#1 STRATEGY to become FLUENT in English [and why you DON'T NEED to 'speak like a native speaker’]

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  • @yeisons7177
    @yeisons7177 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    10:57 "You don't need to sound like a native speaker, sound like yourself, but your more fluid, expressive and confident self" that bought me

  • @eat.food.not.friends
    @eat.food.not.friends 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    i have a few rules that helped me:
    1. most people are happy when they simply get a response, they do not care tbout your grammar!!
    2. if you miss a word- use an other one or say it in a different way...
    3. use gap-fillers! like:
    you see?, you know?
    dont tell me...., tell me....,
    well......,
    exactly, certainly, absolutely,
    4. use short sentences and phrases! we austrians often speak in long sentences, and full sentences, natives dont do that, they use short phrases or sentences.
    we say (in german):
    Yes sure, that sounds good!
    how do you do?
    native english:
    Sure, sounds good!
    how's it goin'?
    5. think english! do not translate in your mind- stop learning words in your first language and then translate, it is useless, just learn the word and the meaning, all in english!!!

    • @abnerballesta
      @abnerballesta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, that's very useful

    • @healthandwellness254
      @healthandwellness254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Number 4 is so true! Natives cut down the sentences drastically. I like the examples you gave

    • @ArtemHahauz-nm7bk
      @ArtemHahauz-nm7bk 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely; any sort of translation kills one's language learning!
      It's acceptable to know five hundred words with translation, for example; but these words have to be super basic. In my book, they really help to learn next without any translation!

  • @limingy7269
    @limingy7269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    The concept of starting with a more practical goal as "speaking English fluently with confidence" instead of "speaking perfect English like a native speaker" is GOLD. Thank you Hadar!

    • @hongseokyeon1459
      @hongseokyeon1459 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yu$

    • @BlueSky-gu1vn
      @BlueSky-gu1vn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well, the truth of the matter remains that native speakers also make mistakes. In fact, we all make lots of mistakes in our own mother tongue.

  • @miguelangelh.3686
    @miguelangelh.3686 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you miss Hadar, The thing I struggle the most with is confidence. My plan is to keep following you and put your advice into practice and I am doing it. Sooner or later I am going share a video of myself speaking to your community group. Have a beatiful day too. Take care!

  • @josephhalevy6782
    @josephhalevy6782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Haddar is not just teaching English and giving excellent advice. She’s repairing the world, one video at a time!

    • @mld1126
      @mld1126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❣ Rigth on

    • @osas2kul
      @osas2kul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🧢

    • @lularamires
      @lularamires 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Couldn't agree more!

    • @splendjet7792
      @splendjet7792 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @maried.1831
      @maried.1831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      O my God!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! She is so generous and authentic!

  • @DucatiSydney
    @DucatiSydney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I listen no bullshit, I could observe no self-obsession. Just the straight content which I require.
    Subscribed for worthy content, make me feel I have the potential to perform all the exercises and tips you provide.
    Thank you!

  • @mary-janeezeogu3376
    @mary-janeezeogu3376 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Haddar! Thanks for this video. I have always found myself in the limbo of beng Miss perfect and worry so much when I make mistake and sometimes don't forgive myself for making mistake. With this, am set to go forth and communicate my message to the world and make a difference. Thank you once more Haddar!

  • @ricardodasilva1701
    @ricardodasilva1701 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have just made my entire day with this video. I have watched you before, and I am amazed by how you speak, your ability to teach and especially the power you have to elaborate your words so clearly and beautiful. I really appreciate you, I just wanted you to know that. I am a private english teacher here in Brazil, and I have seen a couple of my students almost discouraged these past few months, and I had ran out of things to say, and you just really changed that thought completely with this video. I can't thank you enough!!!

  • @hadar.shemesh
    @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Happy New-Year EVERYONE! May this year be the year of your breakthroughs!

    • @sachinbarot277
      @sachinbarot277 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy new year

    • @kadoradork4228
      @kadoradork4228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Accent's Way English with Hadar I‘ll try, thank you soo much, you‘re a my idol and a great motivation ❤️

    • @greenrobot5
      @greenrobot5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      whenever someone says "native" speaker I think of indian tribes of the americas

    • @jackcornison1057
      @jackcornison1057 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      היי הדר, אני ישראלי ובן 15, ככה שאני משער שיהיה לי קל יותר להתרגל למבטא שונה בגיל צעיר, אני ממש אשמח אם תוכלי לעשות וידיאו על איך שנית ממבטא ישראלי למבטא אמריקאי ספציפית ולא בכלליות, תודה רבה!

