 😄 but yes sometimes it can drain our energy and caused a little misunderstanding, where we thought you INFPs are selfish and don't care about what we ENFJs need (which is not true!!). So in my case, communication is the key. I just need to be more open to my boyfriend about what I need, vice versa 😊

  • @aryanachoudhury3199
    @aryanachoudhury3199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    I thought I had a weird personality... Then I took a test, I found out I had enfj personality.

    • @stoicstoic1250
      @stoicstoic1250 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Aryana Choudhury then you are lucky ENFJ is the best

    • @allaboutnic
      @allaboutnic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me too!

    • @stoicstoic1250
      @stoicstoic1250 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sara Yohana me as well

    • @pappelino
      @pappelino 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      We are all ENFJ! 💚 BR ENFJ here 💚

    • @abs7077
      @abs7077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      same! I've always referred to myself as the weird one! I'm very different from everyone around me and I thought something was wrong with me for the longest time.

  • @808blacktaro
    @808blacktaro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    ENFJ here. Never thought of myself as a leader until this vid. I remember a good example: I had jury duty and the case was difficult, the judge didn't explain the deliberation process well. We had 11 other jurors and some had wildly different opinions. Some even started fighting verbally w each other. Situation turned nasty and completely lost direction. Most jurors were older than me... I was late 20s. Could tell no one wanted to be there longer than they had to. Somehow I ended up as mediator and kept eveyone on task (since no one else would step up). I helped to rationalize the facts of the case for all to understand and we finally made a group decision. One lady even thanked me and drove me home after ;) Basically, I didn't choose to lead... I had to because the situation needed control.

    • @artemissrijan473
      @artemissrijan473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The same stuff happens bro...

    • @rebecca5782
      @rebecca5782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Similar thing happened to me too! In my late twenties, people where so confused with what decision to make, and I was like are we at the same hearing?🤣 But some how I ended up explaining things and people where able to make decisions of what to do. It was such an interesting experience!

    • @watitlooklikemyg
      @watitlooklikemyg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yupp

    • @liljill6500
      @liljill6500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same thing happened to me! I also got everyone to agree on both the verdict and waiting for lunch :)

    • @lawrencebolt3540
      @lawrencebolt3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes yes yes!!!
      A therapist once said in a lecture I watched. "Play the position the group needs, not the position you want to play",
      He didn't have to repeat that twice. It resonated with me. If the group needs a leader, I'll step in, if the group needs a mediator, I'll step in, if the group needs fun and life, I'll step in, if the group needs someone Chilled out or to ramp up the vibes, I'll step in!

  • @lawrencebolt3540
    @lawrencebolt3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    ENFJ here,
    I've studied psychotherapy all my adult life, a therapist once taught me, "play the part the group needs, not the part you want to play". I had no clue why that resonated so much with me until now.
    If the group needs a leader, I'll step up. A mediator, I'll step up. A joker, I'll step up. Someone to keep the group on task or be a needed distraction, I'll step up. If the parties dead, I'll be the life until everyone's lively, then I'll kick back and chill with the quiet kid in the corner. Lol
    I move around often, never in once city for more than a couple years.. my last concern is making friends. If I blink I've usually made 10 friends. I wear headphones in new gyms in order to try and not make friends. 🤦

    • @soversetile
      @soversetile ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Relatable 😂 trying to not make friends is a challenge. I gain a new friend every time I go out almost

    • @Adgjmptw343
      @Adgjmptw343 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was infj in school, now an ENFJ

  • @ShallExplore
    @ShallExplore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    My test results:
    2013 was ENFJ
    2020 is ENFJ

    • @btsbutterendtheworld4997
      @btsbutterendtheworld4997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      When I was young,it was enfp now its enfj

    • @emmahudson4931
      @emmahudson4931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was entj then enfj lol 😂

    • @chelsearchi
      @chelsearchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Back then I was INFJ then it turned to ENFJ 😂😂

    • @BiowareNut
      @BiowareNut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chelsearchi Same! Now we can use all that insight we gained from introspection and turn it towards helping others. It's a great feeling.

    • @melanieveronika8835
      @melanieveronika8835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude same! When I got my test results yesterday, I remembered taking the test years ago with the same result!