    • @brutusjackendy3658
      @brutusjackendy3658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@greenrobot5 native Americans are actually the Indian tribes in the US. You're a native speaker of the language which is spoken in the country you're from. Get that inside your head and you'll be fine 😊

  • @hamzahramadan388
    @hamzahramadan388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hello Haddar,
    In spite of the fact that I have been receiving your videos since sometime, today I got the time to go over some of them. I am more than pleased and happy to go over the material you are explaining to us. I feel that it is really with a great value and you gained it after years and years of teaching. I will definitely be more than pleased to be in touch with you and listen more than once to all of your available videos. Thanks again and take care.

  • @user-go9xv3it2d
    @user-go9xv3it2d ปีที่แล้ว +32

    1) I think the most challenging thing for me is to speak correctly. Yeah, I'm not afraid of mistakes but sometimes I get stuck and my speech crashes :)
    2) My plan:
    - I'm gonna learn and practice the rules that I'm struggling with (As a rule It's common tenses)
    - I don't want to expand my vocabulary I just want to use the words and phrases I've already known but don't use

  • @john9581
    @john9581 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, Haddar! I am an English teacher from the Philippines.😊 I just want to commend you for this informative lesson. Even if I already have my degree and license, I'm still in pursuit of getting better as English is not my mother language. I want to be as good as you and the other English teachers here on youtube. I'm looking forward to watching more of your instructive videos.❤️

  • @MasterOfBasses
    @MasterOfBasses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just discovered your channel and I'm actually watching your videos to find tips for learning French since the same principles apply to all language acquisition. My specific goal is to be able to make full sentences about my life in general and how my day went. I'm commiting to spending 30 minutes each day writing down a page as a sort of journal in French.

  • @deusdeteneris2232
    @deusdeteneris2232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hear your "a's" very open, resembling a "real a"(like in portuguese, spanish, italian, galego, hebrew…), and that's so beautiful and clear!

  • @homespunanyone1399
    @homespunanyone1399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    today,i am starting my second english-learning journey.i struggled so much with my speaking skill,and I was stuck at the same place for too long.with this video and these advices,I truly believe that my goal will be accomplished.

  • @esthefanipineda7548
    @esthefanipineda7548 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "small changes make all the difference" I Loved it ❤️❤️❤️

  • @larryramos3191
    @larryramos3191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    You got me in tears when you said “You don’t need to sound like a native. You need to sound like yourself.” I still remember when I started learning English at a late age (16). I’d ask my English native-speaking friends about the sound of my accent. One of them answered me, “You sound like Larry.” At this time, I never understood what they actually meant; I thought they were acting nice and did not want me to feel down. Over the course of the years, however, I learned to embrace my accent since there isn’t much I could do to sound like James Franco. I trained my brain into believing that my accent represents my culture. This approach has given me so much confidence and now I speak with so much freedom. Thanks for making these helpful videos. Happy New Year! :)

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Beautiful words. Now, you brought me to tears. The journey we go through in life...🙌

    • @fseenamber7901
      @fseenamber7901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How you have learnt English language?

    • @juansulca9037
      @juansulca9037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      16, It is not late, I learned English at 45

    • @fseenamber7901
      @fseenamber7901 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juansulca9037 how?

    • @larryramos3191
      @larryramos3191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@fseenamber7901 Since I'm currently living in the US, I'm constantly surrounded by people who only speak English. Back in the days, when I first started learning the language, I had to make huge sacrifices as a teenager. Instead of going to the movies to hang out with my friends, I would go to the library to read English-written books and sit with a dictionary to define unknown words. READING really helped me -and still does- to acquire a broader vocabulary. Nowadays, some friends wouldn't even believe that English is actually my third language. I guess, me choosing sophisticated words while speaking with confidence is what gives them that impression of me. Good luck!

  • @dfk09
    @dfk09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    I'm a native English speaker passing through but I'm also a language learner and your tips are applicable for any language. You deserve a much bigger audience. I will share your videos with my conversation partners learning English. We are all on the same journey, just on opposite ends of the road. Happy New Year Hadar!