  • @Ismail-kv3ex
    @Ismail-kv3ex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    ENFJ-A, anyone else?

    • @aderollerolls
      @aderollerolls 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Meee

    • @HelenThomasCreativeHealer
      @HelenThomasCreativeHealer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Hi, I'm an ENFJ and am curious about the extra letter at the end. What's it's significance? Thanks.

    • @aderollerolls
      @aderollerolls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@HelenThomasCreativeHealer it means assertive

    • @Ismail-kv3ex
      @Ismail-kv3ex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@HelenThomasCreativeHealer the extra letter represents Assertive vs Turbulent
      Basically, do u fear conflict or not and how u handle it

    • @HelenThomasCreativeHealer
      @HelenThomasCreativeHealer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ismail-kv3ex Ah ok thanks. Is it another system?

  • @Lynn-ee9hq
    @Lynn-ee9hq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    INFP here, and my gosh do I love ENFJs! So warm, caring, uplifting...! I hope to meet some in my life, they seem like gentle rays of sunshine~

    • @caim3465
      @caim3465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hello, cute anime girl.

    • @vanbi9430
      @vanbi9430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you, that was one of the best compliments I’ve ever heard. INFPs, we also love you! You’re so amazing and cute~

    • @VelvetyScans
      @VelvetyScans 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi! Thank you

  • @illuminationinmotion
    @illuminationinmotion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I'm an INFP married to an ENFJ
    He has helped me get out and actually experience new things and try new things.

    • @jonikupolati5086
      @jonikupolati5086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awww

    • @sara.the.muggle
      @sara.the.muggle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My ENFJ and I have been married for 12 years. He is amazing- INFP

  • @lolitapark7641
    @lolitapark7641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    I am INFP. I think ENFJs are awesome, but they are hard to find.

    • @wesley2202
      @wesley2202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Here i am, can i help you? :)

    • @lolitapark7641
      @lolitapark7641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@wesley2202 hey, nice to find one ENFJ here

    • @hibbah3210
      @hibbah3210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha yeahh smh totally relate-able

    • @faithh8483
      @faithh8483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think ya met one

    • @aisyahmeor6963
      @aisyahmeor6963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi i am here

  • @paytonsproblems6006
    @paytonsproblems6006 6 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    As an ENFJ, it has been fact checked-it checks out.

    • @sylvial1985
      @sylvial1985 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      shut up, self righteous

    • @JosephBlack
      @JosephBlack 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      RT! also ENFJ(-A). it's accurate! (also: ENFJs aren't self righteous. We validate through the happiness of our surrounding community. The closest to altruistic behaviour you can get. soooo never shut up :) )

    • @hannahpike1639
      @hannahpike1639 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed!

    • @shiishaw12
      @shiishaw12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be humble tho

    • @bungtempe
      @bungtempe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      surprisingly it does

  • @Anjie_M
    @Anjie_M 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    ENFJ-T here.
    This part got me...”ENFJs are at their best when surrounded by people who understand that while ENJs are happy to put others at the centre of the exchange. Drawing too much on the goodwill of the ENFJ can often come at the expense of their own self-reflection.”
    So true! Difficult to find people who are attuned to us in this way. So I often end up “over-giving”.

    • @benedettabrachi6903
      @benedettabrachi6903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @lawrencebolt3540
      @lawrencebolt3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey sis,
      Thanks for being an ENFJ. So am I, I've been browsing your subscriptions to see if any resonate with me lol some did, thanks

    • @cathykio
      @cathykio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss I'm an ENFJ-T too and I completely agree!

    • @sabasky5005
      @sabasky5005 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EVERY SINGLE TIME

    • @a.marvellehoneyman4560
      @a.marvellehoneyman4560 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sing it, me too

  • @NIGHTOWLmetalcore
    @NIGHTOWLmetalcore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    as an ENFJ, I have an abundance of INFP friends and I love them so much. I feel like these two personality types get along so well!

    • @nopesister4364
      @nopesister4364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes that’s very true, I have infp friends and intp friends

    • @darklight898
      @darklight898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nopesister4364 where in the world u enfjs live

    • @benedettabrachi6903
      @benedettabrachi6903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @chans8thkid498
      @chans8thkid498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hi, INFP here! You guys are so lovely to be around. My comfort person has an ENFJ personality type, and I love them so much. ❤️

    • @danad401
      @danad401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      and while I get along well with INFPs, I love INTPs and ISTPs! I see a lot of growth in myself through those types.

  • @miccamalacad9967
    @miccamalacad9967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'm an INFP and I have a friend who is ENFJ... She's a really reliable friend... She's the only person that I can open up to, not even my parents... I really think that INFP's and ENFJ's are a good match...

  • @rhinoj
    @rhinoj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    I think this is over-exaggerating the pros of ENFjs because technically since we understand how most others react, we know we can't just jump right into our prime within a relationship easily. Some people see ENFJs as arrogant, and thats the ONE WORD ENFJs dont want to be at all... But how do we prove it?

    • @mutantmacrophage6653
      @mutantmacrophage6653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well obviously you'd use your superior intellect to prove it, no?

    • @angelrose6934
      @angelrose6934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Spirited nice pic? Uhm I don’t consider myself arrogant but thanks have a nice day

    • @angelrose6934
      @angelrose6934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry you feel that way

    • @lazylazy7210
      @lazylazy7210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I can quickly sense people.. if they're not involved or aren't quite respectful.. i quickly brush them aside.. people say it's arrogant
      I can't imaging anyone situation where I've been arrogant

    • @argentinaguerra9109
      @argentinaguerra9109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      More than arrogant, I think we can be seen as ‘pretentious’ sometimes but that’s something each individual has to work on

  • @orawolfgram2838
    @orawolfgram2838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "If everyone can overcome their social anxieties and inhibitions, we could all be significantly happier."
    ENFJ here and let me tell you- that's accurate as ALL HECK. I've lamented so many times about how I wish people could interact honestly and genuinely so miscommunications and misjudged perceptions wouldn't happen so often among- especially when it comes to personal relationships. But because of so many people's internalized struggles with thinking they can't be genuine without being ostracized, there always so much left unsaid and not understood! It drives me crazy!

  • @energeticelite1919
    @energeticelite1919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    In my unbiased opinion, this is the best MBTI 😂

    • @Im2blond
      @Im2blond 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree😂🙋‍♀️

    • @phoenix5054
      @phoenix5054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "Unbiased opinion"... of course, of course.

    • @neurgaming5582
      @neurgaming5582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nope 👎

  • @StromBroly
    @StromBroly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    INFJ here. Would love to meet more ENFJs, they are amazing people.

    • @Nate-gf1pn
      @Nate-gf1pn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hi. im an ENFJ. lol

    • @winec00ler
      @winec00ler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      be careful what you wish for, lol my business partner is a ENFJ, I'm INFJ and she can read me scary accurately and as an INFJ I wasn't prepared for that.

    • @siska_yuri
      @siska_yuri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi! Infj are amazing ppl 🌹 My best friend is an INFJ , I'm ENFJ , we get along so well 🌹

    • @sophiaferreira8956
      @sophiaferreira8956 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I loved reading all the coments I need friends like this

    • @SHINY_STAR73
      @SHINY_STAR73 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww you too 🥺💕

  • @jungkookslefteyelashes2632
    @jungkookslefteyelashes2632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    When I was younger, I always found it extremely hard to say no to someone. If someone asked for a pencil, I would give them mine and then go and look for another/ask someone else for one. Growing up, I now am more firm, but I do feel upset every time I decline someone of something. I didn’t understand how others could do it so easily. Taking the test, I didn’t expect that to be an actual part of my personality, but now that I know it is, and I know that there are other people who feel the same, I don’t feel alone anymore. Thank u fellow enfj’s

    • @sakuranovaryan9261
      @sakuranovaryan9261 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm ig it's a impulse thing. I also have it as a infp. But down the line I've had to learn to be more mindful. So I don't end up oversacrificng or ever being resentful.

  • @imagomonkei
    @imagomonkei 6 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    As an INFJ who wants to date the beautiful ENFJ at work, this describes her perfectly as far as I know her.