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Beautiful words. Thank you. I wish you the best of luck! ♥️

    • @mohamedhesham3127
      @mohamedhesham3127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      drjones ،Can i get in touch with you ..my Name is mohamed and i'm from Egypt.

    • @Julia-qk5bw
      @Julia-qk5bw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jones, would you like to join my speaking group and help us with english? Thank you

    • @dfk09
      @dfk09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure, I would like to join! @@Julia-qk5bw

    • @Julia-qk5bw
      @Julia-qk5bw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dfk09 but i don't know your Facebook name 😅 how can i add you? ☺️

  • @oscarlopez3293
    @oscarlopez3293 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hadar: you are indeed, a personal and excellent motivator. I just learned myself through your video what I am lacking: confidence! I've been living in this country forever but I always shy away when talking or having a conversation in public places. Confidence!

  • @dongtran6851
    @dongtran6851 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Practice makes perfect, but, perfect practices makes even more perfect! Thank you for the “morning pronunciation practice” video, it help me practice more perfect.

  • @ronescot2034
    @ronescot2034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel I’m struggling the most in the practicing part and of course it’s linked with my personal confident. Your videos are very nice now I feel note motivated than before that the only thing that I need to do is believe in my self and keep it simple. Knowledge + practicing = Badass speaker!! 😎🙌💚

  • @filhobrito108
    @filhobrito108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Feliz 2019 !!!
    amamos você!!
    Nordeste Brasil.

  • @peterekanem8952
    @peterekanem8952 ปีที่แล้ว

    This teacher sounds very human and passionate to help non native English speakers achieve a lot in their fluency. I need to watch more of her videos to hone my linguistic skills.

  • @hayderh.952
    @hayderh.952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We appreciate the great work you do. You are amazing! Thank you so much, Hadar!

  • @mateoa7304
    @mateoa7304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was THE video I needed to watch,thank you so much, this incentivated myself to speak and speak and speak,thanks

  • @frida1500
    @frida1500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Me sentí regañada, pero al mismo tiempo, motivada y con una mejor idea de lo que deseo lograr. ¡Graciassss! Lo necesitaba.

  • @ammaryehya3500
    @ammaryehya3500 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have been studying English for two years now and believe me people, if you follow these tips that she was talking about you will become not only better in speaking English but also you will become comfortable when you talk with others. I hoped that I found this video earlier it helped me a lot ,thank you so much ❤️

    • @waliullah85
      @waliullah85 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh dear, your comment made me watch this video completely. Most importantly I will try my best to follow the tips she has given. Thank you very much.

    • @ammaryehya3500
      @ammaryehya3500 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@waliullah85 Any time 😊

  • @joanalynbanag85
    @joanalynbanag85 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I am an English teacher from The Philippines and just so you know, I really like all your videos. It helps me a lot to gain my confidence back to teach again here in my country. Thank you so much. Bless your heart always.

  • @jesusmedinasifontes8218
    @jesusmedinasifontes8218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nice to meet you Hadar you're excellent. I'm an English and Spanish Teacher from Venezuela and your advice had helped me a lot. We can speak English without pretending to sound like native people and another truth is that in XXI century we don't have to spend years in an English speaking country to improve our skills, we have the technology to reach our goals.

  • @helloworld8181
    @helloworld8181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Your advices are heart touching yet informative. I love how you say" It's not about being pefect but it's all about communicating and expressing yourself to the world". I believe communication is the big key to make this world a better place.

  • @nasrammar774
    @nasrammar774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally agree with you Hadeer that we need to work hard to reach our goal but also I think that we need also to live even for a short time in English country. Because living and speak with native English make a difference for who want to be excellent in English. Indeed, I would like to thank you for your precious advice.

  • @uneeedzuneeedz1683
    @uneeedzuneeedz1683 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey hadar i just want u to know that ur an amazing person
    no words can express how grateful i am , u 've helped me so much,
    much more of all the courses that i've been watching on ytube for months
    i trully wish u the best

  • @donnasanico4964
    @donnasanico4964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this video. The message is so clear. Thank you for doing this. I feel the love for sharing for teaching. I hope someday I become like you🥰.
    To me I still need all of the above, knowledge, practice specially confidence 🤗

  • @hassannasir5743
    @hassannasir5743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can't believe that you're non- native speaker, you're amazing
    God bless you,,,,

  • @ismailv4197
    @ismailv4197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am impressed and attracted by the sincerity and enthusiasm attributes my teacher, which provides me more confidence and conviction in my endeavour to become smart in English language. Thank you so much.