    • @John-ih7gp
      @John-ih7gp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I just started a relationship with and ENFJ girl a couple of weeks ago. I'm an INFJ male. She keeps calling me a mystery/puzzle she wants to find out about. Constantly she's so curious about how my mind works. She always wants to know what I'm thinking.
      I love how bubbly she is. She is sooooo kind to others. I can see a bit of struggle with the I/E functions so far, but we make a really good team when we are together. Seriously though, for me, she is like sunshine in my life. I do believe I balance her out in a good way, and provide a sense of stability for her.
      I hope it goes well for you with the girl at work. I think it's a refreshing personality type for INFJ's

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      John Allan
      Oh take care of her! Genuinely kind people like her make life so peaceful, full of compassion and depth, for you and for others.

  • @saraxcute
    @saraxcute 6 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I love enfjs. My mom, husband and best friend all happen to be one.

    • @jerusalem4492
      @jerusalem4492 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sara What’s your type? INFP?

    • @micwynn9618
      @micwynn9618 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucky you ;)

    • @katelynnlee5158
      @katelynnlee5158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm around the executives and I'm ENFJ. It's very hard to get along with them when they believe in authority and I believe in inspiration and role models.

    • @Amelinda5
      @Amelinda5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are so lucky to have so many of them in your life. In my life I'm standing alone as ENFJ

    • @lazylazy7210
      @lazylazy7210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@katelynnlee5158 they are good at reading people.. and professionally things get strategic. Once they find you're idealistic .. They'll love you

  • @evoxdream9101
    @evoxdream9101 6 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    happy to be included amongst the 2-3% of male enfj's. bummed out cuz im also included in the "u give more than what u receive" group... 🤕.

    • @stefana2171
      @stefana2171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      im an enfj too apparently and that "giving more than receiving" is something that i wanna change so bad but i fail to.. its hard being an enfj :P

    • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
      @user-pt5cl2ro6f 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love how you guys always try to be better

    • @Pulupulupulu890
      @Pulupulupulu890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I thought that im weird or stupid first because I couldn't help myself but turned out its just my personality. The positive side tho, everyone wants to be in your team haha 🤣

  • @nuggetschicken8961
    @nuggetschicken8961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Definitely an ENFJ. I’ve been in countless moments when I meet someone new from a common friend, by the end of our convo I’m like their new best friend. They end up admitting that I’m very open to people and situations and have really good interpersonal skills

  • @LoomGeek
    @LoomGeek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    INFJ here. Two of my best friends are ENFJs. Basically, if you happen to find an ENFJ dont let them go🙌🙌

  • @Cross-Examine
    @Cross-Examine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    This is spot on. I like to teach people, empowering them with knowledge, and understanding, encouraging them towards life application, that leads to wisdom, and character development. Ultimately, the goal is to help them discover their identity and purpose, and how they play a role as a productive member of society, being world-changers.
    Enabling is not our suit lol. We'd much rather show others how to be independent, rather than facilitate dependency on us. Neediness drains us, as well as people who nuture negativity.
    I also hate to micromanage. Ain't nobody got time for that!😆

    • @Jm649
      @Jm649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg so true. I always say, I'll help you set the pins up but I'm not knocking them down for you ;) 🎳

    • @Cross-Examine
      @Cross-Examine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jm649 I love that!

    • @sakuranovaryan9261
      @sakuranovaryan9261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's more healthy to be honest. For both parties

  • @user_gov
    @user_gov 6 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Ah! So relatable. No wonder why I always want to retreat to the production side of my job...Even though I could be out and about socializing with customers all day, I'd much much rather hang out in the back and socialize with my coworkers on a DEEPER level...I can't help acting chirpy and happy and putting the customer first even though it exhausts me!

    • @pineapple1569
      @pineapple1569 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      AnuahS damn i relate with making others happy and acting chirpy even though its exhausting 😭💖

    • @xxoxxalixxoxx
      @xxoxxalixxoxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pineapple1569 me too. Trying to keep morale up and cultivate good feelings, make everyone feel comfortable :)

  • @mystiqua3107
    @mystiqua3107 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    They summed up my personality pretty well here. I...am honestly shocked at how accurate they are.

    • @micwynn9618
      @micwynn9618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      EnFJs are awesome. Us infps love EnFJs.

  • @ms.programandcontrolman1397
    @ms.programandcontrolman1397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I’m an infp, I need an Enfj in my life… 😥😢

  • @infjintegrityvsnarcissism7295
    @infjintegrityvsnarcissism7295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As a male INFJ I love ENFJ girls, they truly bring out the best in me, and they love how I always remember small details.

  • @iSoInternet
    @iSoInternet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I used to be an INFP about a year ago. I retook the test and am now an ENFJ. I think after growing up a bit and after life experience, an introvert can change into an extrovert and vice versa. An INFP’s best match is an ENFJ but sometimes it’s better to become ur best match 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Thats me folks!

  • @jamalspence7324
    @jamalspence7324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    _For those introverts that are here saying we're rare to find. I hope you specifcally gain an ally as energetic as an ENFJ because no doubt you deserve to have someone their by your side~!_

  • @era1442
    @era1442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another INFP commenter here and I just want to say that you ENFJs are some of the most genuine and loving people I've ever met! Quite literally melts my heavy heart to see such authenticity and caring.
    I just wish I could find more of you guys as I only know one confirmed ENFJ :(

  • @vanesaacevedo5134
    @vanesaacevedo5134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love protagonists

  • @karinawojtowicz9577
    @karinawojtowicz9577 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I did in the past this test. And I used to be INFP. Once I started working on myself with my mentor and getting to know more about myself, after a while, I did this test again and I was pretty confident about my answers. My result is ENFJ. I think based on the work I did it. And the lesson I took from my past it's great to see that change it. I can see myself as a Leader, but it becomes natural because of the person I am becoming. I am excited about it and looking forward to knowing more about myself. I love helping people and I think we need to leave the world a better place 💖✨🥳

    • @sakuranovaryan9261
      @sakuranovaryan9261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that's amazing. I've heard mbtis can change if after a long time. Specially if someone intentionally tries to change their lifestyle. Can you give some examples of what steps you took to change or be your desired version would be great help for us turbulent infps. If that's ok

  • @hellopachia
    @hellopachia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As an ENFJ-A this video does a great job describing us!

  • @criosovereign
    @criosovereign 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Me, one year ago: what the hell is this video talking about?
    Me, now: holy shit this actually me

    • @shiishaw12
      @shiishaw12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The brain is constantly changing

  • @leonor9897
    @leonor9897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    any other ENFJ's wanna be friends? 🤗

  • @helloiamthechosenone
    @helloiamthechosenone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just took the Myers Briggs test. Hello all my fellow ENFJs! 😃

  • @kyodemer2590
    @kyodemer2590 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am an INFP and my two best friends are a ENFJ and a INFJ we get along so well and understand each other on such a deep level I am amazed by it sometimes. It made a lot of sense once I found out about MBTI, our personalities are very compatible! I used to be so reclusive but they taught me to open up. They are amazing people!

  • @lawrencebolt3540
    @lawrencebolt3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know, I've only recently discovered I'm a ENFJ and reading all of your comments is like a giant weight off my shoulders. I feel lighter.
    During the pandemic, a lot of people around me were loosing their minds. For me it was a beautiful opportunity.
    Thank you all :)

  • @arianaperez3950
    @arianaperez3950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    INFP here, 3 years dating an ENFJ ♡

    • @alexussy69
      @alexussy69 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats 👏👏

    • @shiishaw12
      @shiishaw12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As an enfj, if it's lasted that long you will have your happily ever after I know it

    • @Sinn3r1
      @Sinn3r1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I just started dating one! He’s great!

  • @callmeAnny1
    @callmeAnny1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i’m an infj & one of my good friends is an enfj, i’m so lucky to have her! she is so compassionate and offers so much support ❤️

  • @tHeWasTeDYouTh
    @tHeWasTeDYouTh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    my energy level is above 9000 and ENFJ can read it and break their scouter

    • @theErin
      @theErin 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @astralvcid
    @astralvcid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm INFP and I looove ENFJs, they're like soulmates to me (most of them) altough sadly I've never met one

  • @toastietime1573
    @toastietime1573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I'm pretty sure there are many INFPs here, because they're researching what personality type is best in relationships for them and hoping there is a chance of at least a relationship with someone in the future who happens to be an ENFJ, who they haven't found yet, and will maybe know something a bit about them to ya know relationship stuff •~•. Or that's just me (I'm an INFP lol) (and a forever semi lonely bean, I say semi as I have myself so, that ain't so bad 👌)

    • @nikablue9340
      @nikablue9340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel ya 😅😥

    • @mayenny9112
      @mayenny9112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh damn it. I got caught.