  • @myrnacanlas7633
    @myrnacanlas7633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Ms. Haddar
    I like and enjoy the way you share your knowledge, I want to be fluent in English ever since I was a child my father always encourage us to read books, newspapers using dictionary to find meaning to add some words we find hard to understand.
    Thanks to you also it adds to my learning. God bless. 🥰

  • @JULIOAUGUSTO89
    @JULIOAUGUSTO89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love this teacher since the first time I listened her.

  • @TINHORJ0811
    @TINHORJ0811 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Hadar, very pleased to be part of your group of students. And as I've read in the comments here, you are not only an excellent teacher but also a person of wonderful encouraging behavior. Thanks

    • @rohanpradhan3656
      @rohanpradhan3656 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sir I came to know that you also want to improve ur English. Sir would u give ur mobile no because I want to talk with the person who wants to develop English

    • @shahoibrahimi6503
      @shahoibrahimi6503 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hi everyone i would like to speak with friend ,but i have nobody to talking with , whoever you would like talking about english please tell me

  • @dipadasgupta802
    @dipadasgupta802 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Hadder! That's the voice I want to hear! The most important thing is to show up. I want to become fluent but am not confident enough to speak. I always want to be perfect, that's holding me back.

  • @shrinarayansharma3708
    @shrinarayansharma3708 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'm I have never ever watched such an inspiring and influential vdo. I feel to be unfortunate to have not watched your videos earlier than now. Thank you so much for uplifting our confidence. Many people like me do have strong vocabulary but when it comes to speaking, they seem to be struggling . Thank you once again 👍

  • @farahfttn
    @farahfttn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am at my lowest point on learning english at this time, I’ve been keeping plug away and doing my best every single day to get my english skill to another level, but I ended up dissapoint on myself.
    Through this video, all her talkings, motivation, thoughts, I realize that I become loving her! All she said just true and works on me. I’ll keep all in mind.
    U’ve done your job! Thanks for all u have done! Keep doing ur best🦋❤️

  • @heldolima9957
    @heldolima9957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You are so amazing. Thank you for all your teaching. I wish you a great New Year, and I hope you keep helping us. Gratitude.🙏

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will. May you have an amazing year.

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will. May you have an amazing year.

    • @ewmoshykigoma
      @ewmoshykigoma 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hadar.shemeshm?.:vb jmo !

  • @muhammedhaneefatp7275
    @muhammedhaneefatp7275 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew happy to this channel. This teacher drilled down to the core of training spree of teaching.

  • @yeshulopez2112
    @yeshulopez2112 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're not just a good teacher but also a beautiful teacher. 😅😊 God bless you.

  • @saeidehfathi6738
    @saeidehfathi6738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The only thing I am sure for now is that you are teaching from your heart. That is valuable for me and other learners. You are the best teacher and THANK YOU SO MUCH.

  • @omarsanchezmorales6274
    @omarsanchezmorales6274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I just watched your video and I have to say that your English is amazing, I was able to understand a 99 percent of what you said; besides, the way you sounded and the energy you put into your words is completely encouraging!! Thank you, I just subscribed.

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  • @antoniomattozzi4296
    @antoniomattozzi4296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks to you too, I'm getting better every day. I think we should all identify with the spirit of the language ... listening and repeating (overshadowing) tirelessly over and over; then we will notice that something magical is actually happening within ourselves. It's like practicing on a musical instrument "persistently practicing" is the most important work we should do to boost our confidence! Then, incredibly, you turn around and realize that you are actually inside the new language, although without the naive pretense of being "like a native speaker".

  • @zedazzling
    @zedazzling 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm gonna finish this year 2022 more fluent and confident! Thank you Haddar love your videos!

  • @ccmarie613
    @ccmarie613 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your incredibly inspiring, this popped up & enjoyed listening even as someone born in the USA. As a native speaker I find people's accents beautiful & interesting!

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's so nice of you to show up and say this, so thank you. It gives courage and support to the people who are reading this. We need more voices like yours!

  • @rahelo
    @rahelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you..Thank you!! That’s exactly what I was looking for!! 🙏🏼

  • @Sinnamo
    @Sinnamo ปีที่แล้ว

    Hadar you're the best teacher, I love your lessons,since I have been been watching your videos my English had been improved, your amazing!