    • @briannacardenas6729
      @briannacardenas6729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s exactly why I’m here 😂

    • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
      @user-pt5cl2ro6f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol. You guys are cute. I'm sure you'll find them but sometimes you just have to wait and see when it happens so you also not miss out on other things. Good luck!

    • @wedwhb9899
      @wedwhb9899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      so you are saying that people are watchibg this cause they are singles?
      wow😂😂😂

  • @fayejackson1524
    @fayejackson1524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I’m an INFP, I let my boyfriend do the test and he came out as ENFJ. Lol soulmates? I guess that’s why we click so well

  • @PavvloJ
    @PavvloJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i’m an ENTP and i could ensure yall that ENFJ are the best people you’ll ever meet

  • @stefana2171
    @stefana2171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'd love to make a friend with an enfj, i never ever met someone like me when it comes to feelings

    • @paolaplo5573
      @paolaplo5573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stefana I’m an ENFJ too and I’m in the same situation, if you need someone to understand how you feel like I’m here (:

    • @nicochacin4490
      @nicochacin4490 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same ! I only know myself as en enfj

  • @livingthing2897
    @livingthing2897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As an ENFJ, this is spot on. In group projects I'm the leader and I speak the most. I want to make sure that everyone who has something to say gets to say it. I'm also the most organized procrastinator ever. As well as that, I've always been the kind of person to identify when someone is upset and I act as a therapist in a way. Verbal communication has always been my thing, it's always how I get my point across. The point about identity is somewhat true for me as I often worry about what my career path will be. It's scary how accurate this video is.

  • @BreannaMae
    @BreannaMae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I just took the personality quiz and found out I'm an ENFJ-A! This does match my personality 100%!

  • @surakshan27
    @surakshan27 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As an ENFJ, I can relate to all these things 100%. I volunteer for everything,like to be surrounded by people - I feel energetic that way, see everything as challenge and lesson, try to motivate others , never been partial in anything, been empathetic and open minded always, been leader in groups many times and faced obstacles yet i don't regret it any of these. ❤

  • @hibbah3210
    @hibbah3210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Any INFP's here?

  • @wendyhere7204
    @wendyhere7204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm an INTJ brought up by an ENFJ. We've had our difficulties, but she helped me grow a lot as a person.

  • @garrettclark1345
    @garrettclark1345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    ENFJ-A "protagonist" here

  • @David-J-Harris5263
    @David-J-Harris5263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    As an INFJ I really enjoy my ENFJ buddy

  • @Genderfcukbel
    @Genderfcukbel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ENFJ - I often don't want people to know I'm an ENFJ in my community and this is a pretty on point video of who I am

  • @peteguajardo8189
    @peteguajardo8189 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Bruh we're all Daenerys

    • @farebaree
      @farebaree 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pete Guajardo YEEEEESSS!! Loll

    • @bosspoke
      @bosspoke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm not sure about that, she seems way more commanding than an ENFJ would normally be. Aye she is "idealistic", however she presents herself more like a conquering commander with a certain lack of ability to read other people. Could be a very unhealthy Enfj.

    • @PowderedDonutCrew
      @PowderedDonutCrew 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bosspoke maybe enfj-t given her turbulent personality

  • @mail2fhs
    @mail2fhs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    An INFP here.....of all the goals and ambitions i have set for myself in life, i finally figured i just wanted to be an Enfj 😂😂😂. Ya'll are awesome btw!

  • @valentinasjenicic5918
    @valentinasjenicic5918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so true. Being and ENFJ myself people tend to open to me as soon as they meet me for the first time. They always say I'm the energy and positivity donor, though giving that much energy to cheer up others makes me exhausted. I suffer from depression and anxiety. Almost nobody knows that. And if they do they are shocked, how can someone that has so much energy feel bad😂. But I would never change who I am, because making other people happy and enthusiastic is the most beautiful thing I have experienced :)

  • @aaradhnasankar4209
    @aaradhnasankar4209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have an ENFJ friend who makes me feel so comfortable even though I usually am really, really shy
    Thank you to her

  • @mayjune3309
    @mayjune3309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm an ENFJ. This is really accurate!

  • @pianoimpact7699
    @pianoimpact7699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg as INFP I’m looking at all these ENFJ’s comments and somehow to me they all sound like they’d be said with some assertive and upbeat voice

    • @Selim_Osmanli
      @Selim_Osmanli 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are you doing here isn't this onley for ENFJ 🤣
      DON'T tell me i already know why some infps are here

  • @AmandaWeldon
    @AmandaWeldon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just did the test and found out I'm an ENFJ! Proud to be one with you all!

  • @silver0070
    @silver0070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ENFJ : God, please give me happy warmly world

  • @nelysiaz7830
    @nelysiaz7830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am ENFJ and I just found out that both of my best friends are ENFJ too. No wonder our friendships are last more than 11 years already. They tend to relate my emotions and they always understand what I feel :)

  • @nimadechandraniansari94
    @nimadechandraniansari94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    For goddamn shake, enfj please come up to the surface. I was trying to search and find you. -from your golden pair, INTP

  • @TheEarthRealm
    @TheEarthRealm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The last sentence is so true!
    I'd rather not be _the boss,_ but instead the one that (silently) guides/influences the boss's actions and decisions.

  • @priskruger314
    @priskruger314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As an enfj with a turbulent childhood adolescence and marriage some true and some not. Working on the fourth phase now. A working mum who will hopefully also keep learning and growing and coach my kids with joy.

  • @iveysapp9535
    @iveysapp9535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m an ENFJ (more specifically, an ENFJ-T). I find this to be quite accurate!

  • @ratihningrum3788
    @ratihningrum3788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am ENFP in love with ENFJ 😍♥️🌻✨😭✨

  • @machninety7334
    @machninety7334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I rode a street bike, with at least 100 people showing up for the ride, I was always picked by those around me to guide the ride for the day we would spend together. I always chose where we would go, and what we would do with input from several different people in the crowd. I knew who was an expert in each portion of the ride we would begin for the day. And when we all rolled out, I always rode in the very back, watching my seekers lead us through the path we chose to take, our stunter’s in the middle and to the left, so as if they fell, they would be surrounded by the greatest density of the pack. Our people recording videos to be to their immediate right, slightly in front, slightly behind, and the newest members directly in front of me, so they could look out front, see the different roles each person had in the ride, which would lead to inspiration of which role they wished to adopt when their time came.
    I was always the last person to reach our destination, and I never reached it unless we ALL reached it.

    • @arjay6506
      @arjay6506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I can relate to this. In our class I’m always picked as the leader,thou I accepted to be the leader but,I never mostly stick to my plan I always ask for suggestions from each member regardless of their ranking in class. When it’s time for crediting, I always put my self in the last cause I wanted others to feel that we’re all equal.

  • @likeisaid_
    @likeisaid_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did the test and as a result i am enfj. The whole video is true and talking abt the facts. Lemme explain it with only one example . Here my talents
    Dancing, singing, playing piano, drawing, perfect pitch, i can remind every details well ....+ i'm the leader of my group...

  • @ikudane5423
    @ikudane5423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im enfj i love the way that i help when i give advice to them.but sadly i cant help myself

  • @sugablade2862
    @sugablade2862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Any enfj-T ???

  • @DreamingCatStudio
    @DreamingCatStudio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All this time I thought I was an ENTJ. After watching this I realize I’m an FJ. What a relief. The TJ seemed so much more cerebral and ambitious than I am. This whole video makes sense. Explains why I’m a good coach. 😊

    • @phoenix5054
      @phoenix5054 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ENTP here and I wish I would've been an ENTJ. I need that go getter attitude to make my plans and ideas come to fruition. Also, I like that they make the most money. XD

  • @xinyuez1082
    @xinyuez1082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am INTP and my best friend of 14 years is ENFJ.
    She is amazing. Although she is not as positive as the video suggests because she suffers from depression, she is very warm, considerate and visionary.
    We always have interesting topics to talk about. Ni and Ne tend to think in different manner, so it is a lot of fun to hear each other out.
    Besides, I appreciate her good use of Fe and I can offer her advice based on me Ti. I don't typically get along well with Fe dom but we've known each other forever so it is not a problem.