  • @23Luluprieto
    @23Luluprieto ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a thankful note to let you know that you are fabulous and the dimension from which you place yourself to give advise is the same we all have been or are still in so your words of wisdom are soooooo welcome. You have made a difference my dear. Greetings from Ecuador 🇪🇨 from a 🇲🇽 Mexican resident

  • @zsofiastefan6066
    @zsofiastefan6066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Oh God, I'm in tears! This is the lesson I needed. The main takeaway for me was: "get stuck, make a mistake!" Thank you, Hadar! Hugs from Hungary! 🧡

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sending lots of hugs back!

    • @user-rd3wx3sx8p
      @user-rd3wx3sx8p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great

    • @antoniomattozzi4296
      @antoniomattozzi4296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, we human beings must know that: - We can only learn by making mistakes! -

    • @srdjanvelickovic2790
      @srdjanvelickovic2790 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, we will make a lot of mistakes untill we reach the goal. But Hadar is right when said that we need to try to speak with someone. We need to try to speak even if we don't feel confident with that. Today wrote all what Hadar said, every word and after that I read aloud few times and after that I watched video 5-6 times. First with subtitle and without subtitle. It seems that's better after that. But I need to do that every day with different videos. If we do that every day it will be better and better I'm sure of that.

  • @regianegomes2950
    @regianegomes2950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Adoro as suas aulas!!! Você é uma excelente Professora!!!! I'm from Brazil.

  • @nancyl7989
    @nancyl7989 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hadar, I was part of your program but I could listen to your advice all my life.

  • @dylanpringle9364
    @dylanpringle9364 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much , I am teaching my self how to do everything you are bring up on this channel,this is a game changer God bless you and your free time helping people like my self that needs help you are the best !!!!!!!! Sending you 💕 and light 🕯️

  • @MPSingh
    @MPSingh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Fabulous Video . For me " Lack of confidence" is the biggest hurdle in English Learning

    • @jesse_sweed
      @jesse_sweed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, that's normal. Would you like some training on how to get over the confidence issue?

    • @yusufelmobayed1388
      @yusufelmobayed1388 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jesse_sweed
      Yep, me needs to this

    • @dtdasap6221
      @dtdasap6221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand that because English is a 2nd language to me as well. However, like others mentioned already, native speakers don't really care that much even if you make a lot of mistakes. When I had that problem in the start, if I really encountered some nasty people who laughed at my speaking skill, I simply said to them "English is not my mother tongue, I actually have more rights than you do when it comes to making mistakes. Let's hear you speak my language!"
      Now I am a fluent English speaker, though I still makes tiny mistakes often as many native speakers would do in reality(mostly its a long term habit thing, at least I know what my mistakes are when I make them). I can even argue with the natives with quick responses. LMAO!
      Hope that helps.

    • @shawnbutler6540
      @shawnbutler6540 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shawn

  • @hamzahramadan388
    @hamzahramadan388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hello Haddar,
    Thank you very much for your interesting video. I always try as much as I can to link between what I want to learn and practice “if possible”. This helps to achieve my general goals. Though, I still believe what you mentioned in your video. Having the knowledge without practicing it is not enough. From my personal experiences, I have to create some kind of link between knowledge and practice. If there is a gap, sooner or later the gained knowledge will be forgotten.
    The first step is to know in particular what I want to know. i.e grammar, vocabulary, writing, Or comprehension and in particular to what extent. What kind of verbs to start from, what kind of vocabularies to start from, what kind of writing do I need to practice. The next step is to gather the information from reliable sources. Teachers play an important factor in this case. If I am watching a video where the teacher is organising his ideas, it will be much easier for me to understand the information. This is not enough. I have to practice intensively what I learn and this is where I have a weakness. Since my childhood, I was not taught that practice needs time. “Please we need a video from your side.” Most of the people think that they can learn quickly. They do not know that learning needs time and the proper way of learning is different from one person to another. “Please we need another video.” When they deal with the material for a short period of time, they give up and stop. They must understand that learning and practice takes time and they need to figure out what is the right way for them to learn. The last step is confidence and this is my biggest weakness. Whenever I want to speak, I feel that I do not have the courage to speak in English which is my second language worried to make mistakes. Thanks God I listened to your video now and I am going to do something about this matter sooner or later.