  • @Oogieone
    @Oogieone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m an ENFJ 😀 I do find it hard to reflect on my own needs and feelings even though I’m very empathetic.

  • @jettsteel7305
    @jettsteel7305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The ENFJ is understanding, friendly, nice, and just an amazing personality type overall
    I'd love to have some ENFJ friends 🥺

    • @ninasigl6105
      @ninasigl6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm an ENFJ :)

    • @jettsteel7305
      @jettsteel7305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ninasigl6105 :O Nice to meet you, you guys are awesome people ^^

    • @ninasigl6105
      @ninasigl6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jettsteel7305 Thanks haha, what are you?

    • @jettsteel7305
      @jettsteel7305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ninasigl6105 Oh, I'm an INFP ^^

    • @ninasigl6105
      @ninasigl6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jettsteel7305 Nice! I love INFP. Years ago when I took the test I was INFP too ^^

  • @waveii8615
    @waveii8615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m enfp, my best friend since we were 6 is enfj and both of our personalities have fit together perfectly no matter how much we’ve changed - she’s so intensely positive and put-together and inspiring, and my spontaneous overactive creativity and energy and unpredictability goes well with that; and then our similar passions for equality, other people, and our social skills give us a lot of similarities and common interests too.

    • @J0nnyBlubb3r
      @J0nnyBlubb3r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am ENFJ and my best friend is ENFP. Can actually agree I just love her, we fit so well together no matter what happens.

  • @gregorysalazar8370
    @gregorysalazar8370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ENFJ here. Yup! People always want me to lead, and I’m quite capable of reading people and a room. I’m often the center of attention at the party. I’m adventurous and quick witted and did well in school and college.

  • @BasantAbdulmageed
    @BasantAbdulmageed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love these videos so much already, though I only wish it contained the flaws or weaknesses of the types as well!

  • @anasantiago5249
    @anasantiago5249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m an ENFP and 2 of my best friends and my boyfriend are ENFJ. I consider myself so lucky to have them❤️

    • @J0nnyBlubb3r
      @J0nnyBlubb3r 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My best friend is ENFP too and I am ENFJ I know exactly how it feels like having you. So thank you too :)

  • @yoonenthusiast
    @yoonenthusiast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was and still an ENFJ since 2013 and never changed even once. Proud!

  • @abigailvilla9788
    @abigailvilla9788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love enfjs 🥰 -an infp

  • @AnaCarolina-um3yv
    @AnaCarolina-um3yv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    as an infp, i think enfj is the most amazing personality, i'd love to have an enfj girlfriend 🥺

  • @shaebetances
    @shaebetances 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am an enfj and my brother is an intp and we totally make the perfect power team in a classroom or work setting and it’s great

  • @graesonhowland7127
    @graesonhowland7127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m on the border of INFJ - ENFJ (1 point introverted).
    I turn into this person when I’m leading a group or intimately involved in a social setting. But I bounce back to introversion until my tank is full them back to extroversion. Love it.

  • @kvzuha3454
    @kvzuha3454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bruuh, you know you are an INFP when you search for ENFJ videos to learn more about them but then halfway through the video you zone out because you thought of a random thought and towards the end you snap out of it and realize you missed half of the video. Now I have to rewatch again. 🙃

  • @shaebetances
    @shaebetances 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just got classified as this, and I’ve always been so on about not having the love I give out being reciprocated. It’s so exhausting and disappointing and a lot of the time I feel like I’m giving others too much of myself just to make them feel comfortable. A lot of the time I see social situations like a puzzle and try to figure them out, I’m trying to branch out of that and not see everything so “solvable”

    • @J0nnyBlubb3r
      @J0nnyBlubb3r 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you. It's not always easy.

  • @jessicat2304
    @jessicat2304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m looking for the love of my life . - INFP

  • @blainefiasco8225
    @blainefiasco8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm jealous. These types sound extremely charismatic.

  • @nurulain2423
    @nurulain2423 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's moment when people told me to be a leader. But i didn't see myself as a leader. I just want to give my opinions, inspiring my teamates, make decision together & choose the best decision that we can make. After studying enfj personality, I just realize that I need to be the best version of enfj. I need to believe & proud to be one of enfj. Love myself.