  • @bennybenevento3899
    @bennybenevento3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a fantastic teacher Hadar , I really mean it...🙂
    Thank you so much for all of your interesting video lessons !😘👍

  • @estonggalapong6787
    @estonggalapong6787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Ms.Hadar ❤ 💓for your words of encouragement it means a lot to me seriously I have a low self esteem 🙃 because of my poor English then I came to my senses after watching your video & realized that it's not too late to improve my English all I need is to apply all the tips that you've mentioned with self discipline & determination & of course with your help as my inspiration!
    I believe I will make it this time not to dwell with negative thoughts like you can't teach an old dog with new tricks as I quote..besides I'm not belong to a kingdom mammalian. Seriously, I really want to learn English that's why I need to set a clear goal that by the end of 2022 ,I can be able aleardy to express myself in English with confidence. Under that goal is the things I need to do to reach . I will start out at least 2 hours a day religiously..thank you so much again you're really an inspiration for us ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏

  • @ninakrawczyk8160
    @ninakrawczyk8160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are the best pronounciation coach out there on the Internet. I really admire all the hard work you put into creating your videos. Thank you so much for everything you do for us, English learners. Warmest greetings and lots of love from Poland! Nina

    • @user-ej6nq7me7i
      @user-ej6nq7me7i ปีที่แล้ว

      Can we be friends to chatting,because I want to speak with a native speaker

  • @stasy408
    @stasy408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Very motivating, passionate and straight to the point!

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anastasia 🤗♥️

    • @alihelmy9419
      @alihelmy9419 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want someone to speak English with to improve my speaking.
      Are you ready?

    • @mohamedhesham3127
      @mohamedhesham3127 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anastasia Petrenko ,Can i get in touch with you..my name is Mohamed ..and i 'm from Egypt

    • @1sonsofBVMary
      @1sonsofBVMary 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I strongly angree with you

    • @rohitsharma1072
      @rohitsharma1072 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi guys my name is Rohit..and I am from India..I also improve my English.. I think we need each other..if anyone interested to come and touch with me for conversation. Plz contact me on what's up..my no- +919971334869

  • @ducus2318
    @ducus2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank Friend ! I love you, the best teacher of this planet

  • @learningenglishwithaliai
    @learningenglishwithaliai 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    absolutely next-level native English speaker and I am quite into your next-level work. thank you so so much.

  • @sergeyleshchinskii8860
    @sergeyleshchinskii8860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hello Hadar! I'd say that my method is giving up the struggle and just acquire the language by natural way trough listening. I realize it may be less than enough but I do my best.

  • @eruna9540
    @eruna9540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really regret in my high school year, I wasn't very confidence into speaking. I got scared of talking because of my voice, and I feel like I didn't blend in with others.

  • @maricieloespinoza5673
    @maricieloespinoza5673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi,
    Recently, i´ve have been watching your videos here,i´m non native - speaker. Your channel is helping me too much, i´m grateful for that. I think when i´m going to talk in English, i start to feel nervous, I want to improve the language and your advices are helping me in my daily day.

  • @kimeyaustralia
    @kimeyaustralia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love you!!! Until now I have watched and met so many teachers. Now I just find the right teacher for myself. I can recognize what kind of teacher you are. You are amazing!!! I subscribed. I will follow up on your videos till I can express myself!!! Thank you so much!!!

  • @ethanblackthorn3533
    @ethanblackthorn3533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for a useful video!
    It appears to me that my biggest problem lies in lack of practice in writing and speaking. I have some understanding of my problematic areas and what to do, but when it comes to actually doing something about it, I'm not as consistent as I wanna be.
    So, to get better at those areas, I :
    - keep my diary every day. It usually takes 10-20 min to do so. By the way, I've been doing this for around 120 days, and I already see some improvements.
    - do some pronunciation exercises. I try to do it every single day for 15 min, but, unfortunately, I haven't made the habit of doing it daily like I did with keeping a diary.
    - write a few comments on Reddit or TH-cam
    - have 1-2 speaking sections with native speakers per week

  • @guillermoeduardogatto7513
    @guillermoeduardogatto7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi, is a very good video with some interesting advices for english learners. I have to comment that when you mentioned the pillars I personally think that one of the most important is the listening , you don´t care so much about that but for me is the best way for learning and then obviously as you mention the conversation and confidence.

  • @gazugoss
    @gazugoss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found out about your videos yesterday and I cannot believe that you exist! You are awesome! Congratulations!

  • @rozasaryeva3214
    @rozasaryeva3214 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haddar, you are awesome! So many aspects in one video, I believe I must watch it again😄 Thank you so much🤗 You inspire ❤️

  • @MohamedAli-rd7rn
    @MohamedAli-rd7rn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for sharing this amazing mindblowing and the most useful tips from the most energetic coach.
    You are absolutely unique and totally different from other English coaches.
    You really empowered us with the least amount time.
    Thank you so much for being transparent with us.
    You are really out of this world and your channel is absolutely a great place to study English effortlessly uniquely and effectively.
    🇺🇸💙❤🇸🇴👌👍👌🌳

  • @yeidalizethbejaranobarrera3430
    @yeidalizethbejaranobarrera3430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is really good! You said the most important thing when it comes to languages; it's about being yourself and don't be afraid of making mistakes... Even native speakers, in any language, don't know perfectly their language.

  • @yaroslavandrushchenko6183
    @yaroslavandrushchenko6183 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the way how you teach! Thank you for your priceless video!

  • @MuHmuM
    @MuHmuM 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    you just reset my mindset plan on how to becoming fluent in English thank you so much hadar ❤

  • @bryaneditsff3523
    @bryaneditsff3523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I understood almost all the video without subtitles, I'm so proud of me, the video was interesting and your pronunciation is too clear..

  • @zied4223
    @zied4223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You're just crazy😂 I'm sorry, I'm at a loss for words. You just hit the nail on the head. Plz keep uploading videos constantly. I've been watching a lot of native English speaking teachers, and none of them has helped as much as you have. I can't really thank you enough

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much. You made me so happy with your words 😘😘🙌

    • @Vaidoteful
      @Vaidoteful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, most native speakers don´t have experience learning a foreign language, I think that is why sometimes they are not convincing enough. Hadar is something out of this planet.... It is amazing that she can structure her language learning experience so well and pass it on to others.

    • @wisclerdorlean1360
      @wisclerdorlean1360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for your help

  • @messiasfreitas8173
    @messiasfreitas8173 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started following you yesterday and i loved the way you teach English i mean, you're an amazing teacher! I'm learning a range of things from you, thank you so much for being here and for sharing videos for us, I'm from Brazil I'm originally from Bahia but i raised in Rio de janeiro city, I've been studying English for 4 years thank God i could understand everything you've said, it makes me feel really confident so i decided studying English because I'm a gospel singer and composer so my dream is traveling around the world and visiting different people and singing there.

  • @amairkhan4085
    @amairkhan4085 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good work Hadar! Thanks for your valuable suggestions. I can totally relate with what all you have told. Been following you since one year. 👍🏼

  • @KarlaRodriguez-mx2od
    @KarlaRodriguez-mx2od 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Today I tried a speaking evaluation with a teacher. This was actually for TOEFL. I'm required to get 26+ score and I was expecting more technical feedback. She said that I needed to practice intonation, and I have not idea where to start. After that, she gave me examples and she sounded really immature talking like the cast from "Mean girls". I was shocked. She suggested to incorporate words like "kinda" so I can sound more fluent. I don't want to sound superficial. I do agree that intonation and accent reduction would add value to my speaking and my score but I don't see the point to exaggerate that much. I'm a professional and I want to sound professional. Your English is so perfect and what I like the most is that it sounds normal and natural, not fake.

    • @deborahrice4469
      @deborahrice4469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please, please, please don't go down the route of "kinda" and "gonna" and "gotten". It's bad English and will make you sound common. I know - I'm English.

    • @den9009
      @den9009 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤝

  • @theemperor2506
    @theemperor2506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    *Thanks a Million*
    1) Knowledge of English Language
    2) Practise of English Language
    3) Confidence to Speak English
    Madam You have hit the nail in the head

  • @armandopena3272
    @armandopena3272 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much for your excellent strategy, Hadar; I completely agree with it. I have been looking for a way to go faster, and now I know how to do it. I will be empowering myself on every topic that holds me back.

  • @EpicAnimeRealm_
    @EpicAnimeRealm_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh wow you're a great teacher you said every problem I have you encourage me not just me I'm sure everyone who watch this video too thanks you so much love u

  • @jmunizjr83
    @jmunizjr83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    So true! I just remembered when I was living in Argentina and I had one and only goal: speaking Spanish like a native speaker. And it was very frustrating everytime being asked where I was from. The more I thought about it, the worst my pronunciation got. When I finally realized I would never speak like a native speaker, it got much easier to communicate and interact with people. This also helped me to show to people the topics of language I was struggling with and they would help me with that. Now, trying to become a good English speaker, I find myself repeating that story: my worst problem is still the confidence, because of the fear of making mistakes and sounding stupid.

    • @bouamamakhamra4649
      @bouamamakhamra4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi

    • @micaelaperezvaras6479
      @micaelaperezvaras6479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Im from Argentina and i have to say, you had a very difficult task trying to speak as a native speaker. Just because our accent is very, i dont know, peculiar? 😅 Anyway, i was living in new zealand and the same happened to me, the more i wanted to speak as a kiwi, the more weird my accent became. So i think we must embrace out pronunciation (and also grammar mistakes) and just let it flow. As long as we are capable to communicate, i think is good enough.

    • @jintonic2359
      @jintonic2359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is not a good way in learning a foreign language, indeed. But, my advice is not to give up in making better your accent.
      I am not a polish, but nobody can tell I'm foreigner. I didn't like to stand out in society and I like to improve deeply my skills, that's why I can speak Polish like a native speaker

    • @marybarreto5479
      @marybarreto5479 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true.

    • @sayamqazi
      @sayamqazi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jintonic2359 Unless you spend decades using the language you will always stand out. Even after your accent becomes really really good you will never loose the physiology of your skull that you got from your homeland which plays a part in your voice and accent.

  • @CosmeValera
    @CosmeValera 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    100% recommended this video! ^^

  • @user-lx4ox9yx2i
    @user-lx4ox9yx2i 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your words ring true. Thumbs up! You are doing great job showing to us non native speakers how to become fluent and confident using English. I try to speak English on my lessons with students but they make me use our native language which at the end I lose motivation. English is tough, using it even tougher in public when you are immersed with non English users. Anyway, watching your video has cheered me a bit toward English usage.

  • @gonzalobaron766
    @gonzalobaron766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome.!! Thanks for the tips. Haddar is a great communicator. She delivers the message in a great way. Easy to understand. She is a great motivator person.

  • @user-ds2li4it1m
    @user-ds2li4it1m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks a lot for your advices !

  • @tulio7538
    @tulio7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, Hadar! Your class was so helpful for me to improve my English! You are one of the best English teachers that I've ever seen on You Tube.

  • @19562008ful
    @19562008ful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I couldn't agree more and by the way, I like your energy, your enthusiasm and your style. Keep up the good work sweetheart! 😇

  • @munawardeen902
    @munawardeen902 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How I wish I saw this kind of video a few years back. I could have turned out to be a great communicator. Massive appreciation.

  • @basudhachakraborty3966
    @basudhachakraborty3966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah! that's right. I viewed all of your videos and that's true we don't need to just sit and study English, we also should practice it and make our basics stronger.

  • @prod391
    @prod391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her hair is absolutely gorgeous ❤️😍

  • @GinCB1791
    @GinCB1791 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're a GEM!!! This is exactly what my college professor taught me and what I exactly tell my students who are learning English as a second language. Love, love your channel. Keep inspiring us!

  • @carmomeire5461
    @carmomeire5461 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are incredible Hadar !!!! Thanks for your enthusiasm. I struggle the most with my listening. If I do not know what is going on I feel terrible down. I need to improve my listening so I will show up and do no give up this opportunity to be myself. Thanks for your excellence

  • @guymartel37
    @guymartel37 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    WOW! First time I'm here and I'm already hooked to your vlog! You're so enthusiastic, I just want to learn with you.:) I don't know if all your vlogs are similar to this one, but if that's the case, you will be first of my list to watch religiously.

  • @fatemeatayi8854
    @fatemeatayi8854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you really encourage me to be more strong in my speaking. All I needed in this situation - I worry about my Toefl exam which is in the next month - was your powerful speech to have confidence in myself. thank you very much:)

  • @martincruz2988
    @martincruz2988 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had just discovered your channel a couple of weeks ago, and it's been handy for my students and me as well. Thanks for all the hard work you put into these videos. You're absolutely the best!

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This makes me feel 🌺🤩💫 thank you!!

  • @nikkyzj
    @nikkyzj ปีที่แล้ว

    It is just a pleasure to listen to you Haddar! Thank you very much for this talk.🌹